Baby Daddy Brought Another Woman Home | Part 1

[@dougronald561]

I just love how JJ respects parents who do the right thing and work to be active in their children’s lives.

[@rayoko_tube]

Me too! I think beef will happen between ex partners regardless, but not everyone has the self control to put aside their own personal problems to help co parent a child. And I think that's something that's rarely found with ex partners, since unfortunately some relationship fall outs are beyond fixing.

[@dougronald561]

@@rayoko_tube exactly

[@jasmineartis5754]

She shows grace even if the parents were on drugs and got off drugs for the child. As long as they try she likes them. Which is nice.

[@brooksr4013]

And she is one of the few judges who thinks that the father have just as much right as the mothers

[@dougronald561]

@@brooksr4013 you’re right.

[@rjsuarez8357]

“You hesitated for a moment, you wanna tell me why?” - classic JJ sharp as a tack, best interrogator in town!

[@MyMason100]

She needs to listen first..

[@robertjoseph5206]

@@MyMason100 then why you watching People think because she's old they can get over on her SHE'S 10 STEPS AHEAD MY GUY

[@missJolie85]

I thought the same thing, that part was given if you ask me, even though I dont disagree she is sharp.

[@LucilleDitmars]

😮😮 hi hi hi

[@calebmantle2910]

People lie better when they're driven by positive motivation than negative; the liars in family court are far more passionate and convincing than the liars in criminal court. Judge Judy has had to suss out the truth in a matrix of lies matched only by politicians and media outlets for decades and decades. That obviously refined whatever natural gift of discernment she had. It's really incredible to watch

[@ethanlculver]

The guy made a huge mistake making a child with this dangerous woman

[@harrisshob5819]

yes! i dont think boys/men are educated enough about this, there is NO such thing as casual sex when you will casually be in court and casually paying child support. and nothing casual about women having and aborting their children without their knowledge

[@terriesmith2616]

Agreed. Now he's connected to her for life.

[@solowilliams931]

Pity … some women are stupid and mess everything up for other good women by messing up good men

[@MyMason100]

other way around !!

[@wobblyorbee279]

1:06 who is the male actor at the background with the blue shirt and tie? PLS LET ME KNOW

[@Kaboomboo]

He seems like a nice guy. Not that many decent men would work so hard to find out if a kid is his based on a photograph. More still, they wouldn't invite them to move into HIS home so they have a place to live. This lady doesn't know how good she could've had it!

[@knemetz80]

Lots of "nice guys" are horrible people when the door is closed.

[@hyeboi]

@@knemetz80 and plenty more who aren't, get over it lol

[@shapiroshekelberg604]

Nice guys finish last.

[@Kaboomboo]

@@knemetz80 And sometimes nice guys are victimized by vindictive ladies like this.

[@susanketler8812]

1qqqq

[@kikatx08]

He wanted a relationship with his daughter, not her. She got caught up in her feelings for him and acted in a bizarre way. He did the right thing, she did the wrong thing.

[@PrincessZaire100]

I mean that’s à pretty reasonable agreement though. Don’t bring random hookups where you’re child lays. You don’t know these women well enough to have them around your child.

[@mregent2515]

​@PrincessZaire100 He's paying all the bills, and it's HIS house! He can have an orgy if he wanted to.

[@gRinchY-op5vr]

​@@PrincessZaire100alot of women say they don't want the father of their children bringing women they hardly know around their children but switch gears when they want to bring a man home, she was probably jealouse he was still having a social life while she was hoping they'd materialise into a family

[@frostyshock]

He only let his child mother live in his house so he wouldn't have to pay her child support.

[@jeffrowisdabest]

​@@frostyshock I don't think that's the case. I guarantee you he was paying to help support the child outside of providing a roof over their heads.

[@jarrodbarkley9061]

I get a truthful vibe from him. Good guy, trying to do right by his child.

[@reichan2590]

“It’s his house” period!!! I’m not letting someone tell me who I can’t bring home in MY HOUSE and we’re not in a relationship!!

[@missantonia14goldsby]

Outta respect he could of left her there. Not somebody you have a child with because feelings always take over . It was never a smart move on his end .

[@anthonyloudermill3393]

👍

[@cortlandtbarnes5824]

Why would he bring another woman to a place where he has his child and child’s mother that’s messy & you should be smart enough to realize that

[@snoopyco07]

@@cortlandtbarnes5824 because it's his house that he pays for. She doesn't like it, pack your sh*t and get the f*ck out. I wish someone would tell me who I can bring to a house I pay for.

[@Red_1976]

It’s insensitive for the ex & confusing for the child. He should be smarter. What an awful man.

[@gtsound12]

She didn’t know who her baby daddy was and she is trying to talk like she has a higher moral standard than him lol

[@standupbcounted2420]

Exactly

[@mycreativeAi]

Sex is not a big deal in this day and age. If a guy goes around having sex with 2 girls at a time while not in a relationship he a player. Just because a woman can get pregnant through the same behavior does not make her any less than morally. This comment is stupid and outdated

[@gtsound12]

@@mycreativeAi 😂😂😂 yea it’s no big deal that a child doesn’t know who their biological father is because morality and personal Responsibility is old school lol..

[@mycreativeAi]

@@gtsound12 I'm not saying she is in anyway better than this guy or responsible in anyway. She was living for free, jealous, entitled and annoying. But. The comment you made isn't about any of that. The fact of the matter is, you're contributing to a double standard and my opinion remains its outdated.

[@gtsound12]

@@mycreativeAi she cheated on her bf, she had a baby with that man, she either didn’t know who the father was or she did and tried to hide it, she never even told this dude about the possibility of him having a child in the world. She is morally bankrupt and sex is the least of her morality problems. You are focused on sex. I am focusing on her character, her lies and how many people she affected with them while she sticks her nose up at him

[@SeanMichael1992]

I love how JJ never immediately thinks negatively of the guy in these cases, cuz she’s aware a lot of people are just upset for not getting their way and then sue to bring drama. JJ knows very well people like this exist and she’s fair about not immediately taking their side.

[@ishahcanah7351]

Exactly. I agree. She had a very good relationship with her father her whole life. I heard her talk about it in an interview and I think that plays a very important role in a person’s life down the road. She doesn’t have a negative perception of men because the man in her life had a positive impact in her life. She is who she is because of her father, as I gathered from the interview. He was a dentist.

[@jasmic38134]

You are right. She's one of the few unbiased judges

[@sterlingforbes3872]

He comes across as the perfect dude; kind, generous, accountable, etc. She already comes across as a pain in the ass.

[@TDS621]

Being KIND...🔥

[@sterlingforbes3872]

@@TDS621 I like you Tonia... the world needs more "kind" people :-) kudos and thank you for recognizing that.

[@personaldove]

Karen

[@blane6592]

“perfect” doesn’t exist! Grow up!

[@sterlingforbes3872]

@@blane6592 It wasn't to be taken literally. Relax yourself. I guarantee you're single.

[@iwillsurvive1335]

Situations like this never work. Someone always get in their feelings.

[@kiis0]

The audacity for her to have a “mixup” (basically slept with 2, or possibly more than 2 men who knows), and then tells him HE can’t see another women let alone bring another woman into his OWN HOME and they aren’t even together which is number 1, and number 2 she’s living in his house?!!!? THE AUDACITY. Some women are just plain NUTS I swear.

[@kristelneedtoknow3207]

Most people who have kids don't bring random hook ups around their kids. It's a reasonable rule. If he wanted to live that life why invite them to live with him. That make no sense. Just do co parenting in separate houses. One week you live like a bachelor,one week you live like a parent. But he wanted them to live with him at that moment you don't bring randos into your house. It's not good for the child. Weather that's him doing it or her. Kids need stability and the kid's needs should always come first.

[@pisto30]

@@kristelneedtoknow3207 He wanted his cake and to eat it too. Then got mad about it. He could've just as easily rented an apartment for them or something

[@joanclayton5212]

That’s why it’s marriage before baby. Marriage is a contract where everyone’s positions and loyalties are clearly mapped out. But this playing house while still being single brings nothing but confusion.

[@JenessaAndKingston]

@@joanclayton5212 marriage doesn’t mean much these days!

[@yolondambrowm9803]

@@kristelneedtoknow3207 Did you gloss over when JJ said get over it’s HIS house?!

[@AwkwardLey]

“Little did I know he was not the person I thought he was” ma’am you had a whole baby with this man

[@DawnRoache-y9n]

And didn't know who the Father is or was.

[@BeLoud13]

@@DawnRoache-y9n And admits it on national TV.

[@isaiahlaitinen]

So, you're not having an intimate relationship but he's not allowed to have intimate relationships even though he's letting you live in his house? WTF?

[@Kolistwaky9161]

Crazy

[@aball7654]

For free until she gets on her feet

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

Or. He blew up her and the babies home and family, so that they needed him and intended to control her. We don’t know.

[@Sidious6460]

@@rhondasisco-cleveland2665 Thats not what either of them said, its a nice little fairytale you invented.

[@Saiwitdajatt]

@@rhondasisco-cleveland2665 your comment screams delusional..

[@jacksafereffort516]

"Due to some, mix up, for the first 4 months of her life." Translation: She had comfortably convinced the unfortunate guy she was with that it was his kid, but real daddy showed up 4 months later so WHOOPSIEEEE!

[@thatgirlPAIGE94]

How sad he found out through social media that he had a child.

[@beancheese3148]

I feel so bad for this guy. He’s really such an ace.

[@MJ-sj9ho]

How do you know that he is a nice guy just seeing him for ten minutes you joking ? She is a Hoochie mama!!!

[@kell_checks_in]

If he were an ace he wouldn't be having sex while single.

[@ronyagpd]

He has acted responsibly and seems an honourable man of integrity.

[@jpl4136]

I’ve met him in person before. He is.

[@dty3479]

What Judge said, “ it’s his house.” The plaintiff wanted a family while the defendant made it clear that it was coparenting. If he wanted to be with her they wouldn’t be in separate rooms

[@stevenopolis3155]

I agree with everything you said except for the seperate rooms thing. I don’t want to share a bedroom with someone even if I’m super into them. When I’m in bed sleeping, that’s that. I’m down for occasional sleepovers for fun though. My ex couldn’t fathom my stance on that.

[@littlemissdimples88]

@@stevenopolis3155 I agree with u! Some people just sleep better alone and it’s a practical solution. Sadly a lot of people don’t get it and will be judgemental.

[@wobblyorbee279]

1:06 who is the male actor at the background with the blue shirt and tie? PLS LET ME KNOW

[@ninbg]

She was dating someone but got pregnant by this guy, shows her character lol

[@anthonygiordano3991]

Shows his character as well..

[@wobblyorbee279]

1:06 who is the male actor at the background with the blue shirt and tie? PLS LET ME KNOW

[@HH-yq6ch]

@@anthonygiordano3991 how? Did he know she was with someone else? And even IF he knew. She was the one in a relationship where she needed to retain her fidelity.

[@briasworld8]

This old. I remember this. She still wanted to be with him & got pissed because he moved on.

[@dharmallars]

Honestly her thoughts are in the right place. Most children who experience sexual abuse from a non-family member are victimized by a friend of a parent, usually a girlfriend or boyfriend. If she were a man and he were a woman I think most people would agree it’s unsafe for the mother to bring strange men to her house with the baby there. BUT it’s clear that she’s jealous when she says that not bringing other women over was “out of respect” for her. Why does he have to be single to respect you, someone he’s not dating?

[@Bakutalk]

That was actually a Ross and Rachel arc haha

[@JohnsonKayla12]

Nah, difference is she was living in the home meaning the child would not have needed to be around the stranger. There was no actual risk except hurt feelings.

[@elvickRULES]

If the roles reversed I don’t see a woman asking a man to come live with her and her child. Even if it’s the father.

[@annangel1005]

Yet she wasn't concerned with notifying both men she was sleeping with that they may be the father, so, I can't really say her thoughts are focused on anyone but herself. She was going to allow her boyfriend to think he was the father had this guy not seen a picture of HIS child and questioned it.

[@drew6846]

That’s not why she didn’t want him to bring girls over. Get outta here with that.

[@jeffrowisdabest]

I hate when women say "my child". IT'S OUR CHILD. That child is just as much his as it is yours.

[@sheenaanderson8759]

You are absolutely right until you go to the courts and let them take over everything the mother and the father have 50/50 rights

[@jeffrowisdabest]

@@sheenaanderson8759 Even if a woman is awarded full custody, it's still not HER child, it's THEIR child.

[@melissalee6052]

I heard him say “my daughter” several times, how is that different?

[@jeffrowisdabest]

@@melissalee6052 Well it depends on how he used it. "I've been trying to get in to see our daughter" or "the DNA test showed that it was our daughter" sounds weird.

[@christiandilday7543]

You know she went to child support court 🙄

[@_Just_Another_Guy]

This is why you don't pump and dump without a condom or birth control if you aren't gonna commit. The product will literally be caught in the middle and they didn't even ask for it.

[@TheRenegadeStarr]

Strangers creating newborn strangers. Forever weird stuff.

[@tam9856]

He may have had good intentions, but he shouldn’t have invited her to live in his home. That was a big mess waiting to happen and it did happen. The plaintiff shouldn’t have agreed to move in. She got excited and thought they were going to be in a relationship. He shouldn’t have given her ANY idea that they might end up being a couple.

[@pennyproud1621]

Yeah, he was foolish for that. Idk how nor why he thought that would work.

[@javierfuentes515]

@@pennyproud1621 maybe though it would be interesting to live as coparents after knowing he's actually a father with a woman he didnt really have a relationship, maybe he was too innocent and though it would work great have his child full time annd have company too, he was going to help her until she got in her feet so thinking hes kind of innocent and a good guy i can see it happening, too sad the mother had other plans

[@synergisticcollusion134]

@@pennyproud1621 Yea, it's ALL *HIS* fault...👍 Stupid🙄🤦‍♀️

[@javierfuentes515]

@Tayo O fr, sad to see it thought

[@candyqueencandyqueen2689]

To be fair though he probably didn't want his daughter to be homeless.

[@blujaebird]

I found my cousin's daughter through 23andMe as a result of a similar baby daddy mix up. My cousin's biological daughter was given up for adoption and was looking for her biological family and got connected to me and her aunts who are my cousins. The man she had been told was her biological father her entire life turned out NOT to be her father, and my cousin Dennis turned out to be her father. It turned out happy, Dennis became a grandpa overnight and dotes on the grandkids. The previous dude wanted nothing to do with his "daughter" or her children. That's fine, we have enough love to give ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@birdiespeaks8538]

I love that for Dennis and his daughter

[@wobblyorbee279]

1:06 who is the male actor at the background with the blue shirt and tie? PLS LET ME KNOW

[@bingbongdingdong867]

Awwww. Makes me wish someone ever wanted me lol

[@NotoriousBroadcasts]

She wasn’t homeless if she was living with her sister, that’s a pretty big leap. Lots of people live with their family to help support children.

[@marywoods1430]

Some state programs consist people homeless if they don't have their own homes

[@NotoriousBroadcasts]

@@marywoods1430 that’s jokes, so that means that any kid that turns 18 and still lives in their parents houses then technically homeless.

[@TommieGun71]

Nah.....that'st just your lazy *** generation.

[@trublkbelle]

Exactly. Judge Judy always making assumptions

[@nosizwevanda7849]

Yeah, the State I leave and County doesn't consider someone homeless if living with other too. You have to be in a place not meant for human habitation to be considered homeless!

[@mimimonster]

Wow! A man who most likely had a one night stand, goes out of his way to claim a child?? This like never happens. She had some grandiose idea that he wanted to be a family. She didn’t like that he didn’t want that.

[@wynterbreeze1202]

This woman is a bitter baby mama and trifling. She names someone else as the child's father then the REAL father moves her and the child into HIS home and now she's mad cuz he probably decided he's not gonna hit it anymore. He can bring whomever he so chooses to HIS home. She's jealous and selfish. The end.

[@amycarcaterra8177]

Seems like a heartwarming and terrific father. It is his house at the end of the day. He can bring whoever & ladies when he wants to his house.

[@sakokirakosyan2261]

I’m sure she knew it was his kid and didn’t tell him so he wouldn’t ask for shared custody .

[@Daniela-Christianson]

Or wanted the other guy more

[@805fillmore]

@@Daniela-Christianson that’s probably true but the other guy likely left her for a better woman.

[@Daniela-Christianson]

@@805fillmore I agree! And if she was worried about shared custody, she wouldna been living with baby daddy. You can bet she wanted the child support.

[@ramenn00dle76]

If she added moisture to her hair and a curl cream or maybe a serum, she'd really have gorgeous hair. The texture and color is nice.

[@Ariana-bz1zk]

Her hair is pretty so stop it.

[@rpottage]

I love how he felt the need to say it wasn't November 12, went through the whole explanation of how it was actually Veterans Day because his buddies took him out drinking for Veterans Day then just casually slips in that he returned home around 2:30 am. Bruh; Veterans Day is November 11th so if you return home at 2:30 am then it's now November 12th.

[@sg-nt1dg]

I'm glad I wasn't the only one to notice that. Lol.

[@JSmedic1]

The days blend together when you're drinking and it's Veterans Day.

[@starrayala2139]

🤣🤣🤣

[@tjwash2]

A gorgeous polite man wants to step up to the plate and be a part of his daughters life voluntarily. The obvious next step is to take him to Judge Judy to prevent that!

[@staceysherene5488]

He supposed to do for his child why do y’all highly appraise men for doing what they should

[@jasmineartis5754]

Stacey Sherene in this case he went OVERBOARD to help her. He never had to get a paternity test but he did, moved her into his home, she paid no bills and he was trying to make sure she was financially stable he DIDNT have to do that.

[@loujon191]

As a woman I have never slept with two men in such close proximity that I wouldn’t know who the father of my child is. Give that thing a rest ladies

[@loujon191]

@Mark_Asread sociopath

[@Mickey-jn7hy]

Agree. Just gross.

[@teresewecker]

Conversation with the child """ gee honey let me see.... your dad's name is David... or Samuel... or Michael... I honestly don't know..

[@gillianknight9796]

AGREE 😊

[@shelleyharris4176]

But no birth control??

[@mamabear71234]

Moving in with the father of your child is always a mistake. It will never be your home too. And who wants to put up with a baby daddy bringing in other women? I hope she learned her lesson

[@kay22100]

Now Judge she wasn’t homeless if she was living with her sister lol

[@TommieGun71]

An adult that doesn't have his or her own home/apt is HOMELESS! If you're grown enough to have sex and bring forth children, you should be an adult and provide housing for them.

[@Iamsoul00]

@@TommieGun71 That’s not the definition of homelessness.

[@anglophils645]

She never should have moved in with him, that type of thing never works out. She thought that they were in a relationship, he didn't, she was hurt, big mess. If you're not in a committed relationship, do not move in together. Someone is going to become confused and hurt.

[@chiromike7803]

I bet it was an unilateral decision to not bring home ‘women’. The defendant was trying to do the right thing by living with his daughter but that shouldn’t mean that she can’t bring anyone home to HIS home. The plaintiff is maybe upset because she is still single.

[@thesb2836]

😂

[@alexisk4407]

No that’s exactly what it means. If you want to play house play it in your own home, which she doesn’t have lol. She better find another sucker with a house or a car and a dark parking lot if she wants male company lol

[@roseg8427]

This is why I'm glad I have a job and my own money so I don't have to live by anybody's rules and there is no drama nor conflict leading to the police being called. I value my peace of mind above all else.

[@LawsonPatterson]

A happy family? You were living in your own bedroom and you weren’t a couple. The plaintiff is obviously jealous and upset that she couldn’t be his girlfriend. Looks like it was a good call on his part. Good luck parenting with her, you’re gonna need it!!

[@debiarmstrong1361]

JJ has the sharpest intuition on lying I hav ever seen. Dont mess with JJ!!

[@badnbruja6572]

He probably told her not to bring men and she just took it as I won't bring men and he won't bring girls

[@carolgrier7774]

Tacky. It doesnt matter what he says, that was just a jerk move. He asked them to stay, its his child too. A responsible adult should act like one.

[@erepsekahs]

I love it: Someone else was named as the father because she was 'dating' him. Doesn't that seem a little incongruous to you? What is this 'dating' thing where people get pregnant because they 'date' someone. Why can't she say, "Because I was having sex with someone else as well as with him" ? Is that what 'dating' means? Someone please straighten me out on this...I have always used another word for that.

[@cjsteg3623]

She was prolly cheating on her boyfriend lol

[@JamieM470]

"Dating" these days is code for having sex. It doesn't even mean having a relationship. Just sex. Actual courtship is, for most, a thing of the past. Women have been indoctrinated to believe that being a semen receptacle for slutty men = empowerment. These "empowered" women end up with diseases, no self worth, being "baby mommas" (single mothers with absent/loser fathers of their children), generally used and abused until a disturbing number of them commit suicide. It's very sad.

[@erepsekahs]

@@JamieM470 You're kidding....wow! who would know that?

[@erepsekahs]

@@JamieM470 It is the way society feels free to label them. When humans first started breeding I can assure you there were no rules and regulations like these.... Females, young or old, were permitted to force sex upon as many men as they could attract. That is why the human race exists.

[@evanescenteuphoria8126]

She didn't let him know because the other guy was a better choice. Playing musical baby daddy.

[@1deonlucas9]

These 2 people had absolutely no business having a baby together

[@aelitabalcrut3441]

Omg evrytime I turn to watch a video from JJ I respect her even more she is what a queen is, God bless 😍😍😍

[@TheSarah730]

The best ✨✨

[@badnbruja6572]

He is not all sunshine and rainbows I'm not buying his nice guy act. It was his idea to move her in his house!

[@Kaboomboo]

Yeah so what? He didn't even know this lady had HIS child for the first few months of her life. He probably wanted to her in the home so he could actually see her, knowing this broad would take the daughter with her if she was elsewhere.

[@katherineduke3232]

Yeah I agree..... I'm not buying this "nice guy" act. Guess we will see with the other parts!

[@DawnRoache-y9n]

Sounds like she was hoping that he was going to date her and she got her feelings hurt.

[@abcautoplus]

She's that kind of girl you meet in a bar, taking home and surprise you're a daddy. Maury show😂

[@BabyBratz98]

He’s seems like a nice guy and he’s getting messed over by a bad apple to put it nicely. She doesn’t understand how many women want a man that even care enough to know if the child is his or not or to want to be around the child at all.

[@brith2237]

I love all that shade judge judy is throwing at that lady before she even caught on.

[@marianna1513]

This clip on Tiktok is one-sided. All women in th comments keep coming for JJ, and the guy. It's disgusting how some women see another woman cry and automatically side with her no matter how wrong she is.

[@marieandrade7924]

😂😂😂😂 I watched whole episode and she is a fool. Lol

[@franklesser5655]

Defendant outclasses the plaintiff.

[@timelliott4117]

I can't get passed the phrase "baby daddy" I hear that and I envision illiteracy.

[@angelicelevationtarot1]

I’ve been binge watching Judge Judy, can’t get enough

[@andreaduran4949]

Idk why people are coming down on the woman so hard when it’s clear neither of them thought this through. Moving in with your ex to coparent your baby while sleeping with other people is a ticking time bomb. They both went in with completely different expectations of what it would be.

[@catherineca9891]

Hes so handsome, inside and out wow !

[@broeheemed32]

".....and until I moved out with our daughter.....". Yep. Automatically assumes that as the mother, she has 100% custody. The first time she suggested that, dude should have went straight to the courthouse to file for at least 50% physical custody. She's the type that would move out of state and just take his child as if he has no say in the child's life. But she'd happily demand child extortion money.

[@magicworld3242]

He's gotta be stuck with this wacko, for the next 18 years 🥴. I feel sorry for this guy.

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

Some states is 21

[@candyqueencandyqueen2689]

The rest of his life. They're both going to be part of their daughters life. So they're going to have to be near each other for events in their daughters life like if she graduates college or gets married, etc. They will forever be connected by their daughter.

[@melissasimpson3192]

She's looking for a free ride. She keeps using the word "child" 🤣 She didn't even know who the father was

[@joecrawford172]

Plaintiff: I won't have an intimate relationship with my baby's daddy and as long as we're living there, neither will anyone else.

[@norahal8310]

What kind of woman moves in with a baby daddy without a relationship…it’s a little weird

[@WhoDoctor-u2e]

If I ever become pregnant I will always know who the father is, "ma'am."

[@Momsdailyagenda]

she just can’t be grateful that he took the Initiative to be in their daughters life! He seems like a decent person, enough that he offered for her to live with him until she settled down. She took advantage of him! Yeah he sounds horrible person…NOT! 🙄

[@sawyer4981]

The embodiment of the phrase "nice guys finish last".

[@standupbcounted2420]

Laying up with different men is not a mix up. It is a mix in so DNA testing is needed to find out who the BD is.

[@BrianErwin]

"he wasn't the man i thought" translation "i'm hard to deal with, stuck in my ways, and don't like submitting to men"

[@missantonia14goldsby]

This why you don’t move nobody in your home if your not together . It’s always gonna be some problem

[@donyasigalesin1087]

She had no clue who the father of her child was,living with her sister and an infant, no word of this other potential father, essentially her life is a mess, yet she worried about who he brings into his home that he owns

[@d1goodman4u]

what a guy! come stay in " my house " even if I'm not so sure child is mine. oh her child not ours.

[@Chauna30]

The child was confirmed to be his PRIOR to asking them to move in with him.

[@boybawang1981]

She was like, "I PAID FOR THE PATERNITY TEST"!! Like that's something to be proud of, U were sleeping with @ least 2 dudes!!

[@ms.robinxoxo2710]

First off you didn’t even know who your child’s father was second u moved in HIS home and then y’all not even dating and to top it off you say I paid for the paternity test fool that’s the least you can do you didnt know for four months. Long story short you should of stayed in your own house and co parented like normal ppl do and you get upset he has a woman over 🤔Girl BYE

[@megalopolis2015]

I agree with the mother in the sense of bringing strangers around their child. At this point I don't know if she's done that, too, but if she did I'd have just as much of an issue with it.

[@brandyapplez5321]

This is completely toxic. If he had no plans on marrying this girl he should have never brought this girl home with this baby she could have stayed at her sister's house and he could have came over to visit...

[@mercuryangel9223]

Maybe because SHE wouldn't allow THAT! Just like her making the decision not ALLOWING him to have whoever he wants in HIS house.

[@andreaduran4949]

Exactly

[@KellyNewman-z5r]

yay mom.... way to pick'em 😅😂😂

[@maddiesmith4498]

He seems really nice I wonder 🤔 if that is real or not? Could be one that goes after custody later so that can be harder for her I hope that they don't have 18 yrs worth of trouble for the child.

[@desperono1560]

Guy had no respect for her feelings bringing 3 women home

[@patriciapearl2529]

So basically another man signed the birth certificate for a child that isn't biologically his?

[@cdelane3335]

You can bet she knew the whole time this man was the father.

[@akairiyahiko2602]

Dang, Was she ever going to tell him that he might be the father if he didn’t reach out. Thank god for social media, I guess

[@TheSassitude]

JJ should've been a professor to train, a generation or two of lawyers. However, had she done that, we (the public) wouldn't have the benefit of her knowledge and insight and the encouragement to develop a bit of a moral backbone in the process.

[@Fush1234]

Ill bet she has a really aggressive streak..grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[@AshleyFromTX]

“The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” That said, living with people you’re not in a relationship with is a stupid idea unless their your ROOMMATE, not your “baby mama/daddy” don’t do that, that’s DUMB.

[@iLoveBoysandBerries]

He’s a catch. She’s a wreck

[@virgominerva2665]

The more I watch these cases on JJ, and the more I meditated Family Court cases in a “past life”, the more Pro Choice I became. Regardless of anyone’s ideology, whether moral or religious, the truth is that these toxic “co-parenting” situations never get better. They eventually diminish with time because the child inevitably becomes an adult, but they never get better - just bitter. Contraceptives ARE a CHOICE 🙏🏻

[@christophervogt7456]

It's HIS house. Love it ❤️

[@danielschmitt1935]

This is a true and updated American relationship.

[@christiandilday7543]

You know she put him on child support 🙄

[@Chauna30]

As she should. That would be for best interest for the child. Plus you know he took her to court for at least joint custody.

[@patriciapearl2529]

There is another man listed on the birth certificate who is legally responsible for this baby. That man is paying child support for a baby that he now knows isn't biologically his. This case is even messier than what you see here. Imagine how that other man feels?

[@loud_and_proud_trini]

0:08 the look when you know it’s about to go down 🤣🤣🤣💀💀

[@BrayBray78]

This is why I’m happy I don’t have kids. Always set the standard that I would ONLY have kids with my husband and even that, is a risk. Either way, I do not envy baby mamas. Seems hella stressful.

[@RacieRain]

He wanted a relationship with his daughter, not a relationship with you. She's a piece of work.

[@porshacarter8841]

Nah i think they were still sleeping together

[@trublkbelle]

I have a similar situation and we don't bring people home... it's not that hard to believe. It doesn't matter whose house it is. If you invite someone to live with you, especially children, then it's called respect

[@treywoodard3958]

You’re wrong HES paying the bills HE invited her to live with HIM she lied about if the baby was his or not,real classy for a woman. SHE has absolutely NO CLAIM to him they’re aren’t dating they aren’t married NOTHING. She has ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to dictate who he can bring into HIS HOUSE SHES A FUCKING GUEST IN HIS HOME. If she doesn’t like it she can move out, oh that’s right she was HOMELESS before he gave her a room.

[@manxkin]

Boy! That’s quite some mix up! What a mess!

[@rosew7962]

He might be a nice guy or he might be a narcissist who has everyone fooled

[@MarkT1700]

Exactly. With these videos you never know what a person is really like. We don't have all the information.

[@andreaduran4949]

I was thinking the same exact thing. Wondering how he really explained what the situation would be like when he convinced baby mama to move in with him. And how he explained it to the women he brought home.

[@ninosimone]

I hate how every time someone tries to do good for someone , they then turn on them SMH

[@bogibsimmons]

This woman sounds like my ex. We were married had a kid and then she cheated. She choose to do that and ruin or family and we were young both 21 my father was paying the rent I was going to school for my doctorate and working full time as well as taking care of a child when I came home. She choose to cheat and wanted to get a divorce and then she went and married that guy she cheated on me with. Anyway I wanted to stay involved with my kid and she had the audacity to ask me and my father to pay for her rent as well as tell me I couldn’t date anyone if I was going to continue to see my daughter because she didn’t want random women coming around her child. I said no sorry my dads not going to pay for your rent and I’ll date whomever I want it has nothing to do with you. She then said to me it’s not fair if I get to go out and have fun while she stays with our child most of the time. I said that’s what you wanted. You wanted and got custody and also child support yet you want more money not just but from my father who has nothing to do with this.

[@rayoko_tube]

Wow, that must've been a nightmare having to deal with an ex partner who's, first of all a cheater, but also a hypocrite with such a high maintenance personality. Really hope things are better now for you and that you still have a good relationship with your child!

[@bogibsimmons]

@@rayoko_tube actually she took my child away from me and made my life such a living hell having my child call the other guy dad in front of me and telling my child when I wasn’t there I wasn’t her real dad. It made more sense for me to just move on since I was young enough (22) to start my life over with someone else and start another family. So I signed away my rights and when my daughter turns 18 and wants to contact me she is more then welcome to. But other then that yeah my life has been fantastic. I got a job that pays me an outrageous amount, it’s something I love and it involves me being in contact and around famous people all the time. I write screenplays and it’s amazing. And honestly if my life didn’t happen the way it did I would have never gone down this path and been happier then ever.

[@rayoko_tube]

@@bogibsimmons Oh my gosh, I am SO sorry to hear that! 😥 I feel terrible for your daughter having such a wicked mother and for you not having that right to see and be with your own child. I'm a strong advocate for equality and hearing your situation just makes my blood boil for you! Sending you some virtual support because you deserve it! 😭💯

[@bogibsimmons]

@@rayoko_tube Thank you so much. This made my day i mean it. Yeah everyone thinks she is wicked for doing that to me. The crazy part about it all is that she dated this guy before she dated and married me. She didn't stay with him because he wouldn't commit. Well the sad part was that it was her godfathers son so it wasn't like we were never going to see him again. I had to meet the guy while we where married and it sucked because sense we met young it was the guy she lost her virginity to making it that much worse. Also it I have always thought why marry me and have a kid if she always loved him and only dated me because he wouldn't commit to her and then while we were married instead of asking for a divorce, instead of telling me hey I don't love you never have and I wanna be with this guy she chose to cheat on me while i was at work and going to school full time so we could have a life together and why do that all on Valentines day? I mean if I had never come home early that day to surprise her with flowers because i was working overnight at a hospital because i was going to school for my doctorate, if i had never come home at that time i wouldn't have found out she was cheating. I mean i walked in on them while they were in the middle of doing it. And I'll say this seeing the mother of your child being railed by some other guy on your bed, in your house will just well there's really no words to describe that hahaha. anyway thank you and have a wonderful day.

[@bogibsimmons]

@@rayoko_tube Oh sorry for another comment but she also made me without my knowledge because I thought it was for me made me buy her lingerie for he to use with this guy was well as a boob job to go back to normal after the baby all to please this other guy. She also not only did that but opened up 3 credit cards in my name and maxed them out. she was the definition of pure evil.

[@roshelltannen9698]

A baby does not make you his wife. When will these silly birds learn that?

[@morehyeshiahtorahlessons5545]

He wasn't the person I thought he was- Her. He found out about his child by looking at a pic. There was another person- her

[@Tootsie-yj1rz]

Wow he’s a good guy to want to get the child tested to see if he is the father