8 Top signs she forcing herself to love you

[@mosesmorrosonbanda1986]

You have really made me understand women. This has also helped me to stop wasting my resources. ❤

[@cliffordakasa5162]

😂😂look for money and the rest will follow

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Real love can't be faked, and sometimes we ignore the signs hoping things will change. Recognizing these behaviors early can save a lot of heartache in the long run.*

[@so3710]

Yeah, the best relationships are the ones not forced👌🏼 Cheers for sharing!

[@horatiobarnes8608]

There is never a boring moment listening to you, you are amazing 🇯🇲 .

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you

[@upgrade1015]

They don’t try or force it well or for long so you won’t need to worry about it. Men you messed up by complaining, and being weak , and not taking complete responsibility for everything.

[@KR-jg7gc]

😂😂😂what nonsense

[@ricklegendary2990]

I found myself in this situation, 3 years into the relationship, my girlfriend has a lot of these signs, however when I spoke about them she started working on it, I was emotionally checking out, and than she starts doing the things I wanted her to do, not sure if she's working on herself or breadcrumbing me, she is thoughtful I give her that. when we dated she never displayed any detachment that I could notice, after 2 years of dating we got engaged and the hugging, the interest the communication started to decline quickly, if I bought it up it became a issue, after I started detaching she started " working on herself " she gives short answers as you describe so I can't get a read, and avoids lon conversations

[@donaldkomoro2676]

Makes alot of sense. A lady answers texts after 3 days but is very aggressively communicative when she asks for money & that's $1,000 for her expenses which I found very odd after just one week of dating

[@raymondroberts5943]

Hmmmm she is a gold digger lol🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@adolfarthur9366]

Red flag

[@tonyabutana7091]

Run as fast as your legs can carry you bro 😂

[@opokuabraham257]

My brother u have endured a lot. Sorry

[@vicementv6407]

And you gave her? Bro Run!

[@lemontharris2042]

From a brother to a sister….Thank you Jessica for the clarity I’ve been wanting for the longest time. “Can’t fake connection” hit home for me. Appreciate you!

[@JessicaOS]

You're most welcome

[@teneshalowe9299]

❤, so true. Most of signs can be the same if man is forcing himself to love a woman

[@petewilliams9175]

Hi Jessica, these are factual deepest truth. Continue to enlighten us with truth.

[@uzomachukwudi5345]

Jessica you keep killing it back to back. Blessings and good luck on you for this free information you share. Keep it up!

[@callofdutyspidermanwarfare5593]

Always amazed me how logical Jessica is with her breakdown of her thought process with these specific topics

[@amaadomaatv]

Your skin looks flawless ❤

[@amaadomaatv]

😂😂😂😂😂it's the "Half hearted Congratulations" for me😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Abdulrazzaq-nu6ti]

Hello can we become friends of long distance relationship Iam single

[@lugnerthelisma1246]

Nothing else than truth!

[@derrickrayclemons8297]

Thanks Jessica : You’re information, advice , guidance and insightful support are essential to making a positive impact for relationships. 😊

[@JessicaOS]

So glad!

[@upgrade1015]

I watch this video not for doubts but pure curiosity

[@smoke4entertainmenttv30]

The feelings mutual because I wanted to end it in 2014 but she refused, I don't care how she feels now because I feel the same way I just act better 😂 I'm almost there I'm going to be myself and honest this year

[@dreamchaser4928]

Hey Jessica THANK YOU for the wisdom your sharing

[@michaeljewell53]

Thanks my ebony angel,you've got everything covered, fascinating video as usual💯👍

[@kbonics25]

Needed to hear this video for what I've been going through. Very insightful and to the point. Thanks Jessica!!!

[@RobertsDigital]

Same with me....

[@Trailblazer100]

Great insight and just plain TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!😂💪🏾✌🏾

[@amaadomaatv]

If a girl doesn't like you even you handshake hurts

[@raymondroberts5943]

I totally agree.

[@ogereginaldchinweze]

Wow that's tough

[@roycejr5749]

Very true oooo some girl I was with she is now attached to another guy because he is the highest bidder

[@christophersemenya9890]

This is Thought provoking

[@tonyabutana7091]

Thank you Jessica for another amazing content ❤❤

[@selasiocloo3705]

Why do I feel she's using my life as a case study? 😅 😅 😅

[@Sugarlord]

Haha you're so funny 😂

[@bdawg5888]

I know right

[@sadiak7205]

👌🏾👌🏾

[@ogereginaldchinweze]

Same question I ask myself 🤣

[@Yaruandromedano1998]

This definitely goes both ways

[@sadiak7205]

Exactly exactly

[@kwameamoh4746]

This is all true, but very bitter.

[@KatlehoMoeketsi]

You ma'am, always keep it real. Thank you

[@mawasigordon936]

All these signs are also in a man whose not in love with you💯

[@sadiak7205]

Exactly exactly very true 👌🏾👌🏾

[@isaiahamaobi5364]

Thank you so much for this light 🙏🙏🙏

[@opokuabraham257]

I doubt none of the guys here havent seen these signs before, we have seen some before and are very aware of the consequences but we think our story will change but it will end up being what we anticipated. If u dont go through it and get the lessons, u cant base on Jessica's experiences to work outright

[@victorearly1215]

Thank you for spelling it out for us men.

[@willbimran5240]

Thank you so much Jessica. These lessons are really helpful.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you like them!

[@Superherokarthik]

Personally some of the six signs i literally went through...she always keeps telling me that she's not ready for the physical intimacy and she keeps looking at her phone whenever we meet or when we go to a movie...she doesn't reply to my msg or talk with me properly....and this is happening after our engagement ceremony... she's my fiance n im totally broken don't know what to do😢💔

[@Cooltrizzy]

I been there. She don’t love you genuinely my G. Just. a matter of time ‘fore she breaks up with you. Be the man, walk away and find someone that appreciates you and gets excited to see you. Girls are cutthroat.

[@SM-rf4vr]

I married someone that did not love me. After 9 years she found an excuse and lies to run back to her parent's house who supported her decision, especially the mother. I divorced her after she refused to return since we have no kids. The signs were: initially she pretended to be loving, kind and a decent person. Later she became rude, disrespectful, arrogant and always tried to belittle me. She started keeping secrets from me while always checking my phone. Always over react or always bringing up the past. Started avoiding intimacy. Always making comparisons with others and addicted to social media. Cared more about pleasing her mother and sisters than her husband. Became dishonest and showed no empathy even when I had a minor accident or was sick. Was hardly happy when I achieved something, or would pretend to be happy. Finally, the person became envious of my achievements and tried to tarnish my image. People say she is a narcissist but I realised that there was no love. Love cannot be faked. Hope people can learn from my experience.

[@haroldmartin4612]

Jessica Os, where have you been all my life.? 🙌 thank you. SUBSCRIBED

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks for subbing!

[@dimitricraft437]

I was living with my ex and she basically took care of me and when we broke up she told me we could be roomates. The kicker, she hid me from her entire personal life, had to leave the house when her parents came in town or be quiet when she would speak to her brother. She full on told me she was embarrassed of me but continues to deal with me on and off becuse of the obvious... she doesnt genuinely love me. She love bombed me and i felt like she was when we first met. She let me stay with her for about a year and in all of that, we stopped being intimate mainly because she saw that i told a female friend that i was bored with our s*x life and i felt she was being unfaithful. She dropped hints about a few exes but refused to talk about them, then she threw it in my face 1 day that she never had to help a man she dated and all of her exes were better partners. Although weve had moments of sheer toxicity... like all the crazy things ive said and done in retaliation. I thought i was tripping at first but im realizing, im not. So i was being hidden from her real life to the point where she was irritated that her coworkers heard me in the bg during a wrap up session on zoom and i just thought it was weird because why do you feel so self-consciousness about our relationship when you made me feel so comfortable being in your home, your body, your love and support but its embarrassing to be known to be with me? But can invest thousands of dollars into my life and has done countless things to help me. She claimed it was because she felt used but if you think that, then why not cut me off? She told me she didnt have the heart to put me on the street but still acted as if she had feelings for me. Not to mention the countless men who would text her that she hasnt spoken to in "Years" then the constantly wanting to see my phone, wanting to control the narrative of what i was upset about when i vented to friends and family and then come to find out she talks so much shit abiut me in private or atleast when she thinks i cant see or hear. One time she flipped out because her dad was in town unexpected and forced me out of the door 2hrs before i had to go to work and was upset that i shook her fathers hand and told him i love his daughter. She was actually mad i did that. While living in her house, unprotected s*x, the "I love you", going out all the time together abd wanting to be booed up but in private it was a different story. She would get mad if i walked ahead of her in a store as if im not with her, its a taste of her own medicine.... she did not like that. She claims shes like this with everyone but has exes that hit her up til this day. Feels forced. Feels like my time and affection was bought abd when she was tired of me she threw me away and now im homeless. Great time. Smh.

[@cecil7210]

Great video truly helpful. Especially that part about something that's been bothering for awhile.

[@Venom_741]

if she is a Narcissist she don't love you period

[@chrisdowning7543]

Thank you for all this, I big big topic theses channels never speak of. Is the menopause in the female. My ex dumped me and gave me as the biggest reason. I have to say it can really change things in a relationship. Oh and being a Dismissive Avoidant.

[@sfisomlondo6699]

Thanks Jess ❤️

[@danwactor329]

You are very dead on. I just need to know my worth take that big step and let go

[@drpotrkingjeremy5837]

Mrs Jessica OS throughout last year till now its been painful for me to say that love is just a word , it's a shame that it won't be restored to its era it once was. I guess men would have to accept marriage is a word as well as looking at the view of the most inspirational celebrities that we're stabbed in the heart (non physical): Tyrese Gibson , Will Smith and the man who created love itself and still today a legend Steve Harvey. The view frankly shows itself on the wall, it's worth it to date nor to marry because the same answers apply breakup and divorce by saying that each of those aspects gets third partied or the woman may not be satisfied it goes both ways Your videos are inspiring on God please keep going and never listen to the unnecessary negativity from the women who are against you on God

[@RodneyDailey-df7sj]

Great content thank you

[@wellingtonokilla5579]

I am really touched by this 😢

[@ryantno]

Thanks Jessica enjoying your videos from Botswana 🎉

[@JessicaOS]

You are so welcome!

[@euniusakampa3265]

Thanks Jessie you've always been helpful this is real

[@alive4627]

Sad that her feelings for you can, and probably will, change over time. She will seek validation from another opportunistic source.

[@DAVIDSCLONE]

Wow, this has alot to digest in

[@scotty1303]

Like when you send a text or a clip she might like and she doesn’t reply. Says she doesn’t know how to respond. Should be easy if you are invested

[@cecil7210]

Yeah that's pretty much why I'm watching.

[@RogerEKPE]

Will Smith should have watched this before tiding the knots with Jada Pinket. 😊

[@raymondroberts5943]

Hi I have some questions for how can I get in contact with you?

[@RONNYMORRISMUSIC]

First sign was that she stopped kissing me goodnight. Later when I was in distress, she turned away from me and started crying. From there it just went down hill. I had to ask her to take responsibility for being the great partner she had the opportunity being. Of cause it had to happen. She started texting with another guy who did not have to fight in order for her to open up and become sexual. I stayed, trusted the explanations, but even after her excuse, there was no resentment for her to become even better. Years of asking her taking lead or coming up with a way to better the relationship just drained me out. And here I am, finally understanding what she did not want admit that the love was gone.

[@classicrocker889]

Jessica Thank You For All Of Your Brilliant Work in These Videos . I have learned alot especially with this one . Merry Christmas.

[@Baggio10520]

The last Sign was the major that ruined what we had💔

[@rahabmugambi7697]

Thanks for enlightenment ❤🇰🇪

[@Patiencethedrummer]

Much love from this side❤❤

[@georgekhaoletsa2004]

This signs are from my now ex gf thanks Jess wish i saw this earlier

[@cliffchampion5501]

Her voice alone sounds like it has a net worth of 260.5 Billion

[@suavetwotimes]

Learning so much from you !!!!

[@tedmuholove1958]

one day jessica said "do that and thank me later", thanks for all your eye opening advices.

[@deadsilence9333]

90% of these make me get emotional and cry hard 😢

[@Oyzatt]

If you’re here, you are already in trouble 😂😂

[@Foreverdensword]

😢

[@tedboujee7006]

Mad teng

[@Sixolile9]

😂😂😂

[@fitstar7541]

Don't take it as trouble, take it as an opportunity to move on.

[@Oyzatt]

@@fitstar7541 there’s two face to any coin, and no face is right or wrong . 😄

[@amaadomaatv]

Great wisdom

[@zamushodge4590]

Experience tell thanks for the info have a merry Christmas I love u and your programs💤🌈⭐🖤🌻🤰

[@drpotrkingjeremy5837]

I must say forced love such red flags are just unforgivable

[@anywarstephen2363]

Thanks for the video, # ur fun from Uganda

[@TheAlpha...]

Thank you so much Jessica, I love you 💕, you're very KZbinr,

[@james-bb4lc]

😂😂😂 this is definitely gonna make guys reconsider going into relationship

[@pinnacleanalysis9074]

I wish you could have produced this before. Mine ended messy

[@samuel22mcofw52]

thanks Jessica

[@mohammadmansareh8144]

Short girl doesn"t like you Short issue can anger her, that's correct my sister...

[@joshuaabiodun6173]

❤ thanks so much jess You just spoke to me

[@abubakarrkamara9953]

Me: reading more comments to get more perspective. Girls of nowadays are so confusing 😂😂

[@kennethrivers3538]

Thank you about the last poi

[@michaelsilas5387]

It make sense now

[@munyaradzimatsika1756]

True, Please summarize/list them down .

[@nlmal4]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@darinabstonjr9512]

Mam you are planting seeds... I love my wife and loved her even more when I realized truth. If she's not talking find out why... don't assume she's noticing others. That's going to destroy every relationship. If she is not talking to you so openly then she just doesn't trust you enough to be all the way open... That comes with times... most people don't reach that till years in marriage... its a commitment... not a perfect ride... If she's there you are good... Just open your eyesight and get her heart... What are you willing to do for it... My wife had a husband and he's dead but their were still connections and still is... But the best smile I can ever see is when I allowed her to know She could talk about her memories and cry on my shoulder... relax... Now we laugh and no tears... She keeps my heart so close... I was willing to wait for this amazing feeling for I said till death do ye part... Just take your time. Keep going brother

[@BryanAdakwa]

You've nailed it ❤ Now let me be single for a moment. Thank you so much, someone has been misusing me

[@abiodunbanjoko8071]

thanks for sharing this opinion

[@SonnyYF0070]

Are you giving advice about being confident while wearing contacts or are those real? Simply asking?

[@austineogwuche5046]

...........I have to say a big "No" to that lady stressing my life

[@gmatrki]

Merry Christmas baby Jess 🎉🎉🎉

[@DeeDee-yd2ht]

So what if he has associates he never claims these women but has a family with you and just found out that one of friends associates is married to him is that a perfect reason to not have interest in him

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Very inspiring

[@ogereginaldchinweze]

I get that a lot from ladies, especially with replying hours later or days later. Sometimes I am not replied at all. What can I do about this?!

[@michaeljewell53]

Ps,Happy Christmas Jessica 🧑‍🎄x

[@FrederickBass-b2w]

Great saying 🎉🎉09:09

[@prouv]

My ex , after 1 year he told me she never loved me, plus she was keeping me in the dog house

[@orrisjeremiahkapukali2731]

also iam one person who is careless with my phone but my girlfriend can never leave her phone near me she never let me touch her phone, am sure she is cheating she can't admit unless I have evidence to back it up she knows my weakness which is hard for me to break up with her.

[@robertdesmond1131]

You find it hard to break up with a cheating gf ? Some of you though.

[@jonanbwambalemuvakenya7594]

It's true to mi man.

[@sribashsarkar6043]

............and then she told me that she didn't like me anymore and we should end this.

[@oluwatimileyin_7]

Me looking for that comment that highlights all those signs already and haven't seen any😢😢

[@bobjames5674]

Dammm😮😮😮😮 she hit so many parts ??? This happened after 12 years and 2 kids....(( The Sad Part of all this is , Innocent Children will be at Disadvantage in a Broken Fatherless Home 😢))

[@odariefoster]

Honestly as I was living together in marriage going to 14 years Loving my wife , I constantly asking her to hug me Hold me Touch me Because am not the run up down type of man My full attention is with the lady am with . So am look for sex loving attention comfort My wife say to me am too lovey lovey . She have a problem This put me under pressure and sad Ness I could not stay in that Marriage It would drive me crazy I of to move It not something I plan for I cook I wash I clean I never leave all the work on her I always tell my self that I would love to marriage to a nice Christian Philippines 🇵🇭 lady Some of them are really loving And will give any attention their husband need . Lady like these you wash their feet ❤❤❤

[@odariefoster]

It ruf bro Some ladys don't know what they need

[@kennethrivers3538]

I am the one to unenguaged in the conversation in the conversation. But the thing is don't if the she care

[@amaadomaatv]

Glad to be here

[@principtounenmondesir]

Love channel❤❤❤❤