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Painful Ways Men (over 40) Use Women {Reality Check WARNING}

[@dianedorney5147]

A woman married or not should always have their own money....my father's advice to me....I took it...enabled me to divorce 30 yrs later....

[@JonathonAslay]

Agreed...

[@Portia620]

Men don’t like that so shhhh😂😂😂 it can be an issue!

[@AlleyezOnme-se4lv]

I'ma have my money and his money...Anything he gives me is a bonus. Females like you don't know your worth and settle for less because a real man's job is to " Provide and Protect"

[@brendabright49]

All of this describes my last relationship. 9 years 3 of it married. Never again 😊

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@AlleyezOnme-se4lv]

You on it Johnathon..I look for all these signs because I will turn it into a situationship or make them pay to be in my presence if they don't step up to the plate. I told him last week I'm not going to be a secret ...He told me he will bring his daughter to meet me next week. I've already met his mom, dad and sister

[@LR-dm8wp]

🍂🗣️WELL SAID JONATHAN. A RELATIONSHIP WILL ONLY LAST AS LONG AS BOTH PEOPLE CONTINUE PUTTING THE NECESSARY EFFORT INTO IT.

[@Alfa88888]

Thank you . „My” man got 9/13 points . I have enough . Thanks for waking me up .

[@JonathonAslay]

Great job!

[@coach_amy]

Or said another way, "He doesn't see you and doesn't value who you are." I would love for you to do a deep dive video about when men actually see and really like who a person is. What are the signs? So many people focus on the romantic or fun things a guy does (a user can do those things). But what about when a man really respects and adores the unique person he is involved with? That really can't be faked, right?

[@maryblue75]

Yes yes

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Intuition is important

[@HerbalistintheHood369]

Whenever reality steps in it may be seen as pessimistic… that’s too bad because it pulls us back down to earth and grounds us in the true facts of a situation. Many of us have our heads and hearts high up in illusion and fantasy and the bare bones of reality is just too unbearable to fathom.

[@pixie3458]

Really enjoy your podcasts Jonathan! Even when you are ranting a bit.. It expresses what we feel but struggle to say out loud!

[@JonathonAslay]

I appreciate that!

[@pixie3458]

Men who even have their own place, but wants to move in with you.. Big red user flag!

[@debraharmon1244]

So true! LV prices for Dollar Tree merchandise. Be aware out there!

[@marykarle3997]

Yeah, if you don’t “put out”, you get dumped like a piece of trash…no thanx, I’ll stay celibate and alone…your loss buddy!

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Hurt people do hurt others

[@Portia620]

Be nice! 😂😂

[@margaretcampbell2681]

@@Portia620 What are you on about? It’s true

[@juliefrecker3811]

Yes Matthew Hussey is good says same thing you just said about f w b

[@juliefrecker3811]

Well said Jonathon!

[@lrcnew7061]

Hi Jonathan. I was watching a very, very interesting discussion on the various stages chemicals react when people meet. I thought you may find it interesting and informative. How can I send you the info?

[@JonathonAslay]

[e-mail]

[@PurpleChurchMouse]

Thank you. So necessary, but ouch.

[@marybeeler501]

No sleep with or talk to anybody else

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes

[@eleanormartin6923]

What do you mean Mary? Over men?

[@dianedorney5147]

Break up time he sees other women

[@JonathonAslay]

?

[@SherriFlemming]

Indeed.

[@ellamorani5327]

The taste of power is addictiv !

[@Portia620]

Being single and having your own money is addictive no doubt !!

[@Portia620]

Build empires and help humanity! Leave the men that get intimidated behind!

[@reneesampson6566]

Ding ding ding!

[@marybeeler501]

Yeah no

[@JonathonAslay]

?

[@spark967]

Did you get married yet? I haven’t come across you in awhile

[@JonathonAslay]

No. She ended it

[@DonnaFerrell-hs4vz]

❤

[@linedancing]

what advice can you give me for asking a guy acquaintance at the gym to meet for coffee without sounding desperate

[@Sherry-p6l]

Smile and just ask

[@JonathonAslay]

You seem interesting. Would you like to join me for coffee sometime?

[@JonathonAslay]

Exactly... that's not desperate.

[@Sherry-p6l]

@@linedancing Jonathan, that’s very sweet that you are asking her for coffee. Hope she says yes.🤞

[@NewsAddict18]

Honey, there’s no way for a woman to ask a man out without seeming desperate.

[@CatherineInColorado]

In to me you see ❤

[@brenda_rosa]

This video has a ton of synchronicity in it to exactly what I've been onto lately, Like I could have hurt people right back that played jealousy games, But I wasn't willing to use another person to do it and then have to deal with yet another wrong person for me. People were good at yanking my chain and got pride from it, But what upset me was never the reason they tried to upset me, It was the fact I could see exactly what they were doing and I wasn't doing anything to deserve it besides not going along with something that wasn't making logical or clear sense. Then, I have been saying that I don't want someone acting like we are in the 1950's with these double standards because it reminds me of men that beat the crap out of women, children, and animals. People that are "fantasizing" about the past are forgetting the less desirable parts of the past, I had both my eyes beat at three years old and all the police did was take photos of my face and tell the abuser not to do it anymore. Every generation has had it's good and bad things, I'd say sex by the third date ruined men my age to where if you aren't that fast because you actually CARE they'll take that as a rejection of them and then humiliate and reject you for it, Not realizing your waiting is what they SHOULD have loved about you, and then if they do get what they want too fast you get to hear that sex isn't love after all. Things have been made so that you can't win for losing and all because some people are simply spoiled for immediate gratification while also feeling that something is missing, Yet they'll turn around and get upset at the very people trying to correct these issues.

[@Portia620]

Not everything in the past is bad!! We need morals back. We need integrity and authenticity and no play-- as that is when morals went to heck and people became used as objects and if anything women being abused has increased not decreased from what I’m seeing and even children being abused

[@Portia620]

I do agree with being intimate too soon or too late! You’re right about that!

[@brenda_rosa]

@@Portia620 You must have missed the " Every generation has had its good and bad things." Morals and values need to increase, yes. Abuse was simply hidden, that's what helped in bringing the morals and values down to the level they are now, Because many people have been so abused that sure it's increased now, along with trauma and needing to escape narcissistic family members ect, It's been normalized for "generations", Watch some videos of people leaving behind their narcissistic families, Many are in their 50's and 60's, That says right there this is not any all of the sudden thing, It's been a hidden thing for too long.

[@Streighton]

11:35 Intimacy = Into-you-I-see

[@susanharrie3326]

❤

[@JonathonAslay]

❤️