K-pop Moments that make Me Uncomfortable and Upset!

[@Binniesoob]

I honestly feel bad for Gaeul. Imagine your own mom comparing your looks with someone else and saying they look better than you

[@coollittlebinch4689]

Yeah she passed it off as a joke but it’s still really harsh, I hope she didn’t compare her throughout her entire childhood.

[@saylalisalovemelalisalovem3334]

Im sure her Mom said that as a joke but it still hurts

[@jixhanniez]

It happens to me everytime with my mom ...

[@aug1014]

Gaeul probably already knew she wasn’t as pretty as wonyoung, but to hear it from your own mother? Oof

[@maxadamdor]

Fr. What kind of a mom is that? A pretty girl like Gaeul deserves a better mom.

[@cuzidontneedtobefixed]

the frog prank one was the worst as a person with a huge phobia of mice I can relate to him

[@neb.9489]

Fr…I have a huge fear of bugs and I would’ve died if they did that to me. The guy was so scared that he climb the wall like spider.

[@cuzidontneedtobefixed]

@@neb.9489 the worst part of having a phobia is the dumb people who find it funny to trigger you. You're scared of mice? Let me show you absolutely disgusting pictures of them and see your reaction. And when I really start panicking they look SO surprised as if I didn't just ask them to not do it.

[@brennathecatlover4360]

@@cuzidontneedtobefixedI think they didn’t know hendery had a severe phobia of frogs but just thought he was scared of them but would be fine least that’s what I heard

[@cuzidontneedtobefixed]

@@brennathecatlover4360 just the fact that he is scared of frogs should have stoped them from pranking him this way

[@brennathecatlover4360]

@@cuzidontneedtobefixed they probably thought he would just be like haunted house scared and be fine not having a whole panicked attack but I could be wrong since that’s what I heard

[@Nobody2060-lg2kl]

The gaeul one is so sad to watch. Not only was gaeul probably hurt by what her mom said, but this will also be another reason for people to hate on wonyoung..... Shame on her mom for doing this. And the skz one is sooo uncomfortable like they can see that he feels uncomfortable when they talk to him like that and they continue to do that...And bangchan as a leader doing this only encourages the other members to say stuff like this. Smh.

[@Dioraline]

Exactly! Bangchan is literally my ult bias but it's really disheartening to watch him make and encourage such jokes about changbin knowing full well that changbin is uncomfortable with those types of jokes, as a leader he should stop the members from making such comments not cheer them on :((

[@myberie17]

The Changbin one makes me so so so sad.. i can totally understand how he feels... I too get "jokingly" fatshamed by everyone around me and even my parents, and my case is just like Changbin, im buff than fat

[@tomatoheaven]

the first clip... tf what kind of mother compares her child's looks to another person

[@Sonyeonstan]

Right? She could’ve easily lifted up both girls.

[@coquetteishfetish]

it always makes me laugh when parents do that like as if they dont share the same genes lol

[@pessoinhacansada6900]

In some cultures it's quite common, sadly. In my country moms do this a lot. When my mother is comparing me to someone I just ask her to adopt them instead, since they're so much better.

[@lovericepudding]

My mom does this all the time sadly

[@chats-w-josiey]

The first one… that really is upsetting. who wants to be compared to someone else and much less by your mother?!

[@lovelylively2252]

Even tho I am not skz fan but seeing Changbin getting bodyshamed is so sad😢

[@muniskem]

@Leena_A i think skz are starting to stop those comments, but its rlly rude man he literally ur bsf??

[@ec.h01]

@Leena_Aclearly y’all never had a real friendship before- me and my best friend insult each other to the max cos we know we don’t mean it. i have anxiety and i’m always overthinking comments of other people besides my best friend bcs the insults keep me occupied. plus have you SEEN changbin? he ain’t fat he just has 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 also i’m pretty sure eating a lot is standard if you exercise as much as changbin does 😭 i forgot to mention- he himself expressed that he loves food and loves eating. and nobody on skz is hating him for his eating habits 💀

[@muniskem]

@@ec.h01 uhm but like you cant js point out those kinds of stuff, u and ur friend have a toxic friendship if u guys insult eachother💀

[@Yumedekiss-me]

@@muniskemwell me and my friends insult each other all the time, but when we do so we always make sure we don’t go to far and cross the line or insult each other’s insecurities ofc

[@Skzstay4lifer]

When they say stuff like this they don't mean it they are just teasing him they are not serious!!

[@koolvein_klein]

Loosing your loved grandparent on the day of your birthday is so sad. I have soft spot for grandparents. Oh Lisa, i bet her grandpa is proud of her. Rest in Peace Grandpa🙏

[@Sonyeonstan]

I felt so horrible. You could see how hard she was trying to hold her tears back. I hate kpop companies who don’t allow their idols to have proper time off to visit family and friends

[@maxadamdor]

That happened to Jake from enhypen aswell. It was when they had their concert so he cried with ENGENES and then Enhypen cried too. It is honestly so sad to watch, I feel so bad for both..

[@camilaribeiro7465]

Seeing idols casually calling each other pigs was very shocking to me when i first got into kpop considering that that's an insult where i'm from

[@coquetteishfetish]

its an insult everywhere and its not funny, idols just have to pretend to find it funny on cam for the sake of "comedy" and the stupid hierarchy in sk 🙄

[@YoYo-wv9ob]

In the last clip i lved how amber came to sulli defence ❤

[@karthikamallan5202]

As a stay these changbin comments did felt off even when i was starting to stan skz. Changbin looked so uncomfortable when they comment on his weight. I feel like skz members goes too far with that kind of comments especially in front of camera. And i have felt bad for him but i dont see many stays comment about it so i push it aside.

[@vixxexo6855]

They are joking. It is normal for close friends to joke around. Changbin also makes fun of his members in a joking way.

[@yamaha_x.o]

​@@vixxexo6855 but making fun of his weight isnt good he can end up having body image issues and low self esteem...like joking around is okay but when you talk about someone's weight it can become a very sensitive topic

[@Sassyunicornstay]

From what I’ve seen, skz make fun of each other wayyy less than other groups. And I think they really admire Changbin’s physique bc he’s so fit and muscular, so when they make fun of him it’s usually just jokes. It’s like them calling Hyunjin ‘ugly’, it would obviously be a joke since he’s very handsome

[@julizbogo5755]

he looked uncomfortable tho​@@vixxexo6855

[@fiesty_panda]

you're really out here collecting the toxic ones huh 😭😭

[@stay_x_t1ny]

Something that I have noticed is that the way that JYPE has structured Changbin's role within the group is that he is constantly getting bullied for his weight by the other members, as well as just being disrespected and made fun of by his juniors. I've seen a decrease in this over the past couple of years, but still. Even so-called "fans" will join in on these "jokes" and take it WAY too far. Like, the members at least know him personally and will therefore know his boundaries, but these alleged fans who relentlessly criticize his appearance make me feel enraged. He deserves more than that, he is someone who should be respected and loved for his talents and dedication to what he does. And HE IS NOT "FAT" like people like to call him. He bulks so that he can gain more muscle mass. It's simple logic and people don't understand it or just don't care. It's fucking disgusting.

[@vixxexo6855]

If Changbin actually cared then he would stop bulking up, but he unlike you have braincells and know what joking is.

[@athena_cr]

One example was the ‘Elephant Seal’ joke that 3Racha did, certain Stays thought that they had free reign to jump in and use the joke as well, but from what I have heard from concert goers, Changbin has actually ignored sections of venues during performances because of certain people having an ‘Elephant Seal’ type of sign.

[@behappy3610]

​@@athena_crYes Changbin only take them as joke but i also think with 'elephant seal', they have gone too far. I think he was not comfortable in taking that joke. But as a stay, i know they always joke around and love teasing members. The members who take jokes lightly or not personally will be Changbin and Han. So Stay Kids tend to tease them more. In Han's case, he is not comfortable in mentioning his pre debut behavior. He even begged stays to not mention it. But members tease him a lot with that, almost in every kids room, 2kids room, etc, series they mention that. Even in the last 2kids show, they joked about his previous behavior. In one show, Changbin also told that 'Han don't relate'. Although Han responds to these with his goofy replies, we can somehow see he is a little hurt.

[@stay_x_t1ny]

@@behappy3610 yeah I would say that he does seem a little hurt. While it’s easy to pass it off as “joking”, there are times where the members have taken things a little too far. Like when, for example, Seungmin said “Changbin is so good at nothing” during one of their English interviews, he looked visibly uncomfortable and a little upset. It just seems like sometimes they don’t know where the line is, and the fans make it so much worse.

[@stay_x_t1ny]

@@vixxexo6855 he isn’t the type of person that would give up his entire lifestyle because of comments made by others. He’s very strong and resilient, but that doesn’t mean that he can’t be hurt by comments like this. I mean, come on, wouldn’t you be hurt if others were constantly calling you fat and telling you to lose weight, as if it’s your only personality trait?

[@swanniest]

0:49 no cuz this actually made me sad for jin and rm 😭

[@strawkittyxoxo]

I mean being honest it wasn't rlly armys fault, it was the question, the person asked and they answered and bts members are rlly good in performing so I think the armys just picked the least popular member or sumn and this is video is rlly old too and at tht time jin was being called "talentess" etc and bts members were once asked this question too nd they said jin.

[@swanniest]

@@strawkittyxoxo yeahh that's why i usually don't like watching these types of interviews cuz they're always so uncomfortable to watch

[@jaianna843]

​@strawkittyxoxo I agree. I remember when this happened. It was at the time the guys would always make fun of jin and rm and say the same thing. It was a constant running joke. When the fans repeated it, they thought they were joking like the guys would. But they didn't know it really affected them. It was a big deal when this happened but lessons were learned and I never saw bts make fun of jin or rm again about their dancing in front of the camera. I don't think the audience was being intentionally mean but just repeating what the guys would say thinking it was funny. But now we know it's not like that. It's still so sad to see RM and Jin look so sad.

[@jaianna843]

@Leena_A I think it was a reaction, he was surprised. When I am surprised, sometimes I laugh to make light of the situation and of the awkwardness. You can see him waving his hands like no, no, that isn't true and to stop.

[@jaianna843]

@Leena_A I know 😥 they did look really sad. I remember Jin saying he would stay extra at practices to try to perfect his dancing. They got singled out alot by their dance instructor and I'm sure it was really hard on them. But thankfully now they have grown and are so amazing. Top tier professional dancers. I hope they get the credit they deserve.

[@anuaravind3188]

not a stay but the pig jokes/ fat shaming made me so uncomfortable. it reminded me of when my best friend at the time used to call me a pig for eating too much when in fact i was severely underweight at the time and those comments lead to feeling a huge sense of body dysmorphia and bad self esteem. i really hope that skz learn how small comments can lead to something bigger and it’s especially worst coming from people you’re close with because you have so much trust and love for them

[@stays4514]

He is a GROWN man he already said that if he's bothered by their jokes he would talk Y'all act like changbin don't make the same jokes but since it's towards changbin it's FATSHAMING??

[@nnnn-sc2im]

@@stays4514the other members are also grown men yet they act like 14 year old boys…

[@stays4514]

@nnnn-sc2im I fear you lack common sense Don't you have friends??Don't you tease them?gtfo

[@kpopsolos]

@@nnnn-sc2imsomething about stays is that they will defend skz no matter what they do. It’s actually so sad they treat these grown men like they’re some master or their pets (treating them like babies). And honestly it’s just weird

[@its.nirju.not.birju.]

V loosing his grandma and people making fun of it and wishing him to join her. Is most problematic

[@neb.9489]

I hate this so much. People were mocking him for years.

[@mjan3906]

People also said this when Hyunjin's grandpa passed away. It's so sad that people would say that when they lost a loved one

[@vickybabadoo9927]

Any kpop idol who lost someone had/have people make fun of them etc. it’s sad that people stoop that low but taehyung isnt the only one.

[@its.nirju.not.birju.]

@@vickybabadoo9927 okay so ? Just bcz it's not the only one I can't mention it ?? I know particularly about it ! If you know more then ADD on

[@its.nirju.not.birju.]

@@mjan3906 exactly how insensitive one has to be to say something like this !!

[@onyumyum]

changbin is saying that he dont mind getting those (fatshaming) ,,jokes" and that he is that type of person who would stand up for himself and tell others when its wrong but he never does that, instead he just goes quiet and has that awkward smile.... its clearly he is uncomfortable with those type of jokes :((

[@frecklyfelix143]

I would assume that if he were to do that it'd be off camera, that may be why we never see that on cam

[@aceanarchy5554]

The Wooyoung pig moment made me sad when I saw it, but at the same time it showed just how well San's parents raised him. He's always said his parents raised him well, and you can see it so clearly by the way he stands up for Wooyoung by saying "No, no, it's not Wooyoung". The Amicus Ad Aras duo argue sometimes, but they've always stood up for each other!

[@ly_sea]

those "armys" screaming jin and rm wtf??? they've been giving us near perfect performances for years and they say this based on what? when have they ever messed up honestly? one or two times? even the other boys have messed up once or twice so wtf are those idiots on about? the way vmin were so taken aback too like "you guys sure yall are our fans?"

[@dying_carat]

As someone with a fear of frogs, the Hendery and Lucas one hurt so bad it was painful to watch

[@karkutv100]

The changbin one is so sad. As an idol , you already have a lot of eyes on you , judging your appearance, your weight , and seeing your groupmates doing the same thing must be tough. I saw some stays here saying ''it's a joke , they are close'' Yes , it might be , but you can tell that he seems very uncomfartable and very self concious about those comments , so i don't know .

[@_kpopd_]

The fact that jimin asked the armies to stop shows how supportive he is to RM

[@artist2047]

ahh 3:08 I love it how san came to defend wooyoung ... 😭❤‍🩹

[@hehetman0607]

I love when ateez playing and goofing around with each other but if it comes to sensitive matters they don't allow each other to be uncomfortable. And the rest of the ateez calm downed Wooyoung by saying "that pig sounds like you bcz you are the tututu prince"... I luv them even more

[@maxadamdor]

Gaeul laughing it off, i bet Wonyoung felt so bad too. What kind of a mom is that? Gaeul deserves better.

[@strawkittyxoxo]

The fat shaming clips are so sad, it troubles me even more when half of the time its the persons own members..

[@BTSVTXTSKZENATZBNDTEAM_mingyu]

Saesangs are the reason most idols get uncomfortable and swear, then netizens use it again them ,you could see how JK was frustrated and many idols have been in the same situation. The last one with the guy making stupid and unreasonable comments on a girl's weight like what the hell, I feel like idols need to take legal action against these people Imagine an idol saying Am scared, what do I do, do you think you are doing him any good, harassing them and claiming you are a fan like what the hell...

[@sketchyarts10]

Lisa one is heartbreaking Changbin one hurts Jk looked frustrated At a point "fans" need to treat them nice. They're humans too

[@neb.9489]

One of my least favorite moments was when an idol was made to believe he shot his group mate as a prank. They directed him to shoot the air, and then made him think he shot his group mate by accident.

[@camilaribeiro7465]

what the fuck????

[@brennathecatlover4360]

Was that shinhwa? I thought it was an older group but I could be wrong

[@mariyia]

What’s the group name?????

[@madkmadk6809]

@@brennathecatlover4360 yeah it's a first gen group but I doubt it's shinhwa. I think it was either H.O.T or Sechs kies. But i could be wrong tho. It was years ago that i last saw a clip of that

[@brennathecatlover4360]

@@madkmadk6809 was it god? Ik it was a male group and I wanna find out who it is lol

[@Im_Me_dzy]

The frosh prank is just so... disrespectful is not even the right word. When someone has a phobia he literally is scared to death by this. Like what- I can't even?!!?!?

[@teenieweeniemimie]

That was hard to watch, we really need to revaluate how far "jokes" can go because wow

[@sararomero-n5m]

i hate seeing wooyoung and changbin getting bodyshamed, even by their own members. i know it's a "joke" but I can sometimes feel, even through the cameras, that those comments affect them :/

[@saraibra7252]

Yup but loved how San was upset for him saying nooo it's not wooyoung

[@Win1wi]

i feel so bad for changbin

[@a_k_u_]

Jin and RM have worked very hard, they have improved so much with years of practice. I am so proud of them💜 I was so happy and proud of JK for cursing those saesangs. These saesangs are the worst.

[@flobrez2470]

The fact that he said he was scared really worried me. I don’t blame him for calling them bastards. I would too.

[@seventeenenjoyer]

the sullyoon one is so disgusting help

[@MaryyDeriu]

Ikrr, like back off dude 🤚

[@tamaralewis9258]

That's right! she never got to know you and you never got to know her man! You're just a fan! Don't expect her to go to dinner with you! Leave her alone!🤨🤨😠😠👊👊

[@adorechip]

it’s kind of disgusting that BangChan (the leader) just continues the joke and joins in. I feel so bad for Changbin :(

[@mariyia]

Especially considering how self conscious he is himself he should know that such remarks might be really harmful to one’s self esteem

[@hyeekafiiez]

why they do that... i feel so mad

[@sakurasakura1420]

They have known each other for a long time and they’re very much joking u cant judge someone from few clips. He has said himself that he wanted to gain weight and it was quite hard for him in the starting as he was skinny he also said he wanted big broad shoulders. No matter what anyone says he knows he’s sexy and he’s been confident since the starting, he loves to eat tasty food and some teasing from his members which are like his bros wont effect him he loves them all as much as they love him. Also considering that his emoji is basically a pig + rabbit i dont think he’s offended at all, they tease and call each other by those names very often

[@Airmonke]

I know and understand that Stray Kids are super close and they make fun of each other all the time but the fat/pig jokes towards Changbin will never not be uncomfortable, like people will say “no no they’re calling him pig because of his emoji/skzoo character or its just a joke” but but nah we all know what they mean when they call him a pig and he honestly never looks happy or okay when they make fun of him like that, it really hurts to watch. I also don’t get why as idols they feel like it’s okay to make fun of him like that on camera, cause they gotta know fans and antis like to take things they say and run with it (not saying they should do it off cam either tho). Now people might think it’s okay to joke bout it to.

[@Luvvni]

I feel sorry for Changbin even though they joked he was hurt 😢

[@RoomateStoleMyMattresInBoulder]

Jessica one was so disgusting of that man to touch someone inappropriately that too infront of the camera ..can't imagine what he does behind the doors 😠

[@dailyyunne]

As a stay and Changbin biased, I really think that those jokes are so uncomfortable, but I think this is a inside joke between them, but I get the problem, and I think they shouldn’t make these jokes on camera because we all know how haters (even fans) are. Again, I don’t think the members do this on purpose, but I think they should stop doing them

[@heartyi]

nah the man trying to ask sullyoon out was disgusting, happy she dodged it. also i feel so bad for changbin :(

[@moonchildbts7]

0:50 this makes me so sad and angry at the same time!!!! 7:52 Poor jungkookie😭

[@strawkittyxoxo]

i I when bts alone was asked this question they said jin and rm.

[@TaehyungSoGucci]

The Jessica thing is something we need to resurface even if it was years ago, compared to other k-pop videos that everyone resurfaced, it’s always the ridiculous one’s and completely skip over the concerning and alarming ones

[@CasuallyCruelCrushesClub]

As someone who gets called fat and stuff by family member and a few friends as a "joke", I can relate to Changbin so much. It's a complicated thing cuz you know that the people saying it don't actually mean to hurt your feelings and they only say it cuz they're close to you and think they can tease you but it still affects us and only makes it worse cuz it's the people closest to us.

[@kandirain_1172]

I like how Hongjoon was ready to get the interviewer together. I don’t know if they chose a pig for any nefarious reasons but he was about to let her know he didn’t appreciate the disrespect if they did.

[@sakshi1148]

0:49 It pissed me off ...like the dudes are not dancers but yet delivers their best! My dad when I showed him their dance was in awe to see all the members being soooo good....And ARMY saying that would have hurt the members more that bro they are working their asses off and the army's simply told it.

[@Yongboks_Brownies_]

7:32.. Dude I'm pretty sure some of these like comments from skz were jokes but.. The fat shaming is going to far and it's rude and disgusting.. But i understand

[@Changbinnies_jut_dae]

I literally started crying when those Changbin fatshaming clips were shown. That is genuinely so sad :(

[@spacespace652]

Umji's moment and Lisa's moment reminds me also of how VIVIZ had to perform at an international event (We Bridge Music Festival) and fly out to the US only 2 days after Moonbin's passing. They were unable to attend the rites (but came home right after performing, if Im not mistaken), letting Eunha do the fanmeeting as VIVIZ's representative. I do acknowledge that a lot of this comes with contracts and groups can't just cancel an event like that (that's a huge monetary loss for a smaller sized company such as BPM). I want to also add the nuance of BPM allowing SinB and Umji to take an unannounced break from activities right after that festival to grieve, so I can't call it company mistreatment per se, but it's still painful and uncomfortable to watch how there are conditions that you still have to be seen by the public, even when you may not want to.

[@A1l3eofH34rts]

Props to Amber for standing up for Sulli and the dudes sister

[@mr.alpaca382]

I'm so happy that Umji now knows she's beautiful. she's been my ULT for 7 years now and it hurt so much to see all the hate she got over the years, but also it was good to see her learn how to deal with it. I'm so proud of her, she's incredible

[@excusemesieeer6797]

the whole loona spill sesh is making me angry

[@soniaigwe3546]

Honestly those jokes from Skz directed at Changbin aren't even the current ones. I'm a stay so I watch most, if not all of their content. And these jokes are still running to the point where it's pretty much normalised in the group. The latest episode of Skz variety show released (skz code) had little jabs around his eating. Objectively looking at it, it may not sound nice to outsiders but (and I say this with the utmost sincerity) if these jokes were a big issue to Changbin, I'm pretty sure he would have shut them down. The members have said how serious Changbin can be behind the scenes despite the "babygirl" image stays may see.

[@AyaEch-charif]

Jungkook and millions of people being scared together on that live 😢

[@Hyunjins_eyebrow]

If Changbin is fat, then im a helicopter. And the thing is, the other members are contributing to this insecurity like it's funny. Maybe it was funny at one point, but now it's just disrespectful. I get that they are all really close friends, but that whole "being big" joke has to stop P.S. i absolutely LOVE anything that has to do with stray kids and all the members SO MUCH, dont think of this a spreading hate or anything of that sort

[@Jistar2]

Same that is actually one of the reasons i stopped listening to them idk maybe I’m just to sensitive but there comments about changbin really hurt

[@AnnyeongAnnyeong]

The Changbin make me extremely uncomfortable

[@JessicaBrown-js2zr]

The dude that asked Sullyhoon out had such a low chance that even he couldn't dream about it.

[@khayambebe7497]

I understand how Chang bin feels because im also treated that way and it kind of hurts. Its a joke to them but it kind of stings . I feel so bad for him 😢💔

[@Mythical_L1lyxw0lf]

The most saddest part is that all these incidents can create a 10min long vid, and this is only a tiny fraction of all the disrespect idols get 😢

[@YourdearGrace]

It's disappointing how skz members themselves fatshames Changbin, meanwhile they get triggered by a single hate from haters. Even if his skzoo is a pig, that doesn't describe him. If it really describes, is how cute he is, pinkish bows. AND HE IS NOT FAT, ALL HE IS, IS MUSCLY. LIKE YOU CAN'T CALL SOMEONE FAT WHEN THEY ARE JUST BULKY. YOU GUYS SHAMED HIM FOR BEING SKINNY BACK IN TIME, AND U GUYS ARE SHAMING HIM FOR GAINING WEIGHT? as a girl, who gets bodyshamed, I can feel him. WE ALL ARE BEAUTIFUL, IN SOME WAY AT LEAST. Stray kids, you disappointed me.

[@vixxexo6855]

Everyone is not beautiful, let us not lie. There is a reason some people get praised for being beautiful like Bella Hadid and Jisoo from Blackpink for example. While someone else gets bullied for their appearence.

[@karkutv100]

That thing is, if he was really fat ( which i Don't think he is) they shouldn't feel comfortable talking about his body like that, it doesn't matter how close they're, that is notable that he seems hurt by those coments.

[@choiyeonjun4thgenitboy]

@@vixxexo6855 are you trying to imply that Changbin is not good looking? Cause you’re so wrong.

[@lexaovex6389]

​@@vixxexo6855dude what the 🗿

[@SGS317]

​@@vixxexo6855beauty is a subjective thing. Just because you think they are beautiful doesn't mean others slso think the same. Same as the people you find unattractive/ugly can be beautiful to other people. This applies to celebritieskpop idols) as well. But that doesn't give you the right to bodyshame someone else. Because some people will dgaf about those commitments but some might take them too seriously. In kpop the problem is kppp stans think their idols "perfect" and they don't make mistakes at all. If they witness smth like that they will pretend like they didn't see it. Your idols aren't gods or angels , just normal human beings like us. So they can make mistakes too.... Also you don't personally or behind the cameras so you can'talways say "they're close friends" " they're family" .....etc

[@ninirozhy]

They treat changbin so badly it makes me so mad it’s straight up like high school bullying and all in front of the cameras too

[@ladansemakabre]

@@strwberrles you don't know them personally.

[@ishaalandzahabiashow120]

@@strwberrles and then people thrash and drag enhypen.

[@choiyeonjun4thgenitboy]

@@strwberrles Doesn’t matter. Same thing happened with Enhypen, but instead of letting it slide under the rug, the received hate and criticism which eventually made them stop making comments. And I’m glad they stopped making those comments against Sunoo, cuz he isn’t even fat. Doesn’t matter if they are close or not, you shouldn’t make comments on peoples bodies.

[@gumoa2866]

@@choiyeonjun4thgenitboy Actually all those comments just made the relationship between sunoo and ni-ki worse. I'm guessing you're not an engene because after receiving all that hate ni-ki and sunoo started to become more "uncomfortable". Imo, those comments solved nothing, it created more problems tbh. Sunoo said it himself that ni-ki apologizes when sunoo says he doesn't like those jokes.

[@choiyeonjun4thgenitboy]

@@gumoa2866 “I’m guessing ur not an engene”.. actually I am. For 3 years. And if you think that Niki and Sunoo’s relationship has broken, plz search up “sunki moments” on yt and and there are 2, two minute long videos, one from a month ago and another from 6 days ago. Yes, their bond had deteriorated back then but it’s doing better rn. And they’ve established their relationship again. The “hate” also stopped the members from making unnecessary jokes against Sunoo. And if Sunoo said that if Niki makes a joke he doesn’t like and apologises, isn’t that a good thing? He is apologising for his mistake. This was literally almost a year and a half ago. They both are doing better now

[@naveedkhan-bu4fd]

All of the people saying They are so sad that changbin is being fatshamed and feels uncomfortable probably no definitely dont know how much proud he is of his body how much the members are envious of his body How much he tried to get that body Mates if he really was uncomfortable he aint the type to be quite if he really wanted to lose weight none of the members would joke about it They know how much he loves eating and thats why they joke about that but trust me he is not bothered by it They know what would bother the other member and are quite close and respect each other. They would never say something that would trouble or hurt the other member. Even if they do ( which obviously occurs sometimes) they apologise quickly. Plz dont say that he is uncomfortable you guys will be the ones to make their relationship uncomfortable by saying such things Again HE IS NOT FAT HE IS NOT TROUBLED HE IS NOT UNCOMFORTABLE

[@kimyoung3160]

Haters mocking taehyung's dead grandma and using it to insult him and wishing he would join her should be included.. even if you dont like bts that is taking it too far

[@jiyarajput2157]

Im a skz fan but uk what ik they might be close with each other but keeps calling him fat, stop eating is not even funny. He is not fat guys he have a lot of muscles too as we can see from the videos where he was exercising with other members

[@firexr31]

With changbins case, i dont think skz are doing it with bad intent. Changbin is actually very confident with his big build and muscle. And since they have known eachother for over 5-6 years, im sure changbin would have talked to them about if it was effecting him or have gone too far. if changbin was actually fat(which he isnt) skz wouldnt be that comfortable with joking that way. im sure they know when to stop and their limits. but sometimes i feel uncomfortable with it aswell, but thats genuinely just a me problem. changbin usually doesnt even like being called skinny(in a sense that he doesnt want his body to be small, since hes worked hard in growing his muscle) so i kinda feel that joking around like that wouldnt necessarily bother him as much as being told his muscle is too small.

[@lastmimzy2606]

For the SKZ one, as someone who has religiously watched their content, each member has a teasing point that you can make 8 separate videos for them. CHAN is often teased for being old like 26 is old🙄, also occasionally called a pig cause of large appetite. LEEKNOW is oft called mean/weird even amongst the members. CHANGBIN is the buff/fat gym bro everyone can tease basically the middle child. HYUNJIN is the dumb/pabo blond himbo that can be easily maipulated, even their subtitles say pabo. HAN is the anxiety ridden member so they don't tease him like they used to. FELIX is the gamer who never wins at anything and they don't let him forget it. SEUGMIN dares anyone to test him and the members do mostly oft reducing him to a pet. I.N is loved so they rarely bully/tease him except in a you're the youngest kind of way iykyk. Group dynamics among guys are wierd is all I'm gonna say and this particular group are in love with each other😂

[@lastmimzy2606]

@@Xela20j weight is a sensitive subject and even has a movement, regardless of how he handles it people would still call it out. In two kids room he said he tolerates the teasing because it means the younger members were not uncomfortable around him.

[@tamtrinh7258]

they all don't like each other that much based on what you are describing, it seems like they're willing to throw each other under the bus if it makes for "fun" content. i used to be an skz stan a long time ago

[@lastmimzy2606]

@@tamtrinh7258 I felt that way too but looking at my brother and his friends, that's just how men show each other love

[@frecklyfelix143]

​@@tamtrinh7258idk where you got that from but that's definitely not true. they all love each other and have one of the closest bonds in the kpop industry, they just tease each other sometimes as brothers would do and sometimes that's how men show affection

[@daengggggg]

hiii, for the next video you could put enhypen fat-shaming sunoo (same vibe as skz with changbin)

[@katp5523]

and txt, seventeen, or bts

[@Jistar2]

@@katp5523sorry but when did they fatshame someone ?😭

[@okthen716]

Changbin deserves better.. the members are probably just joking, but he seems to be hurt by their comments.. I hope they realise that and start respecting him.. saddening :(

[@jennieex-zd5uf]

Jin and rm one was .... Army should support them I really feel bad for them kinda....

[@Sheepy16able]

Tbh, some of the clips made me cry like the one with Lisa, Gaeul, Jinni or Umji :(

[@Sonyeonstan]

:(

[@vixxexo6855]

I laughed at the Gaeul and Umji clips. Cause I don’t like when my eyes hurt seeing hideous beings.

[@Sonyeonstan]

Exo stan duh…

[@Molly-iw1rc]

For the ateez one, I appreciate Hongjoong saying "Why Woo young is this?", I feel like he was defending woo young by asking why they chose a pig for him (because tbh I also never hear woo young getting fat shamed, maybe jongho but never woo young so it's weird in general? But maybe people actually call him a pig 😭).

[@STAN5TALLENTEDVISUALSTXT]

I hate the guy fatshaming his sister and the fx members like I saw this along time ago but I didn’t know he fatshamed his sister too I feel like at home you should be comfortable with those around you, not worry about someone like your brother fat shame you, it’s sad that some people have to deal with fatshaming in their own house and fatshaming in general, stay strong guys and be happy

[@Stargirl__6789]

That frog prank is a nightmare for me

[@mirzanamirahfarah3161]

Big respect to Amber for standing up for her bandmate👏

[@friedbbyongmingquedelicioso]

the skz one made me sad ☹️☹️☹️ ik its just a joke but i think the members took at s little to far i feel bad for changbin 😭

[@veenuyaaa__]

OK THE LAST ONE PISSED ME OFF SOOOO MUCH OH MY GOD.

[@Mello_Art13]

And the fact that changbin ain't even FAT , Why do people even call him fat ? He is not even fat like..... What can i say ....

[@momochan5940]

We'll never know how kpop idols are irl but sometimes idk how to feel about Bang chan :/ stays always say that he is so kind and sensitive yet he never stops the changbin jokes, he should think before speaking more (reason why ive got so much hate from stays) and ALSO the "babygirls and daddy" thing weirded me out knowing your fans are mostly minors and he CLEARLY knew what he was implying

[@alice.107]

This video broke my heart...

[@trustfratedinjustinseagull]

traumas are not something to play with. why did they do that to him??

[@mayramorales3827]

Jungkook has the right to call them basterds

[@richbeauty877]

I saw sunoo being ashamed and now changbin? Enhypen and skz r making me leave them

[@xiao__stay]

3:56 i think its rather funny the way he just started climbing the wall but yes if he has phobia lf frogs then they shouldn't have

[@UrfavMoment]

bro the umji one...

[@angelinatamang5950]

I really need to talk about changbin getting bodyshamed. For those of ya'll saying Chan should have stopped the jokes, yes, I agree with you and no, I am not defending him. But Chan usually laughs away all these comments and jokes on camera. Don't get me a wrong, he's an amazing person and an even amazing leader but I just feel like confrontation isn't his cup of tea. In very close knit friend groups, it often happens that close friends say hurtful things to each other. It does happen (no, I am not justifying body shaming) in friend groups and then later on people do realize that what they said was hurtful. If we continue to blame members then this will just turn into another sunki feud. So yeah. Changbin is an amazingggg, beautiful person and all the members love him a lot. Please just don't turn something ignorant into something hateful.

[@rvnzc]

The gaeul one is so sad😢

[@Kiwaayaa]

7:08 Bro I love Seungmin he my bias but sometimes he just needs to learn when to stay quiet 😭😭

[@Molly-iw1rc]

When the staff pulled chuu's hair I was so shocked

[@yrs04]

once when Taehyung's grandmother passed away , Blinks made fun of him and also mocked him and not only this but I saw many of the comments from blink on twitter saying "Taehyung ,why didn't you accompanied you grandma"," I will be more happy if Taehyung follows her grandma" and "why was he crying like a baby in the concert, it's just death of her grandma, it's a natural process of human cycle ''

[@nini94s]

I feel bad for hendery , I've the same phobia. Fear of lizard ! I can't explain how much panic it causes me everytime:(

[@skzcandy88]

Let me emphasize that those incidents with Changbin were more than two (2) years ago, and there is nothing recent of that sort. Some of the translations are incorrect or misleading, and the “piggy” thing was also a reference to his plushie, but outside of that, it is not longer a running joke. You all are free to feel disappointed that this even happened, but they have mend their ways, and none of the comments were done out of spite to purposely offend him. Chan actually acknowledged some of the jokes they make on camera between the members, and he said that whenever someone feels something isn’t right, they will say it as it is and make sure everyone is comfortable moving forward.

[@sarahblox-h8r]

Changbin being fat shamed and called a pig by his own members is actually so gross and mean, you can how sad he was and it gets me heartbroken ☹💔

[@sayhid9070]

I really hate the way that skz are always bodyshaming Changbin :(

[@143szns]

3:31 this gets me angry everytime..like this was wrong on so many levels

[@clstoyreview2977]

Thanks!

[@Sonyeonstan]

thank you

[@clstoyreview2977]

@@Sonyeonstan you’re welcome I hope you get the help you need and that your health gets better 🙏

[@junjiscomb7909]

omg who called Changbin a pig?? is that a staff memeber?

[@4jae]

I'm pretty sure it was Hyunjin (black hoodie)

[@Sky_Kim29]

Seungmin too

[@junjiscomb7909]

@@Sky_Kim29 ​ @4jae fuc

[@vixxexo6855]

I think his emoji is a pig that is why they called him that.

[@tamtrinh7258]

😂 no way you seriously think that. what is your proble​m with changbin@@vixxexo6855

[@selcan5364]

Changbin one made me unstan stray kids… although i am still supporting changbini🫶

[@JarrodF7405]

But your still supporting stray kids if you support Changbin still 😆

[@selcan5364]

@@JarrodF7405 Not really i only support his solo activities and patiently waiting for disband😀

[@ktown.]

They are best friends tho.. changbin and the members are very close so the jokes are not taken as seriously. Although sometimes it can go overboard

[@selcan5364]

@@ktown. Yes i can understand that but as a person with weight issues it makes me uncomfortable to watch i feel like they are talking about me if it makes sense😅

[@solayssa]

Regarding the fat shaming comments within a group: I'm not sure if it's actually the member's opinion or a role they're forced to play by the company. The whole industry is very toxic. I hope a time will come when idols are free enough to stand up for themselves and each other.❤

[@Timmyboi36]

I feel very bad for idols even changbin just because he's big it doesn't mean people has ti insult him and other idols

[@AestheticLisa12]

Jinni was having a lot of trouble breathing n jyp did not care like jinni is now way better after jyp

[@hennakhan4587]

Okay, before watching the video I thought Changbin shouldn't be here because his members made these comments in a light-hearted way and Changbin himself on more than one occasion has made fun of Lee Know for eating a lot, but after watching the clips I realised that yeah, the members shouldn't have said them jokingly or not even though more than once the members have appreciated him for his body. Good for Changbin on bulking up in the industry where people are obsessed with losing weight, and making his fans go wild by even a hint of him showing his muscles..