The fact she's an unemployed single mother looking to date instead of getting a job is insane
@MsScooper692 жыл бұрын
She said several times she has no childcare/daycare even if she got a job.....
@jaeshasway2 жыл бұрын
My brain is discombobulated.🤯
@dennellsmith71822 жыл бұрын
That's a poor excuse its 2022 There is daycare in another city/town close to her.
@sistrenyogigal38132 жыл бұрын
A million work from home jobs … and this what she’s doing.
@sseeaahhaawwkkssrule9752 жыл бұрын
She doesn't want to work. She wants someone else to take care of her and her son.
@moonblast122 жыл бұрын
She gets no support from her family, but she lives in her fathers house rent free by herself. Make it make sense.
@tiffanybattle75762 жыл бұрын
That’s what i was saying!
@SuperTruthful2 жыл бұрын
she's been spoiled most of her life and when they aren't catering to her she feels she gets no support.
@Faithistheanswer2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what man would sign up for this and also especially if she’s open to marrying a woman unless they all sharing. This interview was way to much to unpack . She’s spoiled and dulusional.
@melissasworld292 жыл бұрын
Right!
@2930honey2 жыл бұрын
Exactly I'm like that's support. I wish I had that. 😂
@marriejames012 жыл бұрын
When a parent literally hands you a house with no mortgage you have it EASY! Perhaps she has it too easy and that’s the problem!?
@LuxLife242 жыл бұрын
That's a blessing but maybe it has made her comfortable
@valpooh75322 жыл бұрын
Agreed and she seeing nothing wrong with it.
@ChasityXoxo2 жыл бұрын
And she was in the military??? Why you not in school. I’m working and going to school full time right now through the VA. Baby you lazy
@odog765432 жыл бұрын
@@ChasityXoxo lol! You right though. I used post 911 GI Bill to go to school full time and got paid BAH for my area. She's getting food stamps and living in a home with no mortgage, so she should have plenty of money left over for necessities. Maybe she didn't stay in long enough to qualify for veteran's benefits though.
@ChasityXoxo2 жыл бұрын
@@odog76543 you know what that’s what I was thinking cause anybody that served will tell you how long. She said “some years” baby did you get past basic training or no? 🤨
@royorkesjr.8386 Жыл бұрын
For a person with nothing really to offer she certainly has an extremely long list of expectations
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
She's a woman and not a man. Men are the providers and protectors. Women are the takers and nurturers. You must be a feminist
@busybee2033 Жыл бұрын
News Flash 🚨 She's actually what most men are looking for. I'm sure she's snatched up by now. Yall stop ✋
@royorkesjr.8386 Жыл бұрын
@@busybee2033 lol 😅
@latoshastanfield5523 Жыл бұрын
The woman is the prize. You sound like you are hating.
@arielmaliha Жыл бұрын
@@busybee2033 thank you…… 👑✨ she’s a nurturer
@brizy___2 жыл бұрын
The fact that she’s okay with bringing her child on a date with a stranger is literally screaming I’M VULNERABLE I fucking can’t 🙃 She was failed a LONG time ago ☹️
@ga91002 жыл бұрын
These are the women that want high quality men wow‼️
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
True
@Vashtiliving Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. It gives me she will move a man in and he won’t have to do much but screw her
@rosiesmith3526 Жыл бұрын
Fken FACTSSAID💯💯💯💯💯
@KallMeKarma89 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing 😏
@JustSheaShea2 жыл бұрын
Why doesn’t she get her license to babysit if there’s an issue with Childcare in her area? Thinking about a man and not getting money. Silly Street Stalker
@nicolea.75012 жыл бұрын
Great idea.
@Rene-cn4jc2 жыл бұрын
She said she was content where she is. I don’t think she’s open to any suggestion.
@dajewel19822 жыл бұрын
That !! Is too many excuses.
@Arizona_lilly2 жыл бұрын
Childcare free or very low cost if you get help
@jlov34202 жыл бұрын
Boom...there u go. Great idea
@blaccfeather58032 жыл бұрын
This show is powerful, people revealing themselves and don't even know it
@charlesbrown88792 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@zacharywallace22432 жыл бұрын
Interesting
@kxo10382 жыл бұрын
Hilarious
@ishma21002 жыл бұрын
These people are fools. The whole world online is watching this girl making an embarrassed of herself 🤦🏿♂️
@d.kj.n13922 жыл бұрын
I knew our community was dysfunctional... ive dated alot and I saw this madness happening 20 years ago
@changemymind20219 ай бұрын
These women think marriage is a big deal but having kids isn't.
@sidneybranch82552 жыл бұрын
Anybody noticed that she likes everything but “work”😂🤣😂
@stevenharris14602 жыл бұрын
😂
@CryptoBoy-te1ic2 жыл бұрын
She can join the army
@dajewel19822 жыл бұрын
Right ! She said she likes roller blading lol
@kelvinjefferson22532 жыл бұрын
Right💯🤣🤣
@tyjones66262 жыл бұрын
Y’all no body bird brain bitties need to stfu!! The lady said she didn’t have childcare
@StephanieRaePowerhouse2 жыл бұрын
She has little to no support from her family but living in her fathers home for free…. Ummmmmm… wow. She is delusional as hell.
@chocolatebeauty002 жыл бұрын
Right that’s more support that a lot of us have from family 🥴
@everydayfefe2 жыл бұрын
That’s half of the problem having a place to live. She’s one up and just lazy. She’s a bum.
@Arizona_lilly2 жыл бұрын
Entire house no worries I’m sure her dad pays electric bills she’s waste how she
@MrBigtuane49er2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing. A free home but no family support 😂😂😂
@johnpettus76772 жыл бұрын
She wants her family to do it all for her.
@pinkivy202 жыл бұрын
She says she is independent but depends on everyone for her and her son’s survival. Lives rent free in her father’s house, in court getting support from her baby daddy, food stamps from the government. Son is in school 6 hours a day. So what is she doing???? And how is that independent????? These ladies just talk to hear themselves and they are always putting on and trying to make their nonsense sound good.
@queenmorman29032 жыл бұрын
Example of a weak ass mother.
@LifeWithLatoyaMontana2 жыл бұрын
She don’t have childcare her son isn’t in school he’s only 4
@msreen2692 жыл бұрын
@@LifeWithLatoyaMontana 9:28
@msreen2692 жыл бұрын
The definition of the cart before the horse. 🤦🏽♀ She is so responsible, but she's 25 yrs. old, with a 4 yr. old child, unemployed, receives food stamps & hasn't worked since she had her son, yet out of all of the men that have appeared on this singles site, she reached out to the most famous, successful past guest. She is looking for someone to take care of her and her son, but she cannot be bought though. It just amazes me how these types of women feel more entitled than embarrassed. Yes, many single mothers have had to struggle to make ends meet, but to purposely put your child through that predicament is heartbreaking.
@annbaptiste60322 жыл бұрын
@@msreen269 I concur. I'm here shaking my head with this nonsense. She is so contented with her self to the point where she feels as though she's deserving
@donna9592 Жыл бұрын
Prayers to this young lady not for finding love but for getting her life in order.
@marquillacoles62792 жыл бұрын
Being pretty doesn’t mean much, she’s all over the place.
@JDMHaze2 жыл бұрын
right lol
@EnubeeStyle2 жыл бұрын
So true
@chynadoll77cyn592 жыл бұрын
And she ain’t that cute 🤷🏾♀️
@Wanderer252 жыл бұрын
She's looking 40 something
@divinefem87932 жыл бұрын
She not really cute then she said she don’t want drug users but she’s gay and that’s just as bad.
@gemdre2 жыл бұрын
This young woman really does need to get it together. Child, you don't take your baby on a date. This young woman is not ready for anything relationship wise.
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen1642 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Just because you go on a date doesn't mean its going to turn into a relationship. Little guy might end up on 100 dates 😟😟
@ADSharpeSr2 жыл бұрын
She's in Millen, GA. I grew up there (partially). It's a very rural area with no jobs because it was basically set up as a place for old white people to retire. It's very much a part of the "Old South", but things are slowly changing. Still, the job situation isn't going to change any time soon, because the place was literally created for retirement -NOT employment. You're supposed to graduate from high school & then LEAVE!
@Rene-cn4jc2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the insight
@retrowomgafgc2 жыл бұрын
It’s some jobs around the street in Dublin. Especially at the VA Hospital. I guarantee it!
@TDKOALA19922 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Mansfield Ohio
@shamiekapryor15092 жыл бұрын
They have remote jobs. She was in the military she could get a degree online
@glasshalffull46222 жыл бұрын
I'm from Swainsboro.. I know Millen well.. you do have to leave cause there is nothing there but sex and trouble cause you bored! Just dirt roads and woods. Its a whole different world outside atl.
@BdogFinal142 жыл бұрын
She is the type of woman I tell my sons to stay away from. Other than a pretty face, she has nothing to offer except trouble and baggage .
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
So you want your sons to be wearing dresses and being bend over by their wives also? Men are the ones who are supposed to be the providers and protectors and not the women.
@caterinalopez52978 ай бұрын
She might have been pretty at 18. Now, at 25 🙄 she is all used up. And she shows it...help me Lord!
@dayanarab68745 ай бұрын
I see a lot qualities in her, she doesn’t have a lot kids, she isn’t ugly and she wants to take care her kid.
@professionalpookie3 ай бұрын
@@caterinalopez5297 25??? I thought she was like 38
@professionalpookie3 ай бұрын
@@dayanarab6874 you should hit her up
@momann18222 жыл бұрын
She's an equal opportunity user, women or men, lol.
@ldkea052 жыл бұрын
I meeeeean that's what I heard lol .... anybody .... with a pulse and a check please
@FaithandNova2 жыл бұрын
Crazy isn't it smh
@seaofatl55492 жыл бұрын
Its only bad when women get used... lol
@mr3DhimselfLIVE2 жыл бұрын
Wtf 😭😭😭😭
@belizegal292 жыл бұрын
Chile.😹😹😹
@karlditz86312 жыл бұрын
She sat there reading out that list of demands. RIDICULOUS. Kendra barely hid her disgust.
@ricolewis29492 жыл бұрын
Like a Hostage Letter
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@JacksQueen.2 жыл бұрын
@@ricolewis2949 🤣
@tezsgino2 жыл бұрын
@@ricolewis2949 Nooooo!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@blacksilverchair33152 жыл бұрын
Reading off that dusty list 🤣😃🤣😃😃🤣😃 Kendra face at 06:18. she's like: this bish 🤦🤦 🤣🤣😂
@dajewel19822 жыл бұрын
She’s looking for a man to provide for her , and let her be a stay at home mom. She’s slow, though. All over the place. A walking contradiction. Nothing but excuses. Red flags all over the place.
@ud5582 жыл бұрын
🤡🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@jermainelatimer8042 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@ilive2love659 Жыл бұрын
She is the type that will bring everyone around her kid.
@warrenpyles47292 жыл бұрын
I almost dropped my phone when Kendra asked what kind of man you looking for and she started reading from that list🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
@blessedone6122 жыл бұрын
I know right I saw that shish also 😂😂😂
@rosiesmith3526 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Because if she picks a random bum who ends up taking her life then you all will blame her for not choosing better.
@TheMstisha2nd Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@WordsMatter1982 Жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 those are apparently the only two options to y'all.
@MalevolentElephant2 жыл бұрын
Here is a Dustyquesha in all her glory. She is all yours fellas!!!!
@DoniaRenee2 жыл бұрын
Right! She sounds ridiculous as hell. Especially saying if she can’t take her son she can’t go on a date. Poor thing.
@reese48982 жыл бұрын
@@DoniaRenee Right what kind of woman thinks like her no job no income and have these expectations
@fyoutube94102 жыл бұрын
🤣
@josephwhite34862 жыл бұрын
Facts
@mamasann76362 жыл бұрын
@@reese4898 I’m confused. I thought men don’t care about income and looks are women’s currency.
@db72342 жыл бұрын
25???? More like 45. She’s lying about her age
@tatijas2 жыл бұрын
👀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@dominicistheking2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@khaliyahliyah64442 жыл бұрын
Exactly because I'm 25 almost 26
@heidi.21972 жыл бұрын
I have a sister who is in her 30s and she looks younger than her 💀
@aprillondy73262 жыл бұрын
Right, she's definitely older than 25. Girl, bye!
@eloise76002 жыл бұрын
This lady may have a lot going against her but she also got a lot going in her favor too. I say this because she’s very receptive to constructive criticism! A lot of women would’ve gotten offended and would not have appreciated Ms. Kendra’s honest advice. So kudos to them both on this interview. I pray this beautiful lady finds love one day.🙏🏾🥰💗
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏼
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
@@Newarkguy38 You must be a feminist to think that way. First of all the whole " what do you bring to the table " question was invented by father's back in the old days when a man courted their daughter's and the men's end goal was to marry their daughter's then the father's would ask the men " what do you bring to the table to take care of my daughter if you want to marry her? Asking a woman what she brings to the table is putting a woman in the masculine role and not in the traditional role. Also getting a woman off food stamps is easy for men to do by marrying the women they impregnated and supporting her. Most men are complete cowards and leave a woman to fend for herself with a child. In the old days men who left their responsibility would get 3 punches to the gut from each man he encounter and he would get a bad reputation and no one would hire him and no woman would want him. Also many men use their children to lure women all the time, it just bothers you that a woman is doing it.
@sherice1730 Жыл бұрын
Yes she is open to the dating advice. If she gets the job and gets off the food stamps, she will get some higher quality men interested in her.
@videofan1010 Жыл бұрын
No one like her should be "looking for love."
@richardnunn195811 ай бұрын
says a woman
@Jakyjoseph2 жыл бұрын
This is wild. “Someone who isn’t cheap. I don’t mind paying at times if I had an income” 😂😂😂😂😂
@g68782 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂🤣 that's good Jay 👍🏽
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen1642 жыл бұрын
I will admit that's ridiculous! 😂
@StephanieRaePowerhouse2 жыл бұрын
She wild forreal
@kybraidz11612 жыл бұрын
Absolutely ridiculous…
@queentavia2 жыл бұрын
I screamed 😂😂
@pajdesign2 жыл бұрын
All of these remote jobs out here and she’s unemployed for F-O-U-R years???? This is a disgrace. Unfortunately she only wants to lay on her back for work.
@perdybirdie2 жыл бұрын
She don't even wanna do that lol. Only fans take nothing why can't she even do that if she said her feet look good? Just lazy af
@t-low9972 жыл бұрын
Preach! Employers are giving away wfh jobs
@damonbullock36092 жыл бұрын
I didn't think about that! Good point!
@pajdesign2 жыл бұрын
@Follow My Lead yes it depends, but I personally know people who work in banking, insurance, pharma, medical billing, event management, etc who all work remote. Dozens. Overall though, she’s entitled and lazy
@plantbasedunicorn79952 жыл бұрын
If her record is ok, she can work for Walgreens from home. They provide the equipment. Or she can do chat support if she can’t control the noise level in her house. She said the jobs around aren’t paying much?!?? Mam, you have no income!!! 😩🥴🥴 this is a disgrace. Po baby (the child, not her lol)
@JnikaJ2 жыл бұрын
There are so many red flags with this woman its truly terrifying for her young son especially. Particularly at the end when she said her potential man could discipline her son “in time” something tells me it wouldnt take much time. I hope that her son stays protected and safe because this is really scary. Wow wtf
@Trinibrethren2 жыл бұрын
May god protect her son from her it’s sad man
@luvbig412 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! No one other than her or the biological father should discipline her son.
@jetted_out2 жыл бұрын
Baby boy situation
@sportspanelpodcast74882 жыл бұрын
@@luvbig41 he need to come get his son and be responsible then
@luvbig412 жыл бұрын
@@sportspanelpodcast7488 I agree......however...I was speaking about physical discipline....if necessary. A stepdad forbidding the child from watching tv till homework is done or taking away a phone until he/she acts right is a different story. That benefits the child.
@keyia19832 жыл бұрын
I been shaking my head the entire interview…This girl is so delusional 🤦🏾♀️
@jeaninewhitner9658 Жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@TheSolitary1 Жыл бұрын
She is but she will get chosen quickly
@rosiesmith3526 Жыл бұрын
Me2, and shaking my leg🦵🏾
@deloreslester5798 Жыл бұрын
Wow her answer 😮😮😮
@sashabri Жыл бұрын
I’m like 🤪.. she is inviting BS into her son’s life.. poor kid
@shakinglikealoosewashingma6752 жыл бұрын
She needs to use her Internet/Computer to find a job and not a man. Her priorities are so messed up and she is so selfish. Instead of getting herself together for the sake of her child, she'd rather put herself first chasing the "D" and possibly end up brining another child into the world without a safety net. If the father leaves her on her own, she's going to end up on Gov't Assistance and use the kids as an excuse not to work and pull the 3 of them further in the hole (Generational Poverty). Prayers to the 4 year old child who has to look up to this sad excuse as a mother 😞.
@R.Yvette.X.2 жыл бұрын
She is already on government assistance. Food Stamps IS government assistance.
@abby-a2 жыл бұрын
@Intuitive Readings with Vanity if she's injured why is she worried about dating a men right now? 😂😂 shouldn't she focus on healing first? 😂 y'all will sit up here and make any type of excuses for ppl like her who don't have their priorities together 🤣
@Seeingisntbelieving2 жыл бұрын
@Intuitive Readings with Vanity injured and seeking to join the military🤣🤣🤣uh huh. Stop it😂😂😂😂.
@euwfgeuwfg1932 жыл бұрын
@@abby-a facts!!
@ericpabon24582 жыл бұрын
she says she has little to no support from her family, shes living in a house paid off by her dad, what else does she want? crazy
@bsanon47962 жыл бұрын
She's a financial liability, fueding with her baby daddy, dipping between men and women, & can't even give 100% in a potential relationship bc she can't even afford free time away from her child. Ain't no woman pretty enough to deal with all this baggage, not longterm anyway, maybe just to hit.
@ericpabon24582 жыл бұрын
she says she dont want a man thats stinky, but she stanky, lets keep it 100%
@BlackButterfly5042 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯💯, she really is setting herself up for to be used in that way.
@johnpettus76772 жыл бұрын
No question. Your observations are very accurate also. 👍🏽✌🏾
@truehou2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@JamalMack2 жыл бұрын
Right she’s cute but that’s just about it. Buy her a steak dinner and blow her back out 😂
@lucasley202 жыл бұрын
I feel terrible for the first lady's son! Children are always the ones that suffer the consequences of bad decisions.
@glocan2 жыл бұрын
F Pf
@jimmyroute20852 жыл бұрын
I remember you from the KS stream. I miss the community...😞
@cecilemorton8109 Жыл бұрын
I love Kendra honesty & also I love how she tries to support others and give them honest & positive feed back. She is such a role model to many & is so supportive to her peers.I love you Kendra G!! Stay positive, sweet, & honest babygirl 🥰❤️🙏
@stonefacedninja2 жыл бұрын
Kendra said "Maybe there is a man that is going to save you" Me: Hard pass to the next man
@pocahontas63812 жыл бұрын
An extremely hard pass
@JacksQueen.2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@Maxrepfitgm2 жыл бұрын
No interception and that pass is incomplete!
@beyoutifullyunique032 жыл бұрын
😩🤣🤣
@EverythingRomeo_842 жыл бұрын
Hahahha
@takishacade75312 жыл бұрын
Wtf does being on food stamps look like??????🤷♀️🤷♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Exactly. People don’t realize a lot of white people get food stamps. Some go to Harris Teeter at midnight to hide that fact. I work mids & love shopping @midnight. However, HT would not ring me up. So I asked the cashier “why did you ring up the white woman?” Her answer? We have to ring up food stamps, they can’t self check out.
@beyoutifullyunique032 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@belizegal292 жыл бұрын
Full face makeup, lashes. Expenses someone on welfare wouldn’t typically be able to afford.
@johngarza22762 жыл бұрын
She started reading a prepared list of requirements!!!! You can't make this up...Kendra keep doing what ur doing...I love it
@RexBanner_2 жыл бұрын
So now it's wrong if you are prepared? You can't make this thing up loool
@eon0012 жыл бұрын
The bisexual thing was a read flag. Sounds like she wants to exercise her options.
@JDMHaze2 жыл бұрын
@@RexBanner_ lol
@hammertyme83922 жыл бұрын
@@RexBanner_ Prepared for what? Her wish list? To look into Kendra's crystal ball and find her a man?
@TheThotWhisperer2 жыл бұрын
@@RexBanner_she can't have any requirements. Not having a job is a red flag. You can't require someone who has their shit together when you don't. This is how people end up with a whole clan of kids. Be walking at Walmart and have to do a head count when they leave or enter to make sure they didn't forget one 😂. She needs to get a job and forget everything else. Her kids should be her priority.
@blacopsassassin27712 жыл бұрын
🤦🏾🤯 I'm only 5 min in,,,WTH this is a new level on dysfunction geez...
@DoniaRenee2 жыл бұрын
I’m only 6 mins in and, Omg this girl is delusional as hell.
@letiacommodore74372 жыл бұрын
She shouldn’t be looking for a relationship! Smh 🤦🏾♀️
@reese48982 жыл бұрын
But she cute though you should ignore all them obvious red flags especially being from a small town u guarantee you she has a negative history
@T.A.HasNoFilter2 жыл бұрын
25 years old.... baby 4yrs old...... nine months being pregnant. She said did some years in the military!! And she said some other jobs. The math ain’t mathing..... she older than 25 for sure.
@standupbcounted24202 жыл бұрын
She maybe getting military compensation with benefits.
@MirandaSinistra2 жыл бұрын
Well she said her age range is 27-35 so she's probably 29.
@wselenag452 жыл бұрын
She looks older than 25 to me.
@pimelalovechild97222 жыл бұрын
If she could come on and Actually admit that she gets food stamps, why would she then have to lie about her age??
@chocalechevux8042 жыл бұрын
She do look older, more around my age at least
@beautifulb75624 ай бұрын
An unemployed massage therapist? Girl you ain’t looking for a job.
@Jojoloreoluwa2 жыл бұрын
Food stamps don’t pay for her cell phone and that full face of makeup so she’s definitely not sitting around with no sort of income whatsoever. “Certified massage therapist” is a subtle way of saying she’s trapping. If you know you know.
@citi3602 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! I made the same comment up top. If you kno you kno. Facts!
@Liy7982 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know but now I do 😭
@BigShrimpin4162 жыл бұрын
🤣 certified finesse therapist
@jacmelprincess83152 жыл бұрын
She is said that she get food stamps but I believe that she is on full welfare. Meaning that she gets food stamps , cash assistance and shelter allowance. She is probably renting part of the house for extra income as well.
@BigShrimpin4162 жыл бұрын
@@jacmelprincess8315 I don’t think she’s smart enough or even motivated enough to even look for a tenant to be honest.
@ghadafihussein2 жыл бұрын
She has the nerve to draft a shopping list.🙄
@reese48982 жыл бұрын
She got pregnant by a dude she knew for 4 months that's irresponsible as hell for both parties involved you'll make that type of commitment and unsure if you even want to be together
@meloniejobe95222 жыл бұрын
What about the baby you made and ran out on ? Talk about being a hypocrite
@reese48982 жыл бұрын
@@meloniejobe9522 You know me personally??? kill that noise I have no Kids and if I did I'm in the position to provide for them even if I'm not with the mother my child wouldn't be living in poverty and his mother wouldn't be struggling that's my child she takes care of him I'd make sure she's taken care of. This the second time you've posted this you're a complete weirdo
@reese48982 жыл бұрын
@@meloniejobe9522 You dated bums got pregnant by them and assume your reality is everyone reality
@carlosverde-datingtips70012 жыл бұрын
I hear ya - Reese! Ladies… If you want to start attracting “Men” instead of “Boys…” Become a High Value Woman on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of woman that men are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand! Men are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality men that is! Men that have their lives together. And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@DoniaRenee2 жыл бұрын
@@meloniejobe9522 Wowwwww
@Pureabundance82 жыл бұрын
She looking for everything in a partner she is not.. This shit is too funny 😂
@TroubleWorld2 жыл бұрын
In a relationship for 4 months?! That ain’t no relationship she was a booty call😂🤷🏾♀️
@fyoutube94102 жыл бұрын
I'm skeptical on the 25, she looks closer to 35.
@bornwithclass23652 жыл бұрын
I must of missed that part bcuz I didn’t know. I thought she was around 30-35.
@deeroberts19402 жыл бұрын
She is in her 30s her name below says 90d baby. That’s late 20s early 30s
@bettyshabazz4092Ай бұрын
40
@coffeebeans51372 жыл бұрын
There are PLENTY of at home jobs, especially since the panorama. With her dad paying for her housing, even a minimum wage job can make a huge difference in her life. She can even sale pics of her feet online.
@maritalconquestt.v.declassifie2 жыл бұрын
True because I work from home.
@EatPraySmoke2 жыл бұрын
@@maritalconquestt.v.declassifie what kinda work?
@maritalconquestt.v.declassifie2 жыл бұрын
@@EatPraySmoke Customer service. There is sykes, humana, Uhaul, apple, and walmart.
@sheambitious29lachelle172 жыл бұрын
@@maritalconquestt.v.declassifie me too
@melissashana76572 жыл бұрын
Somebody help me out, I always hit dead ends when looking for a legit work from home job 😒
@veronicastigger79472 жыл бұрын
As a mom of a 1 year old and I’m almost 32 years old. I will never be unemployed and actually opening up a business and starting to buy investment properties to built generational wealth for my child. Forget dating. Build yourself up girl!!!
@MsNeoVibeRadio Жыл бұрын
Dopeness!! How do I get started?
@onikaroundtree102 жыл бұрын
No shade , but... shes definitely delusional. When you make your bed you lie in it . Bottom line.
@DarnellHolland-mct255 ай бұрын
Fasho😢
@louvierjay2 жыл бұрын
I hope she looks back at this to see how foolish she looks smh
@sherrellturner47712 жыл бұрын
Amen
@bellaapple21662 жыл бұрын
Kendra uploaded the full live and she is in the comment section making rude comments to anyone that commented on her situation. She's very immature and delusional.
@DrMathOfficial2 жыл бұрын
@@bellaapple2166 Where is this, can you direct me to where it is??
@Msdivaduh12 жыл бұрын
Her family doesn’t support her but her father left her a house completely paid off ….. fellas have fun with this one
@jenniferdavis23236 ай бұрын
I'm sorry but if I had a house that's paid for, I'd at least get a job.
@DejiDigital2 жыл бұрын
YO I swear to God, Kendra gon snap one day live on air and scream "Y'KNOW WHAT?! KEVIN WAS RIGHT ABOUT ALL Y'ALL TRIFLIN' ASSES!" 😂😂😂
@onedawoman2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@Magnolia3720Slim2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MsPrice-pn2py2 жыл бұрын
That day is coming ...
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@mladyfire71992 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!!
@gogobergie20002 жыл бұрын
She said her family doesn't help her, when her dad bought the house she lives in. She may seem sweet, but she is extremely ungrateful.
@lomaxlomax61528 ай бұрын
Cause I was like huh!
@feliciaashford29092 жыл бұрын
Kendra’s facial expression is so funny. She looked over it. 😂😂 i love this show
@mztisfeisty80242 жыл бұрын
Kendra’s face when she said she’s hilarious had me rolling.😂
@mitchumvanblaricom53532 жыл бұрын
I admire Kendra's ability to listen to this girl without busting out laughing because REALLYYYY??? 😂🤣💀
@Miss_Patron2 жыл бұрын
She made allllllll those lists when she should've made a resume...And WHAT is all that around her eyes??
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen1642 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@ud5582 жыл бұрын
😆😂😂😂😂
@tatijas2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@brucethomasjr80542 жыл бұрын
MOLES😂😂😂
@clarissanickersonfourman2 жыл бұрын
“Good with finances” the scream I just scrempt 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@heyyneish2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@MalevolentElephant2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha lol 😂
@nevans32 жыл бұрын
Scrempt 🤣😂🤣! I love it!!!😆
@antoniotula2622 жыл бұрын
Lol, somebody gotta be!!!
@susancross51922 жыл бұрын
scrempt! lol
@samach7392 жыл бұрын
She is a liability, not an asset. Stay away from her. 💯
@blacksilverchair33152 жыл бұрын
She's even a liability to herself.
@vincentwise43892 жыл бұрын
And has the nerve, to have an attitude lol
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy2 жыл бұрын
That sounds strange when men want women to submit to them. Isn’t someone submitting to you a liability that you’re agreeing to?
@odin51882 жыл бұрын
@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy You're being disingenuous, This women has nothing to offer the type of man she's after but bills Seriously think about from the man's POV
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy2 жыл бұрын
@@odin5188 LOL! What I said has nothing to do with the woman in the video but only with what the poster said about her being a liability, not an asset. I questioned it with the point of submission. That to me, is a contradiction, bcuz if a woman submits to a man that makes her his liability. So, I just wanted to hear his reply to my question. Now you talking about paying bills. But I look at this way, what’s the point of a woman submitting to a man if he’s not sharing his money with her? Submit to him for nothing at all besides an idea?
@sonjamoore9332 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely COULD NOT make it through this entire interview ✌🏾 **scrolls**
@Mochaloc2 жыл бұрын
Did she say 25??? 🥴 25 looks different these days.
@jb99112 жыл бұрын
So she is looking for someone to bail her out? LOL
@Krxwdominxtion2 жыл бұрын
Looking for a stepfather, in my KS voice...
@muchgoodisgiven15172 жыл бұрын
Yes, she is looking for her hero. What’s wrong with that?
@freudianslip21922 жыл бұрын
@@muchgoodisgiven1517 Plenty is wrong with that. Especially, when you have a large list of demands in what you want in a partner. If someone is willing to step in and save you, you can't ask for shit. Not his height, looks, salary, trips, [insert whatever dumb shit she listed]
@Sandrinarhonda2 жыл бұрын
@@freudianslip2192 I mean she didn’t ask for much . She asked for 50K
@freudianslip21922 жыл бұрын
@@Sandrinarhonda that's only the financial piece. She asked for much more.
@joeethereal29682 жыл бұрын
25? 🛑the🧢. Emotional intelligence reads like she's 16, while she looks 35. Then shawty flip-flops between muffin diving & the CC. Shawty is an excellent way to waste resources, time, attention & energy.
@Zymone23_2 жыл бұрын
Nah, she’s 25 fr
@keashaqueen7152 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣yall hellll....WHAT IZ.MUFFIN DIVING
@dblr49312 жыл бұрын
I do think she's cute but I also didn't think she was only 25.
@dejonc6z Жыл бұрын
I'm convinced ppl be TROLLING 🤦🏿♂️
@trevionwilder71882 жыл бұрын
THE WAY YOU KEEP YOUR COMPOSURE IS EVERYTHING I SWEAR!!!💯💯💯💯
@vstravels27592 жыл бұрын
This woman is batsh*t crazy. Fellas and Ladies stay far away from this one.
@bellaapple21662 жыл бұрын
Exactly a fool should be able to read her. Yet so many people would be fooled by people like this .
@SharonStar622 жыл бұрын
Independant??? Living free in her fathers home no job apperently not paying any bills due to her only income is food stamps for food!!
@freudianslip21922 жыл бұрын
Apparently, food stamps in some areas can be exchanged for cash. Or you can receive cash instead of food stamps. Something like that.
@malikahharris88106 ай бұрын
Why not be a childcare provider… you see the need in your area ,she says she loves kids. Help yourself
@moblack58836 ай бұрын
because that requires work
@erickaweaver29672 ай бұрын
Exactly
@twink62352 жыл бұрын
She over here looking for a man, she need to be looking for a job. Priorities all messed up!!!
@JacobSammer2 жыл бұрын
Struggle sesh for life. Said that she gets no support from her family after saying that her dad pays the house. Kendra's right, she's crazy.
@GoddessBlueYozakura72 жыл бұрын
No you didn't hear her. The father moved out because he got married. The house was ALREADY PAID OFF!
@lineialquantum2 жыл бұрын
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 even worse smh
@ThunderKat20122 жыл бұрын
Her father really blessed her…owning a house is generational wealth…if she was smart she would move out and rent the house…get a job and have double income.
@GoddessBlueYozakura72 жыл бұрын
@@lineialquantum Even better! That's how it's supposed to be. Black women are so used to these sperm donor leaving them nothing that they don't realize leaving a paid off home to a child is customary in other groups.
@GoddessBlueYozakura72 жыл бұрын
She's not crazy but she does seem rather " mentally young" almost sheltered if you will. I don't think that makes her bad , she just got caught up " SUBMITTING" to a bum. That happens more often than not.
@blah21blah22blah232 жыл бұрын
This is thee most disturbing, unsettling, sad and delusional interview I’ve seen on this channel! Let’s all pray for this young lady son!
@Khaseenwar092 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@hanaayr2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about the boy too. You don't introduce men to your kid, especially your son unless you know you are going ot be with them. When you have kids you have to be especially cautious.
@blah21blah22blah232 жыл бұрын
@@hanaayr I agree 100%. A man is the very last thing she should be worrying about right now!
@thespiderman6302 жыл бұрын
Imagine the reaction if a man was saying all of this 😑
@hanaayr2 жыл бұрын
@@thespiderman630 a man saying he don't work and wants a woman to date him and his kid? Yeah, imagine that.
@BOG690 Жыл бұрын
This too much . . . The dating pool is POLLUTED
@itsSimmonds2 жыл бұрын
People love to DATE with no JOB! Smh
@dametrataylor16102 жыл бұрын
That comment had me tickled! Lol
@freudianslip21922 жыл бұрын
Women*
@itsSimmonds2 жыл бұрын
@@freudianslip2192 men too
@stacygordon98362 жыл бұрын
Priorities first baby girl. Please make sure what you are asking for you can also give. I wish you all the best as well on your journey. "Remember if you aren't whole you can't fully give to a relationship".
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@nilaja-itsmylife2 жыл бұрын
There are men who provide for women. Being a mother is a job.
@odin51882 жыл бұрын
Hence why she shouldn't go through with a pregency if she doesnt think the father is suitable. She had all the power to decide. Now she's on her own with no job, thinking about taking her son on a date... Madness, no accountability
@nilaja-itsmylife2 жыл бұрын
@@odin5188 hmmmm, what are your views on the possible reversing of Roe vs. Wade?
@Jakyjoseph2 жыл бұрын
There are men who provide for women who have THEIR children.
@odin51882 жыл бұрын
@@nilaja-itsmylife I care not as I'm not in the US Men and women should have equal rights before a child is born imo
@nilaja-itsmylife2 жыл бұрын
@@odin5188 I find it interesting that you don’t care because you’re not in the US yet your original comment is about a US situation… Yet, in regards to equal rights. In this case, they both had equal rights to protection while engaging in relations & choose otherwise
@missvalisha Жыл бұрын
What’s especially crazy about this one is that she is probably one of the more articulate and effective communicators about what she wants that I’ve seen on this show. She definitely needs some mentoring but she seems like she might be teachable under the right circumstances and while on some birth control. 🥴
@radonspace20985 ай бұрын
Wish you the best as a mentor.😅
@antoniotula2622 жыл бұрын
When you thought you reached the lowest, someone pulls up with a shovel.
@epicureanatheart32392 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ultimateluv4u2 жыл бұрын
😂
@markiagaines69332 жыл бұрын
That’s why I ❤️ your show Kendra! Everything is with love and unapologetic realness! not to tear nobody down! I caught 333 while writing this! Good day Loves ☕️💗💗💗
@armiem.67412 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable !!!!!!!! 🤦🏽♂️, As a wise man used to say, "You can't make this shit up" the audacity.
@ud5582 жыл бұрын
Man on man.. i really really miss kevin samuels
@ud5582 жыл бұрын
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@tatijas2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😳
@JazzDimpless Жыл бұрын
And I’m 25 girl you is not 25 .
@gemdre2 жыл бұрын
There are people with full time office jobs on Food Stamps! Yes, I was one of those. Kendra, your comment really was out of order. You're stereotyping what someone on food stamps looks like?!
@bunnyrivera7652 жыл бұрын
Yup...the :working poor" is the term if you haven't heard of it already Working full time and still falling below the poverty level Just a new form of slavery for ALL of us
@odog765432 жыл бұрын
There's also a lot of people abusing food stamps. Lying on the forms about their actual address and number of people living in the home. Selling food stamps because they don't really need them, so they can get cash to buy Marijuana and liquor. Most of the people I know on food stamps don't look the part, because one might assume that all people on food stamps are destitute. The people I know on food stamps still go to the club on weekends with a new outfit and they smoke and drink, then complain about not having enough money for rent, gas, or food despite selling half their stamps.
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
@@odog76543 exactly
@greatestever80sbaby2 жыл бұрын
Why no rebuttal? You bum.... don't try to normalize government assistance ol lazy broad.
@rickeytheentrepreneur27432 жыл бұрын
These titles be wild!!! LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@madcobra24442 жыл бұрын
I read "The titties be wild"
@SINCE-762 жыл бұрын
"I AM INDEPENDENT" SAYS THE WOMEN ON FOOD STAMPS.. CAN'T MAKE THIS SHIT UP!
@AnonymousNobody-k3d2 жыл бұрын
And in a paid for house
@who.i.am.65492 жыл бұрын
She made a long ass list on paper on what she wants out of a man and what she likes to do......😂🤣😅 wow
@SINCE-762 жыл бұрын
@@who.i.am.6549 😂😂😂😂😂
@daron46352 жыл бұрын
I met a woman the other day who is on section 8 and said she has her own this is the mentality these women have government housing is having your own
@andromedaceleste27358 ай бұрын
I told my husband the other day, "I don't need a man!" (We get his and hers food stamps in SoCal.) We chuckled.
@DeeBee7O7 Жыл бұрын
"Ill bring my son on the date." Damn you willing to bring your child around ppl you don't know willingly. Sheeeesh.
@Onyxoko2 жыл бұрын
“High value men” don’t care about a woman’s money/ accomplishments right? There you have it.
@QueenSheba432 жыл бұрын
this is the comment I was looking for..🤣🤣🤣 because.. she's young.. pretty.. one child.. meh.. I'm sure she'll find someone 💯💯
@jimmyejohnson11872 жыл бұрын
Ain't no high value man or high value woman trying to sign up for her bullshit and all those chins. Ain't working OR working out.
@TheGooch1232 жыл бұрын
“High value men” are sought after by 8 out of 10 women. So he has the option to pick what he wants. Not a basket case thats looking for a savior and wants you to date her and her child.
@flexicus110513 күн бұрын
I am a man, and I have never agreed with that. I only deal with women who are successful, and who are not losers.
@CatinaWillis2 жыл бұрын
She's contradicting everything she says.. Sounds like lies to me.
@upsidedown5842 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing. She kept saying this or that doesn’t matter but he has to have at least…. So then it does matter. Very manipulative way of speaking.
@devionbrown50792 жыл бұрын
Agree
@katinphilly13122 жыл бұрын
She is picky about who she leaves her child with but wasn’t picky about who she made the child with. Also, Kendra was very discreet when she tried to call out that this woman is on welfare but spends $ at the salon, lashes, make up. She damn well knew she was being called out and didn’t have the guts to own it
@The-Oneness112 жыл бұрын
I used to be on welfare and I still bought make up and did my hair although I had to use very cheap products. There is nothing wrong with that.
@Christine_10752 жыл бұрын
I don't know if Kendra knows the struggle But full-time workers who still don't make enough money get assistance for food stamps nothing wrong with it get help where you can especially when you don't have support from your family Js🤷🏽♀️.
@The-Oneness112 жыл бұрын
Sometimes something so little as simply wearing a little make up and trying to look beautiful can help you though depression. Being poor and on welfare is very depressing.
@JDMHaze2 жыл бұрын
thats the excuse women use for not letting dad see the kids or not having a job
@konye6182 жыл бұрын
@@Christine_1075 ... This woman in this particular case does not work. She said so herself
@MICHELE1934 Жыл бұрын
She looks a lot older than 25
@TennesseeTraders2 жыл бұрын
this is the perfect example of someone not looking for a help mate.. they're just looking for help... sad
@ppen622 жыл бұрын
Food stamps don’t pay for utilities and a cell phone. These are the questions Kendra fail to ask her. Revised ok you can get assistance for a cell phone so how is she paying for water, gas and electric. She’s probably laying up or selling food stamp in exchange for money to pay those bills pay. To be honest about her situation 4 years of not having a job but yet she’s on here wanting a man to do for her and another man child. Instead of looking for a job that doesn’t sounds like a person worry about having money for paying any bills or wanting a job ? She’s thinking about the long run that’s ahead of her. Evidently she gonna need a steady flow of money coming in as her child gets older and tricking and or selling food stamp gonna get old sooner or later.
@ricostyles77752 жыл бұрын
Right
@riri445_2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@JDMHaze2 жыл бұрын
wifi too
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen1642 жыл бұрын
You can get a free cell phone while on public assistance
@sheambitious29lachelle172 жыл бұрын
agreed
@MissDeenaB942 жыл бұрын
I’m a single mother who works from home and also receive SNAP benefits…. But I also don’t plan on being on it forever. I also started doing press on nails and in the process of looking into other side businesses. This is the biggest reason why I’m not dating now, no child care. But I’m also sitting my ass down somewhere. I want to be married one day, but now is not the time to make me a wife. I still have a LOT of growing and learning to do
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
Same here!
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
Go girl preach you can do it mama!
@MissDeenaB94 Жыл бұрын
@@godsgirl7201 same to you!!! And thank you 🖤
@godsgirl7201 Жыл бұрын
@@MissDeenaB94 ♥️
@ShaSha-kq6th Жыл бұрын
Listen!! I work and got an EBT card to IDGAF! I'm blessed to even get them. This food increase is insane and I'm taking all the help to feed myself F who judging!
@moblack5883 Жыл бұрын
The audacity to be unemployed on a dating show.
@jayschipp75292 жыл бұрын
Baby mamas aren’t looking for love, they’re looking for help!!
@Isabella-qi2fd2 жыл бұрын
Definitely not true
@ShawntrellM2 жыл бұрын
That babymama! I was a baby Mother, before my husband..I worked three jobs, how I did it Only God knows...& I went to school.... she make the baby Mothers look bad
@greatestever80sbaby2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.... of course there is are going to be women in the comments saying that they are the exception. Most of them are bums who had a baby with a man because they thought that man would take care of them for life.
@alanajones4553 Жыл бұрын
She wants to be a housewife
@flexicus110513 күн бұрын
@@alanajones4553that's what women resolve to be after they've failed at everything else in life.
@jasminebell41652 жыл бұрын
The fact she’s unemployed is crazy it’s so many jobs for stay at home moms 🤦🏽♀️
@itzjess882 жыл бұрын
Where can I find them? I'm in the country as well. No high-speed internet tho.
@jasminebell41652 жыл бұрын
What state do you live in I have a Facebook group and TikTok where I post remote jobs
@vyxenthemua2 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with having food stamps because groceries are high as hell! Imma say this, I get why she's single and how she's all over the place but I work, have my own place, a car, good job and I'm a single mom. When you live in a small town the pool of single good men who actually want to build with you are slim to none. And the older you get whether you have one child or 5 that list gets even smaller. She has no business dating right now but there's alot of factors why someone could be single. I don't have family or an evening baby sitter for my kid so dating is not an option right now. I would never bring a child on a date. But she is looking to get out of her situation. I do feel like she should date when she moves to a better city and have childcare.
@Mr-Cee10 ай бұрын
There is definitely something wrong with getting food stamps when you choose not to work. No one owes her anything free.
@jay43419 ай бұрын
Food stamps and looking to date. Get your priorities in order
@marrrweee Жыл бұрын
I think Toni is a very kind and genuine and lovely person. She would probably be an amazing wife and mother and that’s probably what she wants idk though from just this glimpse of her psyche. She is very very respectful and I can tell she was raised right. I honestly hope somebody does decide to not “save” her or that’s fine if that’s what y’all wanna call it but choose her to be their wife, partner, mother to their child because as long as that person is a provider I’m sure the family will be cute and happy. That’s all I wanted to say. Y’all really do expect a lot from women these days which is fine ( I am a truly independent woman with a good job & amazing college education making more than a lot of folks on here ask for, and I’m really being the devils advocate bc I do not want to be a housewife) but at the same time I do understand and appreciate traditional values and I feel like this woman has them authentically. It’s a shame that women are shamed when they authentically embrace the traditional gender roles that so many folks complain about folks neglecting. There is definitely a massive double standard and shade towards women who just want to be a good wife and mom and not work. I don’t get it, but I do. Again, I just hope the right man comes along to assist in providing that type of wholesome upbringing for that young boy and that space of peace and financial stability for that lovely woman. 🤞🏽
@JaxxOxx Жыл бұрын
You really typed all that? 😅
@legalizepidgin8230 Жыл бұрын
Are You not the right man?
@brendawilliams5181 Жыл бұрын
I'm 😢 Dead😅
@walterbrown2425 Жыл бұрын
😒 bye🤦🏿♂️
@ratedn4nia2 ай бұрын
You think she’s so great message her and take her out on a date
@dollhouseq15302 жыл бұрын
How convenient that she claims to not want saving but... She messaged a previous guest that is responsible, has money, successful, and living in his purpose
@DrMathOfficial2 жыл бұрын
How do you know she messaged a previous guest?
@dollhouseq15302 жыл бұрын
@@DrMathOfficial It's in THIS video. Go to the 10:49 mark
@hustlesoldseparately79882 жыл бұрын
She is in court with the child's father for custody issues. He is probably stable and she won't let him have his child. She can go back into the military and date if she would relinquish time with the child. She is not independent if she is not working and recovering assistance from the state while living in her father's home. I would never
@JDMHaze2 жыл бұрын
bingooo!!!!! those 1st 2 sentences .... spot on i bet lol
@bknatural_e2 жыл бұрын
Seems like that’s her only source of insurance for food stamps and possibly tax benefits. Could also be her only source of sanity.
@brianjenkins31092 жыл бұрын
Never fails. Single mother with a toddler, trying to date... Surviving on food stamps, trying to get child support.. WTF 😐. Sounds like she's a little slow...
@mzparalegal20102 жыл бұрын
5 isn't a toddler tho 🤷🏾♀️
@brianjenkins31092 жыл бұрын
@@mzparalegal2010 The child is too young for the mother to be focusing on another dude. Raise your kids first, start dating when the child is 17 or 18 and almost out of the house...
@mzparalegal20102 жыл бұрын
@@brianjenkins3109 you sound dumb right now. Focusing on your child does not negate your ability to date. A woman DOES NOT have to wait until her child is grown to date. If you think so, you should do the same!!
@back_2_basicsPodcast Жыл бұрын
Kendra: "What are you looking for in a man"? Her response should be: Whatever i can get at this point in my life Kendra.