What the experience of having Venus conjunct Pluto on a midpoint composite or Davison relationship chart is like in astrological compatibility - Hot and heavy!
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@CrimsonUniverse228 жыл бұрын
I have a Venus conjunct Pluto, and a Moon conjunct Pluto in composite with Scarlett Johansson!!!
@bluef.24737 жыл бұрын
lmfaoooooo
@leticiamacena6285 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@squidwardjones81864 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@indigenousgoddess25944 жыл бұрын
U wish 😂
@mariae41234 жыл бұрын
Lollllllll good luck with that witch!
@jaymesEo68 жыл бұрын
Holly crap I have this with someone and we literally couldn't keep our hands off each other from the moment we met! Very uncontrolled sexual energy. I was actually at work when I met them and they were with their grandparents and we still didn't care.
@sulyn123Ай бұрын
😂
@chrysallis27355 жыл бұрын
Three years in and the Fire is still burning brightly on both sides lol. The number of times we’ve been intimate has had no bearing on any fading of the mutual intensity and love-sex-crazy we have going on. Adding new fantasies and trying new positions and places, and keeping spontaneity is important. Dog walks together are definitely nice. We do actually sit by our little outdoor fire pit and talk. And we do lots of fun things together as well. We do chores together, and try to make them less mundane. But scheduling time to do something where we are focused on just one another is really important. Relationships are work and take a good work ethic and two similar-minded people to make work, whether there’s a “can’t keep my hands to myself” aspect or not😍😁
@mariae41234 жыл бұрын
chrysallis2735 I'm so glad that some people are ******* their brains out 🧠
@krinka14582 жыл бұрын
Do you have any Venus Mars contacts
@chrysallis27352 жыл бұрын
@@krinka1458 yep we do. We are done tho. He ended up sabotaging everything. When getting high and video game addictions became his only priority any longer, I walked. Also him using porn instead of being intimate with me. He lost what he had cause he took it all for granted and doesn’t love his own self enough in the right ways. I’m a Virgo sun, Aries moon, Libra ascendant, so I have no issues separating myself from toxic people. I’m a Cancer Venus. He’s a Scorpio Mars. He’s a Capricorn Cancer. I’m a Virgo Mars. Yep^^^^ And we are both fairly gender balanced in terms of our feminine-masculine energies. Or at least, we were. He isn’t anywhere near as outwardly feminine and soft as he once was. Addictions change people; that Scorpio placement of his is a real challenge for him. Without a strong enough healthy lifestyle or observer/higher self present much, mid-life hit him hard and he didn’t get back-up. Now he’s gained like 85 pounds, and evidently won’t even date at this point. Binge-eating, doing wax, playing video games. A reboot of adolescence. It’s a shame but it is what it is.
@iolandagirleanu9006 Жыл бұрын
I have this with someone I met 9 years ago. We were only together for like a month, but still haven't forgotten each other and still think highly of each other. We also have this conjunction in Scorpio, so double whammy lol.
@sulyn12320 күн бұрын
@iolandagirleanu9006 how come u didn't stay together?
@duvaughn55438 жыл бұрын
very pertinent analysis
@allatormey7 жыл бұрын
Amazing analysis!
@thatgworl25044 жыл бұрын
We have this aspect at zero degrees. You’re so right. We are heavily sexually attracted to each other and we do live far but when we’re together we can keep our hands off each other and we do know how to make each other jealous lol
@cassity33643 жыл бұрын
Had this aspect with my ex at a 2° orb. This description is spot on. 😳
@yazzyy03125 жыл бұрын
Me and my boyfriend have this, we have been together 2 years. We do not like distance lol we can’t stay away from eachother. Even now over time I can’t get enough of him, the game playing. Yes, I have found myself out of character unconsciously when it came to him. Power issues and jealousy, possessiveness are things we always deal with the aspect is difficult to deal with. This is coming from a aqua Venus fyi everyone.
@chinsu5098 Жыл бұрын
lol also Aqua venus here. I have this aspect with someone but he’s 16 while I’m 26. He just confessed to me out of nowhere and I’m still shook. I turned him down of course, saying he’s too young I can’t think of him that way. Apparently he’s very popular at school and somehow he wants me so I’m looking at our birth charts to see if there’s a possible explanation 😢
@alyssaann78583 жыл бұрын
I know this is an older video, but thank you so much for this. This explains my relationship perfectly and explains why we get at each other sometimes and the unconscious motivation behind it. Plus all the wonderful things about our relationship. This really is a special aspect, very different from anything else I've experienced in my life. We also have that super intense connection and sexual side too.
@chinsu5098 Жыл бұрын
You guys still together and going strong?
@alyssaann7858 Жыл бұрын
@@chinsu5098 yes, actually :)
@chinsu5098 Жыл бұрын
@@alyssaann7858 Thank you this gives me hope. So happy for you wish you guys the best
@alyssaann785810 ай бұрын
@@suzy_____ funny you say that. My friend told me Neptune has a lot of aspects in my chart (mostly trines) and it's also in 12th house. She asked if I related to Pisces or Neptune energy a lot...which I do :). Thank you!
@ttrinav2 жыл бұрын
Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds have this aspect Venus conjunct Pluto in their composite chart !
@erickaL410 ай бұрын
Spot on. My husband and i have this in davison. We were separated for a year, then reunited and we married now. We have the opposition in composite; both interpretations fit . Is it normal for two interpretations to make sense?
@xxxxxxxevexxxxxxx7 жыл бұрын
Very accurate Jewel. I have this with a partner his Venus in Scorpio conjuncts my Pluto in Scorpio. The sex is the theme everytime we meet, and yes, there's a big distance between us, we are continents apart. Very Intense
@Professional_Nobody5 жыл бұрын
Eve Cruz-Deala she is referring to the composite chart. The Venus might not be conjunct Pluto in yooz guys’ composite chart ...
@Professional_Nobody5 жыл бұрын
Oh but yes even in the synastry charts, it’s a very magnetic pairing. Are you still together?
@ilyatownsend2824 Жыл бұрын
Us too with distance!
@TheresaofTheWorld3 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much!!!! This explains so much!!!! I am the Pluto person and every thing you said is so applicable to our relationship!!! Definitely moments of like "what did I just do?", it feels addictive and I do believe that I have never had a relationship like this before. The intensity, intimacy, and passion is unbelievable. I am so appreciative for you to help us get over some humps.
@pariss1445 Жыл бұрын
You can't be the Pluto person, this is the composite chart, the Pluto here represents both your Pluto's.
@TheresaofTheWorld Жыл бұрын
@@pariss1445 he’s disappeared anyway… 🤷🏽♀️
@chinsu5098 Жыл бұрын
@@TheresaofTheWorld oh no
@TheresaofTheWorld Жыл бұрын
@@chinsu5098 yea he’s back now…this thing just goes on and on tbh. It’s been five years now. Passion unparalleled
@sil94588 ай бұрын
This is composite, you can't be the Pluto person. Both persons are represented in the composite.
@alexkruse52847 жыл бұрын
Can you do synastry Venus conjunct Pluto please? I kno it's easy to find elsewhere but I appreciate your thoughtful interpretations! Please!?
@mysticm77768 жыл бұрын
yes i hav pluto in scorpio close orb to his venus in scorpio we have a lot going on in scorpio between us this relationship is the plutonic one . i love him dearly its very hot then its very not. very intense on the positive and negative side when we fight it drains me pysicaly it feels like he needs to provoke a reaction he needs constant reasurance is also very suspicious. altho its hard work trying to keep him constantly reminded of how much i love him this is a very tight bond
@IJ20507 жыл бұрын
I relate to this on so many levels...
@violetcoincidence92268 жыл бұрын
I loooove your videos, could you make one about sun conjunct pluto?
@Eirdis3 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video on potential synastry aspects or composite chart aspects you would see in a power couple?
@msfrankiec855 жыл бұрын
Crapola! I just met someone that shares this conjunction with me. The first time we met, we couldn’t keep our hands off of each other and we already act like a couple. When I met him, he seemed VERY familiar to me. Now he’s moving back to Philly...I’m already bummed but this is freaky!
@vanessatsimara41278 жыл бұрын
wow! great nail polish!!! which one is it? i couldn't keep myself from asking...
@popadoodledoo89134 жыл бұрын
Hi Jewel please can you do venus quintile Pluto in the composite thank you
@anteresn65748 жыл бұрын
Hi Jewel. I am interested in finding out more about venus conjunct pluto in synastry. Thanks.
@shannaama7 жыл бұрын
how wide of an orb do you consider for a composite conjunction of venus to pluto?
@stillwaitingforyou38123 жыл бұрын
Me and my boyfriend have -Venus conjunct Pluto -Venus conjunct Mars -Mars conjunct Pluto ...yeah you guessed it,the love is really intense.
@chrischris30223 жыл бұрын
Spicy!
@loolithe87743 жыл бұрын
same here. even more pluto aspects and in the 8th house etc. which is just .... wow. i just got into composite charts recently and i have encountered a lot of people saying these aspects indicate abuse or someone will end up dead and stuff like that. which makes me majorly uncomfortable
@stillwaitingforyou38123 жыл бұрын
@@loolithe8774 YEAH IM SO SCARED TOO
@TheRockerlove1113 жыл бұрын
goals
@lea-cp7em3 жыл бұрын
MEEEE! Me and my BF, We have venus, moon and mars in scorpio, both in conjuction with Pluto in 12th!!!
@rand_-mk5lb7 жыл бұрын
How would you describe venus conjunct chiron in composite? Thank you
@ashefelicisky26477 жыл бұрын
On a related note - it is said that Venus in Sagittarius will/can find love abroad. But what of Venus in Libra?
@ziggystardust64187 жыл бұрын
This is uncannily true....
@winter_s_445 жыл бұрын
Do you know what the purpose of the distance that exists before they come back together is for or caused by? Is it as simple as the connection being too strong to process at first or are there lessons they are supposed to be learning separately before coming back together to fulfill the intensity of the connection? Or is it both?
@JewelMayberry5 жыл бұрын
+W S It’s a struggle to let go of the attachment. It’s not a cosmic directive, it’s just psychology.
@winter_s_445 жыл бұрын
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Oh, okay. I just thought there was a “purpose”, especially as you mention that the depth of intimacy is one of the purposes of this connection, and I was unsure of the distance served a purpose as far as growth and maturation to be able to handle it and make use of the connection.
@TheresaofTheWorld3 жыл бұрын
that makes total sense with mine. The connection can be so strong that I think we both retreat, scared!!! Overwhelmed!!! And I also think that distance does allow for clearing of some issues to bring us back even stronger. The love never dies.
@jolliepoussey92 жыл бұрын
@@JewelMayberry It's not psychology sweetie! It has a lot to do with the plan that was made before we incarnated on Earth. Some people were meant to come back together at a later date and some were not. The plan was created to fulfill some sort of purpose together.
@mary-anneb2614 Жыл бұрын
Because the depth is overwhelming, want to run away but you can't.
@beautystarchic5 жыл бұрын
my venus is aqua 3rd, his is leo 2nd , we have composite pluto 3rd conjunct scorpio venus in the second... composite sun in the 8th...
@michelleautore29453 жыл бұрын
Wow! Charles and Camilla have this.
@melithuh4 жыл бұрын
Leo sun scorpio moon, hes scorpio sun leo moon. Our composite has venus square Pluto, davison venus conjunct pluto. Pluto conjunct ascendant in both.
@Kjoy9184 жыл бұрын
Hello First off thank you for the enlightenment of this description I am usually been with guys who I have Venus-pluto synastry aspects and some in composite but this would be the first to have Venus conjunct pluto in Scorpio ♏️ would this still be felt even if it is a wide conjunction 7 degrees? We also have stellium in Scorpio ♏️ in composite with moon (TAurus) opposite pluto
@jaymesEo64 жыл бұрын
OMG My new SO and I have this again and my GOD this boy is wearing me out with our sex. It is soooo INTENSE he looks like a super model and he plays so many games but I am so into him.
@felicehappy7 жыл бұрын
Hello! I am a little confused now because we have venus conjunct pluto in our composite chart but also venus square pluto and pluto square venus in our synastry charts... and he also has venus square pluto in his birth chart... I think this spells out difficulties somehow! well it didn't work out, but I am trying to learn something from it now...
@zahnea4 жыл бұрын
What about a stellium of Saturn Sun, Venus & Pluto all in Scorpio in the composite
@Mandy31413 жыл бұрын
I have this conjunction in Scorpio with someone (7 orb though), but we also have Pluto conjunct North node (0 orb)
@mayrarpena14367 жыл бұрын
Hi Jewel, my Pluto is conj my partners Mars, Uranus, Venus. His Pluto is conj my Sun. How does that play out? Any other resources you have for this? Thank you
@sofialuna62102 жыл бұрын
My brother and me have this aspect with our Mother, my sister has a Sun-Pluto conjunction with her.
@samanthasmith99053 жыл бұрын
Can you do composite Venus inconjunct Pluto? Thank you!
@SephoneKatrix7 жыл бұрын
Would you say this applies to an orb of 5°50 with both planets in Scorpio?
@scorpiostellium3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@lolatheglorious31052 жыл бұрын
Hi Jewel, Is Pluto in Libra conjunct descendant exact similar?
@Kennyiaf7 жыл бұрын
I have Venus conjuncts Pluto in Scorpio in the 7th house, is it a good thing or is it too intense?
@sarahkhalil2453 жыл бұрын
Does this apply to progressed composite charts too?
@sapisusu43636 жыл бұрын
My date and i have venus conj pluto at 1.38 degree. And yes from the moment we met, im deeply admire him :) i ve no idea about him but i always feel he is there for me. Maybe because he is cap dominant and venus aquar so he doesn display affection that much
@uddhisonke16285 жыл бұрын
Are you the Venus or the Pluto person?
@roseelima8 жыл бұрын
It's very interesting, Jewel! You just described my marriage! Although we don't have Venus conjunct Pluto in the composite, we have a Sun and Venus tight conjunction in Scorpio in the transition of the 7th and 8th house. We also have Venus sextile Pluto in synastry and my hb has Venus conjunct Pluto tight conjunction in his Natal as well. Intense and binding are the key words!
@sacredearth28068 жыл бұрын
What if uranus is also conjunct these two planets? Triple conjunction.
@ccxi62955 жыл бұрын
Is it the same if the venus is in scorpio?
@kaiafg5 жыл бұрын
Update: I don't usually update my comments but... It was one-sided (just the emotional part, not the attraction apparently) and I had to move on and heal a lot. It was dark for me but I'm grateful. I never confessed, I just found out that he's emotionally unavailable and can't really handle relationships. that's just the way it is sometimes! I probably dived into this too soon and thought that he could've felt the same because of this video, but I still learned a lot. Thank you :) venus/pluto 0 degree conjunction in both the composite and Davison.... You're right about distance, we had one meeting and now there's no way of knowing if we'll ever meet again, but knowing there's a chance felt like torture for a bit. His sun/venus in my 8th, his moon in my 7th. It's a hard pill to swallow because i'm already in a relationship, so it's impossible and I would never ever do anything. It was just his presence that felt like a super-charged shock to the system. It felt like I was looking at the sun (but not in a painful way? I can't describe it-- his face reminded me of those incredible renaissance statues, it makes me laugh how weird that sounds but it's true). I have no clue if it's mutual on his end (I don't think he can feel his planets in my 8th house, can he?) but hearing that it could be is relieving even though it will never happen.. It's hard to fully forget him, but I'm trying.
@Mag1005 жыл бұрын
which one are you? Venus or Pluto?
@kaiafg5 жыл бұрын
@@Mag100 Well it's not in synastry, so I'm neither really. It's the composite, so it's a combination of both of our charts made into one. Same thing with the Davison chart. I will say that his planets falling into my 8th house make me FEEL much more plutonic, as if I was the pluto person, but that doesn't really have to do with the composite aspect itself.
@tinusunit5 жыл бұрын
@kaia THIS!.. I have almost the same configuration with someone but it’s a love stellium (Sun, Venus, Mercury and Pluto) tight conjunction in Davison chart. The love stellium is is opposite Pluto in the composite chart. My Sun falls in his 7th house, Venus falls in his 8th house and moon in his 4th house in synastry. His Sun is in my 2nd house, Venus in my 12th house and Moon conjunct Pluto falls in my 7th house. I feel everything you say and it hurts so much that I’ll never know. We also live in different countries and only met once but are friends online. Trying to move on too but seems impossible. Hopefully it will happen with time.
@TheOfficialOwnerOfAnthony2 жыл бұрын
Is the 0 degree conjunction separating or applying? It doesn't really matter but I'm just curious.
@arien145 жыл бұрын
Max orb please?
@christophemoulin468515 күн бұрын
What do you think about a Moon/Venus/Pluto conjunction, all square saturn in a composite? Thx for your great videos.
@nahlaalbaba3767 жыл бұрын
is it the same if its in synastry
@Kiahhhhhhhh3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh I’ve always wondered why I was so sexually attracted to this guy. It all happened so fast but it’s already intense
@joshuaraisner81143 жыл бұрын
I have this in davison with someone I like and in composite we have venus opposite pluto and I think both are strong though I think davison we have venus and pluto in 21 degrees in scorpio
@sonvous03 жыл бұрын
I have exact opposite with some, the conjunction in composite and opposite in Davison. In your opinion which aspect do you think is expressed in the relationship? Or do you think it’s both?
@joshuaraisner81143 жыл бұрын
I assume maybe both can be expressed in the relationship
@alanisa91613 жыл бұрын
Literally hate having this aspect with him….i’ve never felt so attached to somebody in my life. I’m so jealous and like crazy jealous over him & ive never been rhis way before. It’s just new to me…hate
@anonymousb4303 жыл бұрын
Did this energy effect you before your relationship or during?
@alanisa91613 жыл бұрын
@@anonymousb430 like during. At first we were friends and then we like got closer & i got so attached after this one night
@alanisa91613 жыл бұрын
@@anonymousb430 now i finally feel free
@Lovergirlllllll Жыл бұрын
does anyone have the inconjunction?! or can shed light
@anthea10177 жыл бұрын
i have this aspect with a lover right now..and he's halfway around the world but we got attached to each other reaaaally quick. we also have this aspect in our synastry charts, both our venuses and plutos conjunct each other.
@thisderianDUH2 жыл бұрын
Are you guys still together?
@anthea10172 жыл бұрын
@@thisderianDUH good question 😊 no. I have a fiance right now and our relationship is not plutonic...
@thisderianDUH2 жыл бұрын
@@anthea1017 aww congrats on your engagement! I asked bc i have the same case, our Venus & Pluto are conjunct in synastry, composite, AND our natal charts. I’m super curious as to if this can even work or if it’s an intensity that will die down. How long were you guys in a relationship?
@anthea10172 жыл бұрын
@@thisderianDUH only two months but it was so intense.. but don't worry, yours may work out 😊😊
@mary-anneb2614 Жыл бұрын
Is it this aspect that makes 2 people feel insecure and paranoid anytime they aren't physically together?
@ranchg7 ай бұрын
What would cause a relationship to remain platonic with this aspect (or other sexual aspects) in a composite chart? Have you seen this aspect in the charts of friends?
@halaal-sulami5404 ай бұрын
i have this with someone but also our composite sun opposites pluto and apparently that's really bad... is Venus conj pluto makes it easier? Or should i run? It sucks bc our synastry is really good :(
@joc4384 Жыл бұрын
How do venus conjunct pluto and venus conjunct mars in the composite differ? I would really appreciate an answer. Thanks
@clarissecatelynn94611 ай бұрын
Venus conjunct mars is more lust driven, sexy. Venus conjunct pluto feels more obsessive like
@MrSawsan226Ай бұрын
11 orb counts ???, i have this in composite 11 orb , in davison i have the opposition venus pluto 2 orb
@MilaniHoward207 жыл бұрын
what if Venus is in the same sign as Pluto in a composite chart (Scorpio 7th house). Is there anything special about that?
@JewelMayberry7 жыл бұрын
+Ocean DriveZ just having them in the same sign can lend itself to passion. Having these two in the seventh house will contribute to the intensity in the relationship.
@EverybodyastrologyАй бұрын
Would this be felt at 10 degrees apart?
@Jasmine_Tigress5 жыл бұрын
Can you please make Venus quintile Pluto in Composite?
@tankanjanasoon12104 жыл бұрын
Would love to watch that!
@mariakatsalirou49007 жыл бұрын
Hi Jewel! Could you do composite pluto square moon?
@JewelMayberry7 жыл бұрын
+Maria Katsalirou I don't already have that bad boy? I'll get to it.
@mariakatsalirou49007 жыл бұрын
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Mayberry thank you Jewel!
@sigreddasparks164 жыл бұрын
I wonder if this would apply to progressed Davison charts. I'm working with the information from a recently ended relationship. In our original Davison chart, we have Venus conjunct NN in the first house but in the 2nd sign.
@jolliepoussey9 Жыл бұрын
Progressed Venus by degree is in that degree for one year. Progressed Pluto by degree doesn't really move. Venus conjunct NN is a completely different meaning than Venus conj Pluto.
@sigreddasparks16 Жыл бұрын
@@jolliepoussey9 my point in asking this is because Venus is conjunct Pluto and loosely conjunct NN in the progressed Davison chart for this past relationship.
@makeuplover-xb5ww4 жыл бұрын
What about Venus conjunct Rahu in composite?
@mary-anneb2614 Жыл бұрын
It's very good, love keeps growing and getting stronger with time
@radchiken48124 жыл бұрын
would a 5-degree orb still count
@annamarie32883 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss
@nahlaalbaba3767 жыл бұрын
which leads to marriage the conjuction or square?
@JewelMayberry7 жыл бұрын
+Nahla Albaba Neither aspect will itself lead to marriage.
@redpiper98366 жыл бұрын
Nahla Albaba I had this with a love interest at 1° but it surmounted to nothing but feelings of hatred and a bad falling out, especially on my part since I am more plutonic than he, turns out we did not have any saturn aspects and a LOT of Neptune, So I felt cheated... However, I have this with my S/O, a very close orb in both synastry and composite, it is a square but we are both very plutonic so even when it is difficult for us we make it through with some heated confrontations of course...We have many Saturn aspects so we cannot run away from each other.
@baller5497 жыл бұрын
Venus conjunct Pluto in the 1st? With sun in the 12th lol that just spells affair
@indigenousgoddess25944 жыл бұрын
We have moon trine Pluto moons trine Venus and Venus conjunct Pluto
@TheresaofTheWorld3 жыл бұрын
same
@elizabethhoover46722 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a dreamy relationship. Love it.
@juliaharam12588 жыл бұрын
And what about Venus trine Pluto?
@jadem.72275 жыл бұрын
I had venus conjunct pluto in composite with someone and it was clear that they didn't have real feelings. After we had sex, we "broke up". I'd describe it as a quickie
@Lotus42713 жыл бұрын
Which house was it in, and did you have intense feelings?
@hasauka11 ай бұрын
does 9° still count??? in the first house conjunct sun
@didilove77013 ай бұрын
No, that is way too wide to be felt
@ashefelicisky26477 жыл бұрын
Is composite venus conjunct pluto the same as venus in scorpio in composite? If not, could you one day please do composite venus in scorp? I'd love to see your take on it, and tbh I don't see much info about venus in scorp composite online.
@user-trrwvfk6 жыл бұрын
Ashe Felicisky I have had composite Venus in Scorpio conjunct composite Pluto in Scorpio
@alisonxra2 жыл бұрын
@@user-trrwvfk how did this play out for you?
@krinka14582 жыл бұрын
2:10
@sarahkoob11567 жыл бұрын
Can you please do a Venus conjunction mars composite video me and my boyfriend have this ty
@JewelMayberry7 жыл бұрын
+Sarah Koob I don't have that one?? That's such a good combo. It's on my short list.
@sarahkoob11567 жыл бұрын
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Mayberry no trust me I checked lol but ty
@introrizing45396 жыл бұрын
Does 8, 26' count?
@introrizing45396 жыл бұрын
I have it with someone also moon opposite pluto composite in 4orb
@JewelMayberry6 жыл бұрын
+Tara Djokic yes, it counts. We allow for larger orbs in composite charts.
@introrizing45396 жыл бұрын
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Mayberry thanks Jewel, you rock!
@jessicapage33968 жыл бұрын
Wow this is very accurate!!;) My Exes Venus in Aires conjunction my Pluto in Scorpio. Ive had sex with like 5 guys since him and he is still the BEST sex I've EVER had. We went out in 2008 then he wouldn't leave me alone for 2 years so we started dating again in 2011. So yes also accurate about coming back to partner.