Judge Reveals Why Black Women Are The Least Married

Judge Reveals Why Black Women Are The Least Married
00:00 Judge Lynn Toler Admonishes Woman
03:24 Woman refuses to get dolled up for date
05:58 She only dates funny guys
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[@Michelle-pn9xt]

Is this all that you were able to post about black women? There are videos of black women encouraging black men all over KZbin and Facebook! Many black women support, encourage, and uplift black men. It would be nice to see and hear a black man say something positive about us. I am educated and married! This is just sad. As Lynn Toler would say, be a better man!

[@watchmanonthewall14]

@@Michelle-pn9xt Reads as though you're arguing, not listening. Hmmm. I do understand that the presenter is painting with a broad brush here, and that there are plenty of exceptions. I'll give you that. But this problem is all too prevalent in our society, and women of color do not have a monopoly on this issue. Women of all sizes, shapes, ages, and colors are literally falling off the cliff in this country. It is true that Judge Toler would say, "Be a better man!" And in many cases, that rings true. This vid happens to be focused upon some women of color.

[@koolshaker7615]

Of course the judge was right...

[@LionPride11241968]

She needs to START & FINISH THERAPY, which Most Women don't!

[@coolyouthrod]

Women think their men are responsible for their overall entertainment...plan date, pay for date, give them interesting conversation, make them laugh, make them have orgasms. If I'm doing all that....Im the Prize!

[@kwabeasu22]

Judge Toler was the best judge on Divorce Court.

[@ladybug3g.365]

She was my favorite judge.

[@eskimoblack]

Maybelline was good toler was good as well

[@ajdynamo6866]

​@@eskimoblackMaybelline was good but I felt she was too quick to anger at times. I like that Toler tends to keep a cooler head while still setting folks straight.

[@AI_Movie_Critic]

Judge Lynn rules

[@DebraRushing]

Yes she was 😂

[@Corey-tn3fo]

She just can't seem to shut up. It actually brought tears to her eyes to keep her mouth closed. She is SERIOUSLY screwed up.

[@taylorthenatural5509]

I'd like to think it was actually her feeling foolish in the presence of a woman like Judge Lynn Toler that made her tear up. I studied psychology, so its clear to me that talking a lot and being dominant is a trauma response. As it is for most black women. People choose not to see our emotional scars. People celebrate Heath Ledger to this day and he was SERIOUSLY messed up, but the black woman doesn't get such grace.

[@taylorthenatural5509]

I'd like to think it was actually her feeling foolish in the presence of a woman like Judge Lynn Toler that made her tear up. I studied psychology, so its clear to me that talking a lot and being dominant is a trauma response. As it is for most black women. People choose not to see our emotional scars. People celebrate Heath Ledger to this day and he was SERIOUSLY messed up, but the black woman doesn't get such grace.

[@SeawardMari]

​@taylorthenatural5509 excuses, man.

[@Corey-tn3fo]

@SeawardMari Point proven. Absolutely no accountability. It's NEVER their fault, more excuses than a nikka going to jail.

[@marshallduvall4251]

The whole time in her head she's thinking "They not letting me talk !"

[@jwill6008]

I respect Ms. Toler. She is a beautiful, highly intelligent black woman. She lost her husband of many years recently and still speak highly on marriage. She is one to shut up and listen to‼️

[@alaricsanford4301]

My ex-wife told me, " It's my way or the highway." I chose the highway, never been happier in my life!

[@MrSmitty1074]

Smart move! Enjoy life!

[@LetGoStressFree]

So, did she turn into a monster after you two exchanged vows, or was she always aggressive and you ignored the signs?

[@alaricsanford4301]

@@LetGoStressFree Yes, she changed right after we exchanged vows and after that I was convinced that I would never get married again.

[@7SKYBALLER]

#Facts...& I'll b willing 2 bet she's some where like tha late, great Bobby Womack 1nce said: "...I'm lookin for a love...every day. I'm lookin for a love, i'm lookin here & there, searchin everywhere, I'm lookin, I'm lookin, I'm lookin, I'm lookin.."

[@MichaelMyers-tg9uh]

😂😂😂

[@zell8301]

😂Not getting cute anymore? Makeup or no makeup.......No man is wasting his time.

[@seriousone8229]

@zell8301 I'm laughing so hard my stomach hurts.

[@quis3232]

@zell8301 I never thought I could ever say this, but I wish she had a bonnet on.

[@countvan7406]

At least he doesn't have to wonder what she really looks like. It's all there for the world to see.

[@Triniflambeau]

She could have fixed up properly for herself. Pure embarrassment. Not classy at all

[@cantbelieveit5590]

Bingo

[@JRWisdom]

Was the judge right?

[@lashellanderson7773]

Yes indeed

[@singlefathers4114]

Hell yes

[@DrunkManDezReloaded]

Damn right

[@Michelle-vh9uc]

Yes, she is correct.

[@Freeway1975]

Facts ✊🏾

[@KNGnBLK]

Her face is so scrunched up, she can only communicate through snarls... that's wild! I almost feel sorry for her

[@Tahiha]

She actually isn’t snarling. That’s just how her nose is.

[@KNGnBLK]

​@Tahiha, her nose doesn't have anything to do with how hard she has to talk through those clenched jaws and teeth.

[@sayitaintso7544]

She found a soft dude she could run over. She can take her ever running mouth out the door. Guys dont have to put up with this foolishness

[@MaxieBinns]

Feel sorry for her? you crazy!!

[@KNGnBLK]

@@MaxieBinns I said almost! Lol

[@paulmann5328]

"Keep making that face, its gonna get stuck like that"....LOOKIN AHH😂😂😂😂

[@skylimits313who9]

Bro it's already stuck. What you looking at 😂

[@theverbalunderground]

@@skylimits313who9 It's An Old School Phrase... How Old Are You?!

[@watchmanonthewall14]

@@theverbalunderground Yeah, my dad told me that back in the early 70s.

[@nysportsfan2576]

💀

[@koolshaker7615]

Too late🙄 it's already stuck...😅😅😅😅

[@j.ciloafasho]

That second woman did the right thing. The man can now clearly see what he’s getting and can make an informed decision. If more women did this, they’d eventually have to humble themselves and get what the ‘REAL them’ can actually match with. All of those fake outward adornments gives them a false sense of increased worth. She thinks she’s really hurting somebody by doing that, but she’s doing them one of the best favors she could.

[@Emajenn1]

Absolutely, well said!

[@Spooner125]

Women’s make up is an enhancer and a great deceiver.

[@Misty-gc6bq]

That's what I thought too.

[@JordanClemons]

The sister without makeup looked like a walking cigarette

[@stevenmarcinkowski8577]

All those blemishes says she's a crackhead

[@karmathephoenix2474]

LOL.

[@The313dash]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@UnrulyJ88]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@argerinejordan4703]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@aldermand7268]

It's hilarious that the second woman thinks she's making sense but she's doing us a favor ..🤣

[@vergespierre4271]

Exactly 💯

[@dexterroberts631]

Who's the first and second lady ?

[@earthgirl7874]

Her entire attitude was horrible.

[@jonmobile5521]

Who lied to her that she is cute even with make-up

[@girlhh3908]

😵

[@PositiveBrothaHakeem]

...Some goofy church simp.

[@rwgino3757]

Cute?! In what f***ing way?!

[@Caribbeana]

She is cute

[@yvettemorris7295]

Hate is real! Satan lives in people that hate others and Judge others!

[@Ravenfanatic5]

Judge Lynn Toler is the kind of woman that most of these modern women need to seek out. She's that old school mama/grandma that will tell most chicks who are off their rocker to basically shutup and listen for once

[@watchmanonthewall14]

Bam!

[@megaboy28]

One of the last stand up women we got to experience in the 21st century.

[@cygnusprime6728]

And what's awesome about her is that she embodies concept of "speak softly but carry a big stick". She will remain calm and polite the whole time but will go from 0-100 checking you if you step out of line without getting emotional or sinking down to your level. Very smart with a good understanding of psychology and emotions.

[@georgeclark2554]

The second woman I don't think makeup will change anything for her

[@spencersmith9131]

Facts

[@608portraits9]

🤣😂🤣

[@jermainewynn1929]

😂😂😂😂

[@greyman6353]

I dont think even the Mission Impossible crew wants that assignment

[@ma3stro681]

She hit The Wall before birth … 😂

[@millzhale4223]

I dont understand the difficulty of men to simply walk away.

[@terryjames8724]

These are these so called men that are "P" wiped and can't get other women. A lot of men today are soft weak simps

[@backmanbolee4853]

Maybe they have kids with them

[@EricR-]

@@backmanbolee4853 That might be true. But walk anyway. Respect yourself first and let everything fall into place.

[@steviemak10]

Only simps stay to try and change somebody in a relationship. It ain’t just men. 💯

[@shootitouttv6528]

Time is significant to men. When we say we love u over a time span we really do mean it. It’s genuine, our woman could lose her job or be depressed, post pardom pregnancy etc. well stay with her and help her get better as long as she stay loyal, stay sexually engaged with us and respect us.

[@noneyobiz1988]

Remember ladies, the wall is undefeated.

[@darlenejohnson659]

Same for men... lol

[@noneyobiz1988]

@@darlenejohnson659 Men don’t hit the wall by 30

[@kennethyoung4892]

Men don't hit the wall until 80

[@EricR-]

@@darlenejohnson659 Geriatric pregnancy starts 35 to 42 years old for women. Then menopause. That is biology not opinion. Please know the difference and leave your emotions on pause!

[@EricR-]

@@noneyobiz1988 So many modern women have not taken a high school or college biology class. If they had this education they would know the difference between their feelings and emotions verses biology.

[@bluejay9968]

They are very vicious women. They play nice to get something.

[@RandySavage1555]

Basically Users ..I'm happy black men are waking up to this ..They have zero respect for any Black Man

[@keepingitreal5533]

Let's not act like men are perfect... Especially Black Men, many of whom cheat on their partners and then expect them not to end up angry and bitter. Keep it all the way 100. Black Men and Black Women need to improve greatly.

[@CarlJohnson-uk4fe]

​@@keepingitreal5533lie

[@jasonjr376]

I never cheated on mine but she had no problems cheating and throwing away 5 years like it was nothing. Also,I go to an hbcu and literally all the women I've dated have had bfs and tried messing around with me as a "side piece ". In my experience they are sneaky, vicious and untrustworthy

[@keepingitreal5533]

@@jasonjr376 I'm sorry that happened to you. A faithful black man is very difficult to find so I'm sorry she didn't appreciate you. Having said that, most Black Men do cheat at some point. That's why men and women need to take accountability.

[@shawn_and_one]

The First Lady is what happens when there is no strong father in the home. As fathers we have to show the women in your family love, build strong relationships, but not be afraid to check them when needed.

[@charlesirby1643]

As always it is s man’s fault you guys wonder why black men are going passport bros or SYSBM getting tired of the lame excuses. If she didn’t have a daddy because her lousy mother chose a lousy man to procreate with .

[@VeeAll]

True. Also my dad of 4 girls and three aunts raised us to (always) be presentable. It's called self respect. A bonnet was out of the question. He's been gone for years and we still check ourselves before we hit the door.

[@shawn_and_one]

@@VeeAll ❤️ Facts.. I once chewed into my 22 year old son’s for trying to leave my house in a Do-Rag… something’s should be wound to bed and not in public.

[@Ravenfanatic5]

It seems that lady never heard someone tell her to basically shutup

[@dreday5578]

How can a father check her when 74% bw are single mothers bm are not value in the black family

[@uwemattiss880]

That first woman is a nightmare to live with,she has a permanent frown, doesn't listen and is very argumentative,if that man wants to live long he must divorce her.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

0:35 - She likes having the control without the accountability. They want to make all the decisions. If the decision goes well, they want praise. If the decisions go bad, they want him to "be a man", fix it and take ownership. Never be that simp.

[@coreystewart4798]

Do you know the episode

[@ErikisOfficial]

EGO is a really big problem that no one ever addresses. The problem is the ego gets damaged in childhood and becomes a problem in adults. They take everything so personal and never wannna accept responsibility and accountability. When a persons ego is too strong they wont hear a single word you say. Their ears close.

[@MissOne]

sounds like a narcissist 😢

[@3mget]

Trauma has done some serious damage to culture.

[@MySplatterhouse]

Geez this woman has a permanent scowl. 🤣

[@evamilsap1312]

😂😂😂😂

[@rickymcdonald2669]

Facts just keep living. You will meet many who have frowned so much that they can't smile.

[@carlracher9458]

You can see the anger in her eyes and face

[@lordmaul3]

Yo the Keisha at the 3:27 mark comes on a date looking like she came str8 out of the homeless shelter. Just looking crazy!

[@Ravenfanatic5]

Or just rolled out of bed without washing her face atleast

[@taguirre7052]

That lady and not the judge looks evil as heck.

[@purposepassionandlovetv863]

The real problem with clip number 2 is that to be "cute" she thinks its in the weave and the makeup and nails and lashes. She actually did Bro a favor because that image is her real, poor attitude disconnected from reality self that he would have been greeted with once the euphoria of newness wears off and she stops doing those things anyway. That entire dialog is about 20 different conversations.

[@bobbynyce]

The sad thing here is that other cultures are watching this/social media and this is further validating their sentiments about black women... respectfully.

[@EricR-]

FACTS! Your statement just reminded me to renew my passport!

[@jadesmith7983]

Agreed! Probably should have worded it different.

[@karmathephoenix2474]

And BM's lack of putting BW in line. Stop letting other cultures see you men as weak! Discipline your women, please!

[@lynchsc420]

The word you’re looking. For is not “validated” it is “preconception”.

[@karmathephoenix2474]

It's a shame, but there's never any forgiveness for her.

[@darkpisces8125]

You do realize that this is the same judge that said don’t do wife duties on girlfriend prices? Although people completely misunderstood what she meant. Which is living together.

[@Tahiha]

What’s your point?

[@christopherdouglas7606]

What's you point she was talking about her bad attitude here how did you get wife and girlfriend arguments in this. Stay on topic.

[@christopherdouglas7606]

​@Tahiha exactly what am thinking too

[@ugoekwegh4581]

what does this have to do with anything?

[@dirtyface-capone7622]

Yes that was another jewel dropped by the ever honorable & classy Judge Lynn Toler.Too bad she's wasting her jewels on swine, tho.

[@thegamingchef3304]

Women aren't just dating bad men, they are choosing men that reflect who they are as a person. We been so programmed to think women are all wholesome sweet innocent creatures to a point we automatically assume that they are good, especially if she is cute or pretty. Women aren't simply choosing bad boys, they are choosing a reflection of themselves.

[@3mget]

Absolutely!!

[@chilombomululu6034]

True it's all abt th spirit someone carries

[@ellisperry6802]

These types of women are with these men they really don't want, because they don't want to be alone and they complain... about that man. If complaining... leave, it's really that simple. But women love drama, so they will stay and complain. 🤦 The dude stays because he's not getting any from no one else. 😂😂😂

[@amaRita-fk7mp]

Her face😂 so grouchy 😂😂😂

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

he is a WEAK man. How could he EVER be with someone like that. I expect no arguments from women. I lead. Woman follow. that is it.

[@YOUTUBEPUNISH]

SHE DON’T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT HERSELF 😇❤️💯

[@SupremeJ10]

Leave that female NOW!!!!

[@detorreonpla3424]

The chick walking thru the casino with messed up hair looks like Hustle Man from the Martin Show

[@dariusx4829]

The problem is black fathers being absent in their daughter's lives... so this is the results we get.

[@jadesmith7983]

Yep 🎯

[@dustymcdust825]

You’re right and since almost all were raised by single mothers so I don’t date them period, I haven’t even slept with one in 11 years.

[@dariusx4829]

@@dustymcdust825 Wise brotha, never compromise your values and principles for short-term pleasure 👍🏾🔥💯

[@dswanson82]

Or Black women having babies with men who aren’t their husbands 🤷🏽‍♀️… women control access to sex.

[@efeaster3680]

The mother are the ones running the farthers off, playing keep away, are don't no,are want say who the farher is....statistically it's more of that,then actual dead beat farthers....

[@geraldjones3227]

1) You can't lead those who refuse to be led or those who want to dictate or demand a particular brand of leadership. Leave them be. 2) if being "cute" requires the equivalent of a big budget construction project, you ain't the one, Ma'am. 3) the problem is you

[@jamessims4802]

BW consistently, want consideration & respect, and they believe strength is not giving any.

[@LetGoStressFree]

People only do what you allow them to do. There is only a certain type of man who has to complain about not getting respect. The others who know already have it.

[@manher4335]

@@LetGoStressFree That guys a comedian he doesn't count. Rodney Dangerfield.

[@Che-Guitarra]

BINGO!!!

[@SouthAlphaSigma_]

@@LetGoStressFreewe respect ourselves. You’re opinion doesn’t matter.

[@LetGoStressFree]

@@SouthAlphaSigma_ The constant complaining on here about what you can't get out of a woman shows that you really don't respect yourself, and you settle for anything.

[@georgerucker9263]

She wants to listen to respond instead of HEARING to understand

[@efeaster3680]

Typical female behavior

[@reggieeverett90]

I wouldn't care if she came to the date natural. Thats the look I'm going to see 95% of the time. At least I know what I'm going to get. But the attitude ruined it for me

[@1995RangeRover]

1st woman - bad attitude 2nd woman - bad skin, bummy and bad attitude 3rd woman - needs to find balance in a man

[@harveyhankerson8359]

You’re dead on right.. !!

[@MrCj_Common]

Jokes on her...for walking around looking like that. (The second woman)

[@jparker19822009]

3rd woman is a dummy you have to find a balance that’s just means you don’t have a personality or of low intelligence

[@The313dash]

Yeah the second one was a walking cigarette

[@The313dash]

Yeah the second one was a walking cigarette

[@Max-cc5fe]

If you love someone, are in a relationship. You should do it for yourself and your partner! Make each other proud! Give each other something to whole on to and think about!

[@EricR-]

When Foundation Black Men have a Passport. He has a world of options. Since women outnumber men. Men should act like it!

[@RickyRudeboy1]

If a man doesn't have a passport in today's society he's missing out on the best life has to offer.

[@LetGoStressFree]

Acting like getting a passport is a major accomplishment is such an embarrassment for black people smh.

[@RickyRudeboy1]

@@LetGoStressFree trust me.... Black people can't be anymore embarrassed than they already are. Literally the laughing stock of the country. There's nothing that we can do to make ourselves look any lower.

[@efeaster3680]

Agreed

[@efeaster3680]

​@LetGoStressFree who said it was a "major accomplishment"...😂😂

[@nutt1621]

J.R. You ain't gotta be clutching your pearls looking at that woman in the casino like that. 🤣

[@shayneguzman]

Facts.....arrested development and deep rooted trauma defines our women and men

[@louniece1650]

Only because 'the culture' still refuses to embrace therapy and put in the work.

[@frankmahoney1268]

We R all traumatise, "ONE part of society in a negative way, & the other part in a (dare I say) in a "positive" way,,,.the thing is, THOSE who inherited the positive trauma thinks that THEIR positive position has always BEEN so, but if U annalize history you will see where those who are now POSITIVE were onetime not in a Good state at all, infact in a VERY bad state ,,,.

[@3mget]

Sad! This Trauma becomes the voice of a culture.Through values/morals and art.

[@mauricewilliams3478]

I love my black women, but... Damm, the majority of them are aggressive, alpha, stubborn, and masculine

[@harveyhankerson8359]

I’m so glad I got my passport. My goodness. DAM the females out here are brutal. 😩😩😩😩😩😩😭

[@yvettemorris7295]

It’s not the majority; so stop lying! Smh! Stop putting that narrative out there because it’s only the ratchet ones not the classy ones! I’ve been married for 24 years and we’re still in love!

[@tonia9455]

Because the majority are left to provide for, and protect themselves from you ( black men, in general), as well as others. If they truly felt that you could/ would do these things, you would see something. All we're ever told is how undesirable and miserable we are. Now, how did we get this way, if it is in fact true?

[@AaliAffirmations]

The crazy part is that the first comment that you see in the reply section proves this comment

[@BaeCho417]

@@tonia9455 You’re so right, but there’s no justification for it anymore. You can’t say “we have an attitude because y’all love to do this” because thats not taking accountability. blaming someone for your constant attitude meanwhile you’re letting them have that much control over you your entire life is insane, it’s an awful way to live

[@countrygirl432]

Woman here...imo many of the younger generation have been raised by single moms without watching a non toxic mother/father to emulate after. Most younger women aren't raised to be a wife by thier moms bcz her moms were too busy trying to fill both roles in the household. Their egos needs to change and allow your chosen husband to be the head of household. Learn how to listen while keeping your mouth shut and start thinking about the situation from his pov instead of thinking "me,me,me" "I,I,I".

[@K.mit338]

100%

[@KathrynFloyd-sl1pz]

Great analysis!

[@nataliewalton8590]

Maybe get on men for abandoning their kids if it's so detrimental

[@jadesmith7983]

​@@nataliewalton8590Exactly. Bw are the easier target.

[@K.mit338]

@@nataliewalton8590 There is accountability for the group of men who abandon their children, but there is still going to be accountability for the group of women who knowingly get with men who don’t take care of their children and still have babies by them , the group of women who have babies out of wedlock, and the group of women who force the men out of their children lives.

[@stephencook7337]

Showed up to the casino looking like Akuma 😂🤣😭

[@WeaponXSigma]

I'm surprised she didn't hit anyone with the raging demon

[@Motivationalmoments81]

Becareful what women you choose, gentlemen! Don't choose ladies like this!

[@missboozehound]

Men if you are paying for the first date. Say no make up.

[@EbonyWhitee]

And you show up 8 weeks post haircut.

[@JustMe-dn9fh]

Im older lady, and will tell you the truth. Men do not make any effort to impress whatsoever! Went on a dinner date with a guy. I had did the makeup and heels with a dress. He was dress casual, but he smelled like the workout he had at the gym earlier that morning, and had alcoholic breath from the lunch he had that day. Didn't even bother to take time to shower, fresh up for the evening! Dude was 59 years old!! Ladies it gets worse as we all get older.

[@catturner1224]

I’m “58” and u haven’t lied some older men are ridiculous ‼️

[@Neddie2k]

He is paying for the date.

[@dustymcdust825]

Maybe it’s your grammar I wouldn’t put in effort for someone that speaks English like you. “I had did the makeup” Really?

[@kidkameleon8143]

So race to the bottom is your solution... brilliant...

[@htownforever0510]

The way JR clutched his pearls at the woman with no make up, has me in stitches 🤣🤣🤣🤣 3:51

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

That sister is beyond damaged!

[@MauriceTalley-u8j]

Yep on mother's she is

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Straight facts 💯🎯

[@kevinmonk9491]

That second woman was scary. She couldn't get cute in a dream.

[@Che-Guitarra]

LOL!!!

[@andalus1229]

Commentary on point.

[@marcofalzone6469]

Hey JR there's a lot of white white like this one as well. Unresolved EVERYTHING. It's sad for humanity, period.

[@Tahiha]

This isn’t about other races tho. It’s far worse in the black community and this is about black women and the black community.

[@TinaBinaSouthwest]

Black women are not a monolith..

[@Eternity4ME]

Say that for the people in the back. They attribute it to the entire race or most of us. Then when a man gets a woman like me who is submissive, they don't know what to do with it.

[@BruceHillBeats]

​@@Eternity4MEyour not the norm The majority are not you. You are a dime a dozen mam. And there is data backing this up.

[@phayla35]

@@Eternity4MEyes!

[@GodBlessTheChild1]

The first woman proves there’s blk women that don’t have a clue about the work that’s required for a relationship. You can’t show up anywhere for anyone just looking like anything. Don’t even do it to yourself. The lady that thinks a man is supposed to make her laugh need to know, that needs to be reciprocated. Men like to laugh too. Where do they get their sense of entitlement? This is warped thinking at best. “Thank You!” for sharing ❤️🖤💚

[@7SKYBALLER]

Not a Blk/White thing, It's a many female thing. Feminism/Me2 Movement has did a # on these females brain...

[@monajean-baptiste890]

What has he given her to submit to? If you are constantly putting me in a position where I have to figure it out myself, you lose the ability to ask me to submit. I can’t. I have too many bags to carry and balls to juggle.

[@KingsMen-r2u]

Majority of black women needs to hear this message first to open their mouth last to get married 😒 😮🤔🙄🤫👀🧠🤦🏽💯

[@7SKYBALLER]

Not just Blk females, some females in general...

[@irenejojogameon5681]

I have to say this every time there's an issue that arrives in Black ppl relationships It seems we are all group as one, She is an individual. This is not blk woman.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

WRONG. data shows she is NOT. BW are the LEAST to be PICKED as wives. YOU probably FEEL a "pick-me" is an insult, right? guess what? It's NOT. A "pick me" is a COMPLIMENT. BW are the most baby mamas and the FIRST to cry "skrong. independent. don't need no man". Please stop lying.

[@7SKYBALLER]

#Facts

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

@@7SKYBALLER this is why things don'g change for BW. good luck with your cats.

[@jonathancameron6164]

She has to be accountable and she definitely need years and years of therapy

[@bernandoturner4840]

Id Be Drunk Errrrrrrrr night After Work Comming home To this.. hell Ya... I got Bar Tab's at Two Different Bars.😼👈🏾😂😂😂

[@rhammond1963]

The only time men and women gets along is the 🛌 bedroom.

[@user-nx4fk1ly4d]

Hmmmnnnnn.......

[@tiwanaloves]

Hi JR … love your page and don’t mind recapping videos with your face ❤🎉🧚🏾‍♀️ btw that’s a joke you made from one of your pookie videos 🤣😂🤣

[@queenofclarity]

I’m just like when will anyone begin to first give themselves everything they need prior to trying to date and marry. Always go within so you will never go without. Learn how to respect yourself and stop trying to find someone who will respect you 😂😂😂😂. I’m single until I’m right within.

[@anthonywoodruff4355]

I’m 65, and I was married to that 40 years ago, only stayed for 13 years, my two oldest sons have to deal with her, my oldest son hasn’t talked to her since last October, not talking to her grandson, she’s banned from talking to him, because she’s treats her grown sons like they’re kids. She’s old and lonely. All my sons and my grandkids are in my life on the daily, nothing but love with me, but their mom haven’t changed, they don’t want to be around her, all my kids are great men, family men(except my 24 year old youngest son) hard working with great jobs, never been trouble, but nothing ever satisfies her

[@aloysiusfee1687]

Damm Son " What You See Is Whatcha Get" The Dramatics

[@annbarrington7298]

Well I was overly submissive.. yep I stayed married 25 years and guess what he beat me the whole time.. don’t think because your agreeable it’ll go along way.. if you listen that’s great I think you should but being submissive doesn’t mean that it’ll turn out right .. letting a man lead cost me my home, a bankruptcy, and 30 years I can’t get back.. he handled everything at my expense and his advantage so idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just don’t date

[@irishouston4103]

Girls need to be taught properly and raised up, I’m thankful for the elders in my family and the NOI MGT who took the time to teach me. Alhamdulilah

[@7SKYBALLER]

Speak on it Sis. Iris ! Reppin 4 tha Shrine...round tha corner 4rom Mosque #45❤🖤💚

[@irishouston4103]

@@7SKYBALLER everything I was ever taught then has manifested itself. I am a better human because of it. All Praises To The Most High

[@macbrebonicks8668]

The Casino Critter is as alluring as Tea Bagging a Bear Trap.

[@Belevaqua]

My husband will be home soon…. 😂I ran to put some makeup 💄 on. He appreciates the effort! ❤

[@robertmoon9756]

Dude this isn’t just Black women.I dated all ethnicities and a lot women act just like this.I think it’s a American thing

[@danilaroche1156]

It's a spirit. The Bible says we don't wrestle with flesh & blood. But against powers & principalities and spiritual wickedness in high places. It's from Satan. FR.

[@chellez29]

I remember this video. She's BUGGIN-BUGGIN! Very angry indeed.

[@jblogic4u]

Mad respect for the "not getting cute lady," I love her honesty. Good luck sis.

[@marckristian81]

My last breakup occurs when I explained that being a boss wasn't about telling everyone what to do. It's about understanding what roles best serve each person and being able to fulfill those roles if needed.

[@yvettemorris7295]

According to AAUW, Black women earn 71.5% of master's degrees in higher education, which is more than Black men. In 2015, 3,869 master's degrees were awarded to Black women, compared to 1,545 awarded to Black men. Black women are also more likely to earn bachelor's degrees (64.1%) and doctoral, medical, and dental degrees (65.9%) than Black men.

[@DB-tv9jp]

*career

[@omosango7870]

Do those degrees love you?

[@yvettemorris7295]

@@omosango7870 Yes! And my 4 kids who all have degrees! My oldest graduated from UC Irvine receiving his bachelors; He just received his Master’s in Literature; my second oldest graduated from Humboldt University and now he’s teaching Autistic students; He’s on his 3rd Novel (Jai Garbutt) My third son graduated from UC Santa Barbara; He earned a $120,000 dollar scholarship; full tuition paid! And my black daughter graduated from Grambling State University and she’s working on her Master’s as I type; while working as a corrections officer and teacher; I myself; I am a black female retired Naval Veteran! I wrote my first Novel in 2011 called the good the bad and the ugly side of black women!!! Ironic huh? My ex served 20 years in the Army! We’re all from the hood also lol and Yes! We love our degrees! 2 of my kids kept a 4.0 from 9th to 12th grade! Just a black family who loves their degrees !

[@SoloJourneyandPJ]

Yall hate being generalized and lumped with other men and yall turn around and do the same thing to black women ..a lot of black men are not marriage material and violent at this point it's severely redundant ..just go where you wanna go and let go of the rest

[@angeladenisedavis3193]

Mr. J. R. You came with some excellent points and these young ladies as well as the older ones to pay attention to this video because it was right on point! Thank you! May God continue to bless you 🙏💙💯

[@tatakae1981]

“Personal vacuum” 😂🤣😂🤣😂 I’m dead.

[@AntonioMartin-gx2fx]

You did him a favor ma'am, instead of the make up, tend to your skin 😉

[@londonpharaoh1603]

😂😂😂 woman you are 1000% by yourself 😂😂😂

[@marvinstephens7279]

Classic behavior for 85% of them.

[@Alex-br9bf]

Bra ur video on point 💯👍🏽👍🏽

[@nativeatheist6422]

Hair hat?😆

[@jazzkatt7083]

Weave😅😅

[@winterzero7162]

That 2nd lady must comedian, it has to be a skit.

[@harveyhankerson8359]

Now way. She’s from Detroit. Pal

[@baruchshaireturns6563]

Damn, her man got the Gerber Baby face 😂

[@ddeshawnlink]

Damn she looks like Debo from Friday... Everyone hide your Chains😅😂😂😂

[@Gokiza]

JR with the pearl clutching @3:59 had me in tears 😂😂😂

[@corimackey2972]

She has probably been hurt or broken somewhere down the line and she has to be willing to get that hurt so they can be better and more suitable to be in a lasting relationship. Praying for her healing. A lot of women have been hurt to the core which cause them to act horrible it’s a defense mechanism . Praying that she heals the trauma and works through whatever has gotten her to this bad place. Until she does some soul searching and some deep healing her blessing may not open up until she does. She has to first recognize that about herself then the healing can take place. So I’m sending a prayer out for her heal. It’s not over for love. Love yourself enough to heal and the creator will do the rest.

[@fourtywater77]

When they don't want to accept accountability, that's narcissism. Narcissists can't stand to be criticized, that's a narcissistic injury. She almost went into a narcissistic rage on the judge but she's trying to keep that mask on. She's in court so she must win at all costs.

[@rodericko9534]

Woww...wowww .. exactly on point.. craziness

[@bigowl71]

This is exactly the typical black woman's way of being 💯💯💯✌🏿

[@Nery_XD-wq6py]

That’s the truth sadly 💯

[@gritsbacon7951]

I love that judge.❤

[@ericw8478]

Contrary to popular belief you do choose what you like.

[@brookesmith3476]

So sorry to hear that.

[@emayan06]

Lmfaooo no she didn’t come into that casino looking like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nessabarker599]

Smh!!!! My first year of marriage we argued because I wanted to be in charge but once I let go we are not flawless or perfect but we are good....10yrs 💪🏾

[@rh1507]

That wall will never crumble down.