Justin as a retired I.C.C,U. Nurse I can tell that there is a blood test that can tell you what strain you have,if the other Two persons are tested it can reveal who was infected first.It the three of you are tested together I believe I it will also reveal which person passed it on to whom.God Bless you in your endeavors to continue your goals in life.
@mereyemsuzanne86357 ай бұрын
I wanted to write the same.. Than I dud read your comment.. So I liked 👍 it... and leave it at that ...
@carpetrug018 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. I spend hours watching HIV stories on youtube because they all help me get tons of thoughts, ideas and different perspectives from people. I volunteer by presenting HIV / Health information to people so these videos do a lot of good for me which I try to pass on to others.
@sukihaanaaa18125 жыл бұрын
I was terrified to get tested , I literally put it off because I was scared of a positive result. I haven’t been the best girl ... if u catch my drift. Luckily I came and saw your video about the hiv rapid test. And I got tested!!!! I got tested for everything and was negative. I was so worried , I was making myself sick with symptoms !!!!
@sukihaanaaa18125 жыл бұрын
Get tested. Thank you for sharing your story. You gave me the strength to go get tested. Will never take my health for granted again.
@antonygikonyo79149 ай бұрын
Good lesson,... never mess around again...things are thick,..n good luck...!!
@kdtennis18 ай бұрын
In 2023, people need to use truvada prep and condoms! You get 90% of the sensation with condoms,but you are protectected from many diseases!
@missysmithy259 жыл бұрын
What's that jazz song in the background? It's beautiful
@dashberlin28139 жыл бұрын
+missysmithy25 Beautiful like you
@iskandarraise6 жыл бұрын
missysmithy25 yes you are
@tonidavis69655 жыл бұрын
Ikr I liked tht music
@ctaylordilll10 жыл бұрын
Does it really matter now who infected you, Justin? How many people have you possibly infected? You don't know when you became a carrier, either. Don't you think there is someone else you've slept with who may have contracted an illness and is wondering the same question? Anyway here is my thought. There is no such thing as a HIV virus. Anyone can become ill after sleeping around and contracting germs from others. Don't let these medical ""professionals''' tell you anything different. While I am posting. Let me say there will never be a medical cure for Cancer or HIV. AIDS is only a description of what happens when the body cannot fight off or destroy pathogens. You can fight the degeneration by taking care of your body...that means fighting off whatever is the underlying cause (like a fungal sinus infection). When you are weak it means your body is losing a battle between pathogens like fungi, bacteria, viruses (from when you had chicken pox, etc). You can build your resistance by eating no refined sugars, no wheat, and living a clean and healthy lifestyle. There is so much more to it. Do you research. Call on God and He will show you the way. Don't let the enemy come between you and God. He's a master at it and uses everyday people to control you and your health.
@JustinBTerrySmith10 жыл бұрын
WOW Good for you
@martinarg10110 жыл бұрын
DRAMADDESTROYER bitch
@DRAMADDESTROYER10 жыл бұрын
martinarg101 You must be his homosexual lover or some
@DRAMADDESTROYER10 жыл бұрын
martinarg101 who... are youuu?
@martinarg10110 жыл бұрын
I am someone smart enough to catch your attention darling
@williamd81458 жыл бұрын
May you find peace whether you ever find out who infected you or not.
@Sonia-cs2vw7 ай бұрын
They have different strains of hiv and if you have the same strain as one of your partners that is probably who infected you. Congrats on those degrees bro!❤❤❤
@denerorahming72986 жыл бұрын
At this point I really don't think it matters who gave it to you....
@jenm73267 жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing well and for people on here that are making negative and nasty comments. SHAME ON YOU
@JustinBTerrySmith7 жыл бұрын
Jen M thank you sweetie I appreciate the support XOXOXOX positivity is always the way to go
@bozhijak5 жыл бұрын
I just stumbled upon this my friend and thank you for sharing this.
@JustinBTerrySmith5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@vivwill1598 жыл бұрын
It's very staggering! There are people out there who know that they have it and still intend on getting intimate with other people. It is so sick and sad. There are some who do not even believe in using protection, claiming that negative thoughts will make a person more susceptible to contracting it. That's like playing roulette with the body.
@pepieverage49443 жыл бұрын
I hope all is well with you...
@JustinBTerrySmith3 жыл бұрын
Things are great and I hope you are well too
@MsCppnpa7 жыл бұрын
Any update about him? Is he still alive?
@Zumabafoo10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story!
@annemoore30417 жыл бұрын
hey Justin I'm just curious I hope that you are well then God bless you
@WashingtonMonster869 жыл бұрын
I wold pursue it a bit further as far as the other "not knowing his status" before having intercourse with you. Maybe you don't mind, or forgive him. But for anyone else, if someone engages in intercourse with you knowing they're HIV positive, you legally can have the arrested and put in prison. Knowing your status is important, but knowing the law as far as those who knowingly engage in intercourse as HIV positive is just as important. Knowingly spreading HIV is illegal.
@Demetriusdionne9 жыл бұрын
It is time to retain a lawyer. Nice music. 🎷. Thank goodness it's not a bad strand. Also, you don't have the next stage of aids. You probably will never get aids.
@melaniemisfits361210 жыл бұрын
justin you are so confident and a very high esteem you are inspiration to those who think its the end of life when they get infected by HIV.you are a role model to many xx
@charles-ge1nx3 ай бұрын
This “doctor “ isn’t at all confident sounding. Sounds like BUNK.
@africamcfadden63465 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your success Just happened to come Across two of your videos And I find you inspiring Be blessed 💭
@JustinBTerrySmith5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@LarryBanks8510 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this video and you really inspired me to keep following my dreams regardless of what you are going through because there maybe situations where you might come across some people that will mess your life up but some people don't know who got them in this situation but can learn to move forward and let the lord deal with the situation. All I can is you are sexy charming man and you are very strong and have so much courage in yourself to do this and that's what I like about you and you never know one day if its meant to be we might work out something down the road if you are single and still looking for a guy like to be in your life lol but you never know holla
@regionaldonaldson35465 жыл бұрын
Who? Mm lets see. Before your sex encounter you were hiv negative so it takes 2 people to engage and you coulda stopped at anytime before sex occured. That being said self will is when you make a premeditated decision to engage in sex. So congratulations!! We know who the who is now... Look in the mirror...😳😰😳😰
@6941jess9 жыл бұрын
you ll never find out who gave it and you coulda infected someone lese so this virus just go on and on without ppl getting tested and using condum but youll bless to be here just gon with ife and stay safe
@laken18048 ай бұрын
That friend knew for years that he was infected and never reached out to you to make sure you're okay. That's selfish.
@mjbsen11 жыл бұрын
I think the essential thing is to look forward not back. What would you gain from knowing which guy/situation infected you? You say they are both still your friends and that is great. I would be more worried if the guy who infected you did not know he was positive!!! That would be horrible for him. I understand that you feel in limbo but at least they both told you even if the other guy is ten years late!!! Keep smiling.
@blkcoverboy11 жыл бұрын
i dont blame the person who passed hiv to me i take responsiblitly for my actions in not using protection! but i respect your journey and your struggle..like i said i was not trying to pass judgement
@loriwashington58043 ай бұрын
Good way of looking at things. Because the person that infected you could not have been aware
@angelamarie36174 жыл бұрын
What's with the music in the background!!!?
@frankiedejesus12910 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful video man. Thanks for sharing.
@maxios8 жыл бұрын
It's no longer a death sentence, and God still has a plan for your life. Take care of yourself really well and God Bless.
@JustinBTerrySmith8 жыл бұрын
thank you
@maxios8 жыл бұрын
+Justin B. Terry-Smith its some ignorant people on this post, (what they don't know is you could live longer than any of us), and don't need the negative energy. My best friend died from aids her hubby gave it to her, but that was in the 90's at that time there was not much known about it.
@rocksofoffence.righteousam24229 ай бұрын
It was the 1 who you, slept with 3 to 4 times. He already had it while he was with you, that night
@trinabrown8979 жыл бұрын
I'm just curious what if you find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with Will you ever be able to have unprotected sex because. I heard there is a pill big positive people can take before having unprotected sex that can prevent there partners from catching it. And this is for the couple's that want to have children.
@easemailboxes8 жыл бұрын
It must be terribly difficult for you. It is so easy for me to say as I am NOT in your shoes. However the perspective of a third person may or not be helpful, I hope to be. Searching for your infect-or does little to help you. Imagine from the perspective of the person that infected you.... You finding out and his fear (right or wrongly founded) of you spreading his name or the guilt you will load apon him (though I am sure you have no intention to load him with guilt, huge feelings of guilt will be unavoidable (whether he knew or didn't know.... he will still feel immense guilt). Is finding someone to be responsible so important? It doesnt change the fact that you are infected and does not change your future. What I do want to say to you though is how impressed I am with your strength and character. I look forward to reading your video entry's and am sure I shall be reading them for many years into the future. You are a strong man and my prayers are with you.
@chcltsxygrl9 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen all of your videos so maybe this has been addressed. I admire and respect your candid approach. I am just wondering if you ever contacted people you may have infected.
@dandelion12127610 жыл бұрын
I image the Dr office just like getting a paternity test ask ur Dr I'm sorry i responded so late and don't have An answer but i do know its available and can be done
@Tracyyyyyful10 жыл бұрын
hi Justin, watched ur video ealier on and must say its inspiring. you're a really brave person in the eyes of god and to others with positive thinking to be honest and to tell us what happen to you. all i want to say is to stay healthy, carry on living a normal life and dnt listen to some of these unjust ppl that tries to judge and put you down. aids is a virus and a disease such as cancer and all the other rest ,only worst bit is that its even more serious and most of these people thats trying to put you down has had a disease std before and they know their selves. be happy justin , it is what it is and the only thing that matters right now is to makesure that you stay healthy and is happy all the way, bless up and nuff luv xx
@patrickcoyne56966 ай бұрын
Listen its all up 2 youse both get tested first..none of youse learn until wen its to late
@AmoraSian110 жыл бұрын
Your brave for sharing your story I pray.it help and encourage others to be more straight forward and knowledgeable about the disease
@Mark-ye9pi15 күн бұрын
Love the background instrumentation
@SweetTeaTvTeaSippers10 жыл бұрын
My blessings to you
@aaronsandoval67239 жыл бұрын
That music is so melow.
@frankiedejesus12910 жыл бұрын
Also- don't listen to these people telling you not to find the individual. If you feel like you need to find that individual find them. It's your life man! On another note, your positive attitude is inspiring.
@Demetriusdionne8 жыл бұрын
Yes, I think he should find someone the person that he had contact with. 😔
@reemfitness72618 жыл бұрын
stay strong I have question plz answer me did U note any thing strange in ur mouth before U got the test????
@WashingtonDC200326 жыл бұрын
Reem Sharane before I was diagnosed I noticed thrush on my tongue that everyone gets but it started to get thicker than usual. Also, random tastebuds were swollen as if I bit my tongue but I knew I never bit my tongue.
@JustinBTerrySmith11 жыл бұрын
Tona I so love you too. I will call about the show later on this week I promise
@ashalayl110 жыл бұрын
I admire your courage and your perseverance. No excuse for not succeeding.
@blkcoverboy11 жыл бұрын
umm im hiv postive myself! so i know EXACTLY how it feels!
@JBryant12310 жыл бұрын
The stigma behind being infected with HIV/AIDS is that, people still don't think that it could happen to them especially young folks. It needs to be more people like you spreading the word and educating people about this epidemic...!!!
@adekunledaodu73957 жыл бұрын
hiv sad music
@charles-ge1nx3 ай бұрын
Are you a doctor? Are you a medical doctor? Are you a physician? You sound & speak tentatively. You seem uncertain of everything. Very strange narrative account.
@Nninjarider8 жыл бұрын
fuckin gross bro
@b-venswenakio44865 жыл бұрын
No worri about it dont try to know when how and who's, now take care of u be clean take your médecines you live trust me . Dont blaming urself just live god will take care too.
@yarilmartinez964110 жыл бұрын
I know this is a werid question but if you have HIV do you die??
@leannarobinson59499 жыл бұрын
You want die from it, there are medicine to help treat it and as longs as he takes the meds, do his follow ups and of course eat healthy, not to mention not have sex he will be fine. I took health classes and learned a few things about the virus.
@johnlewis21137 жыл бұрын
im not sure if im hiv positive or not im scared to know because im 23 yrs old ...i dont wanna die
@dl70494 жыл бұрын
I know this is one of the hardest things to, but very important that you go get tested. Life is not over, u can still live a full life if u test positive. I pray that u not though 🙏 I promise u will be just fine.
@dl70494 жыл бұрын
I know where u r coming from, the need to know, but at end day lift u spirit's cuz it really doesn't matter. Live ur life bro. There new meds that help u live a normal life. I see u when get old kid. Peace stay strong
@brandyhancock799910 жыл бұрын
I feel u r doing a great thing and maybe one of ur partners will get tested or come forward. Because. In 10 years u could've infected someone else who regularly got tested and you can start a timeline wishing u the best and u give hope to alot of people that r infected and afraid to say so, uninfected people should be informed
@ak47ava7 жыл бұрын
my freind it is probably the last person you had sex with before you found out about HIV, also sharing needles is a big thing. And you mentioned that you were passed out drunk, could someone else have had sex with you when you were intoxicated.
@kajwojones5 жыл бұрын
Aw
@suburbcinderella6 жыл бұрын
hi Justin , you seem to know a lot of HIV. can you please tell me the risk of having only oral sex, not anal, no drug use. I have never had unprotected sex ever. thank you in advance for your help
@RamonaGrigsby-d2r6 ай бұрын
Because he wants to
@Ianwigginsd87522 ай бұрын
I was infected by my second sexual partner at 19 and I'm still here at 49. God bless u.
@darienlenderson71206 жыл бұрын
And people are mentioning tests to find out which strain a person has. Well if a person has been reinfected, would they not have multiple strains?? Idk pardon my ignorance.
@NONcorrupt10 жыл бұрын
trying to find out "exactly" who infected you is a waste of time & can be a distraction to doing something progressive. it best to let it go and just continue to move forward. you don't need to know everything .
@johnetheridge58332 ай бұрын
This is why I'm a virgin at 62 years old
@MissyMissy362 ай бұрын
Wow🥰 62
@ruthsantiago3636 жыл бұрын
❤God bless you
@reegugu24867 жыл бұрын
God bless you, hope you doing well.
@TonaBrown197911 жыл бұрын
I look forward to your call Divo!! keep up the fantastic work!
@calvin7771009 жыл бұрын
WOW! I just read DILL's comment again and really thought about it. His is by far the best thought provoking comment for you to think about Justin.
@Purenessly11 жыл бұрын
Luv the background music!
@kaisendalesmith9157 жыл бұрын
It's probably more likely to be the latter guy because you would have sero converted and you would have known by the time you were 25
@paulatyson34232 ай бұрын
So sad
@stephaniecrews80117 жыл бұрын
it's a test out their to tell you the date year day you was infeated I have heard go to KZbin and ask Walter Hampton he know are you on prep???
@julie950410 жыл бұрын
how many sexual partners did you have of before you found out you were HIV positive until after you found out?
@diggingdarling62567 жыл бұрын
You would have had some type of symptoms if you were living with it that long from what I have read.
@ij80847 жыл бұрын
y r u in limbo the facts that u have it now, n what's more important u call everyone that u had sex with n let them know ur status smh
@RobertKingett11 жыл бұрын
Firstly I just want to give you the longest hug ever! I’d personally say I think you should keep digging and looking because I think it will give you peace that you’ve never expected. Secondly, I want to ask you if I can do some investigative journalism… (About the tests you were wondering about.) Even if you never end up knowing who did it, that's okay too because I know that either way, you’re still passionate, persistent, and peaceful.
@DadSteve11 жыл бұрын
Having unprotected anal sex with a poz top does NOT mean you WILL get infected - it just means that the risk of infection is much greater. That is why it is best to treat ANY sexual partner as though they are poz. What you DO know is that you are loved, in a supportive relationship, have done a LOT of good for the community and give/receive a lot of love for others. Concentrate on the positive things and release the negative ones. Peace.
@brichardsfourty7 ай бұрын
Hi Justin thank you for the update love watching your videos, bro
@JustinBTerrySmith11 жыл бұрын
Wow it sounds exciting. I didn't think you were against me or not on my side at all. But one must see other people views on this subject because it is highly sensitive. We must be clear about what we are saying about it without posing "possible" judgment. And sometimes sharing feelings is just that which of course is okay too ;-) Now...........WHERE CAN I GET MY HANDS ON THAT BOOK...wait I see Amazon. is it under your pen name or real name (Vernal Scott)
@blkcoverboy11 жыл бұрын
i personally dont think anyone "gives" you hiv i think if you are casually having sex without any condom you put your OWN self at risk..so i dont think it really matters "Who" it came from whennyou dont use a condom...and im not passing judgement i just look at this situation from a diffrent perspective! so i dont think you should worry about who or how you became hiv poz...
@JustinBTerrySmith11 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure what you mean. but i'm guessing you are asking if two people can give it to each other when both are HIV negative and I believe the answer is no
@VernalScott11 жыл бұрын
Hey Justin, I recently wrote about my own story in God's Other Children - A London Memoir (Amazon books etc), even though it's from a different perspective. If you knew me then you'd know that I'm on your side, and if I was there I'd be the forst to hug you...but I do have an opinion., I'm not sure how knowing who gave you HIV will help, but I wish you everything that is good in life, sincerely.
@VernalScott11 жыл бұрын
Question: Outside of rape or accidents, and without passing judgement, don't we willingly invite HIV into our lives when we have unsafe sex? Your ex partners could be asking the same question of you. Surely what matters now is staying well in mind and body, and making safer sex the norm, henceforth. Btw, congratulations on all your achievements.
@Rose-mo8qq10 жыл бұрын
I'm amazed at one thing. You say these guys are your friends and the could be the 1's who infected u. For me I don't think I could be friends with someone who puts my life in jeopardy.
@leannarobinson59499 жыл бұрын
I would have to agree with you personally I've would have killed them and wouldn't care after that, because effecting someone with HIV is very serious especially when they know for a fact they have it. That is a big crime.
@VernalScott11 жыл бұрын
Hi Justin, apologies for any misunderstanding/miscommunication on my part. I'm definitely on your side. By the way, my book is non-fiction and under my real name, Vernal Scott. Thank you for your interest in it. I very much hope you'll find it worthy of your time. Wishing you a great day.
@hivdatinguk9919 жыл бұрын
Impossible to really know how it happened but its too late now to classify.
@dnkserious11 жыл бұрын
It's really puzzling to me. Im not sure how it works but I always hear from a person withvthe HIV that someone else gave them the virus. Do you think that two ppl create the virus between each other also? Great video
@JustinBTerrySmith11 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much the the compliment man i do appreciate the support Vernal whether you know it or not it does sound like you are passing judgement. As stated in the video I didn't know I was having unprotected sex. but I do agree with, "Your ex partners could be asking the same question of you. Surely what matters now is staying well in mind and body, and making safer sex the norm, henceforth. Btw, congratulations on all your achievements."
@ThePeacePlant10 жыл бұрын
whats the song in the background anyone know??
@DadSteve11 жыл бұрын
Condoms can also be unreliable and what starts as a 'safer' session, can change - fi the condom breaks/tears. There is a small percentage of infected men that did not do anything 'risky' - and still got it. Considering the situation you describe, I'd say it is not possible to identify just who it was. I do remember reading that there are different strains of HIV - so if the blood of all 3 people is tested, it might narrow it down.
@99645md10 жыл бұрын
You know how you were infected. I hope all is well though.
@theonerd200211 жыл бұрын
I hear your story, & really do feel ya, but I say acknowledge that the infection happened & keep moving forward to a better you. Looking back in worry does you no good. I think you need no test to provide a set infection date (unless for scientific/medical reasons), but just a CURE for the disease. Know you know, & you can AT LEAST pinpoint your sexual partners thruout ur story. Be blessed, strong, beautiful man.
@swimmingmantis228 жыл бұрын
are you using dr.sebi's method? a very good way to go.
@Sonia-cs2vw7 ай бұрын
Cant the doctor test u guys and find out who infected who?
@DadSteve11 жыл бұрын
Hi Justin - I'm sure there are times when it would feel somewhat comforting to know the answer to your question. With what you have shared here, there are so many possibilities and variables - I really don't think it is possible to know with certainty just who gave you the virus. It could have been the first guy, or the second guy - or BOTH. Not everybody keeps current with their status, so the guy who can show you an HIV-neg blood result, may have been exposed the day after the test.
@sfcalvinaz11 жыл бұрын
Of course I had complete trust that you would move in the direction of love and light. Keep on keepin' on. Sending love and hugs.
@kleel64928 жыл бұрын
In your case, Since your initial/ first contact, how long did it take to get a flu? I assume it was a bad one and last few weeks?
@JustinBTerrySmith8 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure
@JustinBTerrySmith11 жыл бұрын
Thank you Robert I really appreciate the support. I have investigated it and have found nothing as of yet
@TonaBrown197911 жыл бұрын
Awe Justin I love your journal so much. you are helping so many people please call me about my show when you can.
@nubianblk11 жыл бұрын
Having been Poz for over 20 years I agree that what matters now is staying well in mind and body, making safer sex the norm and add to that educating others who for what ever reason don't believe that protected sex is for them. I just purchased Vernal's book and look forward to reading it. I also look forward to more of your posts as I have just discovered your page on KZbin.
@JustinBTerrySmith11 жыл бұрын
Thank you Robert I really appreciate the support. I have investigated it and have found nothing as of yet