Job Searching Ep. 6 | behavioral interview tips, going back to grad school? daily life in nyc

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Hello friends,
In this video, I shared some tips on how I prepare for data science behavioral interviews and discussed some thoughts about going back to school. As always, I hope you enjoy!
xx,
Julia
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[study resources]
behavioral interview →
• guide: / cracking-the-data-scie...
sites where I've found company-specific interview questions →
• glassdoor
• blind app
[friends]
• @sarahpan
• @LillianChiu101
[mentioned]
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• bowtie skirt: bit.ly/3UfLiWV
[about me]
Hi everyone my name is Julia ~ I'm a 20-something-year-old data scientist navigating through life in NYC. You can find vlogs, fashion & beauty content, productivity videos, and more on my channel. Thanks for stopping by & I hope you enjoy :)
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[@ddew7223]

I honestly appreciate it when youtube vloggers are more forthright with having negative feelings. It just means everyone goes through the same thing and it's not always rainbows. Being overly negative can be bad, but so can being overly positive. Toxic positivity is a thing, so I always appreciate it when you admit that life isn't always perfect.

[@alexnews8346]

"Toxic positivity" - cool said . I`ii remember )

[@1101G12646]

Honestly, a Masters is mainly to do 3 things: 1. Buy more time to decide what you wanna do after undergrad 2. Break into Management Consulting or fast track to management (this option is ideal if you actually have 3-5 years experience in the field first) 3. Switch industries If you are in the right field, and you already have your career planned out in the industry, I honestly don't think a Masters is necessary.

[@penguinswithwifi]

One other thing: It’s also a good idea if you want to take a huge pay cut and teach at the HS or community college level.

[@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue]

I agree, but grad school is a great option if you do not have a choice in the field you are looking for a position for because it buys you time. For instance, you get internships when you go to school, which means being able to make connections and build your resume further.

[@1101G12646]

@@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue Yes sir !

[@vidaworksout]

Breaking into Management Consulting would be better if you know someone rather than spend the money on grad school because you still may start off lower in the organization. I know too many MBAs who start off as associates and are passed for people who instead have applicable experience which she does already. Save the money and instead get the job experience. Do grad school to buy time or do it solely for learning, not to get ahead in your career.

[@hiroshin4619]

I wouldn't even suggest paying for a masters to "buy time." From experience I know how quickly you can blow through your savings while unemployed, and by adding school debt to that you could easily cripple urself financially for a credential u may not have even needed to land ur next job.

[@amandamctyre1615]

Girl you DO deserve that perfume !!!!

[@kosi5]

Came here so say this!

[@amberjohnsonlogan]

Not only do you "deserve" a little purchase if that is what you want, you also deserve TIME- in fact, everyone deserves time to have life unfold. Please, care for your health, love family and friends, and take the time you need to work out the details on the next step. (This message is also for anyone who needs to hear this...life is messy and unpredictable.)

[@justsjn]

Got so sad when you said "I don't deserve this" ... because you did your best, you gave it your all and the rest is not up to you, it is completely out of your hands if it turns into a 'yes' or a 'no' in the end. So in my opinion, the way I view the world, you absolutely deserve it!

[@leaholivia1416]

i feel you so hard on the job search. in california, even getting a restaurant job is hard and its taking a toll on me and everyone else. plus the economy is not good so i 100% feel how you feel. you will get through this!

[@wheel.of.fortune1234]

Yep. I am in Ca too and want to get a new job but it’s tough. Very depressing

[@neilpa]

Is that really how bad it is over there? Thought it was only this bad here in London!! Even getting a job in retail is so tough for people.

[@StrawberryJamJam29]

Yeah experiencing the same in the SF Bay Area. I've been rejected from several retail/restaurant jobs and mostly no responses. Went in person and gave my resume to the employee to pass to the hiring manager. I did not get a call back. I don't know what else to do.

[@ais.shuichi]

Same here in Barcelona ;(

[@katscandance]

Same here in Las Vegas :/ everyday I submit 10+ applications and maybe 1 will respond if I’m lucky! Just trynna make money to pay for college :(

[@sheriberrix]

Don't give up Julia! I also really appreciate you showing the downs and low times, because it just makes it more realistic and relatable. Job hunting can definitely be quite discouraging at times.

[@sophieaa32]

I’ve definitely thought about going back to school in my own struggles looking for a tech job post grad. But honestly it’s important to ask yourself if it’s still something you’d want to pursue right now even if the job market was easy. A grad degree definitely isn’t an escape or a way out from the current market but it can help you get somewhere new. I hope it gets easier for all of us❤

[@taleia6069]

right I think the job market values experience over degrees. Degrees are definitely good to have that make you more competitive but from what Ive seen, employers are looking for people that already know their ish.

[@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue]

@@taleia6069 True but go to school if you find nothing...

[@taleia6069]

I don't think you should just go to school just because. School is not escape, school is just as hard as a job so people should really think about if school is for them@@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue

[@cali_love5977]

I think it’s normal when we’re in our period of Unemployment to reflect and think about going back to school. I would take some time to really weigh the costs.

[@warmbreeze43]

Julia, You are enough. You will succeed in whatever you choose. Give yourself grace. Love your vlogs

[@inprogress9757]

This is such a lovely, kind comment, I couldn't help but stop and think that everybody in your life is lucky to have someone like you. I wish you the best!

[@warmbreeze43]

@@inprogress9757 awww thank you. I wish you only the best in your life as well💜

[@giirlhood]

that perfume is 100 % deserved - in this life, everything changes day by day so why do we give ourselves the maximum (treat ourselves always positively)

[@dal_melody]

I've discovered someone who's dealing with the exact same dilemma I've been facing, and now I'm feeling a sense of camaraderie! Whatever choices we make are the results of the time spent pondering. We have to trust ourselves, right? Keep up the awesome effort, Julia❤

[@cynthiaivers1708]

My question is - are you okay financially? If yes, I wouldn't stress about it and look for a good fit. If you're in need of income, then I might compromise a little and try a job you may not - initially - feel is a perfect fit. Jo Malone? I love Jo Malone - but would only buy if I have extra funds (e.g. no debt, lots of retirement saved, etc.). Lots of people seem to think we "deserve" a treat - I'm in the camp that purchases are never about deserving them - it's about affording them.

[@MariaE629]

I recently went through the new grad recruiting process in software engineering, and it was truly a nightmare. I appreciate you being so open about your journey, and I can see you’re so incredibly qualified and any company would be lucky to have you ❤

[@swaathilionel1387]

Thank you so much for being so transparent and posting these videos and also giving such strategic points for interviews. Watching these videos has helped me think clearly (funnily seeing you think out loud gives clarity). Can't thank you enough love it.

[@marisacherry]

Love seeing the consistency of your workouts lately!!

[@sunshinemindset8497]

Sending you lots of love, Julia. All of this stressful period will soon be a distant memory. Just keep going and it will all make sense when you arrive where you are meant to be xxx ❤

[@LivingInElysium]

Okay, I love that you and Sarah Pan hang out.

[@100newkid]

I LOVED that you covered interview tips! I recently just started my new dream job and I can fully say that preparing, studying, and practicing your interview is so crucial. I am such a strong believer that the Universe knows when to open those career doors and when it is the right time. Sending you good vibes!

[@peyarobbins]

Love seeing you and Sarah together. So proud of you, Julia! You're navigating a bleh situation so beautifully.

[@pitbrand]

You do deserve that treat and your next opportunity is around the corner. You're a magical creature and you can do anything.

[@techpodssocial]

Very refreshing to see an authentic take on the lows of job searching. You can do this Julia!

[@carinahu1627]

Don't be anxious, you're really amazing. I'm in Australia and also looking for DA-related jobs. The job search process can be really tough, and every time I feel dismotived, I watch your videos. You've given me a lot of comfort and motivation!!!

[@kaitrotter1718]

I honestly hope you keep making KZbin videos down the line! I relate to you a lot and your videos have helped me stay positive while navigating the transition between early to late twenties. It’s hard out here!

[@100MilesEast]

I started seeing videos about job search suggested to me not that long ago. I'm starting to search for a new job myself and definitely feeling your pain. It takes a lot of work and it is very frustrating to fill a bunch of forms, do the tests, answer some crazy questions and then just being dropped. It feels like a second job, which I have to do in the evenings after my current job. It's excausting and demotivating, but I feel like I hit the ceiling at my current job and it become toxic. So I appreciate seeing and hearing the same sentiments and stories to which I could relate. It helps feeling less of a failure.

[@tiffsonline]

julia, i LOVE this series so much! i'm in the same boat as you and watching you go thru the process is so reassuring that i'm not alone.

[@annlee2136]

giiiirl u deserve this scent and even more. U deserve the world just because you are who you are and not because you accomplish sm or not ❤️

[@kannikaacara4854]

When you least expected, good things will come ! Stay positive ❤

[@user-ey8bu4bv6l]

Love your content. So valuable and learning a lot from you! You go girl! Hope you find your dream job soon.

[@keerthi9716]

Julia i just wanna start off by expressing how grateful i am for creators like you...I can't explain it in words but i hope you know, how much of an inspiration you are to so many people out there

[@vanessalewis1449]

Thank you for sharing about your journey! I’m glad you purchased something nice for yourself! Meanwhile, definitely keep pushing! The market is really competitive right now and companies hiring processes are all over the place. I recently went through this process looking for a job in the tech sector as well and it’s definitely not easy. I really enjoyed your convo about the behavioral questions which is essential to any role. Again thank you for posting your truth and perspectives. Your videos are genuine and I know you’ll land a role you love soon!

[@Design.candyw]

you are not alone gurl, we are all thinking what u;re thinking abt the future. keep goin! u can do it!

[@lyfwithtashi]

Yaayy been waiting whole day ❤ Finishing grad school definitely helped me get more opportunities, highly suggested.

[@bypedroneres3]

Good evening Julia, about job searching, I applied to 727 jobs before getting my first "yes", so I know the feeling of spending hours on linkedIn and trying to get back to the job industry, you are the first creator that I follow that talks about that openly and it's really nice to see that we are not alone, I'm a developer and I believe that it's been hard for all my colleagues to find their first job and even people with years of experience ( as you ) I know it's hard too. Thank you for sharing and being so open, hope you can find your next job soon, till then, I'm here to support you! keep going!

[@sou.diaries]

Your future self will be proud of you for not giving up 🤍also I like your hair ✨

[@sandraengram2649]

Followed your blog - through apartment hunting now following your blog through job hunting - let's go Julia!!!

[@pitipornpierce3601]

I admire you. You are awesome. Don't rush. You are ok. Think about it carefully. Job searching take more time than you think (as always). Go to school is fun too. just take time and you will see clearly what you like to do.

[@alexsheppe]

Appreciate your work Julia, always entertaining.

[@kimberlymcglone3118]

You deserve the perfume just for being you! I enjoy your content

[@GOxHAM]

I appreciate your transparency. I too am in a similar conundrum. Debating between the safety net, pursuing my own business, a hybrid of both, or just spending some time off to reflect on life. Continual learning is definitely a requirement to keep up with everything, but I don't think I want to go back to a traditional school setting. I'm sure there's plenty of people in a similar set of shoes. You are kicking butt and deserve that treat yourself purchase! Keep it up. Hope you had a great time on your recent brief trip!

[@0ninetyseven97]

the glow up!

[@taleia6069]

It doesn't help that you are in NYC, so I can just imagine it is very competitive but I am a firm believer in finding things that are suppose to align with you. You will find the job that will be just what you were looking for and it will all make sense. I know it is hard but keep working. Best of luck!

[@rfpeace]

Wow, your hair looks absolutely fantastic!

[@davidlewalski2292]

So cool to see Lillian in a cameo at the end. You two are my favorite!

[@soojinshares]

Hi Julia, I've been following your channel for a while, and I wanted to say I love watching your videos! Good luck with your job search process! Sending you positive vibes :))

[@danjas.599]

you do deserve that scent though. i consider stress buying an issue when it's something you never considered getting before. if it just triggers fulfilling a purchase that has been on your wishlist for ages that's ok in my books. having all those thoughts just means you're considering all your options which will reduce regret later so you've got this

[@karlenasanchez9376]

I quit my job last week and now I’m on this job searching journey with you. Hope both of us can find the job we’re looking for

[@dariasolomkina1351]

Enjoying your videos a lot, thanks for the content!

[@nopenopenopenopenopers]

Have you considered putting out a cookbook with all the foods you make in your videos? I'd buy that - they all look so good!

[@OGSweetMeat]

Once again, thank you for your openness.These are fantastic vieos and that food looked amazing.

[@Swordyfiish]

I totally feel you about masters degrees! I guess there’s no big harm in applying, I think an added bonus for your situation is that studying content from you would be so cool and interesting!

[@traceyclaver6076]

You got this. Keep on searching! I believe!

[@shinodinhaa]

Oh, Sarah! I love her vlogs!

[@Chumburro]

Your hair looks fire.

[@jossec1344]

Life is just about the moment, the context. I would say 20% is coming from your skills, 80% is being in the right place at the right time. Never lose confidence on yourself, you seem to be so true and motivated, life will give you back what you deserve, and I'm sure you deserve a lot! The main thing is that you know where you wanna be, but the path is always the one that is unexpected. Keep going and I wish you a beautiful life !!!

[@EcomCarl]

Your methodical approach to behavioral interviews is commendable, highlighting your resilience and proactive strategy in a challenging job market! Strategically framing your experiences within those five categories can really set you apart from other candidates. 👍

[@yesnofear]

I really appreciate it when I'm searching for a new job,too. !!

[@II_Emilia_II]

you're channel is just the best :)

[@CoffeeNutGaming]

Very cozy, well made video! Best of luck out there!

[@jadevu904]

Love this great and raw video. Thank you for sharing this experience! I'm about to go in 30, I came back from $0 twice already and personally I don't recommend keep going to school and rack up more student debt. I have 4 years scholarship and I take advantage of Pell Grant that offers by the state also.Seems like you have great support from your family to go through these hard job searching days.Usually as an independent adult, I couldn't be unemployed bc my monthly housing cost $2k $3k. I would suggest to explore more in career wise and take any great opportunities that is available. Usually employers will question why you have such a big gap of no working in the resume, any experience is better

[@leemilene]

Julia, you deserve to take some time for yourself, honestly. I was also looking for a job since when I finished university, but unfortunately, I had to take care of my mom after I present my final paper and it took me 6 months until she died. At that time, I couldn't even look after a job and I felt so useless for not trying hard to make some money to help my family, but I stopped and with therapy, I understood my time with my mom was more important than a job. Then since August, I was at the same position as you: trying to looking after a job and questioning a lot how much time it'll take for me to actually get a job. Then, in march, I lost my grandma, but at the time, I was being interviewed and then in April, I was accepted and I'm starting the whole hiring process and I was so shocked because I thought: I can't believe it that I got a job after what I had to witness in my life... You mentioned about going back to school, but I guess you really need to think if you want to pursue an academic field for now on your life. When you're unemployed, you ask yourself when your time is gonna reach out, but time will give you what you've been looking for and you also have opportunity to have interviews (which a lot of us even can't have this opportunity) so you're going into the right direction :) Just be patient with yourself. You'll find what you want and also I wish best luck for you, fellas! I know you are capable of finding a good job or pursuing what you dreamt about it

[@yvonne0429]

Your vlog is the exact process as I am going through😂I’m debating on grad school or finding a job lol!!❤ love you, thank you

[@Joysole]

I got u, i truly know you’re feeling rn

[@tikatikb]

i totally understand, based on my observation in the world of stability of safety, if u r having enough resources now to upgrade whatever ur valid status channel, pls do that, but strategically, which means, do that, in this context grad school, if only u could imagine urself 1. loving it (u will easily figure what to do with it in the meantime) 2. u know the specific goal based on the major u'll take that hopefully based on ur experience, knowledge, n developed interest, it will make u be more confidence to be able to create ur own business or collab professionally in that regard, hopefully with that abundance requirements, the likelihood be the best option if u were offered including 9to5 something in future, it would not make u question ur best firhand by regarding other's perspective, goodluck! late 20s still carry on!

[@joanmcgrath5790]

Food solves everything! I understand exactly what you are going through seem like a tough market right even just as a Data Analyst. I have thought of going back to school too.

[@victoriasantiso9681]

The skirt ❤

[@ely4062]

Hi Julia... I found similarities in the way we think.. we crave stability therefore we always try to find a safety net or preparing for worst case scenarios... But... That also means that we are telling ourselves that we are not good enough for the things are supposed to be for us... I know you are not asking for advice, but if I may.. this advice can be applied to many different scenarios in life... Take the time to just be still and observe your thoughts and emotions, acknowledge them and give yourself grace. By observing them as a separate entity, it will help you to not spiral or not get consume by them... Once the spiralling goes down, clarity will come to you... Clarity will only come when we are relax.. Hope this helps... ❤

[@tabithavisser]

Beautiful comment and So True.... WE are All proud of you and showing us Life is not a Failure....Be Kind to Yourself ALWAYS❤❤

[@sammy_lu552]

If you want to do an MS I highly recommend doing a computer science related one. The management aspect can be learned via corporate courses and such. Many companies offer these. However, an MS or Msc shows your expertise in a certain field, what also helps if you want to become self-employed one day. I did an MBA out of a crisis, but it was a very scientific focused MBA. Otherwise I would have chosen a MS or Msc. Good luck to you

[@yena7329]

Good luckkkkk 💕

[@johnjacobs5766]

I like the relaxing music.

[@leroystea8069]

You'll be fine. The goals you seek will find you.🤗

[@tinaranathania]

off topic but skin is skinnning. you look absolutely fabulous! I'm having my job interview this thursday after not hearing from them after more than 1 month lol. Scared but pretty excited

[@donnas411]

Take things day by day. You have pretty good goals.

[@maeyojoie]

Omg the Jenn Im x Juila Fei cross over!!!! Yes

[@trippyerinsd]

That is one cute bottle of emotional support perfume for sure 😊 My sis recently did a professional mba program and absolutely loved it. Too many group projects for my taste ha but def a consideration.

[@lindaphillips8484]

You DO deserve it. It is your hard work that earned the money that purchased it and no one should guilt you about how you spend your money.

[@yinhuili]

You deserve that perfume. If that perfume helps you with your stress, then definitely enjoy it. Aroma therapy helps with the stress.

[@urpaljp]

I really appreciate these videos. It definitely is super hard finding a job right now. I would advice maybe not going into grad school unless you do have a plan for it! I'm completing my PhD in August and wish I got more industry experience. I feel that the skills I currently have are nice, but would have more success if I was already working in industry. I had a couple of interviews with companies I would like to work for, but I really bombed those behavioral interviews. But gotta stay positive (hard to do) and maybe something will come along.

[@fitfoodie5306]

Good to see content that's not pretentious and fleeting-

[@oliviahuang9499]

JULIA YOU DESERVE THE JO MALONE!!!

[@larahporter8123]

Education is always a good investment, go for it!!

[@shadowess1961]

Girl, you deserve perfume. Yes you do. Stop it and enjoy. Your stress will eventually go away when you get your job. Just enjoy smelling divine because you deserve it.

[@amartyabhattacharya]

Keep Fighting!

[@far--away...26]

OMG, I cannot believe that they are not already hiring you. You are so exceptionally smart.

[@Samantha-qs1uy]

i found your channel recently and i got accepted on my 1st job. i know it's tough but whenever i'd get rejected, i would just think that that specific job is not meant for me and there's something more suitable coming. i believe everything happens for a reason, even rejections and failures. i looove your channel and i'm so excited for your future 🫶🏼

[@filmedbytahsin]

i really love this job searching diaries 😖 here's to us landing a job we want!! I'm also debating to study post grad but the fees...

[@Yunaleeee]

Crazy how I’m looking for a tech job and KZbin recommends me to you as a way to prepare myself so crazy

[@musicgirl125]

Fellow immigrant child here. Not to discourage you from grad school, but I’m almost done with a PhD in one of the fields you mentioned and am having worse luck than you in the current job market. I think you are better positioned to land one of these roles with your existing prior experience than someone with a higher degree in the field. (Yes I have done internships etc)

[@yooroozi]

Literally went throught the same thing you are going through now. Already finished my first year masters in AI (part time). If you can afford it, it's definitely worth it for the long term.

[@yan9040]

OMG! You and Sarah Pan. I'm a fan.

[@LYL1999a]

Greetings from Taiwan! Just came across your video of the job searching series a few couple days ago, and I like them soooo much! Coz I'm also going through the job searching processes currently as well and your videos keep me company along the way and give me more courage to keep working! Hope we'll achieve our ideal self, in all aspects!

[@gobiju]

Oooh! Those hangover pills work well. Some HMarts sell them FYI :P They're either near the cashiers or sometimes stocked at customer service section!!

[@user-iq2hy4ug4y]

My name is Fei too. I’m glad to have met you.

[@rainerk.8554]

Going back to grad school could be very exhausting. I have a full-time job as a team lead, and I am currently doing a further education on Saturdays. My exams are due in November and December, and I cannot wait to leave them behind and have my full weekend back.

[@YKMonica]

You made this video during job searching. For me I couldn’t do it, I’m pretty sure you deserved $125❤ And thank you for sharing your honest feelings💓

[@mariatiscareno50]

Hi Julia. One comment: yes, you deserve the recent purchase ❤️ easy for me to type but don't be so hard on yourself 😎 you are a Rockstar! Keep on keeping on! You got this 💪🏽 see you next time 😉

[@luisvillarrealr]

looove your vids!!!!!!!!!

[@jonatasvieira3032]

Julião, two things: 1 - We are together. I'm also thinking about going back to grad school and a very anxious person like you; 2 - Sorry. I know you are struggling with this job thing but my wife and I are enjoying your job search and your tips. Keep up the good work! :)

[@pinkbutterflyz83]

I can't imagine a day when Julia wouldn't be on KZbin. 😢

[@kaydkaydkayd]

u absolutely deserved that perfume !!! at minimum its for the fact that u r managing to keep urself on track w ur job search ( also honestly i waste more money than that on the regular n i absolutely dont have the funds for it ☠️ )