People Read the Last Text From Their Ex

[@jubilee]

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[@eawkha]

kewl

[@msluvlf]

"I just don't understand why someone's learning experience has to come at the expense of traumatizing others" 🥺

[@dantdt4693]

It’s a sad truth

[@xsenpai5179]

I’m happy it happened. I genuinely smiled.

[@roxysvanempel]

That comment truly broke my heart, i hope she's doing better today

[@Red-ju4mi]

Why she have his txt n not block him

[@seri4837]

@@xsenpai5179 "omg look at me and my comment I'm so EdgY and dIfferEnt 🤪"

[@emorysbackyard]

it amazes me how quickly someone you love so dearly can be someone you never want to see again

[@checkmate7065]

It's because you love them so much that their treason hurts so bad. And seeing/talking to them keeps the wound open and bleeding

[@skellygirl100]

and how quickly they do a 360

[@RetroBasementGamingAnime]

I still talk to my ex. There is no blood between us that bad. I believe sometimes it depends on the maturity level, etc.

[@andreachung396]

the person you love the most can hurt you the most.

[@JM-kr3sy]

Going thru this now after 8 yrs and my 1st relationship

[@SousChefSanji]

“Oh you’re just my girlfriend, not my best friend, she’s my best friend.” My stomach would’ve dropped after hearing that. Poor girl :(

[@frenchgirl5878]

It’s the “just” for me. The guy was clearly with her out of comfort and not love. It’s clear which relationship he treasured more, and who he would choose if he had to.

[@Nepthu]

I know a guy who commonly tells his current wife that the kids from his first marriage are first in his life. I understand that may be true but why say it, especially more than once. I've always felt his wife is accepting scraps when she deserves a feast.

[@rebecaprat712]

Its true your boyfriend or girlfriend wife or husban is not your friend is just your other half but its not your friend, with your friends you talk about your partner.

[@tvtitlechampion3238]

@@rebecaprat712 "your other half" should be your friend, too. Pretty damn sad if they're not.

[@rebecaprat712]

@@tvtitlechampion3238 Agree to disagree, you dont whant to have intimate relacionships with your friends you do it with your partner and the way you speek to your friends is different to someone you love. Your partner is not your friend.

[@indianaembroidery5788]

My long distance bf passed away during a surgery. His last text was "I love you, please move on. I might not make it. Don't cry" I still miss him a lot, he was like the male version of me, such a nice and loving person. Our conversations still replay in my mind. I hope his soul rests in peace🙏🏻❤️

[@prarthanaperera1997]

I'm sorry for your loss sweetie. Sending love and prayers to you ❤️and my deepest sympathies with hopes that he's in peace 🙏💙

[@glowshine8102]

I am so sorry for your loss sending you love ❤

[@isibelim3764]

i am so sorry for your loss :( sending virtual hugs

[@juneee.]

So sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace ❤️

[@teexomahamed4967]

Im currently in a long distance relationship and I cant imagine what youre going through. Write down all the memories you have with him and keep it with you so he’ll always be there. 💗 sending you love sweetheart.

[@AkatsukiFlame3]

The worst thing about betrayal is that it doesn't come from the enemy -Obi Wan Kenobi

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@epicaunleashed8764]

And they just had to make a horrible spinoff from this great character

[@cecdacheat6983]

yeah because a enemy possible can't betray lmfaoo bad example

[@-VAJRA-]

How will an enemy betray you? 😂 Nobody trusts an enemy so the question of betrayal doesn’t even arise

[@xxcryssmarie224]

@@cecdacheat6983 the quote is deep and you obviously just don’t have the mental capacity to really understand it .

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

"His smile kind of faded". Oh, darling, you deserve a guy whose face lights up the moment he lays his eyes on you. You will find him.

[@whimsicaltee412]

❤️💯👏🏽

[@madisonmoreland8750]

i feel like u give very nice hugs ngl

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

@@madisonmoreland8750 ♥️

[@Scp--uk3ld]

But what about him, he just suppose to pretend to he happy?

[@cookie_dough_hangover]

@@Scp--uk3ld Of course not, but we don't know his story, I was only referring to her. She is the one who shared her story.

[@amazingabby25]

Ivie has me crying. That poor sweet baby

[@dogloverj7]

Ik she deserves the world

[@RAJohnson713]

Getting the low key crazy vibe from her. She could have blocked him but she played into it…

[@karissal5790]

@@RAJohnson713 abusive relationships really mess with your head, like a lot. I don’t blame her at all and I don’t think anything she did could be considered crazy

[@kamim8696]

Not you victim blaming

[@blacklivesmatter2855]

She could've just blocked him...

[@Katerina0919]

I legit freaked out when Ivie's ex was parked outside her house after somehow finding out she started dating again, like, wtf. I hope that psycho never troubles her again. She sounds so hurt and scared 😥

[@BristolBerg]

She is clearly acting and gullible ho’s will eat it up… “ believe her “ 😩

[@Gianni.chellini]

Yup 👍 that sucks as well

[@paniiiniii1484]

I’m going through this as of today. Do you know how I can deal with this? How I can stay safe since he was physically abusive towards me?

[@taserrr]

But didn't you listen to the story? She dated quickly again, a few days iirc? And he was there to pick up his stuff, after he texted her but got no response. Obviously we don't know the entire story, but you bet if I break up I want my stuff back.

[@insufferably_sexy_cunt_autist]

@@paniiiniii1484 tell someone you trust about it, make sure u have someone u can call in case they go to ur house or a different potentially dangerous situation. Stay safe

[@lucwijngaard8413]

It's actually crazy to see people's reactions and emotions about texts, also shows how something can be interpreted in multiple ways

[@ieatpercs]

Meanwhile I text lol w a straight face 😐😂

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@omgitsaari4908]

@@ieatpercs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Coco-chrispy]

@@ieatpercs😂😂😂😂😂

[@renia1833]

Wait, how did he get mad at Ivie for going on a date when he cheated while they were in a relationship 🤦🏾‍♀️ Make it make sense. I hope she gets better. Hopefully he stays out of her life

[@leahyeahnah6866]

Narcissists are like that...

[@riyaray1006]

That's the trait of a toxic person She has been traumatized n 😭 from the pain n agony he has brought Emotionally damaging her. And first she needs to lover herself go on trips n relieve that trauma n heal herself

[@SimonPetrikov12]

Rules for thee and not for me

[@Khritter]

projection be like

[@dhimankalita1690]

She deserved it

[@kassandria3964]

That last ex situation tho I died when he said you’re for the streets 😂 💀

[@xTymezz]

Is he Female to male?

[@unitymuzik7110]

@@xTymezz yo! Exact question I was meaning to ask, just didn’t want to come off rude.

[@vloggingwthesmiths257]

@@ItzMalick love your dorm storytime

[@alan82777]

@@vloggingwthesmiths257 lol haha

[@vloggingwthesmiths257]

@@alan82777 ☺️☺️

[@chucklima4763]

the girl is cheating on deserves much better I'm glad she's moving on with her life

[@miami7446]

She's so pretty and attractive too. Wish her well.

[@nayantarasamtani6746]

who's the girl that got cheated on ?

[@Firemarioflower]

@@nayantarasamtani6746 The Asian girl with white clothes

[@ched28]

“Oops yeah you’re for the streets” Okay that was kinda funny ngl😭😭

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@ElishebaEkwunife]

too funny😂😭😭

[@YuhasLol]

Perfect way to end it. Mic drop. 🎤

[@Framokamc]

Sorry, what is the meaning of that?

[@omegasage777]

@@Framokamc It means someone is promiscuous and not loyal to one person in a relationship...for the streets = alluding to prostitutes who work the streets lol

[@ReidGarwin]

I want to hug every single one of these people

[@m051f]

Eww…Pervert.

[@COSun25]

Same here.

[@muhahaha9680]

you a phreak.

[@jnnkmm]

Call me mean but i don’t care for the first one. That’s what happens when you get into an open relationship. What d I she expecting??

[@hell_inn0258]

@@jnnkmmliterally 💀💀 like ppl in open relationships will always do what they want bc at the end of the day, the other person will know that they’re going to stay there

[@cayleesampson7364]

“As like time went on his smile kinda faded” Felt that like no other

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@tasbeetzainab2011]

He was with me but he wasn't happy,,,,,, tears you off

[@AmicieO]

Yup..

[@azarielmartinez9770]

Been there too homie 🥲🫡💪🤣🤣

[@billnyewashere]

Hold on, a job asked about relationship status in an interview and asked for a background check from an ex? Is that not incredibly inappropriate and potentially illegal

[@camri.taylor]

Depends on the job. Jobs that have certain type of security clearance, like a government jobs, do that for background checks. The guy I’m currently seeing had a background check done and he had to give me a heads up that I might be contacted to ask about him. But like a regular office job or retail job would not and should not be doing that.

[@DOPEdwarf]

Government. Also, if when you are trying to pass the bar exam they have a background check that includes things like past relationships

[@someonesly1991]

Yeah i thought that was illegal too..

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@thekidd7]

I was thinking the same thing. What if you never had a serious relationship? Could you miss out on a job based on that? What if you’re single/celibate by choice? What if you were abused? What if you’re ex is malicious and vindictive through no fault of your own? What if you lie and just have a close friend make you sound like a hero? Sooo many things wrong with that. I’d be offended if anyone ever asked me that nonsense. Or find a way to give the person their mother’s number.

[@samriddhibarnwal2058]

The worst part of loving someone is that you just cannot unlove them after breaking up. There is always a part of you who feels empty and dead

[@marianafernandez1789]

There’s this eternal grief for the future that could’ve been, but never will be

[@kenallenchannel3911]

That’s what I’m going through now

[@phishdough]

I’ve finally entered my first real relationship and it’s going really well, she’s great. But every once in a while I remember the fact that it could all end at anytime, for basically any reason. Only recently have I made peace with this fact. Still sucks though.

[@mml1677]

The more u think of it’s ending, the less you enjoy the ride I dont wanna sound like a grandpa but this is actually what I believe in, so just enjoy and take ur time with the relationship rather than giving urself a hard time Take care

[@Alexcutspie]

Chris and Mml are my brain cells

[@meltedkinderjoy479]

No no don’t think of the end at all. If it comes; which I hope it doesn’t, deal with it then. You’ll be fine. Future you problem.

[@emmabunch-benson4795]

Idk I feel like when you truly know & trust someone it’s not true, you don’t question it or worry about it ending at any moment. People’s morals (or lack There of ) don’t change overnight. Unless there’s red flags & you don’t know the person well or unless there’s signs, no reason to assume any end.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@kat213]

The pain in ivie’s voice 😢

[@TwistedLyfofTV]

Girllllllllll her story got me triggered.

[@coldfries8976]

Crazy how they keep their messages. I always have to cut off and delete everything to overcome. It's tough to love somebody one day and then completely enstrange from them the next day.

[@natalierachellouisesantana]

Same 🤍

[@kiaj.d.5855]

I delete texts regularly. I like to start fresh monthly lol I definitely am not keeping hurtful messages though.

[@danifranc7011]

Evidence and reciepts lol

[@aquapr901]

Same

[@Ljounieh]

Me too

[@melsyoutube]

“i don’t understand why someone’s learning experience has to come at the expense of traumatizing others” 😪😪😪 that broke my heart. i hope she moves onto better days 💕

[@helbergalinda9141]

Why can’t relationships be like the movies where at the end everything is fine? It sucks to become a stranger to someone who you thought would be there through thick and thin. And it sucks even more to feel sad and mad, all at the same time. I still miss and love my ex.

[@Savyflores]

Honestly this is why I appreciate movies and shows that represent more realistic relationships, because the fairytale ending can give people such unreasonable expectations. Everyone needs to be willing to put in work to maintain their relationship, and even then, it’s not always going to work out

[@darryldavis6063]

Especially what the first guy talked about. He still feels hopeful. The movies and shows are what we wish reality could be.

[@pessimistkai5569]

The thing is....everyone wants what's best for them. If you buy a new phone after a while you will be attracted to the new release again(if you are capable). So somewhere, taking the risk, and going for a better option is what people decide to do. And that's it. I have rarely seen in-depth relationships. Maybe bond like the teens in the fault in our stars where they know, they can't get better and have gratitude for what they get.

[@tvtitlechampion3238]

@@pessimistkai5569 it's easier to love like there's no tomorrow when there is no 'tomorrow'. Life goes on, and on, and sometimes outlasts that 'forever' feeling. It's easy to love when it just gushes out of you. It gets tricky when that well runs dry, and you can't reproduce that feeling organically. Hopefully, you'll find someone that encourages a renewal repeatedly.

[@praxym9293]

Because life is not a movie

[@mateobanda6808]

The last text from my cheating ex reads: "I Love You". The irony is prevalent.

[@jomangeee9180]

Where is the irony?

[@emmabunch-benson4795]

@@jomangeee9180 it’s hard to say you can ‘love’ someone whilst cheating on them. You don’t even have basic respect or human decency, let alone love.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@tater82]

@@ItzMalick enough with the spam. You definitely won’t get followers that way.

[@lilnotmaster6094]

@@emmabunch-benson4795 Well that's the difference between guys n girls. A guy can cheat and STILL BE MADLY in love willing to fix his mistake. When a girl cheats.. Its game over. She don't love you. She got options

[@KingKobra49]

There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go. Keep moving…🙏🏽

[@sososanchez3512]

Yes.. Well Said.

[@DenGirl12]

❤️❤️

[@ronn5650]

JJ from Criminal Minds ate with that one.

[@KingKobra49]

@@sososanchez3512 💯

[@KingKobra49]

@@DenGirl12 ❤️‍🔥

[@queenmia1965]

5:02 “I feel like I really just gave up a part of my heart, to someone that really wasn’t ready to receive it.” 😔

[@shabee960]

Watching this 7 years deep in a marriage. We’ve been together 15 years. Gonna hug him extra today for being my forever partner. I hope everyone finds theirs too 😢

[@randomnordmann4020]

And then you suddenly want to "find yourself" and proceed to dump him. Next year maybe?

[@omegasage777]

@@randomnordmann4020 Stop projecting and seek therapy

[@zayxoxo]

@@randomnordmann4020 what’s wrong with you heal your trauma

[@aparna2701]

@@randomnordmann4020 oh that’s exactly what your partner did to you wasn’t it…if you wanna insult at least try to cover up your insecurities 😂😂😂

[@ferrypanda]

@@randomnordmann4020 Damn who hurt you dude

[@rosesforviolets]

my heart dropped after hearing Ivie's experience. nobody should ever suffer mental and physical abuse at the hands of someone they once thought cared about them. and the fact that he cheated, too. so sad. :( i hope she's feeling better

[@chenzhu9308]

agreed. not only he cheated and he threatened/abused her with all his behaviors. what a trashy guy.

[@Noname-jq8ec]

“I’m in a relationship with myself. I’m in a relationship with me, with Heischler.” I really like the last dude.

[@candykizz3z68]

“As time went on, his smile kind of faded” 🥺 I know the feeling girl … you notice it when it starts to fade 😔

[@Elibelle]

Can we get an update from Ivie?? Make sure she's okay?? I hope she got justice...

[@HeyLookItsThatGuy]

“You’re just my girlfriend not my best friend” is crazyyyyy 😭😭

[@javaristurner6146]

I feel that in my soul

[@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607]

The day my partner asks me for an open relationship is the day I walk out of their life. Most of the open relationships I know of are 🚩 relationships where one person suggests it & the other person goes along with it so they don’t lose them. I know it works for many, but it ain’t for me. I think it’s a doorway to trouble & there’s no way I could handle it 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@md.md16]

Exactly. And you can see she was still trying to act as monogamous as soon as he mentioned seeing someone again. She knew at that point it might be more than physical interaction. It seems she agreed to an open relationship without actually understanding what that is. On the other side, an open relationship is just an excuse to keep your options open and go cheat, while the other person is desperate enough to pretend they don't care, as long as you don't leave them. The level of clinginess and low self love is incredible. I know for my dearest life I would never share anyone, either with me 100% or out. No point to fight keeping someone if they don't even see you as enough for a normal relationship. 🙄

[@abeautifulmess163]

I agree

[@babypipess7227]

it’s not even about handling it, it’s about having the self worth not to share.

[@dorisharrer4857]

​@@md.md16Exactly, the people that suffer most in this are the women ofcourse. But they want to appear cool and modern

[@Godsend12936]

@@dorisharrer4857you are delusional

[@theescorpio565]

The last text from my ex is "hello...", dude was a narcissist and was coming back to hoover me back in. He got zero response and a block. He would ghost me and then come back in the past. I learned my lesson after the second ghosting/contact cycle.

[@nalinipanwarxD]

Same got ghosted by a guy for 20 days after spending 24 hrs with me every day and then he msged me like nothing happened. lol blocked but ugly cried.

[@vichernandezii]

As time went on, his smile faded. Dang.

[@gen9018]

I feel for all these people. To the person who had an ex with the temper - such wise words were spoken and you could hear their voice tremble. My heart goes out to you!! ❤️ love at the end they said they were in a relationship with themself! Yesssss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@dhimankalita1690]

They deserved it.. Not feeling anything

[@sykko14]

​@@dhimankalita1690?

[@Firemarioflower]

The lady in red had it coming.... she was toxic. The two Asian women, they had a bad time. I pity them.

[@Ariii978]

“Im not losing a partner im losing a friend.” Damn that hit hard

[@musicgirl999]

I have an ex who actually did start as a friend and then years down the road we became a couple. To this day, even though it’s been over a decade, I’ll forever value and cherish what I was able to get out of my relationship with him.

[@Therealjimcramer]

Why? They were having an open relationship. It was always going to end badly for them. I don't feel bad for her at all.

[@evepoole3966]

I feel this so much, people can be so cruel for no reason and it's like....we are people too, why do this to us??? Especially if you spent a lot of time with this person and we're together for a while...it just sucks and leaves you traumatized

[@HibiTeamQueso]

Loosing your best friend and your partner is trully heartbreaking

[@taivaldez5521]

“i’m going to convince him.” that is so heart breaking. i don’t get how ppl can do that to another human being. 😕

[@mimosasseat9860]

Why do people feel entitled to choose who their EX can or cant date?

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@xowarrior]

they don't it's just disrespectful and bitter to date someone you broke up because of

[@blighticus]

Yeah that was ridiculous. Everything about her was toxic and entitled.

[@naveed_]

@@xowarrior How is it disrespectful? After a relationship ends nothing you do should be seen as disrespectful towards your ex imo. Unless it directly involves them. Edit: Oh and bitter? What about pursuing a new relationship indicates bitterness? I don't think orange shirt girl's ex showed any bitterness in the texts.

[@aliciauseph]

Yeah, unlike the other situations, something was off about her. For 1, they agreed to an open relationship, and her Ex had open communication about who he wanted to see again. For whatever reason, I believe she felt frightened, and that caused the broke up IMO. However, to insist or demand your ex doesn't date someone you disapprove of is wired to me. He continued to be open and honest about his relationships and tried to maintain a friendship with her. Even though he didn't owe her anything. She walked away from the relationship and her "friend" because of envy and jealousy.

[@winter_s_44]

Trying to understand how “open relationship” translates to “you can’t see the person you saw during our open relationship even after we are no longer together.” Theoretically, those in open relationships are truly “open” and understanding of the fact that you have different experiences with different people, and limiting yourself is limiting your growth. Doesn’t this automatically imply that you understand that the possibility of feelings developing at some point is real? If the parameters you set are to not see same person twice, then fine. But, to then have an issue with it even after you are no longer together, like please, there was nothing “open” about your relationship. You just wanted to screw other people.

[@chrisn2125]

Those relationships always end that way.

[@meghna617]

i paused the video looking for this comment hahah. Genuinely though, I get that it’s upsetting seeing your ex with someone you didn’t want them ending up with but since when were we allowed to set rules for people we’re no longer with? 😂

[@nanakikaur2381]

Lol the concept of an open relationship honestly makes no sense. Telling your SO that they can spend time with someone in a romantic context but not develop feelings for them is like putting a glass of water in front of someone thirsty and telling them not to drink it. Makes no sense.

[@darkchurchhill]

It's about boundaries and rules like all other relationships. Just cuz you're allowed to see other people doesn't mean you're allowed to see anyone. If something makes your partner uncomfortable don't do it. I think not wanting your partner to seriously date someone you had a hunch about is impossible to enforce but a understandable feeling (the same way it's considered rude to date your last partner's friends). At that point though it isn't about their past romantic relationship, but their current friendship.

[@malorie8557]

👏👏👏👏 Honestly, I have never seen a successful "open" relationship. Someone always develops feelings and the "open" relationship ends.

[@juandavid2492]

I hope they can find better people in the future ❤️

[@maideluxe]

It's heartbreaking to hear what these people have gone through. I'm in a +6 years relationship with my first boyfriend, and alone the thought of ever breaking up makes me really depressed. I hope I will never have to go through this in my entire life.

[@buttered--toast]

the one about the guy dating his best friend broke my heart. i've been in the same place before with someone figuring out their sexuality and it can be so heart wrenching. i hope he's doing better

[@rivendriftwood]

I have sort of a similar experience with him. Had broken up recently with my boyfriend of 3 years because I can no longer keep our relationship a secret. It makes me hate him which is unfair to him. I love him but I can't go back in the closet.

[@silverofthesunbears]

@@rivendriftwood this was like almost a year ago. Hows it going now?

[@famousmcfly80]

One of the most heartbreaking things that can happen is loving and losing someone so dear to us. They essentially become a stranger. As if you’d never met. Just….gone from your life.

[@ItzMalick]

Yo fam I’m a small KZbinr from Cali 📍, and I make short entertaining videos on KZbin as well, I’m still working on versatility, but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy💗💗💗

[@wcnderzz1044]

@@ItzMalick stop it

[@aewtx]

Yeah, that's really sad. It makes me sad that my ex-fiance, someone who I planned to spend the rest of my life with, is now a stranger. But he cheated on me, so no, you don't get to remain friends as if you didn't do anything wrong. You don't get to have your cake and eat it too, you @sscrack.

[@frenchgirl5878]

Now you’re just somebody that I used to know..

[@MT-nf1ls]

Not even a stranger. A breakup can be like mourning a death if you never see them again afterwards...

[@Maximus-hq1cz]

I recently was dumped via text message, we are both in our 30's... Suffice to say it's been one of the hardest things I've dealt with in my life , because it makes me feel like she didn't care about me at all during the relationship..

[@im_just_vidu]

This reminds me that so many people who get into relationships expecting "happy endings" ends up with hating each other too.

[@tabris1135]

1:00 Imagine having the audacity of breaking up with someone and still maing demands to that very same person

[@tess0728]

Honestly that was kind of my same thought. If they were broken up, it shouldn’t matter who they date next.

[@SuperDeuser]

And it was her fault for getting herself into that situation by being in a relationship like that

[@nasur1n156]

@@SuperDeuser huh???

[@rymmmmm]

@@nasur1n156 he’s basically saying that the relationship was doomed from the start because it was an open relationship. You can search it up if u don’t know what it is but I agree cuz if ur going to be in an “open relationship” then it’s doomed imo

[@nasur1n156]

@@rymmmmm yep i didnt really pay attention to the "open relationship" part. that's why i was kinda perplexed. thanks lmaoo

[@oweneastwood3445]

What I do know is that ending a relationship without talking everything through with your partner, no matter hard that is, and giving them closure, is one of the ultimately cruelest things you can do to a person. It happened to me 3.5 years ago and the grief and trauma hasn't subsided. I know it's trendy to applaud people for choosing to 'block and move on', particularly when the people doing so are women - but there is another side we don't see.

[@RayRayCharles98]

Ive gone back and forth about this concept a lot and with where Im currently at now, Id have to disagree. If someone wrongs you enough for you to want to end a committed relationship, the person who has been wronged doesn't owe the other person anything. If they want to just cut them off and block them, that's vaild. Giving the person that did the harm closure, especially if the person that was harmed truly doesn't need it to move forward with their life, that's a luxury rewarded to the person that did the harm and really isnt, or should it be, a requirement

[@josiebello4666]

I had a situation like this happen to me. I was 17, and I met this guy at a retreat for teens with trauma/addictions. We created a bond and started dating. We were dating for a few months and he wanted to have sex. I wasn’t ready bcuz I was abused so it was something I was scared of. The last time I saw him he said “maybe you’re just making your abuse up. You were a little kid, how could you remember”. That broke me. One day, he took a while to respond so I told myself it’s ok to not respond back quickly. I ended up not responding to him again, and he didn’t seem to respond back either. It’s been 10 yrs and although it seems like he didn’t respect me, I do feel bad for not breaking up with him in person.

[@randomnordmann4020]

@@RayRayCharles98 Who said anything about the dumped one doing any harm? It's usually the dumper who does the harm anyway.

[@frenchgirl5878]

I get it. But I personally don’t look for closure and it is best for me. I “block and move on” when people betray my trust. I do not owe an explanation or a declaration of my departure from the relationship when they’ve clearly ticked me over. And I don’t want to hear anything from them. I don’t want to give them the opportunity to manipulate me or gaslight their way back into the relationship. I’ve seen it happen too many time to let it happen to me.

[@MiladyToxic]

Ridiculous. Don't judge a person for blocking and moving on when you don't know the full story. Maybe they were assaulted. Maybe violated. Maybe abused. You don't owe anybody an explanation if they crossed serious boundaries.

[@winniejung]

2:55 ex: i want to fix things *two seconds later* im calling the cops

[@baddog2724]

The last message I have from one of my ex is "I'm doing fine, please stop harassing me, I thought I made it very clear" It just broke my heart every time I saw that, cause I just feel like a terrible person for disturbing her life. Now I have other problems need to deal with and no longer disturbing her due to too busy on fixing other issues.

[@akuabaryeh5181]

Wait is it legal for a job to inquire about your last relationship and request their information???

[@chill3282]

Depends the job. I know some political positions they can ask. I’m guessing this dude isn’t working for McDonald’s that’s fs

[@WoahhTeamJacob]

I’m wondering too. It has be something more lucrative

[@zaksharman]

@@WoahhTeamJacob maybe something like a police officer so that they can make sure the're not hiring a creep

[@megg2826]

I mean its neither legal or illegal to be asked about it. It depends on the job and career field

[@NewIdeas226]

Federal government jobs

[@chrispark7010]

The girl who was in an open relationship getting mad at her partner for going off with someone else is hilarious. Thats the definition of an open relationship.

[@michaelpark5681]

She's a selfish person. She wanted the benefits of being in such a relationship (dating other guys) only for herself.

[@julies8465]

She was toxic to be honest.

[@michaelpark5681]

@@julies8465 Absolutely.

[@sweetpea2182]

Open relationships still have rules and boundries. A common one is no friends co workers or exes. I think its strange for after they broke up but being open doesnt mean open to everyone

[@chrispark7010]

@@sweetpea2182 🤨 I’m pretty sure open relationships just mean you can sleep with whomever. And the couples fill in the rest of the gap with rules. I just find it ironic she said no to him being with another person even though that’s what they agreed to. It’s a evolutionary instinct that kicked in on her part, it’s called mate guarding in anthropology, that’s why open relationships don’t work.

[@yuli1_266]

Honestly, I don't remember my ex's last text, but I do remember one thing. The day my current boyfriend and I agreed to start dating, I got a notification from Snapchat that my ex sent a friend request. I didn't give him a chance, blocked him and now 2 years later..Im finally happy with my highschool sweetheart :)

[@yuli1_266]

Things get better when you forgive yourself and take time to heal

[@Godiswith_HER]

Yay! So important to let exes be exes. ❤

[@annushka999]

“I feel like i gave up a part of my heart to someone that wasn’t ready to receive it”

[@lea9977]

Definitely hurts losing someone your grew close to, and then heartbreak, betrayal, etc.

[@ajarmstrong355]

"Everything we had... I fucked up" Yes sir, yes you did. That knowledge should be enough to leave her alone

[@luci4087]

2:01 he was physically violent and manipulative. i’m sorry you had to go through that.

[@jacobzaranyika9334]

"Don't understand why someone else's learning experience has to come at the expense of traumatizing others" - couldn't have structured it better. That is our message to Canada. My son and I would have nothing else to say to Canada as a country but that one profound line. No mercy coming from us. Just lessons!

[@dianaadamo5574]

don't mean to be invasive ... but how did Canada as a country traumatize you? It just sounds super random

[@kats.5958]

Lol please spill the tea about Canada! 🤣

[@ayeshabaugh6620]

@@dianaadamo5574 They’re probably indigenous. Canada fucked up a lot of natives

[@katet8639]

What did Canada do to you and your son, if you don't mind me asking?

[@serene3175]

I thought Canada was nice?

[@rymmmmm]

“Oops yeah your for the streets bye” HAHA KING ☠️ 🙏

[@ItzMalick]

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[@nptrain3439]

Nah the “im going to try to convince him” is crazy

[@nidiaesperanza8003]

I genually don't understand what she means 😟

[@ashleyp02]

@@nidiaesperanza8003 the text was meant for her friend, not him, so she was trying to text her friend that she was gonna convince him that she didn't remember the kiss

[@ItzMalick]

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[@nidiaesperanza8003]

@@ashleyp02 damn :/

[@sarasmit1099]

The second girl deserves so much more. I just got mad watching this. I hope your life got so much better sweetie.

[@peachica]

Can someone please help me understand open relationships? I don’t understand why someone (the first one in the video) would be picky and stingy for their partner if they agreed to be in that situation in the first place where both partners are allowed to love another person.

[@darkestlight6784]

I think open relationships are more for not so trusting people. They dont wanna be hurt by cheating so they d rather have it open and honest. Growth and progress always happen and i think she ended up wanting him only to herself.

[@Moondragon1821]

​@@darkestlight6784 I've found that people in the kink/BDSM communities have GREAT open/poly relationships, because that community is already ALL about rules/boundaries/respect. But random vanilla Jane and Joe? Usually one party just wants to cheat without it being labeled as cheating and so they don't make proper rules/guidelines and someone always gets hurt.

[@Karmalu]

She’s insecure and controlling that’s why.

[@annap1340]

That was confusing for me too. Maybe their rule was that they can only see another person once?

[@ItzMalick]

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[@rheam3920]

When she said I look at the photos and realise how happy I looked and his smile kind of faded and I realised he wasn't happy anymore. I felt that. I don't know why. I've never been in a relationship but that hurt so bad.

[@rawanaa6689]

I don’t how people can do open relationships I get so jealous I would never be able to take it!!

[@escenaendo]

"I just don't understand why someone's learning experience has to come at the expense of traumatizing others". What that woman said... Extremely powerful, I feel so relatable...

[@kekw5153]

These text hurts but atleast they had the courage to tell them about it whilst others just straight up ghosting which is even worse for me honestly cause you wouldn't know if you should move on already or not

[@MadESG]

It’s so crazy how one moment someone can be so close to you, you think you’re going to spend the rest of your life with them.. then the next moment they’re just not a part of your life anymore. Even if nothing bad happened between you two , it just didn’t work out. You just think that person will always be with you no matter what. And then they’re not. It sucks

[@backgroundcharacter6991]

1st girl is crazy if she thinks she should still have some sort of say or control over the dude AFTER their relationship has ended.🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@ItzMalick]

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[@sepiajoy2871]

Yeah she didn’t give a lot of details, so it makes me wonder why she was so against him dating that person. Maybe “that person” was a toxic ex of hers or something idk

[@sabyayaas1318]

Which one? Which first girl, the one in t6be open relationship?

[@diana-rz3yo]

@@sabyayaas1318 yes

[@omegasage777]

@@sepiajoy2871 Because they were in an open relationship so when he wanted to see the same person twice, that must have been one of her boundaries (that she wasn't comfortable with) for the open relationship. So she enforced her boundary and he seemed to agree to it - (or not, if they broke up). Idk why he didn't just come clean and say he wanted to actually date the other person instead of being like "no it's not like that" - and then ending up dating them anyway LMAO. He agreed to be in an open relationship, so you have to be honest and communicate well if you want it to work

[@sgxsaint3130]

Just wanted to get this off my chest but it saddens me how someone you thought was the one could easily fall out of love for you in a snap, albeit its my fault but still.. All I can do now is grow and be a better person I guess

[@ItzMalick]

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[@BLACKGHOST21100]

About the first girl who said you're not alone to date that person after we break up.... girl bye he is allowed to do whatever 🙄

[@ellieandreson4506]

I tend to force myself to hate my exes because it’s easier to move on and forget about them…

[@ItzMalick]

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[@mistermazemusic]

"Ima try to convince him" ...... Jeez.

[@Kirbystare1992]

Thinking she did that on purpose

[@ItzMalick]

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[@zg5672]

Jeremy Fuller why would she do that on purpose? Genuine question

[@Kirbystare1992]

@@zg5672 it’s a way to avoid confrontation in a way people would rather do something to make someone stop talking to them rather than just explain to them why they don’t want to anymore.

[@zg5672]

@@Kirbystare1992 oh that makes sense, thanks for explaining!

[@apollolyon]

Even though its been almost 10 years, I still think about my first ex sometimes. Ive deleted everything and we sadly werent able to be friends. Even though he cheated on me at the end of the almost 5 year relationship, and broke my heart, I still hope he's doing well. I hope he was able to achieve his dreams and has found himself. I miss him sometimes.

[@ItzMalick]

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[@poojarawat1565]

Hey, I hope you are doing fine🙏

[@taeyoungkim9979]

You are worth so much more than him.

[@apollolyon]

@@taeyoungkim9979 I try to remind myself of that. It’s hard sometimes.

[@apollolyon]

@@poojarawat1565 Trying to be! Life has its up and downs. Just need to learn that healing isn’t a straightforward process. sometimes my healing takes a few steps back.

[@coolbreeze5683]

It's probably best just to be in a relationship with yourself after bad breakups. Sometimes you reflect back and think about all the crazy things you did for what you thought was true love. When you get that true respect and love for yourself, you realize those boundaries you need to set and to never get drawn into that craziness ever again. When you're in love with someone, it's like being drunk. When you love yourself first, it's like being sober.

[@randymarsh9488]

It's amazing how that girl at 6:50 still likes him after he stood her up even after riding The bus 300 miles to see him.

[@Red-ju4mi]

Been there. Y'all can ride the bus 6h to see me next time lol

[@seri4837]

@@Red-ju4mi nobody's gonna do that for you so keep dreaming lol

[@iShootClickers]

dude Randy?? LOOOL

[@darryldavis6063]

Sounds like an episode of Catfish

[@julienfraser5156]

umm he didn't ask her to, and she did it because she was jealous of his friend

[@kimberlyoakland7506]

Just got out of relationship a few months ago, and this absolutely breaks my heart. I miss her everyday.

[@christelle8572]

Same here. My ex broke up with me last month. I can't believe we came to that when a few months ago, she wanted us to get married...

[@sriyasv9269]

What amazes me is, how these people are still so brave enough to keep these messages.. Seeing them after going through such a painful experience is just rubbing salt in the wound. It's too painful to even watch.. Poor souls.. 😖

[@wrenfinnelan5928]

Ivie's boyfriend sounds exactly my ex. Cheated on me several times, and then put his hands on me and started getting nasty once I tried to leave. Sent manipulating messages, such a narcissist.

[@ishahelen]

Its really fascinating that they r able to talk about their exes especially after what they had gone through

[@Marcos-1007]

Hurts a lot the fact that the person you loved so much, and you have for best friend, and one day total silence... He is like your enemy... That's sucks

[@Chillbeats7111]

I loved him so hard and his last msg was like 'I thought that we should not talk.'

[@baked2617]

About 3 years ago I ended a 2 year long relationship with my now ex girlfriend because of a deep depression which I regret every day still since she opened up to me and told me about her past and how she also had been depressed. I miss her everyday even though I don’t even have contact with her anymore. She was perfect in every way possible and I know that she would have just comforted me if I would’ve letten her known about my depression but instead I broke up with the girl of my dreams and fell into an even deeper depression where I didn’t go to school for over 2 years.

[@Mooner_9]

Heartbreak hurts more than someone's death. The person is still alive and is available for everyone else, except you :)

[@DoubleUProds]

Absolutely asinine take, my dude.

[@Xhoven]

The grief that comes from the loss of a loved one is on a different level from anything else. There are no "other fish in the sea" to fill the hole in your heart, it is a permanent hole that can never be filled.

[@marry1321]

That's EGO

[@ramzmocro7687]

@@Xhovenmaybe you should try to stop comparing pain. A loss is a loss and someone can feel the same pain intensity in a break up and a death. It’s a common concept in psycology.

[@Xhoven]

@@ramzmocro7687And yet, you're only telling me to stop comparing pain, even though the original post was also someone comparing pain saying that heartbreak is worse than death...

[@thegrabbindragon9834]

Watching this makes me feel bad about what happened to me and my ex. We ended in bad terms but we are still “friends” I guess on Instagram. Me and her are both in a relationship but I feel like I need to get the stuff off my chest about what happened to us. I know what I did was wrong and I have wronged her. I’m sorry Christine . I hope one day you can forgive me.

[@aiyannamunguia4030]

Does your girlfriend know you text your ex and think about her?

[@emrod9577]

You took The Glimpse of Us song way too seriously😭 leave your gf alone dude stop leading her on

[@dmitrykoveshnikov]

@@aiyannamunguia4030 I suppose he is not thinking about her. He is dwelling on his actions in the past

[@caidyc]

What potential employer asks for info from past relationships? NO ONE. It’s against the law. He is playing you.

[@FlaccidAcid]

Pretty sure serious government jobs ask you for this. They also ask that you quit your previous job and stay under observation in the city where the potential job is for a period of 6-9 months depending on the organisation for multiple reasons but mainly to show that you can support yourself in that time.

[@luf4rall]

Some jobs that require some sort of security clearance or working in vulnerable sectors

[@Sabrinaaa36]

ivie is so pretty and she didn’t deserve that

[@AntoineBandele]

8:43 - Baller

[@TheJazzDoll]

The girl with the open relationship can't stop the guy from seeing someone once they're broken up. If the guy wants to see that person she doesn't get a say.

[@KingKing-op7ts]

That’s why it’s sometimes better to be alone, no one can hurt you

[@darryldavis6063]

Those damn movies. I know exactly how that first guy feels. It hurts when you at least thought you had a friendship that meant something. Even when you say you're done you still question if you did something wrong or misunderstood. It makes you question your judgment.

[@leilazhu1321]

When I went through my photo with my ex, I found out how unhappy he looks in the photo too. How blind I was.

[@gabrielawilde]

He told me “You were an option, and I didn’t choose you. Get over it.” This was yesterday 😕

[@Ayalaula]

You deserve better! ❤️

[@mpd9695]

You can do a million times better than that person, I promise you. He's doing you a favor in the long run, because you're going to find someone so much kinder and more compassionate.

[@lilnotmaster6094]

Well... Sucks

[@saba1867]

@gabrielawilde Omg I’m so sorry, I can relate tho - ive been through almost the same sh*t a month ago, it hurts so much in your confidence ! He doesn’t worth your time and your energy. Be strong 💪 !

[@gabrielawilde]

@@Ayalaula thank you! 🤍🤍

[@mperzats]

“I gave a part of my heart to someone that wasn’t ready to receive it.” Damn, like a bullet.

[@michaelireefe8118]

I unfortunately have to stay in contact with my abusive ex as we share a son. So my last texts are at least cordial, but I really detest the fact I still have to communicate with the dude who used me as a punching bag for the last 2 years of our 9 year relationshit.

[@waterlily5592]

I'm so sorry for that. Stay strong.

[@stephanea5364]

You loved that bad boy, ignored all the red flags. Still sorry for you but take accountability for your poor choices in men. He didn,t suddenly start punching you 7 years in the relationship. He showed violence way before that, don't lie.

[@waterlily5592]

@@stephanea5364 You have no idea about abusive relationships, don't you?

[@stephanea5364]

@@waterlily5592 Yeah I know that every single one of abused people ignored the red flags to get that thrill with the bad boy or bad girl.

[@waterlily5592]

@@stephanea5364 one of my cousins got married to a successful bank worker. He was very nice and polite. It wasn't till after they got married that he started hitting her. You haven't been in a one, so stfu. :)

[@CactusJack252]

That last guy is a true 👑👑👑👑👑👑 Great job knowing your worth!

[@سلامہريکے]

the girls were 👑👑👑👑👑 not mAleS

[@rais14]

i'm here to give ivie the biggest hug.

[@MusiqueEnchantment]

Damn.. how do people keep their ex’s text messages? As soon as they leave I literally delete everything leaving no trace of theirs 😭

[@TESkyrimizer]

same. memories are painful. and bitter.

[@belam3950]

“ I'm not only losing a partner, I'm losing a friend “ when she said that i started to cry because i know exactly what she meant, two huge losses that end up with you… that’s so so sad