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@priserves
@priserves 3 жыл бұрын
"Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system." Idk but i genuinely feel that Alyssa's friend did not pick up the call intentionally. That hurt.
@Medicint20
@Medicint20 3 жыл бұрын
Would have been amazing if she picked up the phone at the last second and apologized for the pain she caused to Alyssa.
@anaklusmos6179
@anaklusmos6179 3 жыл бұрын
Idk but ied
@alyssca743
@alyssca743 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I’m in a KZbin video where someone has the same name as me, I feel really weird lol
@cindymarson9053
@cindymarson9053 3 жыл бұрын
If I did one of these and my best friend answered I would start crying ..my friend meant a lot to me 💗
@faezahsamyum8227
@faezahsamyum8227 3 жыл бұрын
@@cindymarson9053 you should call her!
@vee11-11
@vee11-11 5 жыл бұрын
The girl who left a voice mail honestly broke my heart. 😭
@cherfancherfan6682
@cherfancherfan6682 5 жыл бұрын
Same I'm now crying😢😭
@Bob_Psycho100
@Bob_Psycho100 5 жыл бұрын
Yep... :/
@ashleymorgan2199
@ashleymorgan2199 5 жыл бұрын
Abby Ik I’m actually about to cry
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 жыл бұрын
Heart cancer does that too.
@bryan_l_a
@bryan_l_a 5 жыл бұрын
Hearing that hurt me😭😞😞😞😞
@eli3568
@eli3568 2 жыл бұрын
Our society prioritizes romantic relationships so heavily above friendships, I think it's actually tragic.
@angelredvivar
@angelredvivar Жыл бұрын
@@Tania-rg7jp agreed
@redefinedliving5974
@redefinedliving5974 Жыл бұрын
true i prefer friendships
@damianburris4537
@damianburris4537 Жыл бұрын
But if she wants to be only friends I'm going to go for a romantic relationship instead it's going to get more of my attention
@alwaysshit
@alwaysshit Жыл бұрын
YES THIS
@nevermindmyname813
@nevermindmyname813 Жыл бұрын
I have been saying this. The same way we are encouraged to have open and honest communication with our partners and to put effort into those relationships, we should be encouraged to do the same with friendships
@joliejiang626
@joliejiang626 2 жыл бұрын
I think the girl that was crying valued her friendship so much and that’s kinda rare. I hope the best for her whether that’s reconnecting with her friend or not.
@Eira436
@Eira436 2 жыл бұрын
I can feel her pain and it’s people like us that get hurt most
@klyzer5725
@klyzer5725 2 жыл бұрын
it's not healthy
@paimilkeu319
@paimilkeu319 2 жыл бұрын
@@klyzer5725 well it can't be help since she really sincere love her best friend so much (probably similiar with my situation back then) Sorry for my bad english i hope you get what i'm trying to say :"
@jordanjohnson9866
@jordanjohnson9866 Жыл бұрын
Nah. Not kinda rare. /
@kanika2155
@kanika2155 Жыл бұрын
I could feel her pain bcz my bestfriend started ignoring me for our another common friend..she starting prioritising her more....and that's how we ended up being strangers...that hurts alot.....and when I tried to talk to her she said that we both are equally important to her but how can two people hold some positions at one place???? And now the girl that used to be our common friend is my kinda enemy now...she is always badmouthing me and spreading rumours...bcz she wanted my bff to be hers.....ughhhh....it's just sooo hurtful
@roysreceptive
@roysreceptive 4 жыл бұрын
The guy in the blue shirt tried talking to a best friend that seemed so detached. She didn’t even sound happy or excited to hear from him.
@ABirdOnTheMoon
@ABirdOnTheMoon 4 жыл бұрын
L.Pasteur I felt very sad for him. She hardly showed anything and no emotions :(
@jamalchowdhury5953
@jamalchowdhury5953 4 жыл бұрын
Omgg, I know right. She whatsoever portrayed no kind of emotion.
@yassinrider8982
@yassinrider8982 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly my situation since 1 year
@isabelle6622
@isabelle6622 4 жыл бұрын
it was probably really awkward lmao💀😳
@sumaiyahj
@sumaiyahj 4 жыл бұрын
It’s really painful when someone cuts you off even if it’s for whatever situation they’re going through. She has every right to feel the way she did. I’d be detached too.
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 жыл бұрын
The worst part is when you go separate ways but you still can’t let go.
@Cynthia-il8ju
@Cynthia-il8ju 3 жыл бұрын
A friend moved 2 years ago and I remembered crying so much the same day she left. And I did move on, but I still can't let go
@chipchrome1769
@chipchrome1769 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know how to move on i realy want to it hurts :(
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 жыл бұрын
@Cynthia Same, my friend also moved about 2 years ago 🥺 and I had a dream about her last week 😭
@daisyjagong9198
@daisyjagong9198 3 жыл бұрын
its worse if you dont have them in your contact list and you dont know where they went
@manikamayumi
@manikamayumi 3 жыл бұрын
True 😭🥺 i’ve searched for them everywhere :(
@moumitaganguly3982
@moumitaganguly3982 2 жыл бұрын
The worst part comes when you realize that the other person feel distracted or bored while talking to you even though it's the same person whom you used to talk to randomly. It hurts to witness them as past tense... little little fun moments, affection, care, limitless phone calls, bickerings, hanging out & the list go on.
@ViralclipcentralVCC
@ViralclipcentralVCC 2 жыл бұрын
Is there anything to do to change this?
@maciejdziewit6822
@maciejdziewit6822 2 жыл бұрын
@@ViralclipcentralVCC accepting the fact we will all unify into ONE, and we'll remain FOREVER
@shnakalaka3647
@shnakalaka3647 2 жыл бұрын
Yea I miss my friend and when I try to talk to them they seem bored blan and distracted miss them.
@delisha3043
@delisha3043 Жыл бұрын
This!!! exactly:')
@malz240
@malz240 Жыл бұрын
When I talk to my friend who I live two hours away from she never talks to me at all. If I could show you my texts to her you would see.
@o.k.3287
@o.k.3287 2 жыл бұрын
“Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system.” My heart broke for both Alyssa and I. The amount of times I’ve heard that ringtone when trying to call my best friend is insane. It’s so bad I hear it in my head whenever I simply read the words of it. I am so sorry Alyssa, and you are so brave for leaving the voicemail. I wouldn’t. I know I just wouldn’t have the voice cords for it. I am not the crying type, but simply thinking about how our friendship has gone bad, and how if I try to reach out to her right now nothing will change makes me want to throw up. I started crying the moment you started talking about her because I recognize every voice crack, every sentence, every emotion you have felt. I feel it every time I remember her. I just wish things didn’t turn out the way they did.
@nareshjamwal5690
@nareshjamwal5690 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@Say2Cups
@Say2Cups 2 жыл бұрын
Relatable tbh
@Karnam0
@Karnam0 2 жыл бұрын
hope everything is going well. praying for you
@Eli-nj6mf
@Eli-nj6mf 2 жыл бұрын
I had the exact same experience as you and when I heard Alyssa I was also tearing up
@Eniolorunfe.
@Eniolorunfe. 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 жыл бұрын
"I asked God to protect me from my enemies.... And then I started losing friends.."
@Silvia.Araujo
@Silvia.Araujo 4 жыл бұрын
Where is that quote from
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 жыл бұрын
@@Silvia.Araujo I just saw it on pinterest 💀
@alexiaanddan
@alexiaanddan 4 жыл бұрын
JESUS loves you. JESUS is your king. GOD made you wonderful and beautiful in his image. JESUS CHRIST died for your sins..
@Tom-nj5ie
@Tom-nj5ie 4 жыл бұрын
They wouldn’t be your friends then, better off without them, always other people to meet
@hanee08
@hanee08 4 жыл бұрын
@@Tom-nj5ie that's the point lmao
@bethanyr5741
@bethanyr5741 4 жыл бұрын
Alyssa is so emotional. You can tell how hurt she is.
@adisturbedoneandi
@adisturbedoneandi 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to her, thinking about my best friend who I have not seen in one year, and last spoke to 10 months ago over the text... I get really damn emotional because I really, really miss her.
@jimmyperkins97
@jimmyperkins97 4 жыл бұрын
i wanna give her a hug
@snickerswo1f519
@snickerswo1f519 4 жыл бұрын
I miss my "best friend" i moved schools like 4 years ago and i got her insta last year (she only texted me a lil bit..) but she stopped texting me, she didn't even say she missed me while i did. She would always post about all her friends having fun together. It hurts. But i guess that's just life, I'll try my best to forget about her.
@cherryloverxd
@cherryloverxd 4 жыл бұрын
Can We get to 1,000 subscribers without videos ? I lost my bff moving and entering 6th grade I thought we would be friends again but we stopped talking and I miss her a lot
@froggyguts9623
@froggyguts9623 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I connected with her so much and it just made me want to cry every time I heard her voice in this video. You could hear the pain in her voice.
@dingdong_googie
@dingdong_googie Жыл бұрын
As a person that lost her best friend I'd like to say, "I wish our friendship was like those ones in movies".
@RockerBoy77
@RockerBoy77 Жыл бұрын
well put.
@kennysfdg471
@kennysfdg471 10 ай бұрын
"I wish you came to me, instead of listen to gossip... like in the movies" would be mine.
@Memoona-zq7yo
@Memoona-zq7yo 6 ай бұрын
Same
@siddhibajpai9595
@siddhibajpai9595 2 жыл бұрын
" *Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest* " " *It's about who came and never left you alone when you needed someone the most* " 💓
@vuedanto8576
@vuedanto8576 2 жыл бұрын
That means I never had real friends, even if don't have friends.
@siddhibajpai9595
@siddhibajpai9595 2 жыл бұрын
@@vuedanto8576 mee too but its ok uk karma is a b*tch
@cfjlkfsjf
@cfjlkfsjf Жыл бұрын
Friend dumped after 18 years and I was always there supporting her LMAO!!! Got back with her ex and let all her male friends go to build trust, which is another way of saying he's a jealous mofo. The worst part is I even supported her relationship and hoped they are together a long time and was there when she was dumped hard....LMFAO!!!!! she blocked now breh, wished her well and said I always hope you're happy but you blocked now and to never contact me again.
@Katiafairyspice
@Katiafairyspice 11 ай бұрын
@@siddhibajpai9595I don’t karma is a b****
@macrocosm4442
@macrocosm4442 7 ай бұрын
Indeedr❤mr❤r
@beccatraxler192
@beccatraxler192 4 жыл бұрын
The second your best friend becomes a person who you don’t even recognize it’s literally the worst feeling in the world.
@Yadi.F
@Yadi.F 4 жыл бұрын
Becca’s life yes it really is😞
@something3476
@something3476 4 жыл бұрын
Becca’s life I moved on,..
@carissaevangelista
@carissaevangelista 4 жыл бұрын
it is..
@lilyy9016
@lilyy9016 4 жыл бұрын
yes, it is.
@trishazhao8147
@trishazhao8147 4 жыл бұрын
Tf it is
@lesliecabanas207
@lesliecabanas207 5 жыл бұрын
Lack of communication is the downfall of every relationship
@smileyx9407
@smileyx9407 5 жыл бұрын
leslie cabanas couldn’t agree more
@emmabrown429
@emmabrown429 5 жыл бұрын
you are going to make me cry
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 жыл бұрын
Or neglecting (your parents) for your friends or your "true love" (even though they'll cheat on you by liking an Instagram post).
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 жыл бұрын
@@smileyx9407 I really couldn't
@derekrivas1394
@derekrivas1394 4 жыл бұрын
In my case, I tried to talk to her and tried to communicate but she just ends the conversation. Like she doesn’t want to talk anymore and its sad. I feel like i can’t do anything else
@analauramorelrocha2383
@analauramorelrocha2383 Жыл бұрын
As someone who lost childhood friends due depression, I totally get it. Its _hurts_
@MakinMisery
@MakinMisery 11 ай бұрын
I lost mine the same way. I wish I could be normal
@monolinny1817
@monolinny1817 11 ай бұрын
We'll go through this together, comrades.
@OscarCabrera494
@OscarCabrera494 5 ай бұрын
Me too the same problems
@__rm307
@__rm307 2 ай бұрын
Same 😔
@adannayoutube4243
@adannayoutube4243 2 жыл бұрын
this just proves how important it is to communicate with the people we love, it’s how we keep our relationships going (family, platonic, friendships, romantic)
@aidanyun880
@aidanyun880 2 жыл бұрын
has to be a two way street though, it happens a lot in relationships. There is someone who cares and someone who neglects. You shouldn't be the one caring if they neglect you.
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Жыл бұрын
But i I feel like the people that were on the phone weren’t truly interested. There were more like “yeah alright I guess” and they moved on
@saraelfassielfehri4956
@saraelfassielfehri4956 3 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is having to apologize for something that wasn't your fault to people who didn't even care
@muslimbrother7248
@muslimbrother7248 3 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm feeling rn sis 🙇🏽‍♂️💕☹
@stutim3987
@stutim3987 3 жыл бұрын
True
@veronikatramisak633
@veronikatramisak633 3 жыл бұрын
That is exactly what I am going through right now, but slowly I start to move on with my life 😅🙃
@user-lj8ul8op7w
@user-lj8ul8op7w 3 жыл бұрын
Then don't apologize, what's the problem.
@theresnothinghereatall
@theresnothinghereatall 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-lj8ul8op7w Lmfao
@mdleeenixxv4342
@mdleeenixxv4342 4 жыл бұрын
"A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face."
@upper9170
@upper9170 4 жыл бұрын
i got no true friends
@therespectfullykid
@therespectfullykid 4 жыл бұрын
@@upper9170 i can be your true friend
@avery7679
@avery7679 4 жыл бұрын
MDLeeEnIxx v a true friend sees the plan in your eyes when everyone thinks your incident 😂❤️😊
@kavya914
@kavya914 4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes
@awesomefox4113
@awesomefox4113 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah... that’s no one, well it used to but not anymore 💔🥺😖
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 Жыл бұрын
PLEASE do not ditch your friendship when you are in a relationship. Even if its having lunch with them every 4 months. Amazing friendships is harder to find than romantic relationship.
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 4 ай бұрын
Exactly
@mixer5405
@mixer5405 2 жыл бұрын
losing your partner is bad enough, but most people don't know how bad it is to lose your best friend who has been there since the beginning.
@Pillsburyjoytoy
@Pillsburyjoytoy 4 жыл бұрын
I expected “long lost friends” to be like YEARS
@gracec6468
@gracec6468 4 жыл бұрын
It feels like years when you go from being best friends with someone, and being the person that knows them best and vise versa, and the they just drop out of your life. Every day without them feels like a week. 😔
@Pillsburyjoytoy
@Pillsburyjoytoy 4 жыл бұрын
Grace Colker Totally! I’m not disagreeing, but I still think it’s not long enough to be referred to as “long lost friends”, though I can’t think of an alternative that isn’t super lengthy
@p.a.t.t.y
@p.a.t.t.y 4 жыл бұрын
months without talking to your best friend does feel like years though
@kuyajayy
@kuyajayy 4 жыл бұрын
Nicolaus Volentius i know right
@tendouii.
@tendouii. 4 жыл бұрын
Same,I Have Talked toMy Best friend for 2-3 years And for another one it has been 4-5 years,All three of us Would fool around togeather until the Second one moved away and then a few years later!I Moved away :c
@jordanjay8314
@jordanjay8314 4 жыл бұрын
it honestly really hurts to hear the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry
@widderx
@widderx 4 жыл бұрын
I think its probably the only reason I actually cried
@misou4107
@misou4107 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr 🥺🥺
@vkimtaehyungsimp8881
@vkimtaehyungsimp8881 4 жыл бұрын
alyssa :(
@kimberlycontreras7407
@kimberlycontreras7407 4 жыл бұрын
I hate when people see or hear me cry and I just completely stop talking because I sound like a fourteen year old going through puberty cus of how much my voice cracks
@misou4107
@misou4107 4 жыл бұрын
@Keksmo that's really sweet of you, I'm okay though!! I hope you manage to help some people who need it!! 💌💓
@MagicTaco27
@MagicTaco27 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine having a friend for 10 years only to find out that so called friend just used you and ended the relationship over an ego problem because I respected myself and stood my ground.
@springgal265
@springgal265 2 жыл бұрын
Friens r not as gd as u think.
@kenfern2259
@kenfern2259 2 жыл бұрын
who needs enemies when u have friends
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Жыл бұрын
Oh I don't need to imagine that because I'd well believe it!! 😄😄 As tragic as it is.... And we vent about our friendships, but unfortunately that's never going to get them back.
@aliciaw8147
@aliciaw8147 Жыл бұрын
exactly the same happened to me after 11 years of friendship and so called “being a family” - wrote her a letter after an argument and never ever heard something again. that was three years ago now.
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Жыл бұрын
@@aliciaw8147 omg... My best friend dumped me back in April... I messaged him a few times but he says there's "no point" in talking. I'm finding it extremely difficult to deal with not talking, not messaging, not hanging out with him after being friends for 10 years... I'm also in my 30s now so I don't see myself making new best friends at this stage, and anyway it's just not the same.
@lorib1819
@lorib1819 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to that crying girl. I never saw friendships as fleeting circumstances. I've learned the hard way that people will drop you for the smallest reasons. I wish I had a friend like that girl. She's rare.
@Sam-du7cm
@Sam-du7cm 4 жыл бұрын
The worst part is when you know it’s too late and it will never be the same
@roseturkey
@roseturkey 4 жыл бұрын
Samantha tbh my old friend moved schools and we stopped talking and I text her a year later and we just say hi and bye.
@bittersweet3925
@bittersweet3925 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it shouldn’t be the same, people aren’t always meant to stay in your life.
@bittersweet3925
@bittersweet3925 3 жыл бұрын
Ezekiel Turrecha sometimes the truth is, people don’t deserve you or your time. Especially when they hurt you and don’t truly care. You are worth more.
@natalypaolacalvomejia9920
@natalypaolacalvomejia9920 3 жыл бұрын
MAE...
@thischannelhasnofuture3325
@thischannelhasnofuture3325 3 жыл бұрын
yep... it is
@lindaraka5748
@lindaraka5748 5 жыл бұрын
The girl who left the voicemail. I hope she’s okay. I can relate to her so much. I’m crying.
@finch9782
@finch9782 5 жыл бұрын
Me too, this video hurt so much to watch. I recently had to cut off my ex best friend because she got abusive and then ghosted me because of a boy. In the time she wasn’t talking to me I thought back on our friendship and I realized she really was treating me in toxic ways. I’d spend nights crying because of her. Yes I’m glad she’s out of my life but after I left her life she sent me a text saying I was awful for leaving. Thinking about her and how our friendship went down is really hard for me to think about and in this video I’d mention her and calling her would be the hardest thing to do.
@mrs.piggywho6114
@mrs.piggywho6114 5 жыл бұрын
I have a best friend and she lost her best friend so I always feel so useless because I can’t really help her get over him. 😔
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 жыл бұрын
Eye infections can also cause teary eyes.
@_thelastdarling_
@_thelastdarling_ 5 жыл бұрын
@@finch9782 I can relate because my friend was toxic too I cut her off and felt bad about it and I'm still upset about it..
@jenniferd6606
@jenniferd6606 5 жыл бұрын
ME TOO
@khrntryn
@khrntryn Жыл бұрын
I watched this years ago when i have no idea losing a friendship would be that hurt, now I'm back and i understand the pain
@jolina942
@jolina942 Жыл бұрын
I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend. it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music). maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
@vzmelis
@vzmelis 2 жыл бұрын
"They're not friends, they're not enemies, they're strangers with memories." - Pringles Cat
@jeanelee1305
@jeanelee1305 3 жыл бұрын
hearing someone's voice cracking and about to cry on a phone call is the worst feeling ever.
@lindseyblack9234
@lindseyblack9234 3 жыл бұрын
Especially when it's a voicemail
@melaniew3490
@melaniew3490 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@heyRexsuperStar
@heyRexsuperStar 3 жыл бұрын
T
@eleanorgriffiths5240
@eleanorgriffiths5240 3 жыл бұрын
It's even worse when the other person doesn't care
@aurbxille3702
@aurbxille3702 3 жыл бұрын
Mhm
@olivia-qq6ys
@olivia-qq6ys 3 жыл бұрын
it’s absolutely the worst feeling when ur bestfriend suddenly ignores u. like u never existed.
@Casper_and_Max
@Casper_and_Max 3 жыл бұрын
It happened to me :(
@dj03
@dj03 3 жыл бұрын
this is what's happening to me, my online best friend after 2 years of friendship, after we met in real life (i made 400km to meet her) just started ignoring me.... she blocked me on every social media and she's ignoring my messages, it's been 2,5 months now and i'm starting to accept the situation, even tho it hurts A LOT.
@TheDominicKellmanPodcast
@TheDominicKellmanPodcast 3 жыл бұрын
Happening to me as we speak :(
@hxnterxzv1727
@hxnterxzv1727 3 жыл бұрын
@@Casper_and_Max yeah same I didn’t have anyone else and he didn’t even care about me like no one cared
@randomannas
@randomannas 3 жыл бұрын
my bestfriend got a boyfriend. ya nice for her. i dont like him. but ya, as long as she's happy. im fine.
@dylanworthington1350
@dylanworthington1350 Жыл бұрын
I’ve reached out and reconnected with a few long lost friends, but it never works out in the long run. Its undeniable that reaching out to basic strangers that you used to know in hope of friendship is a sad thing to do and they will definitely look down on you for it. My advice is to keep marching on there in you’re past for a reason and I refuse to be rejected by the same person multiple times it’s soul destroying and we must protect our hearts at all cost.
@sonicxhunters8344
@sonicxhunters8344 Жыл бұрын
I cannot agree with you enough. I’ve had to reach out to one friend multiple times, never them. The worst is when you have heart to heart talks with them and you can pick up on that they value someone else more than you and that for that person they do reach out, but never you.
@raihan200
@raihan200 Жыл бұрын
Advice to you is keep on moving forward and don’t look back. These nothing there anymore! Love yourself because you’re a great person and a loyal friend. It’s okay to make mistakes but never let them bring you down. Be happy with a smile and start a new chapter in your life. Not everyone deserves to be in your life!
@christinebaker7311
@christinebaker7311 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! It is OK to move on from each other. That is a part of growth.
@deenanthekemoni5567
@deenanthekemoni5567 2 жыл бұрын
I had the craziest best friend you'd ever meet. He was off his rocker and so full of life he was almost childlike but in a charming way, he was the Bravest dude I ever personally knew. And will likely ever know. Rest in Peace Alex ❤️
@vuedanto8576
@vuedanto8576 2 жыл бұрын
I've lost all my friends.
@Darragh1
@Darragh1 Жыл бұрын
@@vuedanto8576 sometimes I feel that way in a strange way...
@divathakore5957
@divathakore5957 Жыл бұрын
@@vuedanto8576 same tbh
@justarandomakwardperson.8525
@justarandomakwardperson.8525 Жыл бұрын
Im so sorry. My brothers friend died last month also. I had grown up with him,so i get it . again, im so sorry.
@michelles2644
@michelles2644 Жыл бұрын
I hope this brings you some sort of happiness and peace but your best friend is definitely looking after you and always with you! I’m sorry for your loss.
@angee7763
@angee7763 4 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling for me is knowing you’re drifting from your best friend and you can’t do anything about it ;(
@nuttkraker2127
@nuttkraker2127 4 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it my homie is moving 113 miles away.
@iikittydr8503
@iikittydr8503 4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY what’s happening to me
@raya2273
@raya2273 4 жыл бұрын
Angelina Johnson it sucks because you always wanna text them or call them but can’t cuz you haven’t talked in ages and you miss your best memories. It just sucks
@yuncakes
@yuncakes 4 жыл бұрын
Zakk ITS NOT THE Same, even if they’re far away, it won’t be the same anymore and it can drift you apart anyways.
@genesis1989
@genesis1989 4 жыл бұрын
That's how me and my best friend are right now and seeing this video just hurt A LOT so I hope we put the pieces together again one day 😔
@jadeynrogers6518
@jadeynrogers6518 3 жыл бұрын
"you can always call, ill be there" also them "your call has been forwarded to an automatic voicemail system"
@wuyuaiend1659
@wuyuaiend1659 3 жыл бұрын
Zachary Paradagomez i think i het her comment its mean like a person used to promise that they will always be there for u but at the end they re the one who leave first
@gracerobbins8505
@gracerobbins8505 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly my boyfriend..
@farhanatasnim8948
@farhanatasnim8948 3 жыл бұрын
What does 'forwarded to an automatic voicemail system ' mean??
@gracerobbins8505
@gracerobbins8505 3 жыл бұрын
@@farhanatasnim8948 They dont answer the call or declined immediately
@thegamingkids_234
@thegamingkids_234 3 жыл бұрын
whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much
@AmarD87
@AmarD87 Жыл бұрын
As someone who has moved around a lot, backpacked across over 50 countries, and met more people than I can remember, I am a self proclaimed expert in surface-level friendships. You can meet amazing people, you can meet people who "get you" and everything just clicks. However, no friendship will ever be better than the best friend you lost in high school or just after college. It just won't because as we age our experiences harden us and they take away our innocence, our capability to feel as intense. That is something that dawned upon me just like 6 months ago. It sucks but if I am to be honest with myself I don't think I am capable of having a best friend any longer.
@user-fp8ks1fd9m
@user-fp8ks1fd9m Жыл бұрын
I move around a lot too and I truly agree with u.
@exod.oswife
@exod.oswife Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I too feel i cannot connect with anyone without purpose nowadays, its more networking less friendship.
@kiana9941
@kiana9941 Жыл бұрын
I feel like I am incapable of having any friends. Usually, the people I connect with the most only are around for a couple weeks or months and move away or I move away. As I have gotten older I now keep to myself to avoid the pain.
@AmarD87
@AmarD87 Жыл бұрын
@@kiana9941 I know the feeling and it sucks because relationships with other people make my day brighter and what makes life worth living. But I see myself growing more and more detached from people, unable to connect beyond any surface-level interaction. As another comment said, it's more networking than friendship. I don't know if it's social media, the internet, or a fact of growing up but the reality is that most of the time I feel alone and I just fill my life with sporadic social interactions that don't really amount to anything. And it's not just other people's fault. It's my fault as well.
@sidneyboo9704
@sidneyboo9704 Жыл бұрын
I kind of agree. My highschool friends were the best and beside one, I lost connection with everyone else. Now its so superficial.
@clarityshine4623
@clarityshine4623 Жыл бұрын
Losing friends deeply hurt than anything else.
@josiegraceblack1268
@josiegraceblack1268 4 жыл бұрын
"Could you call them? Everyone: "yes I can" that one guy: "probably not."
@ciandro5005
@ciandro5005 4 жыл бұрын
The only guy I can relate to
@testtester8492
@testtester8492 4 жыл бұрын
Absolute madlad
@Xristina_Gretsista
@Xristina_Gretsista 4 жыл бұрын
When I read this comment this scene was played on the video
@998576999
@998576999 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't either, people don't deserve to beg them to be friends again
@juliapayne4511
@juliapayne4511 4 жыл бұрын
@@998576999 it's not exactly begging its just a chance to clear the air and find out why what happened did happen it's a great chance to fix the relationship even if they arent best friends again
@doreenwu5990
@doreenwu5990 4 жыл бұрын
alissa is too pure for the world. no one deserves her
@bawn5813
@bawn5813 4 жыл бұрын
døreen x wu what???!
@No-nk3ro
@No-nk3ro 4 жыл бұрын
She must be protected at all cost :
@SJ-pi5mm
@SJ-pi5mm 4 жыл бұрын
No one deserves her but she deserves everything
@kazuha1748
@kazuha1748 4 жыл бұрын
;-; likes are on 888 I can't do it
@yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838
@yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838 4 жыл бұрын
Bob Ross:
@knock_chauuu
@knock_chauuu 6 ай бұрын
“And what hurts the most is that ppl can go from people you know to people you don’t”
@mimvsa3521
@mimvsa3521 Жыл бұрын
My friend had mental problems and ghosted me. I've sent her a voicemail a few days ago and she responded, saying "I'm just not someone who can be a friend." I don't know what to feel. When I talked to her, my life felt like it was healing in super speed; her humour, remarks, strange and resilient mind was so addicting I don't know how to accept her abandoning me. I still love her a lot. Thought we were together for the ride. To make matters worse she was my only friend. I can't search for anyone else.. without thinking it's her replacement.
@KalilIllinois
@KalilIllinois Жыл бұрын
My former best friend did the same thing. Hurts less with time
@imeneezzeddine6449
@imeneezzeddine6449 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to that so much. It just came out of nowhere. And to make things even worse, she became friends with almost everyone in our common circle of friends (my only circle by the way).Two years and it still hurts. The worst part? I never got an explanation besides that her "conveniences and life style have changed" + I had an additional reason to leave those friends behind.
@WeeWee4204
@WeeWee4204 Жыл бұрын
Welp I had quite the similar friend Her relationship first distanced us bit by it then she did it herself and never told me why. Whenever I asked her she said she is going through stuff mentally and can't do this even tho she talked to other people hehe..
@Ceceeeeeee_
@Ceceeeeeee_ Жыл бұрын
I’m so terribly sad and terrified to go to highschool without my friend we will be splitting up and she is the only one who gets me, and I love her so much
@sarayolo_y3al
@sarayolo_y3al Ай бұрын
just happened to me yesterday
@the7deadlysins417
@the7deadlysins417 4 жыл бұрын
The saddest thing in the world is the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry.
@donnacorbett4364
@donnacorbett4364 3 жыл бұрын
tHe 7 dEaDLY sInS yep
@gabileja2351
@gabileja2351 3 жыл бұрын
Leaves from the vine
@mahitabelgabry1450
@mahitabelgabry1450 3 жыл бұрын
@@donnacorbett4364 "sIr mAlIoDiS"
@cLaudSy
@cLaudSy 3 жыл бұрын
Fr tho! That hit hard
@italasanta
@italasanta 3 жыл бұрын
sur mal lío das,w-w-What are u doing
@mandeukie750
@mandeukie750 5 жыл бұрын
The girl who left the voicemail for her friend. I truly hope her friend called her back
@maevewilliams2398
@maevewilliams2398 5 жыл бұрын
I want to know as well like a part 2
@robertohernandez-os3hm
@robertohernandez-os3hm 5 жыл бұрын
I know her, the sapposably best friend never called. She was heart broken
@-midnight_wolf-4616
@-midnight_wolf-4616 5 жыл бұрын
@@robertohernandez-os3hm really?
@benjaminxx9850
@benjaminxx9850 5 жыл бұрын
@@robertohernandez-os3hm oh noo
@CarlosRodriguez-fx6go
@CarlosRodriguez-fx6go 5 жыл бұрын
It's really upsetting but if she doesn't even have the time to call back or make sure she is okay after 8 months, than they are probably aren't the best person to be with especially for support. But that doesn't mean they are not fun to hang out with. But I pay my respects for another friend lost. F.
@nazkh3291
@nazkh3291 Жыл бұрын
i can tell the friendship meant a GREAT DEAL to alyssa. i’m also like that with my friends. recently my friend and i stopped talking and it’s been so hard mourning someone who’s very much alive. hopefully alyssa is doing alright wherever she is
@codequeen1889
@codequeen1889 2 жыл бұрын
This made me emotional because I was finally able to talk to one of my dearest friends over the phone this week who I had not heard from for 8 months. We talked for over 2 hours and it was the most healing beautiful thing. Don’t give up on those important, special people in your life. Try to reach out, you may be surprised what can happen.
@pb4ugo19
@pb4ugo19 2 жыл бұрын
When she reached out, what did you want to hear her say? I'm asking because I pushed my dear friend away and haven't spoken to her in 6 months. I went into a deep depression and just lost interest in everything, including the people I loved. I'm in a better place right now and I want to reach out, but I have no idea what to say. I don't know how to even initiate the text to call her. & I'm so nervous she is going to reject me (though I wouldn't blame her). How did your friend reach out to you and what words did you want to hear from her?
@MrTrollo2
@MrTrollo2 2 жыл бұрын
@@pb4ugo19 just tell her what was going on, if she's a friend she won't be mad
@dontletdonghaedrive
@dontletdonghaedrive 2 жыл бұрын
@@MrTrollo2 I did that and she doesn't want to respond to my messages asking what's happening and asking her to catch up and her ignoring it. I don't know what I did at all and I don't understand it. It hurts so much.
@byzdgn
@byzdgn 11 ай бұрын
@@dontletdonghaedrive let it go. just let it go
@rubydefelice3034
@rubydefelice3034 8 ай бұрын
It’s seems like 8 months is the tipping point for a lot of these people 🤔
@theblueslushy1454
@theblueslushy1454 3 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is: When they start to hang out with the wrong group of people and you can slowly but surely see them change as a person for the worse over time. And there is nothing you can do to change it. And the next thing you know, 1 year passes and they are completely a different person. Same Woah lots of likes
@ivaylastoilova8483
@ivaylastoilova8483 3 жыл бұрын
You just described everything
@yunyikwie3287
@yunyikwie3287 3 жыл бұрын
exactly what happened to me, just that it's only been a few months and she's completely different now
@emmarose8563
@emmarose8563 3 жыл бұрын
I see that in my best friend ... idk what to do
@megan_idk
@megan_idk 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this happened to me but the best thing for me and him was just to go our separate ways it kinda felt like 7 years of being loyal to him was wasted down the drain...
@yolopewds3736
@yolopewds3736 3 жыл бұрын
Yess literally the same thing happened to me. She was becoming such a bad person and when I got upset about it my mom told me that's its because of her parents divorce that she was becoming a bad person and talking about people badly.
@Jydeboi
@Jydeboi 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like Alissa was the only one who truly loved her friend. That kind of loss hurts so much more.
@eddyrivera6875
@eddyrivera6875 5 жыл бұрын
Fallen Eternal honestly
@rachelbrady7474
@rachelbrady7474 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like thats not exactly true i mean most of them cared to call them that's enough just to think about somebody and they were all emotional showing they truly loved these people.
@mickeysofine6386
@mickeysofine6386 5 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it. My friend traded me for someone who bullied me, they would threaten me for no reason. But, I got the help I needed and I feel much more confident in myself. I am moving so I am glad I won’t have to go to high school with them. People that that do not deserve your friendship. Don’t let them take advantage of you. There is ALOT more to this story so please don’t judge. What I have learned from this experience is that YOU NEED TO stick up for yourself!!! It is WORTH it! YOU are worth it!!! I hope someone who needs this information sees it. Don’t give up!!!
@rachelbrady7474
@rachelbrady7474 5 жыл бұрын
@@mickeysofine6386 thank you tbh i have very few friends but I'd rather keep it that way cause those few you can really get close to , build a bond and trust ,there aren't many people that you can trust :)
@kiana5548
@kiana5548 5 жыл бұрын
@@mickeysofine6386 aww sorry. Same thing kinda happened to me in the past and I'm still kinda friends with her. It sucks 😞
@Okay_Koda
@Okay_Koda Жыл бұрын
Friendships are the most important to me, I’m autistic and tend to get attached to people easy. I’ve had bad friends but I love them so much still, even though I’ve managed to distance myself from them I miss them so much, but I know they will hurt me if I go back again.
@sono._.
@sono._. Жыл бұрын
i am in the same situation too :(
@Okay_Koda
@Okay_Koda Жыл бұрын
@@sono._. stay strong and don’t forget the bad things they’ve done to you
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Жыл бұрын
I am autistic too!! I had such a nice friend for the past six years. She really understood me and communicating with her was easier than with anyone else. I felt safest with her and I could unmask easiest when I was with her. Last year, our friendship really reached a new heights. I thought this it, we are sisters. I am not alone anymore. But now we haven’t really hung out since my birthday in October. I tried so much to get in touch with her, I did my very best to not stress out. To keep my cool and do not force my friendship upon her, but I think it’s really over. She has new friends. She has a new boyfriend. She has a very nice job. I’m very happy for her but I am so sad that I cannot be part of it anymore. I don’t understand why, I truly don’t understand. I wish I could just understand. It’s like there’s a hole in my heart.
@NDGumballOc
@NDGumballOc 4 ай бұрын
I am autistic and I have lost a friend because mostly I am bad at social rules, emotions understanding and regulations….and also due to lack of communication
@aexitis
@aexitis 2 жыл бұрын
I had a childhood best friend. We’d known each other since we were 4. We would hold hands when we crossed the street and walk to the bus together. When we started growing up, he went to all my soccer games and I went to all his basketball games. We used to spend hours lying in the hammock in his back yard, just talking because being with each other was all we needed. I loved him, and he loved me too. We talked about everything, then one day he became a stranger. I never figured out what happened, or why he stopped talking to me but life goes on. Even now years later I’ll stumble along a photograph, or a board game we used to play and remember him. I wonder how he’s doing, and if he’s happier now then he was before. I hope he has found people to love him like I have.
@lindabalinda7887
@lindabalinda7887 2 жыл бұрын
it could be that he had/has mental health issues. My childhood best friend stopped reciprocating in our friendship for seemingly no reason in my mind. Turned out she had a rough home life and an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. I had no idea. She had depression and anxiety, and that was why she stopped talking to me. Anyways, if you want to, you should try reaching out if you have a way...I decided to reach out one day because I had nothing to lose, and it was so worth it. My childhood friend and I are close again, and we both missed each other.
@12345673581
@12345673581 2 ай бұрын
You should seriously reach out to him
@pen2cool4u
@pen2cool4u 3 жыл бұрын
The worst part is when your best friend becomes a stranger to you
@user-rx9vm6rk5j
@user-rx9vm6rk5j 3 жыл бұрын
Iam a stranger to my BF now, I tried my best to talk to her but she is always ignoring me and now I have no friends
@blackprofile6074
@blackprofile6074 3 жыл бұрын
@@pen2cool4u it happens to me all the time that is why I don't upload on my account anymore (this account) because all of my friends feel like a stranger to me
@sophievandercook6826
@sophievandercook6826 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it does but you are enough- and you are loved and you will find a friend that cares deeply for you
@sophievandercook6826
@sophievandercook6826 3 жыл бұрын
If you guys ever need a friend I’m here for you-
@poleprincess222
@poleprincess222 3 жыл бұрын
Ong yes
@rowenasantillan2477
@rowenasantillan2477 4 жыл бұрын
why do i feel like the comment section is even more emotional than the actual video
@teds9013
@teds9013 4 жыл бұрын
i thought i was the only one-
@Kimberly-xy8gf
@Kimberly-xy8gf 4 жыл бұрын
same
@maddiejason9514
@maddiejason9514 4 жыл бұрын
Yess😭😭😭😭
@asmaahana5938
@asmaahana5938 3 жыл бұрын
I feel it too tho~ i better read the comment and their words really deeper than what i have thought!
@graciekerr3137
@graciekerr3137 3 жыл бұрын
😭😂😂😌
@serbear0691
@serbear0691 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never really had any friends at all. So seeing people with such deep connections to people they’ve lost is a first. I never thought people could have this deep a connection with a friend 🙂
@E3boss2003
@E3boss2003 Жыл бұрын
@Memer didnt u go skl? u must have made some
@jaystone5036
@jaystone5036 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. I've made friends but this ones are actually people you can be vulnerable around for them..😂😂I thought friends were to talk about future and then disappear to make it😂
@NishantCosmos
@NishantCosmos Жыл бұрын
samee I'm having these experiences i decided to communicate with new ppl made new friends i wish i did this earlier
@frhypeforfreedom5135
@frhypeforfreedom5135 Жыл бұрын
@@E3boss2003 We are still talking about about a SCHOOL here, (but I understand your point there :-)
@NalaBalenciaga
@NalaBalenciaga 8 ай бұрын
Same
@yayayvette298
@yayayvette298 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for Alyssa and my heart breaks for her because I know what that feels like keep strong and hopefully her friend will call her back
@shrimp9996
@shrimp9996 4 жыл бұрын
There's a reason why people from your past didn't make it to your future.
@f.mxrxxn1919
@f.mxrxxn1919 4 жыл бұрын
Yo, you just gave me goosebumps. I'm gonna steal your qoute😂✌
@halesvitkona9841
@halesvitkona9841 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah sometimes your actions are the reason.
@ZionsTreasure
@ZionsTreasure 4 жыл бұрын
100%
@mbt9700
@mbt9700 4 жыл бұрын
@Reee find people who are low maintenance.
@axxne6068
@axxne6068 4 жыл бұрын
@@halesvitkona9841 Or, get this. Its most likely the other person. Ikr mind blowing.
@huabubble669
@huabubble669 3 жыл бұрын
we need to protect alyssa at all costs
@Santy-qs6mm
@Santy-qs6mm 3 жыл бұрын
yes.
@rsq_2100
@rsq_2100 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and I really wanna hug her, because she just seemed so broken..
@quahmeilrobinson7953
@quahmeilrobinson7953 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@MotoTrist
@MotoTrist 3 жыл бұрын
@@rsq_2100 literally my thoughts
@speedymonkey123
@speedymonkey123 3 жыл бұрын
thanks 😏
@plutonium4sale
@plutonium4sale 2 жыл бұрын
this made me realize that my best friend that I’ve known since I was four has slowly been drifting away for someone they have known for only like 2 years. they keep flipping me off randomly and throwing things like paper n stuff at me. it hurts to know that last year we were all a happy group.
@deenanthekemoni5567
@deenanthekemoni5567 2 жыл бұрын
Bros before Hoes. Remember that.
@jess3452
@jess3452 2 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry:(
@psycherevivedby
@psycherevivedby 2 ай бұрын
"Ghosting" is such a painful thing to experience. I think for us as humans, who desire community and connection, it leaves us so wounded and abandoned. I wish it wasn't a thing.
@Ilrosh
@Ilrosh 2 ай бұрын
))':
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 5 жыл бұрын
kennedy’s friend was my least favourite part of this. “no i never said that.” “you’ll call me when YOU have time” no sis the phone works both ways...
@behappy1523
@behappy1523 5 жыл бұрын
tay - YESS BIH TOTALLY AGREE I WAS LIKE WHAT AN ASS 😑😑😑
@Nanancay
@Nanancay 4 жыл бұрын
I thought he was nice LOL, cos he's respecting that she won't be free/want to pick up the calls if he just calls, so he's giving her the control.
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 4 жыл бұрын
Nancy Wang but for 8 months he let her believe that she was his second choice. not once in that span of time did he call or reach out to reassure that she could always call or rely on him... that’s all im sayin
@bikerssuckass8158
@bikerssuckass8158 4 жыл бұрын
@@tay-8757 No, for 8 months she THOUGHT she couldn't talk to him. SHE made the assumption and stopped talking to him. Did you even pay attention?
@tay-8757
@tay-8757 4 жыл бұрын
Bikers Suckass don’t get so riled up, i was just stating how i viewed the situation as a third party
@katie228_
@katie228_ 4 жыл бұрын
One of the worst feelings: Seeing your "Best Friend" having the time of their life with someone new Edit: Thank you for all the likes ❤
@jubbydubby8275
@jubbydubby8275 4 жыл бұрын
Something like that is rather complicated for me. While I definitely admit I envy whoever is able to bring them such happiness, I also can't dismiss the fact that I'm truly happy that they at least are able to be so happy with someone.
@kyaramoerike3457
@kyaramoerike3457 4 жыл бұрын
JubbyDubby I completely get what your saying my best friend has a new best friend and it hurts she’s gone but I’m happy she looks so happy.
@mich497
@mich497 4 жыл бұрын
my best friend is doing that in-front of me during school, it hurts so much. she doesn’t even look at me anymore.. 😭
@jimindontworryigotyojams2853
@jimindontworryigotyojams2853 4 жыл бұрын
It hurts me now that me and my best had been best friends for like 7-8 years the fact that im always the one ignored when she's with her new best friend her new best if is my "best friend" too Idk why but her new best friend totally hates me for doing nothing to her at all tho I was the one who begged everyone to let her in our friend group since she was new and all lonely I always feel like crying on why I did that I seriously felt betrayed and ignored the and like the new one also framed me tho I wasn't even related to a lot of situations and on the my best friend didn't ever ask me "Hey are you okay?? Hope your feeling good" or something like that when I wasn't well and was going through harsh times and on that we had vacations that time which was totally free tho I don't blame her for that but like when she wasn't doing okay I actually missed one of my very important match just to check on her Im like literally crying rn like why, when I was with her for 7-8 years now can't believe it sorry if I said too much
@rogelynjocelramillosa4231
@rogelynjocelramillosa4231 4 жыл бұрын
@@mich497 yeah...I feel it too
@lesliewilliams9923
@lesliewilliams9923 Жыл бұрын
"I wanna apologize for being selfish, I thought I needed to push people away to take care of my self " I felt that because it's what I do.
@angelredvivar
@angelredvivar 8 ай бұрын
I met my female friend at my first job in a grocery store She was amazing and still is. We did almost everything together. She also was the first person who I generally shared a drink What changed the most was when she got into a relationship and from there, we just stopped talking to each other. That last time I spent time with her was when she asked me to help her with laundry That was Jan or April of 2022 The last message I sent her was to not overwork herself to much (She tends to do that) and to take care of herself. That was in June 2022 I miss you Heidi
@basicallykaylee2205
@basicallykaylee2205 3 жыл бұрын
the worst feeling is when you introduce your two friends to each other and they both ditch you and become best friends.
@kaylee0000
@kaylee0000 3 жыл бұрын
OMG FELT THAT
@medico1572
@medico1572 3 жыл бұрын
That's really...the saddest feeling ever
@aria6709
@aria6709 3 жыл бұрын
The worst worst worst
@sirsnailson7703
@sirsnailson7703 3 жыл бұрын
asdfghjk i have no words to describe this
@hobis_sprite117
@hobis_sprite117 3 жыл бұрын
Happened to me I had this gang of friends I introduced all of them to each other....and now I am the loneliest kid who well lost all her friends it sucks.a lot.
@sunderius
@sunderius 5 жыл бұрын
One of the worst feelings in the world is when it feels like you annoy the person you love the most.
@Ahmad-um2zr
@Ahmad-um2zr 4 жыл бұрын
Brooklyn Hanninton and one of the best feelings is when your best friend says that you never annoy them no matter what.
@AbdulHadi-ke5qc
@AbdulHadi-ke5qc 4 жыл бұрын
It just feels very sad. Their gestures and body language tells that they're annoyed. 😭 It feels horrible then.
@may-bl3jb
@may-bl3jb 4 жыл бұрын
@@AbdulHadi-ke5qc tru
@underthestarsoverthemoon4259
@underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 жыл бұрын
Or your bf or gf or family.
@tekokitty9019
@tekokitty9019 4 жыл бұрын
This actually happened to me. I was in a really bad headspace that time and was a little bit annoying and never really took into consideration about how my best friend felt. A few days later she told me that i was annoying and ghosted me. She found new friends but i couldnt move on after all i was in a really bad headspace and she was the one i found most comfort to be with. Then i found a text from her saying if we wanted to hang out later because her new friends were being a-holes and only used her for her artistic talent. I said yes and we then made up. Still hurts me to this day to find out that my bestfriend was getting tired+annoyed of me but luckily that situation never happened again and we are still really close.
@ahmeddjabeur4219
@ahmeddjabeur4219 Жыл бұрын
Seeing my best friend as strangers is one of the worst things i ever felt ,it’s just so sad how close u get to someone and the everything changes
@GamingPIPI
@GamingPIPI Жыл бұрын
Yup i want to see my bestie so bad but simultaneously i dont because it hurts
@blackbarbaron5818
@blackbarbaron5818 Жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy we spend so much time getting to know someone to only become strangers again.
@aubreywitt
@aubreywitt 4 жыл бұрын
losing a best friend is the worst kind of heart break.
@aidanbarsano5684
@aidanbarsano5684 4 жыл бұрын
It's not tho
@cloudnine3721
@cloudnine3721 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed 😔
@auffq
@auffq 4 жыл бұрын
No what about when you make your mom sad and find out a couple hours later
@shoguns849
@shoguns849 4 жыл бұрын
NOTTHRDUDRFRU - N0cl0u7 if u ever felt someone that was always by your side, then u screw up and your whole friendship with that person just fades away, then i’d think u understand
@Taco_Burrito39
@Taco_Burrito39 4 жыл бұрын
@@aidanbarsano5684 depends on the person
@talayshiabobo5451
@talayshiabobo5451 3 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is when your best friend just stops talking to you with no explanation. Nothing happened between the two of you. You just stop communicating until theirs nothing left but feelings of sadness and guilt as though you did something wrong.
@talayshiabobo5451
@talayshiabobo5451 3 жыл бұрын
@Sandra 'Sandy' I would say try talking to her before you lose all communication.
@ving7515
@ving7515 3 жыл бұрын
Same thing, and it really hurts when you two study at same school and every time when you see that they are having fun with others, treating you like a stranger, you just can't understand why, and you just start blame yourself and also you cannot make other friends because you are afraid that they also leave you or start thinking that no one wants to be friends with you
@-oreo3786
@-oreo3786 3 жыл бұрын
@@ving7515 Oh wow....I feel terrible rn. Are you okay? Because you WILL find somebody, everybody does.
@nayeonbunni
@nayeonbunni 3 жыл бұрын
funny that’s exactly what happened to me i met her in 6th grade and we were inseparable throughout middle school you would always see us together and since I’ve never had a best friend like that i thought i finally found the right person until we reached high school she stopped talking to me, we lost communication and has treated me like a stranger she still does and i always had this guilty feeling that it was my fault
@charlinecharlostin3188
@charlinecharlostin3188 3 жыл бұрын
I experienced this. She keeps in contact with her other friends, but not me.
@jasmineestrada4615
@jasmineestrada4615 2 жыл бұрын
I feel exactly how the girl who cried , you miss that one friend but you know you tried and if you get nothing back from them it’s just time to leave it alone .
@alexandrosglegles544
@alexandrosglegles544 Жыл бұрын
I cried watching this video. Losing a friend is the worst thing ever. It's also torture when you fear that your current friends will leave you eventually. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you just have to be the best version of you and also the best friend you can be.
@joshuabuchanan1141
@joshuabuchanan1141 4 ай бұрын
Not so easy at all for people that suffer from mental and emotional health issues
@adeleseeboth3137
@adeleseeboth3137 3 жыл бұрын
Alyssa is precious. Protect her. Never let her get hurt again.
@blaze2x569
@blaze2x569 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly she will probably get hurt again hopefully she can overcome all her obstacles
@blaze2x569
@blaze2x569 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly the nicest people end up getting hurt the most
@asteroyd4753
@asteroyd4753 3 жыл бұрын
@@blaze2x569 hello fellow demon slayer fan who watches these
@nieee5727
@nieee5727 3 жыл бұрын
your always gonna get hurt in life you cant really prevent that from happening @Adelly bean
@iscifion7122
@iscifion7122 3 жыл бұрын
@@blaze2x569 This happens...
@mirandamork8191
@mirandamork8191 3 жыл бұрын
The girl whos friend didn't answer her words hit too close to home..
@philipanderegg5973
@philipanderegg5973 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely. Currently living that situation now. I have reached out to make amends and find out what went wrong but all I get is a deafening silence. It hurts to have a former best friend not want to be a part of your life anymore 😢
@cutthecameras7095
@cutthecameras7095 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@cilla3389
@cilla3389 3 жыл бұрын
I literally cried the first 2seconds of the video
@kpoplover-wb4nr
@kpoplover-wb4nr 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@bankrolldame
@bankrolldame Жыл бұрын
I used to judge my long lost best friend for "abandoning" me when I was in a more toxic, depressed state.. but sometimes I feel like she wasn't in the wrong because I was probably too codependent and draining on her at the time
@its.happss
@its.happss Жыл бұрын
I was in the exact same situation!
@bon4560
@bon4560 5 ай бұрын
😭
@passivepanda3656
@passivepanda3656 Жыл бұрын
Do you know what hurts the most ? Being replaced.
@lynagamer2918
@lynagamer2918 Жыл бұрын
yup and seeing them with person who they replaced u with
@angela-kc3wc
@angela-kc3wc 5 жыл бұрын
Seeing your best friends slowly turn in to strangers hurts the most.
@nairelychevere7051
@nairelychevere7051 5 жыл бұрын
depends on your opinion
@bruhmoment1196
@bruhmoment1196 5 жыл бұрын
No seeing your best friend become your torturer hurts more.
@noellew____
@noellew____ 5 жыл бұрын
@hyeboi that's subjective
@sabrinaaini7781
@sabrinaaini7781 5 жыл бұрын
True
@maevewilliams2398
@maevewilliams2398 5 жыл бұрын
Aka middle school and high school😬
@haileyroark9427
@haileyroark9427 4 жыл бұрын
The worst feeling is.. When you have a best friend and they get a boyfriend and leave you because they have someone new now.
@lukakojic5514
@lukakojic5514 4 жыл бұрын
and they talk to you only when they need something :(
@sevensn
@sevensn 4 жыл бұрын
@@lukakojic5514 Thats so relatable for me right now,me and my best friend talk very often about her problems with her girlfriend and it annoys me that she doesen't want anything else to talk about.
@sharmiacharjee8717
@sharmiacharjee8717 4 жыл бұрын
so my best friend threw me into the darkness after 14 years. it means I thought that she is my best friend bt she's never think that way.
@sharmiacharjee8717
@sharmiacharjee8717 4 жыл бұрын
it's all happened when she found her new friends & boyfriend
@audreywillis1399
@audreywillis1399 4 жыл бұрын
or you try to keep them and they leave you anyway and only ask when they need something or their bf isn’t available
@jaan08011
@jaan08011 2 жыл бұрын
after having nearly lost all my close friends, one of them which I was super close to (way over 10 years now is a complete stranger) I've realized that becoming too attached to them ends up hurting us way more than it should. I love them all, but now I've seen that being more independent is better in the long run. i don't wish to stay lonesome forever but neither do I need nor desire to feel the same pain twice.
@chaku9906
@chaku9906 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. I am sensitive and I can no longer endure this breakup pain. It takes longer for me to get better.
@jaan08011
@jaan08011 2 жыл бұрын
@@chaku9906 i completely understand. but hang in there, pain or loneliness won't last forever. There's always meaning behind the struggle we face so it'll be worth it in the end✊🏼
@linhlooper637
@linhlooper637 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate that👋
@springgal265
@springgal265 2 жыл бұрын
Yah cant believe too much in other people.🙂
@kayleen8037
@kayleen8037 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@plumchamoy
@plumchamoy 7 ай бұрын
"why can't you just be happy for me," i always hear that from people who do not want to acknowledge how they have hurt the ones they expect praise from
@brileypayne1835
@brileypayne1835 3 жыл бұрын
all these friendships have the one person trying to reach out and the people on the other line dont even care :(
@ariqfajar5708
@ariqfajar5708 3 жыл бұрын
or maybe both of them were care but they're too shy to reach out
@iamblasterdark
@iamblasterdark 3 жыл бұрын
@@ariqfajar5708 yep
@louisenorrie5330
@louisenorrie5330 3 жыл бұрын
@@ariqfajar5708 ya I agree bcz I am someone who won’t talk to unless talk to because I get scared and nervous I don’t text till text to bcz I think I’m annoying
@jakegames2736
@jakegames2736 3 жыл бұрын
@@louisenorrie5330 that's what I think sometimes
@victoriawhisman8014
@victoriawhisman8014 3 жыл бұрын
yes. exactly.
@devindevin6126
@devindevin6126 4 жыл бұрын
I personally volunteer myself to be Alissa’s best friend
@lisaryplanski4921
@lisaryplanski4921 4 жыл бұрын
Devin Devin me too. I feel bad for her too.
@koalart14
@koalart14 4 жыл бұрын
Me too;(
@ajv1630
@ajv1630 4 жыл бұрын
Because she’s hot, smh.
@devanbarrett2902
@devanbarrett2902 4 жыл бұрын
My name is Devan, just you know spelled differently.
@demigodsunite4012
@demigodsunite4012 4 жыл бұрын
cla173t Thornton hey me too!
@tralynlee9071
@tralynlee9071 8 ай бұрын
Imagine losing two best friends at the same time bc your going through depression and see one of them already replacing you with a new friend who they have even more in common with bc they have the same talent 😭💔
@ilovetosingx3
@ilovetosingx3 8 ай бұрын
😢💔💯
@openlybookish
@openlybookish Жыл бұрын
It's so hard being separated from a BFF. If any of you need a friend I understand 100%.
@remigotchauchi7376
@remigotchauchi7376 4 жыл бұрын
Alyssa's long lost friend : _Doesn't answer_ *_[EVERBODY DISLIKED THAT]_*
@aiko4294
@aiko4294 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to be that one person, but.... EverYbody
@remi1744
@remi1744 4 жыл бұрын
Well yeah because it sucks to lose a friend. Maybe she did have something going on where she couldnt answer or she didnt recognize the number. Who knows? It's the worst feeling in the world seeing the person who was soposed to be there gone. So I can see why people hate that and feel bad.
@yado7550
@yado7550 4 жыл бұрын
i cant be the only one who thought Alyssa was annoying as fuck
@Silvia.Araujo
@Silvia.Araujo 4 жыл бұрын
@@yado7550 bruh...
@yado7550
@yado7550 4 жыл бұрын
@@Silvia.Araujo bruh
@michaelv8721
@michaelv8721 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not gonna lie. I wished someone missed me like that
@JunguianPhantom
@JunguianPhantom 4 жыл бұрын
I´m with ya bro. Feels sad to not have someone to miss you this way
@omg1243able
@omg1243able 4 жыл бұрын
It’s ok. The fact that your like “I’m not gonna lie” at least we know your not saying this for attention and I respect that
@VibezWithEli
@VibezWithEli 4 жыл бұрын
Im with you
@omg1243able
@omg1243able 4 жыл бұрын
red x17 I’m sure at least one person misses you
@inkyrilakkuma1040
@inkyrilakkuma1040 4 жыл бұрын
Michael V no u don’t want to have that. I have already been through it many times, it hurts, bad it’s like losing apart of your life. You should be grateful this hasn’t happened to you before, because you’ll regret the day you said you want it.
@MiaFran
@MiaFran 10 ай бұрын
I’ve had a few friendships fade away and have reached out to those friends to try and reconnect but it’s never the same. I’ve learned to live with that fact at least having the memories with those people that keeps me from thinking awful things about me or the other person. It’s really hard and I feel Alyssa’s pain. She was really brave to leave a voicemail, I don’t know if I could.
@katherinepollock
@katherinepollock 2 жыл бұрын
I had one person in mind watching this video. I haven't spoken to them in months, and it hurts because we were friends for nearly 9 years. She followed the "wrong crowd" and is part of a friend group that does all sorts of bad things. It's really quite sad
@amberho2541
@amberho2541 5 жыл бұрын
KZbin recommendations seems to be pulling my deepest and darkest feelings out of their caves
@user-lb9xh8me1x
@user-lb9xh8me1x 5 жыл бұрын
4MBER omg same
@colorfulcori9757
@colorfulcori9757 5 жыл бұрын
this is the most relatable thing I've seen this year
@asiandod325
@asiandod325 5 жыл бұрын
Some people grow up in caves.
@Wooahaeeeee
@Wooahaeeeee 5 жыл бұрын
damn..same.. 😫
@oliviapickard3299
@oliviapickard3299 4 жыл бұрын
Yep I think they are reading my mind
@nancy8328
@nancy8328 4 жыл бұрын
i should be studying for finals instead of crying over a stranger's friendships
@fahima2409
@fahima2409 4 жыл бұрын
sarah good luck with ur tests I’m assuming ur college student
@nancy8328
@nancy8328 4 жыл бұрын
Fahima thanks!! yeah
@daradler6641
@daradler6641 4 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@kaylaredrum8727
@kaylaredrum8727 4 жыл бұрын
sarah sammmmme😂
@crazycoolpencilman6916
@crazycoolpencilman6916 4 жыл бұрын
sarah relatable
@crazyforcats19
@crazyforcats19 6 ай бұрын
I went through a bad "friend breakup" in March. She cut me off and said she couldn't handle me but didn't ever really explain why. I know I wasn't a perfect friend but I thought our friendship would last. Looking back I can see how our personalities made our friendship stressful but I wish we'd been able to talk about it. I never got a chance to talk about what went wrong with her or to try to fix things. She abandoned me when she was one of my closest friends.
@nicoleslaughter7983
@nicoleslaughter7983 2 жыл бұрын
I tried this to ask forgiveness because I didn’t know what I did wrong. Never heard back. Sometimes some people are worth giving up.
@johndeo107
@johndeo107 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah they’re really worth giving up but it’s still hard knowing that they had an important part in your life
@mayasdrafts
@mayasdrafts Жыл бұрын
I know
@kay-ub1ob
@kay-ub1ob 4 жыл бұрын
you think losing a boyfriend is bad, try losing your best friend.
@roselana497
@roselana497 4 жыл бұрын
bellyache that’s so deep but that’s life
@yeehaw972
@yeehaw972 4 жыл бұрын
they can be equally devastating
@cee2607
@cee2607 4 жыл бұрын
Madu Mahawaduge Was just about to comment the same thing. When your significant other is your best friend, and you lose them, that pain is .. a lot to deal with
@tanukichan5219
@tanukichan5219 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is my bestfriend. So if we break up I'll probably die lol
@cee2607
@cee2607 4 жыл бұрын
Madu Mahawaduge Yeah, it honestly is impossible to get through. And most people just dont get how miserable it is so that doesnt help
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 жыл бұрын
I felt so bad for the girl who’s friend didn’t pick up 🥺🥺
@jovialminer8583
@jovialminer8583 3 жыл бұрын
It actually sounded like she declined.
@carlostobar4654
@carlostobar4654 3 жыл бұрын
That's not a friend
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 жыл бұрын
@@carlostobar4654 true true
@haunted.mirrorball
@haunted.mirrorball 3 жыл бұрын
@@jovialminer8583 ohhhh okay well that makes me feel even qorse 🤣
@dandhakljhdlsakfhd4972
@dandhakljhdlsakfhd4972 3 жыл бұрын
@@carlostobar4654 you have no idea what happened between them
@martygarcia
@martygarcia 2 жыл бұрын
OMG. I wanted to hug that girl that was crying. I hope she's doing well. Kudos to everyone brave enough to do that. Going through it myself and wouldn't have the courage.
@FingerBangz
@FingerBangz 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to all of these individuals. I know I wouldn’t have the courage to call my “best friend”, especially after being the one who ended things. Hopefully they found closure with this.
@Sophia-to6rh
@Sophia-to6rh 5 жыл бұрын
Message: don’t cut of your friends because of a boyfriend/girlfriend
@Marie-tm9uq
@Marie-tm9uq 5 жыл бұрын
I’d have to disagree
@lara9863
@lara9863 5 жыл бұрын
Marie Tupou why?
@yemioloyede2775
@yemioloyede2775 5 жыл бұрын
It really depends on the circumstance
@alaaye5237
@alaaye5237 5 жыл бұрын
Marie Tupou It depends
@Maria-ck7wv
@Maria-ck7wv 5 жыл бұрын
You're probably not in a relationship:)
@officialtoiletpaper
@officialtoiletpaper 4 жыл бұрын
You ever look at your ex best friend and just think “you’ve changed”😔
@monie4308
@monie4308 4 жыл бұрын
Toilet Paper all the time
@AprilA15
@AprilA15 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@pinkfluffynarwhals2424
@pinkfluffynarwhals2424 4 жыл бұрын
Almost everyday...
@disismriamxox8613
@disismriamxox8613 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@namratabrar6530
@namratabrar6530 4 жыл бұрын
Toilet Paper not necessarily the worst thing because people change. It’s inevitable. But honestly you see the worth and if they continue to value you throughout. Lessons or blessings😔
@moonanana
@moonanana 2 жыл бұрын
this happened to me around a year and a half ago,,,,we'd known each other for a short while but it was one of those friendships were you click instantly and it feels like you found the person that understand you to the deepest part of your brain,,,things happened and we said we wanted a little space,,, after a few months i tried reaching out a couple times and never got a response,, it still upsets me because it really felt like i found someone who not only understood me but someone who wanted to understand, not just out of pity but out of genuine love,,,
@crac810
@crac810 Жыл бұрын
This boy had joined my class and I had literally never talked to him until his last day at our school, and when we talked we just clicked and it was so fun. I never got his number so I have no way of communicating with him as he also has no social media. I hope you can find peace in the fact that you did all you could to salvage your friendship, and there is nothing more you could’ve done. It’s not your fault. I wish you luck and I hope you have a nice life internet stranger 😊
@KimiticalASMR
@KimiticalASMR 2 жыл бұрын
I felt that. I reached out to my friend multiple times. After 2 months, 4 months, 9 months and 11 months. She read the first two messages but after that she didn’t bothered opening them anymore. I won’t reach out anymore and that’s fine I guess. Not everyone wants to stay in your life and that’s okay. It breaks my heart when certain songs come up on the radio and it reminds me of her. I hope she is happy and healthy. Maybe by any chance she reads this so happy newyear Ying! It’s been 1y 7 months and I miss you.
@elismith4040
@elismith4040 4 жыл бұрын
"People change, even satan used to be an angel" - NF
@thedoomaster14
@thedoomaster14 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, this is real
@sashapollard92
@sashapollard92 4 жыл бұрын
Wow..... very true.
@aquabitxh9770
@aquabitxh9770 4 жыл бұрын
NF deserves to be recognised.
@defvalleydriver
@defvalleydriver 4 жыл бұрын
aqua bitxh everyone knows who NF is because of let you down
@sub2pewdiepie8yearsago17
@sub2pewdiepie8yearsago17 4 жыл бұрын
LionTamerTV who are you talking about? What’s NF?
@rigelstar8037
@rigelstar8037 3 жыл бұрын
Worst is, he or she was your only friend.
@taliawoodbury7514
@taliawoodbury7514 3 жыл бұрын
felt this
@outofsight6147
@outofsight6147 3 жыл бұрын
ñõ õñė čãrêś
@sairaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
@sairaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 3 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!! 😫😭
@zahraw4345
@zahraw4345 3 жыл бұрын
And I wasn't her or him only friend
@valerijajovanovic2020
@valerijajovanovic2020 3 жыл бұрын
@@zahraw4345 ouch
@landie5432
@landie5432 Жыл бұрын
one of the hardest part is when you decided to take the first step and open your heart bout how you feeling and say sorry and after that the other person just decide to throw out you of their life, it leave you with the broken pieces of your heart into your hands and a deafening silence
@mohammadaliwi5963
@mohammadaliwi5963 Жыл бұрын
I met this girl online from Scotland and she’s honestly the best friend I could have ever wished for, she’s so caring and she’s such an amazing girl and we talk literally every single day 24/7 and I absolutely can not imagine losing her even though I’ve never met her face to face I can’t imagine losing such a human that helped me though so much so I kinda feel what they are going through and it’s really hard.
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