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@littleblackbabycat3 жыл бұрын
I'm 49 and I met my amazing 59 year old partner a year ago. Best relationship I've ever had in and out of the bedroom😉💕👍
My exact age difference. I can't wait for our first date this weekend. 🙂
@lifeslessons98894 жыл бұрын
Something worth remembering... Don't bleed on those that never cut you !!
@outbackgypsy71404 жыл бұрын
I read John's books 20years ago. I'm now in my 50s in a fairly new relationship which I care about deeply and see a great future ahead and still appreciate all off his advice. Thankyou John.
@CrystalDatingCoach4 жыл бұрын
Don't give more than your getting.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@johnballard67253 жыл бұрын
Gray's first book the mars and Venus one was a real eye opener but his avalanche of books on the same theme haven't for me had the same impact.
@lifeslessons98894 жыл бұрын
It's soooo hard ! Online dating wasn't a great experience for me , I'm 59 widowed and keen to be loved and love again.
@SrayaRahmat4 жыл бұрын
Going to dancing classes such as salsa and rock and roll was a great way for me learn to drop into my feminine! It was hard at first, as I’m independent, competent, learn fast, and have natural rhythm and beat. It was difficult to allow the men (as they learn) to lead, and it took time and very conscious effort for me to soften and allow myself to be lead. 😉 I am now complimented on how easy I am to dance with and how responsive I am to their leads. 👌
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@jsmum196 Жыл бұрын
Excellent! I already do this and this confirmation is really gratifying!
@atiyehatiyeh83224 ай бұрын
Hi Michelle & Dr Gray . In 1992 when Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. I still have it. I just turned 70. Couple months ago I bought Mars and Venus on a date. It is really helped me. I recently reconnected with a childhood friend I've known since I was 5 years old. I'm really working on my feminine side
@code-522 жыл бұрын
How about telling people to just be themselves, be polite, but be your damn self.
@flolacandola93964 жыл бұрын
I will date Dr Gray anytime. He seems to know so much our feminine side.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comment Flo!
@marigoldcarter28792 жыл бұрын
Mars Venus on A Date is excellent. I lacked confidence at 70+. He gives the answers in this book ! ❤️
@Linda-eo1tc3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, when I listen to John, I feel he's describing men I don't live around. I run into many that seem ambivalent about everything.
@davidrobert95973 жыл бұрын
Hello Linda how are you doing today?
@layahails96553 жыл бұрын
I AGREE! I can't stand it when I was talking to a guy over the phone to get to know him and he only TALK and I just wanted to get off the phone and didn't care about meeting up with him after weeks of feeling that he didn't care about anything that I had to say !!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@davidrobert95973 жыл бұрын
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson Hello Michelle how are you doing today?
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
Untreated I'm really ❤❤👧👧😍😍🌷🌷
@lucysunshine28183 жыл бұрын
OMG amazing knowledge!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching Lucy and for your comments too!
@bethhardinhealing3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video and ALL your videos. I love John Gray and in the "good study" of understanding how we are all wired. I am 50 and ready for a REAL relationship in my life. I have done some BIG work around this. My block I am still in around finding love is, where? I am too sensitive and intuitive that online dating does not work for me. I am passionate about my healing work and it usually scares most men off because I am a strong woman as well as a big empath. LOL I know what my heart says and Spirit always says that HE is coming, so I am waiting in LOVE! I've cleaned up my past act and trying to stay open that the Divine will bring us a meeting. Thanks Michelle for all you do and for all you do with John, he rocks!!!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comments too Beth!
@annlaughren90602 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all your advice, Very interesting, your advice is very helpful, my husband is very scientific minded, love it, we have 4 adult kids, Your advice helps me understand my husband, I read lot of your books. learn a lot, thank you 😊
@CatherinesWay3 жыл бұрын
I tried dating again after divorce, I agree with Dr Gray in that it’s like being a teenager again (in a feelings way, not physical!) in fact, I’d say it’s worse as I think we have thoughts, perceptions etc with our experience in life. It’s really really difficult launching into dating again with everything going on at this stage of life
@evelynaolaira27523 жыл бұрын
At my age 55 I'm falling in love with LDR dating ...I don't know what's goes on on my relationship, I'm felt negativity when he's not texting me or call ,,, I love him so much but I'm not sure his feelings it's hard ,and I'm feeling hurts...
@AftabAhmedLakhani2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am interested in Dating & Friendship.
@bananka49052 жыл бұрын
@@evelynaolaira2752 this is why I wont date yet. It's because of this. The insecurity of when they stop texting or calling
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
I m single 👧👧❤❤😍😍😍🌷🌷
@evelynaolaira27523 жыл бұрын
I keep watching for Dr. John for I'm dating again ...at my age of 55
@lornahaynes78863 жыл бұрын
Another good lesson Dr John Gray ☺️ l haven't dated anyone for a long time.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Lorna!
@Lillyofthevalley2223 жыл бұрын
I haven’t watched this, but the title! What woman in her right mind would want to “date” in her 70’s and beyond!? 😂 Boy toy, friends with benefits, absolutely! But we all know ladies, your just gunna have to look after him and become his caregiver after that point. Fare enough if it’s a man that you have invested time and history with, but no way beyond that! I think the only “dating” that I would do in my 70’s would be the kind where he has his place, I have mine, his kids tend to his day to day needs and he can tend to my nighttime needs when requested! 😁
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised at how many women want to date in their 70's Cindy! People of all ages want love and companionship. You may want to watch the video too. Take care. :-)
@rcas350pilot82 жыл бұрын
And what the hell man would want to date a women in her 70s! Come on!
@pascalledouven70223 жыл бұрын
Brilliant something to write on a paper and put in at the coffee machine for example as reminder, appreciation, compliment and back to me talking
@Ancient_Pollyanna4 жыл бұрын
Tips for women? How about giving the GUYS a clue!!! By the 50s and 60s, we don't need tips. We've seen it all, already.
@CrystalDatingCoach4 жыл бұрын
Yes and no. Mr. Gray gave some Great advice that women don't follow. Chasing Men. His words "if your more interested in him than he is of you...not the right man for you"
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
This talk was for an audience of women. If you watched the full video of this talk he shares advice for men. Thanks for watching!
@CrystalDatingCoach4 жыл бұрын
Here's a clue. Have something to SAY when you take a lady on a DATE. Read up about something interesting...and share it with her. Learn to communicate.
@barbarabukovssek70623 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dr. Gray. It is farmire than only dating advises. It helped me to understand better the feminine side and the mistakes I've made in the past. Most of the not knowing this. MY deepest respect.
@davidrobert95973 жыл бұрын
Hello Barbara how are you doing today?
@deborahholroyd64953 жыл бұрын
I'm going to look into John's books, widow now for 7 years, independent as well, but it seems when I do these basic things, like show my appreciation or say That's a great idea..fly's right over their head..🤔 Confused..and I'm 63..years young..
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
If you're dating Mars Venus on A Date would be a great place to start! Good luck and thanks for watching Deborah!
@davidrobert95973 жыл бұрын
Hello Barbara how are you doing today?
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
I like u really 🌷🌷🌷🌷👧👧👧👧 I love u ❤❤😍😍 I m single I meet u really
@jennifersepkins32582 жыл бұрын
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@roseb.71043 жыл бұрын
Hello Dr. GRAY , I'M A SENIOR LADY, I LOST MY HUSBAND 4 AND A HALF YEARS AGO. I'M JUST LOOKING FOR A FRIEND RIGHT NOW, BUT HAVEN'T HAD MUCH LUCK, MAYBE I DON'T GO OUT MUCH.
@roseb.71043 жыл бұрын
@Davis Willis Just Friends, Nothing Else.
@roseb.71042 жыл бұрын
@Davis Willis if You are REAL AND HONEST MAN, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO ESTABLISH OTHER MEANS OF COMMUNICATION. I'M NOT GOING INTO WHAT'S APP OR WHATEVER ELSE. AND JUST SO YOU KNOW. I DON'T HAVE MONEY TO SEND ANYONE.
@roseb.71042 жыл бұрын
@Davis Willis Silence speaks LOUDER THAN Words
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
@@roseb.7104 hello how are you I m really also honest and seriouse man I m looking best friend sharing with me life i m seriouse .. do u 👫friendship👫 with me I m wait 🌹🌹
@RandyTorok Жыл бұрын
Hello,I am Dr Randy Torok,how are you doing? I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don’t mind, I am from Washington DC and I live in Washington USA and was born in Denmark and I will be glad to hear back from you
@SashaSamara4 жыл бұрын
My ex didn't want to listen to me, he was totally uninterested in all things I wanted to tell him.
@screentake012 жыл бұрын
Yep, Sasha, that's why he's your Ex.
@Nwenglandr2 жыл бұрын
Frustrating part of looking for a good man after 50 is how many men think they deserve a younger woman- 30s and 40s. God forbid they date someone who offers what they offer in age. It’s hard to see so many mid life crisis + men. To say that we should go with a man that’s less interesting to me initially?? It’s unfair that women have had the reputation of being more complicated. Sorry to sound so negative but it is frustrating coming from a laid back and kind, (humbly) attractive woman who has seen the worst out there. That said.. I am still not giving up hope. I do listen to these videos and do my best to take it all in respectfully. I appreciate the input and honesty at the same time.
@glenncuthbertson9643 жыл бұрын
I think internet dating ruined my marriage, although I do acknowledge there were problems in the relationship prior to me leaving a 20 plus year relationship. Unfortunately, I felt bogged down by the burden of responsibility of a long term marriage and escaped to searching for women on online dating sites, (just curious). Then secretly started "going on dates" which eventually ended the marriage, and broke the kids hearts.
@W42PZ2 жыл бұрын
You didn’t have to look….. 🙄
@bananka49052 жыл бұрын
Once you've been bitten that's it. Marriage over
@jsmum196 Жыл бұрын
Cheating and lying is always distructive...to your children for life.
@lavenderkisses9461 Жыл бұрын
You’re blaming Internet dating sites for you “looking “ for available women?
@tainahollo85672 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, it is like teen years again!
@karladoane73234 жыл бұрын
I kind of agree with you Flo. Very interesting. Glad to hear I'm doing it a right. Yeah he's right my mom said ask him lots of questions but I realized guys don't like lots of questions it makes them feel like they're being interrogated they will divulge what they want to divulge yetI do ask some stuff otherwise you can feel like they're just in for it for the bang. Dr. Gray is definitely right. Going back into the dating scene at 64years old and now 70 nothing has changed since high school girls or guys. That's what keeps us Young. It does take the yin and the Yang to help balance out what nature starts taking away from us ie hormones yet there are things to help with that and I don't mean the medical pharmaceutical stuff but there are herbs and such it can help boost ones desired hormone deficit. And that's one of the reasons why the male-female relationship is so necessary as we age as sex is the best way to get it all back in order. Supply and demand
@lucilayvonnepadilla67273 жыл бұрын
I'm 63 a divorce women 15 years divorce im very shy person, but I love dance Latino music how to found someone whit also taste for the music and be a very romantic person same time, never drink, smoke sometimes.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Good luck Lucila! I hope you find a wonderful man who treats you well and wants to dance with you too! Take care and thanks for watching!
@FLAMENCODELACOSTA2 жыл бұрын
I’m 68, I find that most men in my age range are just plain lazy. And some comments are rights. One person mentioned the health factor. And add to that statistics that show the ratio of men to women. There are more women aggressively chasing me than there were 15 years ago. AND most of these men are looking over my shoulder to see if so e young thing is coming around the corner! It’s frustrating!!!
@annmalone82082 жыл бұрын
wait i'm confused I'm supposed to talk more and he less? I am introverted and am very comfortable with silence. What do I do in this instance?
@mickcantana18303 жыл бұрын
He hit the nail on the head with respect to postmenopausal women being high testosterone and more on the masculine side. Totally disagree that men want to be used as tools. Perhaps that's why the quality ones gravitate towards younger women.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
I think you may be right. Thanks for watching Mick!
@screentake012 жыл бұрын
And you don't think that the younger women are using the men older than them as tools?
@laura28423 жыл бұрын
sometimes I feel I talk too much!!!! oooooh dear
@vegaschick4eva5903 жыл бұрын
Men over 50 libido is low & now everything has reversed! After 30 things changed for me. I need a very young Man 😂--Not to mention things have changed with them as years pass. & I’m not talking about after 50 either. As the years pass & im not really sure when it starts bc I’m not out there experiencing men but they are not as hard down there either !! I had sex when my ‘first’ when I was 38 & he’s 7 years older & he still had high sex drive evidently but wasn’t the same I had experienced when I was with him from 19 - 27!!! I was in SHOCK! Of course I didn’t say anything but I did not know these things happen . They R not as ROCK HARD! 😂
@jerrypeukert57323 жыл бұрын
Hey now, don't label all of us as limp weaklings 😉
@joycelachman36513 жыл бұрын
@@jerrypeukert5732 Haha
@JM-yf5rt3 жыл бұрын
😄 I know! And many older men chase younger women and these older men CANNOT "put it down like that" even for the average woman closer to their ages. But for some reason, they BELIEVE their own hype. Then, the woman, particularly the younger one, usually has to go find her a younger guy to mess around with on the side, who can really "get his rocks off" so that it will be worth her while. 🙊 😄
@vegaschick4eva5903 жыл бұрын
@@jerrypeukert5732 Well, that was.my experience & I have heard men talk that their sex drive isn’t as high . As I said it has reversed BC I know for myself & most girls aren’t really into sex in their 20s. I think it also has to do with the fact we aren’t confident about our bodies , our sexuality as far as feeling free to enjoy it. All I know is after I hit 30 things changed & the older I get the MORE I WANT & NEED!! 😂
@RandyTorok Жыл бұрын
Hello, how are you doing? I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don’t mind, I am from Washington DC and I live in Washington USA and was born in Denmark and I will be glad to hear back from you
@pascalledouven62382 жыл бұрын
I met a man who came out off a reltionship from 20 years 6 monthts ago , after a beautyfull date with connection and being open and vunarable as well This man pulls back day after Kind off panic ; is still in proces feeling guilt towards his 3 sons ( failed ) How do i be femenin , give him space and take it slowly Are these good ideas ? Tips are so welcome in this We do like each other very much , but he is still in processing his devorse as well Could that work out
@keepmyexpectationsongodnot40393 жыл бұрын
That's the beauty of my remarkable gentleman.He is truly a good listner, he understands me more than I understand myself and more importantly He loves me. He is the right one the right person for me.❤️ I love loving you my love❤️ I love you crazy fool❤️ I love you SAAD =ABDULLAH ❤️ MANY THANKS ❤️👍
@TheSunshinefee3 жыл бұрын
'let him pay for the date' what if you live in a country where men always want to go Dutch unless you are a striking beauty and young (which the majority isn't)
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for sharing too! Good luck!
@johnballard67253 жыл бұрын
If he offers to pay gratefully and graciously accept his offer,if he doesn't just go Dutch?!
@clairefoxall23134 жыл бұрын
Im not a talker.... really shy as a child. My parents didn't/still don't talk much ☹️ am I doomed ? 😁
@Catherine_Kate4 жыл бұрын
Not at all! Just make sure you’re vulnerable when you do speak.
@CrystalDatingCoach4 жыл бұрын
Not all men love talkers...but you must learn to have a conversation. In other words. Don't bore him. 😉
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@davidrobert95973 жыл бұрын
Hello Claire how are you doing today?
@doveleboeuf66253 жыл бұрын
I like men younger than me so I just do without!!! Older men I've found are not as much fun in the bedroom!!! So I guess I'll die alone!! Lol
@tazaratsarina94454 жыл бұрын
👍🙏❤️
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@wish44694 жыл бұрын
What if he's cheap and only expects you to come to his place and never actually takes you out on dates?
@amandak27634 жыл бұрын
Dump him and find a better one.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
That doesn't seem like a good sign. Have you talked to him about taking you out on dates? Good luck and thanks for watching!
@traceyking72994 жыл бұрын
Get rid and replace!!
@wish44694 жыл бұрын
DONE!!! ♥️
@lucilayvonnepadilla67273 жыл бұрын
Yea definely, a men that it's not gentlemen, it's a looser, better to be alone.