Aapki hi tarah meri bhi condition thi dear....meri bhi mummy ne bhut support Kiya ....shadi k 1 year tk mujhe bhi yahi sehna pada..acha hua maine usi time decision liya unsb ko chhodne ka .3 years have passed away & today i m a lecturer in inter college..
@priyankakundu36272 жыл бұрын
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@anshikashinecreators18282 жыл бұрын
Same problem i am facing last 2years. But now I feel very bad.. but I afraid to divorce...... what I do. How i to do divorce...i don't know...my husband never understand my feelings my happiness my pain.
@shivdei91212 жыл бұрын
Mere sath b yhi hua love marriage hone k 10 din bad hi mene apne husbnd or uski gf ko pkd liya boht bda shock lga 5 year k relationship me dhoka mila 1 year shadi chlayi ek baby h meri choti c but abhi tk divorce ni liya na wo muje koi pese deta h... Mere sath b domestic violence hua m boht depress thi roti thi hmesa pr ab mene apne parents ko sb bta diya abhi unke sath hi hu
@Shikshika9802 жыл бұрын
All the best Dear .I am doing same
@ramkisanmanda70802 жыл бұрын
@@shivdei9121 एक दम दुखभरी है आपकी story
@pragyaambore46922 жыл бұрын
Best parents ever When she wanted to marry a person whom she given her heart , they supported When she wanted to divorce from a person who broke her heart , they supported
@joker5_32 жыл бұрын
This is only one side story. .... Sayad admi ke story sun lo toh roo doge
@Princyprince7972 жыл бұрын
@@joker5_3 aap jante ho ise
@happynewday93002 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🌹❤🌹 ये जिंदगी भी क्या से क्या बना देती है, हर किसी को सलीके से जीना सिखा देती है। यूं तो जिंदगी बहुत आसान नजर आती है एक हल्की सी ठोकर भी संभलना सिखा देती है। 🌹❤🌹🙏🏻kzbin.infok1mNBRqTj3I?feature=share
@vikashpatel268512 жыл бұрын
@V V are bhai thoda bahut ho jaata h kabhi.. baap ladke ko bhi kabhi peet deta h.. iska matlab nahi ki vo pyar nahi karte...
@army-bi7px2 жыл бұрын
@@vikashpatel26851 you believe in radhe krishna... The level of respect Lord krishna gave to radha you can't even give 1℅ of that with that kind of a mentality.
@priyankadhiman19032 жыл бұрын
A small message to all girls "BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT FIRST" love can be done after that😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
@khushboosharma49112 жыл бұрын
Yes dear...we should be financially indepedent first
@voicewidme81582 жыл бұрын
True be financially independent and financially strong. By your own house pay emis for that house yourself and then marry
@salmans5082 жыл бұрын
@@voicewidme8158 yes absolutely right thing i am a boy I don't like marriage people says everything job earning is even for marriage without marriage there is no life,after becoming adult everyone says when is your marriage bla bla bla,I don't like any of these life is for enjoyment if this is not there then why is life and job earning,I am a boy I don't know some men's are like this who thinks wife is maid they are destroying name of our species,girls are independent they have all right to make job and live happily marriage is not life without marriage is the best thing girls want to secure a job and if girls are marrying then they want to understand partner whom they are gonna marry whether the partner is suitable for them or not a partner is the one who is with us every time in every problems the partner which thinks she or he is the part of his or her life without her or he there is no he or she,the security of partner is he or she responsibility throughout the life that partner ,I will agree for marriage with this like partner,so girls be independant
@ritika94772 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi baat khi
@vipashasharma95112 жыл бұрын
Crime is crime
@fly-sv6oq2 жыл бұрын
7 years back I faced situation . My husband continuously slapped me infront of his family . His family members said nothing. Their policy husband can do anything. I left him and living with my son in abroad. I made my own world here..my son father not even talk to his son . So egoistic .I am really proud of my son independent behaviour. He is 12 now very independent. I m financially independent . This is the key .
@DM-wp2wn5 ай бұрын
Hi did u meet someone else? I don’t want to end up alone
@competitiveexams4862 жыл бұрын
She is speaking from bottom of her heart❤️...It happens with many women..Some of them come front and speak but still many don't...Our society need to change
@pinkysahu16592 жыл бұрын
जिस माँ ने जन्म दिया यदि wo बुरे वक़्त मे बेटी को सहारा दे तो लोग बोलने लगते है की मां ने बेटी का घर तोड़ा मतलब माँ के ममता मे भी लोग बुराई खोजते है
@p.srivastava6572 жыл бұрын
Kya bat hai!!!👌👌👌👌
@dimplebhanwariya26052 жыл бұрын
Bilkul shi kha
@poojakalkal29452 жыл бұрын
Ha right mere sasural me to log mujhe bolte h ki kam bat Kiya kro apni ma se ye maye hi ghar bigadti h mere husband ko bhi bolte h ki ye itna ku bat krti h apni mummy se tum kuch bolo isko joki khud ek ladies h ek ma h jo khud apni betiyo se rat rat bhar bat krti h mere husband b Kai bar phn chin lete h bat krte krte call kat dete h
@pinkysahu16592 жыл бұрын
@@poojakalkal2945 apne husband ko boliye aap apne maa bap ko त्यागो फिर mai apne मायके walo ko त्याग dungi krkr
@pinkysahu16592 жыл бұрын
सौदा मंज़ूर हो तो बताये पति लोग
@annudalal75022 жыл бұрын
Yes u r right... marriage is not everything...it is only mental pressure that u have to struggle whole life if u r not happy
@aaruhigupta99452 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢
@shahinqayyum99302 жыл бұрын
Yes I m all so depress
@hemathakur712 жыл бұрын
Soo true dear..meri bhi love marriage huyi h 2 sal phle..or ab jb uska ego hrt hota hai bo mere upr hath uthata hai..Maine uske liye apni job tk chodi thi.ab mujhy bapis s study p focus krna.pdega mumy papa k pas Jake..bo hmesha mujhy support krte hai study kr..agr usi ghr m rhi to mentally pressure se hi mr jaungi😕😥😥😥
@rupaschannel58562 жыл бұрын
@@hemathakur71 Chale jao ghar and job karo
@rupaschannel58562 жыл бұрын
100% true. Shaadi me jyada tar log suffer hi karte hai
@pramodkumar-ks1vp2 жыл бұрын
Yes divorce should not be a taboo ,it is a part of life and it must be treated like normal breakup of gf /bf.
@nivibharti2 жыл бұрын
Bilkul but ldki ko log jeene nhi dete hn bhut tana dete hn.. Ager dusri sadi krlo tb to or b jeena haram krte hn thodi si galti pr ladki ko bhut sunate hn bhut torcher krte hn ager baha ldki awaj uthaye tb to police b nhi sunti ldke wala ka sath deti hai or khti h ladki hai hi aisi..... So ldki ko jitna sehn kr mile kre but divorce n le
@april1102 жыл бұрын
@MEERA (Kanha Ke Deewani) I can feel this but i am lucky my second husband loves me so much
@nirupammishra23462 жыл бұрын
Best reply.... 👍👍
@syedaaneesfatema90482 жыл бұрын
Haan hona nahi Chahiye par humare Countries me aisa hii hai .
@vikashpatel268512 жыл бұрын
sab sahi h.. jindagi h boss manage karna padta h.. kal ko bolo mai hi kyon bachche paida karu.. husband bhi kare.. one sided story bahut bekaar hoti h.. husband ko bhi bolna chahiye.. husband agar chodna chahe aur usko saja dilvaana chahe to shayad possible nahi..
@sharayutravels2 жыл бұрын
This Girl is sharing truth of so many women. I live alone after loosing my mom but I hear these stories daily from sooo many women friends. This is so common and so much unbelievable in 21st century
@shilpiagarwal43912 жыл бұрын
Divorce is not a bad word...its like being newly single.
@SabirKhan-cr9yr Жыл бұрын
Hello
@tanemabiswas9139 Жыл бұрын
@thezoldics7648ismai hasne wali koi baat nehi hai,koi agar mar pith kare hath othaye bar bar to ussay Thane main ghasitke jiban se nikal dena chahia.koun kab badal Jaye jiban main koi guarantee nehi de sakta.
@akankshasinghniofficial.28042 жыл бұрын
बहुत ही लोगों के साथ ऐसा हो रहा है लेकिन सभी मामले सामने नहीं आते बहू से गलती हो जाए तो खूब बढ़ाकर बताया जाता है लेकिन बहुओ पर जो ससुराल पूरा मिलके भेड़ियों की तरह अत्याचार करता है न कोई सुनने वाला भी नहीं होता तब बहुत मुश्किल होता है सच सामने लाना 90% लोग चुपचाप सहन करते हैं हालांकि सभी परिवार ऐसे नहीं होते
@hemathakur712 жыл бұрын
Soo true.merw sasuraal bale bhi h aise mera ectopic pregnancy ka.opration huaa hai but fir bhi nhi smjhte bolte kaam kro koi badi bad nhi h agr huaa hai.logo k to Kyi sare opration hote hai..or mere husband bhi unka sath dete hai even ..jb m apne liye awaj uthari hun .he slapped me..ki juban ldari hai..ek to mene ghr se bhut dur shadi ki hai.koi h ai bhi ni apna dur dur tk..ap mumy papa k pas aayi hun..bolte study kr hm bethe h tere sath..kiuki mene uske liye job bhi chodi thii..even he drinks and kehta hai mene kya kiya.beacuse bo unke parents ka ladla hai.. uffff ye mentally pressure,,😔
@akankshasinghniofficial.28042 жыл бұрын
@@hemathakur71 Same situation Ki beti paida ho lekin mere ghar nahi kisi or ke ghar
@renubamnia52252 жыл бұрын
@@hemathakur71 जोब क्यूं छोड़ दी ....
@parfulkunar98882 жыл бұрын
@@hemathakur71 hi
@rinkisagar25462 жыл бұрын
Shi kha mera husband bhi bahut presaan karta h but me kya kruu samajh nhi aata
@NeetuSingh-ew8nc2 жыл бұрын
Bt mam, when ur father was in ICU, no genuine person will force u to marry at that particular time, sorry to say it was ur mistake to get married that guy who is soooo insensitive, it was a signal u should have catched 🙏
@detraxop66802 жыл бұрын
Yes absolutely a guy who is not emotionally intelligent is not worthy of marriage 👍
@jaaishakhan25712 жыл бұрын
Right she must have abandon him at that just time.
@indiankhan91822 жыл бұрын
@@jaaishakhan2571 she was in love and now her blind love is over
@jaaishakhan25712 жыл бұрын
@@indiankhan9182 yes you are right. I'm also stucked at this situation.
@GoingwiththeflowSuwi2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it was a red flag which she ignored..
@vaijayantideshpande51892 жыл бұрын
I am proud of you dear. I was in such relationship for 24 years. Just because what would happen to my children? But now for last 7 years I am independent and very happy. Moved on. My children are grown up and support me in every difficult situation.
@winsunsenglishacademy2 жыл бұрын
My upcoming book "The Stolen Kiss" is very close to it... more power to you Ma'am 🙏
@oksanasmith8 ай бұрын
I so happy for you. My son got rebellious because of his and my mental abuse. He doesn’t respect me too. He thinks I don’t have self respect. I don’t have any family remaining my family died in accident. I am the only survivor. My kids think I’m dependent on there father because I don’t have any self respect. But they don’t understand for their sake I suffered all this mental trauma. Now I don’t have fear if I die one day.
@GK-uq8mu2 жыл бұрын
Divorce open a new door for Happy life. It's a positive word but in our society, it's a taboos as well as negative word.
@sanskriti_ki_kriti2 жыл бұрын
When I listen to such speakers, I feel like I am not alone. We have all the rights to fight for our happiness, to take stands for ourselves.🙂
@pinkychaudhary37782 жыл бұрын
Same Mai bhi
@ranjanas64592 жыл бұрын
Same here
@annusah16442 жыл бұрын
U r not alone sis....bhut si girls h... Kitni to suffer krti rhti h bta ni pati log or smaj ke karn.
@ranamadhu1992 жыл бұрын
Same
@archanasonawane6602 жыл бұрын
Ho yar mai bhi hu ,muze 2 daughter hai isliye talak bhi nhi le sakti mera dream hai mpsc so Mai sab kuch zelti hu bs 1 din success ho jau yhi sochkr
@MohitSharma-fu8xx2 жыл бұрын
Same my condition main divorce file kar chuki hoon now I am very happy with my son 🥰🥰 aap logon se bhi request hai aise rishte mein mat raho Jahan aapke sath koi Na Ho 🙏🙏🙏
@swetasinghsattu71642 жыл бұрын
जब पापा आईसीयू में थे तो सादी करना सही था, बिल्कुल नहीं जो इंसान अपनी औकात शुरआत में ही दिखा रहा है वो जिंदगी भर क्या साथ देगा किसी का, अगर इतना अच्छा होता तो बोलता की सही समय और सही स्थिति आने दो तो सादी हो जायेगी
@mamuraja18842 жыл бұрын
तब इसको होश नही आया अब आ रहा है।
@KajalSharma-jq1qz2 жыл бұрын
Correct
@rajatmishra41892 жыл бұрын
Right
@swetasinghsattu71642 жыл бұрын
@@mamuraja1884 बिलकुल जी
@Wifehusbandkitchen2 жыл бұрын
Tavi to sochna chahiye ki jo insan abhi sath nahi de rha.wo puri life kya sath dega .
@aakritijoshi2 жыл бұрын
Girls are very soft, emotional. They try to save everything, bear the emotional/physical stress fot long..and that's what make men and their families stronger. Girls should be emotionally strong..speak for themselves and leave auch wolves as soon as possible..be financially independent..all dear girls...
@rupaschannel58562 жыл бұрын
Right. Girls should be financially independent first
@dreamerboyfacts Жыл бұрын
Man and women both can do wrong many women for money or something else want to live seperate from in laws , taunting hum,filing fake dowry case,fake domestic violence case against man so women can leave toxic relationship with help of law but man can't leave toxic relationship if he did then she for revenge file fake dowry case, domestic violence case even more educated unemployed women do this type of things so it's not a man or women it's about wrong people in life
@bhavnasinghjha13392 жыл бұрын
Smoking kills..... Alcohol kills..... Noooo... Love kills.....love must come with written warning...... It kills ur dreams, ur passion, ur body, ur soul ... One must have enough mental power to overcome it.... U did it 👍👍👍
@happynewday93002 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🌹❤🌹 ये जिंदगी भी क्या से क्या बना देती है, हर किसी को सलीके से जीना सिखा देती है। यूं तो जिंदगी बहुत आसान नजर आती है एक हल्की सी ठोकर भी संभलना सिखा देती है। 🌹❤🌹🙏🏻kzbin.infok1mNBRqTj3I?feature=share
@niharikabehera91332 жыл бұрын
Yes dear
@480382 жыл бұрын
Very good research...... Love is a strong passionate emotion We entangle our emotion dreams fairy tale with someone we admire whether your partner value it or not.Don't fall in love blindly but grow up emotionally.
@SandeepKumar-t4c9v Жыл бұрын
@thezoldics7648 bolo jai sri ram ram ram ram ram ram
@sheelanair5342 жыл бұрын
U r a brave girl ! Really proud of u! Go ahead ! May God bless u always!
@artisinghrajawat21572 жыл бұрын
असली दिक्कत यही है.. कि लड़कियां सब जानते बूझते भी चीजों के सही होने की उम्मीद में सब सहन करती रहती है..निभाती है ,, पर अगर वे सही समय पर ही सही डिसीजन ले लेना तो आगे कभी पछताना नहीं पड़ेगा..इनके case में भी जब लड़के ने लड़की की family की condition सही ना होने के बावजूद ..शादी की fixed date पर अड़ा रहा तब ही समझ जाना था की ये लड़का सही नहीं है..पर फिर भी अंधा प्यार कर के..शादी की..इसीलिए लड़कियों ..अपनी अंतरात्मा की आवाज सुनो और चीजे सही करो
@ektavlogstar2 жыл бұрын
Kuch galt logo ki bjh se pyar or shadi dono se visvash uth gaya logo ka, Aurat ko khush rehna or bahr kam krna bhut jroori h.
@naweenkumar26342 жыл бұрын
right Ekta 100% agree
@vikasmaurya47442 жыл бұрын
Oh you are very brave Good Decision Usko saja milna bahut jaroori hai
@rinkuniranjansinghshekawat9322 жыл бұрын
Present m sbke sath yhi problem h chahe arrange marriage ho ya love... Mard sb ek jese hote h but wo ye bhul jate ek aurat k bina wo kuch nhi.... Same here.. Jago ,utho or khud k liye lado . Self respect is the best jwellerary 4 Every women .
@ShailendraGarg517 Жыл бұрын
Sab 1 jaise nhi hote dear
@shivanikumari-db3qu2 жыл бұрын
लड़कियों को हर कदम पे sacrifies करवाया जाता है, लेकिन जब लड़की कुछ अपने मन की कुछ कर लेती है या बोल देती है तो घर के और बाहर के लोग सबकुछ छोड़ कर लड़की को बदनाम करने में लग जाते हैं। हर जगह ऐसा होता है लोग अभी भी नहीं बदले हैं, सिर्फ उनका पहनावा और रहन सहन ही बदलता है।
@akkithakur26052 жыл бұрын
Ryt siso
@mahakyadav25962 жыл бұрын
Nothing is more important than you and your self respect
@happynewday93002 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🌹❤🌹 ये जिंदगी भी क्या से क्या बना देती है, हर किसी को सलीके से जीना सिखा देती है। यूं तो जिंदगी बहुत आसान नजर आती है एक हल्की सी ठोकर भी संभलना सिखा देती है। 🌹❤🌹🙏🏻kzbin.infok1mNBRqTj3I?feature=share
@aartih82802 жыл бұрын
Nice to learn that your parents supported you There are cases where even one's parents don't support Yes labelling one as MAD is one of the most common thing Just love your own Self deeply Never ever make your self weak in the name of love
@sonykatayani35592 жыл бұрын
Good
@sonykatayani35592 жыл бұрын
Good
@pritambhra54722 жыл бұрын
right 😔😔
@kanishk35282 жыл бұрын
But saying mad cn be frankly too nah
@rims11042 жыл бұрын
12:05 "Apne aapko ek bar dhakka dena hai aur phir aise dodoge ke koi nahinrok paega" mujhe aapki ye line bahut achhi lagi.Kuch aapke jaisa mera bhi haal raha hai aur maine aage badke aise hi achieve kiya.
@shahinqayyum99302 жыл бұрын
Kase Kya apen plsss tell me mam plsss
@afreenqadir34342 жыл бұрын
Similar thing happened with my sister.. Although she did arrange marriage, she was treated in same way as you were... She then came back home, she took legal actions, it took some time, but now she is in her winning phase. Also she started teaching in a school, & today she is a happy, independent women
@thezoldics7648lagta h tu b koi second hand maal hi h 😂
@jyotivijay58022 жыл бұрын
To everyone that's saying papa icu me hoke her in laws insisted on marriage, she should have stopped.. to all of them i want to say, everything that's pre destined happens.. and during that period buddhhi bhrasht ho jati he apni... I am talking from my own experience. Mine is a 6 month old marriage... Seeking divorce and staying with my parents now.. abhi sochti hun kaise shadi kar li thi ...... Jispe बीतती है woh janta he
@sabeenabano56102 жыл бұрын
Sahi kaha I'm going through the same
@happynewday93002 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🌹❤🌹 ये जिंदगी भी क्या से क्या बना देती है, हर किसी को सलीके से जीना सिखा देती है। यूं तो जिंदगी बहुत आसान नजर आती है एक हल्की सी ठोकर भी संभलना सिखा देती है। 🌹❤🌹🙏🏻kzbin.infok1mNBRqTj3I?feature=share
@ShailendraGarg517 Жыл бұрын
Where r u from jyoti
@merekrishnadresses16982 жыл бұрын
Main b is sab se nikli hu.but meri love marriage nahi thi. Meri mother in law ne maang kar rishta Liya tha,and I was only 17 and half that time. After marriage my mother in law became the biggest enemy. Beating by husband was every day's task ,only due to mother in law. I survived 5 years like this and after that I got divorce.then again I started my studies and completed my graduation, then I did B.ed and after that I completed post graduation. I became teacher then. I spent whole life all alone with my daughter. But till date I couldn't forget all about misbehave which I got from in laws. It is really a big trauma but people can't feel the pain I went through. Even my real sister call me character less because I am divorced. Very difficult to make people realize the pain of being alone.
@rajbhardwaj21802 жыл бұрын
Society and real ones never comes when someone are at down or self esteem of life and it’s ironic when real ones don’t support in the worst time and being alone is the hardest things to accept and u bravely did all along with not affecting ur daughter study kudos to u and feel crush of bearing of person who are feeling less towards a lady
@parfulkunar98882 жыл бұрын
@##anam k dunia i am hindu can u talk 2 me
@rajbhardwaj21802 жыл бұрын
@Aishwarya Patil u are right a girl does marriage to get care love and respect as her dad did but if his hubby turns wrong then better leave alone and resume ur happiness how u want
@pujj2222 жыл бұрын
@##anam k dunia asa kya hua tha jo 3 month ma bhen apkaa divorce bhi ho gya ..
@shivangimathur47938 ай бұрын
@anamkdunia377meri condition bhi bht buri h sister mere sasural Wale bht mentally toucher krte h or mai 3 month hi Rahi sasural mei or mayke aa gyi bht ghutan lgta h jindagi husband support nhi krte
@NidhiSharma-sp9bq2 жыл бұрын
Well done Vrinda! I applaud your strength. This is the second time I am seeking divorce because there is no way men can take women for granted. I'm sure your story will inspire many women who keep taking physical or emotional abuse, are not valued or cared for. Keep going! All the best!
@shivangipandey95332 жыл бұрын
Kya divorce lene k liye jis period me apply kiya ho usme 6 month sath rhna must h ya alag b reh ke le skte hain?
@myhappiness92952 жыл бұрын
Alag reh sakde ho
@NidhiSharma-sp9bq2 жыл бұрын
@@shivangipandey9533 you can stay separated.
@rushikeshmetangale20372 жыл бұрын
Nidhi you seems to be feminist....
@khushbujain36512 жыл бұрын
Hi ay I have ur number pls, I support u
@healthiswealth84682 жыл бұрын
Aap jaise ladkiyon ki wajah se,desh ki aur ladkiyon ko bhi himmat milegi.
@lovable59502 жыл бұрын
Pyar sirf maa baap karte h , baaki duniya k pyar mein sirf swaarth hai aur kuch nhi chahe vo pati ka pyar ho,ya dost ka pyar ho🙏. Husband apne wife pe proudly hath utha dete with rights due to his family but vhi haath aap kabhi bhi apne bhai behan pe due to his wife nhi utha payega,tab husband k muh se niklega ki are vo to nasamjh hai. 🙏
@priyankachoudhary2992 жыл бұрын
You are lucky to have such supporting parents..
@MA242422 жыл бұрын
Really u r a bold nd strong girl salute to u
@letssee23842 жыл бұрын
When I listen to these ladies, I feel very lucky that my husband loves me and in law's respect me a lot. ❤️
@Justlearn-012 жыл бұрын
Me too😊
@deepikajangir3258 Жыл бұрын
You are so lucky
@singhadarsh40162 жыл бұрын
No Love, No tension..
@alokshukla84342 жыл бұрын
Gjb.... Aapka decision bht shi hai......... Aapne jo kia shi kia..
@chandukhandekar14766 ай бұрын
Well fought!! Good luck beta!!💕👍
@moon-wx6uc2 жыл бұрын
I'm 26 year old now I want to divorce. But Maine love marriage kiya hai parents yhi bol rhe hai ki aur sab log suggest kr rhe hai ki whi raho fir but Mera man bilkul v nhi hai to kya mujhe divorce lena shi hai ya fir galat
@shivangipandey95332 жыл бұрын
Galat shadi ho jaye to badi dikkat hoti h..paise ki b barbadi aur mansik shanti b bhang..meri shadi huyi thi last yr.tbse bht prshn hu.husband aur sasural wale bht prshn krte hain.hsbnd ko koi mtlb rhta nhi.unhe srf apni manwani h.kisi trah unhe bangalore lekr gyi unki workplace pe.socha shyd ab kch thik ho jaye bt wahi ravaiya.kharch tak nhi dete.vyavahar bht kharab h.koi khyal aur smjh nhi h ki biwi ko kaise rkhte hain.sunte tak nhi.smjhna to door ki bat h.Ek din zbrdsti ticket karakar Mjhpe hath uthakar torcher krwane k liye bole ki sasural chalo.maine bola ki mai yahin rahungi bt nahi mane to mai apne ghr aa gyi.tbse na phone krte hain.papa se bat krte hain.mjhse nahi.aur maine phone kiya to jhagda krte hain ya blame.apni galti ka ehsas nhi.kya mtlb h aise bojhil rishre ka.bht trast aakr FIR ki h.paisa to lag ra h par aise aadmi Aur sasural se chutkara pane ka yahi rasta h.sasural walo ne zibdagi doobhar kar rakhi h.saas sasur b nhi smjhte ki ladka galat kar rha h.par ab mjhe apni zindagi bachani h qki mere papa sath nhi de rahe.wo alag kalah kiye rhte hain.ab mai aur mummy hi akele lad rahe hain Aur stand le re.mere account se hi paise ja re coz papa zara b madad nhi kar rahe jbki shadi unhone hi zbrdsti krwayi thi.husband b aisa h ki smjhne wala nhi.UP me job krne nhi dega.to maine ab decide kiya h ki mjhe job leni h aur aage badhna h qki hsbnd sath dene walo me se nhi h.usko srf apne swarth se mtlb h.ab mjhe kamana h.i hope achi job mil jaye jo ache se kar pau aur achi earning ho.bht disturb ho gya h dimag paiso k bare me sochke qki koi b kisi trah ki madad nhi kar rha.bht mushkil waqt h mjhpe aur mummy pe.bure phas gye apne baap k chakkar me.saga baap b itna swarthi aur matlabi ho skta h.isliye ab peeche mudkr dekhne se b darr lgta h.ajeeb haalat ho gyi h.may god help N be wd us alwz🙏🙏
@anamikablog.ballia.2 жыл бұрын
Koi ni life m kvi kvi aesa hota fir sab thik hoga tension na lena .
@dhrutipatel292 жыл бұрын
Jab aap soch sakti h to kr bhi sakti h sab ki life mai paiso ki hi prblm hoti but it's temporary but your freedom is permanent so aap apni freedom k lie ladiye paiso ka to ho hi Jana h kuch na kuch be brave and aap enough hai khud k lie to kyu kisi se ummid rakhni and never forget that a woman is always powerful 🤗 jald hi aapki life mai khushiya aaye may God bless you ☺️🤗🤗
@dipikachauhan79942 жыл бұрын
आप के पापा आप को साथ क्यूं नही दे रहे है
@rizwanaprween51522 жыл бұрын
Meri zindgi to apse bhi 1000 Guna bdter h 😭😭
@shobhadixit83542 жыл бұрын
Don't worry dear sab acha hoga bholenath aapke saath h Mai bhi aise hi rishte Mai hu 4 saal ho gye h shadi ko husband 4 times bhaag gya h Ghar se gold jewellery leke usko apni galti ka ehsas ni h wahi haal mere in law's ka h unko unke bete ki galti ni dikhti mai hi galt hu mera miscarriage ho gya woh pain maine akela bear kiya husband wale usne koi kaam ni kiye meri family mujhe divorce ni lene de rhi so called society ki wajah se ab lgta hai mujhe marna hi hoga shukhar h mera koi baby ni h akeli jaan h kuch bhi kar sakti hu apne himmat dikhayi h sister bura time h nikal jayega Mai dua krungi aapke liye 😊
@pujashreemishra5052 жыл бұрын
Much needed story to hear. Thnx for uploading
@user-mq8el4mf3q2 жыл бұрын
Dowry, incentive, asking you to leave your job, asking you to leave your parents and give his parent more important than your biological parents, someone who had a past relationship but wants you to be so-called without past is a major red flag. It is better to be single than go to this hell
@englishvinglishwithnidhi37962 жыл бұрын
This is happening with many girls, you have given a very good message.
@traveller_shashi2 жыл бұрын
If Parents start showing all out support to the girls then life still becomes easy and helps girl to take the desired call at the right time . Parents support does play a major role while taking strong decisions like divorce. As girl definitely need home to go back for mental and monitory needs . That’s in itself gives solace to the girl and more than half the battle is won . Best wishes for your future endeavours ❤️
@vikasmaurya47442 жыл бұрын
Yhi problems h ma'am Ladki ki maa baap ladki ko madad nhi karte Kahte h jo karna beti ko sasuraal me he rahkar karna hai. Maa baap pta nhi kyon डरते hai us do kaudi ke damaad aur uske ghar walo se. Aur हमेशा ladki ko sasuraal me h bhejna chahte h Maa baap apne ghar me beti ko nhi rakhte Na he talaq file karwate h Na he job karne देते hai. Intzaar karte h Kab phir सास sasur devar Nand aur Pati milkar Unki beti ko mansik aur sastirik tarike se nuksaan pahuchaye. Aur aaram se beti ko Marne k liye छोड़ देते h. Jab beti marr jati h to कुत्ते ki tarah डींगें हांकते h तीर mar देते Ye कर देते Wo कर dete
@ps369362 жыл бұрын
Right mam but sadly doesn't happen in all cases 😌
@nasrinahmed24192 жыл бұрын
@@ps36936 n
@urvashigupta36102 жыл бұрын
Very well said mam , I'm also going through the same thing but I'm blessed to have my supporting parents .
@pintuyadav85292 жыл бұрын
Good morning Ji mem app Sahi h
@prati052 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you and you are an inspiration . However, when your father was in ICU and your ex-in-laws still continued with the wedding ceremony that was a HUGE red flag. It tells that they are insensitive, inconsiderate, and self-centered folks. I am glad you came out of that hell. Good luck with your beautiful life ahead!
@aartishah79882 жыл бұрын
Tes,all along there were red flags but unfortunately love is blind.
@priyankayadav20252 жыл бұрын
Same problem se mai bhi jujh rhi hun maam
@prati052 жыл бұрын
@@priyankayadav2025 I am so sorry ma'am. I hope you can do something to start saving a little money and think of an exit plan.
@preetibaghel4942 жыл бұрын
Ye sach hain khud ko paisa kamana hoga tabhi hum sb sister save h
@roshnibano4045 Жыл бұрын
Mai bhi apki hi tarah safar kar rahi hu 5 years se apko sun ke himmat mili
@gunjansharma6522 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much yr same mere sath bhi yahi ho ra h pichle 3 sal sem bhi bahut dipression m hu tumhari baton se mujhme bahut himmat aai h thnk you so much yr
@shashinigam0072 жыл бұрын
Have faith .....U did the right thing ......it is unjust to suffer - injustice ...
@MiyokoJEE Жыл бұрын
Divorce should be normalised ❤it is for betterment
@ChildFirst Жыл бұрын
शादी ही करना बंद करदे
@truetouchup3526 Жыл бұрын
@@ChildFirst😂
@craftingmeraki11112 жыл бұрын
Falling in love is not mistake falling in love with wrong person is mistake
@NITUKUMARI-cq8ms2 жыл бұрын
Same yhi problem mere sath hua hai sister meri Sadi bhi yhi kahkar kiya ki oo mere carrier bna dega but iska opposite hua 😭😭😭. Unlogo ne mere sath bhut bura kiya Mera husband ne mere kabhi respect kiya hi nhi balki mere pain ko samajhane ke bjay aur increase kiya tb Maine decided kiya ki jis relationship me respect hi na ho usme na rhna hi better hai and thank God ki mere parents ne bhut support kiya ab Mai competition exam qualify karke government college medical ki padai kr rhi hu. Aur Mera sapna civil servant banane ka hai aur unlogo ko help karna chahti ho jo aaj bhi iss society ke bare me sochkar apna life barbad kr leti hai aise logo ki toucher ko apna kismat samjhti hai 🙏🙏🙏🙏 Jai Hind
@NITUKUMARI-cq8ms2 жыл бұрын
@@naweenkumar2634 nhi
@simranasif68012 жыл бұрын
Apki hi trha meri bhi story esi h susral ar husband ki ar mai yh 5 saal se bardash kr rhi hu ar mai devorce lene ki sochu to mummy papa k yaad ata h bs yhi soch k bardash kr rhi hu ar meri beti bhi h ek apki baat sun k mujhe apni yaad a gyi
@sannapatil18612 жыл бұрын
Yes mam u r right mam.. me too gone through same situation. People s say anything to divorcee but don't think about others live ur life in your own way..u r great women u taken right decision...
@sudhirmaurya24352 жыл бұрын
जिदंगी में हर चीज और जगह खुबसुरत नहीं है,और हमें उम्मीद भी नहीं करना चाहिए।
@anjalis6978 Жыл бұрын
Same story with me, I faced cruel people, have seen many struggles when it felt one day like a year 😢 but that’s my past now my life is peaceful. I’m empowered and independent now. My message to all the girls out there please don’t ignore Red Flags they are the signals that when you should stop. People change like a blink of an eye.
@akanshapramodagarwal29452 жыл бұрын
Ek dam right kisi ke pyar mai itna bi nhi girna chahiye apni bi self respect ha or hum akele bi jee skte ha jaruri nhi ha ki pati saath de aisa pati ho to nhi chahiye akele rehna better ha proud of women's
@supernj4319 Жыл бұрын
Aapki story mere se 90% milti hai keuki maine sayad aapse v jyada sasural valo ka aur apne pati k mental toucher saha hai lekin mere andar etni himmat nhi ki talak le saku na hi mayk valo ka support hai esliye apni ESI life ko apni kismat samajh kar rah rahi hu apne bete k sahare uska mukh dekhkar
@ekangel2212 жыл бұрын
It's not so easy. Now u r strong enough. So inspiring story. I hope u r achieve what u want👍
@utopiancity81382 жыл бұрын
These things really scare me🙄 and mostly I've seen multiple disturbed marriages, domestic violence on my own mother, i have seen her in blood many times fir bhi she stayed in that marriage only to get us educated. She tried to leave him but my maternal grandparents never supported her to get a divorce and mummy wasn't that much educated to get a job. But now m scared ki shadi kru ki na kru .. who knows kesa insaan hoga! Matlab sab pehle dikhate to accha hi hein but the true face comes out later.
@joshash1232 жыл бұрын
Purely understand you. As I feel the same. But every man is not same. The solution is be very independent financially and emotionally because any day if that happens to us, we can move on without a single thought. Moreover if somebody is stopping you living your dreams, is not a man...is a bullshit then :P
@PRATIBHAKUMARI-iz5ub2 жыл бұрын
First be SELF INDEPENDENT...then get married....Even if your marriage fails u will have the courage to live life independently...
@sobhasreesur12702 жыл бұрын
@@PRATIBHAKUMARI-iz5ub right
@manishamt2 жыл бұрын
Please don’t. Marriages thrives on the foundation of abuse disguised as responsibilities.
@naweenkumar26342 жыл бұрын
agar aap love marriage krna chahti hai to bolie mai kar lunga mera koi parrents nhi hai and job bhi krta hu salery 40000 hai future me 100% koi problem nhi hoga mere se no any bad disadv
@hemathakur712 жыл бұрын
12.02 goosebumps...trust me girl ..you motivated me a lot...beacuse I am suffering from same situation...😔
@prabhsimarkaur35492 жыл бұрын
Take action girl
@arunrai29092 жыл бұрын
Life is all about taking right decisions on right time. Always keep your self respect on top, don't let anyone to disrespect you. Don't make yourself rigid, discuss problems with your well wishers before taking any decision by yourself. Keep yourself strong 💪.
@kookblissed29362 жыл бұрын
Me too..and i filed case against him..
@johnnymaciver15442 жыл бұрын
Vrinda gupta i support💪 you.
@gautam__j26 күн бұрын
Really traumatising, but it’s amazing you are copping up. More Power!!
@Praddumn_prajapati2 жыл бұрын
रिस्क लेना पछतावा करने से ज्यादा बेहतर है ! क्योंकि रिस्क ना लेना ही सबसे बड़ा रिस्क है !! अगर रिस्क लेने के बाद कुछ गलत भी हो गया ! तो आपकी गलतियां इस बात का सबूत है कि आप कोशिश तो कर रहें हैं
@PoonamParasharVlogs2 жыл бұрын
Mere sath bhi exactly aisa hi hua tha sab kuchh...bas mere hubby ne kabhi hath nahi uthaya..jyadatar housewives ke sath aksar aisa hi hota hai..
@juberali88772 жыл бұрын
Right yaat
@kalusam17222 жыл бұрын
Mere sath hota h ye sab Mera husband muje Marta h
@shashiyadav9672 жыл бұрын
It's really nice your parents are with you at any condition.....
@rubinahamid41632 жыл бұрын
Mai bhi yehi conditions se gujar rahi hu..bas farak itna hai ke aapko aapke husband se pyar or mujhe nhi ku ke arrange marriage hai...2 years hogai hai ...sab ko samjhne ki khosish ke pyar or emotions bina rishta kaise chalau ..but koi support nhi hai...Kash mere hote wo support karte ...
@Vpn_0076 ай бұрын
Harmone change is responsible for love ❤. May god do this and billion of person would have been successful in life.
@neelamchauhan16042 жыл бұрын
A guy couldn't postpone the wedding knowing ur dad s in icu ...*RED ALERT * ,
@neerajSingh-ox1gl2 жыл бұрын
True
@rajbhardwaj21802 жыл бұрын
He is not worth being to be a better half who doesn’t have sympathy or heartfelt Feelings for someone’s pain
@joshash1232 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@Vlogsdelhi10082 жыл бұрын
Ye hi mana Kar deti fir isne b love k liye wo chiz ignore ki
@BitSaaArt2 жыл бұрын
मेने उम्मीद छोड़ दी थी, पर फिर से ये कमेंट करने आई हूँ, मै जरूर आउंगी जोश टॉक 💪💪
@annusah16442 жыл бұрын
Apki ye story kafi common hai ham sb girl's ki story se..... But ajkl ki mentality h ki kuch v ho sb normal h... Agr ap shte rho to ... Juada achhe bno to log jine ni denge... Depression me vhi log jate h jo dil ke bhut ache hote h koi ni bura ban jao lekin chor do yese insan ko jo apke liy same effort ni krta jo apne uske liy kra. 🙏🏻💯😐
@riabhowmick7102 жыл бұрын
U r seriously a bold lady....god bless u my sis
@sanaandleebfarooqui8384 Жыл бұрын
So relatable......it's a story of every house wife
@zerotogenius88482 жыл бұрын
Ye bat bilkul sahi h k divorce ka prosess sbse bda process h life ka
@armyspirit36022 жыл бұрын
She speaked her heart out
@joshash1232 жыл бұрын
Highly inspiring! I think some families are afraid of legal cases in India due to the time duration. That's why they don't file cases and that gives a boost to people to do whatever they want with females. I wish these procedures become fast which might give courage to people to fight for injustice.
@priyankagupta34462 жыл бұрын
Yes u true
@happynewday93002 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻🌹❤🌹 ये जिंदगी भी क्या से क्या बना देती है, हर किसी को सलीके से जीना सिखा देती है। यूं तो जिंदगी बहुत आसान नजर आती है एक हल्की सी ठोकर भी संभलना सिखा देती है। 🌹❤🌹🙏🏻kzbin.infok1mNBRqTj3I?feature=share
@arshinaworkfromhome Жыл бұрын
Exactly, in a 1 year marriage i suffered a lot! I have a baby boy but he left me and went to Dubai 😭😭. Maine abhi tk koi legal action 😭nhi Li
@gulafsha16472 жыл бұрын
Same mere sath bhi abhi yhi ho rha h .abhi tk himmat nhi thi but ye video dekh k bahut himmat aai h .bas ab or nhi sahna ab kahna h .or karna h.or torture nhi hona. Thank u so much for motivate us
@RizwanKhan-qp7sp2 жыл бұрын
अगर जों पति का मूड खराब हो और गुस्से में कुछ कह रहा हो तो चुप रह कर शांति से उनको सुनना चाहिए । उनसे बात करनी चाहिए। और उनकी हा में हा मिलानी चाहिए। उनके सामने पत्नी को भी पति को उल्टे जवाब नहीं देने चाहिए । ऐसा करने से झगड़ा और बढ़ेगा । जब पति का मन अच्छा हो तो तब उनसे उस बात के बारे में पूछना चाहिए की क्या वजह थी उस समय जो तुम इतने गुस्से में थे क्या प्रॉबलम थी । अगर जो वो बताएं तो उसकी मदद करनी चाहिए । अगर जों तुमसे प्रॉबलम हो तो कहना चाहिए की आगे से वों ध्यान रखेगी । इस तरह से ही पति पत्नी का रिश्ता चलता है ।
@onlineeducation92932 жыл бұрын
Maine bhi same problem 7 year face kiya mera baby ivf baby hai fir bhi maine husband ko chod diya aur meri maa ke ghar rah rahi hu aur apni case lad rahi hu,meri maa aur bhai bahot satha dete hai....
@uniqueTadka772 жыл бұрын
Your story is so heart touching ❤️
@shanajkhan93342 жыл бұрын
Bahut achha Kiya sister aapne..jis jagah aapke self-respect na wha..rahne Kya Matlab nhi hai..jha ijjat aur yehtram na wha se kinara Kar Lena chhaiye..log Kya khengee ..isse koi fark nhi. Pdhta kyunki..jab aap us situation me ho koi samjhata bhi nhi .hme koi fark nhi pdhta ye samaj Kya sochega..
@shanajkhan93342 жыл бұрын
@@khatija3037 ammi aur Abba ke alawa koi apna nhi hota yhi Jo rista duniya jjisses hme dhokha nhi milta..Allah Pak aapki duaaye kbul kre..🤲🤲🤲🤲
@tanishkarana85212 жыл бұрын
Such a confident girl ♥️
@sawan-dp6xo Жыл бұрын
Sahi kaha payar aisa hota hai 😔
@kajalkunal Жыл бұрын
right yar same mere sath bhi yahi jo raha h same yahi chiz hamne bhi love marrege kie
@indugaur112 жыл бұрын
Proud of you.... U r sooooo brave
@an-hw8ew2 жыл бұрын
Summary: Bollywood love dream myth came to end after a slap. There is lot of difference between love and marriage life thankfully she felt it after a slap.
@nagendrathakur53872 жыл бұрын
Aap border jaisi movie dekhiye, bollywood ka hi h.
@an-hw8ew2 жыл бұрын
@@nagendrathakur5387 hume kya lena dena sacchai mein aao women constitutionally jyada powerful hain jo man mein aaye vo dhara laga de tumhara halat khasta hojayega bail milne mein .
@roopalicharan4162 жыл бұрын
Tum jaise log fir bhi ladki ko hi galat bologe or pyar karna kaise galat ho sakta hai .
@an-hw8ew2 жыл бұрын
@@roopalicharan416 ->when do I blame women . I just say a fact constitutionally women are more powerful than men . ->(There is 32 law made for women No Gender neutral law) ->Go and read about 2015 delhi ka darinda case(fake case harmen preet kaur ) ,visnu tiwari ,shweta husband . ->On 2 Dec 4 women raped a men but there is no direct law to punish women for that (baaki koi choti moti dhara laga de uska koi asar nhi) . Hope you will understand
@wowser21532 жыл бұрын
My friend is married to a man who had cancer before marriage and was in remission. It was a arranged marriage and man’s family hid his medical history. 1 year after marriage his cancer returned and man and his family blames her for bringing bad luck .
@Hajah7832 жыл бұрын
Omg 😣
@wowser21532 жыл бұрын
@@Hajah783 yes , the point is the victim of fraud marriage, the woman , became the accused.
@fire69152 жыл бұрын
Gajb dhokha ho gyaa aapki frnd ke saath toh. Isse yhi smgh ata hai medical. Check up krwana chahiye ldke kaaa
@wowser21532 жыл бұрын
@@fire6915 mens family will lie about everything, their financial condition, income , his health. After marriage they will tell it was all good before marriage, it went down after marriage.
@Aspire_Wings10 ай бұрын
2 times that person made me realize why he is not a ideal partner for me. Now why should I still choose him as death. I can also get it through other means.
@sankethengad5172 ай бұрын
you are amazing madam tgank you for sharing your story👍👍👍👍😭😭❤️❤️❤️
@priyankamoghe82602 жыл бұрын
Same as it is happened with me wahi mar wahi sorry wahi insult wahi depression..... But now am happy am divorced nd luckily am on a government job..........and can help others who r going through this.....
@Omshivaya-yg8zd2 жыл бұрын
Don't be dependent on anyone whether be your parents or husband....
@priyankakumari-zj5cd2 жыл бұрын
Pyar krna shi h,, Lkin pyar K liye door mate Ki trh bichh Jana glt,, Warna log apne pair saaf kr K aage Nikl jayenge
@missmagicshalini7482 жыл бұрын
Mujhe apne husband se ya unki family se koi problem hoti hai or me husband se kuch bolu to wo hamesha yahi bolege agar tumhe aisa lagta hai.. Tumhe kuch problem hai.. To wo tumhari problem. Ye yahi words hote h hamesha unke.. 😭😭abhi meri shadi ko sirf 9 months huye.
@Khushboo_202002 жыл бұрын
Stay strong dear love marriage ya arrange?
@missmagicshalini7482 жыл бұрын
@@Khushboo_20200 arrange
@divyams31282 жыл бұрын
Apki हिम्मत...Apke साहस....or apke प्यार की वफादारी ko सलाम hai Sister🙏💜❤️
@PoonamSharma-re6qf2 жыл бұрын
Koi nhi sunta mam sab bas apne family ki tarafdari krte h unke liye ye sb normal hota hai... going through the same.
@rashmijames16552 жыл бұрын
Same here
@rajbhardwaj21802 жыл бұрын
So it’s only u who can change ur life bad times never assumed but good time u can create by doing ur own dreams fulfilling
@ginnulittleworld2452 жыл бұрын
Atleast aapke mayke wale supportive the unko deko Jo vapis mayke bhi nhi ja skte
@PoonamParasharVlogs2 жыл бұрын
Sahi baat hai 😒
@hardikatrivedi83342 жыл бұрын
Very true
@paramjawandha64282 жыл бұрын
Sayi baat hai
@cherylrwb2 жыл бұрын
Financially independent banoge to koi bhi kahi bhi sath reh lega.mayke wale b supportive ho jaenge
@ginnulittleworld2452 жыл бұрын
@@cherylrwb sabke case m aisa nhi h aap prvt job mkitna kama loge ghr to nhi bna poge na hi ek single job se Sara sab krpaoge bche ka khracha khud ka rent ka banki chizo ka
@jitumehta53222 жыл бұрын
Very courageous. When will the man's mindset change and begin to respect women. You took a step in the right way and proved yourself many are unable to do that and either commit suicide or continue suffering. Salute you
@eaglemgtow27892 жыл бұрын
when women will Start respecting men
@dreamerboyfacts Жыл бұрын
Man and women both can do wrong many women for money or something else want to live seperate from in laws , taunting hum,filing fake dowry case,fake domestic violence case against man so women can leave toxic relationship with help of law but man can't leave toxic relationship if he did then she for revenge file fake dowry case, domestic violence case .
@arinayaenterprises49032 жыл бұрын
Right...but fear of divorce is not something but losing kids is biggest and worst dreams...
@goodgirlharikripa4252 жыл бұрын
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