self love & the fear of relationships

[@theboilingbouquet]

No one ever truly understands another person. I think once I let go of the idea that I can't control the way people perceive me I started to stop changing how I presented myself. You're right. We are never truly ready, but we can decide when we want change. Not everything is up to the universe to decide our fate. Things don't always just...happen. I used to pride myself on being very observant to other peoples behavior and emotions. I think that I've come to understand people better now that I don't really expect anything from them. We are not predictable creatures. Life isn't meant to be mundane. Good video as always. All the shots were very beautiful. This is the closest I get to being vulnerable so uh, thanks.

[@charlottecheung3163]

I love this, I resonate with it. What a beautiful string of sentences... "I think once I let go of the idea that I can't control the way people perceive me I started to stop changing how I presented myself."

[@cyberzodiac174]

wonderfully said

[@annonymously1778]

Took a screenshot so i can read again and maybe someday share with someone ♥

[@weareallinthis3668]

Sweetest comment I seen

[@theboilingbouquet]

@@waykee3 You're right. It takes time. It's hard to let go.

[@sarahj132]

I have come to realize that maybe we’re not so afraid of getting hurt, but afraid that once another person sees us for who we really are, they won’t love us enough to stay. Which is why it’s so important to love yourself, you stop looking for validation and wait for right connections:)

[@superscience4817]

Nice.

[@snehas4650]

This is sooo true. And even if somebody comes by next time we would never show ourselves completely to the other person due to fear

[@ikramikram-qg9xe]

This thing make me cry 💔💔

[@stanwoman]

This !!

[@themiabanana]

My gosh 😢

[@jennifer.0707]

"we allow things to be temporary" is so true, especially in our generation where commitment is feared and our idea of relationships is so influenced by the media and what we see online, and no one is willing to take the time and energy to get to understand each other emotionally and get to know them, which is why no one wants to be in a relationship these days.

[@Josh-dp6iu]

Not “no one”… it’s the majority, but there are is still a minority of people who still seek genuine connection.

[@cluster7505]

I don’t want to be in a relationship because of trauma, not because I don’t seek genuine connection. It doesn’t matter how much I like someone….I can’t find myself facing those fears.

[@Twinti213]

This made me tear up. But frankly speaking, I've been tearing up and crying a lot lately. I guess that's what happens when you start to change little by little, learn certain truth about yourself - the truths that you've been ignoring for a long while - and slowly letting go of the concepts that have been a part of you for years, if not decades. Romantic relationships are kind of...a sore qound of mine. I'm 29 and I've never dated anyone. Never even been kissed. I keep wondering what it feels like. To experience that sort of connection with someone. I've been obsessed with love ever since I was a teenager or maybe even earlier than that. I've always hoped that something will happen for me. I've always waited for it to happen. But now I finally admitted to myself that I don't really know how to connect with people; I'm trying to learn how to do that now. I've always had a lot of expectations of other people - and of myself. I've adopted a lot of concepts about romantic love from movies, TV shows and books...But now I'm starting to to recognize that fiction is quite far from real life. And I've only been attached to concepts of people - I've never really learned how to love and appreciate people as they are. But I'm trying to do that now. The fact that I've never experienced what the majority people have experienced - romantic relationship and everything that comes with it - often makes me feel like...I'm broken. That there's something wrong with me. That I'm unlovable. But I also realize now that maybe I want to perceive myself that. It's the truth that I've accepted about myself at some point and I've been confirming over and over again. So, now I'm trying to unlearn it. Sorry for this brain dump and thank you so much for the video. It's really beautiful and moving.

[@solfh]

To hype you up.. i had my first “serious relationship “ at 27 and i use “” because he didn’t really want a relationship with me, i was so blind by the feelings that tried to save the nonexistent love.. in fact it was abusive. Which is a type of relationship easy to fall into when you are a deep feeler. Now i am seeking for a partner because i do believe in love and the power of it.. it makes you feel the happiest. BUT is am awful path. I am more sad and crying than when I don’t focus on that. Because the men i meet, when having chemistry and good talks, they just don’t want a relationship or making any effort to continue past some dates… so i am devastated more often. Honestly being single until love finds you doesn’t sound bad at all.. dating people is overrated. You only get heartbroken

[@am_2395]

Same here. Don't be sad. You are not alone in this journey. You are not broken ❤

[@chuucake]

sending hugs. :(

[@superscience4817]

We're the same ' I dont really know How to connect with people'.

[@snehas4650]

Hugsss

[@inlovewjungwheein8153]

I'm turning 18 soon and struggling. it feels like i have the burden of the world to carry. these videos feel like a hug , thank you for creating them

[@wallflowerarc]

your channel is so comforting to me. life's been weird the last couple of years and I'm not even an adult yet. this video in particular brings me so much peace. I have this great fear of any and all forms of intimacy and especially for the attachment that might come afterwards. I don't have people in my life with whom I feel like I can talk about stuff like this. in the rare moments when I feel like I want to, i simply don't have the words or my anxiety pressures me to stay silent. everything's so overwhelming and overpowering. somewhere maybe on tumblr I've seen a post that deeply resonated with me and still does at the moment - "I wish everything was quieter and softer and less often". I think your videos are exactly this. and you're helping me understand myself a bit more. I'm so glad I found you :)

[@samslife6809]

summed my feelings and experiences perfectly

[@wallflowerarc]

​@@samslife6809 we'll be fine. everything's gonna be okay

[@jnnylo]

Woww Thank you so much 🫶 it’s so hard to have these sort of convos !! So I totally understand everything you’re saying. I’m really glad this reached out to you!! And again thank you for taking the time to comment this :) every interaction in general is the best part of it all

[@wallflowerarc]

​@@jnnylo ♡♡♡

[@samslife6809]

@@wallflowerarc

[@basilbiju]

Putting here a piece of life lesson that I've received from one of my good teacher and friend. 'Never give your 100% to anyone. Live by the 10% rule.' (this is not some life hack, but sth so simple & practical to keep your mental health in check.) How to live by 10% rule?: Rather than living for just one thing/person, give your heart for multiple aspects of your life, Say, you give 10% for your family, 10% for friends, 10% for your lover, 10% for work, 10 for passion, 10 for movement, 10 for your community..or whatsoever. Here, even if you lose that one person/thing, you won't be losing all your heart. There are still others/ other things you love and care about that you can cling on to. Doesn't know whether this works out for everyone. However it's been working well for me. Let me know your opinion.

[@Miiriamsdictionary]

After my last relationship I never wanted to find one. I’m ok without one but what hurts me is when I do find someone I do genuinely like and care about and I do want to be in a relationship they don’t want one. But it is what it is. That just means it wasn’t right for me. And I need to accept and let go. It hurts but at the end of the day I will always have myself

[@icupsy]

Goosebumbs from your use of music, well-paced montage and nonchalant narration. It's like holding something warm, fragile and powerful in your hands. Have a heartwarming day :)

[@charlottecheung3163]

Couldn't agree more.

[@sarahmacjones]

"which story would you prefer bringing to life?" so good!!

[@怖い猫]

I needed this. I higly think that nowadays relationships are influenced by media, people dont want to get to know each other. Idk about you guys but even though i sometimes feel lonely, but i admit that relationships aren't my thing.

[@annanas.arts1404]

i cant believe your channel is as small as it is considering the quality and how much hard work you put into your videos! your channel gives me so much comfort and lets me forget lifes struggles for a second, thank you so much for that

[@jnnylo]

Thank you :) 🤎

[@ihyunjin]

this is such a good video. we're fed with idealized versions of relationships of celebrities that barely make it a year, yet we hold it to the standard of forever. love is cheesy but it is what it is! the media makes us feel like if we're missing something we'll always be incomplete. but truly, if we are out of touch with love or purpose, we must find it; not in instagram stories or 15 second videos, but in the people we know and care for. i think that's why most of us see love as all or nothing, when really if we look around us, there is love everywhere we go. love isn't just a kiss or a hug, love is a part of ourselves we are willing to see in others. as a young person i feel pressured to find "the one" when i haven't even found myself. our missing pieces are room for change and only when we receive love from ourselves can we understand how to love everyone else.

[@Amandasbarros]

I'm scared of sexual contact. I was abused as a child and I also saw my mom being abused. I want to feel like my body belongs to me and I need to work on that first. Idk, intimacy is terrifying

[@therealnethe]

try some yoga, focus on pelvic floor muscle yoga. meditate and express love into your womb, let go of the idea of the relationship and be yourself fully whenever someone shows up.

[@Amandasbarros]

@@therealnethe I lovee yoga, thank u

[@noog6756]

​@@therealnethethat's true but at some point those thoughts will come back

[@coolbeans2103]

Turned 18 in April and starting college in August. Terribly overwhelmed atm. Thank you so much for this video. The unknown aspects of a relationship and being vulnerable are very frightening to me. I think I have to learn to be more comfortable with myself in order to cope with this fear.

[@charlottecheung3163]

after watching this video, i can say that it pretty much sums up what i'm feeling right now with a special relationship. thank you, thank you so much. you have my gratitude for being yourself and expressing yourself honestly, vulnerably, beautifully - cuz then i get to understand myself on an honest and vulnerable level. especially when pointing out the "Attachment" issue. the way this video was shot and created (with a hint of vintage), the prose-like voice over, the shots of ordinary life - helped me calm down and immerse into the feelings that your video brought out. thank you, for choosing to present it in this way. i don't want to "like" this video, cuz i'm just tired of reacting to things on the internet. but, i want to express my thanks and love to you, the content creator, for the beautiful and enlightening impact that your video has on my present moment. "the internet era" ushers in a whole new way of living, and we are learning how to react to it, to find ourselves within this brave new world. sending love and my best intentions, c.

[@jnnylo]

Thank you charlotte :) I appreciate you for taking the time to express how this video made you feel 🫶 It makes me happy seeing everyone comment and sharing their thoughts like this. I can’t wait to post a lot more content on here

[@charlottecheung3163]

@@jnnylo all the best. peace and love x

[@gracieroe2402]

im shocked by the way in which this video both comforted me and gave me the wake up call ive been needing at the same time. the advice that you would’ve given your 18/19 year old self-am i just trying to win them over or am i having authentic interactions from a place of love and giving-hit me hard. i fantasize so often about having the beautiful love story that is romanticized in the media that im never not expecting it, never not craving it. and the more time passes, the more desperation i feel. but when i let these feelings of lack consume me as a deep feeler, not only do i over analyze every small interaction i have, but it rids these experiences of its genuineness. ive been in a slump for the longest time and falling back into my old self-conscious patterns, but somehow this 7 minute video brought me out of it. beautifully created and well-spoken, thank you

[@Bvirgo]

Hmm… I keep watching this video nonstop and it has made me realize that I have to unlearn so many things in order for me to be at peace with myself specially about love, I’ve always had this idea that constantly texting, calling etc means the person is interested in me that if they don’t constantly do that they don’t love me or are interested in me, I’m slowly coming to terms to accept that it’s not always that way, love doesn’t mean what we know nowadays love is unexpected; without terms and conditions, being constantly glued to a phone to know about someone’s day or life. Love is about how you feel when you think about this person, how you feel when you see this particular person and how your soul reacts to them.

[@sungheekim57]

Mmm. This was a comforting watch. I was meditating earlier and was asking the universe how I should go on about someone that I like because the stuff online about romance confuses me so much (which is why I try to avoid them). I've learned to be fearful whenever I catch myself liking someone - it's not natural for me, as an expressive person, to suppress my feelings and try not to show my interest and attraction to soneone I like. But really, what a liberating feeling it is when you find the courage to let them know. It was a huge weight off my shoulders, and I finally felt human again.

[@liya_0028]

Gosh this is therapy. And yea, I too feel the same thing you told about podcasts. Great video. Much love to you!

[@powerpuffgirl7486]

Your video came across my recommended section and I am so glad it did. First off the calmness of the video, the shots and conversations on self love and relationships is very gratifying and amazing to hear!

[@Roubainx]

I loved this video, I really appreciate you making it and sharing it for us to enjoy! Great take on connections and the fear of emotional involvement that doesn’t just have to be romance. There’s room for confusion or deep friendship, and not just black and white decision and realities

[@Dead00017]

Glad i discover your channel 🚬..its 6am here and im bout to sleep but i saw ur video and play it..im really delighted i play it :')

[@charlottecheung3163]

your video gives me the peace and confidence to go and spontaneously open up with how im feeling with people whom i have special relationships (friends who i value, mom, dad). as you said, we can't ever be 100% sure whenever we're starting a relationship - i've resonated with that, and it has freed me to express myself and being aware and being at peace with my anxious little bubble. i've started voice recording my thoughts to these special people, whom i know will listen, and not feel like it's a nuisance, and appreciate it.

[@Ayushmaan-ci8tp]

Your videos are so peaceful It feels like a safe space where everything is very relatable You showcase the reality,the vulnerability of life so accurately. Please never stop making videos and documenting these emotions I love to visit your channel time and again,and I’m hopeful for more videos from your side Love, From India

[@lykunthea3887]

love myself and help others too

[@chuucake]

you dont know how much you truly comforted me. :((♡

[@SparkleRoom]

I really liked the concept of this video, like, love can be amazing, but if we don't know how to love it can also be harsh. Taking our time, learning to be patient, and knowing our surroundings is good. Also because romantic relationships are not the only relationships that exist, friendships are amazing too in the process of knowing yourself and waiting for things to happen :)

[@minaizastarr]

finding videos like this from beautiful channels like yours is so cool

[@mayafunk8457]

The La La Land scene omg you gotta be kidding. This is so beautiful

[@mayawtf]

this video is complete art, my eyes thank you for making this masterpiece

[@garlicbread_supremacy]

your videos are so comforting

[@ShivangiSrivastava-yh8ee]

Getting cheated on really mess up your confidence and trust..thanks needed this 🙏

[@hippiesurfergirl]

So much wisdom and beauty, I’m in complete awe.

[@siryaferrara888]

i felt so warm and cozy listening to this ❤ sooo relatable all of it btw🥹✨

[@AlexandraGarcia-uj4nk]

this is crazy, so well crafted. I wished I could have listened to this sooner but I'm glad the universe put it in my path to listen to. I genuinely screamed when the video ended I wanted more 😂 it was made to a quiet subtle perfection like the first raindrop of spring. thankyou for this gem

[@Thecatlovver]

Thank you for these warm and comforting videos , I really love to watch your videos please keep making more, we really appreciate your effort . 💗

[@portia2406]

This channel is so underrated I'm not okay with it. This channel deserves all the recognition. I'm so glad I came across this ch. These vids make me feel so peaceful n grounded no matter whatever ur saying,the way u say it n ur choice of words,so simple yet so beautiful n i cant describe what kind of a cinematographer ur,the vid qualities r 100/10 too. Overall it's not a vid,each is a piece of art that reflects ur soul. Thank u so much for making these,can't wait for more...

[@jnnylo]

Thank you so much !!! this is the best compliment I could ever receive 🤧🙌🏻 I can’t wait to post another very soon :)

[@portia2406]

@@jnnylo thnk u for the reply. Made my day. Was kinda having a moment of beating myself up after getting tired of studying for 13 hr n 9.5 hr for 2 days in a row which is insane ik ,due to an upcoming exam I've in less than 2 weeks. Idk why I'm saying this but that's it,ur vids helped me find a kind of peace that I never found in any other kind of vids n today especially it reminded me to slow down n take it easy. So yup, that's it. Had to say that's the impact ur work has made n i hope ur channel blows up,keep it up!! P.s. ur home n ur town is rlly so pretty it feels unreal (I'm frm India tho)

[@ronetzelaya]

This video exceeded my subconscious expectations, i felt so understood while watching. Thank you for sharing your perspective, i look forward to seeing more from you

[@jamiespangler6842]

I’m obsessed with your editing style and the way you speak in this video, I’m definitely going to watch others after this

[@jaharagalos735]

I recently came across upon your video, and the way you craft each upload has truly captivated me. The content itself is astonishing; I can genuinely feel the emotions you intend to evoke for your viewers, which is truly remarkable.❤❤❤

[@DanielaRosenrot]

You are a beautiful man, inside and outside. And you have such a calming voice 💜 Emotionally intelligent and introspective men are wonderful in my eyes.

[@sage6238]

To answer your final question: the one i can truly live ♥️♥️ thank you. This was both incredibly aesthetic and peaceful to witness but also a very important thing especially for this generation to hear

[@verenaellen5506]

Thanks, it helps to know not being the only one who feels that way. Needed to hear those words, made me see things differently.Thank you!

[@grec_ko]

The Melancholy this video portrayed was just on point. Cheers mate.

[@J.A.S.6]

There it comes why I love and respect my religion and beliefs a lot, it's forbidden to date until you're ready for mariage and your intentions are clear for funding a family and wanting peace . By the way I really love the peaceful takes on this vid , keep it up 🤍

[@Fun1-3]

Hey! I’m James, and a Christian as well. What’s your religion, what’s one thing that you’re grateful for and reminded of everyday through your religious path, and walk??

[@hyeok010]

I also came to realise this. I think that kind of principle in religion was there to protect us from unnecessary pain and filth. Wait till you are “ripe” enough (mentally and emotionally) to be able to carry the responsibility of another person. Love and trust them and take them in for who they are. People going into relationships and “dating” are just playing around, not knowing what they’re doing, in my honest opinion. There is a fraction of people though that do it seriously and get up married eventually. But making your stance of wanting marriage (a promise of staying together and being for each other till old age) is a very stable and honouring way of connection.

[@julius-ceasar]

i’m not sure that’s entirely healthy, i believe you should get to know a person first before you make a choice to be with them forever and have children with them, it can cause trauma etc, but hey good luck on your way of life

[@charlottecheung3163]

rewatching this. it feels so calming and i feel happy and contented after watching it. thank you, very much.

[@solindasol]

you're so comforting. i enjoyed listening to you :) and your way of seeing the world is beautiful. ❤

[@crumbledonkeythirtyseven]

This is a really good video. I like the ending bit like “what story line do you want to choose” and I like the bits about self help and straying away from that later in your life. I used to be super big into the self improvement stuff and always wanted to give advice and be the guy who knows everything. And I felt it took until recently to be real with people and I’m still trying to get out of the daydreaming problems I have especially with crushes like you said. I’m trying to catch myself when I’m daydreaming, and just push my self gently a little to talk to people I’m interested in and see how I am with them in that present moment and enjoy it. But yeah I still get really nervous sometimes or catch myself crafting a response or trying to like optimize my rizz or whateva in those tense feeling moments. It’s definitely a practice. I like how this video kinda made it seem like it was okay to be curious and a learner and that everything isn’t such a big deal that you have to optimize and control. Also I love the shots and music. I’d love to make videos like that, you really put out a good message on kinda letting go of the reigns and it really makes me relaxed thank you for that : )

[@deezknees1883]

how do u plan on not trying to optimize and control every situation? i seem to struggle w that as well

[@superscience4817]

Im also struggling on that daydreaming hahaha and also i procrastinate a lot. How do you handle that?

[@crumbledonkeythirtyseven]

Healthygamer gg made a really cool video on this! also Heidi Priebe made a really cool video on stepping away from day dreaming and how you aren't just potential. Daydreaming is a maladaptive escape mechanism, and that video (Priebe's) does well with going into how you can stop it in it's tracks and work with yourself from where you are at, rather than you imagine yourself to be. doing things in the next 72 hours, rather than imagining your life 6 months from now, when things are toooootally different. Procrastination is always a multi-faceted issue! not a catch all solution to that, there are multiple sources for that, it could be operationalizing or overwhelm-which that 72 hour thing really helps with, seriously Heidi's video is so good. the problem may be other things, like avoidance as a defense strategy from something you may have been traumatized by, plus a bunch of other factors. healthy gamer gg has a psychiatrist who explains it really well here on youtube! also- fun fact- did you know tiredness can also be an emotion the brain puts out to you that is to get you to avoid doing things it thinks it may fail at?? Remember you aren't broken friend, you're a growing thing needing tending to you. These problems don't make you stupid or lazy, it may be more of a lack of knowledge/experience, which can be learned over time, you for sure got this. ;) best of luck to you! @@superscience4817

[@crumbledonkeythirtyseven]

So it can be hard, especially when you tendency up until now may have been perfectionist- but for me it's been a lot of trying to shift towards action oriented thinking rather than outcomes. I can't control other people. Nor how they react, or how they think of me. I can only control my actions and perceptions, both of which are hard and not immediate, but possible. I like how Dr. Alok Kanoja said it, where it should be more of a thing where you are a street vendor with dating, and so are they, and ya'll see if you like eachother's stuff. you don't resupply and change for everyone. There are people that will like you for you, even if your brain tells you otherwise. that thinking can be worked through too if that's some traumalama stuff you gotta sift through. but a lot of it deezkness, is letting go truly, allowing someone to reject you and not be into you and realizing it's not cause something about you is horrible inside. leveling up social skills, or taking care of yourself, working out, working on your emotions, etc. is super helpful, but it's nobody will ever get to a "perfect" place where they are now worth dating. It will always, always be a risk out of your control. But it's worth it to the roll the dice. I gotta tell myself that too a lot of the time. we'll get better at it with effort and time :) @@deezknees1883

[@shayhun]

So much comfort and aesthetic in one video

[@xxvoid4]

This was edited amazingly and It was a nice comfort to watch this. Your voice over is like the cherry on top, it’s what puts it together. I don’t necessary have a fear of relationship, but I do prefer being alone now ever since my ex left me for a widow. That situation felt too real and too grown up for me as I’m only 18, I didn’t think I was in the same category for a married woman. It’s been four months now and I’m graduating high school, I’m very proud of myself. Them leaving me pushed me to do a crazy amount of work load and now I get to celebrate graduating on time with my graduation class and celebrating with my friends. I learned I can move on and not rush into anything, I get to do everything on my own terms and conditions. I’m not sure if I’ll ever seek out another relationship again as that process and being cheated on is very traumatic. I left social media and only talk to the people in my house hold/ occasional friends but I’m happy. I’m very happy and I get to have a lot more peace within myself as I focused on what is in front on me

[@danielle2337]

Just came across your channel today. Your thoughts on topics are so comforting, makes me feel less alone. Thank you🤍

[@LaytonObserves]

The algorithm is serving tonight

[@Aya-yx6wq]

I rarely comment,i didnt even finish it yet,couldn't but let you know how amazing this video (filming,as well the content) .i relate so much and the way u put it made me feel understood and trust that does not happen more often. Thank you wherever you are ❤.

[@trueeternallbeauty6220]

Never related to a video so much and it’s crazy how god has highlighted these two things two me constantly these past days through different forms but it’s time that I let go of fear and just love regardless of how many times I’ve been hurt. I have issues with vulnerability because of so much trauma sometimes I don’t know how to be vulnerable only with god.

[@DylanSeto]

my god, this video is like nothing I've ever watched on youtube, I love it. Thank you for being so vulnerable

[@galatee2776]

Just watched this at a moment when I needed to hear those words, thank you.

[@fairyvves]

AHHHH MY FAVORITE PERSON ILYYYY this definitely gave me something to think about and i'm glad you posted this because this particular topic has been on my mind for a while and it's really nice to hear it organized this way

[@aubreyplazasuncle]

Parts of this made me cry

[@cyberzodiac174]

this is so beautifully crafted. thank u for sharing w us :,)

[@JessicaKateDesign]

I’ve been feeling a lot of this over the past year. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years last year, and since then I’ve been feeling so strange. Its been almost a year now since then and part of me wants to find that connection with someone again, but the other part of me hates dating apps and how they make me feel. But then I also feel as though that broadens your chances of making a connection, and otherwise aren’t you just relying on chance? And anyway, why do I even put myself through it when I could be happy alone? The whole thing is so confusing.

[@thebunnysnake]

Thank you for your thoughts and beautiful filmmaking and editing ❤

[@virgy_w_]

Love that my yt recommendation brought me here♡☆

[@bamabear2971]

This is so peaceful and comforting !! Thank you for making this video :)

[@jaketagimori6332]

I genuinely love your videos, life has had its ups and downs recently and if imma be honest your videos kind of remind me to slow down and take my time. Take time with everything, work, relationships, myself and just make the best out of it and enjoy the beauties' of life that surround us on a daily but we don't notice. I really enjoy these kinds of meditations and I really hope you continue to make amazing videos cause we all enjoy them in these uncertain times.

[@charlottecheung3163]

Couldn't agree more with you.

[@jonahtwyman]

thiss iss reallly well shot and you have a very nice voicee

[@elizabetha8786]

You’re so talented. This video feels like an indie film, and your thoughts are so similar to my own. Please keep making content, you’ve gained a new subscriber!

[@GameCircuitZA]

before I finish watching the video. I would like to say, the camera man deserves a raise. Give that man a beer man.

[@maytie1270]

I don’t know what to say other than, yes and thank you for sharing.

[@tangzhiyew2234]

Appreciate the guinene authentic vibe! Thank you for the time in making this awesome video!❤

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Just had this video pop up in my recommendations, I'm glad it did :) !

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new fav channel

[@langamasi]

Loved every minute of this 🤌🏾

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warmest video ever

[@matthewsperspective]

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[@Pikachu-eg5hg]

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[@christian02183]

this video was a work of art.

[@scorpiomoon444]

thank you for your insight on these topics, i learned quite a few things from you. that little paragraph you read from tiktok prompted some emotions to rise for some reason. i've felt very alone recently, misunderstood, i guess, but this video made me feel seen, so thank you for that (loved the style of video btw)

[@ВероникаДмитриевич-ф5к]

You are so incredible Your videos make me feel less anxious and safe Thanks you a lot Keep on doing it ❤

[@julie-ve5xd]

hi from thailand, i really your vdo. this found me perfectly in the right time and i almost cried watching this

[@kaelart5876]

This is so beautiful.

this is inspiring, man. thanks.

[@miguelfigueiredo2292]

This. Is. Art.

[@eunnieuns]

wooah this is the exact conversation my therapist and i had last week lmfao

[@annonymously1778]

Omg I've waiting for your new content I've watched your other videos multiple times! Thankyou ❤

[@haechanniiee]

your voice and videos are really comforting

[@ReganOrtega]

wow, this was too good!!! wtff

[@nikhat779]

I found your channel accidentally and thank god I did. The insights are so profound and meaningful. Keep up the good work ❤

[@glubjubmoon]

Dude nice shots ❤

[@glubjubmoon]

I wanted to make a video about this but scratched te idea

[@_nansd_]

Great video man, thank you so much for sharing. Related to this a lot as i’m sure a lot of other people here have.

[@MrCharlie066]

I’ve been through my own challenges and am facing new ones all the time. But I just wanted to say this comment section is 👌❤

[@gunairy]

This is profoundly beautiful and really resonated with me. Thank you for creating

[@angelinacisneros9437]

I absolutely love your videos!! They always help me reevaluate my thoughts. Please post more lol!! I love itttt

[@StickyRice43]

That was soo beautifully atmospheric, I feel inspired. I love listening to other ppl's train of thoughts ^-^

[@Nextcreator999]

What a powerful intro

[@hellodia8038]

I enjoyed watching this content.

[@taimartinez722]

I just found you and after watching this well edited video I immediately smashed that subscribe button 💓🦊

[@Turbo_2155]

Great video i seen this on my algo and i can relate so much relinships are hard no matter how much effort we put in.

[@DavidCVdev]

Connecting with someone was always hard for me, it still is actually, I had have very brief partners, it never goes for more than 2 or 3 weeks, I get scared of what could or what will happen, I overthink things, I get overly anxius and I just cut then off, or just try to stay as friends. Recently I met someone, we have been seeing eachother for more than a month, is my longest interaction with a partner, I'm beeing myself and just trying to listen what the present moment is saying, even tho sometimes I'm still overthinking, and I get overly anxious, but when I spent time with her, and I enjoy the present moment all that goes away.

[@jessicaba13]

love everything about this ♡