I’m Overwhelmed Raising My Teen Daughters Alone! | KARAMO

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[@helloeveryoneee]

No thanks

[@helloeveryoneee]

If anyone is about to give birth to a girl and not sure of a name. karamo would be an option.

[@TawakalAbdi-xg7uv]

You deserve to be a president karamo

[@ChanelStar1]

*Parents need to remember that while older children are able to help out that they are not the parents. It is still their responsibility to provide and maintain the household*

[@niicole_tv03]

She’s definitely not a bad mom.. this mom is depressed. And she’s going through motions of how to raise her kids on her own and she’s trying so hard to understand her kids but she doesn’t understand herself as a mother

[@candyraindrops4]

She’s definitely not a good mom. If this was a father she be labeled dead beat. Her 16yr daughter is playing adult & having to pay for her moms mistakes. Not cool! She’s blaming her children for her depression & talking about herself. She’s selfish. Absolutely she’s not a good mother. Her 16yr has to work & fulfill her mothers duties cause she sleeps all day. 3 jobs @ 16!!! That shouldn’t be her burden. She chose to get pregnant at 17, this is not something that’s happening to her, this is a life she created & unfortunately she dragged her kids into her mistakes & depression. It’s not fair to her children. If she depressed. Therapy. I don’t care about her motions because she’s very self directed.

[@killaky256]

This !!!!!

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

People who dont treat their children well typically have mental illness

[@donna9127]

Yessss

[@nikinichole777]

Yesss I have been there. Us as Mother's, especially young, we are still growing as women let alone Mother's, along with everything in this world changing.

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

Applaud this mother for having the courage to share her family issues and work them out on Karamo. This may help other mothers in the same situation.

[@IrenaDeacon]

Indeed so true

[@racheldorval3869]

So true because I've been there raising 2 boys alone...so I get it and I'm proud of them for being vulnerable!

[@IrenaDeacon]

@@racheldorval3869 indeed. Nothing wrong with vulnerability because it means your boys know how to love🙂💗and that's a rare treat these days

[@Skinny_Pimp]

@@racheldorval3869 Marry before you carry. I feel sorry for those boys.

[@Limitlesskkz2022]

@@Skinny_Pimp and what does that guarantee? My friend was with her partner long before they tied the knot, they later had a child. By the time the child was 2 they broke up. She had to take him to court for child support. He doesn’t even spend time with the child. My parents were married and when my mom walked away from the abusive marriage my father wanted nothing to do with us. I could tell you of many other similar situations. Marriage guarantees NOTHING, the quality man is what truly matters.

[@catiegoldring6646]

I fully understand what the eldest daughter is saying when she mentions the morning thing and like the take us to school. She wants her mom to do the mom things because the eldest makes sure everyone else has everything and just wants someone to do the same for her. You can tell these three do love each other so much I hope things get better for all of them!

[@amakerryifunanya9086]

From 12 I wake up and make both breakfast and lunch before going to school and I’m always happy doing that cos I just want to do something productive in the house

[@ayeechelle1]

they’re grown enough to- like the mom said- get themselves up for school. the mom is hustling steady trynna keep a roof over they head, help the mom out in return! 🙄 u big enough! this is coming from an 18 yr old that been there. based of the birthday photos nd etc ive dun seen she does give the kids time when she can its not hard to do simple shit.

[@nursemomo777]

Yes…. mothers need to understand it’s those little things that’s shows a mother’s love. I love getting up at 6am with my girls sad when they dont want breakfast and me trying to force them to please at breakfast..lol bc they grown so fast and those little things count.

[@iisunzo]

@@amakerryifunanya9086But was your mom around and being a mom? Yes. These girls needed something their mom could do that makes them feel like they have a mom.

[@iisunzo]

@@ayeechelle1coming from a 17 almost 18 year old. I think you should rewatch the video and actually pay tf attention. The 16 year old has THREE jobs. Their mother isn’t really keeping a roof over their heads. It’s her daughter. You’re not supposed to love and respect someone just because they take care of you like they’re supposed too. The girl stated she wanted her mom to do little things for them because their mom is depressed and doesn’t do anything. Gain some comprehension skills.

[@dastargirl]

“i need you to love me louder” is so deep. my 18 year old self felt that in my soul

[@KaiRoxie]

Her coming on and asking for help shows she truly cares about them

[@MsMini-tg2fm]

I love this man. He doesn’t exploit family problems. Others would have this family at each other’s throats than coming together. Such a nice family.

[@jaeeluv]

💯

[@trueeternallbeauty6220]

Yes beautiful we all need healing

[@thandozuma8740]

Say that again 😩❤️

[@kmiller6587]

Oh these babies are crying out for connection with their mother. Behaviors are communication. Children talk through their actions. Connecting is so important. We go through it as moms, but oh how these babies need us. Mom is drowning so deeply in her depression that she can’t see past her own needs. I hope mom starts therapy so she can find something to pull from . It’s hard to give to anyone else when you’re empty 💔.

[@taylortiwari7118]

This fam is definitely gonna be alright. There’s plenty of love and respect to go around, they just needed a little push.

[@Logantaliaferro]

Yeah , But being a teenager is hard

[@churchgirl67]

And the Karamo show throw God grace and mercy 🙏💙 amen

[@paradiseeddy8079]

Yup I was crying fr. 😭

[@Logantaliaferro]

Like the 13 year old said ask how I’m doing stop coming home mad and stressed out and starting attitudes with me

[@iisunzo]

@@LogantaliaferroFrl!!! Like I’m tired just throw me into adulthood bro like I cannot anymore

[@RiaTheAriona]

Aliyah looked so happy hearing all the help she'd be receiving. Being her age, I can definitely relate

[@360conscience]

As a single father raising a 16yr old from birth I OVERSTAND WHAT MOM IS GOING THROUGH.

[@monicamichelle5056]

You go dad ! 🤯🫶🏽

[@360conscience]

@@monicamichelle5056 Thank you 😊 🙏

[@jacob_gang]

Yes! Well I’m Not a father but I’m a mother and boy oh boy do these kids think they run the show. Is it me or does it get harder when they get older! I can’t be the only person feeling this way but I’m like man what is it with them wanting to be with their so called friends all the time like damn lol but great job keep it up we’ll get through this ❤

[@360conscience]

@@jacob_gang it definitely gets harder through the teen years. I PRAY FOR WISDOM KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE MY GRANDMA WHO RAISE ME BELIEVED IN THE EXTENTION CORD . I WILL NEVER FORGET THE LESSONS IN THESE TIGER STRIPS FROM THE CORD I HAVE ON MY BODY 😆.

[@asdffdsa898]

​@@360conscience eh, we don't really learn anything from whips but fear and avoidance... that's how they disciplined slaves at every level.. Your prayers are the best choice.. try it in the light of the sun though.

[@taytriggs9065]

Some people become parents and think parenting is just providing food and shelter. I have one kid here on Earth with me. She is my rainbow baby and 15 now. I’ve learned that my parenting had to evolve. She don’t have siblings or cousins near by. I had to become her “good sis” as well as her mom. She will tell you I’m strict but reasonable, I hold her accountable. She tells me her secrets and her friend’s secrets lol. Also I had to go on disability in 2020 after Covid almost killed me. Medicare and medical is no way to live. One med I’m taking was the only one I could get Medicare to cover. Well it caused loss of hearing.

[@elove2.038]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 praying that your situation turn around for the Better.❤️ GOD Bless you.

[@ramonahamm6292]

Well praise God you are here ! And you are absolutely right our parenting skills have to evolve . Don’t get me started on Americas broken healthcare system. It’s shameful

[@dominiquemohan3338]

I’m praying for you 🙏🏽you and your daughter please stay strong ❤

[@ladyindaroom]

You are a Jewel❤ The Lord taught me how to evolve as a mother raising a son and daughter. Son 19 daughter 18. Son graduated high school, daughter graduating this year. The Lord and the village helped me with my children. Glory to God❤

[@TheOneLuciLu]

Praying for you ❤

[@Marg_Williams]

This mama is overwhelmed and depressed. Her Children’s needs are being neglected 😢. I hope that she can shake it off and she can get back to living and mothering her children like she did before. ✊🏾

[@Skinny_Pimp]

Marry before you carry Stop making excuses for this piece of trash.

[@Marg_Williams]

@@Skinny_Pimp I absolutely agree with marry before you carry. Can you tell me where I was giving this human being an excuse? ‘Cause It would seem like you have a slight reading comprehension problem...

[@dystanysam9896]

@@Marg_Williams I also agree with you with Married before you carried I speaks about this all the time People just always want to have “their little fun “ idk.. What they really got themselves into

[@Napptrully_Beautiful]

Crazy part is not all single mothers were single before having a child.

[@Napptrully_Beautiful]

Also you can marry someone and they still not help.

[@alexiawhittle7730]

The smile on her face when he told her he was gonna get her a Tutor….you can tell that little girl just wants to be seen and make them proud. And I truly hope they’re all doing better 🥹

[@Yours_truly0305]

When I first became a single mother I was hurt, angry, depressed, and the list goes on. I was always yelling at my children for minor issues not realizing it was drastically affecting my children. It was also creating a toxic household. My son was "acting out, not listening, and misbehaving" I did not realize he was also mimicking my behavior. After putting both him and me in therapy and working on myself I've seen a huge change in everyone's behavior including my own. This mom has to put in the necessary work to heal herself so that she can become the mother these beautiful young ladies need. We as mothers often neglect our needs emotionally, mentally, and physically which makes it hard on our children. As long as we (parents) are good, our child(ren) will be good. I hope this family heals and find the love they all so desperately need.

[@chloe-jz8bb]

i wish my mother was as self aware as you

[@pineapplebun552]

@@chloe-jz8bb me too chloe

[@sweetestgirl7742]

​@@chloe-jz8bb is your father around?

[@sweetestgirl7742]

​@@pineapplebun552how about your father?

[@chloe-jz8bb]

@@sweetestgirl7742 yes my father has been around all my life, he's not much different fro my mom though and when she does treat me terribly he doesn't do much about it and believes that since she is my parent I shouldn't defend myself against her

[@LoThePhenom]

Mom is putting her own issues onto her children,this episode needed to dig a little deeper bc it's more to it than what was talked about The sister even says she sees how her sister gets NO attention from anyone,how u do treat a child like that and still expect greatness?

[@ramonahamm6292]

Having raised my kids as a single mom and can empathize with this mom, feeing overwhelmed and just exhausted. But she has to get help and get back on track . I’m glad that she came to you. Having her girls so young at 17 she may not have all the tools she needs to parent better. She was just a kid herself. I’m sure she wants to give her girls more time but when you feel empty yourself it can be challenging. I hope Karamo continues to guide this family to get the mom better, because her girls need her whole heartedly.

[@IrenaDeacon]

100% hun. I can really relate to your comments because I've been through all of that myself and I'm still going through all of that by myself so I hope there is situation really can get better and be great at the end

[@ramonahamm6292]

@@IrenaDeacon I joined a single mothers group and we became each other’s help and therapy. We actually had a counselor who ran the group and helped us get our feelings out but also gave us solid strategies to do better . We are not meant to do it alone . Yea we do it . But it takes its toll. We all need help and guidance

[@IrenaDeacon]

@@ramonahamm6292 yes of course we need counselling when it's guidance we need strategies but I have a question if you don't mind. Was that group in person or like online? Because I'm quite far away from USA

[@IrenaDeacon]

@@ramonahamm6292 and I could definitely use help guidance and also friendships of people who are going through the same things like we are a lot of us are going through and I literally have no Female Friends to even talk to me about this I'm a little bit of an introvert so it's hard for me to open up but I'm open to any ideas and advice you can give thank you

[@shaniaholmes4101]

@Ramona Hamm what is the name of the group you joined and is it on fb?

[@chelleave]

We all need a Karamo 😍! Kudos to the mom for being vulnerable as a single mother to say she's struggling and get the help her & her daughter need 💞 takes true strength to do that!

[@ssbell2011jcsu]

Ditto! One thing I love about this show is that his intention is purely to help vs. exploit his guess. They are 3 beautify ladies who deserve the world. I wish this fam all the best!

[@IrenaDeacon]

So true

[@IrenaDeacon]

@@ssbell2011jcsu me too. Its very touching and very emotional but most of all I upload the matter for bravery to come to the show when try to resolve what's happening

[@jacob_gang]

Exactly we all need him on speed deal as our bestie . Like he actually listens

[@stephaniecarter5281]

The mother is talking over her kids... She got to hear them out and listen to how they feel she's definitely playing the blame game.

[@jaion5579]

How?💀

[@lizdabaddest7269]

Bruh what

[@FazeitOut]

?

[@sequoiajean4606]

They all seem sweet. I think mom needs a break so she can pay attention to the kids. They use to have that life style but not no more. That’s stressful. I’m in the same situation now. My daughter was so spoiled and I’m barely getting her to understand she can’t get them extra toys. Then being behind on bills and having to cook clean and work is a lot to stress on. Plus it’s more stressful when ur teen is out late lord knows with who. Mom can’t even sleep good. Glad they getting help tho!

[@KiaSynthesis]

I didn’t get that. She didn’t talk over them at all and she hasn’t blamed them for anything.

[@noreenm5018]

Prayers to this mom, she's a strong level-headed woman. I hope the kids will realised how much she loves them.

[@chloe-jz8bb]

and that she realizes how to take accountability for how she raised her children.

[@atlantiswhaley6244]

& she is making every excuse for being a bad parent. It's not their fault her temper is short!! This is really crazy too me.

[@birdbuc9542]

I thought the same thing too

[@shantetorres718]

She blamed those girls for everything. 16 working 3 jobs is totally unacceptable.

[@ariamarshall5161]

Exactly! I’m reading the comments like did we not watch the same show???

[@ariamarshall5161]

@@shantetorres718 Yesss!!!! With the slick comments she’s not asking for money. But ma’am u don’t WORK. So u are indirectly asking for money…!

[@tyneishablack5181]

Exactly she’s a bad parent at the end of the day!!!

[@msprettycaramel0452]

ACCOUNTABILITY!!! This mom needs to do BETTER!!! How can you be mad at ur kids for wanting your attention but get mad because they have "attitude problems" which is because they want the attention?! Then she came out acting all innocent like the kids the problem 😢 This hurts me to my soul

[@ryn1_]

thank you !!!

[@jaeeluv]

💯

[@weteem]

thank you

[@TheLoveBugz]

Obviously she’s on the show because she needs help…

[@msprettycaramel0452]

@@TheLoveBugz She stated she came to get help for her daughters not specifically herself...if u didn't like my comment u could've kept scrolling unless u knw them personally and fstow.........

[@mirandavinci4146]

It's not always about the mom. She's supposed to be there for the girls, not the other way around because their still kid's themselves. The mom depends on her daughter's too much. She needs to start taking care of things including herself

[@TheodoreBakes]

She was almost their age when she became a mom. She is basically like a big sister to them. She never had time to grow up and evolve naturally, it was forced and rushed so she can’t be for them why she needs to be.

[@evolvingshan7970]

@theodorebakes exactly!!

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

A lot of teenage moms struggle to give their kids the emotional support and mental guidance they need. They basically behave like their older sisters.​@@TheodoreBakes

[@ericawalker5378]

Parenting is intentional. Your love should not be predicated on whether they cook and clean YOUR house. You are not their equal, so stop conversing with them like so. You must find other ways to engage them, not just fussing at them. Acknowledge what they’re doing right just as frequently as you magnify the bad things. HAVE FUN WITH YOUR KIDS 🎉And create a plan TOGETHER to get chores and daily tasks done. It’s a lot but not impossible. You can do it mom! And all active parents, YOU GOT THIS!

[@kyboogz6473]

and she did an amazing job on those girls. they’re so well spoken, her oldest is so eloquent in the way she speaks and i commend her for taking the initiative to at least try and help her family out ❤️ they’re a beautiful family

[@kennethshaheenjr.1164]

My cousin raised four children alone. One is a software engineer, two are RNs and the other one is a professional truck driver. All have beautiful kids and are wonderful people. It CAN be done.

[@teetawn9454]

The mom needs to really step it up. She speaks of her issues. True, it must all be so difficult, but she has to get it together for them. They are teens and trouble unfortunately awaits teens, especially girls. If the 13 yr old walks the streets late at night, wake up, don't take a pm pill, Do something now before it is too late. The girls seem like decent girls, but in pain. If mom continues to sleep, shirk responsibilities, show favoritism over the older, ignore the baby who said she is not shown any attention, etc.. those girls are going to be in for a really tough time. If the "right " attentive man comes along, it may be all over for them. She needs to wake up, get her head out of the sand, stay up at night, get up in the morning, watch, communicate, listen, learn humility, seek Gods help and just get her self in gear ASAP, so they have a fighting chance. Before the older girl could really speak, mom was over talking her , being rude and ignorant with me,me , me! talk! Not that her points are not valid, but the girls points are the heart of the matter NOW. They can't fully do for themselves yet, They need mom.!!!! PLEASE mom, be awake, aware, alive and present BEFORE the enemy in its many forms, comes to get them !! In Jesus. Amen. Best.

[@ryn1_]

!!

[@trulyrblessed]

My Lord! A great assessment of the situation. Lord help her through this

[@keyahninaylor4974]

Amen 🙏

[@prettyNpink]

Beautiful family! They are going to heal and grow. Being a single parent has many challenges. They will find away back to solid ground. Two years from now when they look back at this journey they will be happy with themselves. Peace and blessings to all.

[@3LWSTAN]

I get that same vibe. They’re all smart.

[@iHeartBooks4]

"You need to love me louder." - I love this! Thank you Karamo for helping this family!

[@ariamason9324]

All I heard is she missed out on her youth and is tired being a single mom having to deal with these girls all by herself.

[@thesugarcase7431]

I understand both sides. The mom is not being fully responsible as she may think. The kids want more nurturing and the mom wants more respect.

[@sarahdowdell2578]

I am HER! She is ME 🥺 as a mom of 7 I totally understand this mom’s pain hurt and frustration it’s a battle for me EVERY SINGLE DAY. My two eldest kids are 22,& I have a Aniah she’s 21 and boy did they give me a run 😢and now I have a 16 year old and soon to be 13 and it’s almost like history has repeated itself. It’s hard raising kids in this world today I’m just like this mom feel her hole heartily smh I’m in the exact same boat. I’m lost idk what to do but Pray and wait on God. God bless this Mom and her babies 🙏🏾

[@patriciawalker5568]

As a parent you have get up and handle your business as a MOTHER to your children’s!!!! Raising kids is NOT easy especially when you want them be better in life. Everything starts at HEAD IF MOTHER NOT MENTALLY STRAIGHT nothing else will fall into place until she can mentally get herself straight and be strong enough raise her kids.

[@rororidley5829]

Where is the dad. Drop them off at his house and get your life together.

[@lifewithkevii_]

@@rororidley5829 LMFAOOOOOO

[@garbage5935]

Facts do what you have do no matter how you feel thats bs her blaming her kids for all her flaws I know it's eaiser to do that but it aint right .

[@adiyahzainul5690]

This drops right after school, i love watching his shows. Kinda wanna bring my parents in this show.

[@nia7075]

U should i love him he is all about healing and hunni if thats what u need to let your Parents know

[@Logantaliaferro]

We all need karamo and I wish he had like a website where you text your concerns and he gives u tools

[@gerrimiller8727]

Go ahead and bring her to the show.

[@gerrimiller8727]

Bring your parents

[@sbrown060721]

Karamo isn’t just bringing a show to us he’s really helping and he’s genuine, understanding about real life. Love you Karamo keep being humble ❤

[@Daniemoore234]

The momma need to take accountability like she's neglecting her daughters

[@greg_tre4rockstar]

OMG THANK YOU!! I’m sitting here seeing all of these comments saying how they feel bad for the mom and the kids and while I do feel bad for both, at the end of the day the mom is letting her depression get in the way of bonding and being there for her daughterd

[@raphealking7531]

@@greg_tre4rockstar Have you ever had to deal with Depression?

[@greg_tre4rockstar]

@@raphealking7531 yes I have. And we all have experienced it at some point in life which is ok. But just because you may be feeling depressed, doesn’t mean you just give up on your responsibilities. Especially as a mother. There’s no reason you’re sitting here allowing your oldest to pretty much carry the weight of the household on her back while you just lay in bed all day, and neglect your youngest because she’s “acting out”. She’s doing that because her mother isn’t there for her and she needs someone to depend on, hold her accountable, and be there for her. Which is something that the mother has given up on.

[@emmanuelversace-bb1yz]

@@greg_tre4rockstarfax

[@jvmcghee854]

This mom is burned out. As parents "especially single moms", we have so much to carry. We carry everyone's burdens and still have to find the time to work on ourselves. And having teenagers that "think" they grown or know it all adds even more stress. I can say that the 16yr is very mature and I think she understands the load that her mom carries which is why she is willing to work. The 13yr old is simply acting out and needs to be surrounded by love and support because at that age, it is hard to "make" them do anything. I'm praying that this mom finds strength and get herself some support as well. Hugs and prayers for this beautify family. #LOVEISTHEMEDICINE

[@Grxvittyxs]

Thank you for saying this people are really making me mad

[@Afrogirrl]

Why do you think 13 year old is acting out if mum is essentially unavailable. She doesn’t have a proper mother or father figure.

[@Afrogirrl]

16 year old shouldn’t have to work 3 jobs and be a mom for her siblings, she should be able to be a kid. That’s why 13 year old looks at her and “thinks she’s grown” because she sees another teenage being “grown”.

[@queenbee3095]

i am 13 and i am in the exact situation and feel the same as the 13 year old i feel so alone when im here with my mom , she cares more about who shes in a relationship then me and my siblings

[@kyrusbrightfuljr.2830]

I remember dating many females like this and it was tough. I tried hard to support them and give understanding to the kids as a role model. The kids loved me, and I mean every female I dated, there kids had liked me. Only issue here and I understand the single mother struggle but you must have the tools like Karmo to help these type of females as a man. I commend this mother for pleading out and she have a nice family. It takes a village to raise kids and it does.

[@adri2584]

they’re women not “females “

[@kyrusbrightfuljr.2830]

@@adri2584 in your opinion they're "Women". Everyone have there own terminology. I spoke the term, "Females" because they are females in my terminology.

[@kiera6288]

@@kyrusbrightfuljr.2830 female is a demeaning way to refer to women and you just confirmed that you know that. The term was and is used to deny personhood to women of color. You're proudly continuing the tradition 🤡

[@opeyemiadegoke361]

@@kyrusbrightfuljr.2830 if you are corrected be humble enough to take to it ...women are not some animal species you just call female ..do better boy..see how annoying that is

[@pussydestroyer69285]

@@adri2584 exactly like what’s with the whole “female” thing. No shade or hate but ion get it

[@zoniahoeses]

Tbh. Your kids are a reflection of you and how you treat them

[@kstewart888]

The way their faces just beem when he offers them stable and strong solutions, oh I loveeee

[@danirivera8768]

I am so glad that Karamo treats his young guests respectfully, compassionately, and like they are human beings, people who are constantly learning what it means to be an adult by how the adults around them treat them & other adults. I’m glad he’s not talking down to them like they don’t know what they need! *cough* “Dr” Phil *cough* 👀

[@Scottiabeast]

I love this family! They’re going to be a-okay! I’m NOT a mom but I do have my degree in this field. She’s a single mother, domestic violence relationship, financial hardship, depression, life & then to raise 2 teenage girls on your own?! Omg, I know it’s hard. That mama got this, I can see the determination, she wants to change & get better for her girls & I love that. The older girl is well put together, working at 16 & well spoken! The younger one does need more attention & love & she too will be alright, very well spoken when it came to her feelings & I love that. Girls her age are “too cute” to express themselves, but she did it. This family will get better.

[@crystalburke2713]

As a single mother this brought me to tears ! I pray the Lord who has helped me on my darkest of days will sweep into their home. That depression is broken off this family ! That that curse is broken ! I plead the blood of Jesus over every single one of them ! Lord have your way in their lives ! Lord give that mother grace, patience, send help lord ! Send friends. Heal her broken pieces Abba ! Heal her children lord. Put a hedge of protection around them in Jesus mighty name ! I love you lord ! I thank you I. Advance for covering and hearing and answering my prayer ! Amen 🙏🏾♥️

[@nicholepayne3536]

These precious girls need a mom. The one who had them sounds like another child.

[@cocoshellj]

They need a mother. They want a mother who wants to be a mother and it's not her.

[@ryn1_]

exactly!!!

[@TheodoreBakes]

She was literally a child when she had them tho so what do you expect?!

[@botanibaby]

@@TheodoreBakes That’s no excuse. I had my son at the same age. I was a single mom that dealt with the “ebb and flow“ of life that led to depression also. Lack of accountability is her overall issue. Projecting the disappointments from HER choices in life doesn’t fall on her girls. The daughter working and playing roles that aren’t hers because her mom isn’t doing it. She needs to not only face but own her bs and be an adult/mother.

[@ariamarshall5161]

@@botanibaby EXACTLY!!!! Talking about what do u expect…Huh? Kids don’t ask to come here….She brought not 1 but 2 here, so she needs to parent her kids & stop gaslighting then. 0 accountability. She blamed them for everything the entire show. No reason a 16yo should be working 3 jobs. She’s a CHILD. The mom needs to acceptable accountability & do better. She needs to seek help & do better. Those babies are crying out for their mom. She’s creating a general curse. No excuse. I know teen moms who went over & beyond the statistics!

[@denise3079]

She’s literally playing victim and gaslighting her children, and full on admitting to making her own problems into her oldest daughter problems as well. her girls are asking and seeking for attention from her as a parent and she constantly skips over that and brings everything right back to herself!… smh🤦🏽‍♀️

[@keylanijinnae]

Exactly shouldve never had kids if this her mind set , “you don’t make stuff easy for me” THEY DIDNT ASK TO BE HERE maybe if you were there for them they would reciprocate the same energy

[@AshBoogie24]

The only comment I agree with

[@cocoshellj]

Right...like how you let your kid walk around with a hole in their tooth? But you worried about your dishes being done. I am sorry. I am not a fan. I get how depression work but that child had a hole in her tooth and she was not depressed enough to point out her flaws and all.

[@shantetorres718]

She's a grade A narcissistic parent. I guarantee she has never told her daughter's I'm sorry for not being there for you.

[@destiny5034]

LITERALLY.

[@SheilaTrueLove]

When was the last time someone told you how much they LOVE and ADMIRE you Karamo? I think you are TERRIFIC and I really enjoy your show and your insights. Thank you for all that you do. You are GREATLY APPRECIATED and I'm sure you're helping to make a POSITIVE difference in so many lives.

[@TiimeToRoar]

I think sometimes parents forget how hard school can be. Some schools are tough, because a lot of bullying that goes on, and the schools doesn’t do anything about it. Maybe that’s why she doesn’t want to get up in the mornings for school. Parents should always check on their kids even if they feel tired. They are still young.

[@7Tiffany]

This mom is pissing me off. I'd gladly take those girls. My daughter would enjoy the company. It's great that she's reaching out for help but please, stop the damn pity party!

[@XoMonea]

No fr it’s a big pity party

[@jabreahaw]

Right

[@daveonsmommy02]

Same here I wish I had girls😩

[@courtneyrobinson6187]

I understand where she's coming from as I was a teen mom (16) as well and by the age of 20 I had 3 kids...but one thing I didn't do was allow my children to think that I was their friend even now I'm 47 with a 30, 28 & 27 and 21 yr old and I am still not their friend....there wasn't a father in the house and I did the best that I could as a parent and Christina needs to understand that she's doing all that she can and the best that she can with the resources that she was afforded. I can admit that I wasn't taught to be a parent I learned along the way....Prayers that she can get it together and stop blaming the kids for her short comings

[@phenomenal_mother_of_3345]

I had my first child at 18 and I made it clear I’m not your Freiburg I am a parent you can come and talk to at anytime we laugh we joke but out some respect on it because I am the mom and before postpartum depression was out I went through it and still got up and took care of all 3 of my kids and now my youngest is a senior I am no glad and proud of myself

[@mimseyrenee2217]

For all the teenagers that think it’s okay to have sex with randoms, and have children early in life. Understand that your brain is not fully developed until after the age of 25. Being a single mom is not easy. Being a mother is A thankless job. With that in mind everyone has to understand YOU ALL ARE GROWING UP TOGETHER. WORK TOGETHER AND YOULL STAY TOGETHER. BABY GIRL, DROP THE ACT AND HELP AND YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. STOP MAKING IT DIFFICULT. WORK AS A TEAM.

[@jacob_gang]

THIS COMMENT!!!!!!!!!!This is so true as a young mother well I’m not that young anymore but you are right your brain does not fully develop until your about 25. You have to work as a team that’s how it done to succeed even when it seems there’s no light at the end of the tunnel.

[@Sosa2u]

where did this come from??? who was talking about sex

[@cslknight]

I know what it's like to be a mother dealing with depression trying to raise children, but I get up, go to school, and work because my children need me, but I need me as well. Last March, I woke up, and I could barely stand or walk, and I'm still dealing with these health issues. I feel like they just want their Mom. But the Mom started so young a baby having a baby, and I don't think she had any help from anyone.

[@golden22h8]

I am not done watching the video yet, but i just wanna say that both the Mom and her children are valid in their feelings. People do not understand what it truly means to be a single mom. No support, the weight of finances, taking care of their children, a role meant for two is completely on you, single mom's sacrifice their own self care for their children, this mother being overwhelmed is beyond valid. She is struggling with depression too. On the other hand, these children never asked for a single mom, they came to this world needing love needing support needing guidance, they need their mothers love, and they are being forced to grow up early. all people involved deserve support and grace, and i hope no one is judging just one party.

[@kyboogz6473]

i think the mom is open to making the necessary changes for her kids AND she kinda understands that will relieve some of the stress

[@MutedSins26]

I like this family so much. Parenting is hard and I don’t think the mom or mothers hear that they are doing a good job enough. With some encouragement and structure they will be alright, you can tell they love each other very much. They just got off track❤

[@Authumn0.]

Beautiful daughters ❤ as a mom for 4 teen girls yes lord it get hard but we have to keep pushing bc we don’t want them looking for love in all the wrong places, praying for yall relationship 🙏🙏🙏

[@IrenaDeacon]

I can really relate to this woman and this particular episode because I'm going through that myself as well and I can speak from personal experience it's extremely hard especially when your children are just distant in away if that makes sense. This mother really gave everything she can give and she's trying her best but sometimes your best is not good enough in people's eyes. Life is very hard for us single mothers. I am 100% sure many women can relate to this situation and to this particular lady it takes a lot of bravery and courage to come on the show to address the issues and get the answers she needs

[@tamiekatimmons3722]

This isn't a single, step dad, or real dad thing. This is a parenting thing. I am going through this and my children have a strong support system mom and step dad. It's hard when you give your all to someone and they don't appreciate you. Yes, even if they are your children. Especially when you know you have taught them better and you see them show they understand through their interactions with other people. I understand her trying to block it all out. Hoping, what you hope is a faze will pass quickly.......man I can go on forever. This is deep.

[@moniquethompson8979]

As a single mother I understand both sides. Praying they’ll be alright and work through it together.

[@conspiracyjen85]

Omg. As a adult youngest daughter of 2 from a single mother, who also took care of her mother. This hit me heart different. The 16 year old is so, well as spoken and eloquent. God Bless the family.

[@deidreemcdowell2814]

I love the way you approach all guests. You remain calm and respectful, but you never back down from telling the truth in love. You have helped so many people. Continue in your great work.

[@jonniebryant1768]

Mr. KARAMO..YOU ARE ONE OF A KIND. I LOVE THE WAY YOU HANDLED YOUR SHOW! PERIOD!

[@mssandy5494]

Beautiful family. All of the best to them. ❤️

[@bbsxsaa]

Coming from a similar situation growing up w a single mother I feel for the kids 🤍 I hope everything gets okay w this family 🥺

[@missfavour5760]

As an African watching these shows may God continue to bless your work and these families. HOWEVER, you are treating the effect in most of these episodes. i see a common theme SINGLE MOTHERS, broken families. instead of just treating broken families hold parents more accountable on the people they choose and advice young people on the disadvantages of having families like this.

[@vegasvalor6591]

The kids are already there and they are there to get help so he should definitely keep focusing on that. The Mom made her mistakes so no matter what anyone says it won’t change the fact that she is now a single Mother. Karamo can only do so much.

[@inukoko2012]

Praying for this family. She was young mother and she’s trying. I’m glad she reached out for help.

[@ohshanana2397]

One thing I love about Karamo is that he doesn’t try to pin them against each other. He actually tries to build a bridge. Many other talk show hosts would try to strengthen the divide

[@HtownMahogany]

It's not those babies fault that she had them as a child. She is expecting them to be her help and she should be theirs. Not to say that she doesn't need help but she's flipping the roles and responsibilities and that's so unfair.

[@rachelflamm5870]

Exactly

[@kashantinatalie]

Oldest daughters only feel like the parent when the parent puts their child in that position to be an additional parent

[@DoniTalks]

Especially if one parent isn’t in the picture

[@2realexotic]

Nope not watching anymore of these I been crying all morning video after video. It’s so sweet cus he really tries to understand every perspective and it’s so wholesome 😢 🥹

[@danielleharding3605]

I know how that goes. I’m a single mom to 5 boys and have tried to be mom, dad, best friend, disciplined, etc., and it never seems like enough with my 5 boys either. It is tough and I just do my best and try to keep communication open. My sons are now between 18-32 now, but they are good sons and respect everyone, but it just seems like their girlfriends and friends are more important than me.

[@FF-fd4tm]

That’s one thing I realize that our kids will grow up and go on and it’s nothing we can do about it…

[@ariamason9324]

Kids are supposed to grow up and have their own lives, they aren't your husband or wife. Fill your own life with things you enjoy doing. You are their mother not their friend.

[@danielleharding3605]

Yes they have their own lives, but if they don’t call you ever, text you, etc.. we mothers tend to worry. They call their dad and do things with him (which he only saw the kids when it was convenient for him) I was the one to take care of them 24/7. They could call me at least once a month. That is all I ever asked for. I like keeping in contact with my adult children, if you guys don’t kudos for you. Everyone is different. All I want to know is if they are ok and that they live or even care about me to call me once a month. Only time they do call is if they want something from me, whether it is money, baby sit, or if they bring their laundry over will I do it. Otherwise I don’t hear from them.

[@nl4473]

@@danielleharding3605 there's nothing wrong with how you're feeling especially since you were the main one to take care of them..... I pray it gets better,maybe plan a get-together with your boys and let them know how u feel,not over the phone but face to face. Not sure if u all live by one another but that could be a start. I have 3 boys of my own and with my oldest being 23 I know it'll be time soon that he will be spreading his wings.... With him working and going to school all I could do is be there for him as much as I can Period 💯💯💯💯💯 I'm just so afraid because whether anyone wants or likes ro hear they are allllll my babies and it's so hard hearing stories where young adults almost to completely X their Mom's out their lives once they go into adulthood and start their families 😫 I lost my Mom at the age of 17 so I never got to experience having a Mom during all of my teen to adult years at all which still affects me till this day so I constantly tell anyone that I come into contact with as well as my boys to ALWAYS cherish the moments u have with your Mom's because u ONLY have ONE💯💯💯💯💯 I know with prayers and faith that at the end of the day everything will be alright cause u know what Danielle Harding they will ALWAYS remember the luv u had for each and every one of them,believe me cause I do regarding my Mom and it's been over 20yrs!!!!! They will NEVER forget the luv and sacrifices u made for them and that should make u smile💖💖💖💖💖💖 Just relax and see how God works💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@ariamason9324]

@Danielle Harding so you don't have a good relationship with them. Maybe you should directly ask them why they connect with dad and not you. Sometimes parents nag their children too much or are too negative so the kids avoid them. It's obvious their is a reason for their actions towards you. If All of them are doing it there must be a reason but you have to be willing to discuss your feelings with them. For example everytime I met a guy my mom would automatically get sad and lament how the guy was going to take my money and house..she was so depressing. So I would do things and never tell her to avoid drama. Sometimes kids want to avoid conflict.

[@7Tiffany]

They probably feel like their mother hates them. Smh

[@ariplexia7233]

I relate so much to this my momma died at age 3-5 and I live with my auntie and, she always talks over me I don’t even have to be yelling or talking smart, when I get one word out my mouth she talks over me. Recently I confronted her and told her she tells me not to talk over her but you do me like that all time. She got mad and said she can do that because she’s grown even though it’s not right. And she was like when she starts talking I have to shut up . She does that even when I start talking first or try to explain myself.💯I also felt when she talked about her mom never asks us how her day is. My auntie is like that and was like that when I was growing up living with her, I’d have things to talk about from me being bullied or other things but she’d always be on the phone, or she’d say not right now and then later wouldn’t say anything. Id always ask about her. you couldn’t even as k her about anything or tell her about your mental health .

[@xiancheyenne4989]

@Ariplexia Don't worry sweetheart. She'll regret it. You'll get through this ttust me. Stay strong and believe in yourself. You got dis! 💯

[@monaymonay7446]

Hey I understand because I lived with my grandma and aunt since I was born and the reason your aunt treats you that way is not because she is grown and i'm certain she has told you even to this day as an adult if you are one to stay in a childs place. I am 31 my aunt still says that too me anytime I speak to her she just yells at me she will curse me out and hang the phone up call me back apologize then curse me out again. Your aunt anger to you is because she was jealous of your mother she was probably not given the same attention as your mom or not as pretty or both now here you come along and you remind her of her in personality traits and appearance and she doesnt like you! My other aunt via marriage who married my uncle who is my aunt I lived with brother she told me she felt bad for me and only let me stay with them when my grandma died a few years ago because the only person who ever loved me has died and eventhough she loved me she did not like me. Why would she say that I never understood why until now because she been in my family since shes like 14 years old shes been their before I ever was born she felt the same way about me that my actual aunt did and that hurt but I am just letting you know you didnt do nothing wrong they just didnt like your mother and the hatred is very bad that aunt via marriage when I woke her up one night and I told her I got a call my mom had been in a coma and was dying she looked at me and went back to sleep never cared at all my mom died. I dont know you but I hope your okay and can find someone that cares about you and have other family if you dont please take my advice and do not have children until you find a man with a good family least you will be a single mom with noone to help you like I am.

[@ieashachristopher4575]

watching this made me cry a little bit because this is exactly how i be feeling sometimes when it comes to me helping out my mom and looking out for my brothers it just to much some times and there is no one there to help at all.

[@tydraweaver2740]

me too .. im in college with 2 jobs trying to make sure they’re ok back home but sometimes I feel so neglected in the process

[@Jasmine-bb5qf]

Pray things worked out for them😢🙏🏾

[@cortneymay3850]

This episode made me cry. I understand everyone’s point of view from being a single mom to when I was a young girl being raise by a single mom

[@christopherdaniels9200]

As a young man mom's we need you too sit and talk with us this goes for all mom's we crying for help we need you

[@deannshelton6552]

I would love to see a update on them. I pray they are doing better

[@patricelindsay8687]

I am a single mom of tow as well and it can be quite overwhelming at times, But hang in there. It gets better.😘

[@remarkablediamond2553]

I never miss a #Karamo video!!🥰. I love all the videos, however this one here touch my heart!! The youngest baby is looking for love from somebody!! And before this baby becomes a teen mom or worse, Karamo gave wonderful advice that I too intend to use!! God bless this family!! #LoveMeLouder!!🗣😘🙏🏽🥰👏🏽😍💪🏽

[@hellothere8347]

I started crying when he told her he was going to give her an dentist appointment & give her a tutor I love him! 💗

[@crystalc820]

It's SO SAD hearing the exact same stories but different ppl over the last few decades😪😪😪 this family needs professional HELP!!!!! The young mother needs some PARENTING tools! Lord help our generation🙏🙏

[@tjoybell8448]

You are training children to be adults, but they are still children. I know, oh too well, about getting tired. Stay strong! I was in the same boat, but I pray that MOM keeps fighting to stay engaged. I am a witness, there is fun at the end of the road. BIG FUN!

[@ShantelShares]

#Karamo I would love if could speak with you. It is a mother's responsibility to be a mother 'in spite of' and 'despite of'. Being a mother is not dependent on how your child looks, behaves, and feels. Instead, it is highly correlated to genuine love and that yearning to hold them together even when you are falling apart. This mom still has time to fix things. My mother really messed things up, with this same approach. Today, I struggle to connect emotionally and I am slow to both achieve and attain the very things I need to be successful or even content in life. That 16-year-old looks tired, I saw myself in her with tears in my eyes. I can tell she's a good kid. #KaramoShow

[@barbarastevens6339]

I am glad that you told this lady that her daughter is mimicking your behavior. She needs to become positive first to herself and then bring it to the children.

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

She needs meds and therapy

[@Locdinwithdr_]

They need a lot of counselling sessions separate and then together

[@lisapolk9391]

Her Daughters are Beautiful . And Karamo is just what they need. He is a very good mentor counselor. Giving love strength and open to keep families together throughout all there stromes and Battles they Face. You are Blessings to many

[@simone6803]

Am I addicted to Karamo? Is my attachment healthy, like, he's grown into my bestie in a matter of weeks and I've watched all his videos here on his channel and I'm refreshing for the next upload. Am I OK right now! Karamo, you are in your FLOW!!!! Love from the UK

[@jesslivinlife]

I’ve loved him since Queer Eye. He would have me crying EVERY episode.

[@charlisekinslow6875]

As a teacher of high school students this is not an anomaly. I have students in my classroom regularly releasing emotional distress from toxic stressors at home. This generation is so overwhelmed emotionally and the events of Covid only exacerbated the neglect, isolation, and abandonment they are feeling. This mother is giving what she has to give, can she learn to give more yes but we cannot expect someone to give (emotionally) what they do not poses. Becoming a teenage parent is overwhelming and it sounds like she has multiple children. Therapy and parenting classes would be most beneficial for her and them. This is not making excuses for the mother but what you don't know, you just don't know. My prayers are with this family. May they go forth and grow into all that God has destined for them to become. Thank you for helping this beautiful family.

[@ivangamez9773]

And that's why so many teachers are leaving the classrooms. They signed up to teachers, not social workers.

[@martinaramsey3890]

I'm just happy the Mom asked for help... That takes a real women... Were not perfect

[@peggybaby0894]

It’s so so so hard to be a single parent and then teens are breaking me emotionally. This was posted 6 months ago but appeared on my feed this day!! Mine are 13 and almost 15. It’s really getting hard. The attention I know they need but after working all day and cooking and cleaning I am beyond drained mentally and physically. You get no notice when they suddenly don’t need you so much anymore and they’re angry and I seem to be their only target so I back away. Financially it’s breaking me in every way. There’s so much more especially the one that just started high school. She put homecoming on our calendar and I cried (not in front of them) for 2 days. The stress of coming up with extra money for activities and sports has been beyond anything I thought I was capable of. The oldest has a boyfriend now so that’s a whole other book I could write. I’m sending love and light to this family. Karamo is great at putting things in perspective and giving me things to think about. ❤😊

[@IrenaDeacon]

I really feel so many emotions watching this towards the mother and children as well because because a difficult situation and I can relate to it cos I'm going through it myself without anybody literally anybody to you and talk to me to be there for me. I also think children don't fully understand mother's sacrifice and the situation. But there's no love like mother's love and I'm sure she tried her best and she has done her best that she can. But what happens when your best is not good enough? I don't know but I really feel pain up the mother and their children as well but however I think they're mother should be appreciated more because she could literally done everything for them and no matter how young they are in they are not really too young they should be able to understand what mother is going through🙁💗 best of luck to this beautiful family because they indeed are a great family I hope they're going to resolve their problems and I hope for the happy ending

[@sophiebutler5684]

This was so sad because people judge mothers like me who have 8 children, I can say Thank you Jesus because I always had all 8 of my kids living with me ( no grandparents or other family) my kids are up to date with their medical needs and I sit down and talk to my kids and let them express themselves and I show my kids I love them and also tell them. Every female is not meant to be a mother.

[@takeyla23nc]

This is definitely helping me this episode. I really want to be able to just get up in the mornings that would be a huge step. My girls here are 8 and 11 they get ready on their own for school every morning

[@wywy8541]

That’s why it’s important to ask your kids how they day is going being a parent you have to change that negative attitude and putting it all your kids just a hug and a kiss on the forehead and a conversation is really what these teenagers need because it’s always slack of love and attention

[@SheilaTrueLove]

My question is, where are the FATHERS for these girls? This is why I'm a FIRM believer in CO-PARENTING. Let the mother have the children for a week, and then let dad have them for a week. This way each parent get a break to recoup and regroup. For a woman to have to raise TWO children on her own is outright WRONG considering she did not create them on her own. Also, in Ephesians 6:4 it clearly states that FATHERS are supposed to be raising these children, not mothers. Women are trying to do a job they were NOT designed to do, especially alone. What sickens me is when a lot of these children grow to be ADULTS they have no problem throwing their parents to the waste side. They treat the GOOD parents the same as they treat TOXIC parents. If people want things to go well for them, they better watch how they treat their parents. That's the FIRST COMMAND with a PROMISE if you want your days to be long and GOOD on this earth. Ephesians 6:1-3. This mother is suffering from depression and so is her younger daughter, and possibly her older one. I would have set up therapy sessions for ALL of them. Struggling FINANCIALLY is no joke!

[@carlaburrelmusic5851]

Being a parent is the hardest job on earth but it’s the most rewarding 🙏🏽💕

[@angelastewart6584]

Karamo has a discerning spirit and he's very intelligent.

[@twwo5223]

Wow, Hard situation. Mom made bad choices to have kids early and the frustration is more than she can handle. KIDS REQUIRE TIME!!

[@kimberlywallace177]

I Love you Karamo, you are SOO genuinely authentic. I Love how you Love on your guest. God Bless you my brother.❤️