Problems That Come With Dating A Mexican..

[@JossAndJanik]

What’s up guys! Remember: We can only talk from our experience. We know not every Mexican is the same and different people have different experiences. So please share your thoughts in the comment section in a civilized manner :D

[@poletpolly1476]

Si... casi todos somos mas de tocar, incluso si te presentan alguien por mi primera vez...beso

[@poletpolly1476]

Pues creo que si es ya como doble moral que no se puedan quedar en el mismo cuarto, al final salen de 17 años embarazadas y no fue en la casa, eso es lo de menos... lo hacen en cualquier otro lado

[@auroras7131]

YYYYYyes

[@nexusd4394]

Ihr beide seid super weiter so, ich hoffe ich werde auch bald so gut Englisch können.

[@davidortega3825]

Im mexican and i dont like being late or when people are late!!

[@vanesapamelavegaarteaga8866]

Necesito una reacción de Janik con telenovelas mexicanas 😂😂😂

[@joemorales643]

I second this! lol

[@vanesapamelavegaarteaga8866]

Jess, también me da pena, pero debemos admitir que sería gracioso. JAJA 💓

[@karenhernandez4904]

Jajajajaja apoyo esta idea 😂

[@marthavalentin9291]

Qué haces besando a la lisiada!!!?? Jajajajajja

[@allyquintero7981]

Totallyy yeees

[@flowermj]

"put a ring or no sleepover" aplica para toda Latinoamérica lol

[@nataliaarroyopiano5121]

Mentira, en Argentina y Uruguay eso suena super anticuado

[@mariadelrosariomgbouza5078]

@@nataliaarroyopiano5121 ñe no tanto

[@SofyFerrerRomero]

In Argentina is unusual that, unless that you are from a religion... If that is the case, yep.

[@ecleptosecleptos7319]

No en México

[@theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840]

What's a sleepover

[@ryhnelmi2818]

OMG. I'm from Iran and i got shocked when notice that we have a lot of things in common with Mexicans !!!! I didn't expect that

[@ryhnelmi2818]

@fjf sjdnx Iran is actually a girls name. It means free or land of gentlefolk.

[@callous21]

Everyone focuses on their differences too much

[@miac2382]

Nope! lol

[@miac2382]

@@callous21 Or we all don't need to be the same and fine with that huh? lol

[@elpuerco6059]

There was a famous Mexican actress from Iran named Iran Eory. She was on telenovelas that I remember watching as a youngster and she was, of course, stunningly beautiful!

[@pacopeso8474]

I have been in Mexico for eight years, married in 2013. Being Irish Catholic it was very easy for me to adjust. The language was difficult but the Mexican people have always been very kind with me. I live in Queretaro and will be here for the rest of my life. Viva Mexico!

[@agustindeiturbide8051]

There's a lots of Irish people who fought for mexico🇲🇽 in the war aganist the US

[@pacopeso8474]

@@agustindeiturbide8051 absolutely San Patrcios battalion

[@agustindeiturbide8051]

@@pacopeso8474 yes

[@agustindeiturbide8051]

@@pacopeso8474 over 2 million mexicans have irish ancestry 🇲🇽🇮🇪

[@gillmonsta]

@@agustindeiturbide8051 fr?

[@22sel22]

THOSE ARE NOT MEXICAN ISSUES... THOSE ARE LATIN AMERICAN ISSUES 🤣

[@ashleyrose7920]

Exactly

[@btsslaymylife1025]

Yeees! I am from Peru and it practically the same, even the traffic😂😂

[@hellou73]

And spaniard too😂😂

[@danirunaway6684]

TOTALLY

[@majooleonmagnani5246]

Yass

[@cree7098]

I wonder if he knows that he has to pay for the wedding.

[@susanneschmidt5335]

Really? I didn't know that, although I lived in Mexico for a couple of years. I always assumed it was the same way as in Germany and the brides father has to pay...

[@itsalm.7514]

Cree I died💀💀💀

[@cree7098]

Susanne Schmidt yes, in the German culture the brides father pays for the wedding. But in Mexican culture they believe the groom should pay for the wedding since they’re are marrying their daughter. I know this because I’m half German and Mexican Lmao.

[@yahelihervert7752]

Hi I'm from Mexico and the answer to your question would be yes and no, it's an old tradition that some families still do but in the modern day most couples and their families don't do that anymore they decide to split the cost of the wedding or they choose to designate what we call padrinos, who usually end up being members of our families or closest friends and they take charge of things like the veil, the band, drinks, rings, etc. Sorry for my bad english i'm still learning;(

[@AT-qq9fe]

😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂

[@alanavramovic8833]

Croatian guy here, married to a mexican! Im living 2 years in Mexico and Im still not used to the traffic. And you are right, when we fight, there are no filters! Anyway, great video, hello from Puebla!

[@JG-zt6jo]

Haha that’s cool from Croatia. Hope you’re enjoying Puebla and tried their mole and Cemitas

[@gerardozamudio4055]

Greetings from Houston tx.

[@santiagoguerreromartinez9898]

hola soy de colombia y la moyoria de estos problemas tambien ocurren con mucha frecuencia en mi pais.... creo que en latinoamrericas somos muy parecidos todos .

[@InfoLunix]

Así es! Soy de República Dominicana y tenemos esas costumbres también. Familias grandes, conducir terrible, impuntualidad, demasiado "touchy", mucha comida, etc.

[@sofyzambrano9842]

Siiii yo tambien creo eso, soy ee Ecuador y literal pasa lo mismo😂❤

[@hanswurst7692]

De que parte de Colombia eres? Saludos de Alemania!

[@vanessabeizaga2887]

Perú igual!! Todo latinoamérica se parece al menos hasta cierto punto

[@lillijoana4135]

Igual en Costa Rica 👌🏼😂

[@stevecastro1325]

My wife of 20 years is from Vietnam originally, and she lived with her parents, and was absolutely prohibited from spending the night with me, even though we were in our 20s and 30s when dating. I will tell you, it’s worth the wait!

[@bibiramirez8730]

Dude I’m married and I was scared to tell my dad I was pregnant for the second time 😂

[@smugggles]

Yikes

[@susyq7329]

😂I know what you mean!

[@woffordwolf2071]

???

[@woffordwolf2071]

Why were you scared?

[@aishabashirimbashir3561]

Why? ?? 😂😂

[@randomperson9149]

“Just say hi and act like you know everybody” this sent me because it’s so true 🤣

[@mfabrizius]

OMG. She is the cutest, most adorable Mexicana I have ever seen.

[@gutentagmariana]

"I lowered my expectations with you" SAME here with my husband, but tbh I much rather have an "unromantic" husband or one that does romatic things in his way than someone totally romantic but with a macho mindset (which lets face it, happens quite often).

[@Belu3554]

Yes, I totally agree with you 👍

[@karstenvoigt7280]

I wouldn´t call it explicitely "unromantic". Both ways are just based on very different traditions of what is considered to be romantic. And in ideal case, a combination of the best aspects of both traditions can become something absolutely stunning.

[@gutentagmariana]

@@karstenvoigt7280 totally get it that's why I wrote "unromantic" with quotations. ❤️😅

[@flaviomorocho9415]

This is like eating with hot sauce. You can stop eating spicy but que rico que es.

[@vivaeuropa]

@@gutentagmariana What do you mean by macho? Do you consider a man be masculine and having confidence in himself to beat up other men macho? Just curious thanks.

[@lorenaescobar4198]

You should make a video where Janik reacts to Mexican telenovelas pleaseee 💕💕

[@ingridrodriguez1605]

Secundo la moción

[@Lots17]

What's that?

[@queenita22]

pero las telenovelas de antes :D

[@andreatapia5388]

M it's like a TV series but with a LOT of DRAMA

[@Lots17]

@@andreatapia5388 OK :D

[@lmergenti]

I love you guys! My father was German (Bavaria), and my mother was Mexican (Monterrey). So I totally get it! My parents argued constantly, but of course my Mexican mother always won every one of them. My mother could not speak without moving her hands. My father used to tease her about it. One day while she was talking, my father held her hands down to keep them from moving. She literally was unable to speak properly. She got really frustrated and yelled at him until he let go. Thanks guys !

[@JoseTapia-qp5lc]

😄👏

[@iwonthelottovac]

The talking with the hands is a Sicilian thing too

[@xm377Moyocoyatzin]

Mexican moms win every argument. The Chancla is her gavel. One does not disrespect the Chancla, nor the little woman that wields it.

[@thehighestpraise8519]

@@xm377Moyocoyatzin What is Chancla?

[@roselandpetals]

@@thehighestpraise8519 The "house shoe." The beatup shoe worn around the house. Its more of a joke that Mexican mom's hit you with their shoe. My mother never hit us with anything, or threatened us with anything, but she did yell often. 😄

[@dinosuarzr0ck827]

The toilet paper thing when she said "where did you experience that" I was like "probably the mercado" 😂

[@trecealmasseven4258]

Si, tiene pinta de experiencia de mercado 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@juansanchezgarcia1480]

JAJAJAJAJJA pensé lo mismo 😂😂😂😂

[@darkDreamer557]

En las gasolineras de carretera

[@CartmanMorisato]

😂👏👏

[@reginaluna3497]

@@darkDreamer557 siempre que voy al baño en carretera , no sé por qué, me dan como medio metro de papel de baño y siempre me sobra 😂

[@norwegianblue2017]

Even though I was engaged to my Venezuelan girlfriend, when we visited her folks we were given separate bedrooms. They were old-school and I respected that.

[@frauleinbird]

When I was 15 I dated an 18-year-old. Two months into our relationship his mom (German) called my mom (Austrian), basically hyperventilating because I wanted to sleep at their place. My mom couldn't stop laughing and just told her that anything we wanted to do we'd do anyway. We wouldn't need a sleepover for that. And how right she was. I've always loved her for telling it like it is.

[@low_media]

90% Spanish Comments 7% English Comments 3% German Comments. Im at the 3%

[@mamawebo7994]

I do not speak Spanish and I had to put subtitles I would like them to do videos in Spanish

[@antoniagreenward]

Ahhh hallöchen Freund 😂

[@diegoalbertogallardogarcia5487]

But you comment like the 7%

[@crazzystuff4556]

Jajajaja pobre!!!

[@hobragen]

Omfg I thik I can understand German. Maybe it is like parseltongue.

[@aggie2ke]

That advice is GOLD right there "Just say 'Hi' and pretend you know everybody" :)

[@Vols-to3pl]

This video is spot on. I am an American and my wife is Mexican. 1. The being late has been the biggest culture clash between us. My wife is rarely on time for anything lol. I grew up with my family having a pretty strict schedule and usually even being a few minutes early. Not her haha... It's funny when we show up to parties with my family we are always late and when we show up at parties with her family we are always early (even though it's late in my mind). If a party starts at 5 that means people start showing up at 6 or 7 and people show up at random times, but the parties last sooo long. 2a. Families are HUGE! My Suegra has about 10 siblings. Each of the Tios and Tias have several children too so there's so many Tios/Tias and primos. Compared to my family where my mother had 2 siblings and my father only had 1. The families are so huge but they are way closer than my small family. 2b. When you show up to an event with family, you greet everyone in the room, and I mean EVERYONE! lol... the complete opposite for me. It's usually a "Hey how are you" and that's it. Nope not the same you greet everyone with usually a hand shake/hug and a kiss on the cheek. 2c. When the Tios offer you a shot of tequila get ready because you're in for a long night because they're going to keep coming and coming. Don't worry midnight tacos are going to soak some of it up lol. 3. The families are huge but man do they make you feel welcome. They will share everything with you and even go without things by offering it to you first. 4. When it comes to food I hope you like tamales and carne asada because when it's the holidays you aren't eating turkey and ham, it's tamale after tamale. When you go to a cookout it's carne asada. 5. When it's your birthday the cake is always a tres leche cake and expect to get your face pushed into it lol. I was so confused when I first heard Morida! Morida! Morida! 6. You'll learn to love spicy food, even candy! lol 7. For Christmas growing up we always were supposed to go to bed early and wake up super early and open gifts on Christmas morning. Well not anymore we celebrate late into the night and open gifts on Christmas Eve.

[@nadiapitarch5870]

Point No. 1 and 2b work for Argentina too 😅

[@maryb1323]

Haha this made me laugh because it’s so true!

[@therewasasequelwasntgood8467]

Yang gang 2020!!!

[@aizen_gotei13]

I am just surprised and amazed that all the above points is so shockingly similar to Indian culture as well!! Mexicans are culturally very similar to us Indians, it seems even when we r literally living other side of the 🌏. 😅

[@miaridi6699]

Omg too funny but True!!! I’m Mexican n my husband is American...he has 1 sibling n I have 9. 😆🤣. .. n yes MORDIDA!! 🥳

[@julietavarela6331]

Mi novio dice lo mismo, él es de Múnich y yo de Guanajuato, pero es muy genial saber que existen otras personas en la misma situación, los amo chicos!! VIELE GRÜßE!!

[@mariafloreano9776]

Yo también soy de Guanajuato! Saludos 🙈

[@paulinaco]

También de Guanajuato cx

[@aidavazquez27]

Guanajuato!!!

[@moonsmoonsloverg1rl]

Guanajuato x4 xD

[@nereygutierrez1534]

X5 jajaj

[@0oohnegative]

Dating a Mexican man for the first time and I am so smitten. He is so sweet and loving and makes me feel so safe. I love learning about him. he is the most thoughtful and considerate person I’ve ever been with. he is also so so handsome. I can’t stand it.

[@jazlybarrios1872]

😂😂 I’m dead...weddings every two weeks, I can relate ♥️

[@kyliejenner6059]

Jazly Barrios Ever been to Turkey?😂🇹🇷

[@juanpimentel889]

Not only Mexicans are always late. Latinos are always late! We have a beach culture.. haha a very relaxing culture. Hugs from the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴🇩🇴 los quiero mucho!hacen una hermosa pareja.

[@carolynserrata9054]

Yo también Soy de RD

[@rhaniuxbee2867]

Jajajaja true. Literally if you say at 3:15pm the people will start arriving at 4:20pm

[@juanpimentel889]

rhaniux bee definitely us 😂😂😂😂

[@rhaniuxbee2867]

@@juanpimentel889 yeaaaah, by the way I always want to visit Dominican republic cuz siento que tienen una vibra muy alegre y su manera de hablar es cercana a la de un venezolano. No sé por qué cambie de Inglés a español😂

[@juanpimentel889]

rhaniux bee haha it’s ok! Y si.. no es por alardear pero somos un país muy alegre al igual que toda Latinoamérica pero si tengo que decir que nos caracteriza es definitivamente nuestro sentido del humor 😂 hacemos un chiste, canción o fiesta por todo! Y si!! Creo que de todos los latinos, RD y Venezuela son los más parecidos al hablar. Ni Colombia que está al lado 😂

[@ixqanea]

HAHAHAHA el problema de manejar es solo en CDMX o ciudades extra grande de Mex, En Mexicali o ciudades del norte manejamos un poco mejor xD

[@sussytello3430]

¡Tía Ix, últimamente estas muy activa en YT! 👀

[@m4rzz473]

Exacto.

[@claudiacristinamoralesagui3072]

Es verdad soy del norte y en la ciudad donde vivo es un poco pacifica al manejar

[@alexiaborja981]

En Qro manejan peor que en Cdmx creo

[@CarlosSandoval-rz3ge]

Hahaha en mexicali manejamos rapido antes que aunmente el calor hahaha

[@lorenzlangen4156]

Driving in Mexico is a lot of fun. The one with the least fear of damaging his car gets to go fist.

[@yunhosmile]

Lol I live in Florida, in a town that's predominantly Mexican. The 4-way stops are hilarious! Everyone just waves each other on... with no regard to the "right of way". It took me a minute to figure it out but now I get it 😁

[@noeaguerrero]

Best advice given by my cousin driving the first time in Mexico City "drive it like you stole it" . I'm a natural now , GTA style

[@amber_Forever16]

Eon G lmao 🤣 drive it like you stole it haha

[@dorthy739]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@isidroleyva5826]

The Toilet Paper Thing is sooo funny and is sooooo true! And they charge for the restroom.

[@SweetVelvetBuds]

They also charge for using public toilets in the UK, not everywhere but in many places, specially train stations.

[@jonathansgarden9128]

Coming from a very conservative Christian upbringing in the USA, I also experienced not being able to stay with my fiancé until we were married.

[@miac2382]

Yes that is just Christian and Religious/Religion. Yes Europe most are Christians but if you are a Conservative Christian no matter where you live here in U.S., Mexico ect. Conservative Christians do not want sleep overs tell married

[@nc4679]

"Las expectativas son la madre de la decepción y el resentimiento". Joss es sabia

[@Romi5422]

Apenas iba a comentar cuanta sabiduría en las palabras de Joss

[@Chrixxyland]

“Put a ring or no sleepovers” lol Me looking at my engagement ring and still not allowed to have sleepovers with my fiancé 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

[@costenitasoi9705]

Just imagine she meant wedding band! 😅

[@danielagomez7014]

Yes no sleepovers until marriage 😂

[@estrellasilvaart7908]

Wait until marriage 😂😂😂😂😂

[@amiquigonzales7917]

@Zerodovah Sorry, that's how it is: the Catholic Church... and overprotective parents (all Latin American parents, really). It's very simple: you love your daughter, she is very young, she found this nice young man but .... how serious is he or his feelings towards her? Is he thinking seriously about it, with respect, or just trying to get laid, no hard feelings ?? Will he be respectful enough to start a family and try yo make her happy for the rest of her life, raising the children with love, or is he thinking she's OK for the remainder of the month? In that case, NO WAY, ONLY OVER MY DEAD BODY. And unfortunately in the media the USA and Europe are represented as nonconservative, loose societies with zero individual values and no respect or attachment to the family. So.... the attitude seems quite logical to me (I'm Peruvian, of course).

[@myopjourney4671]

You gotta fight for your right gurl

[@manonliingelser8819]

I’m french and i’m dating à mexican i’m living my best Life i agree with you both

[@lettuceinn9515]

Nice. Lucky Mexican.

[@projectc.j.j3310]

Do Mexicans even live in France

[@Ryosuke1208]

T'es déja allée au Mexique?

[@abilenesalcido3190]

@@projectc.j.j3310 I'm Mexican and I've lived in France. How about you stop being racist?

[@erandibrito8904]

Also Mexicans have French ancestry.

[@yenfr5306]

My husband is Mexican and yes I had to learn spanish. When his mom met me she was so serious, but when it was time to eat she offered me a buuunch of food. Oh my goodness I've never been so stuffed!! I don't know about being jealous. One of my brothers also married a Mexican girl. She never showed jealousy, but because she's a cutie there will usually be at least one guy staring at her. My brother will always end up being the one staring the other guy down or blocking her from the stares of other men.

[@mamawebo7994]

Amo este canal por qué ves comentarios en muchos idiomas y me sorprende como tanta gente de otros países ve esto 😮😃 PD:amo el adiós muchachos de janik

[@ixqanea]

Ps. depende mucho de donde seas o las costumbres familiares. Yo tuve suegras que no tenían problema durmiera con mi novio pero mi mama (soy de Mexicali) si era como que mi novio durmiera en la sala.

[@Jorgeramirez-my1fo]

Te lo puedo explicar pero sería como contradictorio o como algo así por qué aunque tu suegra es mujer pero su hijo es hombre

[@agary918]

La tía ixpanea anda aquí. Jorge ya lo explicó muy bien . Yo sólo quiero agregar que en la cultura mexicana las mamás tienden a tender una inclinación en alcahuetear el machismo de sus hijos. Por lo que no tendrán ningún problema en que la novia del hijo se quede a dormir en él en el mismo cuarto. Mientras que en el caso de las hijas son más conservadoras ya que no permitirán que una hija lleve a un hombre para dormirse con él. No es por ofender pero en muchos de los casos son las mismas madres que fomentan el machismo en los hijos y los nietos.

[@MrMajikman1]

@Itzel Bastian 🤣

[@kj447]

@@Jorgeramirez-my1fo no y peor quando me quebre unas costillas mi madre Le llamo a mi novia para decirle qué no tuviera ejercicio con migo parque estaba malo. No vevia en case y tenia 27 🙈

[@AnaDiaz-dv2yv]

Obvio! Lo peor para una mamá, (aún siendo ya esposos), es escuchar que se están tirando a tu hija, en tu propia casa, en la cama de tu niña, y peor aún, ¿el novio? ¿Y si esa relación con el tiempo no llega a formalizarse? Hotel gratis, chica gratis, comida gratis; ya ni un (*****).

[@totespaulina]

“Dude, character development” -Joss Alm, June 2019 😂❤️❤️❤️ I loved it!

[@lauratorresrodriguez9795]

El llegar tarde, el ser emocionales, la manera de conducir y las familias conservadoras es un patrón de buena parte de América Latina !!!!

[@acw1935]

Nose sí es bueno ser tan conservadores.

[@acw1935]

@Persona Nn y los mas apasionados son los argentinos tienen una mezcla de la cultura europea por eso son mas apasionados ya que tienen la mente mas abierta. No son tan conservadores de hecho leí un articulo y la mujer argentina no tiene problema para tomar la iniciativa y de tener s€×o ya en la primera cita. Son mas aventureras y abiertas. Muy distinto a los otros países de Latinoamérica.

[@amiquigonzales7917]

@@acw1935 Sin criticar, en mi primer trabajo mi jefa (nacida en 1930) me contó que quedó espantada en un campeonato deportivo sudamericano cuando, luego de terminar las competiciones, vió con sus compañeras cómo las chicas de la delegación gaucha parecían super-liberales con varios deportistas (de su delegación y de otras), como algo muy natural. Ella me contó que las deportistas de nuestro país, impactadas, abandonaron la celebración. Ciertamente los deportistas permanecieron allí felices, hasta que terminó. Claramente estamos hablando de los años '50, me imagino que ahora esto se habrá acentuado.

[@acw1935]

@@amiquigonzales7917 claro esto no se trata de juzgar o criticar. De hecho admiro esa mentalidad abierta sin que les afecte los prejuicios de esta sociedad tan enferma y tóxica. Que no deja al ser humano ser libre y disfrutar de la vida a su manera. Es triste.

[@kimry7809]

Si tienes razón, me sentí identificada con la mayor de cosas por la diversidad de mi país Guatemala... y creo que casi todos en Latinoamérica están igual...

[@KtiAndrea]

“just say hi and act like you know everybody” that’s SO true

[@leslychavez14]

I love the chemistry between you two. Me as a Mexican can relate to all these thing you said...minus the toilet paper 😂😂

[@JessIrais]

I laughed a lot with the toilet paper 😂😂 I'm Mexican and I always struggle with that, like I NEED MORE THAN FOUR SQUARES

[@ricardocampos6517]

Do they not clean well? I'm Mexican and I never had this problem, probably because I don't travel enough

[@Valicecp]

I was shocked when I went last year and I had to pay to go in and I got like 4 pieces 😂 but good thing was I didn't need much

[@andymtz500]

Ricardo Campos usualmente esto sucede en las gasolineras o baños públicos 😂😂😂

[@roselynwate4535]

4?? In Yucatan you may get two and three of you are lucky👁👁

[@frankpichardo5299]

Give me more paper or give me more soap! 😂

[@ikigai.tucentrodebienestar]

I'm practising my English a lot with you guys! Its really really nice that your channel is in English only, I didnt even see any Channel being latinamercan talking fluenty in English. I really love your nature Joss! Congratulations!!

[@aranzagutierrez1823]

Si ella pudo salir del rancho de SLP, yo también puedo conseguirme un alemán. No sabía que eras de SLP!

[@vanessagalvan9376]

Aranza Gutierrez yo soy y vivo actualmente en San Luis Potosi y creeme que te digo que no es un rancho .

[@annabanana1025]

@@vanessagalvan9376 a si se dice sarcásticamente en cualquier lado de México xd

[@shalomvalenzuela8571]

@@vanessagalvan9376 ser de rancho no es malo, ni los ranchos son malos al contrario tenemos muchas cosas hermosas que en las ciudades no, Siéntete orgullosa de ser de tu rancho SLP, Saludos hermosa de una "ranchera" proveniente de Durango con mucho orgullo!

[@Moon-fx5gy]

Eve Valenzuela como dijo la chica de arriba, la mayoría no lo decimos tan literal en modo ofensivo o de insulto, es un decir

[@aranzagutierrez1823]

Realmente lo dije en modo de broma jajaja no se lo tomen tan personal. Soy de SLP también y me encanta mi ranchito jaja (le digo rancho a todos los estados que no son cuidad y ya) 😂.

[@Baudelair]

I'm from south east asia but I feel like mexican culture is quite similar as mine. What we understand as love and how we show our love are similar. I am married to a german guy and I can relate to your problems guys :D

[@pilarf]

If you feel the same problems, is because Spanish invasion, they spread their culture in South Asia and also Latin America, that's why in Philippines names are very similar to latino names.

[@chamichami8766]

I agree they are very similar. When I see Thailand Indonesia and Philippines. I was like wow it reminds me so much of my own culture. So I understood y'all in a deeper level.

[@lavidaesunmisteriol6459]

really?

[@Diana-hi3ky]

Also on Spain, we can't sleep on the same room. It's something that our culture don't see properly. I don't really understand why. 🤔🤔🤔 Love you guys, I'm in love with your videos💞💞💞💖💖💖

[@mercedesjulieta278]

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[@genzi78514]

What? I am dumbfounded by the comments. I'm Mexican living in Spain I've never have those problems. But also I live in an apartment with paper walls, so no in a million years I would have sex in my house while the family is there.

[@PH7018c]

...mi casa no es un motel... being a mother now, it makes sense. We dont know how many boyfriends you are going to have, so, it is very inapropiate for an unmarried couple to sleep in the same room in their parents home. It isn't like it's not going to happen, but at least you should have some discretion.

[@viktoryagrigoryan9895]

In Spain?😳😳

[@ilovechocolate6997]

@@PH7018c what if it's a boy

[@gabrielacancio-bello3042]

Me encantan sus videos, y me encantan ustedes chicos. Soy de Cuba, vivo en Rusia y mi novio alemán! Liebe Grüße aus Russland 🇨🇺🇷🇺🇩🇪

[@danameza9795]

Pobre de ti, debes extrañar el calor latinoamericano:^(

[@catalinamartinezveloso6064]

Saludos bella!!!

[@lilyrico2540]

Latinas power, our charisma and flavor delight any foreigner 🇲🇽💃🏼

[@ala4776]

@David C I love Salvadorean women!!! Coming from a Mexican guy 😘

[@lordbowser6450]

And a meteroic megaton of Cognitive Overwhelm.

[@lordbowser6450]

Your preety doh got a boyfriend?

[@lordbowser6450]

@David C Ippi Ippi!

[@I_Carnage_I]

„Of Course“

[@jenlawrence1292]

I'm from the USA and when I moved to Guadalajara I thought a guy liked me because he would lay his head on my shoulder 😂 most Mexicans are very touchy and I STILL have no idea how Mexican men flirt even thought I have a Mexican boyfriend

[@bernardosoriano]

Lots of eye contact, laughs, lots of small gifts, hugs (around your waist) those are common ways Mexican guys flirt.

[@ericktellez7632]

Find the guy that is trying to be funny with you or tries to make you laugh with something he says or does, thats like the most typical way, to make the woman laugh. Also stuff like giving you gifts for no particular reason, like say you work together and he brings you some food he picked up, and plays it off like he just did it on whim. Or doesnt plays it out and straight it up tells you he bought it for you.

[@xm377Moyocoyatzin]

We flirt by showing you a sort of loyalty and special attention through our gestures and of course by posturing like the proverbial peacock. It is not uncommon for menacing looking dudes to suddenly become bashful and fumbling in front of the girl they like or if they are bold they will try to grandstand to get your attention. Also, Mexican guys (in Mexico only - not counting Mexicans raised in the U.S.) will take a slow burning approach to flirting. They are not going to immediately try to have sex with you, we wanna take it slow, the slang for it is "sweaty hand" _De Maninta Sudada._ That means the holding hands phase which you will be doing to the point where your hands become sweaty from holding each other. There will be a ton of talking and light touching as a guy tries his luck with overlapping personal spaces. Mexican guys are very tactile, we love to feel, grab, touch, caress, while talking and getting to know a girl. The next thing a guy who is serious about you will try to do is make a good impression with your social circle, like your parents, family, and friends and that signals the formal introduction from which he is officially your boyfriend. My hypothesis as to why we are not as thirsty for sex as European and U.S. men is because since we are so tactile with women we are already receiving physical affection from a woman so we do not feel this insane neediness for sex. Holding a girl for an afternoon and talking to her can hold us over for a very long time. Even in this interview notice how physically affectionate she is to him, notice all the little random touching and feeling she does to him. I think the reason the men in much of the rest of the world are so needy for sex is because they are literally starved for physical affection. This is only my hypothesis and keep in mind not all Mexican guys are the same, some are just as sex crazed as any U.S. guy and will turn on the charms to try to get with a girl just for a hookup.

[@OphiuchiChannel]

Uh?

[@ArieneOliveiraVideos]

Dude this is about latins in general!!! I'm Brazilian and I identified myself with this video 100% hahahahhaha

[@ArieneOliveiraVideos]

@fjf sjdnx hahahha yeah u did

[@zoebirkle9751]

It makes me soo happy to see a Mexican and German couple. My mom is from Mexico City and my dad is from a small town close to Stuttgart. You guys are what I picture my parents were like when they were younger.

[@Moodytraxx]

💕💕💕

[@seanstours3913]

Mexican and Korean girls, just so affectionate, amazing personality, full of energy, and cute, love it...the way she looks at him, thats love

[@ivanareyes3892]

RAYOS!! Pensé que en algo iba a ser diferente, pero todo lo que dijo Janik es cierto😂😂😂 jajaja Soy del centro de México y la única diferencia que encuentro con respecto a dormir con tu pareja es que los padres si los dejan quedar en la casa pero en habitaciones separadas. No muy distinto pero...🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lizalara3118]

Cierto!!, jajajaja, muy cierto!, a mí me pasó. Visitamos a una de mis tías, y nos tuvímos que dormir separados😱. Jajajjajajajaja

[@almendracerdafuentes3621]

When he said that the mexicans are very touchy...dude, every country of Latinamerica is like that, im from Chile and I can say that latinamericans are touchy and emocionals (in every form, love or angry)

[@BrendaGonzalez-yl8et]

Yes! I totally agree! We Mexican girls do get a lot of our character from watching those dramatic telenovelas. I’m so glad I realized this when I had my kids and so I never introduced them to any novelas bc of that.

[@s.aliciajordan9079]

As someone in an intercultural relationship (US +Chile), I really loved this cute video. It's fun to now what's similar and what is different between what you share and our experiences.

[@miguelnogueira9188]

JANIK tiene que reaccionar a SORAYA Y LA MALDITA LISIADA

[@isabelahidalgo8850]

Lo mismo pensé JAJAJAJAJA

[@Soyjerezz]

Si, seria genial😅🤣🤣🤣

[@dieminervaeule]

Even I as a german liked Soraya in "Maria la del Barrio", haha. Esquincla babosa!

[@miguelnogueira9188]

@@dieminervaeule ajjjajaajajjajaajajajajjaajaj me encanta

[@sandgonzalez3451]

SIIII

[@ch1ckmom217]

I'm Mexican American but I'm always on time or a bit earlier. I must be one in a million, also I lived in Germany for a few years, met a lot of great people and it's true, Germans are never late, when they say 7 pm. they mean 7 pm, not a minute before or after, that I learned really quickly. Oh and for us Mexicans, yes, we have big families or at least in Mexico they do, either way, I remember there was always a reason to have a party and tbh, I do miss that sometimes and not to mention that our parties go on to the next morning and you have people bunched up in a bed, the couch and even on the floor with sleeping bags or just cobijas (covers), lol. I do love being Mexican American because I get the best of both worlds and I really loved those few years I got to live in Germany, it was the greatest experience of my life.

[@Marielukita]

I feel so identify with you guys. I’m Mexican, my boyfriend is Dutch. But it is true, culturally speaking, sometimes we struggle understand each other. But I like to see you guys, give me hope! 💓

[@Raptor-7]

It's hard in California to get a Mexican or Latina girl😔😪😪

[@marianaherreraesquivel6483]

The last struggle is not only in small cities as San Luis Potosí. I'm living in Mexico City and when my boyfriend came... He had to rent an Airbnb to stay. Or if he stays at The house, he's sleeping at the couch

[@jimmoca2182]

Her smile and personality is so refreshing

[@PedroHenrique-zz7ko]

I realized that all the Mexican's "problems", We (🇧🇷 Brazil) have as well. I think, maybe, it's common things of all the Latin America hahaha

[@PedroHenrique-zz7ko]

@Zerodovah well, at least in Brazil we have as well. He doesn't care about our Amazon Forest and the most important for him is the economy to free us from """corruption""". Besides the fact he is prejudiced

[@PedroHenrique-zz7ko]

@Zerodovah I'm totally in love with the relationship between Trump and Jair Bolsonaro (my president) 😻😻. This friendship will burn all the trees

[@PedroHenrique-zz7ko]

@Zerodovah indeed 😂. Are you from Mexico? Wow. I can't let to tell you that I love your country and your culture. I think is a unique place with amazing people. Instead of speaking in English, I hope one day I become able to improve my Spanish and visit your country in order to live a little of your culture. Saludos, amigo! 🇧🇷🇲🇽

[@lordbowser6450]

Strongest desires for 💰 aint it?

[@rgdssd]

Pedro Henrique Brazil and Mexico do have a lot in common, especially in regards to its people. They are both very warm, fun, welcoming cultures. We both love having 'asados' to get together and eat. 🤗 Saudações!

[@TheDanita98]

Since I started watching your videos, I have improved my English. Thank u guys, you’r the best! I hope you grow more in your KZbin channel. Saludos desde EL SALVADOR 🇸🇻 💗

[@Anonymint-vj7bt]

I linked to several junctures in this video for my blog on Cultural Differences. Hofstedes Insights six traits in spades. This was one of your most helpful and insightful videos. Thanks for sharing.

[@marthevasquez3934]

Hi, guys, I wanna say thank you for helping me to improve my english. ❤

[@noelduncan583]

My lovely friends "touchy" is emotionally delicate or sensitive. In this context "I" would say "casually physical" or just "physical" or "friendly". Thank you for sharing your beautiful love with us. When I watch you I feel very happy.

[@CartmanMorisato]

That's what "touchy" means to "Americans," not to Germans, Mexicans, etc. If you're Mexican born in the U.S. you're understanding both sides of the meaning.

[@jameshoward1955]

I've been living in Mexico since 1985, in 1975 I lived in Heidelberg, Germany so I can totally relate to you guys, sweet video, I loved it!

[@lyndaidv]

At the beginning you said this is only based on your experience but I think almost every Mexican (including me) can relate to what you’re saying hahaha. Btw, I really loved that quote you mention Joss “expectations are the mother of disappointment” TOTALLY TRUE. It’s hard not to have them tho.

[@MelisaCarvantes]

A los 16 años? Sinners!! Jaja XD Creo que con el anillo no basta, más bien es con la boda y sí, en CDMX es diferente, ahí pasa solo en familias más tradicionales.

[@Emily21134]

Thank you for this video. I am an American woman (English father, though) and I've been with my Mexican boyfriend for close to 8 months now. It's the most amazing relationship I've ever had, however it's been really hard for me when we argue / when he gets mad (as he shows a lot of emotion)... and I then I sometimes break down. 8 minutes into the video I felt almost as if I want to cry because I feel understood, way less alone, and that I am understanding him better. It's been a learning curve for me to detach from his big emotions and to not take it personally-- remember that it's the way he expresses. And, the plus side (ALL THE FREAKING LOVE) makes up for it in the end. :) We're a newer relationship, so we have much to work on (ourselves mainly ;) however your KZbin channel is giving me so much inspiration and hope. THANK YOU AGAIN, from the bottom of my heart

[@V1VAMORE3]

Mexican ppl are passionate think 😅 about it that way

[@AnaDiaz-dv2yv]

Communication, that's the clue!

[@xm377Moyocoyatzin]

All over dating the sites women complain about the opposite problem that men are not emotionally available and bottle everything up.

[@thegermaniccrusader8826]

Why do so many Americans have an English father or husband I'm just curious

[@randommonkey4900]

@@thegermaniccrusader8826 most white Americans are of Anglo Saxon descent

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“She tends to be late all the time” *manic laugh with twitching eye* 😂

[@tawneeens436]

ssi1991 🤔😂😂

[@josant804]

Las mexicanas son celosas. SE TENIA QUE DECIR Y SE DIJO. 🙍

[@yilanaful]

Yo diria que somos muy posesivas porque "lo de nosotros es de nosotros" y ya xD

[@ivonc.4810]

No se si solo los mexicanos con respecto a otros países de norte, centro y sur américa, pero hablando por mi nación no te puedo refutar, igual agregaría posesividad como ya mencionaron y lo extendería a hombres de igual manera. Lo celos así como posesión es mi pan de cada día en mis relaciones afectivas, en las relaciones que conozco y con quien trabajo.

[@Soyjerezz]

Pienso que es un problema de las LATINAS somos muy posesivas

[@vanillaicecream9026]

Casi todas las mujeres no solo las mexicanas jajajaj vean el programa brasileño donde hacen bromas a mujeres en la calle con sus esposos con mujeres provocativas. Se ponen bien psycho jajaja

[@carmengutierrez2462]

No todas lo somos. Algunas el 99.9% jajajaja No en verdad pienso que cada mujer en cada rincón de la humanidad tenemos una pizca de celos 😂

[@carmenhaworth2695]

My hubby gained weight. He never learned Spanish, some words... My family lives in America so they need to comunicate with my husband. He went to Mexico, I was driving and he thought he was going to die. I am very affective, he is not. I told him "I love you" a thousand times a day, I kiss him, hug him. He is not that "touchy". I live him the way he is, bc he doesn't tell me he loves me a million times a day. He says" te amo mucho" that's enough to me.

[@bernardosoriano]

It looks soo strange a German guy being so affectional.

[@Gmane2525]

Agreed! He’s starting to take up her habits lol

[@bernardosoriano]

@@Gmane2525 He's taking habits from her and she's taking habits from him.

[@manopu2113]

Im a Sri Lankan living in Germany and german are considered as cold but not all are like that.

[@naydra199]

@@manopu2113 thank you!!!

[@andreasbischoff9555]

Cuantos alemanes sabes que

[@vhappy6428]

I'm Mexican and my mom always told me, "if you're not there 5 minutes early than you're late" 😂😂

[@MariaGabriela-ep1gt]

I died when she said "sinners" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jufepa100]

Mi novia es mexicana y yo soy argentino, y es tal cual como lo dicen, jajajaja, saludos

[@xm377Moyocoyatzin]

Staying celibate while dating is kinda normal in Mexico. Women who are too easy are not seen as a "good catch" by men who are serious.

[@zafirobelen4383]

The problem is what the mexican are soo perfect and friendly🥰

[@edwardthejust4452]

Found memories when I had three year relationship with a lovely woman from Mexico. One big thing that came up was parties or any family get together. She said it was "rude" to tell folks when to arrive or when to leave. she was shocked that Americans did that . She said close friends or family should feel they can come and go as they please if you are close. I love the "warmth" of the Mexican people. 😃

[@alissonlozada7728]

I think it is not just Mexico, I mean I think most the Spanish countries have that stuff about relationships, like even here in Colombia is really weird if your boyfriend or even friend wants to sleep over, I don't know why is like that but it is so STRESSFUL. Love your video and you. ❤❤

[@Lilian-lz5ls]

Ví el título y dije "Tiembla, Joss" xdxdxd. ¡Maravilloso video chicos! ¡Los amo! Saludos desde Perú :D

[@irmafranke1012]

Im Mexican and my husband is German. I am extremely affectionate and love to hug and kiss. At first, I thought he was holding back out of respect for me as a girl. I didnt realize the culture doesnt display much affection. Im use to it now after more than 15 years, but definitely one thing I wish was different. On a positive my husband is super clean, organized, punctual and has no problem cooking, cleaning, doing all the lawn work, taking care of our cars, grocery shopping and doing my laundry!! Im not sure I could have gotten a Mexican husband to clean as much as my German husband does. Relationships are about compromise!! I can see the love between you. Love it!!!

[@monserratramirez7798]

"In my defense... I would say that I learned that from the Novelas" 😂.

[@bjarki304]

Nothing with Mexico but I'm Icelandic and my girlfriend is from Germany... and I can tell we had to get used to a lot of things in both countrys! E.g. In Iceland the speed limit is 90 km/h and in Germany you can drive a lot faster... the first time her parents visited us in Iceland (where we live) her dad was driving about 120 km/h... I nearly freaked out😂 and then we drove through a river (pretty common here in Iceland) and he was driving to slow and we nearly got stuck in the middle of the river😂 And the first time I visited Germany I was kind of shocked by how fast they drive😂 On other thing is the language... my girlfriend lives in Iceland for about 2 years and is still really struggling with Icelandic. (Icelandic is so hard to learn!) I just started to learn German about 6 months ago and I can actually talk a bit to native speakers... at least it's still not perfect or good😂 One of the things that I had to get used to the most was the amount of trees in Germany 😂 in Iceland there are not so many trees, or better to say there are none trees... and when I arrived in Germany we drove through the biggest forest I've ever seen 😂 And of course: the weather As an Icelander you are used to have clothes with you for any weather... because it's switching in a few minutes from sun to rain (or in winter snow/snowstorms) and when her parents were here, they wouldn't believe me that it was going to rain in about 15 minutes because the sun was shining... but I was right and they got wet😂 since that they trust me if I say it'll rain Greetings from Iceland

[@raymundod5224]

Yet you're both still very similar culturally and socially. No big shocks. I cannot even begin to explain to you how far apart germanic cultures are from latin american understandings of the world.

[@Bbhjdidbsbaut]

Aw, this is too cute 😊💕💕💕

[@hannahmichels1841]

Bei uns ist es komplett normal 200km/h zu fahren😂 meine Freunde ich fahren meist bis zu 250😂

[@victoriaureno9736]

Soy la unica que penso en " Maltita lisiada!" Also having your parents wanting meet who your dating. Is like ahhh how do I explain this to him.

[@dominikendoneo9759]

¡Si! Ahora un vídeo sobre las ventajas tanto de salir con un alemán como con una mexicana, JAJAJAJA . Soy de la CDMX y es lo mismo respecto a dormir en la misma habitación, creo que es algo generalizado y solo en casos especiales no pasa. Love u, guys, i love ur channel and also you're helping me to improve my english, keep doing like this

[@nicolasrea5815]

I was born in the United States as were most of my cousins and other relatives around my age. So the old strict traditions have pretty much subsided, but my family also come from a history of being Rancheros, they were far away from the city-life. My family own acres and acres of land in Manuel Doblado in Mexico, so even though most of my family is Mexican.. they regularly visit or otherwise mainly live and have settled in the US. So the entire family have pretty much incorporated some American customs and culture into the family. Just like Janik I also come from a huge Mexican family, my father was 1 of 13 xd. So you can guess just how many relatives I have, most of which I don't even know but I think most Mexicans can relate. :p I'm proud of my Mexican heritage and I am also proud to have been born in the US.

[@colemichealadams1767]

A very real and wholesome and, God i just cannot express how much I love their energy, literally so perfect

[@Imvicxo]

11:19 I made the same face !!! 😂😂😂 Sinners!!! Is the same here in New Zealand and I'm like 😲😲 😲 Love your videos 😍

[@renata7244]

Every mexican or latin is touchy! That’s how we are hahaha

[@mishellrockeg7926]

Peruvians are too jajajjajja

[@crimescene4378]

Not me

[@renata7244]

Jinx Vi in general bby

[@renata7244]

Mishi De Santos yeah you are part of latin people hahah

[@crimescene4378]

@@renata7244 u said "Every mexican" this was not general.

[@assermoussa6696]

OMG I'm originally from Egypt & I was blown away to see how the Mexican culture is very similar 😂😂😂

[@blackdiamond4049]

I know all that stuff from my parents. My mom is from Argentina and my dad is from Germany so I can understand both of you. I think I got the positive sites from both of them :D

[@valentina-nn8tv]

Are you from Argentina ?

[@ivannaarvizu2149]

10:23 When Janik was talking about guys buying flowers for their girls, Joss reaction was like Rosa de guadalupe... " y esta rosa?" 😂😂

[@neex_da]

OMG! YEEESS we are very touchy, I was an exchange student in Switzerland and when I first arrived I hugged the people I met and then noticed they were just going for a handshake😳

[@PatrickM1995]

U didn't informed about other culture ?🧐

[@something4402]

Me reí tantooo, todo es 100% real. Porque una que es de provoncia, pues sí. Jajajaja. Los amo mucho.

[@lizzienapoles8854]

Soy de Jalisco y la mayoría de las cosas que dijo Janik con respecto a México son ciertas 😂

[@javierangel4981]

Same

[@blancaesthelahernandezgamb2328]

Jaja lo mismo piensa mi pareja Español y yo Mexicana 😂😂

[@racheld3262]

I'm not Mexican, but I'm latina, and I don't even know all the names of the family members, like, I'm not exaggerating, they're just too many 😭✋🏻♥️🥀

[@anaisleiva3633]

These "problems" are not only in México, maybe it happens also in all latin american countries! 😂

[@jessicacardoso2438]

In brazil for example

[@ixyvalle8097]

In Nicaragua

[@anaisleiva3633]

@@ixyvalle8097 Soy nica xD ✋

[@BiancaRadtke]

Dominican Republic

[@danielaparedes4172]

Colombia too

[@lovelylu08]

“Love is stronger than all of these problems together” awww 😭so darn cute

[@shawnharrison9922]

You two are absolutely fabulous! Sending you love from the U.K.

[@cool_angel243]

You are an adorable couple 😍😍 God bless you Together 💜💜💜