Joshua Graham-Tough Love

[@Deathwing21]

In a world filled with misery and uncertainty, It is a great comfort to know that, In the end, There is light in the darkness. Thank you for posting

[@metaljacket8128]

Yes.

[@DariusFlynt_2012]

I would like a vid on how to remain faithful with religion in these modern days of endless knowledge and large public sentiments against the values of religion.

[@TK-727]

Damn.... That hit hard

[@Existential_Robot]

@@DariusFlynt_2012 If you're questioning your faith, then it is no longer your faith. Once you begin asking questions/forming a line of thought like that one there, Faith (in our traditional sense) starts falling apart. I get it, and I understand. I once struggled to keep my faith under the duress of my later teen years, and I felt rather lost for awhile there. That said, my faith is no longer of a traditional cloth. I sewed my own. I have faith in myself, my family, and all of humanity. And that is enough, for now.

[@Dis_Play22]

@@Existential_Robotblud is spitting facts

[@caleblindsey5794]

Bro could not only be a philosopher but an excellent politician

[@jnah4593]

I agree, he’d probably need so much security though that it would be the fbi to shame. But I agree all the same.

[@BoredAmerican]

Untrue

[@LZRD107]

"Kings must be philosophers and philosophers must be kings" - something I read in a book

[@tidlywank]

@@jnah4593 If anything it'd be the FBI who'd try to take him down

[@mrjiddly565]

@@BoredAmericanI would like to know your reasoning in saying no.

[@GoblinKing991]

You’re a good person. It would be impossible to be argued against. Thank you for having the strength to write these and send them into a world that cancels people for less. Your work is not only important, it’s necessary in this day and age.

[@dancronin5691]

Are you insane? "necessary" does that word completely devoid of meaning to you?

[@andrew9371]

@@dancronin5691 the message of the video is verry much nessesary and more people need to hear it our culture is literally tearing itself apart because people haven't had the balls to tell eachother this shit

[@kennethcastillo9667]

Lol, the words has a good resemblance of "you're a good neighbor" by Joshua Graham 😁

[@Zeep_goblin]

@@dancronin5691 Yes. It is necessary.

[@dancronin5691]

@@Zeep_goblin Necessary to you and people who need to hear advice from a video game character, but not necessary in terms of real assistance or where it ranks when it comes to needs. Agree on that?

[@maciejpiwowarczyk2577]

Thanks, that helps a lot to meditate on where I am in life right now. Keep on doing the good work.

[@naanbred2735]

I am actually entranced by this monologue, thank you for this, and keep doing what you're doing cus these words actually got me thinking deep.

[@joshuahicks7798]

I won't lie I am one of these weak men you mention. I listen to these when I can in the small hope that something lights in me to pull myself out of this dark pit I have put myself in. Your videos are excellent and I wish you all th best brother. God bless you and all those you touch with these videos

[@Existential_Robot]

If you can't pull yourself out of the pit, find ways to force yourself out of it. I'm currently exercising, eating three square meals a day, and going to my dentist consistently so I can join the USAF. And while these things aren't easy, I can definitely say I feel better than before (by miles). That said, I still have a lot of flaws brought on by years of abuse and poor decision-making. I was my own worst enemy, and to say I had no enemies was murdering my drive to find an opponent/goal. If there was no one to blame, or to hold accountable, then it would've been well and truly my fault. And as harsh as it sounds, it was all my fault. I could've run far and wide, made a better life for myself instead of wallowing in despair for two years, pretending I wasn't being my own villain. I hope Air Force BMT will fix some of my perceived issues.

[@muninnodinnsraven4193]

Just remember that it doesn't matter how weak you are, you have the power to defeat that weakness.

[@akaDALTA]

thats good actually, you are know that you're in weak state and not in denial. I hope you gets better. God bless y'all

[@theballisticmystic5005]

A weak man does not have the strength or wisdom to recognize or acknowledge his weaknesses.

[@RickOShae-w1r]

When I go to the gym the weight I lift is not impressive by any stretch of the imagination, but I tell myself it is not about where I am, but where I am going. Remember this, the small things you do to improve may seem insignificant especially to yourself, but I believe that a good life is not made of a few big decisions, but of many small ones. It's not that I decided I would start working out one day, but that every day I decide to workout again. At every opportunity do your best and remember that when you fail it is not your end.

[@ZestyFireTF2]

I absolutely love your Joshua Graham videos, they're so inspiring, with the calm, collective voice of the character!

[@anonimoqualquer5503]

I Love How instead of make a joke vídeo using the Voice of a Character they make a good vídeo with ideas more usefull than 80% of the "self improvement" content

[@humb1_e100]

Zesty fire is crazy

[@ZestyFireTF2]

@@humb1_e100?

[@garyisfat]

idk why you fell out of my algorithem but im glad i went looking for you. i hope you never give up on this type of content because it helps people like me every day. i take these words as tools, and use them to better the lives of mine and my own. youre a brilliant individual, and you dont sugar coat the world we have inhereted from our fathers, and we have much work to do not only for ourselves but for our sons and daughters. if you ever extend your word beyond youtube such as a podcast, a book, anything i would absolutely love to support and be a part of building your word because i know how much it has helped me, many young people need a helping hand in these times.

[@Looneyboy]

So glad to hear from you. You’re the only writer I can vision with His voice. Thanks for the update and video.

[@wilsonwong8176]

Shit man you nailed it again. The whole part about "I have no enemies" is not only so on point, but also so in character for Joshua Graham. He was forced in fire and despite being so faithful, know that if you have no enemies - you'll be killed be "friends"

[@WADETEC]

I wish we lived in world where "I have no enemies" applied. It's supposed to be a lesson that everyone has their own justification and it's never personal. That there is no reason for us to hate anyone mo matter what they do to us. Unfortunately, that's not the case.

[@dungeonsdarlings7270]

This was eye-opening. I recently shared that exact quote you mentioned on Facebook thinking I was being profound, but after this video I have a different perspective. I'm realizing I identified with it because saying you have no enemies is an easy way to escape the responsibility of fighting for the future you want. In truth I have many enemies, and most of them are parts of myself. Thank you for sharing this.

[@15KstepsaDay]

Well put my friend I’m glad you’ve come around to reality , it’s not easy at first but long term you will suffer less.

[@tacnomel2591]

Remember that there is a man behind this is just a man not the character Joshua. Take the message in moderance, with salt, and most importantly after study. Don’t let it just pass you by instead write it down all that you remember and what you want to remember. Compare it with the lessons you can see in all things. Earn the knowledge and it will reward you.

[@stachestar]

It’s a relief to know that at least one other person on this planet views humanity this way.

[@onefine5976]

We are many, we are the followers of Christ if we hear these messages. I asked Lord for wisdom and knowledge

[@zhartho]

It’s really eye opening that someone can articulate what we all know deep down. Glad I found this channel and thank you brother🙏

[@ramleydude456]

Russia, 2 AM. I really do relate to the group of people, who mistake weakness for virtue. This video made me question myself. Or at least I see it that way Thank you

[@SuperChai18]

weakness is not virtue, but I pray you don’t fight a war God wouldn’t want you to brother.

[@jarensol]

Superb. I appreciate the nuance in this video. As our country (and the world) struggles between change and tradition, it’s important to remember that we must keep our eyes to the sky, but also have our feet rooted in the ground. No easy days. Peace ✌🏾

[@ultrainstinctbroly4333]

Joshua Graham would be hailed as a hero and would be hated at the exact same time

[@fancygamer2275]

I dont usaually comment, but this is one of the best speeches I`ve ever heard. Alot of people need to hear this message

[@sovietunion7643]

the problem is that most people don't have the right mix of both soft and tough love. some people grow up with too much masculine tough love, this can lead someone to view discipline and self restraint as oppressive and unloving when no flexibility is given. this leads one to go to the opposite extreme of that and have no strong values or self control many more people grow up with too much soft, motherly love and are never told boundaries and how to be a decent human being. mothers have a tendency to want to be friends and closer to their kids than the father, which inherently isn't a bad thing, however if you don't have a strong father figure giving tough love to balance this out it can enable the child to not be able to really properly function as in the real world there are tough times and mean people out there. simply wishing the world was a softer kinder place does not magically make it so. in the modern age the balance between the parents has been completely destroyed. many people grow up with one parent, or go between the two parents, or otherwise just don't have parents that cooperate in parenting.

[@barrybeebenson8102]

I’ve listened to nearly every single one of these now and I’d just like to thank you for spreading a much needed message in todays world. Since while much of what you’ve said was taught to me at a young age others do not remain so lucky.

[@Sliperypickle000]

Please never stop makeing these. They breath life into hope for me

[@stephanodigiorgio1090]

Kindly ask you fine Sir, to keep sharing this gift to those who will listen, thank you for these steps of guidance to the light of self-knowledge. Blessings from Venezuela

[@dinolover]

Man this reminds me of a quote from Bleach. "Those who do not fear the sword they wield, should not wield a sword at all"

[@taftgaming820]

One of the greatest videos I've listened to in a looooooooong time. Absolutely outstanding

[@PolymurExcel]

I got a friend who loves things like this. Especially since it’s narrated by arguably one of our most favorite characters period.

[@joewall8210]

This makes me realise how far i am from the message he preaches.

[@barcher513]

I think there’s a balance. There are times to be competitive and there are times to be companionate. The message of this video came out as very black and white advice when we live in a world that is grey. I think there is strength in showing mercy. In turning the other cheek. Same as there is strength in dominating and being tenacious. I guess all I’m saying is there is validity things you might not agree with, like the “I have no enemies” phrase

[@darkapollo3463]

Agreed. This world is very nuanced. Having a black and white mindset could only get you so far in certain situations. Being more adaptive to an ever changing world and holding ideals of strength yet with compassion can go a long way. I understand what this video was trying to say overall but it does come off as being a bit too rigid. It also misses some points at certain ideals that people have. We should acknowledge the reality of this world and be prepared. Yet, we should also not lose sight of the best and loving parts of our humanity. We all struggle, but we all should not lose sight of the best of what we can be.

[@darkapollo3463]

@@allen55578 no shit, it's a cruel world.

[@shad0wsta1k67]

I had been searching for the right ai gimmick to quickStart a KZbin channel. How foolish of me. I should’ve been focusing on my short stories and novel, honing my craft rather than use these new fangled tools I barely understand. Thank you for the video, I hope you produce more and that this one helps more just like me.

[@ShadowmanJaxson]

Been a while since I've gone and looked for your videos again. Something just hits deep down when I listened to you videos once more. In anything, one must always have a tough love to deal with the world. One must always deal with searching for their purpose, and keep growing toward it. As I see the truth, hear it from this video, and a quote that fits. "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." - Hebrews 12:11

[@DKP33]

Your words are truth brother

[@NomadicDave2032]

A video from you always seems to pop up when I need it, and with the words that I need. They realign and focus my mind, keep it in the goals of conquering my life.

[@taylorwalker7282]

I consider your work to be very important. It’s not only rare, but takes courage to write as you do. I’m sure I’m not the only one your attitude and way of thinking gives hope to. To take these things on, in whatever approach is right for the individual, is often a lonely struggle. Sincerely, thank you. We may never meet, but it’s consoling to know you and people like you are out there.

[@connorburkitt2111]

Thank you. This video was the reason I decided to push myself on a run today.

[@TheFireMaker117]

This turned my outlook of today arpund. Im gonna go workout, and clean my car. Maybe ill have a new job next week. Needed this. Thank you

[@MarloMl]

Joshua Graham, a man, that doesn´t exist, but he speaks and means more, than a real person today ever could be. You call it A.I? I call it spirit!

[@onefine5976]

The Good Shepherd will a way

[@MarloMl]

And i think he doe´s. It it not confusing, it´s the "VOICE" that in the end confience you? i Mean the word´s, are spooken a 1000end times,but it´s the actor or poet, who you call for an advice, we all know, it´s the word, not the speaker. But, mah frend, in the end, it is us, so stay with me, stay with us, stay..with "Him".. a Christian, who beliefs that we are right..but now? God almighty, we lost, we aren´t lost, but we lost. THE WEST is FUBAR. beyond all repair. Oh and thank you for replying, our forces are thin, but we are the chosen ones ^^

[@onefine5976]

@@MarloMl a lot of people can’t read nor write in certain ways to me this the best way to do it. People in the modern age are retarded by the schools & media, I’m just trying to find a sliver of hope on this planet. You have achieved nothing in life only the GOD of Jesus Christ can help us at this point; some don’t see their value until it’s to late Lord, “And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. Give us day by day our daily bread. And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭11‬:‭2‬-‭4‬ ‭KJV‬‬

[@jugospankin226]

The thing that gets me in all of these, is the encouragement. I won’t lie, I have been weak. I am weak as of writing this, yet I still have garnered respect and virtue of some people. I am forever blessed to have them. I have tried, but haven’t tried nowhere hard enough. I am glad that you make these. I am glad that you are encouraging and inspiring people to go out and improve their life, mind, spirit, finances and body. Thank you for growing, so you can teach us to grow in a time where most will stop as a sprout. Thank you.

[@mrmerfeo4320]

It's true that family is being built by going through tough times, I had that wake up call when I realized that tolerating the wrong things was just avoiding conflict. And when I tried to resolve these conflicts they were interpreted as an insult or misunderstanding. I also realized that after a certain point you can't "fix" someone, having that messiah complex only caused me pointless worry and guilt. So if someone doesn't want to change then stop tolerating it and let them go or criticize with good intentions. Sadly tolerance gets confused with acceptance so easily these days, its a shame I had to learn this by myself in those last few years in my 20's. I had to learn many things like these because I lacked that genuine tough love in my life.

[@Mulleii]

Another great piece

[@bashy_07]

Be humble. When you work on yourself, keep it secret… don’t boast about your achievements. Bring it up in conversation but keep it brief. When you workout don’t post pictures. When people see the outcome be humble. You will more respected in the long run when you are humble.

[@LakeSide108-jc1zx]

watching your videos has let me see the light of God again. Thank you.

[@renny1369]

Thank you so much for this. In these dark times of brain rot "content" and total infantilization in people, it is truly refreshing to head some sober honest truth. I feel inspired and assured that I am on the right path. Hello from eastern Europe

[@sirrenoko5245]

As a traumatized 32 year old man child, this hurt a lot. Thanks. I needed it.

[@matthewchanowilson2035]

Your videos make my gut wrench and I love it. It means I know it's true and I need to hear it. Thank you.

[@caffeinated_doot8597]

I've been holding off watching this video for a while because I knew it would hurt me. I was afraid of pain. I was too comfortable with my life. I really needed this. Especially now when a new chapter of my life is about to begin and a lot of people are looking up to me. Thank you, God speed

[@RollOutRory]

I can't express enough how important and impactful your writing is.

[@T-Weems512]

I say amen to that Joshua.

[@Arkturius]

They may tell things to hurt you, but they never tell you things that hurt you to make you better

[@johndoe5432]

Having just broken up with my girlfriend due to my inability to trust her anymore, this really helps. I'm still in a lot of pain but this makes it a little more bearable.

[@vaultdweller94]

Thank you for this. I'm partially on disability (60% disability checks/40% work), struggle with myself every hour of the day and have next to no connections, but.. I do everything I can and I know my weaknesses as much as I know my strengths, and I try everything I can to pull at least some of my weight. I grew up sheltered and have always been afraid of everything, even growing up in a society such as Norway. I didn't initially identify with everything said in this but I agree- I am a weak man and I won't shy away from this. I *know* this and I have made peace with it, but I will try and be the best weak man I can be

[@DanteVid1719]

You'll get there lad!

[@sieben.5141]

I though I would never listen to anyone talking about how the “I don’t have enemies” quote was hollow, banal, weak. Thank you.

[@younggrasshopper3531]

The whole “red pill” craze on the web could stand to hear this

[@Sid90s]

I nneeded to hear this. Thank you kindly. May the God of your faith guide you all.

[@DrJain-qr5ul]

I always come back to these videos to think improve or just to listen to and they are great and I love your writing man keep it up.

[@unfunnygaming2003]

Thanks for sharing this. Its helping look at things better not expecting unreasonable things. Again thank you.

[@stimaster882]

I really hope you continue to upload. How you voice your perception and opinion on subjects can not only challenge mine in some ways and help me sharpen my understanding (perspective/logic/wisdom) on subjects, but expand on notions that I myself share. When I view your content my knowledge/logic and critical thinking/perspective improves, and I would appreciate you continuing your uploads.

[@Anatoli001]

About the violence portion of the video- I believe that being completely harmless is an awful thing, it means you are nothing but a pawn. I also believe that being Ruthless is an awful thing because it means you will be alone. I have tried to be both of these things and discovered first hand that neither of them work for both reasons. Like most things, moderation Is key- to be strong when it is called for and to do what needs to be done, but not to become a destroyer.

[@bengoldberg6198]

Christ is God. God is Love. Love is Truth.

[@B0uffon1116]

"How can i learn from loss if i get a trophy for it" that hit deep

[@danielpfaff1802]

I will.. with all my pain and knowledge will be... A father and love does not take but make better... Never hurt but be stronger never lower always rise... For you are the future.

[@Goober_hai]

This is incredible, I had a bad day, and this lightened up my mood. Thank you!

[@insanebrain6685]

brother..you dont know how much i need to hear these videos, i want you to flourish and kept strong and safe for thanks for telling me what i need to hear, not what i want

[@Cribro-xu6it]

Thank you for posting these things man you are always spot on

[@PeterMailu312]

This is more of a wake-up call for me. I had to listen to this three times, and the more I did, the more the words made sense. Thank you.❤

[@graybarron7695]

bro ur vids cured my depression

[@darrylbonner7208]

I really like the videos you put out, they reinforce the hope that there are wise men left in this world. I’ve always felt that I’m a glitch in my generation( Gen Z) I’m almost the opposite of what people are today. But I know that I am still human, and I’ll strive to do my best to survive the current situation but spread my goodwill to others, like what you’re doing right now.

[@GTRRSS]

Cringe

[@darrylbonner7208]

No u@@GTRRSS

[@onefine5976]

@@GTRRSSyet another loser that won’t get the mental state of this planet

[@Engisneed]

I've been thinking of something to say about your channel, and I can only say thank you. You've showed me things I never even thought about before. And plus, listening to Joshua is always a plus

[@GaeLordPhockHer]

If only for a moment. I have been brought out of a very dark place. Thank you so much for your time and effort.

[@grimxd2959]

Actually love this so much!! YOURE AMAZING good job!!

[@Err0r34]

You sir, are a true 1 in 1 million that is truly a hidden treasure. Your words have truth that I respect, and I hope more people will take your words by heart, God bless you brother.

[@treggue]

Recently been going thru Love spells with someone I see a long future with. This feels like a sign from the Lord to keep pressing on. Thank you for this.

[@halfasleepvampire7545]

This is fantastic!! Edit: I’ve sent this to my family. Some of them are angry.

[@emmanuellouis8570]

Keep going brother ! We need more of this !

[@Jerrzay]

Good to know someone is preaching what I see as well. Thank you.

[@crickettheghillie4666]

Please, keep up with the Joshua Graham good work man.

[@gustavoborges2356]

Definitely one of the most psychologically profound videos I've ever seen, thanks man!

[@jaxboi9137]

I missed you Joshua. Thanks for coming back and being my study buddy 🍻

[@comixpanda]

I'm glad I stumbled on these videos. I gotta say, it's helping me turn my life around. I used to be a hardcore otaku and borderline degenerate and after listening to these videos and discovering other Joshua Graham contents, I've took a very large step back to reflect in my life... and I'm glad I did. I really needed it. Thank you and God bless 🙏

[@DariusFlynt_2012]

Start turning your life around by changing that profile picture.

[@comixpanda]

@@DariusFlynt_2012 I will once I get off work 👍

[@THEShogunBallistic]

Nope. I literally and truly love everyone. I know how this sounds and looks but I love unconditionally... I get that looks weak to everyone but that's the meaning of tough love too, literally.

[@dethmedic52]

To the young men in here feeling lowly; you have not lost yet completely kings, merely your crowns are so drawn with filth you've forgotten the glitter you bear into this world. Do your best through the torrent darkness ahead to keep it glinting while you carry your lantern. And for those like me who are aging and already had your time; brush off your pelts of selfishness and lend your hand to light another's if yours burns bright. We cannot achieve getting to the top of the mountain when we are holding each other down like crabs in a bucket. Be each other's strengths, and in turn lay bare your weaknesses so we may build the proper foundation to move our true way forward. I love you all, stay strong and smile ❤

[@mr.commonsense]

Finally! We've missed you

[@ChinoZ32]

I’m thankful to have found this gem of a channel. You are correct about the copycats, I would be thankful for them as it is a sign of your ability to create great content. Even these fake voices, who merely read the same stoic quotes, cookie cutter content. This is humanity, some cannot create. Some will fall for them, I think we need not worry for them, as the ones who can identify true genuine messages, teachings, and stories are the ones that will always flourish. Thank you again.

[@evilbhizzle1688]

Glad you're back :) Great video bro, always love the insight and writing you do on this channel. Great job!! 🙏👏

[@freeman_fundamentals]

Tell me you haven’t seen Vinland Saga without telling me you haven’t seen Vinland Saga

[@martincoppertail]

You just gave the best advice for new parents.....

[@Ssharon5050]

Thank you, genuinely, for giving me and so many others such advice.

[@Masked12-b5i]

Honestly I needed this so thank you

[@BlackLensYT]

You my friend is one of the greatest speakers I have ever heard, great video. 👏

[@Professor_Chud]

glad to see you back and just as based as ever

[@BigWrangler]

Damn i forgot about these. Thanks for uploading

[@darklink-ih3hc]

This man has converted more to the faith of christianity than i thought and i can see why holy cow wisdom flows from him like water from a waterfall

[@darklink-ih3hc]

It is just now that i realise this is an AI however still amazing

[@shermaljones5561]

i needed this, thank you.

[@diego5079]

Sweet, he's back!

[@amonodom15]

My favorite person to listen to. You say you do not have answers, but frankly I disagree. Maybe Im coping with not knowing, but I think you have almost all the answers im looking for.

[@theBackSpaced]

Thank you for keeping on keeping on.

[@infamouscha]

Thank you for this wisdom.

[@KingSyurp]

why does joshua grahm add nothing but everything to this

[@sacpetdoc]

This is a good video and it was given to me on a good day so hopefully I will learn from it. I honestly I hope this helps me grow.

[@pikkallo6013]

This is so true. Thank you for this reminder.

[@d3ad_kat519]

Amazingly well said and spoken and this shows a very clear insight if the reality we all face these days and only time will tell