Would You Marry A Foreign Guy?

[@YmmyMmmy]

I am in an interracial relationship. And it's not always sunshine and roses. It takes a lot of patience and time. You're not always going to be on the same page.

[@ibrahimkendirci3268]

@thinkginseng %100 ı agree

[@YmmyMmmy]

I applaud those who are open to interracial relationships. It just means you're willing to overlook something that can't be changed about an individual and is a superficial barrier. BUT, don't underestimate the challenges of making a relationship work. It's a lot of give and take from both partners.

[@maya_jones3411]

LOL pretty sure that’s basically every relationship, interracial or not.

[@DJ_TRON]

That's with any marriage 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@CyberEntity]

Let's say the truth, it s not a matter of where you were born. Interracial or not, a couple has to be empathic. I got (my experience)more difficulties with people with my same language than people from other countries. Maybe cause I live abroad for over 20 years so I don't put any wall... But let's not generalise.

[@suvithak6166]

According to me as a girl it's so hard to adopt different culture, language, environment... but I hope love will make to accept everything.

[@EmikoZue]

Actually, I think is easier for women to adopt to their spouses culture. Maybe because in most countries, culturally speaking, people teach girls to keep the house working. The center of a “strong” household is a women who knows how to endure hardships. So, women are more welling to adapt (of course not all) and concede than men.

[@ariel8535]

@@EmikoZue I agree with u to some extent. I think traditionally women have to conform to a man needs, but I think it changing now. Women have their own dreams, careers, and life. I hope you don’t use this as excuse for men tho to not conform to one’s culture, and life.

[@EmikoZue]

@@ariel8535 of course not, that is why I said not all. Yes, it is changing but the hard reality is that in most Asian countries and African countries this is the case, as well as many countries in South America, hell this still happens even in USA. So, yeah a lot more women wants change but this is not what my original comment was about. The only thing I wanted to say that I have seen many more women adapting to the man’s family and culture than the other way around (even though it obviously happens)

[@ariel8535]

@@EmikoZue of course, I wasn’t really accusing of anything I was just not sure what u entirely meant. But thanks for the clarification.

[@PG-fy2ck]

not as a girl only, i am a 29 years old man, and i don't think i would ever be able to fully adopt japanese culture for example... Im a northern Portuguese and we are quite rowdy here... we say a lot of badwords (which almost are not seen as badwords do to their often use) and yea, japanese might be too strict for my confort.

[@bocagoodtimes1460]

It’s perfectly normal to want to be with someone from the same culture and who looks like you. Most mixed relationships don’t last. It’s fascinating watching Korean shows where many of the plots are related to class issues and people falling in love from different backgrounds.

[@vidalmateos3416]

Glad you asked about "Live in Korea or his country", personally I never saw this question in street interview and it's an important one. I am actually in this situation, though we are in her country at the moment (China) and that before meeting her my plan was actually to live in Korea, it was honestly a big relief to learn that she was ok to move either in Korea or Switzerland later. You seem like a nice guy btw, all the best for the channel's continuation ^^

[@briangulley6027]

My wife is Korean I met her when I was stationed there. She spoke good English then and has improved a great deal. We've been married 27 years and have 1 daughter. The culture shock for her coming to the US was tough. It was eased a bit because I was stationed in Japan after Korea, and we lived in military housing. Because of that she had a chance to get a small taste of American culture. I'm very proud of my wife when she first arrived in the US, she had no friends or family and a 3-month-old child. I had just retired from the Air Force and was working 3rd shift at my new job. She was alone every night and when I returned home, I had to sleep. She basically raised our child by herself, kept the house up, and put up with me. The hardest part was teaching her to drive, she didn't drive in Korea, so we were starting from scratch. The language barrier really showed here, for example when pulling on to a street I'd might say, floor it, gun it or words to that effect, she had no idea what I was talking about. Things like right of way, yield, bear to the right / left she had no clue. Needless to say, I was terrified to ride with her. Once we got through all that she became a good driver. We have developed our own language over the years with the very little Korean I know and the way she pronounces some English words.

[@David-so6kv]

Are you white?

[@yyyymmddhhmm]

Korean here. There aren't anymore decent, classy Korean women out there anymore. You're a lucky man.

[@briangulley6027]

@@David-so6kv yes

[@briangulley6027]

@@yyyymmddhhmm My wife is older when we married, she was 40. My wife watches videos Korean showing Korean men going to SEA to marry, the same as many western men. The mothers of these men treat the SEA women like crap most of the time.

[@yyyymmddhhmm]

@@briangulley6027 She's not wrong and I too fringe when seeing those Southeast Asian mail-order brides bought into a family of under-income rural farmers that are about the age of today's Silent Generation if I was to exaggerate a bit. I'm talking about the Korean women between their twenties and forties. Those spoiled brats don't have any sense of 'with rights comes responsibility'. Generally speaking, the majority of them vie for the authority of men, advantage of being a woman, and the accountability of a child. There's a reason why the birth rates are dropping like none other. As a side note, I also blame the '딸바보(Daughter-favoring) Dads' from the 386 Generation (in their 50s to 60s today) who brought up their daughters like princesses and those simping boyfriends that loses their minds when being called oppa. (The dating and marrying culture is just twisted thanks to these sympathizers of radical feminism.) As someone who served in the military just like you, I've seen plenty of my colleagues and friends telling me that they're going to frag the female officers if they lead them battle during wartime. Not nice for us to say, but there's always a reason why which I won't even bother explaining. Have a nice day sir and thank you for your service in Korea.

[@dinosaur9356]

I love the way Korean people give their own opinion. They are very clear and independent.

[@queen.in.the.country]

I agree. I spent a number of years living in Japan, and I found it difficult to understand the true feelings of most Japanese. They are very polite, but hesitate to clearly express how they honestly feel when conversing even in their own language.

[@sgtmian]

honestly cultural differences is something you can grow to learn and appreciate, it doesn’t have to be complicated. i think the most important part is knowing whether you’d be okay with being far away from family because that’s hard, it’s especially hard when you have family in several places and you just want to be close to them, especially when you have kids it feels safe to be near your parents and your siblings. i think that’s the most important part to consider.

[@jiggythibs]

It doesn't have to be complicated but it generates lots a misunderstandings that lead to conflicts time to time. I was well aware of Korean culture when I met my wife 13 years ago and despite that we've had our share of fights for silly cultural differences that we didn't realise at that time (especially when we got our son). It's only after talking about each fight that we realise that we read the situation differently due to cultural differences. However, you're right. It doesn't have to be complicated but it will generates conflicts time to time. It will remain simple if you know how to learn from these fights and improve.

[@Xiao_Fei73]

1:39 Exactly my thought! 🙂 You can not choose who you fall in love with, it just happens ❤

[@Xiao_Fei73]

@Lumi The video is about "would you marry a foreign guy?" And I agree with what that woman said. You can not choose who you fall in love with it just happens, either he's Korean or foreigner, what you do with that feeling though it's a different story 🙂 And no, I'm not very young (perhaps at heart 😁...) I wish I were 😂 And I've been married since the 90's ☺

[@Shushun_q]

Love your honest style. Always both sides of the story❤👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@iliepetcan1736]

Hi susan

[@drwez4279]

Love the video... I honestly didn't expect Korean girls to be so open minded 👌... Love truly has no borders❤️

[@Imokayluv]

Tbh why are there so many videos trending like this that questions random Koreans on the street ? wth is this kind of pressure ? Everyone can have different perspectives and stances., Americans make each of theirs loud and clear, minorities of Asian and Latino communities accept and live with the same racism that foreigners deal with in Korea. So what is up with Koreans having to be so “open minded” and sht for the internet? What is with these double standards and the idiot Koreans like this dude and Asian boss adapting and working for the western perspective smh

[@FELiPES101]

It would be interesting if you asked the same questions in a more rural setting.

[@michaelcorbett4236]

My wife is from the Philippines and has spent over 20 years living in the UK. The first place she was working was Belfast in Northern Ireland, where I'm originally from. We met some years later in London and the one main thing I noticed was that she could understand my accent. When I would go to the Philippines however that became a problem. It got to the point where I'd be speaking Taglish where I could. I suspect that the same thing is going to happen for Koreans who are with English speakers but whose accent is not an accent they've heard. You even see it with K-pop idols like Felix from Stray Kids when he speaks English with an Aussie accent. And that's not even half as bad as my accent. Now imagine if you as a Korean can only speak a few words of English but they are in a "standard" American accent.

[@iliepetcan1736]

I must Say i was observing Roumanian from ușa speaking with accent american one but i. Rest i have nothing with thm whn speak roumanian language

[@DaronMacke]

I like how open they are regarding other cultures. I think multicultural or multiracial partnerships work great if the two people can learn from each other, respect each other, and really appreciate their differences.

[@denisemahe8539]

As someone who is dating a Korean l can state that communication is the biggest key. My korean is very limited and he knows some english but we still get by. Having a portable translator helps a lot too. Since we're near retirement age our major future decision comes down to which country to live in together. Wherever it is, I'm sure it'll be interesting.

[@josedanielrodriguez1126]

God bless you

[@michaelf4011]

It's possible! If you really love each other focus on that and never let go! You can make it work no matter what situations you might face! My wife's family who is korean was against her and I getting married because to them social status means a lot! However, I broke that by showing them how ridiculous it is and how stereotypes shouldn't be used as judgments for people of the same race.

[@denisemahe8539]

@@matthieuschmitter6676 Well put.

[@jafetvelasquez]

I think that nationality doesn't matter at all, but that's maybe because I come from a multicultural country (Mexico). From my perspective, language would be the most difficult part in an international relationship but is not that difficult to overcome it. For example, I'm learning korean and have been talking to a good korean friend who is learning spanish; we sometimes speak in korean, sometimes in spanish but mostly in english so the boundaries are just imaginary.

[@blahz7152]

Nah, ethnicity matters in East Asia. Mexicans are looked down upon the same as Indian/Pakistanis

[@malgorzataszewczuk1635]

if in truth you love someone, then it doesn't matter what country you come from. Language can be learned, cultural differences too.You need patience of course, a lot conversation, respect and a lot of love.....(it won't be easy ,I now)..Greetings from Iceland 🥰❤️❤️❤️

[@bdetert82]

I kept laughing at how you tried to lead the girls to answer questions with spicy replies. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@castanic_milestone]

저는 외국인 여성과 국제결혼한 한국인인데, 그 입장에서 보자면 확실히 예전보다 외국인에대한 차별이나 편견은 많이 없어진듯합니다. 아직 100% 불편하지 않다라고 하긴 힘들지만 결혼전 걱정했던것과 비교하면 크게 힘들진않네요

[@ZuLiAnO_FaRhAn]

Korea racist country

[@Lambik79]

Yeah they want to live in Korea because they'd be lonely and have no one to rely on in the guys country, but what about the guy? Its okay if he feels lonely? Come on bro ask the right questions...

[@ignaciocalvo1856]

저는 90태어난 한국에 살고 있는 스페인에서 온 남자입니다. 스페인이 이렇게 인기가 많은 나라인 줄 몰랐습니다. ㅎㅎㅎ 그 여자들에게 국제 관계를 경험을 할 수 있기를 바랍니다.

[@shahjehan]

Love is love but access to different people would be the determining factor for exposure and experience of other races of people.

[@pakbtsarmy4241]

Nice video Jin keep going 😊😊

[@Nuno911sz]

I am so happy being an international married couple 🥰 It is exciting!

[@JF-di5el]

so what?

[@saintghost]

dont worry soon or later will be finished too many dieferences

[@lar2800]

Doesn't really matter if both love each other plus english is 2nd language to worldwide both can easily communicate. If one unable it is not burden to learn for sake of easy communication. All things involve relationship/marriage from every nationality(223) views are manageable. Attitude is forever highest place

[@mohammedgold1]

When a woman loves you she will follow you wherever you go or living for me I really like to married a Korean woman they are so beautiful and kind my respect to Korean people

[@ryantucker2166]

They don't like Arabs.

[@mohammedgold1]

@@ryantucker2166 I know but not all of them and I'm not a arab but I love and respect arab peoples

[@ryantucker2166]

@@mohammedgold1 You stand a better chance if you're a light-skinned Turk.

[@mohammedgold1]

@@ryantucker2166 you mean white skin? If we talking about white skin we are white more than Korean people's 😅😅 im joking I can say we also white skin maybe same as Korean maybe more or maybe less little bit

[@ryantucker2166]

@@mohammedgold1 YES. Caucasian-looking.

[@RockingMarshall]

Cool!! Like to hear their answers and perspective. 😃😃😃 Great video as always :D

[@williamseymour2509]

My wife is also Korean. I also met her during my military tour in country. We were advised that our marriage wouldn't last. I being black and she being Korean. One blessed thing was that I was welcome by most of her family, and the same for her by my family members. We just celebrated our 46th anniversary. Like most marriages we had our up and down moments. During those periods the love and respect for each other never went away. We have hit our 46th year with a lot to reflect back on. More positive than negative. Three kids whom we are very proud of, they are now young adults. Looking forward for many more anniversaries.

[@diptanudebnath8555]

Appreciate your efforts Jin 👏🏻👏🏻✌🏻💜🤝

[@davidcristian8376]

This video gave me new insight about Korean people especially Korean girls. I thought they are only into to western or white guys. But they are also open to other races. Thanks for the video. Keep it up

[@iliepetcan1736]

Baga.te că îs bune de baston :)))

[@parker_sp]

I'm really surprised to see that Korean women don't have a problem with marrying foreigners...here in Brazil, where I live, it's rare to see Korean descendants married to other races...

[@namemv]

I think people always be positive in front of MIC and camera.......... But the reality in their mind may vary

[@jackbrown8052]

As a white man who lived in both South Korea and Japan I can say the overwhelming majority of Koreans and Japanese, even the young ones value homogeneity over diversity and wouldn't marry a white or black person. Both South Korea and Japan are two of the most homogeneous countries in the world despite the fact that both have declining populations.

[@davidpenn9396]

to me i think it is Important to really truly be on The Exact Same Page because if your one sided chances are it wont workout especially when she sees things one way while you see it on the other and last but not least The Communication that is also Very Important so you can talk things over with your partner no matter what

[@The_Drifter_13]

The women you interviewed have a good outlook on life. I share the same opinions.

[@Alexia-vb5eg]

J'aime beaucoup tes vidéos et je tiens à te remercier pour les sous-titres en français. Merci de penser à nous ❤️.

[@voiciray]

je crois que les sous titres sont générés par la traduction automatique (c'est à dire par youtube). tu peux les activer sur n'importe quelle vidéo

[@papichris4117]

im black and say the world has changed yes the older people may think negative but interracial dating and marriage will change world and some day we will see each other as human being not race or culture and that can change the world seeing each er as one race the human race thank you for sharing

[@naziaalam7709]

Great topic!!! Good job Jin!!! 🙌 from 🇺🇸

[@luc_theriault]

3:45 girl with the brownish jacket is so beautiful

[@VidyaCAli]

You keep it real. I am learning alot from your videos. Lots of love from Trinidad 🇹🇹 😊🙏

[@davidpenn9396]

I really do not see a problem with American Men having a relationship with some one who is from The Philippines just as long they get hit it off together that is what matters the most.

[@RubyScarlett]

Love has no bounds.. I dated an English man and with my broken English we got married and live in England this was 20 years ago. A sheer determination pt better yourself and integrated with community and improving your English will open doors for opportunities. Now I’m fluent and articulate with good office working environment. Also encourage my daughter to think outside the box and see how far you can grow. You. Noose your path inside the box or step outside the box . It’s good for your well being and see the world is there to explore 🇬🇧💕

[@KDanes]

But where are you from

[@memotsubasa93]

Oh My....😮 you mean there is a CHANCE 😮👀🔥🙌🏼

[@tonykim3033]

When it comes to Having prejudice I Believe things will get much better in the Future

[@ej4835]

Go live alone in that country, experience dating, and get married. The cultural shock is bigger than expected, and coping with the differences in lifestyle is challenging. If you only date and marry without experiencing living alone in that country, you might easily fall into depression abroad.

[@lettymelanin5104]

First time seeing my South African sis here. The lady who said she has never been pursued by men in Korea 😲 i can imagine how lonely i would be as a dark skin women.

Back in the day.. I would've loveeedd to have had a South Korea 여친...

[@radasvidea5909]

I have once teleported to korea to a random street in Soul, met a korean girl and now we have golden aniversary, 4 fully grown children and 8 grandsons with 4 granddaughters

[@yogurtkaiser9139]

personally, as a korean woman, i would totally marry a foreign guy

[@carlos140509]

I'm glad they all seem to be pretty open minded but their parents are a whole different story. From personal experience, my girlfriend parents are (to this day) giving me hell because their daughter won't marry a korean guy.

[@audreywright1101]

@carlos140509. Honey, you chose each other. You love her, she loves you, marry her. The parents cannot live "vicariously" through their daughter. I know it was "traditional" for the parents to say different. However, it's Not their choice. This is 2022. You respect all parents, true. However, she's "grown" and can make her "own decisions"! I call that tradition- controlling. They should want their daughter to be happy! As long as you "lay a foundation" if you decide to marry that girl. Talk over about everything. Show much respect to the parents but "stand your ground!" SHINE 🦊🐾

[@Akritides-savvas]

All these people saying,i think its harder to adopt a culture for women or men ,or whatever..why would you tho.. loving someone comes with accepting their beliefs, each one should stick to his beliefs and meet in the middle

[@pattypat1266]

Your way of conducting the interviews is very nice, and I like your questions as well. Reminds me of Asian Boss, and they do an amazing job Thank you for those insights!

[@moleahy6880]

I could date a Korean girl. Marry one too. But would I learn Korean just to date her? No. Would have to be a girl who already spoke English reasonably well. Personally, I'm not up for a lot of inconveniences and efforts just in order to date.

[@morheimtv5666]

I just arrived to Spain (my home country) from South Korea and honestly I had a blast there. I want everyone to know that ultimately you have to experience the country first hand and not base your perceptions of the country on others opinion. We are all different and that will lead to different experiences inevitably. I highly encourage you to go to South Korea. Also I will like to advice that you inform yourself about their culture and manners in order to inmerse yourself into South Korean's culture. Please don't go there trying to force your own culture into them, if you read about South Korea's history you can easily tell they already had enough foreign interference. Respect and honor their culture and they will honor you back. Also helps if you speak a little bit of Korean, even if it's just very basic stuff like "Hi", "Thank you" end so on. South Koreans will appreciate it a lot and once they get to know you they are the warmest and most welcoming people that I have known so far. South Korea is a great and very comfortable country (of course it is not perfect, but I want to wholeheartedly say that my experience has been overwhelmingly positive) and I encourage everyone to experience it. Also, I feel very happy that my country, Spain, gets a lot of appreciation in South Korea! Shotout to these ladies! Explore and have fun everyone!

[@audreywright1101]

@morheimtv5666: I do appreciate your "brief lesson" on one handling themselves in Korea! Honestly, who forces their culture on others? That is "ridiculous!" Yes, we are all different! Still Humans. So, in order to "get respected, the "other party" must reciprocate. I don't care on what "face of the planet" one may venture. It's wonderful to "learn" different cultures and embrace it! "No one should be forcing their culture!" But "beautifully" learn from each other! SHINE🦊🐾 One more thing, to whom are you referring that forces their culture? Anyway to be "bluntly honest" and I'm so "for Real," if you're talking about ( I said "if" ) Melanin Culture, "we Don't!" However, just for your "brief education," SK "highly love Our Music"! However, what "irritate me to my Core, is that they( Not All, mind you) "express disdain" for the "Melanin"! Some places unless you are "Vanilla"( regardless if you're s foreigner and in SK) are "Prevented" to go into (some)of their"night clubs" while "playing Our Music!" The "mitigated audacity!""Hypocritical to the Max!"🙄 In America, ( btw, where I live) you can "enjoy any nightclub" and not be "prevented from entering!" Regardless, what area of the planet from where you are, "your money spends like any other Culture!" We are "ONE RACE"(HUMAN) many BEAUTIFUL CULTURES! RESPECT PEOPLE, PERIOD! MEDITATE (ponder) on that, !por favor! I respected and of course she really liked me, my Spanish professor in college. She was from Madrid! She was very classy!" Melanin people are as well! I abhor"ignorance and colorism!" SHINE ON, "Every one!"🦊🐾

[@schoolblitz]

The reality in Korea is like only 1% interracial marriage.

[@hameedali3864]

Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰❤️🇰🇷🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@rodrigofreitas1316]

I am from Brazil and my wife from Canada, very similar cultures but still with some differences that sometimes causes fights lol

[@taylorbase7177]

i think it’s perfectly understandable for either side. yes i think that it would be okay if you’re not open to dating foreigners, not that you see them in a bad light or anything negative but it’s just the relatability you would have with someone from the same background on the other hand it’s good to expand and see things from another perspective and experience a different culture

[@gallaxian]

Enjoyable interview. Would like to see a future interview about racial and ethnic gatekeeping: people of certain nationalities and ethnicities view those who date outside their group as “race traitors”. Asian women, for whatever reason, seem to be the most desired as partners internationally. This causes antagonism towards some interracial couples.

[@Mizwanderer1989]

It's strange for me to see that no one considers the children that are born in such mixed families. That would be the first thing to consider when going serious in a relationship. Because you will bring into the world people that won't feel like they belong in either parent's culture. Not to mention the nationality of the child and other legal issues. People are so superficial.

[@VK.x]

*To all Korean & non Korean global parents reading this. With the upmost respect from me to you as a British Indian mother to a daughter & son myself. Please can you think about giving your daughters, more confidence, encourage opportunities to be global. To not live in a bubble & not explore further. Truth is they’ll always be your babies wherever they go & everything they accomplish in life, they’ll do in honour of you. The world is their oyster, let’s not hold our children, especially daughters down. The one sentence, “What will people say?” Has not only killed too many dreams, but innocent lives too. At least you can hold your head high, with a smile & say… That’s my daughter, she’s global & not just local🙏🏼♥️🧿 Coming from a indian family I understand the pressures of communities etc, but I was lucky that against all odds my father said, “It’s ok dear, don’t fear, because I’ll always be near. So for me spread your wings, fly with a smile, if you become global, my legacy will also be global. Regardless I don’t want a unhappy child, just because of society & community. I want to die smiling knowing you my dear had my blessings to be happy.” The day before he passed he held my hand tight with his left hand, whilst I was trying not to cry & he wrote with his right hand (he lost his speech to MND) “Promise to spread your wings like your mother & fear no other. I’am grateful to have a grandson & granddaughter, but today I ask you as I part, to encourage your sister to fly higher than you. Stick together, be happy, safe, follow your hearts & we’ll be happy as long as you two are. Remember I your grandad loves you always, look after your mummy for me & simply be you & make us proud. Bye for now.” 🙏🏼🕯️🕊️🤍 Seconds later he took his last breath & passed on. I felt I should share this very private moment word for word with you 😢 because I guess it’s a message for all parent’s & children. So please just think about it, because our daughters are worthy of everything & more, just like our sons. Sending you all nothing but love, well wishes & prayers 🙏🏼♥️🧿*

[@greenscenery1974]

It's better to be homogeneous and safe

[@VK.x]

@@Gjeev_007 Yes - Agreed your comment is. You sound like a, ‘BOY’ not a man that’s why you can’t comprehend. Hopefully when you grow up, you won’t be so discombobulated. Your threatened by females, hence you have this view & I feel sorry for you. I’am a fantastic judge of character, because by profession I’am a FEMALE PROFESSOR IN PSYCHOLOGY. You should see a Psychiatrist as your clearly projecting, simply by the 1 word. You can respond whatever you please with your angry itchy fingers, but you won’t get 1 second of my reading time. I only give time to people who care & want to move on in Unity. So whatever you respond won’t be read by me. Regards P.s - There’s no shame in booking yourself a appointment to see a psychiatrist wherever in the world you are. It’s actually a very brave applaudable step to take.

[@VK.x]

@@greenscenery1974 So, ‘live’ for the sake of living? That’s not, ‘living’ many women have committed suicide due to this already. Especially as time has gone on per year statistically. 1 death is 1 too many They take their life in hope it will help open eyes & make change for other women. Knowing this, it’s unjust to sit lips sealed & let people think - Ahhh it’s ok, just raise our daughters to be a wives & pop baby’s like a popcorn machine. In many cultures providing a boy is a must have & if not that it self sometimes leads to murder, honour killing or suicide. Just because they smile doesn’t mean they’re happy. If only it was that simple & women were that safe.

[@greenscenery1974]

@@VK.x women are safe when they live in a homogeneous society. But in heterogeneous society, there is rape. Black man chase after light skin women. Rapes are mostly by black man against light skin women.

[@indiantiger4595]

Mam you should start writing speeches for Nations leaders

[@marvelv212]

People say that but in reality it doesn’t happen unless the person live in that country or the foreigner live in your country who happen to be your mate.

[@nicejitkaur2848]

Hey Jin I was waiting for your new video thank you 😊 ❤️

[@jj2517]

For those who'd like to marry crossculturally, I think first it is important to choose someone who doesn't look down on you or consider themselves superior. I've met those douchebags who say "well in the US we don't...or this is how we do things here" It's one thing to say this as an explanation to amend conflicts but it's another when it's said to make you feel like you are the only one who always has to change or your ways are strange and inferior or worse, utterly wrong. I think someone who loves you will try to understand you and also adjust to you and never use cultural differences to judge or put you down. However, this can be a tall order because cultural differences can be offensive or shocking and most do feel a sort of crisis when things are too different. It's hard to constantly adjust both ways. I think most intercultural marriages that work well are those where one person is actually more intetested in the other person's culture and has more affinity to it than his or her first culture. If both are too strong about their respective cultures, it can really lead to many conflicts or difficulties. Finally, my recommendation for those who want to seriously marry cross culturally is to spend some time in that country more than just a few days or weeks. If you can live there for 6 months or 1 year and still feel you can marry someone from that culture, then that's a good sign. I say that because sometimes people like European or US or Asian or other countries but more for aesthetics. There are often many cultural aspects that they don't expect. One example is individualistic vs community oriented cultures. For me, I used to want to live in the US, Western Europe, etc. until I got acquainted with individualism that I felt did not fulfill me as much as my community-oriented culture. Bec of this, though I know how pretty these places are, I no longer imagine living there. Maybe only visit as a tourist but not live permanently.

[@jm7578]

My wife is from China. It works for us because I speak Chinese fluently. And I am more than willing to adapt to her culture. At first her parents were unsure about me but now 23 years later and having three children and we’re still together. They are convinced that we are a good couple. Mutual respect is the key to any relationship whether it’s by racial or not

[@em-rr9bg]

are you from western country or Asian country

[@em-rr9bg]

Good to hear that

[@jm7578]

@@em-rr9bg Western country, I can speak Chinese and some Arabic

[@Orion-rl7js]

@@jm7578 He meant to ask if you're "white", which is pretty much all the comments in this video speaking about their positive experiences. White men and East Asian women. Not saying it's bad or good, but this is just what it is.

[@jm7578]

@@Orion-rl7js Thanks for your respectful reply. The reason I don’t discuss my razor hardly anything like that anymore is because we in the United States are a society obsessed with categories. The biggest abject failure of the United States is race obsession, stereotyping, and category obsession. In the future I wish more people could be racially mixed because we get rid of a lot of the issues were dealing with today.

[@riyan1512]

재미있었어요~~

[@_VXI]

New to the channel. Can you make one of these based on age gap? Is it true that younger men dating older Korean women is strange?

[@yeobo681]

Love your videos💜💜💜🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰

[@nonya8562]

To be honest I want to move to Korea and learn the language. I've never been but it would be nice to be somewhere new. Single black male about to hit 34. No kids, no drug history and no criminal history. Surely those stats would mean something there. Here in the U.S. the bad boys get the recognition. Just my personal view but facts could be different

[@meinkonto6892]

They are so well dressed

[@SW-kg4lv]

As always amazing video ❤❤❤❤

[@육킹-z4w]

모든 인간은 양면성이 있음. 카메라 앞이면 긍정적인것 쿨한것만 보여줄것임. 설사 치부를 알려주더라도 본인 개인적으로는 피해가 없는 그런 치부거나 아니면 이정도 치부정도면 괜찮겠다 견적 재고 말하겠지.

[@skaa3936]

외국 존잘남이면 오케이고 존못남이면 거들더도 안봄

[@시준-n6w]

@@skaa3936 님도 마찬가지 아님?

[@user-rj8mk6fz1u]

@@skaa3936 인간이 원래 그렇지 뭐

[@누구세요-x9l]

여자로서 나도 오픈마인드이긴함. 무조건 백인 서양 아니더라도 서로 언어가 잘 통하고 마음만 잘 맞는다면 고려해볼듯..

[@리레이첼-j1k]

아님 한국인들은 그렇게 눈치보는 사람들아님;;;잘교육받은 외국인들이 인종선호나 외국인 질문받을때 덜비난받게 말하지만 한국은 노빠꾸로 러시아여자 일본여자 미국남자 영국남자 이탈리아남자 말하는 사람들이라 그렇게 계산적이지 않음

[@jamesmiller9515]

Korean ladies are lovely...

[@kristinef.petersen1728]

I met a korean man, he speak well english. His mind is international, so we click well. I look asian, even I'm not asian. Maybe lesser discrimination, I don't know. I will first got to Korea to summer.

[@K-newborn]

the woman in the suit MY WIFE! se habla espanol

[@MaheshMakvana]

Excellent video, man. Keep up the good work you're doing!

[@bash060656]

There is a large number of South Korean girls and guys who speak at least rudimentary English enough to get by. South Korean singing groups seem to incorporate English in their music. I would think their adaptability would be very high. But love is a two way street, both parties MUST be willing to try to understand the other's culture.

[@merrittpalmer4349]

Do you live there?

[@빠른돼지]

국제 결혼은 선진국가의 남자와 후진 국가의 여자가 이어지는 구조임 또는 이데돌로기적 선진 인종과 후진 인종으로 이어지는 구조, 대부분 그럼 예외적인 다수 구조는 동인종인 경우

[@mingming1998]

Jin’s chest looks good in that black sweater haha

[@anikasarker2232]

i like your videos 🥰

[@bearlblack4865]

🌸🌼🌸

[@didicohubert2768]

Les coréens ont le mérite d’être clair dans leur propos, j’apprécie 😊

[@jiminswriter4209]

@Rock_ Lee No.

[@jaytorres6526]

I love your videos🙌🏽

[@TheMusicalKnokcers]

Are other asians not considered foreign ? Like they often forget them and go straight for europeans

[@MdImran-hl1rx]

I love Korea n Korean people, food n interest with korean

[@mikefitchNYC1971]

Awesome job on video!

[@Skw1813]

You should do a video asking people about the discrepancy with interracial dating between the genders. Why does society allow Asian women to go interracial but have a heavy disallowance of Asian men to do so? Should make for an interesting one.

[@gillmsnfillman1691]

In Korea and most East Asian countries it’s the opposite. The largest interracial marriages in Korea are Korean men/x women. Where are you getting that statistic from?

[@Skw1813]

@@gillmsnfillman1691 That’s simply untrue. Most interracial pairings within the Asian communities are going to have the woman be the Asian one. This is by design. No one is mate guarded harder than Asian men, especially in western countries. And yes I am aware of the popularity of Korean men nowadays with “other” women. However you have to understand that this is a rather recent thing and before all this K-pop and K-Drama craze, it was only Korean women that were sought after by foreigners. Korean men might be having a moment right now but before that women of all colors were conditioned to stay away them at least in a romantic sense.

[@thomast.9191]

You can thank Hollywood for that. I don’t watch Hollywood - just Asian dramas from East. They are more relatable tbh.

[@Donpablockb]

Good job brother you asked the question all foreign guys need to know before coming to korea😂😂

[@DongWang-m4n]

This video is kind of orchestrated. In reality, most Korean women will not marry foreigners. They look down on you as being kind of dirty and stupid, which is true for most species of foreigners.

[@bettywhitelouie1868]

Great job,Jin I was married to Chinese and we had four beautiful children, my father in-law didn’t speak English but we managed to get along but my mother in law could speak some English but refused,my eldest sister in law was great she always translated and interacted with me and the children it was beautiful 😻 and I miss our relationship but communication is the key, my husband refused to teach me the language but the cultural issues were easy. Thanks

[@wolfcreek8484]

What happened? :(

[@bettywhitelouie1868]

@@wolfcreek8484 My husband was caught cheating and had another child outside the marriage, he later was hanging out a friend who was driving and crashed the driver fell asleep and the car rolled over and into a ditch.

[@wolfcreek8484]

@@bettywhitelouie1868 my condolences

[@bettywhitelouie1868]

@@wolfcreek8484 Thank you, it's was a long time ago and yes I would marry a foreign again,if would truly respect his vows and cherish a good woman, why not.

[@FürdieGüte]

문제는 한 세대에서 끝날 일이 아니다. 들만 좋아 살겠다면 상관없지만 2세대.. 부모를 자식을 선택할수 없지만 차별을 굳이 사서 받을 필요는 없다.

[@Dywaw1]

뭐.. 부모 잘못 둔 찐따 한국인들도 어려서 차별받고, 자국에서 장가 못가고 그러지 않나용ㅋㅋ

[@kandigirl10]

I enjoy watching your JIN-terviews! lol!

[@schoolblitz]

If u are rich, they will like u.

[@shanwarajapan2320]

🥰🥰🥰🥰 I really appreciate your hard work.Allah bless you and your family. Thank you for sharing💕💕💕💕

[@arkadeepsingha7339]

You can call me narrow minded or not open minded but asian cultures like Japanese, korean they are all unique if asian girls keep on marrying foreigner guys the culture will get extinct one day i respect being open minded but I just want them to preserve there beautiful culture

[@skatingcanuck9837]

As a member of the Korean diaspora (who lives in a multicultural society) I am happy to see that the younger Koreans are open to marrying foreigners. I do think they seem a bit naive to challenges like issues with their parents, language and cultural differences, citizenship issues, plus mixed race marriages have a much higher divorce rate; These issues will be further magnified in a fairly homogenous country. That said with globalisation mixed race marriages will invariably continue to increase.

[@merrittpalmer4349]

when they think of marrying a foreigner, they think it's going to be like a hollywood movie with a handsome and romantic white guy

[@memrman8331]

But then won’t there be no more Koreans after a couple years if everyone goes to globalisation and statistically, we will all become Africans eventually as their population is growing the fastest

[@WastedBananas]

@@memrman8331 Exactly, and who wants to be African? Mixed marriages should be discouraged especially with africans

[@jaytorres6526]

Love from The Netherlands ❤️

[@L77knightstories]

I have a question. How would Korean parents feel if their son wants to marry a foreign woman that is older than him? Like 10 to 12 years older.

[@바람이불어오는곳-b9x]

사람마다 다릅니다. 반대하는쪽도 있고 알아서하라는 쪽도 있을것입니다.

[@pineappleski]

99%는 싫어함

[@ej4835]

"It might be okay if they are foreigners or slightly older, but if the age gap is more than 10 years, I would oppose it. If the age difference is significant with a woman, she would feel more like an aunt next door rather than a girlfriend or wife."

[@solangebernardi8876]

I've got the feeling they/you don't know that South America is on the map. But when they/you come to Brazil, don't want to come back. Love you. Love your culture. 😍😁🇧🇷🇰🇷

[@OlTrailDog]

Surprisingly different answers that I expected. I was married to a phenomenal Korean lady for many years before she passed away. We lived in the U.S. Yes, we had a few cultural adjustments that seemed to be so small, and yet were we seemed to make them big. She was very smart and graduated second in her high school and went to university in Korea for mathematics. However, her limitations in English was limiting in her job opportunities. However, I NEVER heard her EVER voice any complaints about work limitations. We were fortunate that there were a number of other Korean families associated with the university where we lived and they were a VERY important cultural part of our lives. However she was also an extremely extroverted person and always actively involved with others and known as the "Welcome Wagon" in our community. She regularly made visits back to Korea and her siblings came here too. I became aware of some of the biases that exist in Korean culture, but all cultures have those and are to be realistically and honestly dealt with. Financially she became much better off living in the U.S. than she would have been in Korea. In summary, our multi-cultural marriage and extended families were an amazing part of our lives together. I treasure our time together and it is hard for me to imagine being married to anyone other than another Korean lady. My biggest mistake was not becoming fluent in speaking Korean when I had the opportunity. Nowadays I love me some Kpop 😆🤣😆 the most beautiful women in the world.

[@Orion-rl7js]

You're white, that's why. These experiences are not the same for non western white men.

[@raivenzinc7323]

Try to interview the koreans that have married foreigners

[@mrnicktoyou]

What people say on camera and what they actually do can be very different.

[@janna5902]

THIS!