What’s the Most Effective Way of Overcoming Self-Deception? | Q&A 06-17-2021 | Jordan B. Peterson

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[@sumnertano]

0:36 What's the most effective of overcoming self-deception? 9:15 As a woman I have fantasies about bad boys. Is this something I need to mature out of or realize in my sex life in different ways? 14:21 What did I teach my children about sex? Is there a healthy middle ground for them without being naively celibate or damagingly promiscuous, and how did you communicate that? 21:26 As it pertains to beauty standards, do you think that progressive social pressure can overcome what appears to be our ingrained attraction to, for example, physical markers for biological health? 28:15 I am worried I will never find love. What do I do? 30:32 I'm having a hard time discipling myself. I particularly struggle to establish a schedule. How did you make a schedule so that many of your highest goals can be attained? I know that you have talked about making a schedule on many occasions, but I would like a look inside your schedule from a time that you think was your prime. 40:24 How do I know if I'm a good or a bad person? I struggle with viewing myself as a good human being who deserves good things in return even though I try my best to be decent and add light into this world in a multitude of ways. What are some steps to take in order to become better than the person I was in the past? 45:55 I'm 40 but I feel like a child watching everyone around me get older and die. So I'm homesick for the past instead of accepting the terrifying present. How can I stop mourning the past? 49:41 What's your advice to someone who took your "Understand Myself" test and scored 0 on agreeableness, but still recognizes the need to collaborate with many people? 55:38 I'm 25. I had a drug problem when I was young in my late teens and early 20's. I stole money on multiple occasions. I don't even know who some of those people I stole from are and can't repay them. However, given the instances where I could apologize or repay I feel completely unable to; I'm too ashamed. This bothers me all of the time. I can't sleep or do anything. I really hate myself. I think that I'm a rotten person and don't know how to handle it. Do you have any advice for this? 1:00:58 Why do we need to contemplate our own malevolence? What if you get stuck in it? How do you move forward after becoming aware of it, especially if you have actually done something bad (not speaking of criminally here) 1:08:10 You spoke once about going into the deep to save your father but I never knew my father at all, so who is it that I am saving? 1:10:43 Does life have meaning without God? Can life be meaningful without God and without eternity? 1:14:29 As an art student, I wonder how to create a poetic piece deeply storied and metaphoric without becoming a piece of propaganda. I feel like trying too hard to create a meaningful and poetic piece often results in the creation of something rife with bias and ideology. However letting my unconscious take full control creates what seems like an empty and uninteresting piece. Is there a method to control that chaos without corrupting its meaning while still expressing it poetically? For the time being, I decided to concentrate on learning good technique. 1:18:54 Is there a way we can reach people who are controlled by ideology? If schools are bent on teaching CRT and other Marxist-inspired doctrines, how can we turn the tide? 1:21:13 I've cleaned my room and feel called to serve the greater community. What are some signs that you're ready to go into the world to serve? 1:22:23 In your last Q&A you said you decided to take the vaccine. My friends and I were surprised by this. Is it safer than I think?

[@mohanadbakain282]

What? how is this a day old?

[@dm20422]

🌹

[@markr8690]

Thank you

[@ronnychristenjoyer6778]

Those are some grade A questions

[@michaelcomer1645]

You are the MVP

[@costco4200]

Hey Jordan Peterson! I'm 16 almost 17 and my dad absolutely loves you. He thinks your an amazing man and has raised me and my little brother on alot of your principles. He's bought your books, watched your videos, uses analogies you have made, and talks about you quite a bit. I was just thinking that it would be an amazing Father's Day gift for him to see even just a comment of you thanking him and congratulating him for being a great father. If not, I do understand that you're a busy man. Anyways, thats all!

[@rockybalboa2800]

If we all Like & comment on your nice text for your father the chances are higher he's gonna see this someday! So thumbs up👍👍👍

[@sandilesiwundla7035]

Dnt huv anythin to say buh if it hlps get ur comment noticed....

[@Burkey397]

Your father sounds like a great guy and a great role model. And you sound like a promising young man. I'm sure if Jordan saw this comment it would put a great big smile on his face and a tear in his eye.

[@amirsaeed8733]

Keep going young man.

[@M.elissaC.ollinsworth]

Very cool ❤

[@frankmuysers6001]

You're a father figure to a lot of people out there. Happy father's day, Dr. Peterson.

[@PiinkkBunnyy16]

very wholesome and true.

[@Ruby_thesilly]

Yes. My dad in my mind. Love him

[@ogadlogadl490]

@@Ruby_thesilly the dad I never had

[@FuckYouTube1776]

Good call.

[@rsucentralcom722]

A mentor for everyone needing guidance in life

[@synergystudios6546]

1 reason i enjoy when Jordan uploads a Q&A by himself is because he wont be interrupted

[@wawatchdog89]

Only by himself as new thought comes up 😁

[@endlessnameless314]

Yeah I’m always so torn when someone interrupts him in interviews. Cuz I just want to basically hear him but I myself am working on listening. So it has been hard for me to watch his “duets”

[@endlessnameless314]

@@dans2971 i for one love woman 👩🏼 lol

[@davidhunt7249]

Please...interrupt. Jordan is a sham! Who sells one's B.S. on youtube? Huckster!

[@DaDudeClub]

@@davidhunt7249 chill, dude. Try find some meaningful things to do with your time and life.

[@West996]

When I read the title I thought " I don't have a problem with self deception. " And then my eyes narrowed, and I clicked the video.

[@cannalibrium4025]

🙄 🤔 🥲 💛

[@MrJas321]

That was awesome. 😂

[@theelderelk5582]

Wise choice bucko

[@rangerjim3872]

JP arguing with himself is such a magical thing that I can't get enough of it.

[@andreaking5266]

That is a good way of putting that about Mr. Peterson!

[@Phoenix-Brah]

Yes, witnessing the progression towards truth is quite rewarding

[@jimmyli5059]

He's actually mentioned this a few times iirc. He talked about helping his wife form her argument against him, because she may have known something he didn't. What's important is not winning the argument, but rather the communication.

[@holliebingham1311]

1000%😂

[@WingstopGoy]

Dr Peterson I know you read your comments sometimes and on the off chance you see this, I'd like to thank you for everything you've done. I'm a 21 year old, who since listening to your lectures and reading some of what you've written, completely changed my way of life (a lazy drug addled sloth) and have made leaps in my career, and home life. On behalf of the men forgotten everywhere thank you.

[@qwertyPROairsoft]

Good effort mate, good to hear, keep going!

[@ajkenth2387]

👏

[@LowerDerek]

Hallelujah

[@mangkhantmung828]

Good for you Mate! It‘s better to be forgotten for the time being than be in the Spotlight all the time. We don’t have time for that we got the world to run. If we men don’t work the world can‘t function.

[@Remy.-]

Drug addled sloth hahaha i love it been there mate

[@entertainmentnews2831]

Jordan is almost at full power level now.

[@SMGWARCHIEF]

Ikrrrr you can see it

[@voraxity965]

The beard is missing

[@Leopar525]

Loadiiiiing!!!!

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

Isn't it a joy to see him looking so well. The world feels a much brighter and more hopeful place with him in it.

[@Hamza_Gill]

Are you kidding? He's over 9000!!!

[@cupbucket]

These are a bit like having DR JORDAN PETERSON..... as your personal therapist. How crazy is that?!

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

Or an antidote to crazy? lol

[@davidhunt7249]

Extremely Crazy! Get a life!

[@franlyons1463]

It is wonderful

[@mztwixed]

It’s not “like” - it IS having him. It’s not any less helpful because it helps many. Count your selves blessed. He IS a gift. Ignore him at your own demise.

[@davidhunt7249]

If any Human needs a quack like Peterson they are a futile experiment of life. Everything one needs is inside them. Tap into it. Why would anyone need to get into someone else's head? Are folks so fragile they can't use introspection or self-evaluation to navigate the planet? Give me a break! There are severe mental conditions. No doubt. But whiners who are baffled by life's swings are seeking validation from others to bolster their self-worth. Pitiful!

[@TheMaleRoleModel]

Anyone else feel proud of themselves when JP says something that you had already been thinking?

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

Makes me feel chuffed.

[@multi21racing]

Currently reading Jocko Willinks book on leadership after he talk to JP. Already recognized most of the principles which feels pretty good although it's always nice to get a streamlined overview to stay focussed.

[@tgfitzgerald]

Yes!! *brushes shoulder off

[@Kinghauler2012]

Not proud, happy I’m not alone with my thoughts in this crazy world.

[@bert.hbuysse5569]

“Above all, do not lie to yourself. A man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point where he does not discern any truth either in himself or anywhere around him, and thus falls into disrespect towards himself and others. Not respecting anyone, he ceases to love, and having no love, he gives himself up to passions and coarse pleasures in order to occupy and amuse himself, and in his vices reaches complete beastiality, and it all comes form lying continually to others and himself. A man who lies to himself is often the first to take offense. it sometimes feels very good to take offense, doesn't it? And surely he knows that no one has offended him, and that he himself has invented the offense and told lies just for the beauty of it, that he has exaggerated for the sake of effect, that he has picked up on a word and made a mountain out of a pea--he knows all of that, and still he is the first to take offense, he likes feeling offended, it gives him great pleasure, and thus he reaches the point of real hostility...'" --Fyodor Dostoeyvsky

[@martinburrows6844]

Excellent work good sir

[@johnjordan3552]

Who is this Fyodor guy and what bs is he spewing? Who the hell likes getting offended?!!?

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

@@johnjordan3552 lol Feminists LOVE it. It gives the illusion of moral superiority, attempts to force the other into apology, making them less than. That's why the list of micro-aggressions gets ever-longer. They get to giddy-up on their high-horses and ride!

[@Leopar525]

@@johnjordan3552 I hope you are trolling on both your points. I really do

[@Leopar525]

I’ve had a person like this in my life. Worst thing that ever happened to me

[@summerrose5886]

While the country is losing its 💩, its really nice to have JBP back. He elevates the level of every conversation he takes part in🌟😊💗

[@rebelraccoon9018]

Damn right👏

[@runner1984]

All we need are weekly doses of JBP & Dr. John Campbell.

[@desertdog8006]

Single living in the Australian outback ... simplicity, no covid. some hardship and loneliness. Jordan continues to be my mental stimulation, my mentor and my friend I am forever grateful to you and this amazing technology.

[@tracylowe2564]

I said sorry to a girl in school for a thing I did, I was being bullied and took it out on her, she doesn't even know what I did when I apologised but I was so glad I did 💞🌻

[@arrogantindustries9299]

Watching your videos, nearly religiously over the last two years has certainly saved me from making the worst of choices. Yesterday was the first day I was happy to be alive.

[@Zosmos]

Though this form hasn't seen yours, know that you are loved in the deepest depths of my heart

[@arrogantindustries9299]

@@Zosmos Thank you! I sincerely appreciate what you have said.

[@jenniferklopman2557]

I'm happy that you're alive ❤

[@why7387]

Hi, happy to hear you’re doing well. Although I agree with most of the things Dr. Peterson says, i do caution you of following his words too much. As much as we can learn from him i think it’s important to stay skeptical of some things.

[@kiyakassa1726]

@@why7387 like what

[@SilhSe]

This Q&A series should be at least bi-monthly. 🥇

[@chat099]

If it wasn't for Mr. Peterson's previous lectures, I wouldn't have discovered my strength at a time when I thought I had none. I doubt I'm the only one. Thank you for showing me how to rescue my father from the belly of the whale. We do transcend our suffering.

[@dominostimes2119]

I feel you sir

[@davidhunt7249]

Peterson is a quack! Who has to go on KZbin to sell their wares? Seriously!

[@Jazzercide]

Amazing comment, thank you for sharing

[@cannalibrium4025]

@@davidhunt7249 🤦‍♂️😆🤡💩

[@davidhunt7249]

@@joshchapman4753 Five minutes in the mirror will solve most ills. Reflection.

[@Shoutinthewind]

“They witnessed Tammy and I take the odd puff” JP

[@maintaint3003]

"...probably..."

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

It's nice to know he had some help coming to all of those insights.

[@nikkovibez9147]

Yes dude! Yes😆 I've been scrolling lookin to see if I was the only one who found that funny or surprising. Lol I don't partake but go J.P.! I'm all for freedom to experiment with your own consciousness how ever you'd like, just doing it responsibly...

[@inthesunwiththerest6564]

He does highlight being honest, so.

[@mztwixed]

Remember the pain he was/is experiencing from his illnesses. It’s no secret the healing calming of nervous system under that influence. Just to balance the view on that issue.

[@Pharesm]

" *He who has not received the love of truth will be deceived* " I'm just gonna leave this quote here for those to whom that would make sense

[@Milestonemonger]

As uncomfortable and scary as it was in the beginning, I found that telling the truth gave me a sense of freedom and courage that filled my soul like nothing else did.

[@jewishgenes]

You got it. 😇

[@raya4230]

Mr Jordan Peterson returning to guide and teach is a blessing to us all. Be Well Mr Peterson and Thank You.

[@mattthetrucker5585]

Dr

[@Pappybxx]

@@mattthetrucker5585 His compliment remains, though I understand your point.

[@FlyOverZone]

@@mattthetrucker5585 M

[@30Salmao]

I'm a 25 years old guy living alone and just working by this COVID days. I'm very pleased to at least have Jordan by the weekends and at night, would be too lonely otherwise.

[@inthesunwiththerest6564]

Luiz, where are you that people are still self isolating? You shouldn’t be alone. Get out there and risk like our friend in these videos says. Nothing to lose, but time, Luiz. Confíame.

[@stingra8]

Awesome, Stay in touch with us Luiz!

[@radar_radar]

There’s groups on Fb mate. Look for local park gatherings. Must be stuff where you can get out and meet people mate don’t isolate yourself too much x

[@ajkenth2387]

It is good to suit your own comfort level. If you are isolating on that level and not insane you are likely introverted. It will be good for you to meet up with a friend in RL once in a while.

[@rigenmehilli5864]

Hang in there man! Better days ahead, and remember to clean your room!

[@wdlaw4204]

49:57 "Zero is pretty low" - Jordan B Peterson

[@johnjordan3552]

zero is the new low smh

[@grantfrith9589]

I love his humor... My favorite is still. "Social constructionists don't believe in biology... But they act like they do. They all die!"

[@kayligo]

It’s probably rare to be at 0

[@davidhunt7249]

Peterson is ZERO! Fraud!

[@johnnycolon3208]

@@davidhunt7249 So you keep saying. Got a bit of an obsession thing going on there you have our lad.

[@uraia90]

These QnA’s are a blessing. It feels as if Dr. Peterson is actually my therapist.

[@rafaelferes4362]

I have to say that he tried to remains general and this doesn't make for an actual therapy session. But this is gold

[@gemigirl5521]

Dr. Peterson is invaluable. I hope the younger generations will aspire to be like him and from many, perhaps a few will emerge. Every generation needs a Jordan Peterson.

[@whydiditriggeryou7599]

Happy Juneteenth

[@masterfletcher8942]

Born after 2000 and I am so happy I’ve found this wisdom at the beginning of my life

[@DELANADINE]

@@dans2971 where did you hear that?!....

[@les471]

@Brendan Gavaghan well, stop pretending your confederate flag means anything

[@les471]

@Brendan Gavaghan wtf, what are you on about

[@klemenkoncan3895]

“I better not ever be able to tell that you have been using something. Because if i can tell then you cant handle it And that means that you’re not doing it appropriately.” 19:04 That’s golden.

[@erniefehr7001]

“Assuming you’re still listening “ of course we still are!!!

[@nickmagrick7702]

its "your", not you're

[@johnnycolon3208]

@@nickmagrick7702 No it's not Nick. The OP has it correct.

[@j.e.wattes8991]

@@nickmagrick7702 It's actually 'Yore'.

[@nickmagrick7702]

@@j.e.wattes8991 oh right, my bad

[@samwickfitness]

Jordan there's probably no chance in hell you'll ever read this, but I just wanted to tell you that you inspire to me work harder and be my best self. Lately, you've been in my head, specifically this quote: "you have no idea how efficient, efficient people can be." I am eternally grateful for your wisdom.

[@lessmore444]

Never expected (but somehow not surprised) to hear that Jordan enjoys the “occasional puff”. Causally exemplifies, “at least don’t lie”.

[@rrodriguez1612]

@@mofobo he’s talking about smoking.

[@lessmore444]

@@mofobo Oui, dans le contexte de sa remarque, j’ai compris que c’était en référence a la comsommation de marijuana. Ce qui est llégal au Canada maintenant

[@excellenceinanimation960]

I was surprised to hear that lol

[@leedsdrumacademy]

@@excellenceinanimation960 the man did mushrooms. Weed shouldn't be a surprise ha

[@jordanpryor2981]

@@leedsdrumacademy can you show a video or link about Peterson taking mushrooms?

[@shannonlandre4442]

To have the Holy Spirit living inside you. He knows everything and will impart to you what He will. God bless

[@A_G412]

May god bless you and everyone else and keep you until then!

[@Horsewrangler780]

I constantly find myself re-watching your videos, I can't seem to stop taking 10 steps back every 5 steps forward. Maybe I'm missing a step along the way but thank you sir for sharing your knowledge for free.

[@elke9499]

To tell people to " get out of my face" .... laughing priceless.

[@patchadams4me]

Living in truth requires a lot of courage. Be brave.

[@stephenvankleeck4801]

“I scored a zero in agreeableness…” JP “That’s pretty low.” It’s zero, Jordan. ZERO. 😂🤣

[@DELANADINE]

I think here he could add that these people low in agreability are also very loyal....

[@rebelraccoon9018]

@@DELANADINE how so?

[@nickmagrick7702]

hes nice

[@alltheframes9015]

@@DELANADINE part of being disagreeable is being able to stick to what you believe in, it's ingrained into your personality. So being loyal to the people around you is just another aspect of being disagreeable.

[@jedahn]

@@alltheframes9015 I don't think lack of agreeableness ensures strength of character.

[@prophecide3702]

In 2019 i went into a huge depression. I would say it stemmed from my young confusion of the value and point of life. Dr. Peterson became my answer to all my faults. His bluntness that we love so much was just what I needed. Truth is beautiful

[@MiggleAssassin]

These Qs are all relatable to everyone to varying degrees, and hes basically giving free therapy sessions to the masses😂

[@onwrdandupwrd5303]

JP demonstrates a level of the embodiment of paying attention and speaking magic words through these videos.

[@erenawismer4009]

he doesn't though its only his beliefs in capitalism that makes him put out content. Dr. Mercola is another "guru" you may like can't get through an article on his websitr without 5 banners popping up disturbing your read. I don't think I've finished a while article.

[@prayforjoe6961]

@@erenawismer4009 So wanting to make a living by putting out free videos that can help a lot of people is a bad thing?

[@onwrdandupwrd5303]

Shout out to those those who get the Marduk Reference.

[@gdfggggg]

Mr Peterson, Your thoughts have had a profound effect across the western world and beyond. Keep up your good work. You’ve given me an understanding of some of the madness that’s going on in this world and allowed me to connect the dots. I want to thank you (deeply) for this. If I could, I’d give you a big hug and tell you I love you and call you brother. Thanks for everything.

[@wanderingfinds2268]

I'm so happy I found Dr. Peterson's lectures a few years ago and I changed a lot as a person (complete with a drastic change in personality after retaking a few personality tests to compare my self now vs 3-5 years ago). I went from being an office worker to a business owner and executive for another one because I used opportunity (opportunities I saw previously as impossible or not even a remote possibility for me) to force myself to grow. I treated my 'greatest good' as helping as many people help themselves through the business I set up, from 5 people on staff I now have almost 50 (after 1.5 years) that I can confidently say I'm giving steady, well paying employment to and that in turn helps their families... and everyday its a challenge because part of that responsibility is so many more people are relying on my competency to keep the ship afloat and on course so to speak.

[@sushmafrapp1766]

Great! Start your own KZbin channel help people

[@hippiecritegymnastics3311]

#1 Self Inventory. End any hate for self and anyone else. You will suddenly see right through the hive lies, becone useful to you, from idiot to wise.

[@hippiecritegymnastics3311]

@@ajb7786 See. What spectacular glory your reply contains. And in service of? Most effective is moving from hate to not hate. Because resources for reason are used to justify, rationalize, delusion that all the worst things are good, Hate cannot understand, lost long ago, enslaved, one goal.- find company for the misery. Anything else is better.

[@zita-lein]

Your words help me so much. It’s hard to express how much. All I can say is, “Thank you!” from the bottom of my heart.

[@Incandescence555]

Keep up the good fight Laura!

[@lraleftvie7785]

Thank you for this Q/A Dr. Peterson. It's a real and true joy for us to see you smile while teaching us.

[@just_a_turtle_chad]

He isn't a philosopher and he just spreads a conspiracy theory.

[@shirleyannelindberg1692]

@@just_a_turtle_chad Return to the Rock 🪨 from which you came out 🤦‍♀️ If you can’t recognize the facts and connect the dots, you’ve been hiding away, under that Rock 🪨 TOO LONG ⚠️⚠️⚠️

[@senurarx99]

@@just_a_turtle_chad “wise” people everyone agrees with isn’t necessarily the most wise.

[@solaveritas2]

@@just_a_turtle_chad Dude...no! You are embarrassing yourself!

[@Elliot188]

@@just_a_turtle_chad I am graduated in philosophy and I don’t have anything negative to say about dr. Peterson. Clean your room before to write comments on KZbin.

[@radiojurubeba]

Dr Peterson, thank you very much! If it wasn't for your talks lately, I don't know...! God bless! ❤️🙏🏼

[@AnimeAme]

You're like the father many of us never had. I'm sure I'm not the first one to say this but it's true nonetheless. I deeply admire your wisdom and I wish you all the best, both to you and your family!

[@roccopapalia7737]

Fiction that helped me: The Screwtape Letters by C.S Lewis Outwitting The Devil by Napoleon Hill Reading this fiction helps to internalize self awareness, which may counteract self deception if you are ready for it. Once you are closer to the personal truth of self awareness or are psychologically mature, then reading a variety of philosophy may allow you to develop a more sussinct personal philosophy. More importantly..... everything the good Dr. just spoke about. 😃

[@FriendlyFirebasin]

Very helpful!!!

[@roccopapalia7737]

@@j_freed agreed 👍, when well written even fiction can be truer than true.

[@joshhoodrat451]

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? Jeremiah 17:9

[@marksauck8481]

I learned too late in my life the meaning of the phrase, “if you don’t know what you don’t know and that you don’t know that”…… the question is what happens with your life. This is something I’ve reflected on many times with my choices in my career. We wind up with regret. I found myself many times telling myself if I’d have known what I know now I would have done things differently. I’m convinced I would have been much happier with my life and my career. The worst choice was thinking I could do it all by myself and my talent. I later wished I’d have had a mentor. It’s something I should have looked for while in school, but my ego stopped that.

[@tigrisKing]

I cherish every utterance you make, Dr Jordan Peterson. Your existence in this world, makes it a less lonely place. Thank You from the bottom of my heart.

[@stewiegriffin2143]

I don't think you'll ever read this but just incase. I'm finally clean and sober after 11 years of hell. Please never stop doing what you do. You helped save me. You're my other Dad lol

[@rharvey1110]

Congrats on the sobriety - may you live long and prosper =-) [and stay clean] 🙏💙

[@amjrpain919]

"THE CHOICES WE MAKE, DICTATE THE LIVES WE LEAD " " TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE " William Shakespeare

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

But to do this, "temet nosce" (know thyself) is necessary. There's the rub!

[@ReTr093]

I talk to the wind My words are all carried away

[@mattthetrucker5585]

Glad you’re back doc. The more people that learn to think the better things will get

[@mztwixed]

My sentiments exactly. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@Jizzlewobbwtfcus]

This is like listening to an honest and trusted friend when you need them most. TY VERY much for taking the time and effort for giving us advice Mr.Peterson. I won't go into specifics but I think I can can try to get back on track to where I want to be with some of your gems. Thx again from London : ]

[@samguest78]

Jordan please don’t stop doing the Q and A series. One of my favourite things you do

[@nothanks800]

"A more common worry could hardly be identified." Thanks again, Jordan.

[@FreeSpirit47]

28:14 Dr Peterson, something I have observed is that there are more people who are married, as in, they got the license, wore pretty clothes, spoke the vows. Very few people are married AND committed to their spouse who they vowed in front of witnesses and/or family to love & cherish. There is a big difference between being married or being married AND committed.

[@alaricgoldkuhl155]

So true Brenda. I think this is a symptom of our social malaise. In the absence of religion or any meaning framework, we have devolved into self interest. Marriage vows become "until I get bored or something better comes along." There is also a lack of commitment to honesty, so necessary for trust and ease of relationship. Nobody seems to understand that devotion to the needs of the other and trusting that the other is devoted to yours can lead to transcendent union. Sex is little more than mutual masturbation, and when this is the case, sex with others becomes so much more tempting. If sex with your partner is transcendent however, sex with others seems dull by comparison.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

@@alaricgoldkuhl155 I call bull. Up until about 50 years ago a woman had no choice but to stay in the marriage and if she left the marriage she was doomed to a life of poverty and scorn. All this talk about the good old days are by people who didn't have to be a woman married pre-1970. There were plenty of philandering husbands and the wives just had to keep their mouth shut and get dinner on the table by 6.

[@rajatchandra3209]

Loved how he articulately explained sexual relationship between him and his wife. Such clear words and precise

[@thehornswogglehumdinger9612]

And appropriately, for it was relevant

[@baileyfilms7609]

After years of being at what I believe to be my rock bottom, Jordan Peterson is the one person who can say something and have it actually resonate with me. Thank you Jordan and may I get my hands on your book one day.

[@joelmcguckin6469]

Jordan dude from the bottom of my aching heart I am so grateful for your content, I am a person who gets mixed up alot in seeing things all good or all bad despite kind of knowing that it isnt the case, as you said ive been "throwing the baby out with the bath water" in an effort to try make sense of myself and others around me, I find myself shifting between seeing myself as wrong, others right and vice versa, I realise that its about being more attentive, a good deed is a a good deed and the more that it is selfless the better, in a world full of muck you really are a diamond, like a second father, thank you

[@jewishgenes]

It’s not kinda not knowing, you absolutely know it’s not the case. Examine why you might not be really really sure about that. When you are more sure about yourself what you project will be more colorful and less black and white!

[@jonathanburke5654]

On the saving your father bit. I remembered in one of your lectures you said to "aim to be the kind of person you can depend on at his father's funeral ". I didn't realize how quickly I would need that advise. When my father passed away 6 weeks ago. I was able to help with most the arrangements myself. I reminded everyone of my dad's sense of humor, the stories he would tell, and at my mother's request I gave my dad's memorial talk. The memorial was streamed via Zoom to 285 homes, with an average of 3 people per house hold we were looking at well over 800 virtual attendants. I have been inundated by my father's personal friends thanking me for capturing and displaying the essence of who their friend was. My family seems to have grown closer. Thank you for the advise Dr Peterson, it really helped. It did come at a sacrifice. I am now hours away from surgery. The stress of the matter left me with some ailmants that will need to be removed surgically. But the peace I was able to contribute to is well worth it and I am in good spirits knowing I did all I can as a son Thank you again

[@jrd33]

Well done Sir. You are a credit to your family.

[@jonathanburke5654]

@@jrd33 Thank you very much Mr Davis

[@ds6427]

Dear Jordan. You probably won't see this, but I just really want to thank you for being one of the few individuals who acts in accordance with truth. Oftentimes I am moved to tears, simply by the way you conduct yourself in the presence of those who are hostile towards the goodness in you. You are the salt of the earth; an honest man, with a sincere heart. You will never know how much you've touched my life, and that of my family's. Thank you for all you do.

[@FreeSpirit47]

Dr Peterson, you look more healthy with time. So happy to hear you!

[@HappyFhantum]

The portion of this video where you address the writer's concern about being lost in the past really resonated with me. I look back to the past all the time, with heartache and nostalgia. I'm going to implement the same advice you gave the writer. Thank you.

[@rightwalk9835]

Rekindle your relationship with the divine father; relationship with the culture around you. 💪

[@ligaskaba3910]

So grateful for this - can you people see and hear this? Q&A by Jordan B. Peterson himself. Hour and a half filled with gems 💎

[@vancy171]

The answer to "why do you need to contemplate your own malevolence?" Is so beautifully spot on 👏👏 fantastic work

[@FM-dm3rk]

20:04 “and the rule is ‘don’t be an idiot!’ aka “drooling moron” Man speaks the truth like a pro! Love you Dr Peterson

[@bryanmatthews3797]

If it's after work I'm full sending it with a bong. That being said know your limitations and be aware if you are with company.

[@FM-dm3rk]

@Bryan Matthews I don’t even partake in the stuff, but when he was referencing how he approached the subject in parenting, I realized I’ve implemented the same approach and I’m of the same mindset. I felt instant relief, knowing if I’m doing some of the same as Dr Peterson, I’m not a complete f&@k up as a mother! Lol 😂 Enjoy that bong though, and if you drool, just tidy up a bit before you go to work! ;) lol Cheers 🍻

[@bryanmatthews3797]

@@FM-dm3rk I got napkins and water on standby! Yeah I feel like when I do become a father a lot of Dr. Peterson's methodology and broad perception is gonna help a lot. Cheers! 🍻🥂

[@purpleXpotion]

The truth doesn’t dictate compliance. It offers freedom.

[@brucehutchinson9527]

Thank you Jordan Peterson for taking the time and effort to answer individual questions.🌻

[@DanielTyson1]

What a tremendous value this man is imposing in the community across the world. So selfless in everything he attaches himself to. Pleasure to have found this man!

[@lilbits4173]

Taking this time to say how great to see you again, Dr. J. Your wise words have been an inspiration to me, personally. Onward, upward!

[@alexsanoff585]

These new videos contain much of the wisdom from prior to the hospitalizations but with a lighter, more relaxed element and some new perspectives and variations of old ideas. Very cool!

[@AlexanderMichelson]

God bless Jordan Peterson! Thank you, Sir!

[@manpreetsinghrana7751]

You have been an inspiration and it is wonderful seeing you healthy again. We love you JP ❤️❤️

[@vinceknowseverything]

Thank You Jordan for taking the time to answer questions!

[@henryalfaro9125]

Just amazing to hear that level of coherence.

[@OldCroDad]

I just gotta say, I love you, man! You really put it all out there and let the chips fall where they may. I love your honesty and of course all your passion. You're doing good for people.

[@theshuttergrind]

THE FATHER I DESERVED BUT NEVER HAD! God Bless you Dr. Peterson! You keep saving my life!

[@m3po22]

Critical topic for everyone. Can't wait to listen. Will edit this comment with notes. 5:00 I agree and have been practicing. It has been getting easier and my anxiety has decreased a lot. I thought of myself as an honest person, but being unwilling to look and follow the sense that I should be doing something is a form of a lie. 14:13 That might be the first time I've ever seen him yawn 1:24:00 Great explanation. Pretty expected.

[@scrappydoo7887]

There are many very important questions in this

[@bjlyon615]

There are consequences for telling the truth but even greater consequences for not telling the truth.

[@watchingbrain]

well, you choose your own hill to die on if you follow this peculiar truth-thingy. you might even be wrong in the final analysis of "your truth" but at least you tried to make some sense out of this world :)

[@windfreak33]

That is definitely not true. At all.

[@kaipakta817]

28:20 I needed to hear that. I knew it, but hearing it makes a huge difference. Especially from someone respectful. Good tears, man.

[@angelamongsouls]

You were a really positive influence in my life in a crucial time. I’m thankful for you. Thanks for just being you, your honesty is refreshing.

[@Motivatedk9]

I swear if it wasn't for Dr Peterson, I would still be in a deep dark hole, I'll never stop learning now!!

[@jippalippa]

Finally a wise stance with regards to drugs! Can't stand this horrible prohibitionism.

[@shadowcugaxiv]

Just wanted to thank you for what you continue to provide the world, Jordan. Much love your way (always extended to your family as well) from NY ✌🏻❤️

[@tomdixon1213]

I love these Q&A. I can’t decide which videos are best. They are ALL fabulous! So soothing to the psyche when the Doctor is in.

[@Politicallyhomeless957]

One of my deepest personal questions was answered in this vid. Thank you JP

[@onwrdandupwrd5303]

18:10 "This is not a pro-shoplifting message by the way..." LOL

[@nathanhinson5688]

Happy Father's Day Dr. Peterson. Thank you for all that you do here on KZbin!

[@supatimefunshow]

You're the man JBP. Thanks for all the guidance and the path you've put me on over the last five years. Always a supporter. Much love from your home in Alberta and all the best to you, your health and your family in the coming years.

[@lucythompson5841]

Just do something that will earn you money while you sleep, no matter how little. A pandemic is the perfect way to open your eyes to really see what life could be like without your usual income stream and everyone had to stay home. Well I never felt it because I invested in a trading company where I earn 4 digits per week. The best thing you can do for yourself is invest more and spend less.

[@andrewmamikins693]

Talking about investment, the forex market is by far the biggest and most popular market in the world, traded globally by large number of individuals and organization

[@henryclinton9317]

i have always wanted to get into investment but i am scared not to fall in the wrong hands , who is your pro ?

[@lucythompson5841]

Tamara Diane Hagan she is the best broker, I have tried lots of professionals but only exceptional income trading with Tamara Diane Hagan strategy now earning over $15,300 every 10 days.

[@jamesmaduabuchi6100]

I have heard a lot about investing with Tamara Diane Hagan and how good she is, please how safe are the profits?

[@lucythompson5841]

I have been trading with her, profits are secured and over 💯 percent return on investment.

[@RoughRoman]

The best part of this whole damn thing " the odd puff"

[@jennruegg6617]

Thank you so much for this Q&A Dr Peterson. I was able to apply almost every topic to my life. Can’t wait for the next one! Have a fantastic weekend! 🤗

[@craigmnelson86]

Thank you Jordan for your strength and leadership. Your example has made me be vocal and not afraid of standing for the truth

[@divyadama6978]

Happy Father's Day Dr. Peterson.

[@watevatube]

Thanks internet father of self improvement and emotional understanding 😄👍 Just brought your book 12 rules for life It's great so far!

[@Shadyljlove]

I truly happy just because I live in epoch of tremendous people like you. Thank you for your work and time spent on creating something really needable for human kind.

[@kimvanpelon6141]

Thanks Dr. Peterson. I listen to your message almost every. You gave me a hope for the world out there who listens to your message. We need you and I am blessed having you appeared on the KZbin videos. God bless you and praying for your health continue stronger each day.❤️🙏

[@enjerth78]

> I scored 0 on a test for agreeableness. Peterson: Zero is pretty low. Me: No it's not!

[@jus4000kicks]

I realize this may be a joke but you are arguing semantics. You both are saying the exact same thing with different words.

[@hannesRSA]

@@jus4000kicks its definitely a joke

[@DsChelI]

Lol

[@harryohanson]

Liars believe everybody else is laying also and therefore they believe nobody which creates a real challenge for them to find the truth. Personally, I am too lazy to be a liar.

[@windfreak33]

I'm pretty sure everything you just said was a lie.

[@harryohanson]

@@windfreak33 based on what?

[@soonerorlater9297]

"Happy Father's Day Jordan" (smiles & hug) Thank You for thinking about us on this week-end.

[@PlantHoardingAdventures]

Thank you for always sharing your ideas, so many young people today really need this type of guidance! I’m so happy you started your own social media! Thank you for everything you do 🙏❤️☀️