Don't hide your truth because of TOXIC PARENTS

[@billygottron9172]

My wife’s toxix mother would always say “Don’t bring me flowers when I’m dead “. Not to worry!

[@PrettyPoshLife]

THANK YOU!!!!! FINALLY someone that shares my view. Tell kids the truth. Stop gaslighting your kids into thinking people who abuse them actually love them. And then your kids grow up and choose abusers because all their life their abusive parents were given a pass. TELL KIDS THE TRUTH.

[@southerndove7213]

Glad someone feels the same as me. I’m telling mine the truth of the situation without trashing my mother but showing them that no one should be given permission to abuse someone just because they hold a title, such as mother. I’m allowing this situation to teach them about boundaries and respect and being honest. I also find myself saying to my kids what I wish was said to me as a child……it’s ok to feel this way, you deserve to be treated with respect, etc.

[@valentinaosborn6190]

Found you yesterday - all I have to say is "hallelujah" :D. Thank you so much for your work! x

[@mvbigmagic4048]

I saw someone say once, when told, "But she's your mom!" They said, "You are projecting your normal mother on me."

[@Bronte866]

With your blessing I would like to use that

[@jamiegraham5841]

Lies facilitate evil. It's ok to hate lies and evil. And it's ok to not want that around you. I struggle with hating the person and what they have done but i don't want that in my heart. I hate the lies and the horrible actions and I've put up my boundaries and I'll leave that person to God.

[@johnathanabrams8434]

Can't believe these obscure, kind of low key channels have the most best content. Seeing all these 1M follower, politically and socially palatable channels are so lame. This video was very therapeutic. If you don't mind me mentioning, there is a channel Battle Born Again. Definitely subscribing. Cheers from NYC.

[@mindy1230]

Heyo. I'm the family scapegoat. I just realized that there is a running program like a virus in my system and that is : if someone likes me I assume there is something wrong with them. I am judging them. They must have a motive or be flawed in some seriously fucked up way...or if they will like me it won't last. I remember my Narcissist Mother mocking someone who liked me or a new friend or guys I dated. Like they were of low worth and value. Only if we were broken up would she act like they were better now, especially if they would talk to her. The family I came from instilled cult- like loyalty and devotion to one member. How do I fix this ? I don't even know. Of course I can't walk around telling people what I really think because they are either gonna say how great I am (all bullshit in my traumatized head) or see my pain, which is unbearable.

[@valentinaosborn6190]

I had a very very similar situation growing up - it's hard, and you end up grieving people who are still alive, and you feel no one can understand your pain. Ultimately those of us that awaken (truth teller turned scapegoat turned black sheep) are the ones granted freedom, but not without experiencing a very painful awakening and healing period. We're at least granted access to the road back to self - they aren't - they are too pathologically disordered operating from a level of dysfunction that you ultimately rejected on instinct from a young age - hence your role. I hear you on the cult system, it's devastating to discover the true dynamics, the plot etc. Josh C I only just found and seems to really know his stuff - Jay Reid (on youtube) is another scapegoat-specialised therapist who seems to delve into the intricate psychological and emotional aspects of this sort of recovery. Mary Toolan is someone else - very gentle and understanding. They both have recovery groups which I'm going to look at joining - I think speaking to like-minded people is so important. We can't heal in the same place that made us sick. x

[@Wisdomseeker5]

Thank you! ❤ My youngest child is 7 years old and he started asking question about their grandparents actually. But I wasn't sure. Now I got your perspektive. It's helps. My oldest child is a teen and autistic. In this way, my teen know and doesn't care about them. My teen is very aware about toxic humans. It's good for her safety ❤❤

[@anita13kvd]

I cut ties year ago and my kids don't see my mum either. I could not get my head around that - my mum messed so much of me and now I should allow her to do that to my kids. I am totally horrible to many people in my family and some friends find it hard to accept. I see now that our lives are much better without my mum being present. Thank you for being so direct and open!

[@DC71235]

This was healing and validating, thank you!

[@ducky_legend1906]

I’m so happy I found you, everything you say is on point!!!!!

[@P___999]

Thanks for this video, Josh. I'm a ghostwriter. Say hi if you ever want help writing that book you mentioned.

[@destroyraiden]

When my grand dad died all 9+ of his kids made a choice to not say nice things those of them who spoke told how abusive he was and after the funeral they still didn't just say nice things it was kind of refreshing and I didn't know he was a abusive to me as a kid growing up he was grouchy with grand ma but that was it my parents were worse for abusive xyz but i think energy wise it broke some old patterns. Now who knows if when my parent dies if we'll continue the honesty but I've never been to a funeral that did that! Spirit wise the grand dad showed up a few years later and acknowledge he was unkind in his life and was working on changing and healing in spirit what this does is that they heal some of their energetic xyz so if or when they reincarnate it'll be a different person. It seems to me he's come to realization there was issues fast compared to other spirits who just don't change and return as the same sort so they did him a favor as well by speaking there like that it seems. But yeah for OPs question if you've had a falling out with living or dead family you don't have to go to the funeral if you feel guilty you can look into sending flowers with a card that isn't going to make it sound like so & so was kind & a great person ie send a truth card & look into healing your family's over conscious and collective conscious & unconsciousness as you're apart of it doing the work on you auto does the work on them as it over laps and any shared energy overlap will mend as well but you don't have to go.