Divorce or a Break-up is the best thing...Aishwarya Lekshmi P-3 (Hello Mummy)

Aishwarya Lekshmi is an actor who has acted in Malayalam, Tamil and Telugu movies. Her recent movies are in Tamil and Malayalam - Maniratnam`s Kamal Hasan starrer Thug life and Hello Mummy.
In this deeply personal and engaging conversation Aishu as she is fondly called talks about how she gravitates towards certain subjects due to unresolved issues with her parents and how she wants them to see it through her movies. She talks about why she chose to not get married in spite of all pressure from her family. She talks about how marriage today, is an impediment towards personal growth. She also talks about mental health and therapy. She says identifying the behavioral patterns is absolutely necessary in order to correct them.
On the career front she talks about her work with Kamal Hasan, Maniratnam in Thug Life and how she has evolved into the actor that she is.
This is an interview all women and parents must watch, for it is an honest take on intimate relationships.
Lekshmi made her acting debut with the 2017 Malayalam film Njandukalude Nattil Oridavela, which earned her the Filmfare Award for Best Female Debut - South. She went on receive praises for Mayaanadhi, Varathan, Kaanekkaane, Ponniyin Selvan: I, which is her highest grossing release, Ammu, Kumari, Gatta Kusthi and Ponniyin Selvan: II. She has also acted with Dhanush in the movie Jagame Thandhiram.
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[@parvathy_r_nair]

What she said is true🔥 , break up or divorce is better than being in an unhappy relationship.

[@ajinabasheer3467]

Very true, it's an eye opener, what a great conversation ladies

[@aeilolena314]

200 percent, right.. we are not slaves for men

[@never3385]

Exactly.....I don't believe in a happy relationship either 😢...sorry no offense 😅

[@bzlee143]

Maybe you never had a good relationship@never3385

[@Kat_Jose]

True

[@zayabee1764]

I had watched some of her older interviews and initially saw her as having a lukewarm and overly diplomatic personality. But this was a revelation! For the first time, I found myself eagerly waiting for the next part of an interview. Now, I’m seeing this actress in a whole new light-her words were so wise and full of clarity. This feels like a fresh, authentic version of her, and I am absolutely here for it!

[@gopikab8174]

These 3 intervies of aishwarya had really changed the way I looked things. Thankyou dhanya for calling her and giving this insights.❤

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Thanks so much for sharing

[@gopikab8174]

​@@iamwithdhanyavarma❤

[@mpaul8794]

YEARS BACK MY ATTITUDE CHANGED AFTER SANDRA THOMAS' TALK. ACTUALLY ITS HIGH TIME FOR GIRLS TO CATER THEIR FREEDOM AND SELF RESPECT.

[@gopikab8174]

​@@mpaul8794true

[@sudharsanasuresh9840]

Blown away by her knowledge about mental health, her awareness about her own shortcomings and behavioural imperfections. Wish there were many more influencers/actors who were this open about their own vulnerabilities and insecurities. Long way to go girl❤ May your dream of working as a lead role in Mani rathnam film comes true soon

[@krishnenthup8994]

എത്ര വ്യക്തതയോടെ ആണ് ഓരോ ചോദ്യങ്ങൾക്കുo Aisu ഉത്തരം പറയുന്നത്.... Straight from the heart 👏🏻

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Yes...

[@roshnirajiv1729]

She is so authentic and real and bold to speak the truth of life. loved this conversation

[@abhiiiiajith]

The interview itself is a therapy!!

[@dimplegurl7]

I'm absolutely awestruck! The way you've opened up about parenting, marriage, mental health, and the art of living is truly inspiring. Your career and life journey are a testament to your strength and resilience. You're an inspiration, and your story is a must-read! @Aishu, I adore your simplicity. And @Dhanya, you're amazing too - your ability to connect with your audience and make them feel at ease is a gift.

[@swapnafenn4957]

She is ditto Priyanka Chopra …both in looks and thought process.beauty with brains

[@m.a.lakshmipriya9479]

An interview which gave me goosebumps. How brutally honest she is!!! Kudo Dhanya for this effort🎉🎉

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

All thanks to Aishu...thanks do share and support

[@aneesh2679]

She is honest to what she said. But she has all kind of flaws of a single-child being up grown. In short, we can call her as a brand ambassador of single-girl child amongst mallu society for both pros and cons as a reference to study. If she had a brother, I bet she would have been a totally different individual in life even as a woman

[@chelsiaa7]

I must admit, I never really connected with her before perhaps it doesn't matter. But now, having seen these interviews, my perspective has completely changed. She’s such a remarkable person, someone who is genuinely committed to growing in life, paying attention to even the smallest details of self-improvement. The way she spoke about choosing not to marry and embracing singlehood is so refreshing. It’s empowering to see an actor address these topics with such honesty. Her insights on people-pleasing and parent-pleasing touched a nerve, these are struggles so many of us silently endure. Her thoughts on how women post-divorce or post-breakup often experience a transformative glow. So true. It’s not just about outward appearance but about unlearning, relearning, and rediscovering oneself, which is such a vital journey in life. And then there’s her take on seeking help through therapy, therapy should be as normalized as visiting a doctor for any physical ailment. It’s high time we break the stigma surrounding mental health. Lastly, her belief in destiny resonated deeply with me. I, too, hold the same faith that everything happens for a reason. By the end of the interview, I felt like she wasn’t some distant celebrity but the girl next door relatable, genuine, and warm. Sending you lots of love, sweetie pie. All the best for all your future endeavours.

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Thanks so much..do share the conversation

[@chelsiaa7]

@@iamwithdhanyavarma Suree!! 😊

[@girishthendi6815]

She is the same age of me, but what a maturity!! I am really impressed by her thoughts and her intellect, her little bit of sense of humour here and there, and also the vocabulary of English, i used chatgpt to understand half of the words she said

[@sudhak.r6243]

This interview proves that everyone has their own battles to fight!!! ❤

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

True...we all have

[@Madevisible_85]

Wow her way of speaking is 🔥

[@Linda-pn1fy]

Beauty plus brains...a very rare combination...and so much of humility ..that's what makes her so beautiful...

[@jaya85]

I was so happy listening to this interview cause so much of what she said is so so true....a divorce or breakup is the best thing that can happen to woman..if she could be brave enough to take that decision and break the cycle of sthreekal ellam sahikkanam...yes definitely sthreekal ellam sahikkunnaval ane...but it will not be ever at the cost of her happiness and peace not anymore...having gone through a bad marriage and divorced today....I can say it has been the best decision I ever took....And yes I believe every woman is a phoenix bird...from the moment she is born...till the day she dies....she takes up all these roles...daughter...lover...wife....mother...and what not and goes through all these situations in life where she is tested and twisted and broken and bend and every time...she burns out only to rise again back up...like a Phoenix bird....love you Aishu....for everything you said in this interview...and Thank you Dhanya for this interview....lots and lots of love and best wishes....❤❤❤❤❤

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Thanks..do share and support

[@snehita752]

Divorce is better than being stuck in a miserable relationship. It affects the people around you as well, maybe even more than it affects you.

[@lavinam8026]

I had seen her earlier interviews where she was acting a bit funny,bubbly , immature type person but now she’s changed. One of the best talks of Aishwarya💜

[@Shammisblog]

What a beautiful interview! She deserves all the success and recognition on her career & life ❤

[@binithasajith7739]

Hey Aishwarya you have the guts to say that. Adipoli.. I’m separated after 29 years We have ARR and Saira..,, And many many like Jayam Ravi, Dhanush Reason always being infidelity, being ill treated , no time, no respect for each other. Great going girl just live your life Your work speaks volumes Dhanya thanks for this beautiful interview lots to lean for our girls

[@ranisusan19991]

Wonderful conversation and worth listening the way she boldly speaks the facts out loud.❤

[@jayashriev1933]

Excellent n Clear thinking esp. About Grit👍

[@Parvathy426]

5.43 😇 grit ennu paranja entha? 🥹❤️ How cutely Dhanya chechi expressed that with an inquisitiveness which was almost akin to that of a small child 🥰🥰

[@s6hra3vz2]

Damn... She is very straight forward and very aware. The way the addressed the mental health is in a very brilliant way.. Its hard to see a celebrity (not onl inclusive to actress but actors also) who seems so confident to share his/her vision without any fear of what people might think about it. I also do notoced her career graph going down ( in 2022 her 7-8 films were released, and now only 1-2). But i am damn sure that even she got field out (angane nadakkathe irikkathe), she is intelligent enough to make her life more flourishing. I felt like she is an elephaint without knowing it's strength, she is finding it out through her journey.

[@ritikavinod32]

Too real this conversation is. I'm so sure this woman will grow so high.

[@doraemon6054]

I thought there will be more episodes,i loved the way she talks ♥️

[@joohidominic269]

Good communication of two genuine souls ❤just love it

[@heavenslights9588]

Omg love this ❤ need more conversations like this to bring awareness and education to the "society" or parents, people.

[@sajinig6555]

Self worth is crucial in relationship.Nice interview.

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Thanks.pls share and support

[@poojanayak4760]

Awareness helps us decide better is the best line❤️

[@francis_ha]

Loved this interview. Such mature answers. :)

[@smithanair4592]

A balanced person with a great personality. I love Aishu as an actor now as human being as well. All the best wishes for her future

[@kiranradhakrishnan5914]

So well spoken. Loved this episode ❤

[@DrHailin]

No words to actually even comment.. She talked from her heart, from the depths of facing n overcoming all her deepest pains n falls, from the strength she found in herself, from the point where reality of life struck her to open oneself up to new challenging ways to face this life.. Life is a roller coaster ride n understanding it n overcoming or even traversing that course is never an easy task for anyone. Mental health is really the most important health each one of us need especially these days.. Seeing myself in each words of her.. A lot people can feel connected to her openness n the way to face life.. Another great interview allowing the real inner person each one hold on to ourselves to speak.. An awesome conversion, I must say, between Dhanya and Aishwarya.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Thanks so much..do share and help spread the word as much as possible

[@DrHailin]

@@iamwithdhanyavarma Surely,, its that worth.. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Gardener_അല്ലി]

I love both of you❤and I keep focusing on ur both words very blissfully 🎉❤

[@preethas7508]

Wow Dhanya Mam.. Good interview and very good guest. ❤❤❤🎉

[@mr_nithinlal]

She know her mother and father marriage life thats the example of her life

[@massimillajose8395]

Thank you Danya mam and Aishu for this interview ❤❤❤...I don't know what to say ..only saying thank youuuuuu sooo much

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Am glad. Pls do share and support

[@prettypluto7261]

What a beautiful interview, thanks to Dhanya 🫶🫶.. Aishu, good luck 🍀 and wishing you to see you in more on screens in future ❤

[@venusvenus2861]

Yes, marriage verum oru choice aan..... Venel aavam illel venda... Also divorce oru nalla karyam thaneyaan..... Naatukare kaanikan vendi jeevikunath oru jeevitham alla....

[@VishnuPriya-yx6nx]

Clear as crystal❤

[@anjalivijayan2294]

What a change Aiswarya..❤😮😮 wow...

[@apa2657]

I loved this interview ❤

[@shinujoshy6325]

I love this girl ... Aishwarya lekshmi....God bless

[@reshmajoy1768]

11.14 exactly the right thing rather than being in a wrong relationship

[@bzlee143]

I feel people nowadays dont see happy marriages..they only see stories of divorce or bad relationships.These influences you a big way in your own life

[@Anagh.a]

As usual, the host never fails to amaze but the what we got from the guest is also to the point. As a woman there are somany things i can relate to and i would like to take away from this conversation. Thankyou And i agree with whatevr u hav said at the end of the show, she is someone who is taking control over her self and life and..yeah, that lines with my vision also. Waiting for such valuable interviews. Keep doing the good work maam. With lol ❣️

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Thanks do share the episodes

[@julieatlife]

Loved watching this

[@SJ-zo3lz]

From @19:06.. Blatant honesty! Rare to see in an actor! Such audacity!

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

I think you mean Authenticity

[@susanjustinreji]

❤❤ Amazing. Loved it

[@sooryagokul3570]

Ys.. I was waiting for this ❤️

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Pls do share

[@sooryagokul3570]

@@iamwithdhanyavarma Already done.

[@rakeshram3448]

So so so good a conversation..❤

[@sreeparvathys872]

This is wholesome ❤️

[@anarghachandrababu1115]

Genuine and brilliant human being

[@EnglishTimewithUmaKrishna]

Divorce was the best thing that happened to me. You are so right

[@AnsuAlexander-l8f]

she is intelligent. This interview is good .Not like all other comedy oriented interviews

[@sheelavarghese5388]

Aiswarya lakshmi beautiful nd wonderful personality 🙏 God bless you 🙏

[@adithyarajesh07]

5:59 True!❤

[@sheelamohan7144]

Nice interview ❤I love you both ❤

[@heavenslights9588]

She is standing up for women, talking for all the ladies 🫡

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Absolutely

[@053nehakt5]

Ooohhh.... I want part 4😢

[@axxxa25]

Dhanya, can you please make the interviews in just two parts instead of more than two. I absolutely love your interviews, but by the time the interviews are out, we lose touch with the first two episodes

[@proudgirl3994]

Yeah the episodes are really short.

[@lovedale28]

Everyone’s journey is different and am thankful for being in a good married relationship. I have the freedom to do a lot of things in my life and am the one who’s always holding back or not wanting to go through all these bad experiences by taking risks. 😂.

[@ar.anandsomarajanjayashree3749]

Dhanya varma, seriously I am asking you: Can you please start a councelling Center with some good councillors suggested by the amazing people who come on your platform. I feel many things, I never experienced or understood myself about were clarified and realised through your show. Your shows has brought a lot of new psychological understandings and insights among the masses🤗🥰!

[@iamwithdhanyavarma]

Am glad that the show has been of help to you.. much love

[@ar.anandsomarajanjayashree3749]

@@iamwithdhanyavarma 💯👌sending lots love dear Dhanya sis🥰😍

[@ahanaanil820]

So proud of you !

[@lovedale28]

Be a light hearted and a happy person. Probably all the acting and the heavy roles you and the experiences with all the strangers gave you all the bad vibes. You should start working as a doctor and lead a light hearted simple life. Why do you have to make it so hard? Some people are hard on themselves. It’s just my point of view 😊

[@devin-1]

You simply nailed it! This is exactly what I was thinking while watching this interview.

[@jimmygeorge6]

Nice words ♥️🎉 Happy 😊😊😊@aishu chechi

[@heartandhymn]

She seems authentic and genuine but I did kind of laugh when she said she's now a confident actor. I think she has still quite a lot to explore and improve.

[@viswajithkc7760]

She is pretty 😊

[@jo8228]

Fav anctor,,,❤3പാർട്സും കണ്ടു. ഒരു തെറാപ്പി സെഷൻ കിട്ടിയ പോലെ. ഒരുപാട് റിലേറ്റ് ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റി എനിക്ക്.. പെർസ്പെക്റ്റീവ് ഒരുപാട് മാറ്റി

[@Divyaonathara]

I watched all three episodes of Aishwarya's interview, and I must say it was really good. Your questions were excellent too. I’ve been a big fan of yours and have had so many takeaways from your interviews, many of which have positively reflected in my life. However, for a while, some of your interviews didn’t inspire me as much. My interest waned, and I stopped watching your content regularly. I’m not sure why, but I felt that certain interviews lacked impactful takeaways. At times, I also noticed that some of your expressions felt a bit exaggerated or insincere-like you were faking surprise, excitement, or shock for the camera. That made me lose some interest in your interviews. But when I saw a clip of Aishwarya’s interview on Instagram, it piqued my curiosity, and I returned to your channel to watch it. I thoroughly enjoyed it, so thank you for that!

[@Capedcrusader7836]

Her thoughts process is just ♥️♥️♥️♥️. Wishing her all the best in life and hope she shares more of what's inside her head in future as well. Such a wonderful personality and Dhanya is actually letting her speak without interruptions. Thanks dude

[@shyamaambily1731]

She is 💎 ❤

[@bineethabose5154]

Totally right

[@Myself_kv]

Omg she is soo mee 😂 And I love her character in Mayaanadhi ❤️

[@Aleenaanju111]

I love this woman aishuuu❤❤❤❤❤

[@prphil374]

Such a sweetheart she is ❤

[@jjjishjanardhanan9508]

Tovino aish combo best

[@aswaniakhilan-pt2vp]

Aishu😘

[@imaries0326]

11:14 ❤ she’s a gem beauty with brain

[@shlird8953]

She is too much influenced by her friend Singer Anju ‘s marriage and divorce !

[@bzlee143]

Yeah

[@rebeccathomas2625]

True

[@kavithasarath6831]

Nice show ...Please bring Indu Rebecca varghesevin your show

[@sujathachandran9011]

There should be some websites or resources shown for people to take therapy... Request if this is so possible

[@dia6976]

Speechless.. Me in parallel universe..

[@Sadeekha-c7w]

Nalla rasmundayirunnu❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@aguideforjobseekers2880]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️⭐⭐

[@Melophile_f3]

❤

[@n33tu5]

11:11 true😢

[@vineethac5614]

Nice thoughts.. Simple and powerul❤❤..

[@MovieToday156]

❤🥰

[@jaya3478]

Pls bring Nazriya,basil😊

[@jenokumaradas]

Talks like this makes us realize, Heh dude, you have lots of shit to unlearn and a ton to relearn. My respect towards Aishwarya Lekshmi is now elevated into admiration. Thanks Dhanya chechi.

[@laluphilip2585]

Aishwarya Lekshmi & Rajisha vijayan are my favourite actresses. Both are well talented, very beautiful & nice personality..

[@Aishwaryeahh]

Dhanya chechi you are soo sooo sooo good, bcz when you dont know the meaning you are not at all an egositic to act like you know it. Soo impressd with that quality. Sooo goood❤ @iamdhanyavarma

[@Madevisible_85]

Please bring Pearle maaney❤

[@heavenslights9588]

Awesome 👌 love aiswarya aishu 🤍❤️

[@shivaniishajil1829]

6:32 💗💗💗💗

[@Akash-xb7cd]

5:40 surprised that dhanya doesnt know the word 'Grit'

[@kishaniks]

Divorce and break up is best thibg to happen to a man

[@NidaTententen]

Feel like befriending her 🫶🏼