Addressing Everything...

[@amyelizabethscraftcorner]

I think some look at this the wrong way. They think Why isnt Eileen there traveling? How selfish. When really she is being the opposite. She is as she should letting Julia explore & enjoy her youth! People will ALWAYS have something to say no matter what. Just do what makes you two happy and try to not worry about comments and opinions at all. 💜

[@micaray7662]

I watched the love dont judge and it made me tear up. Especially the part where Eilleen says shes fat but you make her feel like she deserves love. I hope I get to experience the love you guys have one day.

[@mikasablackerman6776]

I agree with you guys. Your partner doesn’t have to do everything with you all the time. Everyone needs their own space.

[@Ginnocently]

"Yeah yeah". Eileen

[@pinpantrukutruku]

julia why are u erasing comments.... NOT even hate comments just OPINION comments!

[@ItsBellum]

I dig... I love my alone time so the idea of a partner that gives me LOTs of space, sounds pretty groovy.

[@margaretrangel7223]

Same here

[@hideyable]

If Eileen wants to be retired & not put work into learning new skills, is that something to strongly consider when you have children? Do you want to do the majority of the work raising the child, Julia, while you're also the one bringing in income?

[@batty_kitsuofhorrorchildst]

This has also been on my mind

[@sl2608]

Eileen could also have an income -- retirement income. We don't know but that could very well be the case.

[@vtirado925]

@@sl2608 I was just thinking the exact same thing like just because she doesn't work doesn't mean she doesn't have an income

[@kendra.ivy1031]

Children are a lot different than just “a job”, she has a big heart and patience, her wanting to retire would actually give her some time to stay home for a baby. She’s also getting older, sheesh, would you say this to ur mother if she wanted to babysit your kids?

[@Lo-and-Jaq]

I dunno the way this is worded it sounds like you are implying a child that Julia gives birth to is just hers to raise - and any care and parenting Eileen would give would be like babysitting Julia's child. Julia could give birth, but a child in a marriage belongs to both people in the marriage. They are gay so you cannot make a baby genetically, but a baby would be both of theirs regardless of who carries it. Either of them could stay at home during the day and help with the child rightfully so. Somewhat of a short-sighted observation with hurtful implications.

[@CocoNicole84]

As a mother of 3, I think it’s great to wait a little while to have kids and just enjoy each other and your freedom. I will say, I really miss Eileen’s videos but I totally understand and I’ll just have to see her in your videos. I love when you guys video together and show us your loving relationship with each other. It’s so cute! People are really nosey lol! But I think they just worry about u guys although I’m sure it’s annoying after awhile. I’m so happy you guys are doing good! Much love. Xx

[@jlicardi]

As the "older" woman in my relationship, I often look to others for contrast and insight. In many ways we may be viewed as unconventional. I'm just happy that I found someone that loves me.

[@littlebitty8318]

Hey Eileen, edit your videos. Help out your partner with chores in general. " Well its a lot of work ". Ha ha

[@littlebitty8318]

@@hayleykiyokoisbae1776 I dont like seeing vibrant Julia, who is beautiful (inside and out) losing so much weight and having " nerve episodes as well as , bouts of deep depression " resulting in her flying home to stay w/ her mom , who seems to know how to right the situation . Julia openly discusses how she shops for food, brings it up and cooks for both herself and Eileen now, too.. She also discusses that she has very liittle time for editing and how she showed Eileen a bit but no filming or editing help from her partner. Unless Julia does it, it aint getting done. This is saddening. Maybe just maybe Eileen will listen to Julia's signals, if not Im allowed to react and have an opinion on YT.right? So, you calm down ok, your objection is LOUD girl. Baw Haw haw 😔 CHEERS

[@AyceMcGee]

I think what a lot of people asking these personal questions fail to realize, especially those who don't have experience with long-term relationships, is that issues happen in relationships. It doesn't mean there's ill will or toxicity involved, nor that it'll automatically cause a breakup. Being able to take the time to really dig into issues and overcome them is a sign of maturity as a person and as a couple. I'm sorry that some people don't realize that and make it a goal to distort the ways other viewers see y'all. It, unfortunately, happens a lot and it's bullshit. Whenever I see y'all I see a beautiful couple. A real couple. A couple that goes through shit and doesn't pretend like every little bit of their life is perfect. In a world of manufactured bullshit, people have forgotten how to recognize realness. People think youtube is purely for entertainment, and they want their entertainment to be flawless. Anything outside of their idea of perfection must be the worst thing ever and everyone involved is terrible! It's sad. Social media has made so many people fearful of reality. Hopefully, they learn and grow with time and age. xoxoxoxo

[@wingbat]

Really appreciated and enjoyed this video! Very real, raw, and honest. I love that you openly honor and respect each other's needs, and acknowledge the differences you may have with the age gap. Julia embracing being her age and doing adventurous things and Eileen embracing her age as well and not over pushing herself, just awesome that you both have kept and honored your individuality. Very important, in every relationship, but especially age gap ones. Thanks for sharing this side with us too! Good vibes to you both. 💖

[@beewalsh4133]

I just read a not so positive comment and it was deleted? Why are you deleting if people disagree w you?

[@jenerousjentle8983]

Hmm strange and not cool. I like to see all genuine feedback then make up my own mind. 100% positive feedback is unrealistic. I'd have some respect of all viewpoints were represented.

[@beewalsh4133]

@@jenerousjentle8983 10 comments missing already ! My guess from Julias words today are they might have to di w/ Eileen not helping out so much? Just my opinion not a fact.

[@beewalsh4133]

@thereal finalgirl very deep I never thought of that, thanks for that intellectial advice.

[@galaxxydoll]

Eileen, we would watch unedited videos of you, we just like to hear you talk and tell stories.

[@SecretZenGarden]

Lives would also be a possible alternative to edited videos

[@lolriipp]

@@SecretZenGarden i was just about to say that she should do livestreams!!!

[@jessicamay9567]

I second this!

[@annieb2085]

New drinking game: Take a shot every time Eileen says, “yeah, yeah”.🥴😂 (All in fun) Lol!

[@abbiemays1]

honestly this video just made eileen seem even worse 😭 julia does Everything for this woman. eileen has somehow decided that she’s retired even though she didn’t work in the first place and isn’t legally able to retire yet in the uk lmao. “i always think i’m right”?? she’s so condescending? sure eileen you’re so wise

[@andreaac4499]

You are so on point. Julia deserves so much better. I don't get all this.

[@gcxvy]

Absolutely correct

[@lilabrat]

Dude Julia is smart, dating a way older woman is getting her to go on popular KZbin channels and getting her more recognition. If anything Julia is using Eileen lolol but I really don’t think that they are “using eachother” I’m just putting it that way because that how people word it🤪

[@caterinas6863]

How do you know Eileen never worked and isn’t legally retired? So much arrogance without any facts… she clearly said she is retired and she has worked all her life so is she lying ?

[@abbiemays1]

@@caterinas6863 she is not old enough to retire. also retiring implies you have a job to retire from, which she did not...

[@jessicaschroeder4485]

I just watched the pageant video and then this, and it makes me sad, bc yea me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 years and we have had ups and downs, but it’s not fair for Eileen to not be there to support u, I would want my boyfriend to be there in the audience to cheer me on, even tho he hates pageants it’s not about that it’s about being there for me, and also being in a partnership both people should help out but it seems like Julia does everything, bc I watched the yellow hair video and she came in and interrupted Julia to order food for her and grab something when Eileen could do that bc Julia was in the middle of working, I think it’s kinda annoying

[@Vlog_and_Talk]

I hope this video will quiet the hysterical comments about Eileen and Julia having problems…. But I doubt it because those people are relentless. 🙄🙄

[@BubblesPress]

That’s True, they are

[@vtirado925]

No it made it worse. And I really don't get it. They seem really happy to me

[@Vlog_and_Talk]

@@vtirado925 It's because they're not sincere/normal viewers. I don't know exactly what it's all about but I noticed several months ago that they are trolls coming from some internet hate forum dedicated to Julia. And their main entertainment is that no matter what the video is about, they will absolutely always post nasty comments, upvote each other's nasty comments, express "concern" etc. It's a really messed up game. I know that Julia has a thick skin and this is part of being on KZbin. But it sucks. It definitely always bothers me.

[@vtirado925]

@@Vlog_and_Talk wtf that's so messed up

[@maxolivia4911]

It's such a red flag that Eileen said she always thinks she's right. I couldn't be with a partner who had that sort of hostile arrogance. Couples are teams who are always on each other's side. I have never ever had that sort of conflict with my partner. One thing we agree to never do is fight. We don't fight, we work together and we problem solve because in every discussion, she is my priority and I am hers. So we work to advocate for each other within the relationship not against. I worry that Julia keeps normalising this sort of dynamic for her young audience. This is not how she should be treated by her wife. And before anyone comes for me on this, just know that if I were her friend irl life I would say this as bluntly as I am writing this because that's what true friends do. I don't need to be reminded that we only get a snapshot of their relationship. Eileen said what she said with absolutely no consideration for Julia. It's not acceptable. Full stop.

[@ashb5731]

I’m so glad you answered the question about your relationship so well! In my experience, if you have a relationship where there is no friction or tough spots that raises some serious alarm bells 🔔 it means that either one of the people is not having their needs met or they’re both not having their needs met, this is because a relationship consists of two different people who will always have some differences in needs, opinions, temperaments etc… a healthy relationship has to have some friction as the couple change and adapt to fit into each other’s lives and that friction causes growth and compromise and strengthens the bond. If they are “perfect” it’s likely that they’re not changing or growing and that means that at least one of them is being overlooked in order to avoid friction.

[@CraftingMamas]

I truly enjoy you two. Age gap or not, how blessed you are to look into each others eyes at the end of the day and see love reflecting back. In the big picture who did more cooking and who did more cleaning will not even be a thought. You will always remember been seen and loved by the one you chose to take this journey with. Thank you for sharing your love story with us. What a privledge to witness. love & hugs!

[@tinashort9098]

When my husband was living, we always spent time with friend or family separately. It was just our way. We didn't like alot of the same stuff but we sure loved each other! I loved Eileen's answer about not posting!! I don't wanna work either!!🤣🤣 I love y'all ❤️❤️

[@erinhawkins5984]

I’m sorry for your loss, Tina. That you can still be happy for other people after losing your husband says a lot about your character. The world would be a better place if more people had your perspective. ♥️

[@tinashort9098]

@@erinhawkins5984 thank you so much!! I had 30 wonderful years with my sweetie. I think true love is a beautiful thing, especially when two people look at each other like Julia and Eileen. ❤❤❤❤

[@amandaeves8028]

I admire you both. You are so open with everything it is amazing. No relationship is perfect and has flaws. You are perfect for eachother. I wish you both every happiness and blessings for what is to come. 💜💖💜

[@XavieryJynx]

This video was great guys ! I appreciate that you guys are so open and willing to share when you guys don't have to. I just enjoy seeing you guys in videos together being so real and honest and humble and just being your guys selves. 🌻🌻🌻 Lol I hope to see some spooky Halloween stuff soon maybe you guys can choose Halloween outfits for each other try on haul . 🎃🌬️

[@jessrouse8475]

Eliene really rocks the purple hair . Totally suits her

[@kmueller86]

I freaking ADORE that color hair on her

[@queenoflavenderskies]

Love how honest they are about their struggles!

[@sophiabeeckman7219]

Eileen!! You should totally work on that memoir you have great stories to tell and my friends and I love hearing your stories. Keep us updated on that idea!

[@brandiharnist143]

I struggle with depression and anxiety. I take medication because all the therapy in the world just wasn’t cutting it. I feel 100% myself again! I am so thankful for medication. But also, therapy is good to stay in and give yourself that time to let out all your troubles. Hope you’re doing well.

[@caterinas6863]

I am scared of taking medication. Is it addictive ?

[@alexandramoyer8785]

@@caterinas6863 it is. That’s why I stopped taking my meds because it was starting to become addicting

[@brandiharnist143]

@@caterinas6863 it depends on the meds. It is scientifically addictive but so is caffeine. & we drink it every day.

[@caterinas6863]

@@brandiharnist143 you can’t compare caffeine with meds though… surely they have a different impact on your brain and emotions? I’m a bit worried about my brain getting addicted to something but I am at rock bottom so might have to try

[@gabrielleburns3363]

@@caterinas6863 addiction has alot to do with behavior. Antidepressants and stuff like that are not addicting , you can become dependent on it but it's worth it for many to have quality of life. When you want to go off you just wean down. It's not like people start wanting to snort their antidepressants lol.

[@lilyevans4831]

I JUST FOUND YALL ON A SNAP STORY THING AND IM ALREADY OBSESSED💕💕💕💕

[@lilabrat]

Sometimes my boyfriend has to really take care of me because I’m chronically ill person with an ostomy bag and dialysis, I actually recently got a kidney transplant but that’s not going to fix all my heath problems. The point is my boyfriend knew all this before he started to date me and even though it’s hard sometimes he takes care of me! So if you date someone way older it’s almost unavoidable that as the younger partner you would have to help out your older partner. I’m pretty sure Julia was way more than aware of this before she got married to Eileen. If she was really that unhappy with her relationship I’m sure she would just leave, it’s not like she’s being forced into anything.

[@poison1vy]

I think it's weird that Eileen doesn't edit her own videos (which is why she doesn't make them anymore) because she is too lazy to learn, and then thinking she is always right. 😐 I know that even tho I am the older one in my relationship, it's very rarely that I'm right about things. I know when I'm right and he's wrong so I don't need to think that I'm always right. It just sounds so full of herself. 😒

[@zeballos5757]

As someone who is a photographer (me) and makes videos, you have to be in the right frame of mind. It’s easy enough to take the pictures and make the videos but it’s the editing part that takes the time and depending on what’s going on in your life, it can be hard to be creative. Sometimes it’s hard to wrap our minds around computer stuff. Eileen says she doesn’t want to work, she’s retired, and I’m sure struggles with her energy and depression at times. Having space to do your own thing can also be a factor. Living in a small apartment in a pandemic with not much room to “breathe” can also interfere with your creativity. I live in a 2 bedroom decent sized apartment with my partner and I get much more creative and really get into my work when I’m the only one home. Sometimes I just push myself to get it done, and I’m glad I do. The pandemic BS that we are going through has seriously drained my creativity at times. Maybe same for Eileen. Besides I don’t see Julia leaving so I guess she’s okay with things the way they are.

[@babettequeen1868]

Eileen isn’t retired, she’s just unemployed. Being retired implies she had something to ‘retire’ from in the first place. She clearly hasn’t had a job in years. Posting politics on Twitter and appearing on BBC radio a few times is not a job as some people have tried to say. If she was/had been working she would still have a decent amount of time before she’d be even eligible to retire, at least if she was still making videos Julia wouldn’t be the sole breadwinner of the house. In my opinion she’s just lazy.

[@Jessi-Courtney]

Geeze I don't think this comment was necessary.

[@CatherineDoII]

Eileen has said in one of Julia's videos that she's lazy and necer cook or anything.

[@kendra.ivy1031]

@@CatherineDoII she also says she cleans because Julia can be lazy with cleaning. It’s not that deep. I’m more of a cooker, my fiancé is more of a cleaner. Everyone has what they prefer and like and not, and what they lack. You can enjoy cleaning the kitchen and but lack at laundry and putting your stuff away in the bedroom. You don’t know them

[@taylorfox6656]

I just recently found you guys and I just want to say I love your love! You can see how true and deep your love is. Your wedding video on love never judges made me cry like a baby. Keep being amazing!

[@cyndihanson157]

Love the Q & A's! Would be fun to see a day in the life of Eileen!

[@purpledragonfly4]

Wake up at midday. Watch Julia clean, cook, work. Go back to sleep.

[@AL-jf2id]

I was nervous because I go back to high school tomorrow, but I feel so much better whenever I see your videos so thanks 😂❤

[@susanchapman7001]

Eileen could start writing a biog.....I am sure people would enjoy reading it.

[@gabrielemendoncas]

I get Eileen, because editing videos is really tiring. I don't think people realize how long it takes, I do that for a living basically and it takes so much time.

[@Beewalsh.1321]

She's home. Julia shops, cooks, cleans. runs errands. At least editing doesn't entail walking w a bad a knee. No more excuses pls, Julia is taking on too much and will get depressed again. How about a knee replacement or Dr told me for every 1 pound lost it equals 3-5 pounds pressure off your knee. So even losing 10 pounds can equal approx 30 lbs pressure off your knee.

[@poison1vy]

@@Beewalsh.1321 you're totally right. She really should lose some weight so that would help her knee too. And Julia's depression hasn't gone anywhere. She was happy in Brazil but when she came back home, she's depressed again. 🤷‍♀️ I just can't understand that she is most depressed when she has to be with her wife..

[@purpledragonfly4]

But she literally does 0 else. Julia does it all. Julia cooks, cleans, does laundry, takes the dog out for walks, works. Eileen has nothing but time to learn. It is absurd. And they want kids!? That's all going to fall on Julia too.

[@tkcassidy4897]

Y not pay someone to edit your wifes video's

[@soniacookson3277]

They both love life and deserve happiness I wish them the best of luck 💕

[@lizette9020]

much love from the US 💓 love your content 🙌🏼 keep up the positivity, such a lovely couple

[@bransbury2006]

I think it's important to do things separately me and mu boyfriend have a similar relationship. He drives me nuts and he is so messy but we still love each other etc. Also you tube was Julia's profession so I don't blame Eileen for not making videos u have to be motivated to do it.. love you both and carry on being amazing!

[@italianmommaotts3185]

Eileen my knee injury has taken me down bigtime too n' unless you have never experienced a knee injury u all dont understand. There is so much I cannot do right now but, I'm not going to hold my partner back from doing things he enjoys. So I understand! Eileen and Julia my husband and I were so sick of being together 24/7 too. It doesn't been I dont love him but, this Covid pandemic has been hard on everyone. Lockdown put alot of challenges on everyone n' my husband suffer's from depression that it made it even harder. Marriage is full of up's and down's it's how you deal w/ them that can make u stronger or break u up. U two have a strong bond WE CAN FEEL THE LOVE! ❤

[@chaserenee1576]

I just seen you two on a Snapchat story, OMG!!! You two are so adorable and I can tell the love is real. 💕. Have a baby, live your lives! Screw the haters!

[@LindaTinahTV]

I've been married for 8 years and my husband and I are similar to you guys in the sense that we give each other freedom to do things we enjoy individually and it works for us. We have had people definitely ask where is he or where is she when we do things alone because they find it unusual. I think every couple should try it.

[@lorealkelly6314]

I watch y’all episodes on Snapchat all the time . I don’t see nothing wrong with y’all love, ITS LOVE. it shares no limits or no boundaries. I fell in love with a man 15 years older than me. and I am only 25, he’s 40. people are Hippocrates, don’t let them stop y’all from loving one another & being something that they simply cannot be and that’s “HAPPY”

[@andreaac4499]

Hippocrates lmao

[@ginnybair2533]

I would absolutely read her book if Eileen finishes! That sounds awesome!

[@beatrixelder-sandiford4155]

I don’t like Eileen 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@loril982]

Oh sorry Julia, Im definitely not pulling my weight, I'll try harder to help. Julia, Amen! Prayers and video on target ! ! Ba ga ha 😅

[@cassimattock6457]

I just love you two! So brave to be so open and raw with the social side of things when people can be so cruel, your awesome!!

[@letitpourlyndabutcher8624]

Life is so unpredictable and in many ways our strength and love in relationships are truly tested in the times that are difficult. I have the right to say that because I have been with my husband for 25 years, I am 50 now, and it has not been all roses and rainbows. As much as I appreciate your honesty, don’t ever let people who write horrible comments dictate what you think you need to share. Unfortunately when you open your lives up to millions of watchers, many miserable people will want you to feel bad about something, aka haters or trolls. Live your best lives! It’s not your Chanel, or other people’s opinions that dictate the health of your relationship. I hardly ever comment on people that I follow, but I really love you guys and I hate to see that those haters get to you. Btw, we have an Airbnb in Niagara Falls, Canada, so if you ever travel this way, I would love to host the two of you and show you all the beautiful aspects of Niagara Falls. I have worked for the Niagara Parks for 20 years, I’m certain I could get passes to all the attractions, and wineries😜

[@lynnen264]

Love when u two just sit and talk

[@ItsBellum]

Oooh Some Tea...let me grab my crumpets!

[@Annii620]

I loved videos with you both in it. ❤️ 🌈 I was bummed when the video ended, lol. Eileen should do like YOuTube Live/IG live so she can record her own and be saved.

[@Veeolet-Luv]

You 2 still have a very cute connection ❤ ❤ love those q&a together :3

[@cynthiasands3255]

Awwwwlove u guys being so honest. Love whaching u both have a amazing day.

[@nicoleanderson5704]

You two are inspiring and your love is real and sincere ❤ you guys rock it!

[@puppylov3808]

Hugs from South Carolina. I enjoy your videos. Sending good vibes your way. Y'all seem really nice

[@puppylov3808]

@@Tialux465 Yay!!!! Hi neighbor

[@kylorenthehusky2584]

Hi!

[@puppylov3808]

@@kylorenthehusky2584 Hello

[@ItsMeJen30]

Don’t ever rush having a baby . Not saying u are lol but live life and make sure it’s the right time!

[@kylorenthehusky2584]

Love you ladies! To anyone who reads this, your life is what you make it! Stay safe out there 😃

[@IrishgirlieX]

I just love you two 😩❤️ so real and honest I want a love like yours lol keep well ❤️

[@italianmommaotts3185]

Please do more Q AND A VIDEO'S❤❤❤WE ALL ADORE U BOTH!!!!

[@Rob-ry7yi]

A fertility test ??? What for ? Lmao

[@Ummo2850]

That’s part of the perks to having an older partner, their stability , wisdom and security bring a calmness of understanding that we’re not born to be attached at the hip

[@tschandraheinze1680]

Hahaha I can't wait to see a baby come out of you..... i mean, that sounded wrong, edit that out. Lol 😆 🤣 I knew what you meant. You 2 are the best. This was a good video yet they always are. I think its great that you guys encourage one another to just be, to live your best life. Love it. Hugs to you both 🤗 from Alaska Tschandra

[@ninnri]

I watched your whole Snapchat story vlog and I HAD to some here! Y’all are so precious together, the way you both look at each other melts my heart. Good luck on future baby!!!

[@AndreaJMtz]

What are your days like now that you are retired Eileen?

[@stephe93anie]

Great video you guys 💖 covid being hard on relationships is sooooo relatable but also all the relatable in this video

[@baileycuervo]

I wait all week for your videos 💗

[@littlebitty8318]

There are times when I dont want to do things.....BUT I DO THINGS. Sure Jan .

[@Jylart]

Hopefully this will stop the questions and comments! Thank you for sharing details of your relationship and lives. Would you ever do a day in the life of Beverly video?? I'd love to see that!!

[@joycene1ster]

I think you two are a great couple and you are both awesome

[@molycule1]

Love you both!!!

[@meredithelyse505]

Take a shot every time Eileen says “yeah yeah”

[@foreverloved129]

Omg I love u both. Always get excited when a new video shows up and LOVE it when ur both in it. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@r_b8372]

love from the uk, love you! 💕

[@rogue874]

I love you two ❤️ I struggle with mental health issues too, Julia, it’s so so hard 😓 xxx

[@buljeetbenchode]

Hards day of work but after listening to you two you made my day! 💙

[@aprilmichelle703]

I haven't seen one of your videos in a while but this popped up on my home feed today. You and Aileen are such a sweet couple and I love your videos. Am a huge fan. I hope you two enjoy doing all of the things you weren't able to because of the pandemic.

[@joyk5597]

love you both!! i'm glad you two are doing well. don't pay attention to haters and negative people 💖

[@tiarenechandler5185]

Everyone has problems in a marriage and in a relationship no one has a FAIRYTALE MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU TRY TO SAY YOU DO THEN ITS THE FIRST WEEK TO FIRST 12 MONTHS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP PERIOD CAUSE THATS THE ONLY TIME THAT THINGS ARE GOING TO BE LIKE THAT NO ONES PERFECT PERIOD PEOPLE

[@Caveofenchantment]

Always support you guys 🖤

[@ladyredl3210]

Ellien's hair just keeps getting cuter, omgs. Love you both. Is Ellien's shoulder better? Edit:sorry for the spelling, KZbin is being a jerk, please excuse that.

[@NinPinkLily]

As a new mom myself, Don't be ashamed 'ever' if you need to find help once you have baby. It is healthier to be mentally happy than not, cuz baby blues are real. Taking this time to enjoy each other it's soo important! Enjoy it and take it easy 😊 cuz baby is a blessing but it also changes you in both positive and negative ways. ♥️

[@carminati2490]

"I can't wait to see a baby coming out of you." Funniest thing Eileen's ever said 😂

[@nikkijoose]

The opening of this video is so stinking CUTE 🥰 Love 💕 you two beautiful ladies

[@wendywilliams3740]

Ur nail polish matches r top perfectly

[@peacelovetvblue]

Julia do u plan on starting a business in the future? Eileen, have u thought abt starting a podcast where it's much easier then managing a KZbin (I know bc I have a podcast & a KZbin channel) have a wonderful day!!! ✌🏾💙

[@LindaTinahTV]

Excuse me if you have talked about this before but how come you took a fertility test. Were there any concerns? At your age infertility is not something I ever thought about.

[@isiahscars5799]

Eileen I love love love the purple in your hair so pretty

[@caterinas6863]

Eileen, I’m honestly happy for you that you can enjoy retirement after a long working life!! Enjoy!! I can’t wait for the day when I can retire - more than 30 years to go though!!

[@zoooejenkins]

I’ve learned so much about relationships from you two. I’ve never been in one myself, but I will remember all the wisdom you’ve imparted upon me when my time comes

[@itslisa_h]

much love to you guys♥️

[@itisdaphne]

Love this video 🤍 Btw where's your necklace from i really want an amethist one but i only find long ones

[@hannahmiller5515]

Love watching your ladies' marriage mature and grow. Thanks for sharing. And Eileen, myself and many others would cherish your memoir. I'd buy a copy in an instant.

[@babedie8534]

Enjoyed the video. I miss both of you in vlogs. I understand though with the current climate. Just throwing it out there it is missed♡♡♡

[@Lunalane567]

I love them but seriously the kissing grosses me out so much

[@gcxvy]

Same

[@exh-hm2sm]

then skip it

[@kendra.ivy1031]

Then you don’t love them. Skip that part. I bet you kissing other people grosses out others too.

[@lauralobato7417]

As someone who's previous relationship broke down I'd say lockdown played a massive part in the break up. We spent a lot of time together and then he began working from home whilst I ended up getting a job working nights and it was difficult. While I slept he was working and I couldn't sleep. We ended up aggravating each other so much.

[@amazonionavalon8252]

Sorry to hear you had to go through this difficult lock down relationship breakup experience Laura. Wishing you lots of love and happiness in the future.

[@buddah610]

My 15 year relationship (married for 5 of those) broke apart right before Thanksgiving. My wife asked for a divorce and I had no clue it was coming. I don’t work so I am at home a lot but when Covid hit, she had to start working from home. She set up an office in my photography studio and actually started her own business. I only saw her during dinner and on weekends, she worked on her business and did her own thing. We rarely did anything together and when I expressed my feelings, she took it as criticism and shut down emotionally. We just bought a house 3 years ago and are still in the house together. I have nowhere to go and I don’t make enough money to live on my own. I don’t know what will happen but this is horrible. I wish you luck and peace.

[@chaneldiaz8086]

Great video strong relationship

[@dissolve3925]

There are editing apps that Eileen could use they are simple to understand but if you have a long video it will take some time to edit even when you use simple software to edit. so I get why she would stop making videos it is time consuming.

[@stephaniebaird6937]

Omg im so excited for this