Korean Sexuality Culture | Dating in Korea

[@MichelandLadda]

I will translate what the dog said: “ I want a soft blanket to lay on, not this hard couch”.

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

Like theres not young people in korea just hooking up tbh. I think this is the norm in most countries today especially developed countries with clubbing scenes and booming nightlife.

[@jasmeetsingh2946]

the doggy don't care 😂😂😂

[@Vishaljwal]

It is Us who Are Supposed to ❤

[@jungheo4124]

@@VishaljwalTrue!😅

[@paulrobertson7650]

The doggie is a total distraction.......😮......

[@Vishaljwal]

@@paulrobertson7650 Don't Get Distracted , thats the Teaching😇

[@zacharikurbah6358]

I love your videos, they are amazing. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

[@markroeser7665]

Obviously a royal lady of great wisdom and beauty. Speaking truth. Kate and stay a great leader of your nation

[@himanshuarya2704]

Kaheva is so pretty

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

I lived in Seoul Korea for a year while in the military, loved the people and the food, best year of my life!

[@calvinhosworld]

Doggie is star of the video. 😂

[@toxiknao8826]

So basically guys get used for 3-5 dates they ghost you then they rinse and repeat. I wish dating was more wholesome instead feeling like some sort of transaction.

[@ultimobile]

many videos of women in China using men for free meals in restaurants

[@Sandhill1988]

@@ultimobile It could be worse, I almost ended up in a bathtub full of ice.

[@michalquirk636]

Getting married without getting to know your partner (i.e. living together) is as reckless as Russian roulette. How can you establish any sense of compatibility (sexual or otherwise) without deepening your intimacy and sharing a variety of experiences? Zero carnal knowledge is a recipe for disaster....... and is unsurprisingly reflected in catastrophic divorces statistics.

[@masterq2.033]

Sounds reasonable, but the evidence disagrees. People who live together before getting married have a higher divorce rate than those who don't.

[@squ34ky]

@@masterq2.033 evidence from where? Statisticians from Uranus?

[@michalquirk636]

@@masterq2.033 ...hard to believe... and it must vary from country to country depending on the strictness and taboos of each. It seems logical that those who attach the most (traditional) importance to marriage will also be those inflicting the strictest taboos on divorce, which totally masks any idea about what proportion of marriages are 'successful'. So impossible to ascertain how many partners in traditional marriages would divorce if they could...... meanwhile an amicable divorce in the West seems far more 'successful' than being stuck permanently in a miserable traditional marriage, which begs the question of divorce being a negative thing

[@michalquirk636]

@@masterq2.033 .... but perhaps you're only referring to 'the West'... in which case I'd like to see some accurate statistics.... but it all begs the question of exactly how important/sacred the idea of marriage is for the participants. If a society allows couples to live together it's probably one which doesn't consider marriage as a sacred value, hence the easy acceptance of divorce, which would explain your point.....also the level of education of those concerned is an important factor too

[@user-rl3iv2jk9q]

Ms . Kaheva ~ Thank you for your presentation . I encourage you to not be overly - affected in negative ways about criticism . Your presentations are solid , consistent , and valuable . Also , I observe successfull You Tube hosts that casually include their pets as " props " . For example the host of " Money and Macro " featured his cat until it got killed in a traffic accident . That cat was popular with viewers . I have now watched several of your presentations .

[@scottstarnes8461]

Thank you for your honesty- I totally respect the Confucian view on remaining chaste until marriage- this has always been my view concerning relationships with a female- sex should be reserved for marriage so that the couple has a special bond that only the two will share. But only marry if the two are committed to only one and other and have come to love each other above all others. Bless you and your family Kaheva!

[@Hector-ir8fj]

KAHEVA, YOU ARE SO CUTE!!!🤩❤️❤️❤️. AND WOW, THIS IS INFORMATIVE.🤔

[@benj1236]

I can see why men don't want to date and Korea is disappearing.

[@sapsaap]

LOL

[@greenman4508]

Very interesting, your explanation of Confucian culture. Confucian ethos is “practiced “extremely differently in the United States. The liberal left often picks and chooses from Confucius teachings to do things you would apparently consider taboo. It certainly doesn’t resemble Protestant teachings whatsoever here. It seems like it is similar to western practices of buhdist teachings. Very different than those of Asian countries. I have more respect for Confucian teachings after listening to your explanations. I look forward to further clarifications. One thing that is universal, alcohol destroys happiness and social stability wherever it is consumed. 💚🙏

[@bretthewitt3890]

I agree completely!!

[@oobstinado3692]

Very good video Kaheva. Can you give us more informations about this subject?

[@pankyc5564]

Love south korea...👍👍🌹

[@ronwest7930]

It sounds like a society with morals and values. But getting to know somebody before marriage would be tough. Living together lets you know a person better.

[@ParthPatel-c1g]

Informative as usual…

[@Maddie-rv6sp]

finally. a new one from u!

[@jamesrichter697]

Thank you again for your insight on life in Korea. Your dog is cute. Will you have an episode dealing with Korea's low birthrate issue?

[@Seiboikipgen595]

Love you Kaheva❤

[@gmcjetpilot]

The edit at beginning was hilarious. "The signal to sleep together is to say .... Hello Everyone This is KAHEVA"..... Ha ha. Merry Christmas Miss KAHEVA. Thanks for educating me on the World from a South Korean perspective. Look forward to 2025 and learning more from you. God Bless. I have no problem with MEN being responsible and treating woman with respect. USA we have men who impregnant woman, some times several, and don't take care of the children, often in Black community, not always (Hunter Biden). These fatherless kids often do not do well in life and they are a burden on society. On the other hand WOMAN are responsible for not sleeping around. Woman get pregnant hoping to entrap the man. That may work with a millinare basketball player, not some broke guy who is in and out of jail. It is sad. I feel for the Kids first. The woman have some responsibility but being a single mom is tough.

[@danielroth6736]

I think one needs to understand the Culture first and foremost before one starts to think or look at what they might like to share or be with someone first. Learning about someone also helps. Learn your lessons first then try the word understand what comes next.

[@himanshuarya2704]

Kaheva, How is the weather in your area

[@rezayaseri2790]

Hi KAHEVA please make more videos like this, another question; I'm a football coach and a gardener, I know Korean football clubs or school don't hire me, I want to open a flower shop or sewing store. Which is more beneficial and what is the process to do it in korea?

[@daytimestudios3678]

I’m sub for you! Polite and kind!

[@dhlong1697]

I love your dog. Its a bygone concept, marrying a virgin, but had I done so years ago would not have wound up in divorce. Men need submissive wives, Ephesians 5 wives. Have an 11-year old Maltese here in California. God bless you. . .head, heart, soul. Merry Christmas Kaheva!

[@jamesrecknor6752]

AMEN

[@johnfraser4159]

Kaheva is staying busy!

[@david24442]

Thank you for your videos and I hope you meet a man great enough to meet your parents someday if you want him to. Don’t settle for anything less than the best. God bless you too.

[@Dogorogor]

@KAHEVAUniverse, Is that only when they are Korean, living in Korea? What about an American sleeping with a Korean girl/man, does the man should take responsibility?

[@buyungadil1]

Yes

[@Dogorogor]

@@buyungadil1 Yes to what?

[@vallin-o3q]

@@DogorogorYes to taking responsibility bro.

[@paul0355]

No. American have the privilege to fk any Korean women without responsibility.They are paying favour to US army. Ask her have she helped gov to be comfort women

[@vipulukey828]

Your doggo is cute Kaheva ❤

[@SapiensKaran-rm7kj]

Well I have never enforced anybody to love me because till today I am still single and loving everybody unconditionally and selflessly but if you look back to your past and count the years of your obligation with my heart then it's not me but it's you who is in love and as a lover it's my moral responsibility to love your freedom and happiness. But if you wish to leave me then do it soon otherwise the matter of love in your heart will completely merge with the matter of love in my heart to become the matter of an eternal love in our souls. And as a lover it's my moral responsibility to respect your will. Love is not a game dearest Kaheva but it is a relationship of creating the world of our souls by the unison of our hearts.😊❤️🙏

[@omnymisa]

SK women seems very pretty, but at this point every country where women went into the trend of treating men badly, not giving even the minimum consideration and most importantly, respect, is at the risk join to the increasing number of undesirable women that will end alone only in company of a cat or dog. I say this to you because you had told us before just how strong the culture of superficial is in SK. I have nothing against SK people, the ones I "know" is just by watching them in YT and reading about business and many excellent products but the more I see about you SK people am find it you are awesome so let's keep having more conversations!

[@BlkNumbr9]

Thank you for this. I understand K-dramas a little better now.

[@ravichandranchandrakesavan3311]

Thanks for sharing 🙏 lots of love from Tamil Nadu 🙏

[@kmorris180]

It's good to hear of a culture that frowns on sleeping around or not taking responsibility. ❤

[@jamesrecknor6752]

YES

[@nellieevans1540]

We don't want that "having multiple baby daddies/mamas" culture here in Asia.

[@Brystico]

thanks, the left side of my headphones appreciated the video

[@jungheo4124]

HAHA

[@Ljohnny12]

Kaheva, have you been to India?

[@CARL_093]

thanks for the wisdom kaheva

[@sollyreal5581]

Thank you Kaheva, to let me know everything about Korea

[@b9777-k4i]

An interesting script, i'll take a shot..along with Sexuality also is Sensuality! which are senses such as sight, we can say at a club a woman and man with eyes locked-in and nothing to worry about just happy together. 😊

[@sierrasierrahomepad]

CUTE PUPPER 🐶❤️

[@morganbitoljeron7584]

They say that Korean woman wants to marry rich man only.. correct me if I'm wrong..

[@nellieevans1540]

Then why are there still poor families in Korea? Why are there still struggling fathers?

[@shaiwangkonyak5611]

I love korean

[@xtreme1002003]

2:07 Constructive critique: The word “fly” should be used instead of “drive” in this sentence.

[@squ34ky]

She chooses her words very carefully and deliberately. You need to rise above the pedestrian, to truly appreciate it.

[@noctiscaelum5125]

The answer is "Alcohol" But what if a foreign men actually wants to find a Korean women, get married and build a life?

[@TheMediaMachine]

#1. Be hot looking. #2. Or be rich. #3. Or be both. Women no matter where, they are no different EVEN with culture, religion etc. Majority are shallow as they come. The prettier, the more delusional they are and self entitled they become. If you're not any of these, it doesn't matter wherer you are in world, it's going to be an uphill struggle. Women, majority are shallow and worry about how it looks like to other people. If they didn't they'd already be married, found their man.

[@TheThridwolf]

What if woman force a man to have sex in korea

[@nellieevans1540]

Then we all should ask what was he wearing.

[@bretthewitt3890]

Doggy is cute!! Much good knowledge here. Drinking is no good...its true.

[@s.e.n3264]

Some traditions should be left in the dust

[@nirathiruvasagam9158]

Fascinating. No wonder kdramas show a woman frequently having set with a man after drinking. In the west its a no faults divorce. Property is divided in half. Infidelity does not affect division. I am glad that women are protected in SK because of confusion culture. In India they put the blame on the woman .its also a confusion culture there but women are not protected.

[@jungheo4124]

Thanks.

[@NatPage]

sound is all on the left -_- record in mono sound (Listening in mono ensures that you hear the same audio from both ears)

[@nanal.186]

I'm surprised that I made it this far.

[@akash23358]

Kaheva, you have first tell Kim Jong Ung is alive or not?😂😂😂

[@leunam3434]

My Korean friend from San Francisco had to marry the woman recommended by his parents. By obeying his parents he was given a house in San Francisco’s expensive neighborhood.

[@thurston905]

Boring tiring nonstop blind dates every weekend. That’s what my 37 year old lady friend in Incheon is enduring right now under pressure from tiger mum. So sad.

[@mrt445]

Tell her to just get a sperm donor. That's what the majority of rich/successfully women are doing these days like Lucy Liu and Amanda Heard.

[@kabirulalo908]

This is interesting video ❤

[@J2897Tutorials]

So the one who cheats loses most of the property... Interesting. Seems fair, although here in the West, men often get the women to sign a "prenup" (prenuptial agreement) to avoid having to relinquish wealth in the invent of a divorce. Since I've always been 100% loyal to my partners, I think I'd be okay with a Korean marriage, if things go well for me in Busan.

[@sriniko6072]

Why is the volume so low in the last 2 vlogs, no one seems to be commenting. Is that a recording issue?

[@jungheo4124]

Without wearing earphone, it was okay

[@michaelkarkut5066]

Very interesting

[@rogersmith9705]

Thanks Kaheva 🌷❤🐕

[@Hawkshooter1]

❤❤❤❤

[@primal1233]

South Korea is a great country

[@paulonunes2002]

Hi Kaheva. Are you the type who just dates or the type who wants to get married? BTW I am looking for a South Korean wife.

[@thuydoan7496]

My advice: Run as far away as you can !!! Avoid all Korean women. There are many reasons why.

[@miguelcavanna736]

hey Kaheva, thanks for sharing your culture, I truly enjoy watching you, greetings from San Antonio TX

[@miguelcavanna736]

Love you girl!

[@gingerfoxxy1]

I’ve had a Korean lover for years and I didn’t go through all that! We slept together the first time we met and we’ve been sleeping together all these years! He is married I am his mistress and we’re still having a great time and we have two grown sons! Perhaps it’s because I’m Italian and we are very passionate in lovemaking! We have no hangups and we have no inhibitions!

[@witchreturns2263]

As an European, I had 2 Korean women, they appreciate it a lot when you act manly(in the west I see the society pushes this gaysh agenda on men). The breakup drama is insane! But they make good girlfriends, at least they don't f around like our western women (the ones from Seoul, might)

[@TheMarcuslindberg]

Maybe these old fashioned rules contribute to the low birth rate in korea.

[@shutengloke5907]

Hmm...wasn't a problem up to 15 years ago.

[@dragonball-yf5db]

A man passed........

[@jungheo4124]

😂

[@betserv.1187]

Audio volume is very low. Can barely hear

[@jungheo4124]

It's better without earphone

[@SosinTamai-cc3yw]

Love you ❤❤❤ What stories

[@Four_Words_And_Much_More]

Practical. Common sense. Easy if you know. Grateful fan.

[@scotthearts9634]

🐶 woof! Wooof! So cute 😍💓

[@laltebizzie3403]

I love you kaheva😢

[@culea0alex]

I would be happy to have a woman, not necessarily to sleep with her. After marriage, we can seep all we want. All I want is love and to offer love and be happy together.

[@dominicayyanikkatt7463]

Please say something about your dating experiences.

[@InfoArtistJK]

Forget the dog for the video. It's not cute, and it's distracting.

[@jimmypark3224]

Leaving the dog in instead of editing it out, shows that she doesn't respect the viewer's time.

[@PriestMars]

​@@jimmypark3224Well, whoever is watching this must be kinda idle already.

[@scotthearts9634]

It pisses me off! 😢😡 the dog is too adorable 😭🥺

[@kristinesharp6286]

Should not get fired because of the actions of another person.

[@marcushibdon2415]

KIVA YOUR OSSOME 😊😊😊

[@remuspierre7573]

Good Video

[@EjaaaayKk]

1st

[@nickstoic2944]

Thank you Kaheva, interesting rules but fair in the same time. Wonder what happens if a woman walks away after having sex.

[@afiasheikh416]

So Korean culture is good for woman - most of the time?

[@PauloNunes1977]

Hi Kaheva, if you take the same care with our babies as you do with this toy poodle dog, then you are the ideal woman to marry me and form a beautiful family.

[@Sandhill1988]

Aerosmith has a song for you.

[@christophertadeo6120]

U were saying? 🙁

[@arongitis]

have a good day. we will leave it at that.

[@vincentriquier7271]

[@jungheo4124]

🐰how did u type it that's very cute

[@transworld8005]

❤

[@BigDaddyBoom_aka_Mr.KnowitAll]

I Love ❤️ that Dog! 🫠😃👍 Very naughty doggy. 😋

[@MarkMcgrew-f8m]

From what I hear, there’s not enough human sexuality being demonstrated in South Korea..???

[@davidponce6132]

Your very beautiful

[@himanshuarya2704]

Kaheva What is the name if your pet ? Please introduce it with us

[@cactiguide]

Please do not

[@BillyJoe-pj5xo]

I love you kaheva my dreams

[@petecholes422]

making nonsense is not the way. take responsibility for your self

[@tklims1678]

👍👍

[@RB-pm2ni]

You are very seeet to your doggy, I can tell you love you that dog❤❤❤❤❤

[@colinhill4963]

Kaheva come to UK,you are gorgeous.hope you want English man.x❤😍

[@wills5868]

I want to go to trip with Kaheva

[@NipunotoNipunotoyeps]

Hai family members

[@purudutta2682]

cute

[@Sandhill1988]

Kaheva is stunningly beautiful. But that's a bridge too far.