Off The Record: Why Do Asian Men Feel Unattractive? (ft. David So & Friends)

[@starvyng]

David still roasting geo even when she’s not there 😂😭

[@brootal4234]

He’s jealous because he wants Bart’s D.

[@bethnichols2875]

Joe is correct. Confidence is more attractive then people who keep putting themselves down. For if you think low of yourself, how are people going to see you.

[@harundaniel7705]

I’ve noticed it even with myself. On days that I’m more confident, I can feel it off the people I’m interacting with. But when I don’t, even those talking to me feel more groggy and less interested. Confidence is really important.

[@Mewzyc]

best to stop thinking all together lol.

[@harundaniel7705]

@@Mewzyc I’m an over thinker…Wish it was easy 😅

[@Mewzyc]

@@harundaniel7705 me too., But I try to slowly unlearn. It's hard to not overthink because you don't really know people's intentions and what they think about you, and how honest/fake they are when they talk to you, or don't talk to you (lack of open/Honest communication)

[@brootal4234]

Just tell everyone “just be confident bro”. True sage words of worldly wisdom.

[@TheGymBros1998]

That’s so true what Bart said. I grew up in a really diverse area and I never thought I couldn’t try to date someone that wasn’t my race. My first girlfriend was Asian in 3rd grade and then a middle eastern on in 4th grade as in middle school a black girl and then Latina like that has never occurred to me that I couldn’t talk to a girl because of their race.

[@droptopp3479]

Alot of it has to do with where your born at and where your living. Where i live in socal, theres like only 3-5% asian population in school. So it was a bit hard to get out of the shell and date other races when the other race usually prefer their own race. But yes confidence does play a big role around highschool and after. But honestly if your fit and have alot of confidence/funny, you can def get any race easier.

[@sedled2829]

Just a rule of thumb: it’s always easier to attract your own race in a multicultural society, but some things are universal male attractors, like height, confidence, charisma, ability to stay grounded. Go to the mirror and ask yourself if you’d date you and be honest. Cause some of y’all boys got some real work to do mentally,physically,spiritually, financially. But you don’t have to have everything in order to join the dance of life, it’s a chaotic world so work on your own peace/piece.

[@Jasmine-sj6oh]

keep this group together this is the best lol

[@iBeatBoxz8]

Everyone expect David, honestly can’t stand that dude.

[@blackdiamond808]

Before I watch this video, I am a dark skin black woman. I have never had issues with men being attracted to me. At any age. Black men have always been the most unkind and critical. Being thin and smart/nerdy, they accused me of trying to be white. I grew up on a military base with so many races, I knew that was bullshit. Thank God I found channels like jk. The Asian women I had in my life were not only open to help a young black girl, but made the best food. Spanish women as well. Only in my black community was I judged so harshly. I love my people, but they didn't let me be me growing up.

[@Dave_of_Mordor]

asian women help a young black girl? where is this?

[@ryanimay]

Thank you for sharing.. hope you get more kindness aimed your way from every possible angle !

[@6424wen]

Ya race is a made up concept that somehow Americans are just so obsessed about

[@CoolNumber1]

lol asian girl doesn't help lol, the moment you date an attractive asian guy, you will see their true color

[@DivestedChristian]

@Black Diamond look up Cynthia G on KZbin

[@stephiek.3267]

Self confidence, self awareness, and a sense of humor will get a man far.

[@iBeatBoxz8]

That’s just a nice way of saying money.

[@laateenreactieachter]

Confidence and self awareness often dont go well together tho

[@WhatevenisFudgeCake]

Yeah but those things don't fall out of the sky...you get confidence by positive feedback from others...you can't just BE confident

[@WhatevenisFudgeCake]

Not everyone can be funny.

[@lightningher894]

I had a Mexican girlfriend when I was a kid and I never thought it was weird until my parents told me that being in a relationship with someone out of race was bad. Her family was super chill about it tho even got invited to her cousins quinceanera.

[@brooke6308]

Remember your parents aren’t the ones dating/having a relationship with that person. They are probably just going off what they were told and that worked for them. Find who makes you happy!

[@ClownAl3n]

Respects Yo! Big accomplishment for you being invited 💯🔥

[@jayh6135]

I’m Vietnamese and Korean and my ex-gf of 5 years was Mexican, her dad loved me, trusted me, was always out with them for cookouts and all that. I was brought up to believe that interracial dating was a crime, I always just followed what I believe and didn’t let their outdated mindset alter my decisions

[@pool4315]

@Youry Tyua because asians hold white ppl on a pedalstool

[@piolo1023]

We always gotta invite everyone to quinces 😂 come though it's gonna be fun

[@AmongUsAcademy]

I think a big problem is the lack of “Asian Romantic Leads” in TV shows or movies. And even if they have a “Hot Male Asian” they often are “Halfie Asian”. I think the only TV show with a Male Romantic Asian lead I can think of recently is “Crazy Ex Girlfriend” Comparatively, there’s so many other shows that show Asian women in romantic relationships, often with white men. But the opposite is definitely not shown for Asian Men on the screen.

[@JordanReedYT]

Daniel Dae Kim and Sung kang would disagree with you.

[@minty8429]

This is why media/social media is toxic. Just focus on yourself and your own goals. Don't let the media or what others say dictate your self worth.

[@불루재이]

@@carlosocatavious3363 Instead of complaining about representation in Hollywood, Asians gotta stop worshipping whites back home then

[@steveh5307]

TWD

[@soacker25]

Actually someone with a brain in here!

[@jordinhocharles]

I love when David comes back… Also did he get funnier ??? 🤔 I don’t think I noticed because I’m always watching him and Tim, but seeing him back in this space, he was letting the jokes fly 🦅🦅🦅🦅

[@LydiaWin]

Attractive is attractive regardless of race

[@itsrupaulsgaysia7671]

TRUE

[@melolabean7656]

Very very true!

[@Silenced_by_nazi_youtube]

But I think Asians are least attractive still

[@sneedmando186]

Idk if we still saying pause, but y’all Asian brothers be handsome as hell most of the time. Keep your heads up kings, some of us are looking up to you

[@zainshinoku7368]

Asian force brudda we got each other’s backs 👍🏼

[@brandonlee1947]

Love this cast, no filters, just a bunch of dudes spitting facts

[@johnnyblaze1098]

So you love sausage?

[@brandonlee1947]

@@johnnyblaze1098 Yes, i love hotdogs

[@doritosmax5177]

@@brandonlee1947 Hotdogs with just mustard and maybe relish

[@hybui123]

This is a very West Coast centric attitude. When you live in the South and East Coast (and trust me, there’s a lot of Asians who live in the South and East Coast), you do run into a more collective, xenophobic idea towards Asian men in the dating realm.

[@minty8429]

move to the west coast then lol

[@hybui123]

@@minty8429 Fam, in THIS ECONOMY?

[@jameswiggle]

@@hybui123 seriously i am not payin 5k a month for a 1000 sq feet. lol

[@TacticalDimples]

@@jameswiggle 1000 square feet is actually very generous for 5k over here.

[@matthewhernandez5365]

I live there and would say pretty much the opposite and they were completely right in what they said in the video...It's probably even more apparent in the East Coast because if you are actually attractive and likable being Asian will make them more curious about you

[@brianvuong97]

They all make good points, but they all live in a bubble aside from Hok. Everyone is born and raised in California and haven’t grown up in the South or in the East coast where Asians are less represented. Some of these guys speaking for more Asian love/ representation is speaking for those guys that live in less Asian populated places. Obviously confidence and everything else plays a huge role imo

[@minty8429]

But at the end of the day, you need to realize your own self worth from yourself and not from others.

[@DrewMoney801]

I went to a rural high school that was 95%white and currently live in Utah. Never had a problem dating once I learned in my senior year of HS, it really is about confidence.

[@hybui123]

@@minty8429 And that does wonders until you realize people who live in areas where dating prejudice against Asian men is substantially more influential in people’s perception and treatment towards Asian men. Cali Asians don’t seem to get that.

[@minty8429]

@@hybui123 then move somewhere else

[@apollodorus4759]

@@hybui123 be the change you want or don't let other people's perception bother you regardless. Those people who judge you based on your race aren't people you wanna date anyway.

[@ZZdebbiecake]

But studies have shown people from all races choose Asian men & Black women last over all other races. That's just the facts though. I get what y'all are saying tho. I grew up in a multicultural area and moved to a white neighbourhood and still got attention all my life. If you're attractive you're attractive. 😂 And if you're not, work on something else so your race doesn't stop you getting what you want romantically 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@troigcyusa]

South Asian men were least attractive and black men second least attractive according to those stats. Not East Asians.

[@usersixnine347]

Asian is too broad of a term. And clearly Asians are not the same….an Indian and a Korean man is not the same “race”. The studies that separate into specifics show south Asian men being last and East Asian men having similar numbers to black men. (Which isn’t high either, but not last) Take that how you will.

[@Silenced_by_nazi_youtube]

Yup I have heard this before. It was a study done based on preferences on Tinder or something. Asian Men/Black Females were the least picked.

[@TomChenLife]

The media… The **ONLY** male Marvel hero that got their own movie but **DIDN’T** have a love interest, was Shang Chi.

[@droptopp3479]

Lmfao this one of the best ep in a long time. That table was on fire, spittin real facts

[@bradcha5413]

Anthony high fives himself LOLOLOL

[@NEK711]

15:22 love the high five support

[@iamzach5459]

David stays killin the fang bros 💀

[@KrazyF22]

🤣🤣

[@ericchen776]

did they have beef?

[@iamzach5459]

@@ericchen776 nah he just finds their content hella funny

[@iscratchmybutt]

@@iamzach5459 I used to subscribe to them years ago but it’s like dude enough with this Asian stuff mix it up a bit

[@ayila4903]

David!!!! And Geo!!!!! From the other episode, so glad to see you two!!!

[@KarimahHalias]

Your video cures my depression. Thanks!

[@r.c.7779]

It’s not just an Asian thing, a lot of minorities think like that like blacks, Arabs, Indians, etc

[@aiswaryabersan7983]

Arabs and indians are asians

[@r.c.7779]

@@aiswaryabersan7983 I know, but “Asian” to Americans usually just means East Asians

[@jayh6135]

It’s about making an impression. Just be confident and straight forward with your intention and everything’s good. 🇺🇸🇻🇳

[@TheOnlyLand]

The bit by David was great lmao

[@TheRome808]

Don’t blame your race, blame your face

[@jaydoes2166]

Lol😂

[@doritosmax5177]

Isn't that the same thing

[@Silenced_by_nazi_youtube]

And your height

[@ShadowSiren88]

I assumed asian men weren't interested in me because I was fat. Then I got trapped by my now korean husband with korean food when I was introduced on our first date. 🥰

[@marrz8244]

Fantastic conversation ✌️🤘

[@binxbugarin7022]

I love these off the records episodes 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@TayTayGrace03]

Can I just say this: *I am VERY attracted to Asian men*

[@peterlongac]

Suh shawtee

[@ChadMayate]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@allio3459]

come to California and get yourself an asian american man

[@SnowLilies]

🙌yes

[@saraha1998]

great! means you like Indian men too, right? or only what most people associate with Asia (East Asia) 🤨🤨

[@ConservativeCommonSense]

He used that cookies in cream car to get some pooosay, by saying “ I drove it into a burning warehouse to save a puppy!😂😂

[@CuongChanster]

I did have that fear of rejection. But I workout and lost weight. Asked a hot American girl out and we dated for 4 month. Boosted my confidence up

[@UserUser-ic1fw]

Are you sure she is not bisexual?

[@CuongChanster]

@@UserUser-ic1fw Oh she was! Made out with her bestfriend and other girls all the time and brought them to bed with us

[@CuongChanster]

She was a "dancer". It was nice not paying for anything.

[@troigcyusa]

@@UserUser-ic1fw cope incel

[@panucolizeth]

You know it’s over when Bart gets up before the cameras stop!!!!! 🤣

[@scyntheachannel]

Great episode

[@teresahewlett2175]

I'm Rollin 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Andrea-qx9vg]

Nick and David were funny af in this video. Please bring Davis back !

[@trisin]

davis who

[@Msdeanna.angela]

Geo needs to come kick David’s ass 😂 I think they’re on an episode together coming up 👀 I think David had such a good time with the boyz on here again - hope he comes back on more often. & whatsup with getting Tim back on for a few, it’s been a whileeeee lol

[@tinabeee7350]

This is good advice for both men and women, of any ethnicity. Be confident! IMO that’s one of the best qualities a person can have.

[@teresahewlett2175]

Unbelievable, these men and I have the same type of humor! Great men

[@gabrielpacana8596]

I love the points and jokes you guys are making. I was laughing so hard watching this!

[@smooshiee4780]

It’s so interesting to me that some Asian men (not the incels…we know why they upset)would feel so strongly about that today with how popular Asian pop music is. Obviously normal Asian men don’t walk around looking like K-pop or J-pop idols but even monolids which seem to be a big insecurity for Asian people from videos I’ve seen, those are really pretty to a lot of people with double eyelids. I think a lot of it comes down to humans just wanting what they don’t have 🤷🏼‍♀️ you have naturally tan skin and monolids, you think pale skin and double eyelids are prettier and vice versa. Media doesn’t help either. Then there are the dbags who just don’t like anyone who looks different but we don’t care about them.

[@stillsmiling17]

Y'all are crazy!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but seriously, I still don't understand because I've always thought Asian men were/are gorgeous!!! Just gotta be taller than me & I'm 5'2! 🤷‍♀️😂

[@CassiE.86_]

I enjoyed watching this so much. A bunch of fine men with hilarious personalities.

[@bradcha5413]

FENG BROS #1 PICK UP ARTIST LOLOLOL

[@miaathermopolis2430]

Lol some days aren’t as good as others, but damn this episode so funny lol 😂

[@tonygalarpe]

Always a W with DavidSo!😂🤣

[@brooke6308]

Confidence is the 🔑 Don’t get it confused with cockiness! Happy Friday Everyone!

[@POWEE00]

I am Asian. I find my Asian men the most attractive

[@shannonjackman8908]

Asian men are handsome and we get along fine

[@CassiE.86_]

Green shirt guy is hilarious! I love his personality

[@_Hanako.]

David is the best

[@Kmont79]

Nobody: David: *shitting on ***** bros* 💀💀

[@DamnAwesome]

Don't blame the race, blame the face 😂

[@dwolfe2907]

David killed me with that fukin viet hair cut accent hahah

[@Dackota]

I think I can safely say all the guys in the room are attractive males. I only dated Native American and Mexican guys until my "white guy" of 8 years and we have two sons together. I even know some Natives who fall into the "Asian-looking" category (ancestors "had some fun with the railroad people in the 1800s" from what I hear) and get mistaken for Filipino in the bigger cities. Before I went to a smaller school, or maybe just less diverse, I remember this fine Filipino guy and he was confident. I also remember this Vietnamese guy who wasn't conventionally attractive, was attractive to me. I'd broaden my horizons if I wasn't committed.

[@mskishababy3014]

(Not fetishizing) I think dark skinned Asian people look better 😊

[@Zazzy235]

I appreciate that. U have no idea how many women have called me racial slurs

[@BlaxicanBeautyTV333]

Same, had a crush on this tan Asian before lol, he was a lifeguard and fine af 😩🤣 we worked together and he would just lounge around with his shirt off like sir, please stop😂

[@roygbiv9038]

Sorry but how are you any better from people who favor lighter skin?

[@BlaxicanBeautyTV333]

@@roygbiv9038 well lighter skin is more favored in society… darker skin is not as appreciated in all cultures. Maybe their wording was wrong 😅

[@jameswiggle]

@@roygbiv9038 you can have a preference lol..jesus christ

[@easyalpha1]

Asian men have produced the most massive population on this planet...most asian men have started great families.

[@GYSMelanie5]

Swear to God, you all make me laugh every day! 🤣

[@HoloqKing]

The jknews subreddit listening to this: 👁️👄👁️

[@jw7268]

Yo i went there thinking its fans, hahahaha def incels there.

[@BlaqueDiamond2k12]

This is so funny because when I was younger had a huge crush on HoK when he was on ABDC. I can't believe he thought other races wouldn't think he was attractive.

[@OzPozzy278]

Of course when people literally keep on putting you down with a plenty of stereotypes and say you're not attractive just cos your an asian man.

[@r.c.7779]

Missed David so much!

[@MsAngelika1996]

ngl, I was just hit by the idea that David looked like the NKor Leader when he said "Korean Supremacist" 😂

[@duhbobatea]

There is some truth to it depending on where you're from. One girl did tell me she doesn't date asians so she didn't think I was cute...disregard my photo, it's old when I was young and obnoxious 😂 but definitely confidence makes a difference and how you carry yourself!

[@duhbobatea]

This episode btw, HILARIOUS

[@JordanReedYT]

@@duhbobatea I’m more so judging your profile name, rather than your picture 😂

[@OzPozzy278]

I couldn't give a damn about single loss that's what you got to keep in your mind

[@calvinchao05]

Lol idk about other Asian guys but I felt like I was being checked out several times when I was at KCon 😂

[@Skw1813]

Mate guarding agenda against Asian men has always been a thing. But it is slowly getting better. More girls are open to dating Asian men now. Many even moving to Asia just to find them a man. 🤷‍♂️

[@TayTayGrace03]

I'm SUUUPER attracted to Asian men! I grew up watching JK (for nearly a decade, I'm 23 now) so maybe it's because of these guys that I grew up finding Asian men to have the best personalities and to be the most attractive but yup, I love me an Asian man

[@JordanReedYT]

@@TayTayGrace03 I appreciate your efforts to support racial diversity Taylor 🫡 😂

[@JoshuaPark505]

I'm dying😂

[@deannacheng2234]

Preach, Joe and David 👀

[@lucylopez22]

This video was just 😂🔥🔥🔥

[@Biggumshawty]

A lot of black girls (me) definitely are looking for a Korean man STAT as of the last 5+ years…

[@KYCN8]

13:05 okayyy yes king Joe 🔥

[@calvinvang7334]

David is buzz lol love the content!

[@parthdattani1997]

Great episode loved to see David So get his ass roasted by Anthony, Ryan and Nick the new team. Bart and Joe not backing David so like before as they have to respect the new members,/colleagues.

[@shad0wCh8ser]

Good pep talk guys. Good pep talk. 🤣

[@Thewingestofdings]

Ahhh I laughed way to hard at this 😅

[@AmiaCurulli]

Now he’s one piece ahahahaha Fuck I’m dying at that joe

[@isaacoro8197]

16 seconds after upload?! Quick think of something to say

[@GYSMelanie5]

😂😂😂😂 he actually dated outside his species 😂

[@j3ff3r]

JK should guest Jimmy Zhang

[@slightlynsfw]

12:11 hell yeah that's right Joe!!!!

[@JM-gg8ko]

Filipino males go outside their race for generations but it's mostly with Hispanics and no one talks about it as inter racial dating. Why?

[@Lalalalala...]

lol i don’t always agree with them, but this was a funny video. I think it was a nice balance of actually talking about the issue and making stupid jokes 😂 i was cracking up lol

[@NEK711]

Ask the feels lol

[@dusitthehto1946]

I think true because of the media accusing Asian men to be unattractive that is my opinion but proof me I’m wrong lol

[@rheadsouza5756]

This group is the best on jknews. Please do this big group more pften

[@jmoneyent9]

Most men dont feel attractive tbh

[@tayo0404]

Joe was cookingggg

[@PyanY]

This gotta just be asian men in AMERICA

[@AprilLaRae]

Mudda Joe is the most insightful human I’ve ever listened to

[@actzful]

the crew missed the entire point of the conversation which i think is very unfortunate because they could have bring some good awareness to the issue. there've been studies where asian men are ranked at the bottom in the dating scene. dating is already hard enough for men, to have a built in disadvantage where western women do not find asian attractive make the matter worse for the average asian. it is like running a 100m race where everyone else is starting at 40m line and you're starting at 0m. a professor from penn state mentioned for an asian man of equal attractiveness, he would have to earn 247k more in order to compete with a white guy. there are a lot of obstacles for asian men in the dating scene. but the only way to fight that is improve which is pretty much what everyone in the video is suggesting. but i still think it is important to not dismiss the innate disadvantages that we have.

[@soacker25]

Fully agree. Insane disappointing talk.

[@csruehle0507]

No!! Hok looks more Cambdian than Japanese & Joe looks more Japanese than ever!! 🫣😆 OMG DAVID!!! 🤭🤣🤩🥳👏👏👏

[@maximustitan8171]

During my childhood life 2nd - 6th grade, my neighbor was this girl super white and cute and If I haven't moved I might end up with a mix baby with her. Getting a girl is not that hard. I'm a short Asian male and not that brilliant but I could always get a girlfriend no matter where I'm at.

[@r6guy]

ehhhh i mean some very attractive asian men have made similar comments before, kevin kreider has talked about how asian men have a rougher time on the dating market and even godfrey gao has said that when he lived in the US he felt invisible.

[@devilzzk04]

YESSSSSSSSS!!! ✊ FB FB FB

[@RichardsWorld]

Go to countries that have very few Asians like Centeral and South America. Getting women is easy. You become something exotic and not tried before.

[@joven999]

one of the best episode 💀

[@ec-ve7hi]

David’s let me tell u something 😂😂

[@donnguyen2517]

Shout out to the fang bros 🤣

[@chinoskateboardv]

FANG BROS?

[@davidcamou4726]

So many quotable moments in this one