a conversation about desire for love & relationships

[@MattMort]

I definitely have built up in my head "what love should look like" in my life. What this eventual partner will look and act like, and add to my life- but weirdly for the first time, I feel I've gotten to experience a glimpse of what it's like to "let love come your way" without the expectation of who it comes from. Could literally be from anyone, I just have to do what I can to be ready to accept it.

[@fleurpozel]

' That's the thing about love, it's a commitment you made because you are beginning to trust them. Finally, trusting your word and allowing yourself to feel everything and accept them in your life.'

[@d.sfilms7677]

So cinematic and cosy

[@jamesvenkatrao2295]

I recently got rejected by a girl based on this construction of who I thought she could be for me instead of waiting to find out who she really is and found that FOMO was defs a big part of it. The rational mind totally hits the floor when you’re romanticising something that deserves more time. Great vid!

[@CyberDorkus]

This just happened to me too, lost a girl I really clicked with 😢

[@someoddkid_2887]

you've opened my eyes about so many things about love, im quite a young person and this hit me in ways where i found myself sobbing. thank you for sharing this :)

[@yellowman5942]

Thank you, my closest friends are getting engaged soon and while I am so happy for them I just feel so behind and it’s scary sometimes. I really love the introspection it brings me peace

[@aleeza.122]

Hey! I just think you explained the idea of modern love and how having all these visions about yourself in your head impacts your standards and then met with...existentialism essentially. I've never really see someone address it yet its so relatable

[@Ladybird-rw4fv]

existentialism?

[@aleeza.122]

@@Ladybird-rw4fv rewatching this i realised it could be just me lol... but I think he calls out surface level endeavours vs authenticity among other complexities of desire quite a bit. In arguing that true love requires recognizing both one’s own and one’s partner's autonomy, his perspective does parallel with existentialism -which posits that individuals must take responsibility for their choices in relationships, navigate the inherent "risks" and the fluid nature of connections and understanding of intimacy beyond mere possession or idealization as such :)

[@bethiegallegly2503]

you are such an inspirational person. i keep rewatching your videos because i feel so connected with your perspective on everything!! it’s so refreshing. keep it up :))

[@_megmxx]

such a beautiful hopeful reflection on future love, really needed to see this, keep being you and sharing your thoughts and gifts with others ✨

[@pokenator199]

You’re such a young “old soul” with so much wisdom. 🤩I could listen to you talk all day as your voice is so soothing and calming 🙏

[@Shireen_bano]

So true and relatable.... situationships are like illusions we chase ..... Life is so unpredictable we shouldn't plan everything before time...

[@riindala]

Started watching you recently and absolutely adore your cinematography and hearing your thoughts. So much of what you say is something I also relate too, you have also inspired me to document moments of my life a little-more, keep doing what ur doing ❤️

[@fred-nu8in]

Lovely and comforting as always.

[@rappa____]

I rly admire your work and the quite power I feel through your essays. I find you thoughts contemporary and in tune with issues young people are dealing with but in the same time you don’t lose a kind of “wise aura” around you. Ty for sharing

[@shereads999]

just watched one of your videos for the first time, I love the art of you. How you express your emotions and feelings in a video while still incorporating poetry. You are experiencing a spirtiual awakening as well, notice what your intuition is telling you.

[@browngirlshire]

i dont know exactly know why but i find your videos really comforting to watch. wonderful job with the cinematography!! ❤

[@_gonnegirl_]

I love the atmosphere of your videos

[@patcantfilm]

So raw, thank you for the beautiful content sir

[@dayaangg]

Beautiful talk , beautiful video , beautiful thinkinggg and all the things in this video are beautiful ❤

[@yeahyeahyeah222-u6z]

I always look forward to your videos!!! They help me sit back and evaluate certain topics with you that i’ve also been dealing and thinking about.

[@owenless]

love the production as always keep up the amazing work and production

[@zeeshanpatel5587]

not to ignore the topic of discussion but I love your cinematography and editing. I can't think of the right words to describe it, it's simply pleasant to look at. Also, 100% agree with your rant. I'm working on a project discussing the complexities of love and its subjectiveness and your insights are so refreshing. Would love to see more!

[@sundaszulfiqar5572]

You are virtual version of my journal book sometime its even hard to write what i feel but after watching this video its feel like you have journaled my thoughts how can it be so accurate❤❤❤

[@shivesh69]

I Really needed to hear something like this 😊 Your video are so cinematic and cozy

[@arofawaz]

I really love how you express your thought it’s something I’ll also love to try out.

[@LuulaAdam]

This is so comforting to watch

[@alexmueller9837]

your visuals are beautiful

[@rishiMpatel02]

am really thankful for this video as it actually helped me to get back on track with my life cuz lately I was finding myself falling apart I really appreciate this video thank you for this keep it up

[@Taylor-ub5rz]

man, you should have at least 8billions of followers

[@bryan31]

I love these videos sm

[@gi-sp9to]

this is sooo real

[@wearetrackclub]

Love how you put this together! Really nice to hear your perspective ❤👏

[@julie.679]

Your videos are amazing and your so open and honest, but this video was beautiful. Thank you for videos and for your perspective.

[@jenevievemalbas4094]

this is totally comforting, thank you for your videos. I love it!

[@MichelleKK]

About time is my fav movie too... Nice vlog.

[@misatofujii]

this was so comforting to hear and watch with your cinematography and editing - can't wait for your next videos :)

[@koodeprived]

you summarized all my thoughts in one video. romantic relationships are so hard for me to grasp as a concept. i feel like it's this really grand thing that i have to wait for the perfect moment after bettering my life so i can finally have it when that's not even the case. i want it, i'd definitely feel missed out if i don't get to experience it at least once in this lifetime, i'm actually envious of people who have it even though i just keep hiding that feeling behind the waiting-for-myself-to-get-even-better mindset. It made me realize what'ss so wrong about letting people in now and let them help me achieve my dreams? what's wrong about them seeing me struggle to be who i want? if they're really the one they'd just love me all the same

[@mariaariadna4478]

i love this.

[@bristeeleenabasu]

love this! Love how you've beautifully put out there, thank-you for the content !

[@cowcs4131]

Uhm??!!? This might be the best vid of the year

[@libbymason4407]

love the artwork on your wall!

[@Zikadiddat]

i love this and keep on going back to this video thanks for making it♥

[@veena_d210]

Your voice and every vedios are so relaxing...

[@Amanda-Mariee]

Hey Jonny, Thank you for this!

[@menimvideogunluyum]

Your videos so cinematic. I love this type of videos💫 I think you look like Timothée Chalamet

[@nbnb135]

This sounds like limerence. It would be cool to see you talk more about it!

[@zehrakilic.]

I really love your videos ❤

[@EggyEggPie]

please make more of these

[@AstroAkash]

happy diwali brother and too good video love it so much :)

[@shamibaby9391]

So beautiful

[@Ladybird-rw4fv]

But it's so hard. How can I give myself to someone without losing myself? I am afraid of falling in love again. It's so exausting. I want peace. I want calm. Can love be calm? Each time I meet someone I become terrified. I am terrified of them seeing me as I am, fragile and broken besides all that I am. What if I first accept that? Then it will stop being so terrifying. But then I feel I am losing all these opportunities. And do I even find them that interesting?

[@liamfarssac2866]

I love your sensibility for beautiful images, what camera do you use?

[@samtrtraore4301]

Great video. Just curious what mic are you using?

[@jnnylo]

I use the shure mv51 :)

[@samtrtraore4301]

Thank you, really

[@darexadd]

thank you for this comfort video!!!

[@k1rnm764]

You are videos are happiness dosage

[@OsvaldoRomero-s3y]

Hello, I really enjoy your channel

[@amdeko]

❤❤❤

[@VintageInAutumn]

💌

[@mariedw5400]

❤

[@themediocrelife3811]

Beautiful:-))))

[@themediocrelife3811]

Beautiful:-))))