BECOME THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS IN 2024 *life-changing*

[@socol76]

I used to not be able to believe my affirmations. So I tried a trick that worked for me. I imagined myself as I was as a young child and talked to her, as if she still lives inside of me and I’m there to protect and love her and make her feel valued and capable. Totally works! I have a lot more self love just from doing this. Give it a try!

[@JillzGuerin]

I love that!❤️

[@myblueskye777]

Great idea!

[@PersHades]

Love inner child work 🎉

[@annajuliamatos]

That’s so beautiful! Thank you ❤️

[@rakhiverma6520]

What you're doing is called 'inner child work' in the world of therapy :) Keep going!

[@sarap8003]

"The only reason you desire this one-of-a-kind woman of your dreams is because is meant for you, YOU ALREADY ARE HER. Maybe not in this physical reality right now, but she already exists to some capacity inside you or else you wouldn’t be envisioning her." 🔥

[@thathooligangirl77]

I needed to hear "you already are her" because sometimes I forget that she is inside me because I feel like I still have so far to go to become her. Sometimes it feels impossible. But I swear I feel her trying to claw her way out into reality and I can't wait until she's here

[@tanealwalker3216]

I feel the same exact way

[@xposetruth5681]

Excellent video but I must comment on one point. Chronic illness. There are millions of us women who have debilitating chronic physical and mental illness. I'm not creating my bodys horrific pain disorders. That cannot be ignored. Until you battle severe chronic health issues, you willnever understand how all encompassing it is. That being said, I fight to wear makeup, do my hair, dress nice, exercise, work, and SMILE through the pain. It cannot be ignored but I fight and continue to push through as many of us do. There will be okay moments and bad moments, but we push through.

[@abouther1]

I have rheumatoid arthritis psoriasis and depression, so I understand. However, it’s extremely powerful when I see someone who “shouldn’t” be able to do something doing the thing. How many people on a daily basis push their minds and body’s because of mental will power? Not many it’s people like us. It encompasses the meaning of life in every-way and it’s beautiful.

[@kez1164]

Hi, i just wanna say that you're brave, strong and the fact that you choose to get up everyday and TRY, that alone shows the warrior in you. Keep going. 🌼💕

[@juless2694]

Omg so true. And is it me or do I see more abf more women getting a chronic illness lately ? I'm 1.5 years sick now

[@GNICHO]

It feels accusatory but it’s the only truth that benefits someone in the condition you’re in. Don’t battle her, because she stated something that’s difficult for you to confront.

[@samanthabarron8481]

I agree. The same goes for neurodivergent disorders that we have from birth, which affect everything in our lives. I find it possible to control some things to improve my life but I agree that generalizing that we have control over things that many people do not can be a little discouraging to some of us.

[@bamber4757]

An another way to think about discipline that is less harsh is Devotion. That sounds feminine. I love this video!

[@JillzGuerin]

LOVE that way to think about it 💕

[@kerrymillar1267]

I like that, devotion does feel softer. I use an affirmation with the word discipline in it and I have resistance to it. Maybe this is why. Thank you 🙏

[@GabrielleCameron]

This is so interesting because my boyfriend's word for this year is discipline and mine is devotion!

[@Rafah01959]

As a dude with big shoulders, muscles, a dad bod and facial hair; I'll follow these advices and become the woman of my dreams!

[@ritakilicci4897]

One thing I'd personally share is: Do it, but do it from a place of selflove! 6 years ago I was on this exact journey of showing up as the person I wanted to be and putting in all the effort, just as I imagined the "perfect version of myself" would. And yes, I reached all of my goals, but I did it from a place of self-hate towards the current version I was back then. All my imporvements only stuck with me as long as I was still fueling it all through negativity and dissatisfaction with myself. The moment I shifted towards self love, my goald, which were derived by negativity all got lost again. Dont do the same mistake I did! Start out with compassion and self love for yourself so all your goals will be reached by a happy and loving version of you!

[@JillzGuerin]

Yes totally!!! I actually want to do a video on this 💕

[@jennifersmykala1108]

This woman doesn't love herself, otherwise she would stand by herself and that is the way she is from birth to death. No, but it doesn't change for the better, but for others who n put a fart in your head. That's not what it means and everyone evolves when the time wants it and the soul is mature and that's not the case in this case, it masks itself

[@sonyaberkenpas5071]

Beautiful wisdom ❤

[@daisyviluck7932]

It’s perfectly doable to hold these two thoughts at the same time, “I am worthy of love just the way I am” and “I can grow every day” 🙂

[@freyadoblev]

YES! This distinction is SUPER important. Thanks for sharing this

[@babuito]

Strong women aren’t afraid to ask for help. Being strong doesn’t always mean that you do everything by yourself; sometimes, it means having the strength to admit your weaknesses. A truly strong woman recognizes her weaknesses and knows when to ask other people for help. She acknowledges others’ strengths by asking for help, and she also forgives herself for her weaknesses. Asking for help can be an extremely powerful and strong thing to do, so this is not overlooked.

[@rodrigoeloi]

Where your attention goes, energy flow and result shows

[@FionaBird-l9b]

I was literally thinking about waiting until I felt good in my cycle and then this came up. You are literally changing my life

[@mm11115]

i am the 222 comment and i believe its a sign for me that everything is going my way

[@JillzGuerin]

Yes!! 🔥🔥

[@svetlanalena3208]

Hi sis thanks for sharing this great content it's inspiring. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

[@eiraantoinette6793]

Congratulations Svetlana Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

[@svetlanalena3208]

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

[@momtalksbudget5407]

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

[@gracedaniels6172]

Congratulations to you Svetlana you're doing great keep it going

[@svetlanalena3208]

I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

[@theclassyconsultant.]

The idea that our best selves already exist is so empowering honestly🏆

[@amitasen3662]

Watching her videos always makes me feel so good

[@shanemurray-jw6fc]

Love being feminine thank you for your videos

[@awatifmkd6599]

I am her today tommorrrooow and yesterday! Ladies accepte your self as you are

[@neesemma4082]

This is gold in the form of a video

[@Nat_Cat]

Perfect timing! My best self is really unbothered, calm and self-possessed at work (which has not been the case so far sadly). Tomorrow is my first day back after two weeks off and I'm committed to growing into that new identity 👏 Happy new year to everyone and thanks for the video as always, Jillz :)

[@JillzGuerin]

You’re so welcome!! ❤️

[@CreativeMind-ux1ob]

Dear Jillz, I came across your channel in Sept '22 and fell in love with your content. It is so authentic (so you are, please don't change). I want to thank you for sharing such valuable lessons, book recommendations, and, insights. It all helped me a lot. Wish you a joyful and abundant new year!!❤

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh I’m so glad you’re here!!! Thank you SO much and happy new year!!! ❤️❤️

[@Awesome00012]

Thank you for this video. Enjoy your blessed day!

[@leoniek1877]

These are very helpful tips for someone who doesn't carry a lot of trauma. If you fail to do these things or they don't work, you're probably trying to fix the symptoms without addressing the root cause. "Fake it til you make it" or affirmations only work to a certain extent. If you do have trauma, you'll eventually need to address it directly and then becoming the best version of yourself is going to happen automatically. Trying to heal trauma by changing your behavior is not going to work. Still, I enjoyed the video.

[@gladysmi]

we're all already 'her' 💜

[@JillzGuerin]

💕💕

[@heatherlongmore5831]

I try so hard to tell my girls all the things about themselves and their abilities. I’m working hard to work on my own self positivity ❤

[@Jiminsboost]

Did anyone ever said she looks like a Disney princess? and new subscriber, thank you for this 💕

[@candletanya]

loving your energy, loving your videos, loving you 💜

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahhh thank you!!! I hope you enjoyed the video 💜💜

[@korneliapochec2379]

Is it only me who is always watching your videos partly and it takes few hours to get them done? You get deep into things which I am great fan of 🧡

[@JoannCarolus]

I keep running off to look at all her tops. Need them all....then spend time in a notebook....then...and so on...lol

[@katkat4986]

that's why i love pinterest. i can create my ideal self mood boards.

[@chRizma]

The piece about changing the wording to what feels believable is so helpful, thank you 💖

[@JillzGuerin]

That helped me so much too 💕

[@ski9968]

I’m starting to work on myself FOR myself

[@Blink-jy3dy]

your makeup is gorgeous , can you share your makeup tutorial😊

[@A-fe6mr]

She's so pretty🩷

[@azzamostafa2803]

You are helped me a lot to heal my femininity 💜💜 thank you and keep going 💜💜💜

[@JillzGuerin]

Aw I’m so glad ❤️❤️❤️

[@azzamostafa2803]

@@JillzGuerin 💜💜💜💜💜

[@k.6160]

Oh, I Just noticed you hit 500,000 subscribers!! Congratulations 🎉👏! Time to hang up the plaque!!! 😊

[@makennapainter3200]

Getting caught up in identifying the problems and fixing the problems is such a huge problem! hahah! I had a sneaking suspicion that maybe I've been too focused on trying to figure out what's wrong with me so that I can do something to make it better but it totally just got me in the habit of thinking that I'm fundamentally flawed and it contributes to self doubt. Stop thinking/saying something is wrong with you!

[@AndreaRodriguez-cu7yn]

You have such a healthy mind! I’ve been in therapy for years now and have a belief that “I don’t deserve happiness.” And my therapist said.. that means I’m selfless. This changed me. I have a big heart and why can’t I love someone like that and accept that she is “that” girl. I have been stepping into my inner feminine and came across your videos. Loved this video!

[@anushajeti9711]

I am in my wounded feminine energy from 2017 but now I am in the path of healing this energy...Thank you so much for guidance ❤

[@Sara-mr1hs]

This was inspiring, just what I needed for a fresh start! 😊

[@JillzGuerin]

Glad you liked it! ❤️

[@maeowen8495]

I love the be the person you want to see in the world way of attracting people....

[@Ladybug_0912]

Great Jillz: focus and "I'm in the process of" affirmations. "Discipline is the highest form of self-love". Love you 💓 Happy new year 🎆🥂

[@JillzGuerin]

Happy new year!!!! 💜💜

[@georgiosparaskeva8038]

Even though i am a man, i find this video very helpful, thank you for uploading this.

[@maypassion2441]

12:55 omg I used to do this allways by my self😮😂😂❤

[@ashleyperez6116]

Hi there Lovely Jillz! My name is Ashley I am a 30 year old woman from Puerto Rico. I just watched your videos today for the first time. I'm so glad the Universe brought me to your Channel, because I really needed it. I've been looking forward to becoming the Woman of My Dreams a high value Woman'. You have so much Wisdom, Life, Vibrant Energy, Kidness and Love when you speak. We are grateful for special human beings like you for existing in this world to bring Light, Hope, Great Knowledge to people seeking the spiritual richness of turning into a useful, powerful and magnetic humans for the well being of ourselves and the people around us. You are AMAZING. God bless you. I subscribed and looking forward to keep watching your videos this new year. I also followed you on Instagram. You became my Mentor and Psychologist. THANK YOU JILLZ! You are so beautiful inside & outside. Sending hugs!🙏✨💖

[@JillzGuerin]

Omg thank you!!! So happy to have you here!! 💜

[@taraneh._diownid]

You made me a better person. Thank you so much.

[@gracielazavala5404]

I’m so glad I found your video. I’m immediately following you I’ve been struggling to connect with my femininity. I often feel intimidated by other women and I feel like I’m not good enough so I have a lot of work to do but I really feel like I can become better ❤

[@Chahlie]

I never had real female friends until in my late 50's- I never knew how as my mother was horrid, and I worked since I was 12. I managed to turn it around and now I have women friends of all ages who genuinely like me (surprise!). I volunteered at a local fashion show and so many women came up to me to say hi- women who I didn't realise I had ever made an impression on. It was amazing. If it helps, my motto is "To spread Love Joy Happiness"- what you give out comes back tenfold. I wish you all the Joy and Happiness in the world!

[@tylermanzi2190]

Totally agree! Because I will never be married or get laid. I feel ugly and worthless, relying on waiting to meet another person like a man needs a womens or women needs a man! I will treat my crossdresser/trans women for real..... Have confidence and strength to live alone, love myself, and be that girl that I always want!!

[@shaezchannel]

Jillz, I don't know how you do it. So many people can say similar things but not have the impact that you do with me. You really get through and I super appreciate you and what you're doing with your channel. Thank you.

[@dianakambolova]

It's so pleasant to listen to you. I'm an extremely masculine woman and thoughts about being feminine have always repelled me. And when some other youtubers talk about importance of being feminine, it doesn't really influence me so much. In their videos it feels like a nessessity but it's more of a choise in yours.

[@juliereynolds3488]

It probably took me an hour to get through this video because I took so many notes. Wonderful video - thank you so much!

[@JayneRibeiroB]

Jillz, I've been trying to figure it out who I wanna be and how to change my life for some time. So, I've been doing some work and I've to say your video is definetely one of the best things I've seen, truly... Thanks.

[@la.gaetana131]

You're such a breathe of fresh air! Love you're content! 🫶

[@angelchunsa7681]

I already am her💃thank you so 😘❤

[@Joykohphagan-k5p]

I love every videos and contents that you made ❤❤ you are beautiful and wise and you embodied feminine energy. Thank you❤

[@astridhanl4861]

This was beautiful. Your videos give me so much self love, understanding, affection and inner calmness.. I'm consciously going through a phase of personal growth, I decided to do so, change habits, change thoughts and internal Patterns.. Step by step every day. Letting go of things that are holding me back. And your clips really help me getting there more. Thanks ❤

[@MM-pswt]

I just want to say thank you so much for your content. I have been struggling to find a female role model online or anywhere and am so glad that I came across you. As someone who did not have the best examples of healthy female role models growing up, I find your advice very humbling and valuable. I am excited to be the best version of myself for myself and for my partner. You are a very inspirational woman and i hope you reach more young women, this generation really needs women influencers like you.

[@tenntea2910]

Affirmations have never worked for me, and now I know why! This is the best affirmation advice I have heard, and I've listened to several manifestation gurus. Thanks so much for making it clear!

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh so glad it resonated with you!! 💕

[@vedikajoshi1410]

A very happy new year, Jills! 😃 I've been around on this channel for a long time and I cannot tell you how much you've helped me drastically change my life. You've helped me unlearn my old limiting beliefs of what femininity is, ( being in STEM, I'm constantly surrounded by masculinity)and creating new ones like wanting to look good is not shallow, being in a relationship doesn't mean you'll never get successful, etc. Having a mentor like you at such a potent age ( I'm almost 19) is such a blessing! I'd love to connect with you more if possible, as I aspire to become like you when I get older. Thanks for all of the wonderful content you put out there Loads of love ❤️

[@JillzGuerin]

Oh my goodness 🥰🥰 THANK YOU for being here and for supporting me. It makes me so happy to know that my videos are helping you. Follow me on IG and message me on there and say hi 💕💕💕

[@SS-rg5di]

Hey vedika.. shraddha here from India.. I am so glad to see your comment... i am also in STEM, 33 yo female.. struggling with the same issues you mentioned... jills channel has opened my eyes... Can you plz elaborate what exactly did you do that changed your life ? How it affected you ?? What did you do and how ? Cause I am totally stuck right now

[@carolmendes2011]

Yes yes yes !!! Lets get it ❤❤❤❤❤

[@omajewel6261]

You don’t have to feel it to believe it. Most times you believe it before you feel it.

[@saque91]

Hello dear Jillz, I've just discovered your channel and I am delighted to get to know such an elegant, pure and beautiful person inside and outside ....thank you for being such a light in our lives. Greetings from Portugal 🌈

[@sssevxo5718]

I mean.. I am so lucky to find your channel and watch your videos! Thank you for what you share with us!

[@M.Laluna]

I love your honesty

[@kiaraeijo]

I have been on my self love journey since I was 25 and it’s been sort of bumpy. Some days I feel like I deserve love, I am a great person and I am ambitious enough to get what I want but other days I feel like I’m a failure (I don’t have what most women have at my age; their own house, a thriving career, married and maybe a couple of kids), that I’m not worthy of love (I was diagnosed with Autism when I was a kid and certain people didn’t want a relationship with me because of it) and that I repel men (my personality can be threatening to some men and a few guys that I’ve liked told me I was too clingy and I came on too strong).

[@happyreimagined2023]

Excellent video! Young, Middle Age and Aging women near to hear this and you explained & summarized the whole concept of "Be Her Now"! Bravo!!

[@JillzGuerin]

💕💕💕

[@Chahlie]

I love how young women now have so much access to this kind of thing! I'm almost 60 and it was only a few years ago I realised how I started every day telling myself how stupid useless and ugly I was, it was ingrained in me for so long. I will do anything to save young women from this :)

[@thepineapple8434]

Sometimes we unconsciously want to sabotage ourselvesnI feel. We expect to suck at something and will fulfill the prophecy. Every time I decided to succeed at something, I did, though I failed 3 times before at the very same thing. Cause I invested the necessary energy into it. Our mind is truly the strongest factor in our lives.

[@mahimaluna4808]

You're the best Jillz, thank you! 💖

[@Dr.Wolfstar]

you are like younger sister I never had! I adore you :)

[@Random-qd1sv]

I can be your little sister my big old man 🤢

[@bloochoob]

YOUR HAIR ❤❤❤

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh thank you! 🥰🥰

[@kymber.r]

Thanks for all this! I loved the advice you gave about modifying the affirmations so they're believable. (I guess, in my own words, it's kind of like a modified work-out at the gym. Gotta start somewhere accessible and achievable. And with enough reps, you'll eventually level up to the next progression.)

[@airwavesintheair]

I would love a video that dives deeper into discovering the woman you want to be -- my vision is hazy and I would love some guidance!

[@nikkihurt5155]

Absolutely this video is so incredible!! I am healing from chronic painful periods and doing 80% better! I know I’m fully healed soon! Videos like this remind you to embody what you want and feel it in the now even if it isn’t happening right now. God bless you and your wisdom you are phenomenal jill!’n

[@JillzGuerin]

So glad you loved it and that you’re feeling better! 💕

[@alejandralopez7125]

I have seen this video so many times and it is so helpful! Thank you so much!

[@samantharowe626]

Love this ❤you need to do a part 2 pleaseeee. Add being feminine at work in a masculine environment

[@JillzGuerin]

Maybe I should do a part 2 because I had more to say! Lol

[@anneplowman9034]

This is so on point for my life right now

[@JillzGuerin]

💜💜

[@pinooss]

I loved that you've gone through details of your recommendations, that way I could comprehend the issue better and I realized that in this particular video you've used your hand gestures more that's made your video more engaging. thank you for the amazing tips. I wish you and every one reading this comment A happy new year!

[@JillzGuerin]

Glad you liked the video!! Happy new year!! 💕

[@HannaDrzewucka]

You right ,the content here it is deep, transformational ,but only when you letting go the fear . As even this emotion can make you person that even listening the video it is not always the case to hear the words and phrases that actually works. I have made my meditation of letting go, so I have notice that listening that it is part of my transform, but nothing happen only fron listening, except being aware that there it is something else that I used to experience before seeing this video. Thank you

[@Jackie-ng3rn]

Thank you Thank you Thank you I love this video. I have always noticed this about me, envisioning a new version of me. I feel it at my core that I am meant for more. 😊🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤💜💜💜

[@rodrigoeloi]

Parabéns meninas por estarem em busca de ser mais femininas!

[@aileensavage4431]

Wow…. this video sums up everything that I have been trying to tap into and figure out what has been holding me back from embodying this higher version of myself that I know I really am when I dont let my limiting beliefs run wild. Thank you for this! It may be on repeat for me in the next few days as I need reminders on what I am working towards! 🥰✨

[@JillzGuerin]

So glad it was helpful!! 🥰🥰

[@rose_mlr]

in the section of the video where you spoke around affirmations, i found that really helpfull. after doing some more research i have discovered bridge statements which are similar to affirmations but tend to help those struggling with the feel part

[@lauranoon]

I needed this as a pep talk and need to come back to this whenever a have a blah day

[@JillzGuerin]

It’s always here for ya 😘

[@us3120]

I love you! 🤍 Thank you!

[@EvilWolfGhost]

KZbin recommended me this video and I'm amazed! This is exactly what I needed right now.

[@JillzGuerin]

💕💕💕

[@jessicaembers924]

I love you, such a wonderful pick me up! My Contribution; The physical realm DOES NOT control the mind, memory, nor the subconscious. It's not set in Stone, it's not going to be a certain way forever. Though many others have Tried to get me clicked that way. And there's nothing wrong with having an imagination. EVERYTHING that's been invented, was first imagined! 🙂

[@savannah6280]

Thank you jillz! I feel like this vid's worth rewatching multiple times!💕💕

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh thank you!!!! ❤️

[@lilabostwick1804]

Ugh I love you!!! 🌸✨☺️ Thank you!

[@juliebennion6448]

Definitely one of your BEST videos yet! Thanks for the straight talk and the steps to take

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh thank you so much!! I was especially proud of this one ❤️

[@jademerry5877]

Love love love this!

[@Elegan_te]

looking gorgeous

[@nagmakhan8201]

Thankyou so much Jillz😘

[@juliawashburn675]

Jillz,, you are oozing beauty and confidence!!!! Wow!!!!!!! So inspiring.

[@JillzGuerin]

Omg thank you!!!! 💕💕💕

[@YarnSociety]

Wow!!! My favorite video so far and I've watched them all - all amazing by the way! 😉 Wishing you the best in 2023!

[@JillzGuerin]

Ahh thank you!!! 💜💜💜

[@amandathompson7589]

I loved this video! I gave it a thumbs up and saved it to rewatch as needed. I will be forwarding it on to my daughter. I’m subscribed and loving your channel. I feel like bold femininity is so needed in our world today; men need it from women, women need it from other women, children need it from women and it’s cowering in the corner. So much of what you talk about on your channel resonates with thoughts that have been rolling around in my head. Watching is empowering me to confidently step out more fully as the unapologetically feminine woman that I want to show up in the world as. Thank you!!

[@jaydefryer2133]

Jeez Louise. Incredible

[@ashhmita]

i am so glad i came across your channel before 2023

[@JillzGuerin]

Aww me too!! 🥰

[@sydneyeberhardt]

I love you girl 💗💗💗 your videos help me so much more than you’d ever know 💗💗🤗

[@Sunshine-kc3ed]

Thanks a lot Guerin for sharing your thoughts about being the woman of my dreams. I work on that become the woman 👩 of my dreams. You are an amazing and inspiring Lady.

[@larryshipper8070]

Love it love it love it, every bit of it. Thank you ❤🙌✨👏

[@juwu7072]

I really needed to hear this

[@KdramaBish]

THIS WAS AMAZING THANK U

[@elisselowell4801]

I love this channel! It is so encouraging and it helps me feel good about myself❤

[@JillzGuerin]

Yay!! So glad you’re here! 💜