Problems that come with dating a German... | Part 1

[@JossAndJanik]

What’s up guys! Important note: We can only talk from our experience. We know not every German is the same and different people have different experiences. So please share your thoughts in the comment section in a polite and civilized manner :D

[@dafnebolson]

Por favor deja de poner @ en los subtitulos del español. Una cosa importante de conocer culturas es respetarlas. El español es un idioma con genero y nadie debe cambiarlo por una imposicion extranjera. Entonces primero respetamos, si el idioma es español hay que respetarlo tal cual es y escribir como corresponde.

[@Mooner3000]

No you’re pretty accurate. I haven’t lived in Germany in 20 years and everything but the Speedo still applies to me

[@CrisOnTheInternet]

@@dafnebolson yo creí que los estaba usando en palabras con el plural masculino, pero sí, de plano alemán@ es un crimen contra la lengua

[@_matin_3215]

Janik ehrenmann 😂😂😂

[@walkerlukesky2323]

You guys are very kind and gentle in setting up premises. As you know, others are easily offended. There is nothing that you could to disclaim prior to the discussion. Stay how you are! You both are awesome

[@marianam.noriega1235]

Hahahahaha “your German didn’t get better” 😂 “The water is warm beneath the ice” is sooooo true tho

[@marianam.noriega1235]

@TheBlackiwid achsooo, gut zu wissen :D Dankeschön

[@georginacruz8251]

Yo casi lloro también. Pero es verdad que se han vuelto muy neuróticos con su idioma. Y viven años en Mallorca y no hablan ni una palabra de español. Pues si te parece rudo en Múnich imagina Berlín 😁.

[@sondersonics7534]

That’s extremely true for the nordic countries as well.

[@timucinharkonnen2699]

@@sondersonics7534 Not as well. Especially! Even northern Germans are more like that than the rest of the country. The colder the climate gets the more the people become like a sleeping vulcano. Quite but boiling from the inside.

[@soyatzirinavarro]

So true. I have a German friend and one time we agreed to meet up for a cup of coffee. The hour was set at four p.m. Me as a Mexican I got there like 4:05. I thought not big deal, well I was wrong. She said in a very calm but in a totally brutal way: "I really don't appreciate your Mexican time. It was rude of you to keep me waiting for you 5 minutes straight". A big cultural shock for me, never had faced such honesty.

[@Monica-lu6gb]

if she said that to me i would probably want to go and cry right away I will probably not be in the mood to talk anymore.. here in Mexico we always sugarcoat what we say so it doesn't sound mean

[@mrbroccholi]

As a German I can tell that on KZbin this feature is always presented way too exaggerated.. For a friend it mostly is no problem to come 5 minutes later. No one cares.. But in your job it would lead to problems.

[@MT-dy3cg]

"I'm sorry I am late. I'm unfamiliar with people that are so oversensitive about punctuality" There. Uno reverse card.

[@juliehernandez80]

“I don’t appreciate your Mexican time”!!!! Damn!!! 😆 😆 😆

[@keinedaten1640]

Sounds as if that was not the first time you were late. The "mexican time" comment must have had reasons. In general: People are late in Germany, too....but you are expected to apologize or if you know you will be late, give them a call and let them know. But in general: just be on time.

[@igoriusdeath]

As a german guy, i never realize when a women has a crush on me. My friends saying things like: "Didn't you notice, that she likes you?!" and I: "No, I just wanna dance and have a good time" So, sorry. We are just handicapped Lovers with special needs.

[@mdasilva5599]

The same here 🙋🏼‍♂️😂

[@allegsaruiz363]

As a mexican girl I never notice when a guy has a crush on me hahaha but thats just because Im dumb and distracted most of the time, not because Im mexican.

[@igoriusdeath]

@@allegsaruiz363 daydreaming is not dumb. We just need stronger signals to pay attention to other people 😅

[@allegsaruiz363]

You’re right 😂 about daydreaming

[@PaolaAguirreru]

Omg why Germans are that way? 😭 Haha

[@study_papillon7497]

„Germans keep their promises.“ Absolutely true in my surroundings. We don‘t often promise things to each other. But when we do, we won‘t ever break it.

[@cookingrelaxnature5030]

Thumbs up, you are absolutely right Christin Schmitt

[@tonyjams6406]

The one and only thing that I promised and couldn't kept, is to tidy my room ._. excuse me mom, but the passion just left me

[@lalogreiner]

@@tonyjams6406 Hahahahaha. Happens to everybody!

[@MrWhangdoodles]

I only promise when I know I can keep it. Many people make oaths they cannot keep. It doesn't happen here. People are more upfront, it's great.

[@binteghalib2823]

Can you teach me german language from basics

[@cuxietube]

Hi guys! Around :50 you talk about the language problem. Try to picture this: a young guy from Germany, first time in the US, meets a beautiful lady from Mexico. He speaks no Spanish, she no German, both almost no English. But he has a small German-English dictionary and she has a Spanish-English dictionary. And when you go out on dates there are always napkins on which you can draw pictures. He proposed after two weeks and two weeks after that they got married. That was over 40 years ago and we still have those napkins. So yes, sooner or later you need to learn each other's languages but when there is a spark and the fire is lit.......Love your channel.

[@sulaonlyhere1607]

omg wow ♡♡♡

[@jt.633]

That’s beautiful!! It would be awesome to frame those napkins 😊

[@dianacoronado8387]

Adorable

[@LeeMajikija]

Beautiful story. I’d watch the movie💕

[@uwerichter]

There's Two Options why a German Opens The Door of the Car for a woman... 1. The Girl is New 2. The Car is New :-)

[@leofrank8822]

This is soooo true😂

[@MsMamte]

the commentator is germans guys for sure ..i guess ..hhaahha

[@leofrank8822]

You are right XD

[@luchochang]

🤣😂🤣

[@eunebartolomebiscan]

Haha 😂

[@mattb598-n7f]

And I thought I'm the only German who enters the train exactly where I have to get off the train🤣🤣

[@DramaQueenMalena]

I'm Swiss German and I do it.

[@SayokoAkuma]

Last week a friend of mine was like "You will go the same steps later if we get in HERE...just at the other station"... she just doesn't understand... she is not a German xD

[@binkybombastic6200]

I always go to the part of the train where less people enter because I hate being close to strangers. Isn’t that even more German?

[@mattb598-n7f]

@@binkybombastic6200 That's true too😅 Let's say: First, I go to the train compartment where I have to get off the train. After that I try getting a seat with no people around me - unless there are friends with me😅

[@ronaldoheta7825]

😂 i'm not a german, I'm studying in Germany for almost a year now and i've started to do that, i think i got infected

[@jazminaron8004]

Great video! You guys are so adorable! My bf is German. He's the first guy to make me fall in love in an instant. He's a gentleman (never wants me to pay, opens doors), treats me like a princess, and he is very generous and supportive. He's also expressive, although not very open unless we both get to a vulnerable state. He's not judgmental and is very patient with me lol Truly one of the most charming and sweetest people I've met. Ich liebe dich, mein Schatz 💕

[@adrian-4767]

Jazmin Aron amor a primera VISA

[@heinzwahl6465]

For me as a german I can agree with many things you have said in your video. I like your Videos and you are a wonderful couple. Keep it up

[@Michelle-sf4zx]

Oh especially the brutally honest part. My bf always tells it like it is and tbh that's what I like about him. Saves time, doesn't make me wonder etc. German efficiency lol.

[@nikkossta]

If only the girls were like that too...

[@auraluna7679]

@@nikkossta We are!

[@chantaleflesch3674]

@@nikkossta We are, trust me. Of course there are some exceptions, but that's everywhere the same.

[@warzlbaerschtn]

so funny, I am German and I have a latin girlfriend as well. When I watch your videos I see the same experiences we have :D :) Let us know your point of view Janik :) Saludos desde Nürnberg

[@greenjuice3782]

Eyyyy Im here! 🙋🏻😂

[@MsRimel]

I'm from Spain and my boyfriend is German and all of this was sooooooo relatable lmao

[@mdasilva5599]

Spanish German couple, very nice 👌🏼

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

My dad’s originally from Mexico, and my mom from Spain! Although they’re both almost identical. I doubt they would be compatible with anyone else. 😂 much love from America. 👌🏼🇺🇸

[@djrajo9014]

Sergio Alcantar bro my dad is from Spain and my mom is Mexican lol same

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

Djrajo haha, nice! There’s a lot of Mexican-Spanish couples in Mexico but it’s a lot more rare in the states. I even have half Italian cousins on both the Mexican, and the Spanish side. Lol. Not to mention my dad started a company with a German man about 40 years ago, he still runs to this day. One of my sisters also married a Scottish, and they have a child. Not to add I also have 4 half black cousins. As you can see we don’t discriminate. 😂 Did your parents meet here, or in Mexico? I got my dna tested and for some reason I thought I was going to be “mixed” with two different ‘races’ and it came back 94% Spanish. Lmao. Complete waste of money. 😂

[@djrajo9014]

Sergio Alcantar ahaha .ya my parents met in the states and that’s funny because on my dads side of the family they also have Italian blood lol .my dna text came out to 3.1%Mexican 90%Spanish and 6.9%Italian blood

[@TheShiranuii]

"Your german didn't get any better" lol I'm german myself and even tho the stereotype is kinda true, THIS is definitely rude, even for germans..

[@tamarasaldana8027]

Si se siente como cachetada,es una cachetada.

[@Nicolejduval]

Agree with u, their parents don't even talk Spanish, that's rude

[@tischkantenknall6369]

That is just humor. Especially bavarian humor. They said something about munich after all

[@beatrice6862]

My dad met my mom in Ecuador and on their first date my dad was 20 minutes late and my mom expected him to be early because he was German but in the end not all Germans are on time😂😂

[@jackylou9295]

True. My Boyfriend (we're both Germans) is late absolutely everytime :D And with late I don't talk about minutes, I talk about hours xD But he makes improvements :D In return, I've learned getting late sometimes and don't panik about it too much xD

[@matteflurry]

Lol like my boyfriend as well 😂

[@zalethpruna7826]

Im from ecuador la mayoria somos impuntuales jajajaj

[@LindsayKay]

Lived in Germany for nine years. The thing I found a bit depressing was the tendency for people to assume the worst of people they don't know, like a tendency to look for something, even the smallest thing, that you can negatively judge in someone if you don't know them.

[@adysluminsky9182]

When I hear the song: souspicious mind I always remember about the Germans 🤣🤣

[@somewhereright3160]

I can relate so much with Janik 😆 Let me tell you why we're so time-efficient and straight-forward: We are super duper impatient. 🤣 Why wasting precious time?

[@Baudelair]

somewhere right omg so true about the impatient 😂

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

Lol, my dad’s originally from mexico, and my mom from Spain but they’re both like the opposite. I find myself to be more like the opposite of them. I like things done in the moment, and I’m incredibly inpatient. I’m also more of a realist, I just like to say it as it is. If you get offended oh 🐳. They’re incredibly hard workers, but they rather do it with time and focus on being happy. Which both are good, and bad. We’re all human, so we’re all just different I guess. 😂👌🏼

[@sophieminter0]

My dad would be the perfect German in that case...like he is efficient when driving, walking, and not wasting time debating on where to go or what to see if my family goes out lol

[@solidstate9451]

Coming late means you value your life?time more than the time of other people.

[@mdasilva5599]

As a German Man I can relate with you haha 😅😁 Btw: you are so cute together

[@cool_angel243]

your name is not german

[@mdasilva5599]

@@cool_angel243 Mathias is a German and Latin Name and it means "gift from God". My last name isn't German, that's correct. But I'm German.

[@cool_angel243]

@@mdasilva5599 ur name seems spanish to me

[@mdasilva5599]

@@cool_angel243 its very similar to the Spanish spelling, thats true. In Spanish it's written Matías or Mateo.

[@cool_angel243]

@@mdasilva5599 aaa!! okey im Sorry^^

[@FG-wm6eu]

I think the point: Germans are more shy in clubs...in Germany is true haha. And yes when we go to places like prag, ibiza or especially Mallorca this shyness easilly goes away. Great Video :)

[@piusgschwendtner371]

ye because no one cares about the reputation in foreign countries because u will leave them anyways after some weeks or days xd

[@maximlewk628]

You drink the shyness away with beer

[@liamarmen3965]

Spanish lend mallorca to all germans , we call it the german island

[@buuhan6808]

@@liamarmen3965 And we call it the secret 17th german state/Bundesland xD

[@TheShiranuii]

Let's be fair, we gemans in general are not the best tourists :D

[@user-sr6ti8re5c]

I love watching all your videos, relaxes my anxiety and puts a smile on my face. So, thank you both!

[@Pattyriqmend]

Hahahha I had some much fun with you guys! I love the way you are! Thanks for sharing this. Kisses from Chile! 🇨🇱 ❤️

[@zakariasadrati8051]

Mexicans girsl are too gorgeous!! You are lucky bru

[@greenjuice3782]

Amazing

[@greenjuice3782]

?????!!

[@wisdomnova4317]

Thank you!

[@anabasilio3751]

True that.

[@MarianaBuhl3]

In Mexico she's not that of a big deal trust me. Cuz everyone's like that 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

[@hilalchan9462]

Ich leg auch viel Wert auf Pünktlichkeit und wenn ich nur 5 Minuten zu spät bin fühle ich mich schlecht 😅

[@mutundehre917]

Ja ich auch 🤣 voll wenig deutsche hier oder ?

[@hilalchan9462]

Mut und Ehre jaa viel zu wenige 😂 deshalb kommentiere ich auf deutsch

[@mikaecheverria6901]

What did you say? :/

[@sujahnisuri6501]

Ich höre immer, dass wir unpünktlich sind, wegen Deutsche Bahn oder wegen unseren verlässlichen öffentlichen Verkehrsmitteln.

[@sujahnisuri6501]

Aber ich lege auch Wert auf Pünktlichkeit

[@nataliarevelo486]

100% accurate. My husband thinks he made the first move but there was a lot of discrete flirting from my side before. Something really hard to adapt to was the "lüften". This is when Germans want to let some fresh air in the house by opening the windows when they get up. At the beginning we had some tension because my boyfriend (now husband) would open the window wide even in winter and I would be woken up by a slap of cold air in my face. Now I actually love to do the lüften myself.

[@cuchinchuda]

TOTALMENTE!!!!!! jajajaja Mi esposo es alemán y he vivido todas esas cosas con él, algunas que ya he adoptado como propias y cuando vino una amiga de Argentina a visitarme, se reía de mi 😅 Para mi una de las cosas más "shokiantes" fue ver gente desnuda en los parques! Una vez paseando por el lago cerca mi casa, habia un hombre que salía de banarse y estaba desnudo secandose y la gente al rededor sentada o haciendo picnic, cero drama. Yo estaba : HAY UN HOMBRE DESNUDO!!! EN EL PARQUE!!! HAY NINOS ALREDEDOR!!! y mi esposo super chill, si, qué tiene? jajajaja para mi fue super fuerte... ahora voy al gim donde las duchas son compartidas entre todas las mujeres 🤷‍♀ "de donde fueres haz lo que vieres" rigth?

[@thepatrusnostor5794]

Lo gracioso es cuando ven a una latina en una discoteca con escote dicen que es rebeladora cuando literalmente hay lugares donde ellos estan desnudos

[@rebecavargas5515]

When you say germans keep their promeses, that's totally true. They're really great people ;)

[@estheresther8090]

They are great😘😘😘

[@ungezoockt]

just the deutsche bahn and politicians.

[@cyanl.2245]

So sweet of you to say❤

[@lisabuchinger9540]

I'm Austrian, but I think we're quite similar to Germans. I only promise sth if I'm sure I can keep the promise!

[@yulibethguizado5596]

The best part of Sundays it’s Joss and Janik new video 🙌🏽🙌🏽🤣🤣

[@totespaulina]

Also "your German didn't get better" I diedddddd hahaha

[@nickymuller378]

Sometimes i think i'm not german because i actually am always late and use my time very unefficient Can i get a heart that i know one of you is probably on the toilett again :D

[@JossAndJanik]

🚽 haha

[@srsc5847]

Saaammmee😂

[@gabrielaramirez8344]

No se como llegué aca, pero ya me eche 4 videos de uds y me encantan .... Un abrazo desde guateeeeemala 😎😍😘

[@teresajimenez4908]

X2 🇬🇹💕

[@ferminaperezreynoso6298]

X3 🇬🇹❤️

[@Eliethdelaa]

X4 🇨🇷

[@itzelestrada478]

🇲🇽♥️

[@sandrapaolarodriguezperez8622]

X4

[@karimelazaro2440]

Hagan el mismo video pero ahora con Mexicanas JAJAJA, love uuu❤️❤️

[@briandadurand4220]

Siiiii

[@elim.7107]

Ya habían subido uno antes de éste y está chido jaja

[@nicoruppert4207]

Ja ja, yo soy Alleman y puedo entender todo

[@kennaem6730]

I've been talking to a German guy the past 6 months (we met in Italy) and he is definitely brutally honest. I like how direct he is, because I appreciate not beating around the bush or sugarcoating things, but sometimes I could do without some of his honest thoughts. The funny thing is that he was really reserved with everyone-almost "icy"-but he was the one to make the first move, practically professing his love for me one of the first nights we met...(I so thought he was taking me for a spin). But, he also was NOT punctual and that shocked the hell out of me and pissed me off he never came to lectures so that surprised me as well. (I had to help him find an excuse to ask our prof to take the final later). After a while I really didn't think he liked me because he seemed dry and uninterested, but he just really doesn't do small talk. I also realized that he does makes an effort to talk about other things and we talk nearly everyday. We're planning on visiting each other while I'm abroad this summer, but I don't want to get my hopes up about this being a long term thing just because I'm scared of it not working out. (Another thing I'm afraid of is him thinking I'm crazy because I'm kind of a passionate person and he's super calm, but I think he may also like that about me. Idk. hahahah I'm just so in my head about it right now).

[@saraavila1383]

You two just make the perfect couple!! I really like your videos, I always say it but really you are doing an amazing job. Keep the good stuff coming

[@virginiasantiagofox6461]

My husband is German and I’m Mexican. You are VERY spot on. It’s so cool to see you are learning each other languages. We speak English.

[@natalia6457]

Heyyyy!!! Saludos desde COLOMBIA💞 Me encantan, lo sabían?

[@carmenschirling6059]

"When you break through the ice the water underneath is warm." So beautiful and true.

[@sfia1169]

I love your videos, there's always a smile on my face when I watch them. Thank you guys for working so hard for us 😊😊😊

[@JossAndJanik]

Thank you so much for your nice comment Sofia :)

[@sfia1169]

@@JossAndJanik gracias por responderme, me habéis hecho muy feliz (al principio ni siquiera pude elegir en que idioma escribirles jaja) PD: Casi me da un infarto Saludos desde España 🇪🇸

[@roselandpetals]

I love that they come through and do what they say they're going to do, and that they're straightforward and honest (New Yorker style). Love that about Germans. (They also have this witty, snarky humor that matches mine! lol)

[@tanyem99]

We *neeeeed* a Mexican version!! 🤪🇲🇽

[@michimichipeppasoraya3401]

i was dating a german they are really cute that is why i marry with him we have 20 years together. just kidding. i don't date hijos de hitler.

[@adelaidetcarrillo3141]

It’s good to watch your videos. I’m from Bolivia and my husband from Germany. Thanks for making videos in English so we both can understand them ❤️

[@skyhf4733]

I laughed so bad with you guys..i love your videos😍 and i really like what Joss said"Dont mistake shyness for disinterest "love you guys! The best vibes 🌟

[@joselin2466]

I travel to many Latin countries and love the way you're treated as a woman ..back in Germany it is always a shock. You're on your own.

[@ashauniverse2244]

Guys you made me be smiling during more than 10 minutes! You are cool :)

[@Lots17]

Effektivität ist der Zweitname aller Deutschen 🙃😂

[@TheRockerzocker]

und ihr Vorname ist optimieren

[@Lots17]

Und ihr Nachname ist pünktlich :D

[@iqqgamer2012]

No entendí ni mierda de lo que dicen jiji

[@beredectorbd]

@@iqqgamer2012 el primero dice que el segundo nombre de los alemanes es efectividad.

[@andreamuller9009]

Ja , was ist da bloß bei diesem blöden Flughafen in Berlin schiefgelaufen ? ;D

[@sarahromero5749]

Omg I really really loved this video! You transmit goooood vibes in the whole extension of the word, for real. While I was watching the video I was smiling the whole goddamn time, and I have never done that before when I watch videos. You can tell that you really love each other and enjoy spending time with each other! Congratulations, such a beautiful couple. Love youuuuu!

[@KB-mt9br]

YESS!! I would love to see Janiks point of view!!

[@lorenaescobar4198]

Pleaseee do the Janik's side 😂😂

[@meistsyans7708]

I'm mexican and I'm so shy with flirting. I'm mexican and I'm always on time and the first one. Am I really mexican? 🤔

[@tamarasaldana8027]

Igual yo.jajaja,me peleó por pagar el Bill.siempre llegó temprano a todo,porq mi mamá me acostumbro a salir Temprano, porque que tal que se ponche una llanta,o si hay tráfico,y luego ahí estoy,tempranisimo.que vergüenza.😂 Y SI,soy mexicana al millón por ciento orgullosa.

[@1307mimi]

Same. I am horrible at flirting. I just joke. I always try to be on time and I am super shy. Wtf is wrong with me?

[@naydra199]

I can barely flirt, well if I can flirt

[@victoriatirado9505]

The end was hilarious, Joss seemed super mad lmao, same girl same hahahah😂😂😂😂😂

[@kostadindiev9938]

Oh, I can totally agree with you on the statement that Germans are completely different when they are outside of Germany! I am Bulgarian who lives in Germany and, to be honest, I do have a big problem in communication with Germans in Germany, BUT they can be very cool and fun when they are on holiday. They open up more that way. Same goes for Germans who lived abroad and have experiences with other cultures! Greetings to both of you, sweet people!

[@nataliarevelo486]

I think the reason is that people who are willing to travel abroad are different to those who prefer to stay in Germany. As you said, I also felt that my German friends who lived at some point abroad were much more flexible and open. I also realized that if a German person realizes you are a foreigner and they might have to speak English with you they get into a defensive or unhöflich attitude, but then if you speak German to them they get softer and kinder. I think the fear of speaking English freaks them out.

[@carosoto9156]

Hallo 👋🏼 Die Punkte aus eurem Video waren sehr interessant und richtig! Macht weiter so tolle Videos :) Das nächste mal vielleicht aus der Perspektive von Janik in Bezug auf mexikanische Gewohnheiten? 🤔 Grüße aus Dortmund

[@paulaschmitz5631]

I'm German and made the same experiences with my Mexican/Latin American friends! Keeping promises and being relateable is very important for me - u said but if they like me and if they are close to me it shouldn't bother them to much - for me especially if they like me and are close to me they should keep their promises because by doing it they are respecting my needs and wishes and show me that they care for me... I also went out with Mexican guys and I can totally relate to the club story - Mexicans (at least those I met) were pretty good in flirting and dancing, here in Germany guys either don't flirt at all and are very shy or they behave in a disgusting way, they are annoying and flirt with u in a unrespectful manner... At least I made that experience often times...

[@Becky_Cal]

I am from LA and one time about five years ago now, I met a German guy on a flight from LA to San Francisco. He’s from Hamburg. We had a great conversation and when he came to LA, I played tour guide for a day. He happened to work for the same company (consulting in Hamburg) that I did in LA. We kept in touch via email, and three years later when I lived in London and visited Hamburg for the first time, he returned the favor and was my tour guide. We kept in touch. Two years after that when I let him know I was going to live in Hamburg for a short time, he helped me sort out public transport, took me out for a welcome dinner and even helped me move from one Airbnb to another. This is one of two almost identical experiences (the other with a German woman, also from Hamburg, whom I met in Cartagena, Colombia). Germans are amazing people 🥰 🇩🇪and they truly are genuine, honest, faithful friends, and are actually very warm once you break through the ice and reserve. 😉

[@christianelmers8600]

Kinda was expecting a love story

[@larajager7820]

I think I need to get a german boyfriend. I always feel so uncomfortable when guys do not let me pay dinner or movies, like whyyy? And I am also kind of tired of people telling me that I am a cold person when I am not :/

[@steffenebener7332]

What is stopping you? And not all german Men are quite cold and efficient... I, for example are just efficient, because i am lazy. Btw. You have a really german Name, i am confused

[@yersiniapestis5237]

Michelle Not everybody wants to have children, you know.

[@parabelle6752]

@Michelle At first, you just described a woman who totally depends on her husband and I think that is wrong. So basically you say without a man on your side, a woman would not be able to survive. But a woman doesn't have to have children, she can make career and she doesnt have to have a male partner or even any partner. Your imagination of a woman is weak and like a man is necessary, but open your eyes. It's not the choice between relying on your husband or on the government, if you really know the german system you would know that and I don't even know why you are speaking about the german medical care. It makes not sense at all in this context. Just because everybodys praises the german medical care and you don't like germany, so you have to make a pigs ear of it? And this indepence can have a lot of woman all over the world, unfortunately not every woman, but in the most countries no woman, also not in germany a has to depend on her husband.

[@airotkiv]

@Michelle I'd rather rely on the state than on a man. I'm strong and independent and I don't need anyone to pay for me. That tradition is old and regressive. In my family, my mum earned more than my dad. Women can provide for themselves. And also, in our system, we don't really rely on the state, but on each other. Our medical system is built on solidarity, we all pay and the sum of our insurance fees covers medical fees for everyone. You have a very twisted worldview, soooo backwards.

[@airotkiv]

@Michelle And in Germany it is illegal to fire a woman because she's pregnant and it's also illegal to ask women if they want to have children. So I don't really know why you're bringing that up. Plus I know so many women that never want to have children.

[@micaelabarahona8453]

I totally agree with you Joss! Maybe the difference is that I like to be organized like the Germans but in the rest my boyfriend is the same Greetings from Baden-Württemberg🥳

[@marisajurgens3022]

I am half German and half Mexican. One thing I thought is funny: The part of nakedness. On one hand Mexicans are shy, but once you are in a relationship they make f.e. when camping, light their bf when they need to go pee or poo. THAT was shocking for me. On the other hand f.e. when friends come over the first time I would serve them snacks and drinks. Once they have been more the twice I would offer them to help themselves, as they know where things are. Actually the new generation of Mexicans where shocked of my hospitality that I learned from my mx Mom in the 80s and 90s. Nowadays it is not the same anymore. Oh! In Uni at a break (in Mexico/Guadalajara) we were talking about sex: and they wondered that I would not have sex in university when there was an opportunity (either with a bf, a free, a friend w/special rights etc) or even to cross the street to a hour motel. And I was like: first I come to study and second I don't have the stress of mexican families, to have to use the time when none one is watching. I can take my bf any time just home...even when parents are there. Obviously you'd be descrete...but it also doesn't mean that you always take him to your place to have sex, can just beca sleep-over, movie etc. That was shocking to my mexican co-students. “But if you are open minded, how do you not think and have sex like rabbits all the time“. I even denied having sex with my mx bf, because of his old fashioned mentality on no protection, and if “something happens we get married“. So I told him: no protection, i was brought up on european mentality, so this legs stay closed. Brought me his respect. Btw, when you are invited to a mexican family, ALWAYS at least offer your help like washing dishes after the meal. And don't wonder when Mexicans jump into your kitchen while asking without waiting if you accept or not their help. I had to find a middle way, as just jump into a German kitchen could feel rude to Germans, and to Mexicans when you don't even stand up asking for helping out.

[@franciscohdz.valenzuela2640]

I love your videos! You‘re so funny! Greetings from Mexico! 🤪

[@johnhunt497]

You guys are a riot! Your videos are so informative with great humor!

[@liloley4099]

Hahahaha I loved the bloopers! So true all of this!

[@qiuqing2121]

Thanks a lot.. I use this video to do my assignment about culture differences. Love your video.

[@edgarXMO]

OMG, i'm more like a german guy 😱. Love your videos, cheers from Guadalajara, México.

[@vanessabahamon1773]

They are my favorite couple OF THE WORLD, so cute, such a nice relationship, lots of trust and jokes and love... I’ll always hope the best for them💝

[@EdgingMyGooch]

do you like german guys? lol

[@zulee76]

The last seconds of the video are the best. 😂😂😂😂

[@carolinayaeger1181]

Sandy Pulido I agree 🤣

[@lita1791]

I´m colombian, my boyfriend is german and ufffffffff I can relate to each point! At the beginning I was not used to him being not that open and romantic, he didn´t even put emojis or anything in his texts... now we have sometimes conversations only through GIFs And maybe I´m becoming more german, because I also enter the train exactly where I have to get off. It´s so precise and effective, I love it! Love your videos, I´m suscribing inmediately!

[@michellelayseca9359]

Hahha i want to see your point of view about dating a mexican girl hahaha. And yes, we're very emotional 😂 btw: Greetings from Guadalajara México 🤗

[@ansgar8568]

I was dating muchas mexicanas, but that was 30 years ago. Pero no me recuerdo :-)

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

My dad’s originally from Mexico and my mom from Spain (pretty much the same thing dna wise, my dna is 94% spanish. Lol) but even men are emotional. I had to learn to control my emotions, and know not to get hurt. When I find someone I like it’s almost like a marriage for me, I’m like a ride or die but I learned early on that’s not good, because you can be 100% in and the other person will only be half in. I pretty much got rid of it. I’ve become more realistic in what to expect and so far it’s worked. 😂

[@michellelayseca9359]

@@Sergio-fu7mv jaja. I totally get it, the same kinda happened to me 😂

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

Michelle Layseca lol, yeah. I think the spanish makes us very passionate. My mom which is originally from Spain is the same way. Same as my fam In Spain. We have passion in our blood. Lol.

[@michellelayseca9359]

@@Sergio-fu7mv cheers for passionate blood!! Hahaha 🥰🙌😂

[@billjackson1200]

Hello guys and another great video and I enjoy watching you,so thank you for sharing it

[@x_nikky5409]

In Poland we often split the bill too so maybe it's just Europe 🤣

[@saralampret9694]

In Poland :O

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

In the west it’s almost like a rule that us men HAVE to pay. Even “feminists” get angry if you don’t pay. Lol. It’s a pretty big deal over here. We’re very old fashioned in that sense.

[@allegsaruiz363]

I think its more about chivalry rather than independece, doesnt matter if shes feminist or not

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

MiraMe. Oh, hey. My moms originally from Spain. Lol. Third wave feminists is which. They’re complete hypocrites. I can say there is definitely some that just want equality for all but the hardcore ones have ruined it for them over here. I once was dating one. She was a hardcore feminist but wanted all the gentleman qualifies out of me, and to be treated like a little princess. Incredibly confusing. Some fems down here even like genuinely hate men. So hypocritical and incredibly sickening.

[@Sergio-fu7mv]

MiraMe. Mm, kind’ve. I’m from the US. My dad’s Mexican which at one point was part of Spain, I took one of those dna things and it said I was 94% spanish and 3.5% Native American. So just a little mixed I guess Lol. Ahh, yes. I’ve heard of machista but not the other one. But yeah, some are incredibly hypocritical over here. Honestly, I actually will do that. They got on my nerves. Lol. I agree with equality for all but I don’t agree with hate. Just seems sickening to me. Thank you! Que tenga buen dia usted tambien! Mucho amor a mis españoles! 🇺🇸🇪🇸🇲🇽

[@milliesanz838]

I love this couple!.. 😍😍 totally agreed with Joss!.. 😁😁 ... Blessings guys!.. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@justjoking4906]

The thing with the train totally got me.😂😂😂 I am doing this all the time. And if I am late I will walk through the train until I am there

[@paulitasnails]

1:35 En Costa Rica, desayunamos de 6am a 8 am (depende de la persona y depende si es fin de semana), almorzamos de 11am a 1pm, cenamos de 6pm a 8pm (lo mismo de antes, depende de la persona y el día de la semana)

[@citlallielizondo1290]

La reacción de Janik en el minuto 4:07 cuando Joss menciona que ha besado a varios alemanes Amoo, me encantan. No tengo ni dos semanas de verlos y los AMO

[@nataliacaldera9634]

Estoy saliendo con un chico Alemán, y muchas de las cosas que Joss mencionó son totalmente ciertas😂 sobre todo lo de que son "brutalmente honestos". Pero aun asi son adorables 🙊

[@ibisa85]

I'm a Bolivian girl dating an american boy, and i can relate 90% with this 😂😂 P.s. We are jealous and full of emotions, and that's how you like us! 😌😇😂

[@tonyjams6406]

Me, a german, use "Hier kennt mich eh keiner" as an excuse when I'm abroad, like what does shy even mean? xD

[@adrianagutierrez6947]

JAJAJAJAJ me encantan sus videos, cómo no amarlos!! Ya deberíamos ser un millón! Los amo, saludos desde Colombia 💛💙❤

[@isabellemaria976]

German girl here. I agree on the check part. I don't like the thought of somebody paying for me all the time. How is expecting somebody else to pay money for you all the time a sign of affection?

[@MadMan-7978]

Coming late is the worst thing any one can do to any one

[@yoelismunoz3825]

Me encanta como está creciendo el canal. I love you guys.

[@rosamariavazquezdiaz7712]

Ja ja nice video!! I love you both! ♥ You're the best ♥ Kisses from Michoacán, México

[@Nadjasmin13]

Dieses na toll, hab' ich gefühlt xD Echt süß ihr beiden. Hat Spaß gemacht :))

[@xQuadFeed97]

10:23 Ohh.. Thats why everybody abroad is looking weird at me after a joke :D But usually in germany we have not problems with that fact :-) Und btw wäre es mal interessant zu wissen, wie andere Nationen über uns denken. Könnt ihr vielleicht mal ein Video mit den Freunden von Joss zusammen machen, in welchem ihr über Vorurteile von uns deutschen usw. sprecht? And btw it would be interesting how other nations think about us.Can you maybe make a video with the friends of Joss, in which you speak about prejudices of us germans?

[@janethvalenciano8607]

Jones I am from Mexico, here it is generally thought that Germans are serious but very good people.

[@beredectorbd]

As mexican I can say germans are super nice people.

[@marieclaire5752]

I'm Italian and we perceive Germans as reliable and obsessed with being on time and efficient. More than people like me, from North Italy. I may say waaay to much. But I love punctuality, it means respect. And Germans are respectful in general. About honesty, I don't know... And we perceive Germans as cold, very cold... I've lived in Germany for 6 months and I didn't made any acquaintance (I'm not telling about friendships, because it takes time and I don't make friends so easily, I'm quite shy, just acquaintances).. Like, I could have died, and no one would have known that... It's too much even for me... And is not that people in my city are very friendly. Lucklily, I had an Italian colleague at work. But, whenever I needed help, people were kind to me, especially when I tried to speak German... Germans appreciate your efforts to learn the language and when u do ur best 😊 I actually have a question :is it common, for Germans, to resolve problems, for exemple at work or with ur neighbours, by directly talking to the boss or by going to a lawyer, without talking , before, with the person with them? Just want to know, because I've seen it various times, in Germany, while here is considered disrespectful, especially if the person has no idea that a certain behaviour is not ok (obviously, I'm not talking about illegal behaviours )and may create a lot of problems, while by simply talking, u can solve it without making a fuss... Isn't it against efficiency and a big waste of time 🤷🏻‍♀️?

[@willguggn2]

@@marieclaire5752 There are quite a few-mostly older-Germans who seek every opportunity to contact the authorities. Makes them feel important, I guess? It is considered rude by most (and a waste of time for everyone involved).

[@llDeilusiall]

Also mein Mann ist deutsch und ich komme aus Südamerika ich denke Deutsche benehmen sich wie Roboter 🤖in der Öffentlichkeit haha und sind öfter sehr schüchtern aber wenn die Deutsche sich wohl fühlen zeigen ihre Zärtlichkeit und ihr warmes Herz .....ihr seid eigentlich eine tolle Gesellschaft 👏👏..aber Warum seid ihr so schüchtern und zurückhaltend ? 🤔🤔 ich fühle mich viel zu wild neben meinem Mann 😂😂😂

[@annio.1943]

I showed my boyfriend this video and he laughed and said its so accurate. Im german and hes american. we live here in germany and its just so funny that everything you guys say is so true. Great video😗

[@alondraandradeandrade7293]

I soooooo, love you both, and her getting jealous at the end it's very funny, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, I can only say that it's TRUE, they are very efficient but also very shy ( I was the one asking my boyfriend if he wanted to be my boyfriend), but hes very loving, although hes honesty sometimes it's kinda weird, jajaja he's tooooo honest but also tries to be kind, we'll be meeting in 2 weeks in Cancun for the first time, wish me luck.😍😍😍

[@Soy_Sue17]

You go, girl! Wish you the best of luck. 🤞🤗

[@JossAndJanik]

That’s gonna be awesome! Good luck and enjoy Cancun 😀

[@cizma27]

I am Croatian and I can relate with Joss more than with Janik. It is probably the Sun. It burned our brains

[@lillamarozsan9556]

Guys I love you sooo much! 😄❤️ You two are the most sweet couple I've ever seen, and your videos make me always smile 😍

[@connie27100]

Fun video!! I have a german husband and we have a lockdown schedule at home for lunch, afternoon tea and daily yoga. I actually like abit of a schedule so we have more similarities/The cultural differences between us aren't as great as i was born in London and I've been told I'm very efficient anyway. What I like is that Germans are so honest you know that theres no pretense or fluff. They are reliable and trustworthy. They dont say things they don't mean for the sake of it and I value that transparency. With regard to language learning...agree that its inevitable. I put it off for 3 years after but now that we moved to the german speaking part of Switzerland and it had to happen. By the way, the Germans have nothing on the Swiss. If anything breaks in your flat, they come the next working day and fix it. No excuses just solutions. Love it. Also it's the German trains that are the ones that are late in Switzerland.

[@lorahayworth-nielson2341]

The last sentences from Joss 😂👍🏼! Yes, I do understand that as well 😊!

[@yaricelisriverarosa4897]

This brought me so many memories. I miss Germany and my German friends. Wish I could go back again ❤️ the spedo thing is so accurate 😂me encantan sus videos

[@arathmtz.7963]

Mach es bitte für die Mexikaner Janik! Ich war in der Schweiz aber viele Sachen davon passen auch für sie. Lo mejor, el final extra 😂 saludos desde Mexico

[@ibizamaria]

Da gehen die Forderungen schon los

[@PatchworkSchoolhouse]

You guys are adorable! I’m a first generation German (my dad immigrated to Canada) & now my daughter is living in Germany dating a guy there....I totally get this dynamic 🤣

[@Strawmoon1]

Me encantan! Los adoro, Janik la mayoría de los mexicanos somos así xD "sentimientos felicidad" algunos hasta entramos en confianza muy rápido :c Joss ¿cómo siguieron saliendo entonces, llegaste a pensar que no tenía interés en ti?:0 Saludos desde México 💗

[@Morellas4]

WONDERFUL ! You are just sooo funny :-))) Thanks for this beautiful video.

[@Aszhmiik]

Love you both! 💕 Joss is so cute when she’s jelous! 💕

[@AndreaAvila78]

Super funny video, thanks!. I'm Argentinian but I do love and value punctuality. I hate it when people are late. I love how brutally honest and efficient German people can be. I love how warm, sweet and friendly Mexicans are. Cultural differences are always interesting and fun to analyse. Now I want to travel to Mexico and Germany!

[@Chocobluelover]

Great video! Lots of love from Israel! 🇮🇱 💕

[@jn-xd4of]

Means Pelestine😒😒

[@scummybabyelephant6094]

Whatever you've mentioned picture Germany in a more cool light. This just makes me want to visit Germany more and more. Thanks for the video:)

[@Evestrong199.]

I can relate to this since my fiancé is german and I am Filipina hehehe And I could say my German guy is absolutely cool and perfect 😆🇩🇪👫🇵🇭💞💞💞

[@bren_baltazar]

I just love you guys!! I have been watching your videos the hole day, they're really useful for practise my english, you're just adorable🥰❤

[@sugadolln]

Mi esposo es Ruso, so I can totally relate! 😂🥰

[@melissasalvatore8186]

Dígame el secreto 😂

[@elizabethocampo7961]

Jamás había visto un vídeo de ustedes son muy divertidos así que me suscribí jajaja saludos!!!