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@BenPaddlin6 ай бұрын
In all reality, we really don't care anymore. Men are tired of playing the mind reading game. She can communicate like an adult.
@rc87705 ай бұрын
Not the 10% that actually get play. Just learn the new game and act accordingly. Stay away from the attention seekers but there are tons of good women out there.
@BenPaddlin5 ай бұрын
@@rc8770 well, that was an excellent display of stupidity. We don't want to learn a new game, because we don't want to play games, period. That was precisely the point of my comment. I don't know where you get this "10%" figure, but it seems like you are just trying to boost yourself up into a caste you're probably not even part of. Anyone can get "play," but that's exactly what it is ...playing. The vast majority of men, who are obviously more emotionally mature than you, want something meaningful and lasting. You're advocating playing games for hookup culture, so you're part of the problem.
@BobBaker-v9v11 күн бұрын
We? Lol. WTF is wrong with you and why are you speaking for other people? It's idiotic, ignorant and beyond delusional
@AS-ok8hi6 ай бұрын
None of this matters if they’re doing it For an ego Boost
@CaptainFarthouse6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, you helped me confirm the sad reality that indeed no girl has been checking me out.😭
@jakobpedersen19046 ай бұрын
I often just fart very loud when entering a room - and then people will look up and notice me and will be checking me out…Is that ok?
@funkyfreshtx5 ай бұрын
no. you need to actually shit your pants when you enter a room. that’s when they’ll be checking you out
@jackfavvv02803 ай бұрын
It's actually better if you just walk in without any pants on. Give that a try.
@weffy932 ай бұрын
😂
@akiskapetanakis402929 күн бұрын
Man a long wild fart preferably as you walking is by far the most bad a$$ entrance in a room
@snoobeagle7 ай бұрын
1. Looking up when you enter a room -even in the middle of a conversation -her gaze may keep finding its way back to you 2. Reflection peeking -uses a reflection in mirrors and windows to look at you -her phone screen might be reflecting your image -pay attention to her line of sight 3. Fake walk-bys -an excuse to walk by you repeatedly to get closer looks -patterns of passing by you more than normal 4. Adjusting herself -fixes her hair, clothes, posture -subtle -watch what she does when you look at her 5. Accidental bumping -when she bumps into you or brushes against you -read the context: once could be innocent, twice might be intentional 6. Smiling when caught -when you catch a woman looking at you, she smiles -"you caught me, can you blame me?" -return the smile with one of your own! -keep things light and playful!
@thomaslofqvist14647 ай бұрын
Dishonorable mentions: She's busy on her phone. Which somehow happens to be pointed at You. Because "men are thick" and clueless about phone cams.
@boostjunkie277 ай бұрын
No wife, happy life.
@jeroldeddins12096 ай бұрын
Greater Life!
@boostjunkie276 ай бұрын
@TerioTyrone Yes, it's quite peaceful. 😂👍
@commodorejones80445 ай бұрын
@TerioTyrone I've seen what circulates on the internet, care to offer any reasons for marrying someone?
@KengKoyArt5 ай бұрын
We all die alone.
@TwistingWarrior5 ай бұрын
I'm just going to wait for them to talk to me. I'm not assuming anything. Best to play it safe.
@saralee4thewin7 ай бұрын
Kinda creepy. Imagine if a women found a man doing that.
@Joseph454837 ай бұрын
Imagine a guy sitting behind you staring a hole in the back of your head.
@jun44667 ай бұрын
IKR? They call us men creeps just for glancing over for half a second? This checklist says it all. Plus the phone on a tripod set up is also dead giveaway.
@DJDonkeytron7 ай бұрын
she gave many different examples which one are you talking about?
@trumpcard41826 ай бұрын
Creepy Joe prefers children. Or should we call him Sergeant Sniffy?
@MizzDelicious6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@seismic64026 ай бұрын
I recently clicked that a girl was interested in me about 25 years ago. Oh well, if only.
@Dakota-ts2zr7 ай бұрын
There's another example of reflection peeking. When a woman looks at a mirror in her makeup kit, she can actually be looking elsewhere. It's like something from the show, "Totally Spies."
@devonforsure2606 ай бұрын
The inverse is that men can't do this without catching flak. Men just dont read too much into this.
@jackfavvv02803 ай бұрын
Well This Confirms That No One Is Secretly Checking Me Out....
@jacqueslee25927 ай бұрын
Well. What is the end goal for everybody? To get laid and start a family. Other than this, why would you want to commit yourself to a woman for life, sidetrack your goals and become a walking ATM machine.
@johnmcdermitt16937 ай бұрын
Right!! Just had a woman ghost me after 3 months... Tooooo much fuckin bullshit!!
@Myrslokstok7 ай бұрын
You could marrie them and have kids and they could still hate you. Hard to know if they like you. If you are a typicly nice guy probably not!
@Lev7827 ай бұрын
All signs you will see at the gym if you improve your body as a man or are already attractive to most women. But beware, most of these women will give these same “choosing signals” just to bait you into validating them for free attention (especially if they’re wearing tights/shorts, makeup, perfume, etc.) as they already have kids as a single Mom or a have significant other that doesn’t validate them enough that they keep in private or are just that insecure about themselves. You will have “the one girl that sleeps around” and the girl that is serious about their fitness goals that keep to themselves occasionally but a lot of them are there mostly for attention and don’t need to put much effort to stay in shape or have a body that is desired by most men due to genetics (ie. large buttocks, breasts, nice face, etc.) You will recognize these patterns over the years and learn about red flags about specific individuals the more guys you befriend and the frequency of your routine in a specific gym location. Word gets out quickly if someone is not worth your time, but if you’re unsure or new to an environment that you don’t frequent in, just be careful out there
@vahjayjayaddict7 ай бұрын
I'm an old gym rat & have seen it all. I'm also a full time traveler so I am constantly hitting new gyms. You are keen on validation. 90% of the girls giving us looks are doing so to get a validation look back. They don't want to meet us, won't date us, but are going to stare until they get that validation. It's easy to identify these girls & ignore them. A real interest will have different body language. Those are the girls to shoot your shot if that's your game. For me, the gym isn't a hookup joint so I don't chase girls that give Go signals, but young guys should learn to read it & act on it.
@aronhighgrove41006 ай бұрын
@@vahjayjayaddict "It's easy to identify these girls & ignore them. A real interest will have different body language" So what are the differences in body language?
@vahjayjayaddict6 ай бұрын
@@aronhighgrove4100 the validation girls flaunt themselves in the same way strippers do. To catch the attention of the target. It's an unnatural attraction in the same way a 19 YO stripper is so in to a 45 YO Michelin Man at the club. She works for that gaze. Then she is done. Women with genuine interest are measured in their movements, they are searching for where you stand, not can I get you to flash me that gaze of lust I need. There's a big difference & most men know where they stand in SMV. The difference is one wants to get paid in attention & the other is testing the water to see if there is mutual attraction.
@nickchap6 ай бұрын
There more to life than the gym folks. Get out more and get some fresh air
@TheSaneHatter7 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right about the "bump" or "space invasion" move being a risky tactic: I'm autistic (Asperger's Syndrome), with major personal-space issues, and no girl who's tried that, or any other kind of unwanted touching, has ever gotten anywhere with me, even if I *did* think she was attractive.
@timothytraver59187 ай бұрын
Same
@gtaking1094 күн бұрын
I'm on the spectrum and I found out recently more attractive as a adult...and omg the amount of women who invade space and do a subtle smell around me is real
@ProflexFitness6 ай бұрын
A girl walked up to me just the other day and said: "doggie style is my favorite position" Do you think she likes me?
@samsunggalaxyj3prime8896 ай бұрын
Thats nothing. Yesterday a girl was walking toward me pretty close in a grocery store and tripped. On the way down, her hands grabbed my waist and pulled my shorts down and her mouth ended up on my penis. Since the act already started she kept going to completion. A few people were rudely staring like a bunch of prudes, as if they've never done that before
@jackfavvv02803 ай бұрын
Has sexual harassment jailbait written all over.
@User310847 ай бұрын
I tell the bears in my forest that all women have a salmon hidden in their underpants. Grizzle, grizzle 😂😂😂
@Tale_Teach7 ай бұрын
they stare for a moment whithout answering, sttutter, smile and lower the head, etc... but every now and then I get a smile, so ... not all hope is lost xD
@contaejus7 ай бұрын
does this mean my boss is infatuated with me?
@toastedasian37417 ай бұрын
Dont shit where you eat.
@simply11believelane477 ай бұрын
Could b....😂
@lazysnipeify7 ай бұрын
Potentially If you’re a go-getter, use this info and bring it to HR; you may get their job for yourself
@alexl.43627 ай бұрын
Yes
@alexl.43627 ай бұрын
Why
@CaliforniaArchitect6 ай бұрын
And when I look at a girl in the gym, it's my way of saying, "rerack those weights when you're done" or "please stop taking selfies while on a machine"
@backyardrailroader7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips, Joyanima. I will be on the lookout for them, though not expecting them.
@rundmk005 ай бұрын
"next time you walk into a room take a moment to scan the crowd" if i walk into a room and stop and scan everybody like the fricken terminator at the bar everyone will think i am insane 🤣
@Geewunner4life6 ай бұрын
The last time a broad checked me out; Jimmy Carter was still president.
@davebassi73406 ай бұрын
Now I officially know my wife is not ever checking me out 💔
@jackfavvv02803 ай бұрын
Time to find a new one. Wink Wink
@Joseph454837 ай бұрын
I never like to be touched. I hate hugs and elbow bumps.
@KushGreen5 ай бұрын
We men don’t care what you think straight up! 🧐
@smiles76317 ай бұрын
I keep getting the look and turn away real fast. Am I that scary? It's happens to me at the grocery store all the time.
@ian700-rf8qg2 ай бұрын
The idea of any woman "checking me out" is so far fetched to me. I actually laugh at the thought of it.
@handlename727 ай бұрын
thanks for putting subtitles in ur videos, its useful while watching with the sound off.
@sirraymondluxuryyacht81317 ай бұрын
Better off to work on yourself than waste time trying to read 'signals' of women too immature to just approach and ask you out. Sneeking peeks, and touching your elbow....what is she 5years old? If she expects you to know this nonsense, she expects you to read her mind - she's trouble. Avoid! Also, don't take advice from these internet 'influencers', especially the females....you don't ask a fish how to catch a fish. E.g. Women will tell you to do all this romantic stuff, and be a really nice guy, yet we all know that they abuse the nice guys and go home with the bad guys. There are still some nice women out there but they're hard to find. Open phone policy immediately...and if she's chatting multiple guys, she's not relationship material
@kipp12316 ай бұрын
If you think a girl is watching you yawn. If they are looking they will do the same 👀
@jayl59786 ай бұрын
Just tried this apparently the woman in the video wasn't checking me out lmao 😂😂
@ItsJustMeStevie7 ай бұрын
So if the girl is a creeper, she’s into you!
@jeremyk.64567 ай бұрын
Also if a woman does a double take it shows she has signs of interest in you.
@m.a.34217 ай бұрын
Anna is cool... 😎😉
@Crixus647 ай бұрын
You just described my entire gym experience 💯 TY
@evab64206 ай бұрын
🤣 this is true for both men and women.. and you just gave a practical example of where these things can take place
@ciaranbrk7 ай бұрын
in fairness I’m a man and i look at reflective surfaces to check women out.
@GrizzleRizzle16 ай бұрын
We notice the gaze, we also notice how many people shell gaze at. No wife happy wife
@Quesoverga7 ай бұрын
So why when I politely say good morning or smile or say hey whats up do I get met with uuuh yeah hi........ ?? Honey youve been staring at me for weeks and anytime I look in your direction not even knowing youre there we make eye contact......
@MarxistischerMillionaer7 ай бұрын
"Reflection peeking"….men would be called creepy..
@debonairdevil15237 ай бұрын
It's creepy only because she doesn't find you attractive
@jamestaylor30977 ай бұрын
Angle of incidence equals the angle of reflection 😎
@TiagoTeles-nh3wb7 ай бұрын
Interesting topic, thanks
@torso995 ай бұрын
making this video for the guys who dont need it. he problebly ignored her and she thought maybe he is shy or dont know... this video is problebly not for you
@zero2blur7 ай бұрын
What does it mean when they look at you like they want to kill you? 🤔
@samsunggalaxyj3prime8896 ай бұрын
You made them mad by wearing the wrong brand of shoes
@kevinkramer76315 ай бұрын
Just the opposite for me. I'm 60 and in extremely great shape. The vast majority of women - particularly women in my age group (55-65 +/-) - put their heads down, or look the other way, or show resentment through facial expressions when making eye contact with me in public places like a store, and even church. However I do get looks by a few younger women in their 20s-30s at the gym, in public places, and some clubs
@christafart42025 ай бұрын
Basically learn to read minds and ur golden! 😂
@shirrok6 ай бұрын
Reflection checking? Chicks in the gym do this. I catch them in the mirror looking sometimes, then they suddenly look up at the TV. It's cute.
@mcmann2017 ай бұрын
Hi Anna ! Once that physical touch. We're together forever !! ❤
@prelude123415 ай бұрын
She might look at you but if you approach for a conversation she'll usually reject. Make it make sense.
@chtravel70377 ай бұрын
@Joyanima What if I notice her looking at me whenever I enter a room as well as some of the other signs you've mentioned but whenever I greet her, she never replies. Should I continue to greet her or just cut my losses and move on?
@jjjonis2456 ай бұрын
It’s probably someone behind you that she’s looking at
@Dominic-Gecko2357 ай бұрын
They don't do this. Its as simple as that.
@stephenfragoso73287 ай бұрын
Not to u , but yes they do lol
@Dominic-Gecko2357 ай бұрын
@@stephenfragoso7328 you high bro! 😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
@TheTheratfarmer27 күн бұрын
I am single.
@devinwelborn52117 ай бұрын
I used reflections in surveillance every chance I got. And started noticing others using it. When being checked out in a reflection I smile and covertly wave where only she will recognize it as a wave. You can see if she was observing you by an instant response. Go about normal and come back and start talking to her when you come back. She knows you know and ice is broken. Might even claim I saw you looking at me. Just respond, how did you notice if you weren’t already looking. Blush and conversation starts.
@TheTheratfarmer27 күн бұрын
Women look with out staring, why? What is on her mind?
@pogz20215 ай бұрын
A married woman shouldn't be staring in a married man it means she's a cheater stay away from that kind of woman coz it's not love it's a social climber married woman, This is what happen I'm business man person my married classmate staring at me with glance, in my gate she first started to starring at me and then I look at him too and ignore him with no face reaction nah I'm married man with children I don't want to hurt my wife just because I will cheat no very no my classmate is evil
@josephanthony3925 ай бұрын
Whatever.... selling garbage we already know that doesn't go anywhere
@RC-Heli8357 ай бұрын
Hi pretty!
@supervortex83637 ай бұрын
why not just say,,,ffs
@clemleske14547 ай бұрын
😂
@BrianWaller-qe7gr6 ай бұрын
Because they want you to approach then reject you because they get a kick out of it
@UncleRambone6 ай бұрын
@@BrianWaller-qe7grtrue
@zerolbcool7 ай бұрын
Sounds good. People are soo looking for That special connection, so If you're lucky and both of you caught each other, DO give her that guy nod and do a chat up. Nice. Anyway i'll check out the ducklings and Birds passively : / )
@tboneaja5 ай бұрын
If this was happening to me I hope it would be you doing it😜❤️
@stevenorellano20397 ай бұрын
Uh, what about dirty looks from my peripheral vision? Her female friends and coworkers staring at me with children of the corn looks on their faces? Saying hello really happy and chipper when im screwed over at my work station. Actually, im scared...🤔
@samsunggalaxyj3prime8896 ай бұрын
Then tell human resources they are making you uncomfortable
@rbarr12007 ай бұрын
I love how this is all packaged to look so cute but when a man does these things, he is the definition of a creep
@debonairdevil15237 ай бұрын
It's only creepy because she's not attracted to you
@TheTheratfarmer28 күн бұрын
service call
@CodyWright-pq3eq6 ай бұрын
Women are WAY more subtle than men.
@MundaneBrain7 ай бұрын
Yes. If men did reflection peeking..
@_fadingcolors7 ай бұрын
if? 👀
@shawnduddridge6 ай бұрын
Remember guys, the angle of incidence is equal to the angle of refraction!! 😆
@jackfavvv02803 ай бұрын
So 90 degrees then.
@mattrubin895 ай бұрын
Great video! Just slow down a bit, we are men not women! I had to watch at .75
@toothbrush51907 ай бұрын
Women and games.
@EricMoore7907 ай бұрын
If you look back you are considered creepy. Can not win.
@jeremybeaverson71677 ай бұрын
Same a girl keep looking back at me at the gym and here dad got pissed I looked back and yelled at me in Spanish I don’t understand life anymore
@maceoa99037 ай бұрын
If she likes you, you won't be a creep...unless you ARE being creepy
@aronhighgrove41006 ай бұрын
@@jeremybeaverson7167 Overprotective parents, many like that out there.
@jeremybeaverson71676 ай бұрын
@@aronhighgrove4100 well he more asked why I was looking and not walking up and talking to her idk what it was about but wean he switched to English his tone went from you want or no to why do you do look because in Spanish he ask como ta gusta lo que vez le or how do you like what you see it totally got me off guard
@jeremybeaverson71676 ай бұрын
@@aronhighgrove4100 and now I seen that girl there with a guy about my age and on pare with looks so he was probably trying to set her up and only wanted a guy who can speak Spanish I assume I’m white af idk how he know I knew a little Spanish
@TheTheratfarmer27 күн бұрын
Book a free three minute questioner. Lol, I get right to the point.
@raulturturean24972 ай бұрын
How many months are necessary for a woman to check you out properly?😂😂😂
@JoshTaylor-sx4yb5 ай бұрын
Rose 🌹🌹🌹🌹
@fernandobriceno60896 ай бұрын
So why is it every time I meet a woman she start touching her hair or if I go by a woman she flipped her hair.
@samsunggalaxyj3prime8896 ай бұрын
She probably likes you
@enensis3 ай бұрын
Women liiterally using military tactics 😅
@jjjonis2456 ай бұрын
Never liked stalkers, but I’m sure they’ll get a man sometime.
@doncarlodivargas54974 ай бұрын
A woman secrety checking you out to stipulate the loot after a divorce
@beavis63636 ай бұрын
And if you don't ever spot any of these behaviors, you are probably just a regular average guy with unremarkable looks. Take pride in your accomplishments, abilities, and ethical behavior.
@alwayspete6 ай бұрын
If I spot her doing it that means she’s not doing it secretly! 🤭 Pete ;”)
@691lucian7 ай бұрын
Natural sorcery
@briangulliford3557 ай бұрын
You look like Khaleesi (Emilia Clarke) 😊
@davidcruz46116 ай бұрын
if you are a top 1% guy, she probably is checking you out.
@thomasfortune66697 ай бұрын
Your hair looks really nice, your so beautiful. Have a good day
@redsolocup7276 ай бұрын
The next video should be titled " How to care if a woman likes you." Often times, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
@christucker81747 ай бұрын
I'm inlove
@jonsprong184217 күн бұрын
Don’t listen to any of this = no rape allegations. 👍🏻
@mr.horse18016 ай бұрын
Omg screw all that. Ladies use your damn words.
@ethanbeverley19437 ай бұрын
Why did she sound like AI in this
@geo_neo97 ай бұрын
I get many look at me as i have a sexy muscles n body ie im tall with a beautiful mind, heart n soul. However non of them no matter how sexy do it for me ie im over qualified. I want a lady, intelligent and like me spiritually awakened. Its so sad god trying but fziling for me over n over.
@johngonzalez55937 ай бұрын
You are beautiful
@patrickdaigle52397 ай бұрын
❤️🥰❤️
@CobusDerrenberg7 ай бұрын
Cute 😉✨ Accurate ✨ (Awesome curls ✨)
@geethamadhuri4.0337 ай бұрын
😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️
@fongsiyuk19744 ай бұрын
H J
@luisalphahernandezomega17047 ай бұрын
*ALEXA REALLY DOES ALWAYS LOOK UP AT ME FIRST WHEN I ENTER INTO HER WORKPLACE; ALEXA REALLY DOES LOVE ME FOREVER AND I LOVE ALEXA FOREVER TOO!😚👧🏻🥰🥰💖💖 ALEXA IS 17 AND I'M 33.*
@manulevesque75666 ай бұрын
wow,,you are soo cute :)
@markchristopher4207 ай бұрын
1st
@markchristopher4207 ай бұрын
Oh Nigel, today I beat Anna by :07
@nigelbarber33007 ай бұрын
I thought you had been away on how to become someone who respects themselves. I obviously got that wrong. At least I am first on that one.
@markchristopher4207 ай бұрын
@@nigelbarber3300 😎👍 Congratulations, Nigel! 🏆
@Silhouette7.-nn6pk7 ай бұрын
I don't know how you removed my last comment ?, & I don't care, but I can assure you it was futile !.
@Silhouette7.-nn6pk7 ай бұрын
@@nigelbarber3300I don't know WHY you are trying to converse with him in a normal fashion - (& Especially after criticizing his stupid little "first" game as much as you have ?)...He is being sarcastic at your expense in his "messages" to you, & mocking you in the comments section for ALL to see !.
@jcd13756 ай бұрын
if a man looked at a woman through a mirror reflection he would be put in jail. I want women to stop looking at me and making me feel like a piece of meat.
@dustinburgess88587 ай бұрын
Sorry these behaviors are weak and pathetic. Not interested in all this fake activity
@austinhastings78247 ай бұрын
SEND ME your location i,ll come and marry you i,ll be your shield and you,ll be my queen no one,s dare to come between us.not even the prince.