Her family fights all the time because of their angry tones[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.10.15]

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Hello Counselor EP.383
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[@Ivy-nc4pt]

The youngest is so damn hilarious 😂😂😂

[@barrymichlowitz1071]

I think she was great to point out that the family does not pay attention to each other even when they are in the same house because of watching television and playing games on their cellphones.

[@hellotwinsify]

HAHHAH her hair keeps frightening me every single time and her resting b* face

[@ilovemochi7014]

The family that fights together stays forever😂 thats what they say...

[@fightfannerd2078]

ilove mochi ikr vary true

[@veronicaprobable8044]

Fight together not with each other....

[@sonalii5527]

Happy now?

[@inahendiape7175]

But they will fight forever

[@no-tg6cq]

It aint really that healthy to fight often tho XD

[@april00026000]

Lmao this whole family should have their own show, I would watch this mess honestly

[@arenguite1882]

I'm seeing the comments blaming the sisters but I feel like the root of the problem lies in the parents. Children to a great extend learn communication patterns from parents. They are probably used to seeing their parents talk to each other disrespectfully and caught on to that. You can see how the parents talk to each other from the examples cited

[@jksh9504]

No. the parents are kinda close but the mom stressed out of financial problems including the two sisters. That elder sister is the core of the problem. Look how she react at the end. Instead of going in the flow she cringed and show displeasure on her face.

[@arenguite1882]

@@jksh9504 yes I agree that the elder sister is in the wrong too. I'm not saying the sisters are right. They obviously have to work on their issues. All of them need to work together if they want a change. I'm just pointing out that children learn from their environment. What I mean is the way the parents talked to each other, interacted and the patterns in the family right from their childhood till their current adolescene is caught on by children. The way parents deal with problems and good situations are also the examples they have learned while growing up so I don't blame the elder sister completely. What you're talking about are majorly the current issues. I'm just saying the way these sisters deal with the current issues, a large part of it stems from learning it from inside the family

[@yummymellon4058]

@@jksh9504 the parents doesn't know how to act like parents...yet they wanted their child to behave .here is the truth..your child r the mirror image of urself. If such way r the thing u always present to ur child.. surely they will just become like u in the future.

[@OrianePoirot]

@@jksh9504 This is basic logic, you kids reflect who you are no matter how hard your try to hide it, verbal violence specially physical violence leave scars, and guess who's going to reproduce the same patterns? the kids, yes they have their faults, but the real problem the root of it all is their parents.

[@lovemyselfloveyourself856]

Im dying of laughter here.its are kindda fun to hear their stories😃🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@ainnoraini7611]

LOVE MYSELF LOVE YOURSELF but if u think again their problem is not even funny, i hate it when the host and audience are laughing over their problem it’s so annoying, I actually have that kind of family too and trust me it’s not and never will be funny, so plz don’t laugh at others problem when you don’t understand how hard it’s for em

[@minhkhanhnguyenho9221]

Yeah same here 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@teddymoon]

Maybe it's just my mood, but it seems like two children in adult bodies got married, had some babies, and now those babies are acting just like them. Which is causing problems for the family. None of them are willing to change, but they're waiting for the others to change instead. That's a complete and utter waste of their time. Hopefully they get their lives in order.

[@ciarat8813]

My family is just like this, everyone’s tone of voice is filled with anger so it seems like we’re all mad and then we get stressed out and don’t want to speak to each other. This is a concern they avoid communication because of how everyone speaks.

[@aznmochibunny]

hi hi Same

[@maiachew902]

yup. some of the members in our family are hot-tempered (although they cool down very fast too. They get super irritated at little things and that negativity just spread like crazy. I am always on my toes and worrying if I have done something wrong. I just... hate it.

[@ohkylala]

hi hi Mine used to be like this too. It’s either my parents sound angry or they’re completely silent which made me scared to talk growing up. It’s better now though.

[@vanillalatte7586]

Same, it came to the point where I'd rarely go home and just stay inside the dorm just so I'd have even a second of peace in my life

[@yeetus8972]

THAT YOUNGER SISTER USED THE REVERSE CARD

[@caprisun2830]

The youngest seem fun to be with

[@idkbr788]

Ikr she was my fav

[@tyra5514]

this is the only episode that has brought me to tears from laughing so hard😂

[@moistcereal1948]

The youngest is hilarious 😂😂

[@aznmochibunny]

Those two sisters are exactly like me and my sister. But it's worse because we're twins and everyone expects us to be extremely close. Even my dad said all twins are close except me and my sister. So I can really relate...

[@mehengshkoqenemutit1241]

I thought my family was the only angry as hell one.............fortunately I can relate somewhere!

[@defiantaichi]

This is so funny. The family sounds really close. But it would be nice if they tone down the fighting a bit

[@LoveRauraAndAuslly]

It's not Hello Counseler without a family member with bad drinking habits.

[@TheMaria232]

Says a lot about South Korea in general tbh

[@hannie9408]

South Korea is all about drinking honestly,so it makes sense why there are many ppl with bad drinking habits

[@adropeinthe0cean]

Hahaha the younger sister was hilarious, exposing everyone 😂

[@Bebeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee]

Laughing so hard when part she didn't tell her parents when grades were down. That is so me😂😂😂😂

[@bellethia]

LOL the girl at the back was like "not my problem, I'm sleepy" 16:38

[@DiscoInfernal999]

bellethia lol was she the Kangnam fan?

[@Gloriawaang]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@md.abdurrahimbadsha3137]

@@DiscoInfernal999 ya..that's her

[@iamvoldy4583]

she got exhausted after seeing kangnam!

[@tangy8213]

Lol older sister is getting exposed. It seems like she's the problem and only blames her anger on the family

[@yummymellon4058]

She's not...i know because my father is hot headed person..more than his father.

[@huffy6479]

I agree 😂😂

[@homayraasima911]

The older sister is the main concern I think

[@justpassingthrough205]

This happens to me all the time. Because of the tone of my voice, people either think I’m angry or have an attitude so I tried changing it to a higher and nicer tone but I STILL GET YELLED AT!! I also get misunderstandings because of my face. I’ll be happy and think that I’m smiling but people always tell me to fix my face and not to have an attitude. It’s honestly exhausting 🙄😩

[@ohkylala]

Just Passing Through Ahhh me too. And when I try to make jokes by being sarcastic, people think I’m being a bitch 😩

[@justpassingthrough205]

Ohkylala oh yesss, me too! And when I’m being sincere, people think I’m being sarcastic 😞

[@Mskpopjrockobsessed]

Omg me too I have a naturally have a voice on the deeper side that with my resting bitch face I get misunderstood all the time to the point I exaggerate and make my voice super high to seem friendly when I meet new people or at work

[@Maya-sv1pz]

lmao relatable. got so fedup of it I stop talking.

[@nagisaichi3468]

Okay yeah publicly they seem to be very close and funny but it must be frustrating and scary to always have a family that fights all the time. When you're in that kind of situation one can't help but to be selfish in order to survive mentally. I'm not condoning their actions, but I do see this as a major concern. It might've not been seen that way since it was played off.

[@fidoreviews]

I dont know what others think, but i think this family is really happy with each other 😂

[@mariejordan9903]

I sometimes binge watch and forget to like, so I go back and give every video a like.

[@bluemarlin6321]

the sister of her looks like the girl Samara from the movie Rings. I like her. She is so funny.

[@purpleturtle2083]

They fight. Buti havent seen such a bright episode in a while. It was really fun watching them and all smiled :)

[@vivianl2680]

I've only watched 6 minutes of this video when commenting so I might not understand the full story yet, but for the past 16 years of my life I've never seen my parents fight (like a big fight) except for one time. It wasn't even a huge fight, but it was at the point where they were so angry at each other that my older sister had to keep them in different rooms. Just from that one fight, I cried. I don't think I would be able to handle it either if my family fought every day T.T

[@ren-el3pj]

the youngest daughter should be down there instead smh, yeongju is the main problem 👀

[@yummymellon4058]

No .she is not the main problems.. the parents are at fault. Ur children r the mirror image of urself. U expect ur child tp behave when u urself Don't know how to act like an adult or a parent by that?. How can u expect them to mature be calm and compose while u urself aren't able to do that. Joke on u

[@thefunnyfine1277]

It must be stressful to always argue at home.

[@kiwiepal8564]

If this family tone not change soon, the child will slowly less respect to their parents

[@lhkwehpaw101]

“What did she take?” -“my eyebrows pencils” Girl that the most important thing in our life. 😆 no eyebrows is a issue.

[@shiloh8734]

They all have bad attitudes. And when the daughter told her mother to speak clearly, that's disrespect. You shouldn't speak to your parents that way. Just by that, I could tell that she's probably the most problematic. You can also tell that she probably has the worst anger issues just from the way she acted while her sister was speaking. But both sisters sound a bit spoiled and entitled.

[@LoveRauraAndAuslly]

I blame the parents for not teaching them discipline. The kids learn how to speak and what's appropriate to say by watching how their parents communicate with each other. How are they supposed to know how to act if their parents don't even know? Their parents are like little kids.

[@TaniBip]

Khanh Huynh yeah and there’s also the possibility she said “speak clearly” to remind her mother to make sure her Korean was more clearer and dialect wasn’t as thick to people could understand better ? (Just an opinion)

[@shiloh8734]

Cats can Fly But the way she said it. That's a disrespectful tone that you should never take with your parents. Would you aggressively tell your parents what to do?

[@shiloh8734]

Iris Strings A respectable one. I was taught not to disrespect my parents, raise my voice at them, and be nice to my siblings. I definitely grew up stable because there were never huge fights in ny house. Why? You asked that question like it's weird to respect your family. What kind of house did you grow up in?

[@jassy497]

@@shiloh8734 it clearly means they weren't thought or shown how to respect each other when they always seeing their parents bickering and fighting every now and then

[@aLia1631993]

I love this family so muchh

[@MariahBunni]

I think the family cares for each other deep down because if someone argues with you about certain things, that means they care enough to address the issue. Those that don't care would not argue and give up. This reminds me of my family where we are all sensitive in different ways and make jokes about each other but in the end we still care. I think the girls have to accept that's the way their parents are and to accept them.

[@cinnarenaroll1292]

I think the problem is that they all have tempers and are a bit... tense LOL honestly I'm the same way. I always try to calm myself down and relax but I get irritated over the smallest things. My sister is more like my dad so they're both pretty mild, but I'm pretty sure that me and my mom both have the same exact personality. Which is a problem since my parents are divorced and we live with mom, and I'm the oldest. This is just my side of the story but I CAN see that my mom has anger issues (and I do too lmao) but she's stubborn and isn't willing to admit it the way I am. Most of the time, she starts the arguments because when she gets mad, she voices her anger. I just keep it all in and try to push it away but once she pops, I do too. And then we both end up arguing with each other lmao. We also BOTH like to have the last word. I know that it's childish but I always try to get the last word in while thinking "I'm so stubborn, why can't I just shut up first?" The thing is, English isn't her first language so sometimes she thinks that I'm being disrespectful or blaming her. I admit that sometimes in the heat of the moment, I'll say something offensive, but whenever I say "We both have problems and just need to calm down for the moment" she'd be like "No it's not me, it's YOU." And that gets us nowhere. One thing I always find amusing about her temper is that in certain situations (for example, if we're lost somewhere), she'd be like "Be calm, take a deep breath and don't get angry. Don't freak out" while raising her tone and yelling at me, and I'm just sitting there like "okay??? I'm very calm right now". I TRY not to add "You're the one that needs to calm down" but sometimes I can't help it because her telling me to calm down when I'm calm makes me upset 😂😂 Anyways that's my story lol

[@tkak4]

18:49 😂 her sudden face change made me laugh.

[@user-ct5bz1ty1u]

the girl idols are so pretty i want to stan

[@lan9820]

I totally understand her though, i also have the same experience. I don't get why the others thought it was a laughing matter

[@mahimahayat4698]

i totally resonated with yeongju the older sister. i read comments saying she was the problem but i totally disagree. her and my family dynamics and behaviors are the same; i'm the oldest and there are four people in the household. you can't assume everyone loves each other just because of the way they speak on national television, of course people will not try to make themselves look too bad, but it doesnt mean they hate each other per say. the way the older cringed at the affection is the same way i would act, it can get annoying and sometimes parents think that a little affection can compensate for a long period of disappointment. her father, like mine, seems like a narcissist, but mine is a lot worse. i genuinely do not hate my family btw, we either argue, ignore each other, or talk. but mostly ignore

[@manal9873]

I agree with your words, I thought ppl mistook the older from the youngest at the first. But its just seem like it's all the younger sis mistakes.. I happen to have a family who fights with the most silliest things ever so I can relate with the older sister.

[@anita-im2og]

Maybe u should stop tell fake story to make yourself good😂

[@cia9142]

my family has the exact same problem... i live with my dad, mom, brother and sister and we quarrel everyday, more than once. Our tones are always angry and we quarrel over stupid little things that is not even worth quarreling about and get angry and frustrated. Not only our tones, our face pisses us off as well bc we frown but the problem mainly lies with my dad because he talks in a very angry and annoying tone and he frowns and stuff (which makes us do as well)... i don't rly know how to put it but i relate to this girl so well, everyday at home stresses me and my siblings out. When we come from the first thing we do is quarrel and that sucks tbh bc i just want to rest when I'm homed.

[@nurfatihahhamsan5343]

My family used to be the typical family but something happenedd and we ended just like this family. All I can say based on experience, its not all bad. As you get older trust me, you will be grateful you have a family like that.

[@syarifhidayatullah8339]

This really my family we always use high tone so it's sound like angry but we are not, all neigbor think we always fight but we not

[@MK-sv9ee]

The girl looks like the actress Jung so min ❤

[@eriwoojae]

I can relate to this, my mom got an angry tone when she ask things, so when she have a conversation with my father they always end up arguing, as for us we just listen to them cause we're used to it. but I wish they will talk calmly cause they are already old..

[@tae4649]

This family is like mine I can relate so much😂

[@jessicamars1281]

Ahahah I like this family!!! But the older daughter is the problem 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@madyalvarez428]

lmfao this is my family for sure- they're extremely intense and short-tempered

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

my parents always nag at me it’s stressful so i’ll stay in my room

[@bri7797]

Omg this is how my family used to be.. we would have petty pointless fights for no reason. luckily as my sister and i got older and became more mature it all kind of stopped

[@peachyyjoon6397]

Well, SOMEBODY is in love with the youngest sister.

[@Maya-dw5jz]

The younger sister is too cool. Exposing them. The older sister is the problem but she requested the concern hahah. If only the younger daughter requested it

[@Maya-dw5jz]

This also reminds me of me and my sister we argue a lot and also talk casually to our parents when annoyed but They are just spoilt lol. My parents used to beat us when we spoke banmal to them even by accident. The parents should really discipline them and change themselves . The daughters will only respect them less. The 14 year old is already speaking banmal to them like whatttttv

[@hanibunnny]

My family fights 3 times a day

[@baakojernigan7095]

Completely unrelated but where can I get blue-ish dark grey contacts like the big sister? They're really pretty

[@ariesfairy4444]

Baako Jernigan same omg

[@stsimmer3360]

I'm wondering the same thing

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

optician center

[@brandnyuday]

Try Olens?

[@eightynine900]

this used to be like my family

[@meggydc5284]

Parenting is definitely not easy

[@tracyhaokip6261]

She is pretty

[@abu1925]

Lmao this is literally my family

[@rajazaidah4157]

They are just normal family. All families are not the same.

[@giulianamerida1234]

I only watched 2 minutes and I feel like that's my family😂😂😂 (in a good way tho)

[@ElizabethNathinge]

They just need to communicate.

[@snowangeliquexx]

At least they have a mum and dad together.

[@spacebug1873]

snowangeliquexx that’s not always ideal for everyone

[@nobararomaamor8135]

They're daughter is very beautiful. damn my insecurities ;/

[@denali2412]

Lol I love this family. They seems like a regular family who argue a bit more often. This can easily be fixed. They really seem to be close.

[@safari_101]

There problem is similar to my family’s problem. We fight at least once a day. Not bc we hate each other, but it’s out of love. Usually it is where we should eat or bc someone did something. From experience, I think it’s just how they all are raised. They all get annoyed easily. The parents probably don’t realize it but bc they argue over little things the kids are influenced that every time someone does something. Idk if that makes sense, but that’s how I see it.

[@noki4346]

Wow I am kinda surprised of how they think its not a concern. I think its a concern because at how young they are and how they can get influenced. I wish they asked how they where outside their family...

[@AfricaGS-hz6fl]

This is such a big concern I feel bad for her because at the end of the day nothing was achieved

[@Ms.mnmmmmm]

When my dad and mom fights like a little argument but they're flustered i will go up the stairs with tears on my face! Im on the middle of the stairs then i will hop on the handles on the stairs right? Then i will shout " heyy!! are you not planning to stop fighting? Alright, i will jump if you dont! *Sob*" then i will cry louder cause they will laugh at me and stop Fighting HAHAHA LOL (btw i translated the words i said it would have been expressed better and more dramatic in my language but yap!)

[@farahyuck4836]

MY STORY IS THE SAME

[@amandaarancibia8394]

I'm laughing because I have the same outfit as the girl in the gray hoodie and also hairstyle like we are seriously the same rn 😂😂 that's the biggest coincidence I had in my life omg

[@citizensmithitalia]

Actually sounds like my family and me in particular lmao I'm not angry it's just voice 😂

[@preyslaydisplay]

The younger sister is so funny

[@dreamerluv5172]

when they called out fishing dad i laughed XD 6:35

[@faestreya]

Ok that girl full on flinched right after talking about how the dad threw stuff and the MC made a gesture towards her, and then she burst into tears. As someone with PTSD because of domestic abuse, I do the same thing. There has to be waaaay more than that going on behind the scenes for her to react that way, and I don't think any of the hosts noticed (although I've paused the video so maybe they do later). I don't know who or what is at fault, but I can guarantee you it's worse than the way they say it is.

[@iffyaka9064]

My thoughts EXACTLY! I’m seriously so disappointed in the comments and response from the audience. Literally like what the girl said - no one knows until they experience it. I’m worried for her psychological well-being considering everyone was laughing and as a result undermining her attempts to reach out. There is something clearly going on and that physical flinch most likely highly points to PTSD ..which I can also relate to as I’ve had a similar history to hers with CPTSD due to fucked up “angry tones”. It’s going to go downhill from here unless the parents change

[@NaomiIsSoAwesome98]

yep... the parents just yell for no reason, throw shit at eachother, and yell at the kids because they're arent acting cute so that's disrespect .... I love when parents blame their kids for bad behaviour but they're literally their children's model

[@rusheil012]

Lmao my family is like this too funny

[@deepalil1085]

This Korean version of my family except alcohol problem. We are always irritable and fight.

[@TheCrazyMiss]

I am the same with my step father, we fight everyday xD

[@stsimmer3360]

Does anyone know a good place to buy contacts? Hers is so pretty!

[@themanidentifiedasdinosaur8138]

Search for "Kris Bernal" in google. The one in the blue swinsuit. That kid and the actress looks so much alike.

[@vampvivid]

My fiance has this serious tone that makes me or others want to fight with him 😂😂😂

[@felixdemosquito1126]

Unrelated but like she's 14 and has an eyebrow pencil and I'm like 14 and have a colour pencil :)

[@melissaa6293]

do you want a cookie?

[@felixdemosquito1126]

@@melissaa6293 yes

[@oishiibanana5650]

Same. Sometimes i play playdough also 😁

[@felixdemosquito1126]

@@oishiibanana5650 same aha

[@mui4158]

???? so??

[@user-hm3fn1gh5c]

My parents also argue and when they have big fights dad triws rhibgs and mom screams a lot...there are a lot of bad things that i cant say here. I dont understand why parents argue. Or why they at least argue in front of their kids. My sister was literally crying in front of my parents when they were arguing but they still wouldnt stop. I would rather have no parents than them to argue.

[@itseunhye267]

Tbh i think the problem stems from the mom and her hiking and drinking. The dad seems like he just wants a loving family and the girls are definitely spoiled

[@freepalestine8717]

They ask you [Prophet] about wine and gambling. Say, “In both there is great sin, and some benefits for people. And their sin is greater than their benefit.” And they ask you as to what they should spend. Say, “The surplus”. This is how Allah makes His verses clear to you, so that you may ponder.(Chapter Baqarah, verse 219) The Noble Book Qur'an💖 The Holy Book of the religion Islam❤

[@kimtaetaehsjagi2279]

I like their family i can say they're full of love despite of all her concerns 😂

[@iffyaka9064]

No my friend , I believe you should not. Like that child said- u don’t know cuz u haven’t lived with them. That poor child most likely has PTSD. Coming from a history myself similar to hers and judging based off of some of her physical reactions/crying, there is something going on behind the scenes. Something so traumatic that it causes her to flinch when she talked about the incident where her parents were throwing things at each other... highly indicative of a ptsd response

[@teamdono2113]

why there's no more English subtitles? I always watch your videos every week and most of the time i waited when it will be uploaded. am i just the one that cannot view the subtitles? i hope you can answer my question. thank you

[@eleeelsayed451]

Alva Monette Paraiso just turn on the subtitles, change the settings its there :)

[@nazninhaque1532]

My family exactly

[@Ramaillo]

Lol 😂 that’s like my family😆

[@jouwu]

This was so funny

[@Luna.311]

If this ain't me and my family!!

[@Rosepeach33]

At least they dont have a grandma who forces you to wake up from rare naps when you're rlly tired cuz she thinks you're dead or do drugs....😑

[@mytreasureboyyosi5042]

Haha this so funny

[@user-ys3hg5tr6x]

this is so funn y

[@blairwrelos1891]

5:04 BTS Fire🔥🔥

[@aznmochibunny]

Blairwrelos 18 I've noticed KBS likes to use it for anything revolving heat. I see it used a lot on Return of Superman when something is hot or when someone eats a hot chili pepper or anything else really spicy. I think they just want to use BTS for views to be honest because they use it so much, it's ridiculous. I like BTS but it's a little too much.

[@blairwrelos1891]

@@aznmochibunny I don't think so bcoz people don't know that their song is used in between. It's just they used some bit of songs in between to make it more enjoyable. Anyways people watch the show bcoz it is entertaining thats it.

[@aznmochibunny]

Blairwrelos 18 For me, I watch Return of Superman because I'm interested in children and want to care for children. I don't watch the show because of BTS. However, they use the song way too much in the same situations that you expect it to play.

[@munginosal2135]

@@aznmochibunny They do that with a lot of songs in variety shows, not just with bts' songs. Like for example, I don't know what the title is but you can always hear it when there's a romantic moment between two guys. You can also hear it in a lot of paper kissing games between male idol. Then in running man, when there's a moment with Jihyo and Gary, there's also a specific song by leesang that is played. There are a lot of songs repetitively being played in a lot of variety shows when a specific scene comes on, it's normal and not for clouting purposes

[@cathleneincierto9659]

ok their mom is pretty😂😍

[@daiskiiv_9783]

Lol there lucky to have a whole family and a dad, My family is divorce so I’m living with a single mom uwu be grateful

[@yumi3822]

Just like the father, I was also misunderstood because of my tone of speaking. But I can't help it, what can I do.

[@vickynguyen2162]

they've never met vietnamese families. we're always talking as if the person right next to us was standing a mile away 😂

[@noultinsvt8424]

imagine being in a family that doesnt even fight bec they dont care about each other. hahahaha. our family do and we do our own things. we dont even eat together unless we have visitors over.

[@chutangchutang7042]

She kind of looks like a girl version of Stray Kids Lee Know/Minho😯 STAN STRAY KIDS! Their coming back Oct. 22nd with “I Am You” check them out! You won’t regret it😉😘