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@Bulbbul-DDАй бұрын
ക്യാപ്ഷൻ, നിങ്ങളുടെ നിലവാരം താഴേക്ക് പോകുന്നതിന്റെ ലക്ഷണം ആണ്, ms ധന്യ വർമ്മ
@ta4256Ай бұрын
She is worse than Veena. But has an intellectual facade and gets away with her intrusive questions
@UiolliddbАй бұрын
@@ta4256ABSOLUTELY TRUE. INTELLECTUAL FACADE.
@akhilanair9290Ай бұрын
@@ta4256she has taken the criticisms in and changed the caption.. So she is being herself
@ammuzmikkuz2002Ай бұрын
Their channel,their caption, pls dont get worried 😂
@akhilanair9290Ай бұрын
@libsonteresa5695 and who are you?? Can you explain?? Why is ayalkoottam bothering you so much.. Have you been there in an ayalkoottam meeting to know what is happening?? And about Dhanya.. Interview is about knowing the other person and making an atmosphere which is comfortable for him or her to open up themselves... Yes, the caption she wrote was not liked by many of us and she took the criticism in the right sense and changed it... It is better to get inspired by someone rather than thinking that you are the ultimate...
@meenar4784Ай бұрын
Don’t get shock with her marriage reply ..She is representing a big majority of girls .. that’s the truth
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Am glad that you liked the conversation
@mj-91318 күн бұрын
I am not shocked by her reply, she is probably delusional and has high standards for happiness/life. I'm rather surprised by your incorrect statement that less than 10% constitutes a majority. Actually, 90% of women between 25 and 60 are married. Just because people around you don’t want to do it doesn't mean that the national average reflects the same. @iamwithdhanyavarma : the interview was terrible, and the captions were even worse. It's a perfect example of a bad interview that my students can refer to. Instead of empathizing with her viewpoint, why didn't you challenge her by asking if it's all in her head?
@neyyattinkaragopan304210 күн бұрын
@mj-913 yes , bro they're trying to create a narrative
@anujaap8897Ай бұрын
Caption could have been changed
@seojoon2450Ай бұрын
I also thought the same😬local channels clickbaitin idunapole
@sumayyasagheer8428Ай бұрын
Ikkrrr
@Arya-pw4blАй бұрын
I think its bcz most of the viewers of this channel are people with depth, perspective..pinne local content ishtapedathavaranu...nammal clickbaitil veezhathavaranu..we automaticallh reach here..but ithu athra intellectual allatha..manasinu depth illatha aalkarilekum ethikan vendiyanu...So that they also view thiscontent.Let them know the value of such interviews..So athinulla oru clickbait marketing strategy aakam ithu..its just my perspective..bcz earlier i had the same feeling as yours..then I understood this might be the reason.
@IV-we8xmАй бұрын
Exactly 👍🏻
@Chidambaram-r3tАй бұрын
Nasriay aiswarya lekshmiye kandupadikkanam
@tata_mic4539Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the interview. Im a 25 yr old girl, just started to drown into this pit of pleasing my parents. Im jobless with two MA's . Im in a stage were I'm wondering what am I going to do. And all my parents care about is for me to get married, and I stopped interacting anything with them to avoid a conflict. And now they are dissatisfied about me being silent. There is nothing good happening, Im working hard to do something and find my way. Right now I feel like I want to hide , away from my own parents.
@Priya__444Ай бұрын
Same here... But don't worry dear I believe that everything will workout eventually... Now work hard to achieve your dreams
@Justbereal1227Ай бұрын
May be get a job move to a new city with jobs take care
@farhafinu4052Ай бұрын
I feel you cause my situation is same like you . I don't know how to navigate things
@yahyanaz3695Ай бұрын
Instead of working in a job marriage is a very good option, you will understand it after 40s
@tata_mic4539Ай бұрын
@@yahyanaz3695 I prefer to follow my dreams right now and move at least a step towards it than settling for something I'm not sure about, thinking that I may feel better in my 40s. And marriage is something I would like to do when I meet someone I really want to be in my life forever and only if that person also thinks the same.
@sajinig6555Ай бұрын
'Pleasing parents ' is a topic which not yet discussed in our society.
@jincythomas3267Ай бұрын
Only because of this interview I feel like watch your movie... Kure cuteness vari eriyand, thug parayand mannyam ayit Ula interview aanu pulikari mikkapolum kodukne
@Sush445Ай бұрын
Thug palarum venam enn vechu idunnathalla. Media kaaranam undavunnathaanu
@shabanasabu7152Ай бұрын
She has transformed into a different person , very inetresting to listen to her , see how honestly she shares her outlook ..
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
She was amazing..thanks.do share
@aiswaryasatheesh5870Ай бұрын
As an elder daughter this is an eye opener! I am "unlearning" a lot of things in my life. Thank you so much dhanya and aishu.❤
@geetz_Ай бұрын
Dhanya, I hope you take this as constructive feedback. You don’t need to follow trends when posting videos because your strength lies in your exceptional interviewing skills. People who admire your unique way of asking questions aren’t drawn to topics like why Aishwarya chose not to marry. They appreciate you for being authentic. You can simply stay true to yourself, thoughtfully caption your videos, and continue selecting guests who resonate with your style. Trust me, we love you for being who you are.
@vinuboxАй бұрын
I second that !
@podimol8779Ай бұрын
Well said...
@laks1t148Ай бұрын
Agree! Felt that too!
@giftycv5280Ай бұрын
True...i like her way of presentation...for that reason i am watching her interviews... but it is sad that she is more concerned about the viewership
@KadakkalKunjabdullaАй бұрын
@@giftycv5280what was the earlier caption could you please tell
@ariyageorge4675Ай бұрын
Under that smile who thought there was this much suffocation 🥺 thank you for opening up..!!❤
@parwathysАй бұрын
It feels like I’m talking….most of the women in their late 20s and early 30s could relate to each word she said
@shrutimohan8908Ай бұрын
Vv true
@avemariajose1184Ай бұрын
Highly relatable😢
@charu93ableАй бұрын
Sathyam 😮💨
@Chidambaram-r3tАй бұрын
Nasriay aiswarya lekshmiye kandupadikkanam
@mpaul8794Ай бұрын
👍 True
@juzlikdatАй бұрын
I feel her! We’re often so conditioned by society to believe that societal norms is what is our norms! And it’s such a hard one to break off from!
@priyajimmy5449Ай бұрын
Chechi can you please take an interview of Indhu Rebecca wife of Major Mukund
@Mooseie-w4nАй бұрын
Yes please!
@Seena.B_RАй бұрын
Yes
@nandanaramesh4017Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@NanmaMaanikaАй бұрын
I was going to put it here. Dhanya chechi, u being a naval wife and me in the same shoes, I eagerly look forward to listening to Indu 😘😘😘
@jessijaydenjude7427Ай бұрын
Correct request ❤
@sandrastellamaria216Ай бұрын
As an eldest daughter in a mallu fam I've never resonated with any actor or any even any fellow human being.. omg she's such a gem!! Thank you dhanya for hosting Aishu!!
@febyjoseph6976Ай бұрын
She is very genuine….❤
@mpaul8794Ай бұрын
Marriage gives pleasure to a man And Pressure to a woman.. So..escape.....
@divyap8424Ай бұрын
Exactly correct 💯
@tonyjesusomdАй бұрын
Equally or more pressure to men also (responsible men)
@riswanak22 күн бұрын
Really 👍
@sofianizar42520 күн бұрын
😂😂
@tonyjesusomd20 күн бұрын
@@mpaul8794 it's exactly the opposite nowadays
@djankoulrea3463Ай бұрын
Nicely done interview. She is so right about parents trying to micro manage girls and they dont stop even after they get married. So it also affects their marriage by intruding into the couple's privacy and affecting the decisions the couple is supposed to take , so in turn affects the guys as well.
@douluvmeeАй бұрын
Not a fan of her acting , but this interview was beautiful! ❤❤❤❤
@AmeySRАй бұрын
Being a single girl child, I can totally relate her..
@shrutimohan8908Ай бұрын
True
@AmeySRАй бұрын
This patriotic marrige dilemma not only comes from the family but also even from the company and team you are working.. if you are elder one and unmarried, they started sideline you and treating, you are having some issues and behaving with the most empathetic manner, gradully mixing up with our professional outputs. They have a thougt process like, she is not marriage so doesnt have a family and responbility.
@CoCo-wl9zlАй бұрын
True
@anujoseph_10Ай бұрын
For real
@itsdude986625 күн бұрын
Let me say it’s the same for us too.whether we are single or have siblings it doesn’t matter.trust me.i can relate to her😅
@teenathomas585725 күн бұрын
Me too hv the same perspective ... being single is better than to b married. My parents too are so caring that makes me feel so irritated sometimes.
@iamwithdhanyavarma25 күн бұрын
I hear you
@Pooja.jayarajАй бұрын
Listening to so many people and out of personal experience as well, I think everyone has to take a therapy session atleast once. Not necessarily to fix or heal anything, but atleast to start appreciating ourselves. Dear Dhanya Maam, thank you for bringing up such insightful conversations.
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks for your support..pls do share
@Rasha-d6lАй бұрын
From where to seek therapy
@anujoseph_10Ай бұрын
@@Rasha-d6l psychologists
@psychologyandlifebykaveriАй бұрын
Happy to hear that you speaks about Psychotherapy in a very positive manner. As you said the willingness to seek help and understand what is happening itself is a very big quality. Thank you for creating awareness about mental health services. Go Ahead 👍🏻🥰
@ammuzmikkuz2002Ай бұрын
I can understand her,when i was a child i had so many insecurities and it affected me as a person even now also sometimes iam facing..rightnow iam staying in banglore i feel lot of feedom in lot of ways....something is wrong with people in kerala i feel.
@mayflower113923 күн бұрын
Me too in Blore 😂
@ammuzmikkuz200223 күн бұрын
@mayflower1139 yeah gud to hear. hope u also felt same ,right?
@reeko9278Ай бұрын
Got married still fighting to understand why woman has to take all the pressure.. even being married off to a very modern family many things are sorted at my place but still there is no equality ..the fact that the woman has to take a whole lot of responsibility needs to change... Thats startes from current generation who will make sure this should not be the norm..
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
It is the fact that the share of responsibilities is too much on the women deters girls from taking that step...if men were more of partners and equal stakeholders in running a household..then maybe
@SajyodineАй бұрын
@@iamwithdhanyavarmasometimes even if the relationship starts off equally , many things are put off the window once you have a baby. Then the difference becomes jarring and almost too difficult to balance it out. Many factors including societal, social , physical etc make this difficult. For example - take the paltry paternity leave available which by default starts pushing more on the mother, and then it takes years for the balance to come back.
@aneeshkk2141Ай бұрын
Men has to take major financial responsibility of a family.Moreover Women marry Men having higher salary position and financial status.They are more busier earns more and take part in house hold chores only when time permits.
@Rin10809Ай бұрын
@@aneeshkk2141, there are womens who is getting more pay than men but still she only have to take care house chores, kids etc
@aneeshkk2141Ай бұрын
@@Rin10809 You can't bring equality in everything.Whoever time permitting has to do house hold chores.Its not about who earns more.Generally Men have higher position job in a family and more busier.
@saluprakash2857Ай бұрын
Favourite person and beautiful epidode. Thank you Dhanya maam for this beautiful talk with aishu. ❤😊
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@SaniaSaraSusan22 күн бұрын
I can’t tell u how much this video has helped me..I feel I am not alone to feel this way..This video has made me a great admirer of you Aishwarya..lot of love to u
@versaillesthomasАй бұрын
Aishu your friends know you more than your parents. You don't need your parents approval for that. Hard boundaries is what you need with your parents!
@never3385Ай бұрын
Exactly.....I have good girl syndrome not only with parents but with the whole world .......I don't consider it to be good anymore 😊 I'm not out of it yet but trying to get things sorted..... Only people who underwent situations like this can relate how hard is it to get along with these in life 😢 I even thought that she was here to speak my story 😊😢
@LucidtravelzАй бұрын
Liked the term "good girl syndrome" , needs to get out of this :)
@anujoseph_10Ай бұрын
Relatable af
@danip81518 күн бұрын
I was once a people pleaser Not anymore😊
@parvathysaratАй бұрын
Thank you for speaking about abandonment issues, and Dhanya for highlighting how hard (and commendable) it is for someone with a tough background to stop tolerating poor behavior and to make an exit. All of us need to be aware of our behavior patterns and the reasons behind them so that we always come out the winner even if it's a bad experience while living it :) Great interview!
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts...pls do share and support
@shibani27Ай бұрын
Such an understanding of oneself, and the way she articulates her thoughts... Wow!
@varunmohan5060Ай бұрын
I look forward to your conversation with Aishwarya!!! She is such a talented actress! Loved her in Gatta Kushti, Ammu, Archana 31 not out, Kumari, Kaanekaane, Varathan, Mayaanadhi, Vijay superum pournamiyum and PS 1 &2
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks so much
@JustATraveller2812Ай бұрын
Wow ..Aishu ,my fav ❤thanks for having her,here..now let me watch this
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Pls do..n share if you like it
@JustATraveller2812Ай бұрын
Sure Dhanya
@readers.cornerАй бұрын
Feels like my life is explained by aiswariya.... Great effort by 'i am with dhanya varma'...
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thank you so much..do share the video
@bunjaykididiАй бұрын
It takes a lot of courage to speak about it. Sending you warm hugs ❤
@ashwinashok3587Ай бұрын
Nalloru caption idayrunu... Nice interview☺️
@angieea6718Ай бұрын
How come you bring out the most vulnerable side of every guest dhanyaa 😃.. i think most of the guests now consider your interviews as a therapy session.. mayb they feel safe opening up to you
@hereneenujoseАй бұрын
She spoke so genuinely..
@tonythyparampil882813 күн бұрын
വന്നു വന്നു കല്യാണം മോശം ആണെന്നൊരു ഇമേജ് ലേഡീസിന്റെ മനസ്സിൽ കൊണ്ടുവരാൻ ഈ ചാനൽ ശ്രെമിക്കുന്നു എന്ന് തോന്നുന്നു... Just feeling
@see2sawАй бұрын
Oh i was made to feel old and past my prime at 22 and all the pressure from all quarters made me succumb and got married....story of many..
@bhavanams6461Ай бұрын
Woah. 22 !
@WaveRider1989Ай бұрын
Same here but at 27 and i am a man.
@sruthiv6175Ай бұрын
Looking into her eyes, I can see the transformation ... Keep growing ❤❤❤
@shadhaebadhy1146Ай бұрын
Here to see how much she has evolved since the last interview❤. Most awaited.
@RehanaMuhammed-oi6pzАй бұрын
Nice episode ♥️ pls bring khalid rahman
@sangeethvp8250Ай бұрын
I am already crying within 5 minutes of this interview...I get you aishu..
@EndoplasmiicReticulum.Ай бұрын
Caption is misleading
@jyothirao7302Ай бұрын
So happy to listen to how you're navigating through life, maturely handling uour parents, choosing movies to inspire women to choose their own voice over anyone else's!
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Pls do share and support
@Ajith___22 күн бұрын
She has never encountered a genuinely good guy, and I can see the pain in her eyes.
@Myself_kvАй бұрын
I can relate to a lot on what she is saying. Such a open and strong person ❤💫
@amruthavraj474220 күн бұрын
So beautifully articulated aishwarya! Can't agree more
@restore__life1705Ай бұрын
I've seen her interview in Happiness project yrs ago, Now she have travelled a long way to b here... U continue to inspire, cherish & enables rethinking for people like me.. Luv u Aishu🩷💖💖... Thank u Dhanya ma'am for bringing her🙏✨
@Audiosafer234Ай бұрын
Parents should also get therapy to understand this girl!!
@JasmeenKamaalАй бұрын
these new gen actors GOD alone knows what they eat to say stupid things....yukkkk
@chinnup4804Ай бұрын
Sathym 😢
@avemariajose1184Ай бұрын
Caption, is to the point. ...spoke about a very imp issue, Thanks Dhanya and Aish❤
@AnjaliSumi-r6oАй бұрын
Iam honestly loved this interview. She is giving us something to understand and open our inner eyes and most of the time every kerala actress and interviewer discussing some masala topic but here i can relate i can understand and therapy is not a bad thing we are geting something good in this interview. I honestly love this and wow ❤aishwarya much love
@nimitshasabuАй бұрын
Such an amazing conversation. It's brilliant how well Aishwarya Lekshmi has articulated her thoughts without shying away from being vulnerable and how well she carries her awareness. And of course Dhanya asking the most beautiful questions.
@Meenuz143Ай бұрын
Interesting❤Aishu speaking good and Maam also
@minnumahendran5240Ай бұрын
She is so genuine. Big fan of her. Thank you for inviting her🥰🥰
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks ..pls watch and share
@gs5710Ай бұрын
An open talk with Aishwarya lakshmi enno, some insights into Aishwarya's life Enno vellom caption ittirunenkil kurachenkilum standard ayene. Ithu oru mathiri manja pathram news pole ayille ??
@universal_citizenАй бұрын
Dear Dhanya, Aishwarya Lekshmi raised such an important point in the episode! Could you consider dedicating another discussion or even a full episode to the family pressure around marriage and the conflicts it creates? I can completely relate-being over 30 and unmarried has made my marriage my parents’ biggest concern. The constant friction is exhausting, and despite my efforts to communicate my perspective, bridging the gap feels impossible. I feel religion also plays a role in this. As family members grow more conservative and influenced by traditional ideologies, our generation is moving in a different direction-questioning and unlearning. This divergence creates a huge communication gap, and no matter how many meaningful discussions we watch online, these ideas rarely seem to reach or influence them. Dhanya, is there any way we can help our parents become more understanding and bridge this gap?
@Aswathy-lr6bgАй бұрын
When you become a parent, you will understand 😊
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Will take up the subject in in focus
@universal_citizenАй бұрын
@@Aswathy-lr6bg That’s just a statement to justify generational trauma. Whatever the situation-childhood, adulthood, or being in a relationship-we all need to unlearn or change attitudes that might add stress to others. This isn’t about saying no one should get married. If someone wants to get married, let them do so. If not, at least be empathetic and avoid pressuring them. Let people willingly make their choices, whether it’s to embrace marriage or live differently. Moreover, discussions like these aim to address the flaws in the concept of marriage. In the Indian context, the concept of marriage, husband, or wife often carries inhumane elements, even though they’re treated as sacred or pure in our culture. Let’s unlearn and grow.
@user-yk5lv8iw8xАй бұрын
@@Aswathy-lr6bgNot everyone wants to be a parent. Most people in our country become parents out of societal pressure and nothing else! Such a poor country churning out children by the dozen.
@Littlesunshine1515Ай бұрын
@@user-yk5lv8iw8xWhat you said was so true... parenting is challenging now.Its like how hard you try still doubtful about your efforts.
@sarathambattАй бұрын
Caption change cheyu chechi, maintain the quality. U r not the regular interviewer or typical channel choose such titles. Pls.
@susanjustinrejiАй бұрын
❤❤Thanks Dhanya.. was waiting for it.
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks pls share
@neerajnp5810Ай бұрын
Can resonate to her thought process.. ❤👍🏽
@vinivini5747Ай бұрын
She has a point and I am glad she is sticking to her opinion about every aspect of life.
@Krishna-ze9ttАй бұрын
Great discussion! It’s so clear that she’s been in therapy seeing the awareness she has. Hope everyone gets a chance to get help from therapy .
@HeyaHezam-f3yАй бұрын
Ningale interview fan aan njn.its because of your level of questions like pakkka standard and respectable aayttulla questions aan and ningal personal karyangal onnum kuthi chothikatha oru interviewer aan..pakshe..ipo ittta polthe captions pole idaand irikuu..mattuvalere pole cheyyandirikku..you have a your own style to interview a person...so,please keep that ..❤❤
@nimithapremlal4032Ай бұрын
Such a genuine interview!❤
@srnair-z2jАй бұрын
I am not able to understand the traumatic experience that is being referred to. Can anyone help me here?
@teenalawrance5724Ай бұрын
Yea.... Me too.... She speaks as if parents have no rights on their children. Padippikkanum avarde chelavikal nadathanum mathran parents. That's what she is trying to portray
@anaghags3298Ай бұрын
Love this video ❤❤❤ .. the way see said it , the way she express her feel and experience and what she struggled , i got her and I can feel her .. I see myself in her words .😊😇
@IV-we8xmАй бұрын
Do we really need that caption?! Or could be that I had a false notion about the channel
@thecoolsoul3415Ай бұрын
I can totally relate to her 💖 I'm 28 nte parents same anu daily kalyanam kalyanm
@farhansharf2022Ай бұрын
I could relate sooooo well to what she said about pleasing parents. I am still struggling to break free from it!
@RIJIRIYAROSEАй бұрын
എത്ര പാട് പെട്ടു ഒരു ഇന്റർവ്യൂ, നല്ല മലയാളം പരാജൽ എത്ര ഈസി ആയിരിക്കും, trying so hard to speak in english
@susank.thudian6031Ай бұрын
A truly soulful and genuine conversation! Loved every bit of it
@ligiscaria1434Ай бұрын
Dhanya... Beautiful interview❤️
@reshmamathew9767Ай бұрын
Dhanya chechi I'm your big fan..and please take this as a suggestion..please don't make these types of captions just like any other third class online media..that doesn't match your style and class..
@ShilpaMohananАй бұрын
ee puulikari actually veenayude sophisticated version aan. but aarkum manasil avunilla matram. ethra thram thaana caption aan videok kodthe
@sree7958Ай бұрын
evide okkeyo oru Priyanka Chopra cut😇
@smitharaghavan-t2zАй бұрын
There are only 2 people in the world who wud love u UNCONDITIONALLY - 1) Mother 2) Father May be sibling/s. U will realize it after their Death. Enjoy .
@stebinalex13 күн бұрын
Happy married life aayi jeevikkunna aalkaar undenkil please reply. Or single aayi jeevichirunnel how it would’ve been ennu chindhikkunnavar undenkil athum. I’ve never seen a happy married couple in my life. All of them are accepted their fate, and adjusted their lives to that.
@vaishnaviharikumar2025Ай бұрын
This is so relatable 🙌
@JOJOPranksters-o6pАй бұрын
*aishu fans like😻*
@sujathachandran9011Ай бұрын
Awesome dhanyavaad.... More power to you... Awesome guest....
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks a ton
@shrutimohan8908Ай бұрын
I can relate my amma and her life .But now trying step out We can't say parents ..because they lived n those 80 s70 a era
@riyamollАй бұрын
Nice interview...
@flamingofloat6053Ай бұрын
Watching your interview gives me positive energy...keep going..❤❤
@m.a.lakshmipriya9479Ай бұрын
Very relatable and she seems so genuinely
@sonyboseАй бұрын
Until today, I used to always believe that she was a person who never had to struggle in life! Infact this assumption was made because of a vague memory of her interview in the past, where she herself admitted that she never had to struggle for any movies, everything was handed over to her, and she feels blessed!
@Aparna.Ratheesh27 күн бұрын
😢I have always been a people pleaser. I still am. Probably after acting like this all my life, I don't really know what I truly want... Can relate to when Aishu says she's been trying to please parents... 🙏🏼
@niloufershereefp9849Ай бұрын
Dhanya,Please bring someone to talk about men's mental health.
@ammuzmikkuz2002Ай бұрын
Aishu is my favorite actress,favorite personality ❤❤nice to see girls are speaking their heart out...nice interview Dhanya❤❤ ignore all the negative comments
@sharonababy1617Ай бұрын
Eagerly waiting for the 2 nd part
@emmyinАй бұрын
What is the kind of therapy that is helping her, is it called psychotherapy?
@a.p.268Ай бұрын
(its a long post...sorry for that in advance) I am going to talk on behalf of Aishwarya Lekshmi (simply in her defence) and say that she isnt saying that her parents are bad as parents in anyway... She is just saying that she wishes she wasn't conditioned In a certain way. Its her outlook. Parents of late 80s and 90s kids "parented" them in the only way they know - parenting from 'their' parents. There is no manual for parenting even now. Maybe some books and advises for certain situations but its never all encompassing! But there is a lot of unprocessed trauma for these kids because of conditioning. Im sure even the parents have and of course even the kids born later. She is just saying about the ways she struggled. But one thing needs to be said out loud - the ones who actively started seeking therapy were/are millennials and we were often ridiculed and then later applauded for the same. So there is a reason for that - these people have no proper outlet to talk and of course these guys have money! So what I am trying to say is, its a very complex topic, deeply personal and judgements should probably be questioned. oh...(I also take therapy :-P)
@Christena-j3cАй бұрын
I remember, in an interview with Rekha she discussing her future plans of getting married and kids. Interested to know what experiences made her to realise and do the other way round. Also she should have taken her mother to the counseling/therapy and discussed these issues there instead of calling their actions 'pathetic' on a show. Anyways I love her more now because she's more real and realatable here than showing off as a happy/cute person(or wearing a mask as Dhanya mentioned) as when we see her earlier it's obvious that she's has some internal trauma/issues/inter-relational conflicts going on.
@NandhanaTV-wp7omАй бұрын
The process of taking a mother to a therapist, as she mentioned in this interview, is not an easy one. And It's fine for her to talk about her parents' parenting. Because those who haven't had similar experiences should be aware that this type of parenting exists.
@walkwithlenin3798Ай бұрын
No need to get married. Im a married man. I know the social pressure is too much. One can choose to marry or not marry . Its personal choice. ❤
@neyyattinkaragopan304210 күн бұрын
I have no interest to marry either bro , but I want kids and no I want my kids not adopted ones
@Sadeekha-c7wАй бұрын
Super actress ❤❤❤❤ really good interview 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Thanks do share
@AnnuAppu-n5wАй бұрын
Maam me too felt the caption is appropriate
@salwa5605Ай бұрын
Now she chNged the caption .. earlier it was different ..
@jyothikakj2490Ай бұрын
She is very wise! What a great vocabulary she holds 💖
@jyotsnavishnu01Ай бұрын
Eagerly waiting for the next part❤
@iamwithdhanyavarmaАй бұрын
Wednesday
@manasarravi6090Ай бұрын
Vegam scnd part edu.... Dhanyamam epolelum saipallaviye kond veramo...❤
@vrpkАй бұрын
She always put captions (to attract audience)which necessarily not hurt society norms, no one had an issue… suddenly it touched family, everyone is jumping up with guns
@veenasudheer8532Ай бұрын
So true. I was about to write that comment. It tells a lot about how regressive Malaya li's are.