THIS Drives Him Wild In The Bedroom (Great Sex He'll Obsess Over)

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THIS Drives Him Wild In The Bedroom (Great Sex He'll Obsess Over)

[@Victoria-z8u]

I am 72 n my fiancee is 75. We have both previously been married/divorced. And I can Honestly Say, for Both of Us, we are having the Best Sex of Our Lives!!❤😊

[@eleanormartin6923]

Yes same here

[@RubGoddess]

He's 63 I'm 73 best sex ever!!!

[@LoriPHarris]

There is hope for me then! 😊

[@musicteacher4349]

you mentioned that men sometimes use women for comfort or as a therapist. How can we tell the difference between a man who is doing that or just opening up and being vulnerable with you and what’s going on in his life?

[@katrinaedwards9843]

Take your time...

[@SherriFlemming]

He will talk about himself incessantly complaining about problems expecting you to listen patiently and be sympathetic. Surface level and superficial conversations. He won't ask you much about yourself or take much interest in you. "Trauma dumping" (Therapist)

[@reginawoess4928]

Ive never been given oral

[@tinaedwards6589]

Best sexual book - Come As you are by Emily Nagoski PhD

[@daniellewegrecki8342]

My SO and I are both age 47. We have a fabulous sex life but he states quite frequently that he has a small penis. I absolutely don't think his penis is small. It is fantastic! I asked him about if a past lover told him that and he doesn't have a small "tool" and I told him that as well. Suggestions on confidencey🤷

[@Unning-w7s]

Talk about his tool and make it fun!

[@daniellewegrecki8342]

@@Unning-w7s We will have some "Tool Time"... lol 😆

[@judieddins9994]

😂 Wants sex until you die. Love your honesty Johnathon! I've always enjoyed your videos. I've been divorced for 9 years now and dated regularly, but have just now found my intellectual and sexual equal. I am 64 and he is almost 50 and we play and laugh everyday. Thank you all your great advice!

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Yes sex is part of the decision making process for marriage

[@JonathonAslay]

Indeed

[@louiseclark7967]

Great conversation, Jonathon! I'm 63, my guy is 57; both of us have been through bad divorces. We talk about EVERYTHING, from tongue or no tongue, all the way to have you ever tried anal. It is so great to have the emotional maturity to be able to discuss these things openly, and laugh about our own awkwardness! Two things I have never been able to do with previous partners, including my ex-husband. Teasing and play is a big part of our intimacy most of the time, and by intimacy, I don't mean just sex. There are so many little opportunities during the day to share loving intimacy! And just a note, the legendary G-Spot is an internal part of the clitoris! The clitoris is actually a much larger organ than the little external bud that we can see. ❤👍

[@dawncurtis3711]

Like Jonathan said, I have also heard from my ex that our intimate time was like his “home.”

[@JonathonAslay]

🏡🏡🏡

[@kristibrz2798]

My breakup was because my husband never gave up having sex with other people, both male and female! Found out after breakup!

[@nikkielliott4253]

Sex will change and differ hopefully in a long relationship thats one of the big bonuses of being with someone a long time. Knowing each others little kinks and evolving together. One of the few plusses i see in a long term permanent relationship

[@Portia620]

I see way more pluses than that. Sx is best ❤

[@DrMortezaChalak]

Totally agree most want an enthusiastic partner and they should be enthusiastic themselves

[@LyndaBustillos-dd8wd]

Size definitely matters to a lot of us women. Huge and immediate turn-off for some of us women, regardless of how skilled a man is orally. So may I suggest you make a future video about that very subject? Because I don't think you've ever made one to address how many women feel onthat subject. You'd be quite surprised, Jonathan!!

[@eleanormartin6923]

Lynda, Do you mean big is good, small isnt? For me too big is too big.

[@LyndaBustillos-dd8wd]

@eleanormartin6923 for many women like myself, absolutely! Such a turn-off to look down and see a micro junk, till it's too late! Men that are into breast size know at a glance what they're getting. Where we are clueless visually, short of asking them or feeling them out, it's hard to tell until it's too late. My point is that men should be upfront and honest early on, especially a man sporting a micro junk! imo.

[@Unning-w7s]

It definitely would be interesting!

[@Portia620]

I’d like to hear that chat! I only knew one man bad at oral !! Why don’t men learn more like women!!! Podcast and KZbin! No excuses!

[@naddyn685]

Great discussion! You have the courage to speak about tricky and real subjects. Well done

[@JonathonAslay]

WOW, thanks 😊

[@Unning-w7s]

We should all be comfortable talking about sexuality

[@RubGoddess]

It's never to late to balance hormones, homeopathic HGH testosterone etc great libido at 73💃🏼🎉

[@DrFertilityGoddess]

Dating a man who turns feedback into criticism. His mom has stage 4 cancer. I'm not sure if he's emotionally Immature or emotionally unavailable due to his circumstances. Sometimes everything I say is wrong even though I come from good intentions, vulnerability and integrity. Aka he's not the right person. How do I sensitively exit the relationship?

[@JonathonAslay]

I can talk to him on your behalf... lol 😆

[@DrFertilityGoddess]

@@JonathonAslay 🤣 invoice me?

[@gloriabirnbaum6424]

I dated a fellow a few times..after he did a huge repair for me in my entrance to my home, I did invite him to stay .. He had a teeny weenie something like a small zucchini..could not function .. Turn off with no sex to look forward to except one-sided Had to delete from my life..perhaps if other things measured up to my specs, I would have considered him..

[@sandrablake2362]

Yes, I can say I have had one man I dated in my late 30’s who I dated said” IT FELT LIKE HOME”😉👍🏻👏.

[@cathyannhill8024]

I love this topic! I’m an older single female who wants a wonderful companion partner to share my happiness with. Sex is a great relief, reduces stress and another way of caring about one another. I am an attentive lover and am a good and understanding person. Getting older has its own challenges and why not share this with someone you can trust with your heart, soul and body. In appreciation of this post Jonathon. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@margaretcampbell2681]

I love the Gottmans

[@JonathonAslay]

Me too

[@daniellewegrecki8342]

Thank you for covering this topic in its entirety. This is a concern for many but almost taboo to converse about. We need to know how to make improvements in our sex lives and to open up, listen and "hear" your partner it makes all the difference. Thanks again 😁

[@Unning-w7s]

I do agree that it is almost tabu, but in today’s day and age it should not be

[@a.s.6748]

Met an old friend new. Perfect, we both can talk for hours and especially feel comfortable to talk about sex, our experiences, our wishes and our fears around that topic, which we could not in previous relationships. That IS the best ! It is exciting but, at the same time, it is THE most important ability to keep a relationship working. More important than having sex, is being able to talk about it, bc it helps surrender every possible problem around this topic and then doing it even better ! Totally agree.

[@reginawoess4928]

Im thinking now i should just go for casual relationship and forget long tern for now anyway

[@kyliecumming905]

Everything is great yet he still feels the need to go and leave after selling his house and getting a desire in the unknown of what he needs he however we’re connected both emotionally and psychically. I’m so hurt and I don’t understand why

[@kathleenday-guidry551]

Yes it is resonating with me!

[@JonathonAslay]

So glad!

[@RaysOfSunshine-uw2sc]

I can't have sex due to I was kicked in between my legs by one of my ex in the past. Later on , i had cancer in my vagina. I no longer have cancer at the present but, I still can't have sex. My loss:-(

[@Unning-w7s]

Sorry to hear what happened, but you survived cancer, yay!

[@RubGoddess]

How sad but yes you're here!

[@RaysOfSunshine-uw2sc]

@@Unning-w7s you're absolutely right

[@RaysOfSunshine-uw2sc]

@@RubGoddess I had a difficult time but, I managed to pull through. With the help of the Lord being by my side, I made it!

[@Christina528-b6h]

Ooh this was a spicy one! Love the shirt, perfect color for this subject! Glad to know ive been doing all the right things! 😁

[@JonathonAslay]

You're the best!

[@Christina528-b6h]

@JonathonAslay thank you! so are you! 🤗

[@dianehoverson8409]

PLease don't sing QandA

[@pamwatkins4855]

Feel better,after your talk,amen😊

[@lynne22]

Great session Jonathon. It’s nice hearing how men see things. Thank you.

[@JonathonAslay]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@rox-annerhodes168]

Thanks Jonathan for your juicy delicious... content‼️😜😎

[@JonathonAslay]

My pleasure!!

[@TH-eb5ro]

Men are getting ED earlier and earlier which is sad, among my friends every single time the ED was related to poor health and so I've learned that is the first thing to get checked. Eating healthy, lifestyle changes can really help. It has been some time Jonathon, glad your video popped into my feed. Do you think easy access to porn has impacted this relationship?

[@briankaos2654]

I work with a guy that when he was younger he used the blue pill and other things for ED . and didn't need to. When it came time in his later yrs. They didn't work for him. Long story short, he now has a pump up penis implant 😅

[@reginawoess4928]

Question; What is they are emotionally immature out of bed and have bad communication skills?

[@reginawoess4928]

True we should enjoy each other and i too like the affection that goes with it but i alsoo like lot of affection out of the bedroom plus how women are treated out of bed gets them ready but some men dont get that as they can be ready in the blink of an eye

[@nikkielliott4253]

Everyone is too different in bed so yes definitely a conversation and a repeated one. Im happier discussing sex in my relationship than i am money or logistics. Definitely says something about me.

[@reginawoess4928]

I will say what i want from intamacy too not shy about that

[@Kitten_Mittons]

Anyone know a sex expert in the Vegas area lol

[@JonathonAslay]

Google perhaps?

[@Kitten_Mittons]

@@JonathonAslay it took me a long time to locate one then I lost the info

[@janetcarrier313]

Jonathan, this show was really interesting. Thank you for talking about sex candidly. You are a good example of how emotionally mature people should conversate.

[@Unning-w7s]

Exactly!

[@reginawoess4928]

Thank you for this info

[@reginawoess4928]

Yes resenating and ty

[@reginawoess4928]

Women in our late 50’s sometimes also are taught to be more shy about sex but if your aware you can change that thinking and let go tell what they want and ask what he wants

[@Unning-w7s]

I agree

[@rox-annerhodes168]

QUESTION: What day and time do you go Live please? So I can put it in my calendar! For some reason I can't find that info listed. So many notification bells… I want to catch you Live, you rock...! Thanks 🫶🏼

[@JonathonAslay]

I'll be out of town next week but my lives are Monday, Tuesday and Thursday at 4:50pm.PST. next one Thursday 10/3 oh, also Saturday's at 8am PST

[@rox-annerhodes168]

@@JonathonAslay 💜Thank you‼️💜

[@nikkielliott4253]

Something is bugging me about your dating profile jonathan even though you think it's perfect. Empty nester? Your writing yourself in the younger women market. Why is that? Some may only have 1 child with 50/50 parenting. It's like you only want the old grannies which may have adult children that are very difficult. Who knows? Your search is very narrow.

[@JonathonAslay]

Actually, I seek someone close to my age vs younger.

[@Unning-w7s]

Grannies🤔 lol

[@susanharrie3326]

❤

[@katrinaedwards9843]

So how long does it take to build the deep roots of trust???

[@JonathonAslay]

It depends on how vulnerable, authentic, and transparent a person is...

[@lorihorsley1370]

My relationship with my boyfriend of 4 yrs is about to end due to sexual problems, I’m 62 he’s 67 and still has a strong need for sex has no ED problems , I’m not really very interested any more and do it to keep him happy , but if I reject him he gets angry and causes big arguments about all sort of things, he’s very insecure and gets jealous and throws all sorts of stuff at me , he Dosnt trust me , I have done nothing behind his back with anyone . We are trying to get to get into counseling too But have to wait 16 weeks, I’m not sure we can last that long , we are at crisis point . We live in Australia 🇦🇺.

[@RubGoddess]

He may be a narcissist

[@SiylaHannant]

14:57 Can't find the "Coming" book on Amazon or Ebay here in the UK. Do you have an author name? X x

[@JonathonAslay]

Author Paul Williams also wrote Das Energi