KELLEY O'HARA on her retirement decision, hopes for this final season, and her legacy | Friendlies

[@colleenshrawder5649]

The safe space you create for these interviews is amazing. You and Kelley had me in tears, of both laughter and heartache. You have both been such strong and outstanding players, and just a joy to watch on the field.

[@SByers34]

This could be one of my favorite episodes EVER. So real, and heartbreaking for two of the arguably MOST BELOVED PLAYERS in these recent years. We are all behind you and willing you to pain-free lives.

[@margaretsteigerwald1124]

Gene Therapy. In Europe. Go. Fix your knees.

[@thereallg4587]

*No Kelley crying always gets me😢. She’s so passionate in what she does and never gave up. She’ll be missed on the field.*

[@ca2ne]

This episode should be required viewing for young, elite athletes.

[@beggyberry]

Didn't expect to be crying and laughing at my desk this morning! Luckily I work from home. Sam I'm so happy you're a safe landing spot for these wonderful athletes to talk openly about heavy and important things.

[@robwarren4425]

Ms. O’Hara. One of the greats. She played as hard as anyone I’ve ever seen.

[@liacarson1808]

What a sweet interview between friends and teammates. I love how Kelly was there for you as you were forced into retirement, and now you are there for her. What a beautiful interview with incredible women! ❤

[@vu8200]

So crying through this whole episode. My heart is breaking for Kelley (and Sam), the gut wrenching realization you can’t do what you want anymore 😭, thank you for being so open and honest, and can’t wait to see what the future brings from you. Will of course miss you on the pitch but maybe we’ll see u on the sidelines one day ❤❤❤

[@KeithRowley]

Ugh... My heart breaks for both Sam and Kelley. Such kickass footballers, and such beautiful, real souls. Such a moving conversation. Thank you, Sam and Kelley.

[@joycefortin7877]

One more thing... Sam, you are the kindest person. Love what you are doing post pitch.

[@malsb91]

Kelley was my favorite part of the Spirit's winning season, and gosh, this interview really puts her (and your, Sam) best qualities on display. Genuine, warm, funny, willing to go through the hard parts to get to the best bits. I know her teammates will miss playing with her, but I hope she continues to be involved, because she enriches all of us with her presence in and out of the game.

[@katkni]

KO.. my fave US player… one of the greats, a total legend for USWNT, and always so humble and the very best kind of teammate. This game will miss her immensely- I hope younger players follow her example. Thanks for this interview!

[@pandastrat]

One of the best players ever - It's been an absolute joy watching her play for the uswnt for basically a decade - thank you so much KO!

[@julialvarado9770]

They are both such passionate people and players. Both will definitely be missed on the pitch. I hope we continue to keep the culture and values that these players have left in future generations.

[@annflores8851]

I got my knee replacement last year at 36, waited 15 years with pain after the Marine Corps, I know how you two feel and I hate that this had such a huge impact on your future, but I love you both

[@sarahwalker8661]

I have always enjoyed seeing Kelley on air as the interviewer on JWS for years. This episode with her as the interviewee with Sam was probably the best I’ve seen of both of them. I laughed and I cried with both of them. I especially didn’t have the latter on my bingo card this morning, but they were earned with their genuine vulnerability of their situation. Wishing both of you pain-free active years post-soccer. I hope to see more of Kelley in the media as well after retirement.

[@01FozzyS]

Love me some Kelly O.! Been a fan since Stanford, then our FC Gold Pride, to the USWNT. She basically won a championship in every level including the WPS. One of the best Backs out there. Good luck with your next step in life,Kelly!

[@jonathanwyman9402]

The shared experiences you two have makes this interview epic. It is a testament to both of your fearlessness because entering into this interview together was bound to bare your souls with nowhere to hide. You two have always been she-roes of mine. This experience cemented you in my pantheon of epic women. PS. We need more Kelley on the Street!

[@BrittMasters]

Have always thought that Kelley should think about law school after retiring. This was one of your best interviews yet, Sam!

[@kylejensen727]

Ah, I love Kelley! She is so much fun to listen to!!

[@lyndzaroo]

Watched this earlier tonight and I’m still in my feels. It was a beautiful and emotional conversation. Kudos to Sammy and Kelley for being so open and honest. I’ve been a fan of both as players and will continue to cheer them on in their next chapters. I could listen to them talk for hours, even though this interview almost required some tissues.

[@kkrebs1012]

Elite interview at every level. You guys covered so much and you bring out the human side to sports ❤

[@lisagrant2150]

As a former athlete who has a horrible knee from pushing myself too far with sports this episode hits home. Love these two.

[@kristiannelson1851]

This episode was absolutely amazing!! Thanks Kelly for sharing! And I miss Sam so much on the pitch. But she is SO...DAMN...GOOD with these interviews and love that she has created this space!!!

[@michaelstevenanderson4961]

Kelley's late goal against the Germans was epic and a clinic on teamwork. (with Klingenberg & Lloyd on the assist). I've watched it a zillion times.

[@Kath1461]

Thank you, thank you, thank you Sam and Kelley. It has been a privilege and a thrill to watch your football careers! Love and hope to see you more in different roles.

[@marksoliva2332]

I've listened to a lot of podcast interviewing athletes but why this one stands out is because it tackled an active athlete grappling with the reality of retiring even though the spirit is still willing. Maybe I read too much into this but the overall messages of acceptance, regret and finding meaning AFTER the sport you love...hit DEEP. Like @ca2ne said, this should be viewed by all athletes not too far behind Kelly & Sam (in regards to retirement)

[@annameinheart]

The first and only time I had the pleasure of seeing the USWNT in person was the final of the 2011 World Cup and I remember my 18 year old self rooting so hard for the US and seeing all the players on the sideline, Kelley included… after that I never stopped rooting for the USWNT even when they played against Germany… a part of me always wanted the US to win because the team spirit was something so unique! I watched so many games they played and Kelley has been my favourite player for years now because she’s just so electrifying and played so amazingly good! I really hope she takes the time to realise how much joy she brought to people all over the world… I think a big part of her legacy is that she made people a fan of whatever team she was on because her love for the game was so freaking inspiring!

[@mollymcaldwell]

What a beautiful thing that you lived out your dreams even if cut short. I can't imagine how hard this is for both of you to know you have to stop playing. It is such a pleasure to listen to and watch your stories. What lovely supportive friendships you have!

[@angelinaruscitti568]

Love Kelley! As an athlete dealing with knee cartilage issues I totally feel for her❤️ it’s not easy we got this Kelley!!

[@Person-zx9rb]

This episode is so agonisingly beautiful, the passion you both have for the game is so evident but goodness you've got me crying too. As someone living with chronic pain that stems from an experience where I was doing something I really loved, that conversation about whether you regret going to the 2019 world cup really hit home. Of course you don't regret it, but it's so unfortunate that the things that bring us so much joy can also bring us so much pain. Thank you for being so vulnerable, it is so appreciated.

[@David-yy9kl]

Kelly you're a Fing LEGEND. You've left everything on the field and gave us so much joy. Sam, your injury still makes me even more sad cause I KNOW you would have been a force for the national team in midfield. World Class players 👏🏽

[@SolarRox21]

Injury is so tough physically and mentally. Best of luck to Kelley! Better days are ahead. ❤

[@brittrugg2676]

I have loved Kelley since 2007 and seeing her get so emotional is making me tear up.

[@lanenaberry7159]

I am a 55 year old former player who is dealing with knee problems now. I just want Kelly and Sam to know that it will be ok! The knee will never be right again, but it is ok! Life is slower and different, but it is ok!

[@2195brodie]

I wasn't professional but played high level and other sports. I switched my passion to mountain. Biking because of my knee.

[@oshea03]

Amazing interview!! I feel so heartbroken for kell and you Sam. To have your passion cut too soon. This is something that every athlete should watch to make sure you listen to your body to try to mitigate permanent damage, and what it does to someone mentally. I wish her well ❤

[@marymiller7510]

Love Kelley and her play all these years.... Will miss her playing. Cheers Kelley!!

[@Tiff-by3gp]

Fabulous interview. Thank you and Kelley for sharing this conversation.

[@TJ-dz3ot]

This was a great interview, Kelley has been one of my favorites since she hit the big time. Its sad both of you ended your careers with almost the same injuries. I hope technology finds a fix for your injuries. I would love to see both of you back on the pitch as you both still have soccer left in you.

[@kenbrown2927]

To be honest, I waited a couple weeks to watch this episode because I knew how emotional it would be. Tonight I finally watched, and waited for the expected. Tears and tears. They came a couple minutes in and the grand finale was around the twentieth minute. Kelley was such a strong hold for the USWNT for years in the early 2000's, and seeing her feeling the effects of a broken body was so hard. Of course, she has Sam to confide in, who, at an even younger age, saw and felt the effects of an athletes body break down. I'm glad Kelley has so many supporters. I for one, was so devastated to see Kelley retire as her highest level, but as an understanding avid uswnt fan, I am with her 100% on her new journey forward. I hope she finds a career that suits her, may it be coaching or coffee, Kelley O'Hara til I die.

[@bengreatorex502]

This is an especially brave episode from one of the best channels on YT.

[@jamesbarr1983]

I love your podcast . You are so welcoming to your guests and listeners and you wear your heart on your sleeve. I also love the fact that you have a place for England in your heart cos we are the best😂👏

[@corgi_dad]

Great video. Hit so many points in my life too: giving up something because living life without knee pain, my daughter missing her high school cross country team, me missing being a photographer for that team...

[@robynrodman2677]

So relate to Kelley crying then realizing why she's crying extra. Live you ladies and Im over here crying with you. ❤

[@jaywunsxat3849]

So blessed to have watched you play. Thank you.

[@serena26130]

I’ve grown up watching both of you play for as long as I can remember ❤ this interview had me both laughing and crying. I am sad but I am so grateful that I got to have amazing role models like the two of you. Thank you 😊💕

[@angiekoch5865]

Great episode ladies..and remember even if soccer is over for you both...we all love you and will always cheer for you!

[@TdotTwiFic]

Cherish and embrace the moments when you are in the moment. Even when you think it is annoying and boring. Those are the moments you never get back or can relive. And with cherishing them, you can embrace that person in future moments. That is the evolution of aging and the point of being alive.

[@c.gibson6349]

Sam Mewis...only you could have done this interview! Hope Kelley looks into becoming an advocate for those in need - her empathy and motivation and heart are all gifts just like her athletic prowess. All that said, I say you guys start a water polo league even if it means some wearing tubes....can unleash the competitive, strategic juices.

[@mollymcaldwell]

Brilliant!

[@magilu11]

Watching the TsT tournament made me hopeful for the retired players. You can still be part of a great football experience and have fun with your friends for a week. It's fun, they don't have to stay 90 minutes on the field and so many more advantages. Like come on, next year Sam, Kelley and all their friends should totally be part of team USA or make their own team.

[@linireading506]

KO It’s been so awesome watching you over the years, sorry it’s so emotional for you, I do know how hard it is with these injuries causing inability to do what you want to do and do so well! When it’s time, don’t let them tell you you’re too young to replace a knee that gives you pain every single day if that’s a last resort - it will change your life! You’ve always been one of my absolute favs…..your play, your team energy, your mischievous looking laughs and sense of humor! You’re a legend and will always be remembered no matter when you retire. 👍⚽️💪❤️ Hope to see you back on the pitch with your NWSL team soon!

[@SuzetteCallejo]

Loved this! Kelley is the best. I hope you both do an aquabike race! They’re super fun and highly competitive. Keep us posted if you do!

[@michaelt6218]

Sensational interview! Heartfelt, touching, honest, inspiring, hilarious -- I love it so much!! 😍

[@DanielleBowen-j9x]

Two of the best- such a great interview! So much love for you both!

[@judyl2193]

You girls rock thank you for inspiring all of us and for your honesty of your journeys !!

[@janebeech8164]

I was at the 2015 Semi final and Kelley's goal was magical!!!!!

[@DianeChase-k4d]

Great interview! Love Kelley.

[@anger101]

such a good interview.

[@judyl2193]

Haha Kelly great stories I so remember your name on your jersey on the big games! You rocked!

[@lookintoforever]

This was so lovely. Kelley has always been one of my faves and she'll leave some big shoes to fill. I will miss her, already missing Sam our tower of power. Although, the transition to interviewer has been spectacular... new title... Talker of Power? 😅 As someone who has had to reassess my life as an active person several times ... issues with chronic pain due to several injuries (herniated cervical discs at 24 and had my ability to play sports cut off at a very early age (15) due to cartilage issues in both knee caps) I really feel for both of you, chronic pain is no joke. Hopefully modern medicine will provide options for good generally pain free life after professional sports. Sending all the love to you both ❤❤❤❤

[@Kamila-nh5jx]

Really really hoping Kelley is playing again in August! Going to my first Gotham game (i live in Canada) and I would love to see her play!!!

[@hopesimmons3088]

Well. I cried. Loved this

[@lisapesha2912]

This interview was amazing.

[@JoeConstante]

I love the military the Army. I was a 32 year active duty Engineer. I was a paratrooper, air assault, I did marine amphibious training, Recondo training, I have always achieved maximum score 300-400+ on all my physical fitness test for 32 years straight, ran marathons, half marathons, etc... I was active my whole career. I decided to retire because I finally could not finish a 12 mile hike under 4 hours for the first time. I told my self, "if I can't do what my soldiers have to do, then its time to retire". So I reached the rank of E9 Command Sergeants Major and retired. I found out that I need double knee replacement surgery. I currently walk using Trekking poles till I get my surgery. I retired in 2015 and have been putting off the surgery. I do not regret all the fun and deployments, training, etc... that the Army put me through. As a leader I led from the front and did not let the pain stop me till it finally did. I enjoyed watching the USWNT win 4 World Cups and all the Olympic Medals. Enjoy your retirement and do what you need to do for quality of life. It sucks having to walk with Trekking poles. Don't get to the point where you can't fix your injury and end up disabled like me. Take care of yourselves. You are 30 years younger than me and have a lot more time to live for and do than myself. Set yourself up for success. Take care.

[@Arctic-void-z7f]

Love these interviews

[@tannerpoole2777]

It’s been almost 2 years since my acl and meniscus surgery (I got injured playing soccer) and I haven’t been able to run since or play and it’s been the worst time of my life ever. It hurts so bad to not be able to play

[@Pumpkin-vg1ur]

That's already how we all see you Kelley. Most valuable player ever...closely followed by Sonnet.

[@kalmenbarkin5708]

Must be super tough for you Sam to be interviewing what is essentially your former self in terms of career and injury issues.

[@livlundstrom1989]

Kelly is the best❤

[@allistar34]

such a great episode!

[@patman9419]

KO is smart. She will be successful on all fronts!!

[@patricksmith8037]

Wtf 😭😭 I was getting ready for work and now I’m crying

[@joycefortin7877]

I have loved watching you two play. Thanks for the commitment futbol takes. ALSO.. PEOPLE if you're watching, GIVE A LIKE!

[@j.jenkins1885]

This wa a rough watch...in a really great way. Kudos to both of you for being so ridiculously vulnerable and I'm glad Kelley felt like she had the space to do this and with Sam especially. Sam, Kelley, Tobin, and probably countless others.... jeez.

[@loon3111]

Love you Kelley! Just keep swimming.

[@alansmithee8831]

Hello Sam. So emotional between friends remembering good times and bad, but another great chat. No dog picture, on KZbin, but strangely I did just trim the fur round her eyes to keep them clean and say it was to make her look beautiful, then immediately you mentioned dogs and she jumped on my lap. "Come on Rovers!" 🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕‍🦺 ⛳⚽️⚽️⚽️⚽️🥅⚽️⚽️⚽️⚽️⛳

[@DeathyRio]

Sam I love your episodes- ESPECIALLY this one. Kelley O'hara replacement has some big shoes to fill- I've loved watching her throughout her career. It'll be a sad day when we see Alex Morgan hang her National Jersey up too.

[@bnjones348]

So well done

[@LKY1357]

Kelley will go in to beat everybody and leave a lasting legacy, she is just that type of player and person! 🇺🇸🦇5️⃣

[@aboynam3dblu3]

Kelley! ❤

[@clax2529]

You gotta get Christen or Tobin on an episode!

[@Mrmynameisparamore]

I second this

[@TheChosenOne42513]

Let gooo kellly

[@radiantjw1]

Who did your show logo? It’s incredible!!!

[@fwhunt5021]

I've really enjoyed watching both of you throughout the years. I know how you feel both of my are now knees are bone on bone . I used to walk five miles every night . Not any more;. I hope you don't have to knee replacement. Keep a positive attitude it will help you in the future.

[@emilydeehan6373]

Baby, I would not be going to math class after hearing that news😂

[@beachliving3127]

This was an interesting video. They are seeing the limitations of their bodies after having played a very physically demanding sport. Their comments about how injuries and father time have caught up with them is very similar to what male athletes have said as they entered the twilight of their careers. Missing the interactions with their teammates is a universal comment that people will always say. Hopefully they will be physically healthy for the next stage of their lives. I wish them well for the walks with loved ones, little ones, pets, to the grocery store, on the beach, etc.

[@davidt3956]

Great interview. However, it's more evidence that my ADD and general interest helps me. I've never been addicted to a single thing such as athletes, scientists so many others often do. I understand that you folks have to figure out what to do next, where I'm always just intrigued about what I'm going to find out and do next. Best of luck in your new ventures.

[@crazycow9999]

Not a pro athlete, but as I got older into my late 30s climbing to near the peak of my career, I also realized I am just a number, and I am only as valuable as long as I remain useful to my employer. So you need to look out for your long term health and future, bc your employer/boss won’t care. They might throw a lot of money or opportunities your way, but they ultimately will squeeze out every bit of youth and energy you have for their profit or their careers.

[@sophialevin5376]

I made a my first ever goal in my high school career

[@pdmaheshsharma]

USWNT should give her one last chance to play in this Olympics before her retirement it will be a big favor to players like Kelly pls Emma Hayes🙏🙏🙏

[@bkirstie]

she can hardly walk to the grocery store

[@pdmaheshsharma]

@@bkirstie Really

[@sophialevin5376]

I got rejected from Colorado college but is a good thing

[@anoopgopikala8237]

Nice ❤❤❤

[@emceethatsme]

Peachtree City 👏

[@sophialevin5376]

I got rejected from Colorado college

[@alisamarotta2352]

Always ❤️ the interviews but nothing like Kelley . At least u lived ur dreams I'm a bit older than u guys as I had parents who stopped me from moving on to play collegiately bcz of the environment. To this day miss it and all my opptys I know would have happened. With that said I caught for 25 years so tell me about injuries esp knees and feet...that are hindering my quality of life...always tried to go to the best drs yet no resolve...so hear the tears loud. Bottom line the world is your oyster u can do whater u like

[@sophialevin5376]

You could be an author like me, Aleena and Alex Morgan😊

[@heybrunaw]

ohara

[@el__phaba]

I’m not crying you are crying

[@hearmeRoaR10]

Kleenex ya'll