Judge Lynn Toler Says Women Should Never Hit A Man In His Weak Areas

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[@Perfekshuhnmorphs]

so it's OK for men to do all the wrong they do to women if they can't handle the smoke they bussyies 😊

[@davidobijr.7037]

God bless her.

[@ifyoucallmethenwordiwin]

problem......... the MODERN/FEMINIST/INDEPENDENT WOMEN dont give a F@#$K

[@ImGerald]

Hit a man where he's weak basically kills the relationship. Might as well say it's over, you're the enemy now.

[@solomonhunter9649]

Wish there was more women like her she schooled a lot of people on her show

[@yo3rdtier128]

Guy, at some point in life get a little stronger. Don’t be such a buttercup. If a woman hit me below the belt? I would LMAO because it make me none.

[@LetsDoSocialWork]

"My mother told me, she said, "Never hit a man where he's weak. Never. It could be true, it could be real, but you don't hit him where he's weak because it'll turn around on you. You can get him to do what you need him to do, but you never hit a man where he's weak 'cause they never forget it. It lives with them." -Judge Lyne Toller

[@randyperkins50]

I learned more about men from my father, grandfather and uncles. Best teaching ever.

[@joybrooks564]

If you profess to love someone, why would you say/do things to hurt them ? Period.

[@leonwhite864]

Because that's what we do as humans period

[@joybrooks564]

@@leonwhite864 Make that make sense.

[@Vipershadow1]

@@leonwhite864 it be the ones who claim to love u that be the ones to exploit the stuff you tell them the most in the worst ways

[@candacetyndall6142]

God Bless Judge Toler!

[@harveyhankerson8359]

Oh yeah.. she’s 💯 right about that !!

[@reignlove8741]

Yes because he was a GREAT man.🤔

[@RillaLord32212]

I love her... She's speaking absolute truth.. Hell, it's happened to me throughout my life, and I've never forgotten it.

[@ekell7472]

there’s a king and a fool in every man. feed the one you want to grow 😂

[@croaker9260]

There are some women who behave monstrous towards their men, and they wonder why those men cheat or leave. Not every disagreement is a chance to show your ass and hit below the belt. When you take it that far, the relationship will never be the same.

[@kikayei]

Gentleman, don’t ever talk to a woman about your fears, your secrets, your failures and every embarrassing moment you’ve been through because that’ll give her the ammo to hurt you. Be smart and keep your mouth shut.

[@tonisanders3289]

💯💯💯💯

[@jlove6346]

Same goes for woman too

[@galenjoyce8895]

Excellent advice.

[@ShadesOfIvory]

@@jlove6346 Ive seen this happen to a friend of mine. 🙏🏾

[@coderdecoder5947]

Agreed. I learned that before I became red pilled with women. Always display strength.

[@mazmazxavier3069]

Judge had a really emotionally intelligent mother. These are really good points and work both ways, for Men and Women. I am nearly 57 years old, I do not think, I will be in a relationship, as I have no trust in that part of my life.

[@robertepps2834]

The Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan said that Where is no discipline there is no love.

[@TheArtofToday.]

I saw this interview with the Judge & both my Mom & Dad always stressed & instilled these facts in me & my Siblings. Great advice many Black Women need to take heed to.

[@KuruptdMuzik]

They gon do what they want to do. And be the cause of their own bad decisions.

[@ImGerald]

too bad a majority of women don't take advice from anybody. Can't nobody tell them nothing.

[@charlesdorsey7594]

Coco skinned Brazilian woman!!!! HERE I COME!!!!!,🛫

[@DrineThePoet]

God bless her she always spoke highly of her late husband and I know it had to be devastating that he is gone. God bless her.

[@davismcmillian6790]

Special kind of lady. The judge.

[@pache7216]

I love Judge Toler,, everytime she speaks its with so much passion ❤️

[@wisdom7311]

I will say, out of most of the female Judges she was the most tolerable one when it came to Black Men in my opinion and she spoke plenty of wisdom with not only logic but the spirit of her emotions when it came to her people and her race of men showed. God Bless her soul

[@puuddoktr8243]

Definitely gotta aunty that could learn from this... But she's pushing 50+ I think she's done, and stuck in her ways... Amazing all of those failed relationships she's had she's never saw that common denominator of an attitude and being mouthy was the root... But go ahead women... Do u

[@appliancedude63]

I have a Mother, aunties, and cousins that are all the same. Can't keep a man because of their mouths and nothing is ever their fault. I feel sorry for their children.

[@jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71]

I agree with Judge Lynn Toler.

[@goldenbaby3608]

I love Judge Toler!! She represents "black" and real women well.......

[@lifetrust6080]

Their mouth and attitude is the problem.

[@keithwiggins299]

Women who do that to a man are really weak themselves. They learned this from childhood all the way up to adult hood and this is one of the reasons why some of these women get attacked.

[@AGoddessNavee]

She's an old school woman with morals_condolences to her on losing her husband🔥🔥

[@kenneycooper6199]

She’s absolutely correct. 💯

[@ShadesOfIvory]

Men shouldnt hit below the belt to women, either. It kills her inside(Ive seen it happen to a friend of mine). I think that why some switch teams at some points in their lives...🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

[@johannhowitzer]

@@ShadesOfIvory It's true that both do it, but relational aggression is the wheelhouse of women on the whole. You see this in teenagers; teenage girls tend toward spreading rumors, manipulation, attacking each other's self esteem, whereas boys tend toward direct physical confrontation and trash talk. This carries into adulthood; and while some men do this, women are far more likely to do it, and are far better at it. I'm a schoolteacher, and I see these behaviors in pretty much every classroom all the way from elementary through high school. Teachers are also great at stopping the boys before damage is done, but really rubbish at recognizing what's happening between the girls and stopping it in time.

[@simoncorporation3]

She's a wise woman for listening to her elders as we all should, especially when they pass on positive knowledge.

[@dorashelton1615]

I love Judge Lynn Toler. Hit him there IF you need to Defend yourself. No. Not just to be Evil. 😮😢

[@deejay5102]

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[@dpanman]

Oh really? Hyena logic to me

[@APG-fu6gk]

Not even THEN! If you feel like that is the ONLY way you need to be anywhere else.

[@johannhowitzer]

@@APG-fu6gk Yes. If you think "this is something I will use against him only when I need to defend myself," then you are already giving yourself permission and looking for a moment where you can tell yourself it's self-defense. Don't even enter that territory in your mind, that's already setting up your relationship to head that direction.

[@tqm7502]

I love her so much

[@omarcarnegie7614]

Me two she amazing women

[@samuelmahmud1909]

Great video coverage Phillip 💯 facts

[@saonedixon5476]

Women are great at hitting below the belt. They can mess your self esteem up. Especially if you're sensitive like myself. But you gotta love yourself and boost your own self esteem.

[@KM-iz6sg]

No one should hit another person at their weakest point; irrespective of gender.

[@richmitch4292]

I'll say men turn your weakness into strengths

[@jasondawson92]

Yep

[@tkodmusicBeats]

Ur right unc men are hurting themselves more often, depression among other mental illnesses has increased significantly with no support but plenty of shame

[@MsDisneylandlover]

Boths should keep them hands to themselves

[@ohreally1]

Take accountability women for your actions!

[@AphrooneRichardson]

Amen-RA! Thank you Judge Lynn Toler!

[@361Ratch]

I wish my mom told me things like this growing up. I use to put my husband down a lot. Just to hurt him so he could feel pain like I did. And it always bothered him. He would say words hurt they do stick. And not once did he ever say anything bad about me. It’s something I’m working on . And I don’t plan to belittle him anymore. I do it out of anger some times.

[@uriandropov8039]

I love that judge

[@MsDisneylandlover]

My aunt told me you never let a man play hit you. Bc if you let him play hit you and you do nothing. It can get real one day and he will really hit you and think he can get away with it.

[@googoo5922]

Hey sister. That can be the case. Not necessarily. But yeah it can be. Because if u play that too much. Some man(not all) don't know the fine line between play n reality. So perhaps you should be carefull in choosing a partner. Regardless what i say. Humans are complex and could even hit you even without playhitting. The most important part about arelationship is to have protection from family. Like your father or an uncle or anyone who can step in when stuff happens. We arabs when our daughters get hit or abused we dont say divorce. We basically f the man up. And he never does it anymore. Protection is key

[@googoo5922]

A human being is complex. Even without play hit someone may hit u. Protection is key. Your father uncle or cousin should be there for you when stuff like thid happens

[@daniellemyer73]

FACTZ & SHOUTS OUT TO QUEEN JUDGE LYNN TOLER👍🏾✊🏾🔥🙏🏾💜😊

[@deejay5102]

judge Lynn is my ole lady crush....I think she aging Phine as wine....and her wisdom is what makes her stand out...

[@joshuajackson7050]

Facts, she never ages, seems the older she gets the better she looks.

[@antionettawolfe9933]

My mother says the same thing

[@CorporateHoops]

I thank all of the heauxs that hit my weak points. This made me stronger and gave me the fuel to be successful.

[@hesterwalker671]

"GOOD KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM"!! 🙏🙏✝️✝️💜💜💜💜💜

[@abdur-raheems8648]

I love that lady, pray for her she recently lost her husband.

[@Lee85G]

Love judge Toler. Rest In Peace to her Husband. ❤

[@mataylor5]

We stress this for men yet no should hit anyone when they are down especially in our community I’ve seen men and women say harsh and hateful things I’ve seen couples turn confidential thing’s shared with each on one another

[@williamriley5118]

She’s right!

[@redemptiongemini]

She’s so beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤

[@brotherkevinnelson9555]

Disrespectful talk is a deal breaker.

[@rogerblewett5595]

She told the truth 💯

[@malikbeyard3473]

She’s absolutely right!

[@Vipershadow1]

Disrespect is a deal breaker for me I will not put up with it at all I’ve dealt with it enough wen I was younger

[@LinaLina-we4nl]

🗣She (Judge Lynn Toler) 👉🏼Told the Truth 👍☑️💜

[@lawrenceraibon88]

She is absolutely correct

[@ikickknowledge]

This is why brothers will have contempt for their female. This can destroy a family

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Judge Lynn Toler has been right always. Not only a male (boy or man) should not attack a female (girl or woman), a girl and woman do not need to attack a boy or a man. We all are created by one Sweet Gracious Great God, with the same blood, different hair, skin colors, even personalities, except the bad ones, and are in this world together. Like hatred, violence does not belong in the home, no matter what it looks like. We cannot change one another: only Sweet Gracious Great God can change a person, and He does it better than everyone else. All we do is love, pray for, and be nice to one another. It works better than exerting unnecessary strength, even with the mouth.

[@lisamc2590]

Judge Lynn is correct & rest in peace her husband

[@RomanHill-j1w]

Amen

[@yisraelyishay]

📢Peace And Love To The Family! (Shalom wa Ahab La Ha Mishpacha!)👳🏿‍♂️💎

[@jacoby1234ification]

You are 💯 right Phil some of this brings back memories for me

[@MrsPetal]

I love judge Lynn ❤️❤️🤲

[@mackmeal6964]

I believe bein attacked on a vunerable front sets trauma.

[@marilynu2681]

Judge Lynn Toler is absolutely correct I agree 100 percent. You have to know when to speak and when to keep your mouth closed. A relationship without mutual respect is DONE. Please do not hit below the belt.

[@timothym.salley3602]

Real talk Brother Phil valuable segment thanks and God bless 🙌 🙏

[@mrq4292]

I literally watch this video like 3 times today great video

[@calcan7162]

A women scorned same for men hell we all human real talk brother Phil shout out to the judge too

[@mesoanto1031]

Relationships cannot be always build on trust however it must be built on the truth. It takes a lifetime to build trust and only seconds to destroy it

[@kurtrinamckinnon4214]

Luv her example of grown women.

[@kingjamesmayo8232]

Real talk Phil

[@ghosttemplar6989]

I can bet you this majority of men who has been hit in that weak spot emotions have been harden to tje point where they cant take dating or loving a women or anyone serious anymore.

[@jasondawson92]

So true but there are good women that wants you and love you and there a some that don’t want & love you

[@listentoauntrobin9617]

That's a two way street!😂

[@Victoria-qk3mu]

Gives me chills ❤

[@jmos005]

Praise you,Judge Toler! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ismaelgirado2887]

I give thanks goddess for sharing this very important message. Peace Love Light

[@RiseAboveAnything_]

This statement was truthful because men don’t forget that at all!!! You don’t hit below the belt!!

[@ShadesOfIvory]

Just be fair and dont do that to women, either. 🙏🏾

[@RiseAboveAnything_]

@@ShadesOfIvory right I agree with that to

[@pamelawalker3085]

Judge Lynn Toler ❤🙏🏾🌹

[@robertepps2834]

There is a difference between Sincere Women and the Women who are influenced by the powers that be that's influencing this society.

[@mikenice7588]

Words of Wisdom ❗

[@brianmuhammad6903]

That's what Minister Farrakhan said in a lecture. A woman's damn mouth.

[@kingdomofgarvin3432]

Real Talk

[@jamesmurray8558]

They do that all the time.

[@hotice8885]

They shouldn't.....But SINCE THEY DO, ...

[@young10again]

They know how to push them buttons!🔼🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@tonyat5470]

SHOULDNT PEOPLE KNOW THAT ALREADY

[@astriverofstrengthandknowledge]

Exactly Judge, it might not happen all the time, but there have been a good amount of cases where things got ugly real fast when women try to cross that line.

[@joeo8215]

Be careful what you communicate to others because sooner or later, you could regrets about it

[@Max-oi9es]

Women are born with that knowledge, why do you think they often do it as a last resort tactic? They ain't gonna change partly because we ain't gonna change.

[@ZaneiYah]

Great small show! ❤❤❤❤

[@marvl6472]

She was the best on there and Judge faith after.the new one, Star is such a darn Sistahood type ..maybe her Jose Zaddy gets beat up by her

[@nunook5522]

This advice swings both ways Phil. I know this is supposed to be about men, and not trying to negate what Judge Toler said.

[@timothywoods8170]

Preach on brother!! 🙏🏾✊🏾

[@blacknight88]

Many men do start off as nice guy simps but eventually he gets turned into something else after he gets screwed over, played and hurt

[@Vipershadow1]

Experience darkens the heart progressively slowly

[@reggiesingleton7024]

So True

[@maxwellotoo7250]

Black women are saving their love for Zaddy who does not want them

[@QuentinAD]

Great Advice

[@Nightrain349]

BW do it all the time. Amd trust I never forgotten.

[@deejay5102]

You shouldn't hit any human where they are weak at....it shouldn't matter if they male or female....

[@thekorsh4230]

Great message brother

[@Kasadoll]

If you hit a man where he's weak especially if he opened up enough to you to trust you with that weakness, I guarantee he'll never open up to you again. You only need to do that one time and he'll never forget it.

[@ericpetteway3841]

Truth