She is Plus Size BUT Will Not Date a Man who is Plus Size!

She is Plus Size BUT Will Not Date a Man who is Plus Size!
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[@harlemnights4381]

What’s really funny is how she said she’s not attracted to fat men with a slight look of disgust so she knows being fat is unattractive but it shouldn’t apply to her 😂😂😂it’s so many that think like this is sad

[@TheCruzan26]

It is and they see nothing wrong with it. Very strange!

[@harlemnights4381]

@@TheCruzan26 they basically want men to be exceptional while they stay mediocre 😂😂😂I usually ask what makes you think a man with his shit together who is disciplined and ambitious ect would truly encourage poor behavior .How could you respect a man that doesn’t encourage healthy habits that will benefit both of your lives .He can’t even throw you out the window or carry you out if a fire happens they so damn greedy they don’t think about simple survival they can’t run or climb a gate one flight of stairs can’t even fucking breath oh but being big doesn’t mean unhealthy

[@TheCruzan26]

@@harlemnights4381 Lmao 🤣. I couldn't agree more. Damn!

[@sabaande]

But but but... it's body positivity when it comes to overweight women right? When it comes to overweight men though, it's disgusting and not attractive. The double standards is unreal! That lady is delusional.

[@mrs.w8193]

Exactly delusion. She doesn’t realize that most fit and athletic people are likely also into their appearance and so will be less accepting of someone who looks like they don’t take care of themselves.

[@faraday1178]

Regardless of your preferences, it’s also nice to face the reality that people that fit your preference also have their own expectations.

[@landonprice5656]

Ice Billion Berg- She Different from yours

[@kuja5809]

Women don't want men to have standards or preferences

[@bxvs2732]

@@kuja5809 lies...y'all don't want women to have preferences..... alot of pot belly men try and rap to me...and I have an amazing body..so by your logic why are they trying to holler as if I want them....I like men that are built nice too...lol.... 😂...so now what..lol ..Why they trying to holler at me for..lol......But my point is....If you bigger and can get someone smaller great ..I'm not mad at it...I'm just saying...a big guy can get a small girl and big girl can get a small guy..

[@kuja5809]

@@bxvs2732 you're the only one lying 🤥 here it's pathetic and embarrassing. Any and all red pill channels tell men not single mothers are not their best option. Please go seek professional help for cognitive dissonance behavioral therapy

[@e3xiii315]

@@bxvs2732 facts. I think it even boils down more to people don’t like when fat people have preferences.Big people get with small people all the time because opposites do attract. It’s really not an impossible standard .There are so many thin men that like thick women it’s like so common! We did not get the same reaction whenever a thin or in shape person says they like a thick or bigger person. No one says you’re a thin why don’t you want somebody who’s thin?

[@swilliams9511]

Nothing wrong with plus size people having a preference… just be ready to accept the reality.. most in shape people prefer other in shape people. I have been told I’m too skinny and I don’t let it bother me. My husband likes it lol

[@cali2468]

That is not true at all. I know quite a few guys...sharp looking dudes who like plus size black women. And I don't think she said she required a man with a six pack, she just doesn't want a man who's the same size as her. It's no different than a short woman who prefers tall men. The mindset of some people nowadays just blows my mind.

[@dandaddaoneready]

U will be a crazy woman if you let them fool you an then you turn plus size, you wouldn't have a husband

[@sandranorton53]

@@cali2468 The FEW you know is not MOST PEOPLE! Rarely would you find people saying their ideal partner should be fat. Even the women that are fat don't prefer to be fat. Know the difference between MOST and a FEW!

[@cali2468]

@@sandranorton53 Fit people marry plus size people all of the time. Lastly, stop yelling. 🙄

[@sandranorton53]

@@cali2468 not ALL of the time sweetheart. Most times fit people marry and PREFER fit people. They may SETTLE for a fat person but if they can snap their finger and that fat partner become slim they WILL snap that finger. Heck even the fat person will BEG them to snap their finger.

Kendra has one hell of a poker face!!! 🤣

[@manup6131]

You are beautiful. Too bad you don't see me. Salute to you anyway!

[@kevonwelton8040]

She sure as hell do 😂

[@iamjoyt]

🤣

[@pReCiOuStHePiMpCeSs]

Lol no she doesnt! I think her face is so expressive! She says everything she needs to with her face🤣🤣

[@Nicholes-Dad]

A big girl that desires a fit man has created an awfully shallow (pun intended) dating pool for herself.

[@Carameldamour]

They are men who like that...

[@domotemujin7780]

@@Carameldamour exactly. Idk why ppl can't respect that. Ppl constantly bringing up health like slim ppl don't have diabetes and lifestyle diseases and die everyday

[@Carameldamour]

@@domotemujin7780 Big does not necessarily equates unhealthy.

[@ChristopherInTexas]

@@Carameldamour this video is about her, stay on point please.

[@Carameldamour]

@@ChristopherInTexas forgive me for not staying on *your* point.

[@hovac1987]

I love how she is holding women accountable

[@vivianabih]

the women

[@viciousreasoning504]

She holds everyone accountable

[@malikgordon5230]

@@viciousreasoning504 But we are talking about women. Women rarely get hold accountable.

[@viciousreasoning504]

@@malikgordon5230 but on her show she holds everyone accountable

[@olaakande5581]

So after going on Kevin Samuels, she’s now doing the same exact thing he does & sees the hypocrisy in the way a lot of women think. Lol pure hilarity.

[@thoughtbodymanifest]

Bravo to you, Kendra, for not giving a pass to obese woman while blasting obese men for seeking an in shape mate! You should not ask for what you cannot supply!

[@TheMoonDejesus]

Except people like different things. Some thin men only like fat women. That’s like saying short women shouldn’t date tall men. We are not attracted to exactly what we are. Broke women date rich men.

[@georgiapeach5104]

@@TheMoonDejesus bullshit lol weight can be changed and to be overweight and not in shape yet require someone you date be in shape that’s laughable and downright foolish. Lose weight before you require someone else to be smaller than you are yourself. Having a preference is absolutely fine but come down to reality.

[@TheMoonDejesus]

@@georgiapeach5104 I weigh 115. I’m just saying people like different things. I don’t sleep with men that don’t have abs personally but I don’t have abs. My body is feminine and the men I’m with who are usually athletes don’t want my body to be muscular like theirs. Most athletic men don’t like fat women, but some do. She’s only narrowing her pool.

[@TheCruzan26]

Thank you!

[@bxvs2732]

@@georgiapeach5104 I'm sorry but people like who they like every one is not meant to be super in Shape...my body is bangin and u have a fast metabolism... periodt..I'm naturally genetically more athletic then most women ..so it easier for me..... every women cannot be a a size 2-8...same with height you can't help it ...Let people like who they like...if a women likes a bigger guy great .if a man like a bigger women great

[@jazmynbrown6820]

She doesn’t want a man her size because she really dislikes her own size. It’s just low self-esteem. She wants someone opposite of her, someone that doesn’t remind her of herself. It gets deep.

[@Spokentruths725]

That is deep smh because you have to still live in this body and look at yourself on a daily.

[@harlemnights4381]

Underrated comment

[@omniking9631]

Not necessarily. It's really not that deep. Most people are just not attracted to fat people. She just not attracted to fat men. It doesn't mean a Midget have self esteem issue because they don't like other Midgets. You like what you like.

[@jazmynbrown6820]

@@omniking9631 if she ain't attracted to fat people, then why she fat?

[@TheCruzan26]

@@jazmynbrown6820 Great question!

[@zerandrianmorris]

Basically she just told us that she's disgusted by her own body. 😭😭

[@iamjoyt]

Facts!!

[@jay4341]

She’s 42, wasted her prime child bearing years, and fat. There’s a reason she’s single and will most likely stay single.

[@maxxfatal]

Proving again that 'body positivity' is total bs.

[@bobbym1799]

It's not b.s just don't apply to men it's sexist but women don't want to talk about that

[@digigum5996]

@@bobbym1799 if it doesn’t apply to men you just proved it’s B.S.

[@bobbym1799]

@@digigum5996 no its not its a real problem it should apply to men but it don't it's sexist

[@TheMoonDejesus]

That last dude is just like the women that are overweight and don’t think so. I feel like the black community has a warped idea of what isn’t fat.

[@harlemnights4381]

We definitely do like most of the illnesses that kill us are because of our diet an lack of exercise. You ever had a friend or family tell you about their health issues then you bring up have tried eating healthier an exercising they get offended like “no it’s not that “ it’s runs in my family!

[@TheMoonDejesus]

@@harlemnights4381 100 smh people do that with a lot of things. Anytime a problem might be rooted in choices people get offended because they’re committed to the narrative that they’re the victim. I suffer from depression but I’ve learned that it’s part chemistry which can be helped by supplements and it’s part how I let my mind run. You tell people that and they come for your throat.

[@moneyman8777]

To be fair, 6’1 the ideal body weight does not start at 166 lol that’s the ideal weight for a guy 5’6

[@reese4898]

​@@moneyman8777 yeah he's bigger than 180 I'm 6'1about 220 he's bigger than me so that puts him around 250 260 he'd be skinnier if he was 180

[@jes6161]

@@harlemnights4381 THIS - my mother (I love her dearly) just shuts down the conversation whenever I bring up diet & exercise. And I’m overweight and trying to lose weight and I’m being told that I will never get skinny because that’s how I’m supposed to be shaped as a black girl. Black people are just very delusional when it comes to weight & health. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@waventures855]

I appreciate Kendra holding women accountable for their weight preferences and calling out the double-standard. This is the definition of “keep that same energy”.

[@BIGREDD9305]

Big niggas look and smell good she’s crazy.

[@danielleb.7107]

Watching Kendra G and Kevin helps me realize how delusional I am. A relationship with God and a healthy mentality is way important than trying to get someone else to fill that void.

[@zoozagt5]

I've realized the same

[@AmieWest]

Yesssssss!!!! Great job Kendra!! Women and their double standards today are outrageous!!

[@jankam2418]

This is the best makeup for Kendra . It matches her complexion and brings out her features. She’s beautiful !

[@tereseelizabeth]

She does look Beautiful!!!

[@beb5407]

She always looks beautiful ❤️

[@KayKay-jt7qv]

So basically she don’t like herself. So basically she wouldn’t want to be with someone who shows her the bad habits she does as well. So basically she wants a guy the opposite of her because she doesn’t like her own lifestyle. So basically she’s a delusional social worker.

[@iamjoyt]

Basically!!!

[@dmcneal08]

Girl bye. I’m plus size and I would take a man who is plus size as well. As long as he can get out of the bed.

[@aminah761]

Lmaoooo

[@VolleyballAddict521]

😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sloppygirlz]

Right

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

I wouldn't I'm a size 16-18 and I wouldn't take a plus size man if I was on the market he could kick rocks with his fat jiggly ass

[@mikeandmars2345]

Dam when keeping it right go right 😂

[@bwill7667]

I’m okay with her having standards. It just floors me that women (regardless of race) take offense when a man says the same thing this women says. I mean there’s a whole body positivity movement disguised as “self love” and “self acceptance”, when in truth, the below the surface talking points lead towards shaming man who don’t see the beauty in big women.

[@cali2468]

This woman literally said she was fine with a man not being attracted to a woman her size. You modern day beta males love to wine and complain about everything...just like females. Who raised y'all. SMH

[@bwill7667]

@@cali2468 Ouch! I see my statement triggered you 😂.Since you struggled to grasp the concept let me explain, “I was talking in general, not exclusively about this women”. But if that still bothers you carry on.

[@hayncn82]

I’m SO GLAD I don’t have to be in the dating market right now. It’s a real clown show out there on both sides!

[@brianbest6097]

I’d rather swim in the Nile with crocs than step foot in the dating market. Glad I have someone!

[@b.goddess1940]

I’m so grateful I got married at 23 cause this shit is bonkers I’m worried for our kids tho :/

[@cali2468]

What did this woman say that was so far fetched? Please, enlighten me...

[@dandaddaoneready]

Lol facts I can't wait to come out

[@abx6539]

@@cali2468 give her a shout out then Bruh.

[@LORDADONNIS]

Don't be a Nickel out here looking for a Dime - Lyfe Jennings

[@cynthiagipson8039]

Hell he cant even keep no one

[@marcojohnson8488]

I respect Kendra for holding both parties accountable

[@successful262]

Yeah telling people that they can't have preference get real

[@marcojohnson8488]

@rich girl Bella you can have preferences but you should match what you prefer or your preference might not prefer you

[@marcojohnson8488]

@rich girl Bella get real lol

[@nylotus]

She was honest and understands men wouldn't want her either. I don't see what the problem is.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Kendra, so glad you addressed the hypocrisy in her desires. I swear, women feel they should get whatever they’re attracted to while producing nothing for a man. Men are told to stay in our lane since we date. Most men over time reevaluate their likes. I’d love a model but I’m in decent shape. I want a Bette chance to find someone so I know my attraction do not matter.

[@iamjoyt]

Agreed!!

[@latashapayne6333]

I feel just like this woman

[@hotboiii_ced215]

Good for keeping it G Kendra. The “it’s a preference” excuse is a reason to make themselves feel better about themselves.

[@iamjoyt]

Agreed!!

[@kevonwelton8040]

Kendra looked confused when she said she's not attracted to plus size men 😂😂😂😂

[@tdagbo]

Talk about double standard

[@kevonwelton8040]

@@tdagbo right

[@keshaunthompson8294]

Why she gotta like plus size men because she is plus sized? We all are allowed to have a preference in regards to what we are attracted to. The problem for me is when folks look at what they are not attracted to with total disgust and put them down for being who they are. As a plus size woman myself I refuse to let folks tell me I have to be with a plus sized man because I sure as hell don't always see skinny with skinny and tall with tall, short with short etc.

[@tdagbo]

@@keshaunthompson8294 the problem is it’s rooted in self hate. If you can’t go out with someone who looks like you why would you be surprised that many men don’t want to date oversized women and only screw them in the dark?

[@jabbaweezy]

Thanks for calling them out both ways.

[@am_bee_yah]

Everyone is alright with someone else having their preferences until they don’t meet those preferences

[@merinajalaya740]

Kendra you are so pretty in this video 💕

[@Simply.Breanna]

Kendra’s makeup looks 🔥

[@omarepps77]

Thank you Kendra! I appreciate the honesty finally. You won me over. I appreciate the statement that you ride with your sisters (thus admitting you're biased) because your attitude switches when dudes say certain things but laugh when women say the same. So in THIS video at least you kept it fair.

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

Delusional. Completely delusional. 🤷🏻‍♂️🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

[@GloriaRosarioRivera]

Ppl that deal with crazy ppl are crazier

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

@@GloriaRosarioRivera - Well said. 👏🏻👍🏻

[@reactionswithalmighty]

LET THEM LADIES KNOW KENDRA ❤️💯

[@ChristopherInTexas]

Her list is too long considering her market value. Chasing fit men didnt work out for her. Sure they hit it but none claimed her and even less considered her appropriate to be a mother. If they fresh and fit in Florida don't trust em

[@Roccofan]

What gets me is that she was married. At her age and weight, I’m thinking you move mountains to make that work, but maybe she did. Things happen.

[@Nicholes-Dad]

The operative phrase is 'considering her market value'.

[@MrsNicolas]

@@Roccofan Not necessarily 🤷🏽‍♀️ if she has an idea of what type of guys are more likely to want to marry her, then some women are okay with risking divorce. I'll use myself as an example. I've noticed a pattern of what type of men likes to propose marriage to me vs which ones just wanted to string me along for months or years. At first I didn't think anything of it, but by the 4th one I noticed the commonality they all shared. This allowed me to increase the probability of obtaining a mate who has that trait, but also has several of my other preference and requirements in a mate. The only thing I wish is that I saw the pattern sooner, because it could've save me time.

[@mrs.w8193]

I doubt they even hit it. Maybe in secret. Most fit guys aren’t attracted to obesity. When you are fit you have a certain mentality. I’m talking not the people who occasionally go to the gym here and there. A fit person has a certain mindset. Unless they are chubby chasers, they would look down on the lifestyle of obesity and unhealthy habits. Plus obese people can’t keep up. It’s like being on different wave lengths

[@tdagbo]

I see what you did there: chasing fit men won’t work out for her 😂 BARS

[@slowburnraloh1807]

Kendra G looking nice😍

[@tashahall1855]

I mean it’s a lot of ppl that want someone who is their opposite and call it preferences. Dark skin wanting light skin, old wanting young, unattractive wanting attractive , poor wanting rich , etc. Most ppl just don’t see anything wrong liking what they like.

[@reese4898]

foh fit people on average aren't marrying overweight people there's acceptions to the rule but that's not the reality for the majority she's delusional and so are you

[@Gree1060]

She went harder on the brother than the sister.

[@NiKaHikari]

10:47 "I wouldn't say someone is lucky to have me" 🤣

[@stackzdollaz9508]

Love when Kendra Keeps it 💯💯💯💯

[@magicworld3242]

You can have a preference, as long as you understand. Your preference may not be interested in you.

[@malissacalhoun3608]

I’m overweight , after having a baby. I have a five year old. But I also can run 2 miles in less than 25 minutes. It’s just hard to lose weight. But I always attract men in shape. The size doesn’t matter to me, as long as he can keep up with me. Overweight doesn’t always mean unhealthy.

[@jmelanierenee]

I cannot 🤣

[@eon001]

I'm an athletic guy that actually like plus size women. We like what we like. 🤷‍♂️

[@manup6131]

Do you like that, though?

[@domotemujin7780]

Thank you! I'm like, y'all realise ppl like fat women right? It's like they can't win

[@eon001]

@@manup6131 I do. I've happily dated ladies Lizzo size. I don't do the my 600lbs life sh1t. That's were i draw the line lol.

[@eon001]

@@manup6131 yup

[@manup6131]

@@eon001 I mean how she looks, not her size.

[@dondattaford5593]

I totally get why the Wall is what it is this woman has been defeated by her own standards

[@e3xiii315]

Sexual compatibility is important and there are men who are not overweight but like thicker and bigger women and vice versa it’s not impossible to work with that preference. My boyfriend is tall and skinny weighs about 150 pounds I’m short and weigh 190 and he loves it ,and I prefer men who are tall and skinny I’ve had no trouble finding that.

[@mikeandmars2345]

💯💯💯

[@pocahontas4583]

Same here. The athletes are the main guys that hit on and show interest in me. Most people seem surprised if I say my actual weight though. I guess I carry it differently because I’ve always been complimented on my body and do like to work out but I’m still considered “plus size”.

[@e3xiii315]

@@pocahontas4583 I’m a size 14-15. And a part of it also goes into how you carry yourself. People are attracted to people who are happy ,dress well and smell good. Play thick and plus size women get with men who are smaller and in shape. And its fun in the bedroom because my boyfriend can reach all of the places that maybe a guy who weighs the same as me or more probably couldn’t lol. Though 200 pounds on the man is not that much but you get my point lol.

[@sacoope1]

It is better to adopt than be a baby mama especially for a BM.

[@lemonadelemon1960]

My list 1.has a face 2.In my age range. 3. Is breathing. 4.good personality. 5. NO CRYING! The bar is in hell at this point.

[@PopLife-hb3ks]

Not me, I’d rather be alone.😳

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

you gonna get played with that mentality

[@FlowerGrl20]

I was agree with the in shape comment. You have to be what you want. For example if you want loyalty you need to be loyal. Same goes with weight. If you’re not in shape at least strive to get in shape.

[@debbyhenry5338]

I beg to disagree with you all. It is okay for her or anyone to have their preferences. There are men out there who likes big women and vice versa. I am never angry at someone who has a preference. That's there preference!!. Period.

[@yamahantx7005]

Hippo wants a cheetah. Fixed the title for you!

[@keashaqueen715]

Yall going down with these comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@exclusive_mack5238]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sexzimochaabvavg7651]

Kendras facial expressions never disappoint 🤣🤣🤣

[@LadyK007]

AT ALL!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bernardrussell5122]

I am so sick and tired of these overweight woman who thinks a man wants to see all that fatness. When them clothes come off. OMG!! Everything drops. They want a athletic type of guy. But, don't want to do anything to fix themselves. Except me as I am or nothing at all. That's what's she is saying. When you asked her whether she was working out. She said sometimes she does. That means she don't. Just bullcrap. I could never ever be with a big girl or plus sized woman. Unless she has a plan to lose weight. No More Talk.

[@Charlie_Alpha_Lima]

I just like how she doesn't have children out of wedlock. Good for her. Sorry to hear about your doggo

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

🤣🤣PAUSE! ROBERT DID YOU SAY IN SHAPE? 🤣🤣🤣

[@eb4459145]

I don't blame this young lady, she wants what she wants! But I love how fair and evenhanded Kendra's thinking is.

[@noseyandneutral]

I agrée with you. This is her preference and this is why she will be in a cycle of love based on vanity and insecurity.

[@ericag1057]

“Oh yeah! I definitely believe so”.🧑🏿‍🍳

[@ivyleaguestyles]

She didn’t say she wanted someone FIT she just said someone not big …those men said FIT/in shape & talked about statics like they aren’t included 🫠🤣

[@reese4898]

if he's not big that most likely means he's in shape you're doing mental gymnastics for what😂😂😂she another big girl who wants a fit man to make herself feel less disgusted she knows her value isn't that much especially at 41

[@ivyleaguestyles]

@@reese4898 wait so it’s either u fit or u obese ??? I feel like when she said not big she meant like a slim man or just a regular male body that’s not obese as hell …..I don’t think she wants a cut up muscle man ? I dont kno that’s what I consider fit! Someone who works out Often ? I could be wrong but whatever

[@ivyleaguestyles]

@@reese4898 why are you telling another human they aren’t valuable ?? Maybe she will find someone who loves her …maybe it will be a man you can’t even imagine ? Y’all too happy to tell a woman unless she looks like a 10 she don’t deserve nothing but the slums y’all crack me up !!!

[@reese4898]

@@ivyleaguestyles She probably just wants a skinny guy which is what she should just say a skinny guy us just skinny he's not "fit" but I didn't mean to come off as rude though I could've worded it better I apologize.

[@RetrogradeBeats]

in shape people generally do not like out of shape people to date big people cannot rationalize their way out of it. this is clown behavior

[@209design]

Accountability on both ends 👏👏👏 Kendra cooking 🍳🔪

[@derrickdiggs8152]

Thank you Kendra for pointing out the double standard when it comes to Women and their preferences as opposed to men and their‘s. Also, can you please bring back the Kendra cam?!? We need to see who these people are, and what they look like making all of these demands about what they want. I don’t wanna have to go to their page to see the obvious. Let us all See it together!

[@GreyMann2]

I have an athletic build, a bald head and a beard. I don't want a woman who has what I have. Why are we harping over her preferences?

[@seanwaller6017]

It's funny to hear some of these women like she's not attractive and has all these demands

[@msmulisha_winz1111]

She is not saying she does not like plus-size people 🙄 she said she doesn't want to date a plus size man because she's already plus-size. There is nothing wrong with that.

[@enrikpreka1126]

But when a man says the same thing is a problem right, he is fat phobic

[@eddieelliott1496]

I'm 5"9 210lbs and wear it well. I work out 5 times a week and I love women who are a lil juicy. I can't knock anyone for what they like ☺️but skinny women are not my cup of tea 💯✅

[@nekneversleep]

I was thinking the same thing , I see fit men with big ol churro eating thick women all the time. What you like in yourself may not necessarily be what you like in a woman.

[@eddieelliott1496]

@@nekneversleep when you get older as a man trust me you would choose personality over looks any day. Men just want that three-piece in life a piece of food, a piece of mind, and a piece of putang pie 👅

[@nekneversleep]

@@eddieelliott1496 oh wow

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@nekneversleep especially BM and their preferences talk all that mess about a woman need to be fit/in shape/not built like a linebacker. Leave my house everyday interracial couple BM in shape. Preference/non BW built like mini refrigerator

[@nekneversleep]

@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 super facts

[@BoiledKoolaid]

Plenty of men who aren't obese are attracted to women like her so I understand the mindset. She's not morbidly obese just extra thick.

[@TheQueenrevolution]

Here is where I don't think the rule is set in stone. I am a plus size girl and never dated big guys or teddy bear guys and I have NEVER had an issue in dating. Every guy that I've ever dated has been tall and lean (basketball player build). 🤷🏾‍♀️ including my current partner. I guess I don't see the issue because I've never had an issue lol. I curb slim and fit guys all the time. It's a myth that they don't like big women. I will say that I'm not a round girl, Im really tall and im Shapely but I'm big none the less. On the flip side, I know a good amt of Slim women who LOVE teddy bear guys. All my bigish guy friends and cousins have slimmer women. I don't judge big men for saying they like slimmer women. It is what it is.

[@thouwow4284]

Yeah but are you married tho?

[@mikenojones6861]

Lmao she gotta be joking, shout out to kemdra for calling her out tho

[@SheilaTrueLove]

I understand that people have a preference but I really don't like shallow and superficial preferences because people change along with their health situation can change causing their bodies and their looks to change I think people's preference should be that a person is healthy and not sickly but if a person gets sick throughout the years then that's understandable basing things off of a person's body size has never sit well with me. What does body size or how big someone's butt or breast is have to do with their personality, their character and what's in their heart those are the most important things that's going to cause relationships to last a lifetime looks and body images always change.

[@manup6131]

Good for you

[@terrencelee9366]

A man has to be attracted to you before all that other stuff comes into play. Women say stuff like this but you don’t see women running to these guys fresh out of college that live with their parents… all that sentimental stuff comes after.

[@manup6131]

@@terrencelee9366 Bro...click on her info.

[@RetrogradeBeats]

this is a clown comment

[@trigi1343]

She finally held them accountable wow 😮 👏🏼

[@skn2200]

I don’t think weight preferences are that big of a deal as long as you aren’t berating heavy people.

[@yomomma8237]

Ah I’m 32 and I fear so bad missing the boat… it hurt me to hear her say that. I even now try to realize it might not just happen for me. Still kinda sad

[@joeroot9142]

Don’t say that you never know.

[@bigtex8991]

41 and plus size with no kids. All men should run.

[@amilllion1]

Why? Men don’t turn 41 tf!

[@cali2468]

@@amilllion1 Exactly. And what's wrong with not having kids? These damn trolls I tell ya.

[@iamme7664]

Her redeeming quality is that she doesn’t have 3 kids by 3 dads. If she lost 60lbs she would look about 5-8 years younger and she might still have a chance to get remarried and have 1 kid.

[@mrbabyears]

Kendra is giving this women false hope. She is 41 about to be 42 years old and obese and unhealthy. No way in hell she should have children. And she is in South florida. Latinas in South florida are the best looking, most in shape women on average. This women isn't really in position to make alot of demands

[@donaldjohnson3696]

The delusion is strong within this one

[@brendasollers5252]

she my Capricorn twin in the building

[@Melissamy5]

No matter what my man has to be bigger than me he can pick me up. I’m not plus size My husband is strong and solid.

[@bfighter8930]

I remember the well spoken Chef, and the truck driver owner operator episodes.

[@indigobeauty1]

Her preference wasn't the problem...it was the tone and almost disgusted way she said it. No need to be disrespectful. You can turn down guys but have some class and respect while doing so. 😑

[@jennevamadison3803]

Ya know I know a slim skinny girl. Like 5'7" and 115-120 pounds. and she likes big dudes like 300 pounds. She called herself a chubby chaser. Do you think people told her she couldn't get a big dude and must stick with someone skinny? She happily married her dude! also I know vice verse skinny dude talk dude with average height plus size girl. All were decent people!

[@PopLife-hb3ks]

It’s ok that she’s plus size and doesn’t want to date plus size. That’s her “preference”. 🙂

[@tiffanynaomi5928]

Ummmmmm I'm skinny and I dont like skinny men so should I then get muscular so I can get a muscular man???????? What is the problem here .... skinny men normally tend to date big woman anyway .... since when was it a requirement to date someone with the same body type your attracted tooo Thank God I divested from this dating pool

[@ladyc.1525]

Totally agree with Meechie regarding her preferred! I can relate and everyone is entitled to their preferences including plus size women.

[@fangiscool1]

Agree, but the issue is your preferences can lead you to being forever single. There's not many fit men looking for big women.

[@jamessmith-zk4co]

Ms. Kendra is fair. She calls out both men and women. Good on her. I love her honesty and fairness.

[@AB-vb4sv]

That’s funny because if a broke fat man tells people he wants an in shape woman, I see a lot of pushback from women.

[@jamessmith-zk4co]

@@AB-vb4sv It happens all the time. However ,men tend to have a much better grasp of reality. Most men know when they are out of their league.

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@jamessmith-zk4co that’s because men face reality far sooner than women.

[@maia3420]

If you wouldn’t date yourself (opposite sex equivalent assuming you’re straight) you have work to do.

[@hurdyb1]

Accountability Kendra........people don't like that word!!!!!!!! Keep up the good work.

[@staceyadams7252]

Kendra your make up is flawless

[@afro_buddha4977]

People are so unrealistic with these list .. how do you prefer something you're not

[@PopLife-hb3ks]

There’s BP who don’t want to date BP. People have their preferences.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sloppygirlz]

I love a non bias channel.

[@neilgrandeurproductions898]

Even how Kendra G told the man about him being out of shape vs how she told this woman… you can see the difference. Never mind the audience. They are also inconsistent. But at the same time… i respect Kendra for holding the female audience accountable.

[@KingNez89]

Yessir I noticed that too

[@scooter9657]

The dude was so much more disrespectful and aggressive than the woman. She was soft spoken even though hypocritical.

[@petesfohn5659]

RESPECT KENDRA!! For calling ladies out on their silly double standard goofiness!!

[@elleivers9387]

Girl you nailed it by saying (you're open to) Because I'm like you he must be attracted to me first. I think she's referring to morbidly obese men.

[@moneyman8777]

I’m convinced women want to have the power when it comes to relationships with men. Why is it important he is attracted to you first? why is it necessary to say I’m open vs what I’m looking for? Sounds like a power play to me

[@noseyandneutral]

“You said in shape Robert?” “Can you move the phone back to see your shape?” “Are you in shape, Robert?” LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IT IS 5:23 AM AND I WANNA LAUGH VERY LOUD

[@Breezie51]

You are what you attract! Respectfully!

[@MrsClean1]

A woman should not weigh more than a man - Kevin Samuels

[@pink1237480]

I'm not plus size but I've dated some big men. There was this big teddy bear of a white man with blonde hair blue eyes who was so handsome

[@Mzmemphiz]

The audacity! Your preference is your own but be realistic when you have a hard time finding your mate. Reality can be very unkind when it hits you.

[@daniella8400]

But why not start working out and getting in shape. Why are you okay with being fat and putting your health at risk?

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

It's easy and she is still rewarded with attention and false hope so she doesn't see the need to change. Men in the other hand know we have to work on ourselves or we will recieve NO attention and validation

[@harlemnights4381]

That’s all I be trying to figure out but it’s easier to try an force acceptance of it than doing the work

[@daniella8400]

@@harlemnights4381 it’s all good until they have diabetes

[@daniella8400]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 men only need money & sometimes a good personality , their looks rarely ever matters

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@@daniella8400 well that is absolutely not true

[@onlyjoetee]

A relationship is WORK, if she doesn’t know this at 40 she never will

[@MrOfficer235]

I wish Kendra would add to her list of questions how much student loan debt these women have. That’s now a deal breaker for modern men.

[@manup6131]

There are men who want to be known as "modern?"

[@mybusinessnotyours8166]

Felonies should also be added to the list since that’s a deal breaker for modern women

[@harlemnights4381]

50k or better for useless degrees

[@shardaswitzer6903]

@@harlemnights4381 useless in wht sense? Because the job market is filled with professional black women!

[@beauphomasterpiece3795]

Felonies too

[@Senketsujin]

What kind of plus size though? Because there's levels to the plus size attractiveness. Also what's her IG exactly?

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

I would like to see what kinda big she is. If she Tabria Majors big then we working with something but a round Dr Robotnic shaped women is not where it's at

[@Senketsujin]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 🤣🤣 Damn Dr. Eggman

[@Senketsujin]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 But yeah, if she curvy and fat in the right places, guys would work with it.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@@Senketsujin yes the hourglass shape works at pretty much all sizes. I dont mind a fupa, stretch marks and cellulite on an hourglass shape. But let's be honest, they still rank below in shape women.

[@jetlifebih7853]

Plusmodelneche

[@prettyperfectpagne6226]

The chef was delusional tho like you big Bru

[@wholesomechick8259]

She can get a pookie looking for her taxes but a fit man who is disciplined enough to work out consistently would not approach her. They will only use her.

[@radiantgoldensun6438]

Bullshit, there are muscular men and skinny men who like big girls because they take ALL of the D.

[@jubernardi23]

@@radiantgoldensun6438 But this is not the rule is the exception.

[@iamme7664]

@@radiantgoldensun6438 that’s it…? Lmaoo. That’s the only reason they want them? That’s not a compliment. Good enough to take all the D but not good enough to take her to your Mom?

[@JesusSaves7810]

"Pookie" ? I am a plus size model ( well portioned 😉) that is engage to a lawyer who does martial arts training in his free time I walked the stage with the greats iskra lawrence, denise bidot, tabria majors and ashley graham etc.... So yeah what ? My thing is always practice being healthy I work out every day I choose to have a preference and I know what I want out of life This woman is beautiful she reminds me of garcelle Beauvais Let people be bruh