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[@campervibe]

Having known you two for quite sometime we can honestly say that between the pair of you, you’ll kick the crap out of it! Right behind you both. 💪❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

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[@LoremIpsum1970]

You truly are the loveliest ladies in a van ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Hencourt]

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[@shareenw3]

Blessings to you guys also - so glad for your friendship and support of John & Mandy. Agree with you 💯- they will kick the crap out of this beast! 🤗

[@junerobinson8169]

Hi, Emily and Lou, i am so pleased that you were both there when Mandy received her sad news and John

[@stephenrussell6074]

Hi John and Mandy I worked for over 36 years at The Christie hospital in Manchester as a medical physicist. It is a cancer only hospital and so every patient there over all that time was in some way going what Mandy is going through now. It is really important that you take the doctors and care specialists advice and follow your treatment and care regimes rigorously, try and link up with the groups that the hospital will give you leaflets on. However it is also really important that you don’t let the cancer eat up the rest of your life. In so far as your health will allow outside of the treatments and diagnostics get out and do all the normal things you do, continue to live, distract yourself from your own mind which can be cruel, think about and do other things together. None of us ever know how long we have, we could not wake up the next day. The cancer was there before you knew about it, you were living just fine, don’t let the knowledge that allows you to treat it become the knowledge that hurts you more than the cancer itself. The treatments get better every year so what allowed someone to survive 10 years in 2014 which we would only know about now would not be the current treatment regime. I wish you both all the strength to go through this together, cancer is a horrible word but around half of us will get it in our lifetime and it is all treatable to some extent. There are many awful illnesses for which there is no treatment and they are terminal in horrible ways. So please don’t think why me as you are in no way singled out by this prolific illness. It gets more prevalent as we cease dying early from other conditions like malaria, typhoid and cholera for example.

[@amberatartimec2564]

Well said.

[@trudysimms1564]

So eloquently put, knowledgeable and thought provoking. So very true when you actually reflect that 'it' was there initially, only actually knowing 'its' there' takes over everything else...

[@a.w.thompson4001]

Thank you, Stephen, for this valuable information and perspective!

[@ianthomason8563]

Hey you lovely people ..... I was diagnosed 12 years ago with advanced prostate cancer and here I am still alive and kicking. Please don't be angry, it did nothing for me but the love and warmth of my wife and friends made all the difference. It would seem that having a "come what may" attitude has a more positive outcome rather than fretting at every turn. Be strong and love each other well !

[@karenheron]

Oh sweetheart! I’m 54 and had cervical cancer in 2007, it’s utterly shit but doable. Huge hugs. xxx I now have terminal Ovarian cancer but am about to start a van build after watching you two! xxx

[@unadventurousmandy]

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[@shetlandsheep3081]

Karen sending hugs and empathy, I had ovarian and uterine cancer 4 years ago, it’s a sly beast. So glad to hear that you are doing the van build xxx

[@darrelltregear756]

Think of you right at this moment.

[@catwalk1958]

My heart goes out to you both sending positive vibes from Scotland.💕💕💕

[@thelmalewis7870]

Keep positive keep van building

[@SecrePeach]

Know you have 55k subscribers who are right behind you sending you both lots of love, support and healing prayers!

[@maryt2422]

Do not worry about anyone else outside your family especially us subscribers. You are brave to share what is going on to educate and enlighten. Just know we are all behind you ❤❤❤

[@evelyngorfram9306]

My mom had a stage 4 melanoma, at the age of 50. She died 44 years later, at the age of 94, and not from cancer. She got through, and I hope & believe that you will too. Sending love and courage, to both of you, in spades.

[@jean9919]

Mandy, I am not sure when this was filmed and if you still have a few days to go before you get home but have you thought of phoning the MacMillan nurse at the hospital to discuss your worries and questions. They are amazing and will be a huge help and support, especially in your situation. Just ask the switchboard to put you through to the MacMillan nurse for the gynae department. It’s a lonely time without someone to lean on and they will be there for both of you. Best wishes and stay strong.

[@andreaprocter48]

I got diagnosed with breast cancer in October 2022 and still going through treatment. Been through chemotherapy, an operation, radiotherapy and now on immunotherapy. The decision to not Google anything is honestly the best thing I ever did. My sister did and she was on top of that. Your treatment plan will be unique to you. People will tell you about when they had cancer but it really is unique. Go with the advice of the doctors and be kind to yourself. Yes I felt fine and thought I could not possibly have cancer. I still find it hard to believe that I have gone through what I have. People are so kind and you will really find who your friends are. Wishing you all the best but you will get through this. In my thoughts ❤❤❤

[@johnmandy]

Thank you for sharing your story, I’m so sorry your battle is still ongoing ❤️

[@andreaprocter48]

@@johnmandy I remember having the same feelings that you are having now. It is a real rollercoaster with severe highs and lows but you can get through this. Onwards and upwards xx

[@isobelchapman9548]

Dearest folk, you’re both very much in our thoughts and hearts and prayers at this time. Mandy, I know, only too well, the shock of a cancer diagnosis….those sleepless nights and anger, it’s all in the mix. You’ve got each other , you’ve got a lovely wee family and you’ve got the support of many many friends. Please hold onto those things in your darkest moments. God bless you both xx

[@richt71]

Hi guys. I'm sorry to hear of Mandy's diagnosis. I volunteer for Maggie's Cancer support charity. They have centres attached to many hospitals up and down the UK. I strongly suggest dropping in as they will support both of you at this time. They offer advice as well. Maybe just have a cuppa and biscuit and chat with others on the same situation. Hoping for your prompt recovery.

[@awchapel]

Keeping everything crossed for you Mandy xx

[@gaz1226-j2x]

Guys I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. Together you can beat this. My wife is 4 years in remission now, the only advice I’d give you is PLEASE don’t Google things just support each other and let the NHS do their thing.❤❤ God bless.

[@junerobinson8169]

I don’t know what to say, I am just so so sorry for you both, especially Mandy. Just sat watching and crying with you both. Stay strong and remember you’re loved so very much. Thank you Emily and Louise for being there ..we follow them as well Keep your chin up , sending love and hugs

[@KarlHobson2113]

I had cancer in 2013, they kept discribing it as 'Agressive'. When I was told it was hectic. The fire alarm went off at the hospital, it was evacuated, and I was trying to take in the news I had just been given. I had so many questions, just take one day at a time, don't worry about other people, and look after yourself. I'm cancer free now and I'm sure you will be too. Big Love

[@goldensunproductions]

Oh Mandy and John, huge hugs to you both. You’ve got a huge support behind you ❤️ kick it’s arse Mandy! ❤️

[@ckh7719]

Dear, dear John & Mandy... wrapping you in light and love as you face this. You've got this!!! Much love from St. Augustine, FL USA

[@alicowls1605]

I think everyone that follows you is sending you love and best wishes. There are no words any of us can give you to lesson the pain and distress you are currently in. You are in a position where you have no plan and not all the answers, and that’s what you both need. Drive safely back home, sending you, your family love and best wishes. Xxx

[@jrtfan5463]

The anger is understandable, I wasn’t angry at anyone in particular, just angry that it had happened. I still remember the numbness, the time standing still, having to stop working until after treatment. In that area I was lucky, it was caught early, so surgery was all that was required and they got it all with the first operation. Even after the treatment, you will need just as much support, because you no longer have the distraction of planning things around consultations and scans. You have a lot of time with just you and your thoughts. Its been over 2 years since my diagnosis and every once in a while, I find myself back in that moment when I was told. But I have done so much since then also. So when you get through it all, don’t feel too bad when you have to just let time stand still for a day or two to recharge. I have faith you will get through this. ❤

[@unadventurousmandy]

❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for sharing

[@Chris_Carini]

Empathy guys ... get treated, rest and recover. Forget the fighting talk, it is about rest and recover! Thinking of you both. 💪❤

[@ChrissyX-zp5rl]

Sending positive thoughts to you both ,you’re such a together couple big hugs to you both ❤

[@cclose8007]

Sending you so much love and healing wishes. Good to have a Google filter well done John x you guys are the best and we believe in you both so much ❤

[@LifeistooshortCK]

Terrible news for you both, your family and friends. We hope that your treatment is fast and effective and you can get back to normality asap❤

[@yellownev]

Phew… some absolutely understandable raw emotions. Holding you both in our thoughts. It’s inspiring that despite this news you are thinking of others in sharing asking others to be aware of not just accepting our body’s changes. Not a great journey but one that together you are stronger and you are a great support network to each other. Hope you get back soon and the NHS does what it does best.

[@RobandLynnontour]

Sending you both lots of love from both of us, think of you, and Mandy …. You CAN BEAT THIS XXXXX.

[@claireb5083]

Oh no poor Mandy! Sending you both huge hug’s 🙏🏼 😘

[@janesmart1188]

Stay strong and positive both of you.

[@RollingwithTheRobsons]

Sending massive love. Of all the YT people I have ever met you were some of the most welcoming and down-to-earth people. From the moment I met you two I felt accepted. I always love that about your channel that you put being real first before anything else. Take Care.

[@pepsimum100]

You've got this Mandy. One of the strongest women I've ever known. Your a fighter and you have an amazing man next to you. We are lucky to have an amazing NHS who will look after you both. Take care and I send you big hugs.xx

[@johnray1075]

Oh mandy I'm so sorry to hear your news,my heart goes out to you both,just hope your home soon to get it sorted, I'm not going to tell you not to try to worry because you will all I can say is cancer treatment has come on leaps and bounds in the last decade . My prostrate cancer was cured.4 years ago. Good luck to you x

[@traceyneedham3718]

Mandy I send you a virtual hug at the difficult time for you. I am the over thinking in my relationship and my partner has gone through cancer treatment as well. xx💓❤️

[@CuzzyWuzzy]

Hugs and love all round. thank you for sharing in this very personal and emtional time. My thoughts are with you both. All positive vibes sent your way. Modern medicine and medical practices are amazing. Ive been reading what others have said in the comments and they have some great advice, be sure to take some of it guys, its easy to feel overwelmed and alone at this time, support eachother and give yourselves opportunities to enjoy time with family and friends. Mandy, you and John will beat this together. You are both amazing. X

[@shareenw3]

Many blessings to you both!!! Thoughts and prayers with you!!!❤

[@richardheasman]

As I've said on Mandy's channel, Love and prayers for you both, not sure what to say even though we have experienced the same turmoil... take care x

[@wheresmomdad3884]

Mandy my heart goes out to you, I know how lonely and worrying 4am can be when you are going through the uncertainty of a cancer diagnosis and John, I feel your pain, I watched my husband go through exactly the same feelings. I hope I can share some hope - 8 years after surgery, chemotherapy, immunotherapy and radiotherapy I am here, healthy and making the most of every day. Stay positive and have faith in the fantastic treatments that are available. Sending you lots of love and all the strength I can muster - stay strong and believe in the positive xx

[@feralfreebirds]

you'll be good Mandy...sending love to ya both...keep looking at the positives, despite what people say - WE HAVE AN AMAZING HEALTH SYSTEM and people get thru every day ...xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx i had cervical cancer 30yrs ago, removed and all good xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[@tonyflanagan5682]

Hope things go well folks 🙏🙏xx

[@andrebernhardson1308]

Love your channel and your personalities! I hope with all my heart you will get through this in the best possible way ❤

[@SolihullSarah72]

I've had cancer twice now. Stay positive! More people survive than don't. Brighter days will come ❤

[@picking4profit]

This is the hardest point for you, the waiting room, not knowing the full picture so to speak; I know as I was diagnosed with breast cancer over 12 years ago, also had precancerous cervical cells before that. Take one day at a time and breathe, it is scary, but you will get through this. My thoughts are with you both and I wish you well.

[@daphnesamworth7824]

This must have been a very difficult session for you to film. Thank you. God bless you both

[@carolinebutterworth5563]

Aww Mandy I’m so so sorry, but as someone said this is the hardest part once you get a treatment plan and get your head right, you are such a strong woman. Sending love and strength x

[@lyndamiller2623]

I was beginning to get really worried as we’d not heard from you Mandy, and the dreaded c word was on my mind…this bit is so hard, right at the beginning when your head is spinning or ready to explode. I had stage 3 bowel cancer 11 yrs ago, and chemotherapy, it’s a day by day thing, it’s too overwhelming otherwise. Love to you both, I just wish I could help in some way 🙏❤️❤️

[@richardmoses2105]

Sending huge love and best wishes. Our son was diagnosed with bowel cancer when he was just four and our world fell apart. He’s now 26 and I still remember the torrid time you go through at this stage of diagnosis. Stay strong; dig deep, you’ve got this guys ❤

[@LindaKing-h7x]

I am so sorry to hear your news. Once the NHS picks you up and takes you through this journey you will feel less anxious. I had cancer 7 years ago and understand the fear of that demon sitting on your shoulder. One big thing I learnt is that sadly cancer is a well trodden path and as such the NHS will steer you through. Better as are to come, you will beat this. Your resilience and love will carry you through. Sending positive thoughts and stay strong

[@superdog1947]

Sending Best wishes to you both and everything goes ok for your treatment Mandy.Always followed your vlogs from early days and met you both at Greg Virgo’s leaving do.Keep strong for each other Guys !

[@Sue_T]

So sorry to hear this horrible news, so brave of you to make this video with it being so raw ❤ Stay strong you are awesome Mandy, with so much love surrounding you. Sending love and positive thoughts as you both face another unexpected and difficult time. ❤️

[@traceye2388]

Hi Mandy & John, you guys are strong and together you can do this, I was 27 years old when I was told that I was between stage 3 and 4 of Cervical cancer, I had to have a total hysterectomy, which threw me straight into menopause but anyway I'm 56 now, it is so important ladies to get regular checks, i know some of these tests are not nice, the doctors and nurses are very understanding, I understand your frustration, I have been there myself, and found it very easy to overthink things, anyway guys sorry for waffling, I'm right there with you, healings to you both, hang in there x

[@frivoloustofrugal]

Every stage of what I have just watched takes me back to just under 2 years ago, when we were six months away from quitting our jobs and doing van life/ moving to portugal to suddenly get the shell shock news that my partner had cancer. I didn't even go to the bloody appointment with him because the specialist who suggested he get his 'lump' checked out said 1 in 20 is cancer so we were totally expecting no issues. He was in total shock when he walked in to what he thought would be a straightforward appointment to discuss getting this benign lump removed to find a macmillan nurse there. Blindsided. So, I totally understand where both your heads are right now. All I can say is it gets a little easier once you have more information - waiting for that information is torture. Wishing you all the best you will get through this with the love of your family and friends. We are out the other side and now sat in portugal :):) xx

[@traceyabbott193]

On no poor Mandy , love to you both Xxx

[@hazelclarke8237]

Hi there, I’ve been following you two for a couple of years now and that was a very hard watch. All the very best to you both, think positive. Hx

[@ant300c3]

Hi. So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. You will be in good hands at Christie’s hospital. My mum has been in and out of there since her diagnosis a few years ago and she won’t have a bad word said about them (unlike some hospitals she has been in). Best thoughts and wishes to you both, stay strong. There is a light,don’t lose focus on it.

[@ebh246]

Sending lots of good wishes to you both and especially to Mandy. xx

[@sharoncrawford01]

I'm so very sorry to hear this Mandy and John, my heart goes out to you both, as well as to your families and loved ones who will be going through this too, in their own ways. I am so glad you were with Em and Lou at the time you found out, and had such strong, supportive friends to give you the love and some laughs that you needed at the time. I am sending you both so much love and hope for this next stage, praying that all goes well.

[@sandraashby9804]

Much love and best wishes for your diagnosis. Your a strong couple you’ll get through this together xxx

[@janl7552]

Oh bless you Mandy… my heart goes out to you. My darling partner Chris was diagnosed with cancer only 4 years into our relationship. We were both so scared. The treatment was successful and we went on have another 31 happy years together. There have been so many excellent developments in cancer treatments since then, so there are good reasons to stay positive (easier said than done, I know). Thinking of you and sending you love and the biggest hugs as you face this… sending love & hugs to John too. xxxx

[@bobtaylor2278]

Thinking of the two of you, and sending big hugs and kisses..Get this little glitch beat and get back on those fantastic travels, Can’t wait to catch up on those reports from the Sun. All our love from Up North…

[@davidmbell]

Sending Mandy all our best wishes and hope the treatment is successful. Hugs to John too of course, sharing this journey and supporting Mandy. Look after yourself too John.

[@dawnlowe7054]

Sorry to hear your news Mandy. I was told that I had finished the menopause. Then was still bleeding so went to my gynacologist who sent me for a scan then I was referred to a gynacologist surgeon who did a D&C. I was to go back to him in 4 weeks but he called me in and I was told I had stage 4 endometrial cancer. Straight away had a full hysterectomy with everything taken away; ovaries, fallopian tubes, cervix. Then chemo and radiotherapy. Treatment finished December 2022 and have a blood test and check up every 4 months for the first 2 years with an annual scan, then after October it will go to every 6 months. It was a huge shock for me and hubby Steve. Take all the love and support you can as you will need it. Be strong through the ups and the downs ( you will have them) but you can beat this. Sending love

[@spudbrook5760]

Sending hugs and positive thoughts, lots of love Allison and Chris x

[@ItsOnlyMe13]

Sending you both hugs and prayers of support. Lean into your family to hold you when things get tough and take advantage all the assistance you can to get thought this. ❤️❤️❤️

[@johndebsconnolly1550]

We are absolutely gutted to hear your news - such a shock for you both and for your daughter and for all of us who follow you. I’ve been crying with you 😢 The hardest part for you is the not knowing exact where you’re at with it all - we really feel for you having to drive back home with all this worry. We have never met you but we absolutely love watching your vlogs and we subscribe to Mandy’s channel too. You both are so lovely and genuine and our hearts go out to you ❤❤. Take good care driving home and good luck with the next stage of your treatment - we’ll be keeping everything crossed for you. Much love, John & Debs xx 😘😘

[@simonlees7031]

Hi guys, our love goes out to you both, love from france

[@lazylad8544]

Good luck mandy and john. Hope everything goes ok. Stay positive. Wishing you all the best.

[@peterlawley9876]

Just remember you are strong, you will get through this, and I'm sure all your subscribers are sending you all the love and hope needed. All the best x

[@nigelbailey2665]

Hi John & Mandy. With tears in my eyes I write. Mandy I wish you the best luck possible to fully overcome this. John will also need support at times to keep strong for you. I have been treated at The Christie for Melanoma. A couple of operations later and a course of treatment life goes on for me and the wife. Still able to go away in the Motorhome which we both dearly love. The Christie has made me feel really safe, the staff and support goes beyond words to describe. When I was first ‘told’ numb is a great word to describe your feelings. For me the situation was overtaken by determination, which makes such a difference. Yes those numb days will come and go. John I am sure will keep it under control! Bye for now Nigel & Glynis Bailey

[@shareenw3]

Thank you so much for sharing - seeing you both in such pain is heart wrenching. I am just so thankful that you were bleeding and that made you go to the doctor and that enabled them to find this - hopefully very early. So many cancers are very treatable and this is one of them. Praying for your peace and rest during this stressful time, safe travels back to UK, quick and uncomplicated treatment, and full recovery! We all love you and you owe us nothing, but we feel so blessed to be included. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@martin1698]

Watching you 2 talking about this was wanderfull. But watching you both holding hand and washing fingers means you both love each other Best Regards Martin

[@diannemclellan3250]

I have just watched both your videos I was so sorry to hear your news Mandy it's going to be a fight but I am sure with John your Daughter family & Friends you will kick cancers Ass you are strong thank you for sharing your journey ❤️ From Dianne Australia

[@MATS_MAKERSPACE]

Mandy I'm so so sorry to hear this, you deal with it the best way you can. And John I know how important it is for you to you to be as informed as possible to help Mandy both physically and mentally I also know that puts massive pressure on your shoulders but that's what we do for the people we love isn't it mate. Will keep you both in my thoughts daily

[@ricraw30]

Hope everything works out ok for you, wishing you all the best xx

[@gallivantingglovers9347]

I was 17 when my father was diagnosed with cancer. Keep your family and friends around you and focus on yourselves. KZbin will always be here and so will your followers. Anger is a natural part of the process. Sending healing thoughts and strength to you both. -Amber

[@sketchingheather]

Sending you both love and sympathies at this difficult time.

[@jillgreen9503]

Sending all my love to you mandy and John. I wish you the very best . You are strong and you will fight this xxx

[@fernaut]

Take good care John and Mandy. Sending positive thoughts ❤

[@samjames1656]

Thanks

[@tobydenn670]

Mandy, we’re thinking of you both and wishing you the best.. we saw you briefly in Canterbury park and ride and wanted to say hi and how inspiring you’ve both been for us…. Sending you all our love and positivity xxx

[@BetsyBlueCamper]

Hey lovely guys, as a retired doctor, positivity all the way. It should be on the prescription. Seen it many times and it works wonders. We are all behind you sending positive vibes. Mandy you can do this and we are all in the van life community with you. xxx

[@stephaniehenderson6631]

So sorry to hear the gut wrenching news, you must be so worried. I hope the rest of the journey goes smoothly and the tests get done promptly, letting you know where you are at and exactly what you are dealing with in terms of surgery and further treatment. Love and hugs to you both xx

[@libellula3313]

Sending enveloping love and positive vibes to you from the south of France. You probably passed me twice! You'll kick this, take care, much love. Jo in France 🇫🇷 xx

[@mike987646]

Sending all the hope and love .stay strong and amazing x x

[@kenalmen1547]

I have just come through prostate cancer and feel for the two of you. My partner gave me so much help and support during my time going through the radiotherapy. I am sure the two of you will get through it as well. All the best for the future Ken xxxx

[@KarenHT397]

Thank you for sharing and all the very best for the future

[@janeburgoine216]

Take comfort from all these supportive messages. Wishing you well Mandy. You have the best support in John and your special friends. Xx

[@johnnewnes2739]

So sorry to hear your news, really hope the outcome will be good . God Bless

[@Raf-zu5le]

Ah bless you both - thank goodness you're one tough cookie Mandy, you will smash it. Be thinking about you both x

[@philsagar2373]

so hard to watch this guys without being emotional, so can only begin to imagine how your both feeling, you have lots of amazing friends and family so lean on them when you need it, praying for you both , keep each other safe. love to you both. x

[@raydavies9443]

All the very best to you both and everybody that,s got to know you our thoughts and best wish;s hopefully will help you through this traumatic time.❤xx

[@carolynandcocohaywood2638]

Hi Mandy and John, Mandy I’m sending love and best wishes for you to kick the hell out of this horrible disease. ❤❤ People that care about you will understand that you have so much to cope with at the moment. Unfortunately I had a similar situation, the NHS said there was nothing wrong with me. I went private and they found a tumor ( the private surgeon looked at the same MRI scans that NHS did, go figure on that ), I had surgery within weeks. Take Mandy and John.

[@georgegraham3342]

Hi John & Mandy Haven’t caught up with you for a while, and now this bad news! Only at 9:00 min, but just had to let you know - surround yourselves with POSITIVE thoughts and experiences from others. Last year I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and immediately thought of my wife’s positive experiences. 50 years ago as a young woman she had cervical cancer and came through that well. About 26 years ago she had cancer of the uterus and not only survived the hysterectomy but is still with me! Thanks to my positive experiences through her success I have come through radiation and currently on hormone treatment, with a POSITIVE outcome ahead! Get angry at the situation and a system that may not always function as it should, read up on treatments and what you can reasonably do to improve your health and stamina and how to adapt to possible outcomes - but keep POSITIVE in your thoughts and interactions with each other. Be SUPPORTIVE of each other. Cheers, George

[@Frenchliving]

I think that was the hardest thumbs up I have ever had to give. I’m a C Survivor. Utterly shit but as another has said, doable, even when times I thought it wasn’t … here I am. Sending you my grit, determination and positive healing vibes. ❤ As with all your followers … I’m just here ❤

[@helen9528]

Mandy turn to Jesus, he will walk you through this, praying for your healing and your salvation, the blessed assurance of God in the centre.

[@tracysconce772]

As a nurse, I admire your honesty and openness. You are brave and inspirational and sharing really does help for you and those who support your journey. When you have the full picture of all your results, you will feel much better and in control. The truth is always easier to manage than the unknown. Take care and keep living life as best you can.

[@tess3914]

Sending you everything positive I know of so many good n happy! outcomes🥰a little comfort right now I know but thinking about you and hope the clouds of uncertainty soon clear and all will be well much love to you both😘😘❤❤️

[@roberthardy2013]

Cancer treatments are hugely better than they were even a few years ago. I’m living with prostate cancer and it ain’t fun at times but just go with the flow of things and the best of luck for the future Mandy. I will say from my own experiences that being positive and trying to be around positive people is better ! I know you don’t feel like it at the moment but it helps. I will be willing to bet that you have loads of years annoying John yet. My wife died six months ago, very suddenly, of a cardiac arrest but she was fitter than me and had absolutely no symptoms whatsoever. Now she is not here I suddenly feel loads older than my 76 years and have many more aches and pains for no apparent reason but I have to keep going for the kids sakes. I have a fantastic support group because of being part of my local Lions group and that has helped tremendously. I agree with the sharing thing, so many people I know were in denial about prostate cancer, as in “it will never happen to me” but talking about it ALWAYS helps. Here’s to the future girl.

[@andyturner2046]

Stay strong you guys. A tough period to go through. Wishing you a safe journey and recovery

[@benmillin5782]

Hi Mandy. I've been watching you and John for a year or so, and one thing that strikes me is how strong you are. If anyone is going to beat this, you will. I wish you and John the very best.

[@markfranklin4150]

God bless Mandy. Sending you massive hugs. You have this, you can do this. Such an amazing person. You have John and support from family and friends.

[@viv-i-vangoesforth]

I don't know what to say about this video. Its just brought back so many memories about my mum and her cancer. I'm really upset for you both and I don't mind saying I've shed a couple or three of tears. Guys, to hell with the channel/content/videos. To hell with saying sorry about not letting subscribers know. YOU are the most important person Mandy and not this channel. Just get the treatment, get yourself back to normal and dont worry anything else. Chin up Mandy and grasp that Mancunian grit and fight like you never fought before. My Mum didn't fight. She just gave up and I spent each day knowing that if she'd seen about treatment she might still be here. You are made of stronger stuff Mandy. You will win. John, I know you'll be Mandy's rock no matter how hard and upsetting it is and I know from my own experience that finding the right words of support to say each day is the most diffiult thing. I'm thnking of you both, I'm sending you both all my love. Look after each other. I love you guys to bits . Much respect❤🙏-Kenny

[@arthurhoare9597]

Feel for you both, my thoughts are with you. Good luck and best wishes. You are both being so brave to continue your channel. The NHS doctors and nurses are the best. Again good luck you are in my thoughts. Big hugs to both of you.

[@avislivingston8946]

Don’t worry about anyone but yourself put yourself first and take care I am helping me friend at the moment she is having her 4th chemo on Thursday it’s about 8 hours every 3 weeks just take all the time you need and you have John and your family best wishes xx