ከሄኖክ ጋር የነበረን የአንደበት ወግ:: ክፍል 1

[@sami25668]

ቢኒ ልጁ በትዳሩ ውስጥ የሰጠው አስተያየት እየኖረበትና እየኖርንበት ያለ ነገር ስለሆነ ትክክል ነው ፡፡ እሱ መተጋገዝ መጥፎ ነው አላለም፡፡ አንተ ያልታየህ ነገር ግን በዚህ ሰዓት ያገባ ወንድ ብቻ የሚረዳቸው በዙ ሃሳቦችን ሲሰነዝር ብዙ ስትከራከረው ነበር እሱ ግን ትክክል ነው፡፡ I wish Bini is on merriage at this time he will understand more what the man is talking . ስላቀረብከው ግን 10Q

[@abawera826]

💪

[@dawitdessu4953]

ቢኒ ልጁ የደረሰበትን ልምድ እና ድምዳሜ ያብራራልን ጥሩ ትምህርት ነዉ ለብዙዎች በተለይ ለወንዶች ቢኒ ገና አላገባህም ልምድ ይጎልሀል ብዙ አየር አትያዝ ልታስተምረዉ አደለም የጠራሀዉ

[@dawitdessu4953]

ልጁ በጣም ትክክል ነዉ ወንድ ልጅ የራሱ ክብር እና ማንነት አለዉ ጠንካራ እና ብርቱ መሆን አለበት ሴቶች የነሱን ሚና ብዙ ስትደጋግምባቸዉ ወንድነትህን ይንቁታል ይረሱታል ባጠቃላይ የማይረባ ወንድ አባት ወንድም መሆኑ በጣም ይቀንሳል

[@MintesnotGetu-rc4yw]

You guys wow 🔥 this Episode is like another level... because such a good point📌 በቃ በአጭሩ ወንድ እንደ ወንድ ሴትም እንደ ሴት ነው መሆን ያለብን....period! Thanks both🙌🙏

[@fekareted]

This is an examplary podcast. Bini and Heni showed your firm stance while being respectful to eachother. Had our political elites has the gut to have such kind of decency, we wouldnt be where we are right now. Keep going guys, your lecturing civility .

[@abawera826]

Indeed Brother! Thank you very much!

[@Mikewendwosen]

Biny thank you for bringing Henoke dude has a lot of hard learned knowledge. Although i really appreciate you challenging whatever you think isn't making sense this time i personally believe henoke is correct Biny your being idealistic and he has lived it and he is speaking realistically. Cooking won't make you any less of a man but if you cook when unsolicited that's where the females start to lose respect. I don't know what kind of woman you live around but mine are cruel. They will not take that as a sign of affection or compassion to your partner. But overall this episode is the best next to the one you had with Brook from Gugut. Also Biny can you bring waqa dude is smart

[@abawera826]

ቢኒያም እጅግ አድርጌ አመሰግናለሁ! ስሜትን ጠብቆ ሰዎችንም ባለመናቅ፣ ማጥፋትና መጠፋፋት በሌለበት ተጨዋውተናልና። 💪በርታልኝ ወንድምዓለም!

[@helenzegeye7589]

Henok is telling the truth I like when my men cook once a week not everyday he is 100 %write

[@anaeyueb]

አባወራው ልክ ነው

[@agenthit9513]

44:00 min, I 100% agree with henok, Bini note that women even don't know what they want, if you ask woman she'll tell you what she wants but when you do that she'll be disgusted af, don't trust what wome tell you, try to read her

[@abawera826]

That's an Invaluable point. I learnt it the hard way, but telling the audience the easy way.

[@zackmack7145]

Y’all both have good point. At the end I will take side with Henok for most of the things he said makes sense mostly the cooking part

[@yosefsolomon2325]

ምርጥ Episode 👌👌👌

[@abawera826]

Thank you brother! I hope you got some from it.

[@tigisperspective200]

Always proud of you Heniye, keep awakening, keep enlightening!

[@abawera826]

Yep! We've lots of works to do. As a generation we're failing.

[@CatLover-cw8ni]

HI Bini, Henoks general idea is don't make it your primary role , the moment you make her role your primary role is the moment you lose her respect for you, I believe he is right as long as he is not saying don't support her at all. Anyway, I love your podcast, very educational and interesting!!! Thank you so much.

[@DanielAsfaw-ht1mk]

ቢኒ በጣም የማደንቅህ ልጅ ነህ የምታቀርበው ሃሳቦች በጣም ይመቸኛል however, የሴትን ኔቸር በፍፁም አልተረዳህም በዚህ mindset ወደትዳር እንዳትገባ

[@fayamak]

Wow, these guy has Amazing concept on masculinity. I like him.

[@abawera826]

Thank you BROTHER!

[@hereiam3692]

adera bini yehe sewye tenegna mesloh hasaebehn edatabelashh!!!!!!!!! tenegna aydelem at all

[@Fkr-d7m]

Biniam quality and efficiency is important so what is given is necessary.

[@adonisadonis340]

Thank you Bini ,u r so analytical

[@fitsunmekonnen2880]

በጣም ደረሰ የሚል ውይይት ነበር ግን አጠረቡኝ ቢኒ &ኔኒ ትደባደባላችሁ ቡዬ ነበር ደረሰ በሚሌ ሁኔታ ቋጭታችውታል አባ ይመቻቹ❤🎉❤

[@abelt2694]

1:13:10 they sat tears are not from the eyes they are from the heart.

[@amenmichael6659]

Preach them we need more masculine man keep it up abaweraw💪

[@baricho8502]

I watched this discussion with an open mind, trying my best to understand the Henok's point of view. At the end i reached at a conclusion that Henok is traumatized with the response to his gentle and caring nature by his ex-wife!! It's a pitty that he questioned his quality as a man and going extra milestone to get rid of it. Just from looking at him i see a very gentle and loving man who is trying to suppress it. I'm a mother of two with a very helpful husband and how I missed his support in cooking, taking care of our children and around the house when he travelled for 10 days!! I appreciated and loved him morethan ever when I realise how much he does around the house. This discussion isn't merly about cooking but about a man's trauma. This is just my opinion. I enjoyed the discussion and the fact that it's among two men with a different view on Abwuranet! Respect to you both.

[@Sirak.]

Henok's main point is not a cooking thoughit is one part. His main point is about self sufficient masculin man. Who protect, provide and procrate. Henok is very wise and determined person who takes a care his childrens by cooking a wonderful meals and protecting his childrens while they play and he played with then too. What was you doing he (your husband) helped you cooking and bow you missed him there?.

[@TheDeterminedfolks]

Another interesting person. Gonna meet ya. For ur surprise Im writing this comment before watching the program just because im excited. Then i will comment after i see it. See ya.

[@abawera826]

Looking forward for your comment after you see it.

[@yihayshfisseha4368]

Waw ሚገርም ነው jazz ከፍተ ምርግብ ስራልት,,,,,, ያስቃል @ ወንድ ፍለጋ ነው ያለው እኮ ኣባ ወራው፡ !!!!

[@birhanuwolde1807]

It was interesting. I can’t wait for the next one❤

[@abawera826]

Please, give me any opinion, I've a big plan for our generation.

[@kalkidanhailuhabte84]

ሄኖክ በሀሳብህ እስማማለሁ 🙏ቢኒያም ግን አላስወራ አልከው።

[@abawera826]

ኾኖም ግን ጥሩ ተጨዋውተናል!💪

[@desalegnasnake6152]

Gugutochm alasorutm

[@abrhamsamuel2647]

Henok you right brother

[@brighttomorrowlearningtube5052]

👏👏👏

[@rainfallforsleepandrelax148]

If I am not wrong the gust want to say the husband do things if it seems protective and the wife do things if it seems caring. I think this is old school but this idea to be practiced in the contemporary life style depend on smartness of both husband and wife.

[@abawera826]

In the life and family of "abawera" there are no "if it seems...". He does what he thinks, else not. knowing and cultivating your nature is timeless, no old school or contemporary.....

[@rainfallforsleepandrelax148]

​@@abawera826 You wrote "He does what he thinks". Thinking comes after we observe our surrounding what it seems to us. In school we learn studying science like The scientific method has five basic steps, plus one feedback step: Make an observation. Ask a question. Form a hypothesis, or testable explanation. Make a prediction based on the hypothesis. Test the prediction. Iterate: use the results to make new hypotheses or predictions.

[@henoksol]

bini outstands on this one, lots of the guy's ideas are generalized and limited by his knowledge and experiences

[@abawera826]

Isn't it better what you've experienced in real life 'n time instead of mumbling theory?

[@Tebabua-Dej-Media]

አባወራ 💪💪💪

[@abawera826]

አ.ባ.ወ.ራ.💪

[@nigistibahata1696]

Bini with you i like my husband to cook and looking after children 👍👍

[@Sirak.]

ለምንድን ነው ተኝቶ በመስራት አስቦ ለሷ ሲሆን as he said, cooking for her every single day. ይኽም ማለት ከሷ ውጪ አለም የሌለው ለቤተሰቡም የማይሆን; ለሀገርም የማይበጅ አስተሳሰብ ነው። ለእናት እና ለእህትህ እንዲሁም ለመሥራት ያልቻለች ልጅ ያልሆንከውን ለሷ በዚህ መልኩ ለመገዛት መጣር። ይገርማል።

[@yestube7158]

ድጋሚ አዲቀርብ ሄኖክን አፈልጋለው ቢኒ ሌላ ቦድካስትክ ላይ እግዳ ስታቀርብ አዳምጠክ ጨርሰክ ነበር ምታወራው ዛሬ ግን የአንተን ንግግር ካስቸረስክ በሆላ እሱን አላስጨረስከውም

[@Fkr-d7m]

Here is the best live example. Cooking is not loving expression other wise a Sheff is loving or a be loved person?

[@Fkr-d7m]

Biniam what you are talking is what is imposed by western.God given you where to focus become master in what your roll.

[@qizixs]

Boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen, please don't let anyone make you as bitter as this guest's ex-wife has made him to be. Thank you Bini for the level headedness and understanding of the dichotomy between being a male and masculine energy. The guest doesn't seem to have deep understanding of social psychology and doesn't seem open minded enough to question his beliefs. It was even more worrisome to hear him deny the disparity between men and women within our culture. He seems to have a lot of pain, hurt and resentment as evidently displayed by the crass assumptions that he makes about women. I like how Bini was able to make a point about the unfairness of generalizations, and how it is a limited view to see the world as black and white instead of grey. The guest doesn't understand when you mentioned that the world is not black and white, he rather diverted the topic to the binary nature of genders. No, guest! What it means when one says the world is grey is that there are more to an understanding of what a women's/men's characteristics are. Men can have feminine traits and women can have masculine traits (read more from Friedrich Nietzsche what these traits are). Anyways, I could say a lot but I'll stop here. But the guest needs therapy and to work on himself and resentment before infecting young boys' view of the world. I wish him enlightenment.

[@abawera826]

Thank GOD! I'm so much GRATEFUL for the life I have. No pain, No resentment towards anyone, even to my kids' mom. I'm full of love and positive energy. Biological sex or Gender as John Moneyis brought it, is'nt gray it is binary. The binariness is made by the Almighty(GOD). Who is friedniche to define my gender or biological sex to be gray. The roles that overlaps between the two sex does not make gender to be gray. May GOD's love shine on you!❤

[@qizixs]

​@@abawera826dude, neither I nor Nietzsche said gender is grey. ምናልባት እንግሊዘኛውን ካልተረዳኸው በአማርኛ ላድርግልህ። ፊሎሶፈሩ ኒቸ እንደገለፀው ባህሪያትን ለሁለት ማስቀመጥ ይቻላል: የሴታዊ እና የወንዳዊ። እነዚህ ባህሪያት ግን ሁላችንም ላይ አሉ መጠናቸው ከሰው ወደ ሰው የተለያየ ይሁን እንጂ። አንዳንድ ወንዶች ስስ ልብ አላቸው። አንዳንድ ሴቶች competitive ናቸው። ይህ ባህሪያቸው የተቃራኒ ፆታ አያደግጋቸውም። ሁሉም ወንድ እንዲህ መሆን አለበት ወይም ሁሉም ሴት እንዲህ መሆን አለባት (እንዲህ ትፈልጋለች) ማለት እጅግ ስህተት ነው። ሁላችንም ውስጥ የሴትና የወንድ ባህሪያቶች አሉ መጠኑ ይለያይ እንጂ። ይሄንን ነው ሰው ግራጫ (grey) ነው የተባልከው። "እኔ ጋር ብዙ መልእክቶች ከሴቶች ይደርሰኛል" አልክ. እውነት ነው እንበልና፣ እነኚህ ሴቶች ይህንን መልእክት ለኩልህ ማለት ሁሉም/አብዛኛው ሴት እንዳልከው ያለ ወንድ ይፈልጋል ማለት አይደለም። እርግጠኛ ነኝ ስንትና ስንት ሴቶች postህን አይተው ዝም ብለውህ አልፈዋል። በትንሽዬ የመስኮት ቀዳዳ የአለምን ሁኔና መገምገም ስህተት ነው። ከአንተ ሀሳብ ጋር በሚስማሙ ጥቂት ሰዎችና በconfirmation bias የሀገራችንን ሰዎች ማደናበር ተገቢ አይደለም። 50 አመት በትዳር የኖሩ ብለህ የሰጠኸው አስተያየት is again a confirmation bias picking up only those who didn't have a good marriage. The other thing is the way you expressed business women. በpatriarchal አለም ስለምንኖር የቢዝነስ ሴቶች to be taken seriously by men የሴት ባህሪያትን ለዘብ ማድረግ አለባቸው። ያ ማለት ግን ሴትነታቸውን አይወዱትም ማለት አይደለም። ሀይማኖቱን ካነሳህ ደግሞ እግዚአብሄር ልጆቹን የሚወድ የነፃነት አምላክ ነው። እንደክፋታችን ሳይሆን እንደ ምህረቱ የሚወደን አባት ነው። እየሱስ ክርስቶስ ትሁት ነው። ዝቅ ብሎ የደቀመዛሙርቱን እግር ያጠበ ነው። በመፀሀፍ ቅዱስ ላይ ባል የቤቱ ራስ ፣ ሚስት ደግሞ የባሏ ዘውድ ናት። ሚስት ለባልዋ መታዘዝ ፣ ባል ደግሞ ሚስቱን መውደድ አለበት። መውደድ ማለት ደግሞ እየሱስ ክርስቶስ እኛን እነደወደደን ነው። ታዲያ አንተስ የቀድሞ ሚስትህ ምን ብታጠፋ ለምን ተፋታሀት ከወደድኻት? ምክንያቱም መውደድ ዘላለማዊ ነው። መውደድ መሸነፍ ነው። መውደድ ሙሉ ነፃነት መስጠት ነው። በአጠቃላይ ለአለም ያለህ እይታ በጣም ጠባብ ነው። ለአንተ ምኞቴ የልቦና ንቃትን ነው!

[@amanuelbalcha8322]

I can’t find your tg channel

[@relaxwithnature9259]

Key yelbeskew mnm alterdahewm esu ke experience nw eyenger yalew

[@Fkr-d7m]

Here is the real science try to lear from Henok, that is one of majorr 50:09 the problem our country which costs and may cost us in the future.

[@temesgenberhanu5159]

Henock lek yehonebet point men meseleh. Lemesale yeset lej tefetro (setasetenet) or physical appearansachew betefetro yalachew kerts endeza hono meketel yenorebetal. Ya malet set yewenden sra, baheri develop eyaregech behedech kuter physically wend eyehonech temetalech.....

[@ማርኮታኬ]

English ማውራታቹ የማወቅ ምልክት ማድረጋቹ ነው? እስቲ ወንድ ከሆናቹ ማትሪክ ውሰዱ

[@brooktekle9178]

I was laughing alongside Bini the whole time! The guest is poisoned with red pill ideology, and most of the men in the comments are just bitter about women. It's so sad to see.

[@fevengebregziabher8196]

What's the title of the book 1:07:33

[@Andebetpodcast]

The way of the superior man by David deida

[@TseganeshTarekegn-s5y]

Akemametachu tnsh ychenkal

[@humanity1st494]

Bini can you please minimize the use "ገብቶሀል አደለ"

[@abawera826]

የእኔ "ገብቶሃል" አይበዛም😂😂😂

[@EG-tt9lu]

This man’s character creates distance in his relationship. I’m a lady and I need a husband who can be a freind to me. The rest of the rn b/n a wife and a husband is very tiring full of responsibilities, which is exhausting . Man … change your perspective if you want long lasting beautiful relationship.

[@megeez]

Jeez! Where did you get this basket case? 😂

[@berhanunegussie6155]

Be civil!

[@megeez]

@@berhanunegussie6155 I am being civil. I should have called him stupid. 😂

[@Dinktubechannel]

He knows about a wife because he was married

[@yonasnicki]

የድሮ ሰው ነው ያመጣህብን😢

[@Fkr-d7m]

Biniam mist edemtkena tawkaleh antem sew srahn sew siwesdbh antem tkenaleh wey atwedm.

[@meskeluberhanu5724]

Eiske zare dires subscribe salareg bemekoyete yikir beleg bro🙏👍

[@humanity1st494]

What the heck!

[@arebowoyessa2352]

Because he is tall guy he think proud man logically he is Empty he looks like he has 15 sugar Mammy

[@Michaelzeaman]

😂😂 i think the guy wanna say that when every time you cook for her she become more masculine ...and he is right btw....you have to know your lane. Am sure she don't want that feminine guy...but the CEO example was crazy 😂😂😂😂

[@lehulutube9063]

እንደገባኝ ሄኖክ የራሱን ልምድ ብቻ ነው የተናገረው ቢኒ እንደውም ቤት ውስጥ የሚንከባከብ ወንድ የምትጠላ ሴት የለችም get your facts right, you probably had a separate event in your life, gender roles have evolved a lot, please dont label the women as nurturing only, you need to do more reading, educate yourself, travel a bit more, get out of your comfort zone and see whats out there.

[@abawera826]

To get an insight on how others live in the other part of the world, you don't have to travel. Though, I support it for an experience. Technology has brought us so close, if we can learn from others. There comes my knowledge that I got how others live in other parts of the world.

[@mikiyfox8873]

his 102% right but the andebet podcast owner is 103% wrong

[@Tebabua-Dej-Media]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@samronkiyar5622]

Mtsmmm... his conviction is so sad n funny at the same time... wow ! Just wow! Thinking him cooking was the cause of his divorce...denying the oppression of women in the past... his lack of knowledge in science... the way he downsized women in business... the shallowness is so obvious... the ignorance n arrogance is just unbelivable !!!

[@megeez]

Thank you

[@hereiam3692]

exactly..bedenb selesu demo see his interview on gugut podcast...sex sex sex belo limot new. tru nger yalew mesloh totallyy ብላሽ ነው

[@ETaudiobooks]

and''ualem '' Tate 💀

[@abawera826]

🤔

[@senaitgeberu4452]

Areeeeeee yehe sew wede AMANUEL Mehed alebet. WENDOCHYE betechale meten MEGEB mesrat kushena megbat Ye WEDETA GEDETA New!!!!!!!

[@abawera826]

ጎሽ! አንድ የሚያስብልኝ አገኘሁ! ከተማ ካለው ተምሮ አበድ አማኑኤል ያለው ይሻል ይኾን 😅😅😅

[@forinterview2two417]

Bini , you were not right judging your guest that way 48:27. you own him apology.

[@Andebetpodcast]

I don’t think you watched the whole video. We agreed to respect our opinion at the end. Watch part 2. And we’re good friends he’s not just my guest. Don’t worry.

[@forinterview2two417]

@@Andebetpodcast My apologies for making that comment hastily. I've now watched both episodes and have a great deal of respect for you my guy.

[@megeez]

Every word he said is triggering. I am seeing Narcissistic & misogynistic vibes from him. መጥኔ ይስጣት አብራው ለምትኖረው🤥🤥

[@mimiy2938]

What is misogynistic

[@megeez]

@@mimiy2938 anti-feminist , dismissive of women, (some one who hates women) and some one who practice sexizm.

[@abawera826]

Give me an instance where I triggered you to lable me as narcissistic, misogynistic

[@naf25mor]

Its funny how you girls use the word misogny vibes...

[@megeez]

@@abawera826 misogynistic 30:19 , 31:12 Denying operation of women , 31:46 It has nth to do with nature , 32:17 may b you don't like your job and you failed competing with the world. 34:21 So women's strength come from testosterone now?? 35:34 you are delusional. 36:29 "Pretty" Women have to be pretty to be accepted by you ! 36:56 women reached to management position because they are favored????? 42:20 እስኣ ተቀምጣ??? 47:33 You are speaking for women now!!!

[@AfariMad.SleuthExportedSalt]

ደደብ መሃይም የሸርሙጣ ውሻ ቀውስ ልጅ