Jon & Kate "ugly moments" from season 4 (part 3 of 6)

[@AmandaHW1984]

Kate: You would miss me! Jon: Yeah like a toothache! 😂

[@tonyaloper722]

People watch this just to hate her! Honestly thats why i watch it to see how ridiculous she is behaving and talking all crazy!

[@FacebookQueen]

More like a heart attack 😂

[@Alexis_005]

That’s very passive aggressive

[@jackdavion8782]

I realize Im pretty off topic but does anybody know of a good website to watch new series online ?

[@johnsmi213]

It's obvious he really couldn't stand her but because they were married and had eight kids together and were on a TV series, it hadn't occurred to him not to tolerate her yet.

[@mackenzieduranduran3479]

Now that I look back at these episodes. I see how unhappy John was with her. And tbh she seems VERY annoying to be around. She needs to losen up.

[@NicoleBentley-xv5il]

Smoke weed she's acting crazier now

[@lang-ed3bk]

kate always corrects jon or makes him seem like he's stupid or a child she sighed and said he talks too much but it seems like she's the one that talks too much

[@erk44]

When someone corrects your grammar all the time ya....i dated someone once with horrible english skills. Im glad it ended because i personally find it draining to have to correct someone all the time. Kate seems to like bossing people i personally find it a pain. I dont like it at all.

[@erk44]

@Honeysuckle Blossom sounds like my kids dad. Geez he was stupid. A lot of what he said made zero sense. I tried to be as reasonable as i could with the bloke but he never was reasonable or responsible. He would make jon look good by far. For that reason we are not together anymore. I dont think i was like kate. I wasnt THAT nitpicky. She really put it in overdrive

[@tiffanykershpalmer2143]

lang 1007 sure so let a grown ass adult continue to talk incorrectly and sound stupid. Okay I see exactly how you think lol

[@kaylamesser5733]

@@erk44 I assure you that he's probably extremely happy to be away from you if you were making him feel like shit everytime he said something wrong. So he probably considers himself the lucky one too. I'm totally not trying to be a bitch. You're a beautiful woman but was it neccessary to constantly degraded him. I don't know your exact situation but do you think maybe you could've been easier on him about certain things???

[@angiedoe9915]

She says he rambles,what about her,she always cuts him off and talks over him,I'm surprised he stayed with her as long as he did lol

[@lanna7917]

I just cannot imagine what the tv crew witnessed(as far as the constant belittling,bossing,nagging of Jon) that didn't make it on the show, what a tell all book that would be.

[@rebeccamace1534]

lanna I thought that as soon as I started watching.. I would have called CPS on that psycho bitch

[@notafan6]

"Kate +8 = hate." Lol

[@ashleyworden1887]

I would read that!

[@clarissarodriguez29]

They manipulate all the drama.

[@cathymcdonell7605]

I'm sure that had to signa gag order not say anything, but wait till all kids turn 21 , I'm sure stories will come out. And the twins are hearing stories now that their not under mama roof

[@malajm84]

No one should have this much footage of you abusing your spouse ...this is sickening to watch

[@RachelXKnight666]

Life by Design and the fact is so many of the “parts” have been removed

[@jszoradi8650]

Yes I'm starting to think that as well. Jon is an abused spouse and pussy-whipped. Kate is constantly belittling him and this is only on camera. I can't imagine off camera! 😟

[@sounds0fmeows]

if it were the other way around- everyone would be furious. but since its the guy getting mentally abused and put down nobody cared. at the end everyone still painted jon as the bad guy despite having all this footage

[@lindisamathabela3192]

​@@sounds0fmeowsHave you not read the comments?

[@flower9973]

Kate is so demeaning to everyone. “I" and “you” and corrects every sentence. She is so narcissistic.

[@catlady3147]

Typical narcissistic behavior. She's a classic case. No man will ever have her.

[@dezaray2518]

She corrects everyone's grammar yet in the intro of the show she says, "It's are life." Correction KATE, "It's OUR life." Now it will drive you crazy each time you hear it. ♥️✌️

[@elizabeth3064]

Agree. Whenever she talks it makes me cringe

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

typical narcissistic behavior

[@devilishly0angelic]

when i watched this show i thought their behavior towards each other was normal because my parents acted similarly. a few years later my parents got divorced too lmao

[@marialoudis1905]

I have to give her credit. Other shows where there are multiples, the parents have a lot of help. With the exception of one helper, this lady pretty much does it all herself. Inevibably, there are going to be times that her nerves can only take so much. She's only human.

[@devilishly0angelic]

Maria Loudis i agree but she treats jon like a dog

[@levinmoser4001]

Maria Loudis Don't let those cameras fool you. That bitch had every one helping her! People from the neighborhood volunteered time to help her before she got the show. Why do you think those kids know the names of the production crew. They helped too.

[@robynodea6489]

J q

[@christinab.2864]

Have you seen the recent news?

[@colleenjohnstoncomedy3036]

I’ll confess I went to Kate’s book signing before they were divorced and she was so rude. She rolled her eyes at people. Why in the world does she have fans ?

[@ddiruscio01]

Colleen Anne Johnston so u actually bought one of her fucking books!!

[@sonjamomberger556]

She needs help

[@elizabeth3064]

She doesn’t have fans anymore now that the truth has come out

[@richknee9636]

@@elizabeth3064 what's the truth?

[@elizabeth3064]

MA Scratcher the truth is that Kate had a gag order on Jon for 10 years. He wasn’t allowed legally to talk to the media for all of this time in regards to anything that had happened.

[@nellyparidise]

I remember wjen I used to watch this when I was younger and my mom would always go "she's so mean to her husband" and I would be like know she's not. Years later I'm grown. Momma was right😂😂😂

[@kirafaith8581]

Similar situation, my mom always hated her and I never understood until I obviously got older lol

[@leahsincelejo7641]

@@kirafaith8581 I noticed her controlling behavior but clearly it was more than overbearing. She was disrespectful.

[@rellegirl100]

I’d read a book called “How to not be Kate” just to make sure I’m not even a little bit Kate.

[@christinab.2864]

Interesting that you bring that up because I think the tell all book from the kids is being written up

[@Alexis_005]

Has anyone wrote a book about how not to be like Hitler for men? Why do people assume women do what other women do just because they are women 🙄

[@jz8112]

I wonder how many times she woke up in the middle of the night, rolled over and criticized him for the way he was sleeping.

[@ciasays77]

😂😂😂

[@robloxvids2233]

Lolll

[@spitfirestake54]

Why hasn’t Jon ever yelled to Kate “Who tf do you think you’re talking to??!!” She talked to this man like he was a child.

[@mOnika-pt6vk]

She'd spin it into him being abusive towards her, and not a reaction to how she treated him.

[@gracesuderman5716]

Because the media would come after him

[@mOnika-pt6vk]

@@gracesuderman5716 The media has been coming after him since his split with Kate. I can't imagine how they would paint him if he would yell back at her. They would call him an abusive husband whom abandoned his kids, and Kate would have been painted as a victim.

[@shannonsmith2642]

I think he finally did that and then they got divorced. He finally got sick of the terrible treatment from her.

[@Doodlecream]

I hate how she treated the kids like they were a burden. No one forced you to have 8 children you signed up for this, you shouldn’t make their existence miserable because you made the wrong choice.

[@emilymarie6329]

well actually she didn’t plan on having 8 kids! she had the twins mady and cara, then she wanted just one more but couldn’t get pregnant so she used invitro or whatever it’s called to help you, and she ended up pregnant with 8 instead of 1!

[@vanessamartin5515]

Yeah but when people think of multiples they think of two not six.

[@Mikazzz_4u]

@@emilymarie6329she got pregnant with 6 the second time

[@aWorkerThatCared]

@@emilymarie6329 yea I always thought the doctor's ethics should have been looked into with implanting that many eggs because she wasn't old at the time

[@heidig.296]

Jon deserves a damn medal!!

[@tumelomothoa2860]

Heidi G. Yep for perseverance

[@CC-mr5xq]

He deserves a medal for not killing her.

[@imbroken3860]

@@CC-mr5xq she reminds me of a woman who WAS murdered. Always talking to her husband like he is stupid.

[@McCool80]

If he had gone full Jodi Arias on her...I would've totally understand why

[@rustymertz]

We would have made a great widower 15 years ago.

[@emwinnie5663]

Kate says keep your hands to yourself yet she always hits Jon. Hypocrite.

[@mintyshake6121]

Kate constantly interrupts Jon. Jesus Christ, it always has to be about her.

[@PrincessMeganElsaBoo]

Minty Shake She A Bitch!

[@dsmith7684]

Minty Shake it's the NPD

[@lizmowrey9866]

Yep

[@privateinformation394]

Shut up

[@graceallen880]

"you would miss me" "Yeah, like a toothache" ..He's not wrong

[@rosecole3007]

Kate wanted all these kids " but got others too support them with a reality show and a luxurious life style..Kate's still not happy unless a camera is on her and she s complaining how hard her life is !! Either by going on other shows about her kids her bills no one understands her but herself..Even being a nurse at one time she shows no compassion Its all about her!!

[@sejbomb]

Kate just loves the sound of her own voice, thinks she’s right on everything and above everyone else. She’s psycho.

[@pikhatu]

As much as Kate annoys me, when I see her trying to be affectionate towards Jon, I feel bad. I feel as though she knows that Jon is really fed up with her but she's just so stressed out and knows that she's losing his affection each time she opens her mouth.

[@yanlin3255]

[@jessicacammarata841]

p2kh3pn She completely asked for it! I don't know any man that gets emasculated and criticised constantly want to be affectionate with his other half. She asked for it. There is literally not one show that she doesn't put him down calling his fat and stupid...in front of their children no less. I have no empathy for her. She made her bed.

[@jenessajackson7858]

Who cares johns a crybaby

[@gemimibutterfly1768]

I get being stressed out....but man she's brutal, he's her whipping boy.

[@PrincessMeganElsaBoo]

p2kh3pn never liked kate

[@elizabethr5788]

When she hits him and then says “I’m a girl.” Disgusting behavior. Smh.

[@RainsFloodGate]

I can only imagine what she would do if he grabbed her face in the middle of an interview to force words to come from her mouth like she does to him. He is practically a saint with the restraint he held.

[@LaraCroftEyes1]

Fiver simple words she would call the cops.

[@jeannestevenson8286]

Kate needs a time-out. she should never had that many kids. she can't cope with them all.

[@intothemystic5223]

The fact that there's so many parts of this says a lot

[@DNiceKing]

Kate the narcissist always treated Collin horrible.

[@GeriatricHippo]

Kate was so bad she drove Jon into a midlife crisis at 32. Glad he finished that and came out on the other side. I feel that he has grown a great since then with an actual job and another relationship. He appears to have a happy life with Hannah and Colin. Everything that still eludes Kate.

[@mlsi]

gosh, kate is crazy. there is NO reason to criticize or humiliate your spouse over stupid stuff like saying "kids' our age". she doesn't respect her husband or the kids. it's always my way or the highway. and kate you're right. gosh.

[@OphanielH]

I have never seen Collin acting bad. He was literally such a good baby and little boy

[@janellestuckey8477]

This serves Kate right. She wanted the cameras there all the time. Look what they caught.

[@janina873]

Janelle Stuckey Thing is though I bet she wouldn’t admit she’s in the wrong in any of the clips. She’ll justify all her behavior as someone else’s fault

[@ricanqueen3083]

I remember how they made his life a living hell when he left.. Poor guy.. Watching these now I totally understand why he just needed out!! She nagged him to death about EVERYTHING & belittled everything he said and did, even with his own children. Miserable woman and why have so many kids if your nerves can't handle it?

[@bridgetdrummond1721]

Jon initially did not want more children after the twins. Kate nagged and talked him into "one more".

[@CC-mr5xq]

“Get off me!” when she’s touching his face lol.

[@oOkaBi]

How are you going to take very young kids on vacation, sit by a pool, and tell them they aren't allowed to play in it??

[@aptharsia]

Poor Colin. I wanted to pick him up and give him a hug. So sad.

[@raimeyewens2879]

This is with the cameras there watching. Can you imagine how she was when they were gone?😳

[@helenmartin2557]

She treated Jon so badly. She didn't deserve his love. She has been alone and is still alone in raising the children because of how she treats people. Its very sad. But why are most of the children out of contact with Jon?

[@kalicat6232]

The whole show was ‘ugly moments’. Makes me wonder about us in the 2000’s - between this and Gordon Ramsay screaming at everyone. No wonder why we don’t have cable anymore.

[@PrefersToBeAnonToday]

Watching this woman inspired me. I am vowing to never complain again if this is what I look like to others when I’m doing it.

[@elizabethheckler]

Omg Kate is everyone’s nightmare. I can’t stand listening to her belittle Jon constantly.

[@DreamBigJilly]

Yes. Don't do that. Lol

[@rgalang74]

I think maddy will turn into kate .

[@needinobaysus3037]

rgalang74 except not as evil lookin

[@ashleywinter209]

Same

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

yes

[@kelseyg0420]

“day after day of that child” .... yep that’s what having kids is like . ? wtf

[@kickinitwithjess]

"you'd miss me" "yeah, like a toothache" I gotta use that onexD!

[@ray_ayy]

“You’re supposed to be the leader in our family” *has massive control issues*

[@roseacresfarmily]

Kate to Jon: "The point here is we don't hit!!" Then she hits Jon on his head and acts like it's ok because she's a girl. She expected the children to act grown and Jon to turn a blind eye to her unbelievably childish behavior!!

[@anybodysguess960]

im getting casey anthony vibes

[@cate00149]

Personally, I don't see either of them as innocent in this. Kate could have been less controlling and cold, and jon could have been more helpless and certainly committed, they both contributed to it

[@bobbyjohnson3190]

cate00149 a

[@victorpablo4367]

He was helpless. You mean helpful

[@sabrinatwigg1966]

The only fault Jon has in this is he married her narcissistic a** in the first place. I'm SURE there were red ags during that time. Other then that, she was the total monster not him!

[@bridgetdrummond1721]

I think Jon was running in circles doing everything he possibly could to help. The problem is when you are with a narcissist, you will never be on the winning end.

[@preyes90]

Sometimes she teases him like a little school girl with a crush and he’s just so over it

[@leslieludwick1321]

Kate and her “big words” trying to belittle her husband and the audience is a BIG fail. Anyone in her presence has to be mega exhausting.

[@salpine]

It's so great when Jon or the kids are stubborn or resistant to Kate's overbearing, narcissistic control. It's her kryptonite and renders her powerless.

[@jadayoung329]

I see why John got a divorce. I'm sure he can be himself and be happy now in 2019.

[@LaraCroftEyes1]

It was Kate who asks for the divorce when Jon quit and wanted their children off the show cause it was putting a strain on their marriage and their children weren't happy filming all the time.

[@Rawsclaws]

Kate micro manages everything Jon says!! Goodness!

[@ginawhittaker2585]

She is such a control freak, I can’t stand it. Also why does she keep telling John he rambles when he’s just talking normal. And all she ever does is correct him, I can’t believe he didn’t leave sooner

[@MiniVlogs]

When Jon compares her to a tooth ache lmao

[@cassygoertzen]

She’s way worse than a toothache lmao

[@VerifiedFiveIron]

I didn't fully appreciate what henpecked meant until I saw this train wreck.

[@_thatgirlcailen]

Whenever he got excited about something and tried to talk about it she would say he rambled… that really did break my heart for him.

[@anonymousandcool]

"..get off me..." feel the love. Naw.. it's over.

[@erk44]

Ya i cant recall a man ever saying that to me. Its not a good sign

[@ColleenTempleart]

Kate is 100% motivated by money and that’s the only reason she had so many kids! Tragic.

[@shastachilds8766]

Kate made having that many children 100x worse then it even needed to be

[@triciac1019]

Kate is so condescending and vicious. Those poor kids and Jon.

[@libbyiscreepin]

It’s sad seeing moments where they’re kinda smiling and joking with each other because there probably was a love there at one point but that quickly died. She’s fucking brutal 😩

[@annat4208]

Kate was raised by wolves.

[@Joy-ne8sj]

Anna Troup Or the Devil

[@faithdiaz01]

That's insulting to wolves.

[@cjmanowski3790]

When will Kate understand that Maddie learned her bad attitude from her. Maddie and her siblings had to hear their mother scream and degrade them and their father every single day. Kate you really need physiological help.

[@_thatgirlcailen]

Every chance she got to put him down she did.. honestly really sad

[@jameslisicky]

I hope the kids who don’t talk to John watch these videos and see how abusive she was to him

[@lisamaguire4049]

She is way beyond annoying. I give Jon so much credit for dealing with her for even 1 minute

[@Amber-cz7pu]

Kate is in CONSTANT spazz mode!!

[@hekaersa]

Two verses come to mind. "It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife." - Proverbs 25:24 "A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike." - Proverbs 27:15

[@Mya.Griffin]

Jon seem really fed up this season like you could he was about to give up her which is understandable especially in the first two episodes

[@KykyDJenkins]

Her: You would miss me Him: Yeah, like a toothache Me: damn. Imma keep that one

[@ad8554]

Notice how she puts her hand on Jon's shoulder but he doesn't even want to touch her. He meant it when he said get off me and he'd miss her like a tooth ache lol

[@rustymertz]

I’ve been in a relationship similar to this. Once you finally escape, you have PTSD and the very thought of them make you sick to your stomach.

[@devilannegmailcom]

Wow, she truly is a mean woman.

[@mirandamaye3875]

What’s With the Sending Colin to Bed in the middle of the day whenever she doesn’t feel like dealing With him???

[@lmg521]

Miranda Maye narcissistic parents typically have a scapegoat child the pick to act out on

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

yes

[@led4131]

All of the women in my family are this way. They criticize the men for not being more involved...but then don’t allow them to be involved or make any decisions.

[@Chrispycombo]

Kate should change her name to Karen

[@proud2beanana25]

WOW!! Now I see why Jon left her!! I personally wouldn't stick around either just to be criticised all the time!! It's pathetic the way Kate treats Jon...like a child, and she has more than enough children to be treating her husband!! Smdh

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

jodi rodriguez no one likes to be criticised all the time whether they are adults or children. Both need encouragement and acknowledgement that one is at least trying. And that is what kate lacked here. No wonder jon left, and her kids, as soon as they turn 18, they will leave as well

[@Supersoccerchic]

@@pallavisreetambraparni6995 They won't. The four children that still live with her as well as the twins will take her side because that's what they did. It's so sad, especially considering how close Aaden and Joel were to Jon when they were younger.

[@salazarroy21]

She just f***** in the head. tense watching these videos now just looking back at these clips oh my God I think I need to see counseling too.

[@Angelina-ye8yg]

Kate is a pure mean nasty brat with no respect to her husband, always bossing and putting him down, I'm so glade he finally escaped the evil women. I hope he has a really happy life.

[@bebe2973]

"If you get one bit of wet, you're in bed" who the FFFFFF says that to a kid? Who punishes kids for being kids. Oh yeah Kate (Joan Crawford) Gosselin!!

[@grannymarg55]

Kate is terrible to Jon. She talks down to him with so much negativity. Shes like a drill sargent to Jon and the kids, her way or no way.

[@carlasantisteban3802]

Of course she’s never going to say “ I was wrong!”

[@leejavier4729]

Jon deserved husband of the year and the decade. And should be nominated for husband of the century.

[@michiganmom857]

She’s your child Kate, imagine hearing your mother speak about you like that? You are awful to your children.

[@rebeccamace1534]

She hit him... if that was reversed and he had hit her that would have caused a media firestorm and she would have pressed charges. She caused him pain and he expresses that. Then she physically covered his mouth when he spoke. That’s abuse

[@Bee-lieve623]

2:20 WTF?! You're talking to a grown man! Not one of your kids!

[@Audioobscure]

those kids need a hug. kate thinks theyre disgusting.

[@dawnforcier2294]

Man if she grabbed my face all the time like that I'd knock her out smh he needs to grow a pair

[@jszoradi8650]

Can you imagine what life was like for Jon "OFF CAMERA"? Kate is not equipped for having a spouse. Maybe they had an ok solid marriage before the kids I don't know but something happened that let it get to her head.😩

[@sandegilbert]

I could never watch a whole season because of Kate’s abrasiveness. I got on my nerves so bad I would change the channel.

[@candacegutherie]

sande gilbert yes I tried to give it a go as it was such a popular show and I was bored one afternoon. And honestly Kate gave me the chills, I wanted to throw a shoe at my tv and prayed to my child that I’d never be like Kate! And I couldn’t even get through some of the episodes. Don’t know how people thought she was a god

[@michillene]

She treated Jon like one of the kids...No respect for him whatsoever.

[@Enoughalready20237]

He rambles so much because he said a tent would be nice in the wilderness. She’s nuts.

[@isabellavalencia8026]

They had no business having the 6 babies!!!

[@peggysullivan5396]

They don’t stop ! Constant hate back and forth

[@shananalexander9789]

Gawd!!! She is so cruel to him.

[@abigailabigail8423]

Bruh she literally hit him on national television wtf

[@greydovegardens7688]

I hope the kids now that they are adults can see how toxic and abusive she was. She cut the children off from his family, her family, and then Jon. Evil, evil woman. Unfortunately, they probably don't even realize how brainwashed they are. Poor Collin got the brunt of the abuse after Jon left. I understand why he checked out of that horrific marriage but he should have never left the kids in her care knowing what a narcissist she is.

[@lookItUp91]

The cameras were the reason for the divorce. Kate felt the need to always look perfect for the cams instead of working on being a loving wife.

[@EllipFlx]

She even tries controlling how he tells stories...omg .. its crazy

[@690169016901]

Anyone notice how she asks questions then answers herself? Has to control everyone. No wonder Jon needed therapy. That women is a wrecking machine.

[@saralittle1823]

She's just plain mean

[@ricanqueen3083]

She hits him and then says "Oh I'm a girl " so u can't hit back.. Yea right and I bet she raised those girls the same way.. You hit, you get hit back, keep your hands to yourself! That's what you teach your kids Looney! No wonder that man took off and no wonder she is single af till this day and obsessed with her kids.. 🤷🤦💆

[@kristenglenn7026]

I can’t imagine though how difficult it would be to have & raise this many children!

[@kaylamesser5733]

Kate had/has ZERO respect for John and says some very degrading things to him. I only have three kids but both my husband and I work full time and he’s a resident at a hospital in the Denver area and I coach a local high schools danceline. So sometimes it’s very stressful but we don’t act like these two. love my husband to much and respect him to much to speak to him in such a deeming manner. We just don’t speak to each other like that. We disagree and argue just like any couple but we don’t take it to a level of complete disrespect. We’ve been together 10 years and he has never called me a bad name at least not to my face lol......and I haven’t called him a bad name......not to his face either lmao......sometimes I mumble under my breath and I’m sure he does too. I’m so thankful for him and all he does for our family. I am truly blessed, I reeled in a good one ladies 😂 ok I’m rambling like I always do, my point is to be careful what you say to your partner bc words hurt and you remember the hurtful things people say to you and I think that would eventually tear a couple apart. I don’t know I’m not a marriage expert nor do I have a perfect marriage nor am I a perfect mother......I’m just thankful I’ve keep them alive and healthy as long as I have lol every year I’m like woohoo I’ve kept them alive. Moral of the story to get respect you have to give it. Treat others the way you want to be treated and most important YOU teach people how to treat you. YOU set boundaries for how people treat you and stick to it. If you let a man speak down to you and don’t address it then he will do it again. Both men and women can be in abusive relationships, it’s not just women. Some women/men only verbally abuse and that is still abuse.

[@broberts3281]

She really wanted the perfect children no messes and no fussing no normalcy

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

Well, the old saying in regards to children and how they were supposed to act" Children must be seen and not heard. " Children weren't supposed to speak unless spoken to and some people still don't understand that children are people.

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

well that doesn't work anymore. children are curious and they have inquisitive minds and they question things. it allows to broaden your thinking. think outside the box. help with decision making skills later on in life. it helps in school when the teacher calls on you and asks you to expand on your answer. it helps in so many ways. i think this is one point that kate missed.

[@pallavisreetambraparni6995]

And as for messes? well children will make messes. All you have to do is pitch in and clean the mess up. obviously kate didn't allow her kids to do any art projects because art projects use things like glue, paint, clay, glitter etc and other materials that can be messy but fun to use. And food? well every kid every now and then spills juice or milk or water or some kind of food on themselves or on the table or on the floor. we have all done it. it's part of life.