: Don't listen to divisive Self-Haters, misery LOVEs company. Odd how so many ppl got advice for others while their lives are in shambles 🤨. We need each other to progress. #biguptoblacklove
@leowilliams64372 жыл бұрын
When U hang with DOGs 🐶 🐕 🐩 you’ll get fleas.Where’s the accountability 4 the men women chose? There r a lot of honest,hard working,faithful men certain women don’t want them.There r men who r struggling and all they need is a woman to believe in them and really give a damn.Modern women r materialistic and greedy,and only care about money.They will destroy there husband,children,and there whole race just to get a bag 💼
@BriannaLifeCoach2 жыл бұрын
Stop promoting struggle love. We have enough dysfunctional relationships. No any man isn’t always better than no man. Y’all never learn. 😂
@leowilliams64372 жыл бұрын
Men aren’t the enemy. We r ALL on the same side.We r the only race that openly dishonor and disrespect ourselves and each other.The Asians,Jews,Whites,or Latino’s don’t do it.Our ancestors who never saw freedom fought and died 4 our freedom.Why to call each other Niggas and at like ones 2? We stayed married and stuck together. We began unification in the 60’s. They killed our leaders and flooded our neighbors with crack and military weapons.There’s POWER In UNITY!
@msve37302 жыл бұрын
" I'm simply glad he picked me" I hear you Judge Toler
@doneishajackson80842 жыл бұрын
They some haters
@MsJoyce312022 жыл бұрын
❤️
@kandi341382 жыл бұрын
Yeeeees! 😄 I love that she said that!!!!"
@carolh73092 жыл бұрын
Go ahead girl do your thing can't nobody pick your shade tree.
@granvillewalkerjr.83942 жыл бұрын
@@carolh7309beautiful analogy. Very well expressed!
@vanessawilliams4432 Жыл бұрын
My husband lost his job before we married, my sister told me I shouldn't take care of him! Before we said "I do", he said he had a surprise for me. Afterwards he let me know he was hired at the fire dept an just bought a home thru the VA! Those were the happiest 45yrs I had before he passed in 2018, ur heart always know when others don't!!!!🙏❤️🤗
@thececman8 ай бұрын
Sublimity!!
@LataraReed5 ай бұрын
THANKS 4 SHARING THAT WONDERFUL STORY,,, OTHERS DONT KNO CUZ ITS NOT THEIR JOURNEY AND RARELY NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS EITHER #TRUTHSBTOLD #SORRY4YOURHUBBYSPASSING😊
@50PlusSelfcareJourney3 ай бұрын
True.
@lashondragray40352 ай бұрын
True❤
@tjohnson66222 жыл бұрын
See what happens when there's two people in a relationship
@yvettesinclair17172 жыл бұрын
And in love with each other. Just beautiful.
@EshhhaBenjamite2 жыл бұрын
Amazing. You better say it 🗣️
@preciousblackstone50512 жыл бұрын
Now that's an excellent observation!
@mwaller52502 жыл бұрын
Right....
@yvettesinclair17172 жыл бұрын
You know it's gotten to be sad times when folk criticize two people for trying to make life work. This lady is on social media stating her claim, it wouldn't be me, because Frankly, my dear," it's none of our business what route her husband and she takes to make life work for them. I've always liked her because she's so real, and she's loving, and caring with her realness.
@isaidajhooks7631 Жыл бұрын
I’d rather be a “pick me” than a “pass me around”! You’re an inspiration ❤️
@positivelove44411 ай бұрын
Wow!!! Very powerful yes indeed😊❤️🙏🏾
@DHall_onYT7 ай бұрын
Come'on now! That's a word!
@rlly_james_smh17442 жыл бұрын
Her intellect while infusing humor in a message with puns is amazing...
@BijinMCMXC2 жыл бұрын
Lol she said one thing and it was not amazing
@girlygirl18902 жыл бұрын
@@BijinMCMXC It wasn't amazing to you, but it was a point that needed to be said. She simply accepted her husband for "WHO" he was, not "WHAT" he was and gave him a chance at a meaningful relationship. It ended up benefitting BOTH of them in the long run and they now have a happy, prosperous marriage that MANY can learn from. So, yesssss THAT IS *AMAZING* and people can learn from that.🙂 (Glad she said it.)
@BijinMCMXC2 жыл бұрын
@@girlygirl1890 Bruh I didn’t need an explanation. My comment went over your head.
@sereneamani1713 Жыл бұрын
@@BijinMCMXC Your comment went over my head too. Whose head, other than yours, did it reach?
@greezythumb2 жыл бұрын
Your husband isn't a simp. He's a smart guy that appreciates what he has in you. He saw your worth and he SET the tone by pushing you and supporting you by sacrificing himself to move in unison with you. Team effort. That's beautiful. Congratulations judge.
@passionturner2982 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@snipercatch62922 жыл бұрын
A gamble that stood the best of times thus far. Hope both go to the end
@chanellovely28362 жыл бұрын
Very nicely articulated
@clarkclarke2 жыл бұрын
sacrifice himself ????
@clarkclarke2 жыл бұрын
I'll day it again Sacrificed himself????? 🤔 Therr is something.called communication .... They both sacrificed .... It's ok to delete again .
@virgobee232 жыл бұрын
As long as folks are happy and it's working for them. That's all that matters.....
@elainecongo38272 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE!
@malakahbanathyasharahla23022 жыл бұрын
I know that's right 👍💯.
@aleciadixie55432 жыл бұрын
Amen speak
@reppinbkny9752 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@keeshmason4662 жыл бұрын
This dope! People Forget to be Happy
@mr.emaaejae60588 ай бұрын
Judge, your husband wasn't a simp, he was a real man true to his feelings! That man really really truly LOVED AND CARED ABOUT YOU!
@myrahj14822 жыл бұрын
And now they've been happily married for over 30 years with 6 sons. Learn from her wisdom ✨️
@krissyskreations2 жыл бұрын
@@luckyorion9634 And… She never said, he wasn’t or financially able to take care of his 4 kids that he had before her. I think I missed your point.
@femdivinemind7777 Жыл бұрын
@@luckyorion9634 she has 6 because she loves those boys
@charlinecharlostin3188 Жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful
@AnastasiaBeaverhousn Жыл бұрын
@@krissyskreations yes she did!!! She said he got his shit together once he saw what SHE was doing!!! WTF would he live his meal ticket 🤡🙄
@mascottie8 ай бұрын
He had already passed away when you left this comment.
@shaireenali93562 жыл бұрын
This woman is beyond just exemplary. She's a woman I look up to as a human, as a person. 👍🏽
@Carla-lj2wx2 жыл бұрын
@Shaireen I have admired her for over 25 years. She looks amazing. Hasn't aged..
@rasheeda13032 жыл бұрын
Judge stay on point👍
@mariagomes98822 жыл бұрын
Advisor, friend…. You name it! She’s the real deal, there’s nothing fake about her! Great human being! Love you, Judge!❤️💜🌹❤️
@Yellow-et1ig2 жыл бұрын
She is the BEST🌹🌹🌹🌹💯🏆👀
@lorrainealves45052 жыл бұрын
Me too
@cynthiaspencer9994 Жыл бұрын
It's not how you start but how you finish. ❤️ you owe us no explanation.
@Emily_CM Жыл бұрын
I think she’s telling us so we can learn from her story.
@stacytucker1677 Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@osamawilliams9042 Жыл бұрын
Mr. Eric Mumford LOVED HER & SHE LOVED HIM. Case Closed ❤️
@NormanBrown-s8i Жыл бұрын
Amen, 🙏 Amen 🙏. Know matter what you do there will be always be someone who wants to tell you what to do or how to do it. You don't owe us no explanation about your life or your family. We truly love you and we are praying for you and your family.❤ ❤❤❤. Most people who are talking about you don't have their own life together. ❤❤
@KimBlaQue Жыл бұрын
On the contrary. How you start is how you end. Her situation was the expectation, not the rule.
@michellethomas5094 Жыл бұрын
I love her transparency.. Never worry about what other folks think about you. So many people are unhappy & dont even know what LOVE is.
@fredajohnson5067 ай бұрын
Amen
@kck23032 жыл бұрын
“I’m simply glad he picked me” wow, love it.
@rotimi53632 жыл бұрын
One of the most global accepted judge, we appreciate u and wish you long life.
@fay21692 жыл бұрын
You aren't a pick me and he isn't a simp. You're both smart because you recognized that your love was genuine, you were both good team mates, and you executed your plans together. That's called intelligence ma'am
@michaelpeterson1928 Жыл бұрын
Ms. Judge if more black woman was like you, you actually Loved him ,he loved you too , My God , I`m so proud of you ,that you actually shared a truth ,you are loved by those of us ,who looked for real love, the type of love you have. If I could hug you XXXXXXX, you are so special .Thank you for speaking Truth!!!!!!!!!!!!
@tinytowz4471 Жыл бұрын
Preach!
@Shi2232 Жыл бұрын
Agreed well stated ❤
@tinytowz4471 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@wendellbradley5032 Жыл бұрын
Sisters and BrotherMan ; It’s about if truth is there ; you both are about each other as ‘one’, then it will Work! Do your Works !
@jayd64462 жыл бұрын
Sounds like two people came together and made the best decision for the household.
@Gumbier_Than2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. All this red pill, manosphere, pick me, some crap is getting on my nerves. Can't we just be good for each other without all of this mind game s***?
@theisisreincarnate2 жыл бұрын
Maturity 101 , respect & focusing on what's best for everyone. Greatly lacking these days
@jayd64462 жыл бұрын
@@Gumbier_Than duty comes first, then happiness but happiness comes from within and God
@Gumbier_Than2 жыл бұрын
@@jayd6446 exactly. Love is responsibility.
@janiniawilson80512 жыл бұрын
amen to that!
@amenagraham1490 Жыл бұрын
Now that’s real love he put everything down for her and invested in her dreams 🥺💕 rip prayers to her and her family
@Rio-uv1gs2 жыл бұрын
The fact she says "im glad he picked me" lets you know no matter her status and job title she hasn't let that get to her head to where she thinks her husband is below her. In other words her image of herself isn't incapsulated in her job title.
@benjaminjr63222 жыл бұрын
I think, inspite of every thing. She needs to let go.
@benjaminjr63222 жыл бұрын
Regardless of what. All men are off high value.
@aliciamorris5054 Жыл бұрын
@@benjaminjr6322 Wait…..What?
@tinytowz4471 Жыл бұрын
@@benjaminjr6322 What in the world?
@KevinSmith-xt8xr Жыл бұрын
So many woman would understand it alot better if they read your comment. Like you literally made it so simple 🤌🏾🤝🏽
@willettewilkerson3254 Жыл бұрын
The bottom line is everyone wants to be "picked". The beauty in this is that they both realized their purpose was propelled by the love they had for one another! I call that divine purpose 💜
@janinehamilton1986 Жыл бұрын
AllllllRight now Judge. you be happy. people need to tend to thir own business!!
@WasItSomethingUSaid Жыл бұрын
A to the man
@katherinekaufman9856 Жыл бұрын
Nicely said!
@rowenaramsaran4256 Жыл бұрын
I Love That 😍😍😍
@commonsenceaintsocommonnom1496 Жыл бұрын
Not the ones that say "I dont need no man"
@janettedesilier10182 жыл бұрын
Judge Tolers wordplay is unmatched 😂 “I’m simply glad he picked me”
@b.c.thefoodscientician36462 жыл бұрын
That's the part that shut every negative opinion down. Blessings come from what you do for others. See what happens when we don't worry about insecure people opinions.
@MONEYAINTATHANG1002 жыл бұрын
another self proclaimed sick person, that's all she could get
@PicklezTV Жыл бұрын
that was barrrrrrsssssssss 🤣🤣🤣
@toddmuhammad3827 Жыл бұрын
Judge Lynn Toler was compassionate and nurturing towards humanity and the litigants who came into her courtroom. She looked at everything and analyzed it from both perspectives. She was for the black men as well as she was for black women. She just wanted the black race to live in peace & harmony with each other that is fostered by genuine love and mutual respect.
@charmainesimpson79872 жыл бұрын
That's what makes any relationship successful two people that compliment each other
@mgtow-balance34092 жыл бұрын
and also complement each other
@rocjones65432 жыл бұрын
Ty👍
@ZartanXL2 жыл бұрын
You know guys dont understand that, there'd be MORE successful marriages.
@kenyattathompson6685 Жыл бұрын
@@ZartanXL just you saying that says it all for you
@lmgeranaeava9749 Жыл бұрын
He's a visionary for the marriage and SAW how far you BOTH could go if he took the time to support you and EACH other in partnership. He's a REAL man! Congrats on being BLESSED!
@charliegage3712 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@williamholloway5789 Жыл бұрын
Well it didn’t work for me 35 years of marriage gone because I was without job and stay at home like she wanted…our children turned out really well
@lmgeranaeava9749 Жыл бұрын
@@williamholloway5789 I don't know all the details of your marriage. Sorry things didn't work out.
@just_shaeee Жыл бұрын
@@williamholloway5789 So sorry this happened to you. Can you guys do therapy? Also what of that was your purpose to mold God fearing children who will change the world? God bless your family.
@rockyhorrorshow7990 Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!! He saw her worth with his own and supported his wife, while not allowing his pride to take over. Rest In Power King.
@DivineIshma2 жыл бұрын
She's even more beautiful without make up 🥰
@sandraatkins25392 жыл бұрын
She is a gorgeous, intelligent lady.
@malakahbanathyasharahla23022 жыл бұрын
Yes
@TheCoach11112 жыл бұрын
That’s natural beauty more Melanated women should try it they have no idea most Melanated men love it
@joannaferrara58842 жыл бұрын
I know she's beautiful!
@joannaferrara58842 жыл бұрын
@@TheCoach1111 exactly!!!
@amalmac9943 Жыл бұрын
My Deepest Condolences to you Judge Lynn…🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@MsLoveToU2 жыл бұрын
I’m never going to grow tired of saying, “I love every fiber of this woman’s being. She is the epitome of class, natural beauty and wisdom!” ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@MsDes3072 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100% sis @Kassandra Love Judge Lynn is an amazing woman and a Woman Of God who I do take positive advice from I totally love her!
@DrDisinfect_TheWorld Жыл бұрын
DAMN! Mic Drop. This is true wisdom from a real woman.
@queenprincess4life Жыл бұрын
Men aren’t marrying women these days. Her husband had full custody of his kids and was already in his career. Today’s boys are not the same.
@sunshinevibez6057 Жыл бұрын
Most definitely.✅
@soniaswank9802 Жыл бұрын
I love Judge Lynn.... she's always on point and showing people different ways to see things and think different. She vibrates on a whole other level ❤
@directorytaliwag41002 жыл бұрын
That’s why she is such an overwhelmingly successful personality. Judge and Hubby are crushing it.
@carobrown9498 Жыл бұрын
Married a paramedic on child support with 4 kids 10 years ago. Here we are 2 babies and 4 ppties later. Has it been easy, no way. He is now a Captain EMT supervisor / IT guy and i have been cruising my rather nice accounting career. Lived in 2 bedroom shitty condo we renovated for 5 years... no rent !! Has it been easy? Hell no !! But this class act right here has been my inspiration! ❤ in Hubby i saw an incredibly smart dude who had place to go.😊😊
@Blackboyworld Жыл бұрын
She just from a different generation that stick together no matter what. This generation quits with the sunset.
@FamousSuperStar7 Жыл бұрын
Say it louder for the people in the back!!
@templeofman Жыл бұрын
They are weak
@shantelparkinson5248 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goddddd yessssss
@yihannajohnson3711 Жыл бұрын
As we should
@yihannajohnson3711 Жыл бұрын
I'm not staying with a rapist, criminal, or cheater.
@elijahexpecttheunexpected26002 жыл бұрын
“I’M SIMPLY GLAD HE PICKED ME”… BARZ 🔥🔥🔥
@BriannaLifeCoach2 жыл бұрын
Dumb shit
@roxiewatters11612 жыл бұрын
For real 😊
@johnshort79732 жыл бұрын
FIIYAA 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@nicholashayes57732 жыл бұрын
That's some Andre 3000 wordplay right there.
@Tankbrown40482 жыл бұрын
Only black women who can't find/nor keep a man says shiii like that
@tonyabrown95972 жыл бұрын
Alright now Judge that’s what I call working together.
@bmack6180 Жыл бұрын
Sincerest sympathy to you and your family.
@greatamericancookies25462 жыл бұрын
I love the way she puts and speaks on things. She could easily be arrogant in sharing her life lessons. But she’s not. She makes it easy for men and women to absorb what she’s saying. She’s teaching us lessons while she’s teaching us lessons. Are we seeing and listening?😊
@blankmandastankman2 жыл бұрын
People are just speaking on these buzzwords cause they create hella engagement to the algorithm. Nobody cared about either of these two words until they took ablaze on the internet. Now you see people of all shapes sizes and status speaking their opinion as if it’s the golden advice hoping to make their way across the internet. This the same woman (yes people can change) who was advocating for a young lady in her court room to go out and “experience” in the dating world
@KnowbuddiezBusiness2 жыл бұрын
@@blankmandastankman Advocating that the young woman experience the dating world does not mean that she was advocating having sex with many different men. Dating is just going out and having a good time with someone, which does not mean having sex with them. If a man truly likes you, he will know not to expect sex, especially on the first date. A date is supposed to be a way for people to get to know each other, to learn about each other, past experiences in life, hopes and plans for the future, things of this nature. Talking about past relationships all through the date let's the other person know that you don't know how to move on, which is actually pretty immature. Our society has become much more sexualized since the 1980's. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex, but as a society, it seems as though everything has become centralized around sex, our music, movies, TV shows and now they want to teach very young children about sex in school. I think it's high time that we stop focusing on sex and "gender" and start focusing on teaching our children and ourselves how to become the best version of ourselves. Young men and women today don't want to become a doctor or lawyer, they want to be "famous". I personally don't understand that, I'm not one who wants to be famous, I just want to be appreciated for what I am and what I can do to help others in whatever way I can. I wish more young people would just STOP, LOOK AND LISTEN to all there's people making noise today. Maybe if they did that, they'd see how foolish they look and sound. I digress,sorry. I'm Just Sayin
@FreeSpiritMom2 жыл бұрын
@@blankmandastankman she’s an opinionated person, hence her being a judge. She was doing this before algorithms mattered on IG. Some people do enjoy sharing their thoughts and opinions. She never tells the same thing to every single person. She listens to their particular situation and circumstances and give them advice based on their needs. Doesn’t matter if it’s buzz words or not. That’s like saying “no one cared until they saw it on the news” “no one cared until we learned it in Science class” lol who cares about that? We speak on what’s going around all of the time. Nothing is the matter with relevancy.
@blankmandastankman2 жыл бұрын
@Free Spirit Mom “simp” and “pick me” are the buzzwords for clout & are blazing the search engines on the internet. I’m agreeing w what you’re saying about her, but I disagree w you saying she’s not reaching here. You can speak on the dangerously selfish condition of the dating world, without tryna go viral. That’s everyone’s problem, they’d rather go viral talkin to us how we like rather than upset people w the truth.
@blankmandastankman2 жыл бұрын
If you think having guys around to date for free meals, time and attention is ok, then just say that. Judge Lynn was referring to physical intimacy too when she said go gain experience. Maybe not lead with physical intimacy, but to think you can just go around habitually dating as a non virgin without putting out, is not what judge lynn meant. What type of guys do you expect to want to date you with that mindset?
@SnowPink902 жыл бұрын
My hubby and I had a 16yrs age difference with him being older. People didn’t give us 3yrs before we’d be getting a divorce. We went through hell and back a few times with it being no fault of our own. We were married for 30yrs 355 days the day he passed away. June/21 is etched in my memory minute but minute. He was my everything. People who love you should be happy seeing how happy you are, period!! Positiveness goes a long way and so does kindness. Everyone should think of those 2 words before saying, texting, emailing or commenting. Everything would run a bit smoother in their lives. 🥰
@mieeshac6545 Жыл бұрын
God bless you ❤
@SnowPink90 Жыл бұрын
@@mieeshac6545 Thank you🥰
@quintillabatts94722 жыл бұрын
You two were blessed to find each other. Still together and happy that's the main thing no one is perfect but you two were perfect for each other. That's all that matters.
@greeneyedlady84262 жыл бұрын
So true
@Yellow-et1ig2 жыл бұрын
indeed💯🏆👀
@wantitwrite2 жыл бұрын
They are still together because he gets to rest in his femininity while she works hard to pay all the bills…a Black man’s dream💭
@maniacslap16238 ай бұрын
Sounds like 2 adults that actually knew their strengths and weaknesses AND kept it real with each other and themselves. A unicorn relationship. We need more stories like this.
@keithpreston72522 жыл бұрын
Real men play the long game The future
@karengibson97772 жыл бұрын
You said that King 👑 !!
@karengibson97772 жыл бұрын
You said that King 👑
@themuseoriginal Жыл бұрын
Bless
@trustc12142 жыл бұрын
So True. You stood your ground. Your husband is a Gem. JEWEL. just for you. God bless you both. Thank you 🌹 😊 💓 ☺️ lord
@Adarnae2 жыл бұрын
❤
@rstepney632 жыл бұрын
When I met my wife I was 19 and had a construction job right outta high school in 1990, got layed off in 1991 due to the war, I started to deliver news papers and all her freinds told her to get a baller and she said no way because her father told her that any man that works can make things happen. Now 32 years later she doesn’t have to work if she doesn’t?
@dbig48d2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you both. Great example and inspiration for our people
@lornaellis6322 жыл бұрын
- 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌟
@portiaparker16692 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! You both made excellent choices ❤💞
@bw43482 жыл бұрын
A key factor is that she had a father in her life who gave her good advice.
@lowtolerancelevel37762 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on retirement. 🤣
@allexramsey90158 ай бұрын
Agreed. It's a new language. YOU DO YOU!!! 👍🙏♥️😇
@smart22cute Жыл бұрын
I love this, I seen her years ago at a nail shop in Phoenix and she was so down to earth. A beautiful soul. So glad she shared this ❤ 💯
@Gypsygirl9 Жыл бұрын
You can totally see it! Her soul shines through. Beautiful energy.
@tonia85612 жыл бұрын
There are not many men who drop anything for any woman, even those he love…you found a diamond in the rough! Congratulations to you girl! ❤️
@jayguider23282 жыл бұрын
Yes there are….
@Spartakiss2 жыл бұрын
Their are they are just not the ones being chosen
@ashmoe_bangs79862 жыл бұрын
Sweetheart, if a quality man ain’t giving you anything it’s because you are not worth it. Stop shaming men because you are of low quality.
@ksimms4352 Жыл бұрын
Cause her energy is right she figured it out that's why she won to bad all this will fall on def ears ashame
@MelaniaRose Жыл бұрын
@@ashmoe_bangs7986 all men think they are quality when they aren’t 😂
@gfngivinflowersnow65302 жыл бұрын
Tell'em Judge, y'all did it together. So defining BlackLove
@kindfriendly6610 Жыл бұрын
She’s always on point and way ahead of anything you throw at her. She’s someone we can all learn from and hope our kids aspire to. She listened to her parents and elder’s growing up. I didn’t like her at first and thought she was condescending. I finally LISTENED to her speak one day and I’ve been an admirer and fan since that day. She’s someone I wish I had on speed dial at times. She’s not finished. There’s more to come, stay tune😊
@gamelord31352 жыл бұрын
I freaking LOVE her and always have, not in an inappropriate way of course bcuz she's married but bcuz she's always seemed sincere humble and genuine even to be on a tv show
@KudjoDRebel2 жыл бұрын
I love her in all the ways even the inappropriate one
@gamelord31352 жыл бұрын
@@KudjoDRebel hey, no judgement here, pun intended lol
@lindalovett742 жыл бұрын
Not missing out on a good man bcz different labels keep popping up to try to dictate my life. He pick me, I pick him we work.
@kenrickkahn2 жыл бұрын
That's the way it should be! Supposed to be in Today's world..
@kaim18102 жыл бұрын
Yes I’m here for it girl!
@norasmith35542 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THAT STATEMENT. Your husband was high value because he really showed his love for you. God bless you both.
@7SKYBALLER2 жыл бұрын
And SHE showed her love for him when she made that move for the divorcee of four children
@nemavenus91562 жыл бұрын
@@7SKYBALLER Nope she is still married
@benitaheckstall8730 Жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL ❤️ THANKS FOR SHARING!! 🙂 🙏LOVE YOU 💕
@dashoneconner2 жыл бұрын
I hv never seen a judge who iz more real. ur analyst of marriage and sense of reality is like none other. thk u Judge
@CreativeThinking522 жыл бұрын
Amen Judge Toler. Our society believes in labels. Thank God you're sharing your beautiful story. God bless you both. ♥ ♥ 🙏
@fusion22982 жыл бұрын
She dropped a real gem right here.
@Diaspora_roots_global8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the wisdom
@Trusthimonly12 жыл бұрын
He understood the assignment and your purpose. Love your story... Glad he picked me...
@cutnup2style2 жыл бұрын
Simply proud of you two! Awesome 💑 !
@alexfrazier69482 жыл бұрын
"I'm SIMPly glad he PICKed ME." I see whatcha did there. Dope play on words.
@geena80582 жыл бұрын
Definitely 👏🏾😊
@labrea6542 жыл бұрын
Wow. You are amazingly brilliant.
@alexfrazier69482 жыл бұрын
@@labrea654forgive me but as a poet and spoken word artists I like stuff like that. 😊
@lainygudger2 жыл бұрын
I love this
@BriannaLifeCoach2 жыл бұрын
Dumb
@kelleyceleste4560 Жыл бұрын
Condolences to her and her family!❤️
@skyewilson90762 жыл бұрын
Please do a relationship show cos this society needs real talk💯💯
@jazmindax22552 жыл бұрын
That is a wonderful idea.
@geena80582 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Onserio.2 жыл бұрын
Yeah we’re a hot mess 🥴
@tinytowz4471 Жыл бұрын
"Commit or Quit" WE TV
@blackdragon90772 жыл бұрын
She is just beautiful and down to Earth
@vee-vee66282 жыл бұрын
PREACH JUDGE 👩🏽⚖️ 💯 SAY THAT! HAPPY YEARLY 🥰 ANNIVERSARY!💞
@ritaree37 Жыл бұрын
I miss you Judge Lynn - Your words of logic and wisdom and how you delivered your words are much needed and respected.
@sharonwilliams52582 жыл бұрын
What works for someone else may not work for the next. But all of our lives are given to leave a positive legacy. So just continue being your best self! I applaud you judge. ❤️
@kenrickkahn2 жыл бұрын
What I love about her if I disagree or agree with her she is always real and you can tell she isn't faking the funk..
@godc11092 жыл бұрын
I hear yea, but the point of it is, if this world fell dead tmrw, which eventually it will, cuz nothing abt it is pure, would u rather hv a him/her that will stand by ur side that truly loves u, or a materialistic him/her that will leave u the next day if u ended up with nothing? It’s simply what it is, things that are here today, gone tmrw. An none of will go 6ft under when u go. Labels are for weak minded, lack of self worth, hide behind inner healing work that nds to be done. Labels mean nothing cuz the same company making them labels don’t care abt u/ make the off brand labels they sell to u. Simply ATT wireless- who owns Cricket wireless & others- still giving u the same services but named/prices diff😂 ppl should really wake up
@erickacampos62742 жыл бұрын
Omg!!!!!’ Iv ALWAYS FOUND DIS WOMAN 2 HV SCH A SPECIAL RADIANT LITE ABT HER SHES SOOOOOO BEYOND GORGEOUS SHE TRULY IS!!!!😍😍😍😍
@artbylauri2 жыл бұрын
I love how honest you are. You knew what you wanted and where you wanted to go. Your husband sounds wonderful
@arnethaearl8468 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@gallowaykevin8756 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations ! Same here I shut down My shop by humbling Myself to behold the things that is,was and is to come, was,is and is to come for their sake also in this way . God bless you Miss Lynn Toler for your uprightness of heart in these matters ! HalleluYAH !
@TheQUEEN-fy8sr2 жыл бұрын
She is such a strong beautiful sista queen 👑
@EshhhaBenjamite2 жыл бұрын
“I’m simply glad he picked me” I HEAR YOU❤! Most ppl who say “pick me” are often single anyways. You are fabulous and offer great advice judge. 🥰
@lorrainealves45052 жыл бұрын
My hero
@dreamland2022 Жыл бұрын
Nah most people who have a problem with the “pick me” term desperately wanna be picked, being single is hell for pickmes
@thelifewithgia2 жыл бұрын
I so love her! Ive learned so much from her divorce court days. ❤
@kandi341382 жыл бұрын
"YES YES YES!!!"
@justtam7792 жыл бұрын
Me too. I wish she was still on.
@karmagal1796 Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better. Kudos Dear Judge! Kudos! 👏🏼
@micki60222 жыл бұрын
He had good character to even get your attention. People need to look began the looks & money. Beautiful story!! Y'all are truly blessed!!! 💕🥰💕😘
@innocentlife23462 жыл бұрын
Well the other person got to be Financial stable so you won't hit and bump heads and you want to look halfway decent. 🤦♀️🤷♀️
@margieloya50182 жыл бұрын
How dare they judge you and your husband. Turns out you found a diamond in the rough and you are an exceptionally human being. God Bless you both🙏❤
@lisamichelle52382 жыл бұрын
This is how a love story should sound. I'm happy for all that you accomplished together ❤️
@michaelcoleman19 Жыл бұрын
You go Girl go and keep living a good life!.
@fredajohnson5067 ай бұрын
Amen she definitely blessed to have had a wonderful husband like him people just jealous
@patticakes54392 жыл бұрын
My mom married my dad with 10 kids, I'm so glad mama pearl picked my dad. She had no kids, a good job. Thank u god for putting her in my life
@InNature0082 жыл бұрын
@Welcome's House ...remember, 'Sharing is Caring!' 🤣✌🏾
@AS-wj1du2 жыл бұрын
Ok
@CreativelyKia2 жыл бұрын
Damn 10 😩 tho? She’s a trooper
@Chloeeezyyy2 жыл бұрын
I’m good love enjoy
@kenyattathompson6685 Жыл бұрын
So by this logic, to get a loyal wife you should go have a bunch of kids! I love the blk community
@mrsfleurant9466 Жыл бұрын
Being stuck on the labels is one the many reasons many sistas are single
@shanj8140 Жыл бұрын
100
@sandrakearney1265 Жыл бұрын
And, I have seen lots of married women that are putting up with a ton of crap from some jerk just to have that status, and nobody could pay me enough money to put up with their jackleg spouses. Being single is not a strike against any female. As my father put it, us picky single females send the bull walking. God brought me here single. A worthy partner should be a compliment, not a detriment or a headache to be with, otherwise he's not worth my time. I love peace, and I would rather have peace as a single than to marry a migraine. I have had to do everything all my life anyway, and the only trade off I have seen with some of these jerks is that their wives get to sleep with the jerks at night, but other than that, the wives are slaves, not partners. That kind of mess to endure just to have a partner is not worth the dead weight to me. This judge got a worthy partner. He's a package deal but he's with her all the way and she deserves a package deal packed with benefits. He marketed himself tough as a package deal and did not dud out on her, and I can't imagine her settling for anything less. They set a great standard as married partners and show me what to expect if I were to take that route. But singleness is not a crime for any woman.
@ms.ladysanders3939 Жыл бұрын
Many people. Not just women.
@ms.ladysanders3939 Жыл бұрын
@@sandrakearney1265 Amen!
@goldenlocss5917 Жыл бұрын
@@sandrakearney1265 what you SAID🔥🔥🔥 they always think single and no kids is bad or negative..lol smdh
@l.k.11112 жыл бұрын
She is so good, miss her! Timeless!
@Fauntazee Жыл бұрын
"I'm simply glad he picked me." Come on Judge! Say-That & speak that wisdom!💃
@steveyoung40162 жыл бұрын
Sista, I really miss seeing you on TV. I hope you are truly enjoying your time and space. Continue to be blessed.
@texan9032 жыл бұрын
She'll be back.
@dorothyvailes34472 жыл бұрын
She Said, "He Picked Me..".
@darleneharris68112 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful Judge. You're such an inspiration!
@kashacan61062 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 THAT PART........ I love her !!!
@phyliciajones1541 Жыл бұрын
When two really become one they’re on the same page therefore the sky is the limit. Well done🎉🎉
@AndreaClinton2 жыл бұрын
When you are a family and a team you work together. PERIODT!
@brianbayer4868 Жыл бұрын
this woman in the picture held me down when I was without a job for three years . he put this pic on my profile and I wasn't even mad
@sandraedwards42782 жыл бұрын
You did very well Judge Toler! Great advice for those who can hear. Thank you ❤️ So wonderful to see you!
@yolandaaustin4389 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real. A lot of us needed to hear this. 💜
@mmmfun772 жыл бұрын
I love her! Gorgeous . She is the very definition of emotional maturity
@ThankfullyBlessed7773 ай бұрын
Absolutely ❤
@andycremeans2 жыл бұрын
Well said sister ! ❤
@MC-xl2ff2 жыл бұрын
The world is flipped right now.
@sheed03-m6v2 жыл бұрын
Say it louder for the people in the back! 💯💪👸 Salute to a real Queen here!♥️
@kassimrayford71638 ай бұрын
I love Judge Toler. Shes so interesting and I greatly admire her perspective on things
@Fauntazee2 жыл бұрын
This is a woman's woman! Much respect & love for her! God bless her & everything she put her hands toward. Loving her natural look.
@jaiyabyrd41772 жыл бұрын
"I'm simply glad he picked me"‼️🔥🔥🔥
@cocean1582 жыл бұрын
The internet has destroyed what we used to define as dating.
@brianmeen21582 жыл бұрын
The internet and feminism
@mafamac40692 жыл бұрын
you haven't seen nothing yet just wait for 2026 you will see hell in real life
@johnlawful22722 жыл бұрын
@Lee Brown he right it is feminist but the second type that hijacked it the internet just help push it
@mikethompson2371 Жыл бұрын
Always Love fo ya Judge ❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊.
@brandywalker32702 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler ❤️
@judithreyes46642 жыл бұрын
Your so right I don’t pay attention to any of the labels it’s like my ears and mind just go blank. I do not compute.. 😂 I’m happy you found the love of your life and you both sacrificed to make a life you could both be proud of. Your wisdom have made a difference in the world. Please keep on making videos Judge this world needs your counsel. Many blessings to you and yours.
@leverage-fl9mi2 жыл бұрын
Having a significant other that supports your dreams, goals and path you've chosen is a true blessing. Anyone who has anything else to say about it has green eyes.
@joiisler89862 жыл бұрын
…. and Those are Crossed. Props to Judge Toler!
@portiaparker16692 жыл бұрын
@@joiisler8986 & they’re blind in one eye & can’t see out of the other 🤣🤣🤣
@jjdotj5028 Жыл бұрын
The breakdown was exquisite! I love her, she’s a phenomenal woman.