Kevin Kreider On Dating While Asian | Perspectives

[@dave-oh3549]

Let me tell you, this guy is considered a HOT Asian guy. Imagine what happens to the "average" Asian male.

[@xDrikenx]

Yeah theyre fucked basically, hell i dont think even in a apocalypse type of situation.

[@MaestroKong]

@@amylieu6084 You date white guys because they look more mature right? Because asian guys feel like brothers to you? This is very interesting and understandable. And you like the whiter skin. This is crazy. Most people have strong tendencies to date within their own ethnic groups yet we have bunch of asian girls going for white guys only. Please tell me your number one reason for this.

[@MaestroKong]

The problem is that most people have an ideal type and perception of universal beauty. White people just have more of these universal traits. Combined with this is the fact that they dominate entertainment worldwide. It's sort of no surprise the asian girl would want to date white men because of these things.

[@jnguyen6414]

What would an average American Asian guy look like?

[@ActiveAussie2024]

The average white guys and even above average looking white men are getting overlooked also. Sure, some Asian and white women in Western countries will automatically dismiss Asian men, even the good looking Asian men. This is more a societal problem than a racial one. It is gynocentrism and hypergamy causing the problem. Hence the enormous growth of MGTOW. Women are just not worth wasting the time, money, and energy in 2019.

[@kwak76]

This guy is very handsome. Imagine how the average asian guy struggles in the dating market. and yes it's racist in the dating market.

[@MsDesiree39]

well many asians are racist towards others for all kinds of reasons. Works both ways.

[@kwak76]

@@MsDesiree39if we are talking about dating its bit unique in the dating market where asian men are rank last. But asian women are not. Sometimes even asian women dont want to date asian men. So even if an asian men wants to be racist nobody would want him so I dont know how that would apply.

[@kwak76]

@@MsDesiree39 I don't know about that. I seen Asian families encourage at least the daughters to get a white man cause they think its moving up. With Asian guys the family holds back some thinking having an asian daughter in law is better. Saying that I knew a korean guy who dated a black girl. Black guys kept trying to steal his girl friend and yes he got harass by black folks. They eventually broke up. So when you say xenophobia. Lots of people are like that. Lots of white or black folks dont want no Asian son in law.

[@lFat7onyl]

He was adopted by a white family, so it's only natural for him to want date a white woman. What is wrong with him wanting to date outside of his race? As a human being told your not good enough because of your race is hurtful. It's not racist of these women to not be attracted to him but it's still a shot to the gut. He's attracted to what hes attracted to, even if they aren't attracted to him. The truth is, online dating doesn't work for Asian men. If Asian men want to date a white woman, they have to see your personality.

[@MsDesiree39]

+john, it works both ways, lots and lots of Asian folks would not want a white or esp black son or daughter in law. Works both ways

[@lorelreyes2728]

When he said “I didn’t want to be white, I wanted to be TREATED like I was white” wow powerful!!!!

[@doubledown8229]

@Delaney De Alba Waaah, waaaaah!

[@AABB-zb6dv]

When he said that he meant he wanted girls to date him.... Kinda entitled imo

[@healingandrestoration2807]

@Saana Sterling Well, whites are the very people treating him like shit so 🙄🙄

[@ScrewAtttackGirl]

@Starlin Peña East Indians were conquered by the British. Same with China. They are a very white-washed race of people.

[@unknown-unknown69]

@@ScrewAtttackGirl have you ever asked yourself what is white-washing and how to do it?

[@ausarking536]

Did anyone just keep staring at his bicep separation? My dude got hella Gains

[@the-based-jew6872]

@Minecraft Jesus Gaming lmao 🤣 What a nuclear cope and LIE

[@cjp2648]

Just imagine how it is for the Asian men who aren't as attractive as this guy. Society has shit on Asian men for years and women have bought into it.

[@tat3rs]

they won't teach you about this in your Social Justice 101 class!!

[@spencer5028]

Multiculturalism doesn't work, it's always going to be alienating to be a minority regardless of country, don't blame white own for your issues, in fact a very good solution is to move to Asia. The reality is white majority countries are the most open and accepting in the world, but racist "news" outlets like huffpo, owned by a certain clique of globalists, constantly push a racist and victim narrative.

[@tuck295q]

Spencer Austin-Martin it is true. Whatever race is the majority in that country, that majority will always discriminate the minority. It is wrong but it is a nature of things. I wonder how long will gay rights will last or will it ever be legalize across the globe. Because lgbtq, no matter where you go, it will always be the minority... unless you are on a cruising ship pool party. >_>

[@MsDesiree39]

Face the facts that many asian men are just not that attractive and women have much more to choose from to just settle.

[@cjp2648]

Society and the media choose to become sheep and followers unable to think for themselves and be easily manipulated into what they deem to be "attractive". So it's understandable for you to be so closed minded in your way of thinking.

[@tigerex777]

I'm a decent looking asian guy myself, sorry for lack of modesty, but I've heard that 'good looking for an asian guy' one too many times myself. The western media has put asian men in such a low place for so long.

[@moonwalker_-ny3um]

I laugh when Asians complain, because you don't see Police harassing or shooting an Asian man, you don't see the whites taking credit away from Asians for being advanced group of people. Asians are actually respected, they might not be worshipped like whites but they are still respected regardless of what anyone may say.

[@blossoms256]

@@moonwalker_-ny3um One group rightfully speaking up about the issues they face doesn't automatically negate the struggles of others. And people do take credit away from Asians because they are expected to excel, so the hard work that goes into reaching that level of success is undermined.

[@moonwalker_-ny3um]

@@blossoms256 see people only love to complain. noone takes credit away from Asians as advanced group of people. Asians have it way better in comparison to other ethnic groups.

[@iyana_245]

Dan L I understand your point but black men have it worst because people just see them as athletes ,singers & dancers black men are used as sex objects because girls want to see if the stereotype is true if their privates part are big & if they’re good in bed but you’re an Asian man you’re lucky people view you as a smart person at least

[@Makehimfamous]

Iyana Derosier speaking as a small Hispanic male (5’2 here checking in) trust me I’d rather be black. At least women are willing to give you a chance period for some reason. Try being 5’2 always being seen as an unmasculine a

[@paullee7776]

This guy is awesome. Thanks for the story. I feel you as an Asian man who grew up in a white society.

[@Mathewteen20]

But I feel that He is a Human who live in a human society. :)

[@spencer5028]

White socities are the most open and generous on the world. China andKorea are extremely xenophobic and racist in comparison, this guy seriously needs to check his privilege

[@anime9228videos]

Spencer Austin-Martin I'm kind of curious are you white? Seems a bit ironic telling him to check his privilege as if it's your privilege to know his life without ever meeting him.

[@MsDesiree39]

KN, get your facts straight. Alot of blcks can tell you about the type of racism they experience from asians so do not come on here and play the race card against whites and saying that whites are the problem. If you want to be respected and accepted as pple then U need to learn to see others the same way.

[@MsDesiree39]

miketo, you are no loss to females of any culture. Plenty of fish in the big sea called the planet earth.

[@derreckabate6296]

If this guy can’t get a girl, we’re fucked!

[@paulg6527]

I am filipino and get mistaken for latin all the time. These two women at a club wanted to talk to me and thought I was so handsome and wanted to know what my nationality was... I said I was filipino and they were shocked since they assumed I was Latin. They later said, "you should tell people you're latin."

[@paulg6527]

@Sono not to make assumptions, but I believe they were Latin. I mistake people's nationality all the time, but the context behind the comment was as if being Filipino/Asian does not equate attractiveness.

[@DnaTunes2k]

@@paoloshemlawas8981 no one is better...idiot

[@paoloshemlawas8981]

@@DnaTunes2k im better than you....fight me muaythai and youll see haha

[@lifetobelived9102]

That's incredibly stupid.

[@Flugs0]

humblebrag detected

[@destorybeautiful]

My god this guy is attractive..

[@subinct]

Not the nose he was born with. Denied his ancestors right there. Self hating loser.

[@paoloshemlawas8981]

*God

[@sosososososo4148]

@Chicha 17 Definitely not as much as in Korea.

[@ngythe1king]

@@subinct WHat you talking about "not the nose he was born with" do you have any proof of that claim? and don't tell me to go compare his kids pictures with him right now. I want to see legal proof otherwise you're just speaking out of your a$$

[@BiGSmoke-.-]

@书中自有黄金屋 자, 그들의 수준에 구부리지 마십시오. 나이가 어떻게 되세요? 성숙한 사람이 되고 더 나은 사람이 되시다. 다시 인종 차별함으로써 그들을 바로 증명하지 마십시오, 그것은 단지 당신이 아시아로 나쁜 보이게.

[@kingmorons1780]

if this dude struggle whe are all fuckup

[@Sonny13_]

@Archnid 001 then explain how there is billions of Chinese and 100 millions of other east Asian on this planet?

[@dwh971]

@@Sonny13_ because they don't really have choice?

[@TV-hx6hz]

Jake Park The problem is, I don’t find Asian women attractive

[@sheddspeaks9328]

I can understand his frustration as a black woman. Never hate who you are race wise. Own it and love it God will send someone who will love you for who you are, not solely based on race. ✊🏾

[@gigifabozzi5433]

Lol you can't compare the sexual market value of a man and a woman, he's a model and he struggles getting dates on tinder while I bet an average black woman can have tons of dates (maybe fewer then her white friends but still a shitload more then an asian model)

[@Bells723]

@@gigifabozzi5433 that's not true

[@dustynutz8930]

asian dude here with a black girl....man does she love me.....she tells me im a freak in the bed....if she fucks around...u know ima get me a another black girl....man, cant stop....love em

[@maxamillion2140]

preach ✊

[@Ajst1987]

Gigi Fabozzi and you know this how?

[@gachigasm3210]

This guy is an actual Chang and still struggles with dating. The absolute state of asian women

[@sasamihajlov2862]

It’s over

[@anzai5552]

*asian women in the west

[@NamTran-xc2ip]

Lol I look worse than this guy but I still have success. I get rejected a lot but same as my white mates

[@cum3448]

this guy wants a von sturmeldörfer white girl with blue eyes and blonde hair... its not gonna happen lol

[@elias197859]

@@cum3448 god dont we all though

[@007peter]

Amazing Video. I "was" also a fellow muscular Asian guy who grew up in American wishing to be WHITE. It takes me years to realized I don't want to be WHITE; what I really want is being treated with BASIC EQUAL RESPECT & DIGNITY as a human being. When I live in Asia for 6 months, I was blown away by experience of being treated as an actual human being (rather than a 2nd class citizen). Like Kelvin, I've come to a realization that (Self-Acceptance) is the FOUNDATION of all self-improvement. Repressing my "ASIANESS" doesn't make me "more White". My fellow Asian brothers & sister, we have to protect, treasure, and value one-another, instead of trying to compete who is more white.

[@former2081]

Can i ask you one thing sir do white girls think black men look more attractive than us asians?

[@MsDesiree39]

Show equal respect you';ll get equal respect

[@theia1653]

Peter Yang Not going to happen because we are beyond that and all of the king's men can't put this back together.

[@DivineAtheistWannabe]

It's just annoying when average white guys do fine in the dating game and reckon Asian guys are just being weird or doing something wrong or are just really stupidly.

[@MsDesiree39]

@@cynax7757, yeah, u keep being delusional while the reality of the dating numbers say something else, like the reality of it all. lmao!!

[@CaapriceTube1]

Asian men and us black women have it hardest in the dating world. Because our counterparts are the ones who date most interracially, black men and asian women. And usually, not all the time but in majority most Asian men only like their own women or white. And Black women it’s we like usually our own men or white and possibly latino and mixed at times aswell.

[@gangshitz9495]

CaapriceTube Indian got it worse

[@CaapriceTube1]

I find Indians tend to stay within the race, so there’s no big issues with the counterparts feeling any kind of disadvantage. At least here in Canada most stick together.

[@gangshitz9495]

CaapriceTube I know but it’s harder for them to find a partner that isn’t in their race because media made them look soo bad that I feel like it’s worse than Asian man or Black women get And it’s even worse in America to not find an Indian partner because population is really low their but in my opinion I believe the media is responsible for the mess they did toward Asian and Black

[@gangshitz9495]

CaapriceTube Canada is Easy for Indian to stay within their race but In America there is hardly Indian there

[@hjthej6459]

Gang Shitz Nah Blacks got it worse

[@JohnSmith-kr7sj]

This is what a century of anti-Asian messages in popular media does. Unfortunately, for many Asian American men, this trickles down to not just in dating, but all aspects of their social lives. The constant demoralization results in many living in a state of learned helplessness and self loathing.

[@spencer5028]

Who "emasculates" Asian men? Hollywood? Who owns most of the media in the US, which also seeks to negatively portray Whites? White ppl aren't the problem and aren't the source of Asian mens' problems.

[@Nopebrbra]

Spencer Austin-Martin Yea , they are the problem . They have those asshole stereotypes

[@JayZinger]

Spencer Austin-Martin omg this white guy tryna tell what an asian mans perspective should be lmao

[@quidproquo82]

@@fabrizio483 Get a real hobby instead of trolling youtube

[@calla211]

@@spencer5028 Man, you are a special kind of dense. The race card is endlessly overplayed, but to pretend like popular culture hasn't negatively portrayed Asian men in the past is hilarious. Have you ever seen Breakfast at Tiffany's? Cloud Atlas? Messaging matters, though there's probably a bit too much nuance in something like that for you to care about. I have no doubt you'd play the biggest victim EVER if you weren't white, as you're already crying about the media negatively portraying whites; like, black people dealt with slavery and Jim Crow and now getting shot for random shit all the time and you're complaining because we get called out for doing that shit every now and then. Oh noes, life so hard? Mean words occasionally directed at us such an inconvenience for you? Hilariously ironic. One thing you are right about, though, is that whites aren't really the problem, as Asians are too obedient and passive for their own good, and that's entirely on their culture.

[@That0neKid145]

As a black woman raised by white people, I resonate with this guy SO much. I understand the self-loathing and wishing I was white and experiencing people who explicitly don't date black women. It's ridiculous no matter how compatible you can be with someone they will dismiss you because of your asianess or blackness which are things that you can't control.

[@블랙스완-t7v]

Im black and in elementary school I was surrounded by mostly white people. Even in that environment there was always a few white guys that liked me. I find stories like yours hard to believe. Are you trying to date 10/10 white guys or the average everyday white guy? they are not hard to get.

[@Not-Ap]

@@블랙스완-t7v It was different 10 or 15 years ago. Things are much better now. What she and Kevin were talking about was the norm back in the early 00s and earlier.

[@ScorpionSuerte]

Do you date men shorter than you who are unemoloyed?

[@---------c5741]

@@ScorpionSuerte dud wtf is unemoloyed r u talking about emos 🤣🤣

[@obiwanshinobi5098]

​@@블랙스완-t7v so true. These women think because they cant date the star quarterback whos dating the hottest blonde cheerleader means white guys aren't interested in her! If She was asked out by some nerd she'd probably turn him down! Lol!

[@thatRyzzle]

Yes, as an average Asian guy (at the most) trying to online date in a primarily white society (Switzerland), I can attest to this: It sucks balls. I mean, seeing that this attractive guy is dealing with this too is super depressing.

[@thehummermeister8992]

its over

[@corrinjade3973]

I’m attracted to the “average Asian male” types. There’s nothing wrong with them.

[@블랙스완-t7v]

More asian guys for me lol

[@mihaelkeehl8042]

if it was white guy, you couldn't give a two single cents about it.

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

@@mihaelkeehl8042 because white guys already have all the luck in the world in dating women of any ethnicity. Your comment is like asking why aren't people sympathetic to the rich lol.

[@Duality-Mode]

Astonishing. I actually relate to this guy. The stereotypes, the insults, and so forth. Respect to this guy and his journey to overcome the challenges that faced him.

[@youtubeshadowbannedme]

mIcRoAgGrEsSiOn

[@ziljin]

This asian guy is 6', fit, and a successful male model, and he still struggles with dating. I'm 5'7", out of shape, socially awkward, underachieving asian male. I got all the negative stereotypes but none of the good stereotypes. I don't stand a chance.

[@underratedcritic1983]

5'7" is not a bad height to be. If you're a man between 5'5" and 5'9" you just need to put on more muscle. Besides, I'd rather be 5'7" and buff, than be tall and sloppy looking.

[@michaelk5824]

ziljin You can change these thing except for the height and you‘ll stand a chance, Trust me

[@stevenglover4795]

Bro I can kinda relate to Kevin. I am 6ft4, half Thai/english and dating ain't as easy as you would think for me. But when I go out I do sooooo much better. I did notice that when I started hitting the gym I increased my sexual appeal massively. I get compliments here and there from girls and even guys but its difficult to let go of the asian stereotype of lacking sex appeal out of my head.

[@jirenuniverse116]

Dude I'm 5'5'', slightly muscular but fat cause I workout, and a Chinese (Not really fluent in English) and I still get dates. I dated white, half, and asian. Dating and Picking up women is an art, a tall and good body shape might help you get girls easily but a good strategy will help you for the long run. First you have to interact with a lot of women despite their ages, colors, etc, then when u r used to it try asking out women for dates. You'll slowly develop the sense to know which women like you and which don't, and you'll start dating those who like you. I recommend reading "How to Be a 3% Man" by Corey Wayne

[@harkhyunlee]

@@jirenuniverse116 That would be the 4th book I will read on how to be a better dater, sitting on 100 rejections in a row, in the real world. If I include online rejections, it's in the thousands of swipes. Left. I'm kinda giving up. I actually despise women, at this point. Not for not having sex with me, but because they perceive me as the bottom, for my race.

[@rok0sbasili5k]

being a asian guy makes dating in chaos mode or beyond ultra hard.

[@manutdfan555]

Being a non White guy in the dating world isnt easy

[@weirdo1060]

Man utd Fan Other minority races have disadvantages in dating, but Asian men have it toughest. Black stereotype is athletic or artistic. Hispanic culture emphasizes machismo for men. Asian male stereotype is effeminate nerd

[@sonic070]

Thats so racist statement

[@Canadakonnect]

Yes, it was the case for me, but I realized that I was wasting time with white girls. I went back to persian girls who are hotter, in my opinion. Also, even learning a bit of Japanese and cantonese made me well liked by the Japanese and Chinese women. It's the opposite of hoeflation, less work but much better results. Learning language is important, though.

[@tin4i1999]

He is handsome. 😍😍😍Those who reject him are just blind .😑

[@jamiemohan2049]

+Outofallofus Ju No, the west is predominantly white and white women subconsciously prefer white men, natural selection, in group preference. Finding someone good looking doesn't mean they are sexually appealing to you. This guy is good looking but I ain't attracted to him nor do I hate Asians. When it comes to reproducing humans discriminate on the tiniest feature.

[@jamiemohan2049]

+Outofallofus Ju that's blown out of proportion though. Latino ain't a race and most white women actually won't date black men. Where I'm from there are more white women with Asian men than black men.

[@jamiemohan2049]

+Outofallofus Ju you can be good looking, that don't make you sexually attractive. Beauty is also subjective too.

[@jamiemohan2049]

+Outofallofus Ju not really nonsense, people get turned on by certain traits and looks that on average other races of people don't make. They can't control who they are attracted to. It's natural selection. People aren't entitled to sex.

[@jenniferkim808]

Radostina Racheva who rejects him? He already had a white woman!!

[@Cake...]

In other words, stay off online dating apps. They're the worst invention since square-shaped wheels...

[@PKMNFan4664]

@PapaGeorg10 As a white guy, I'd NEVER use online dating because I don't trust other people, sorry to say.

[@PKMNFan4664]

@PapaGeorg10 I guess so, but all I can say is that I have heard numerous horror stories relating to online dating... My mom had a friend that went to her church who met her husband online, and, well... He ended up killing her. (It made national news so I might as well tell you her name, it was Toni Henthorn) Maybe I'm somewhat hypocritical since my boyfriend and I (I'm bisexual) met online, but we met on Discord, so... And he's someone I 100% trust, as I've seen and heard what he looks like IRL.

[@mgh62000]

Absolutely. They're terrible for mankind. They're a monumental step backwards for humans.

[@bulk_manifesto3624]

@@PKMNFan4664 ah since you drop the bisexual thing. I got it why you're anxious on dating site. Hate crime is on the rise and it is better safe than burried, but the point here is white men like you has it easier, you are privileged and desired, even in lgbt community same scenario.

[@ponternal]

Dating apps just reveal how racist and terrible most women are.

[@LOVELY-hx8ll]

As a black woman I am at the bottom of the female dating poll. Maybe it’s a sign from god that asian men and black woman should perhaps make something happen? I loveeee asian men 😍

[@sir_fransicogonzalezig7549]

Lalah Love What about Hispanic men & black woman ?? I love black woman. Do we get any love ?? Do we get heard ?

[@Calvbread]

Lalah Love yes 🙌

[@ArslanJumayev]

lets do it choco bear

[@kabirhussqqqcain288]

I defo agree. I prefer to date black women.

[@subinct]

A Blasian just won the US open. But she had a black father. So I think AMBF is just going to produces the new bottom rung of society.

[@shinyguy1]

I’m Indian but racially ambiguous, I’m just brown. I’ve literally had girls lose attraction after telling them I’m Indian and not Mexican. It’s not like my appearance magically changed. What could that possibly be besides racism?

[@codingsingh4156]

Sanat what's your body count?

[@shinyguy1]

Dark Lord 25 pretty much all drunk one night stands.

[@pinkneanderthal4456]

Mostly portrayals nothing else next time try saying you're Libyan and see what they say

[@ponternal]

Hoes are racist thats just how they are

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

Hardout brother! 42 and have been single all my life. 6pack, 6figure salary, yet an Indian guy living in New Zealand! An Indian girl even turned me down for a down syndrome white guy. It has been 42 years of hell and pain and loneliness, don't know what to do. Own a house an live alone in pain everyday. Wanted kids, but too late now. That is how horrible life and society has been to us.

[@trianglearchives5776]

I'll say this: as an Asian-American male, we have it the hardest in America in terms of a social life. I sometimes wish I were an Asian female because they usually get better respect

[@elyse443]

I get what you’re saying. What I see is that Asian women aren’t exactly respected but rather desired for their perceived feebleness. Like they are assumed to be subservient and less of a person than other races of women. It’s gross.

[@Punchout101]

@@elyse443 It's fucking better than what we got. They get to have a voice, friends, and love. What do we get? Math?

[@deviljho4260]

@@Punchout101being fetishised and seen as a sexual object and some sort of servant can be a lot worse in some cases. I don’t want to compare struggles but being an Asian women is not a cakewalk. Constantly being treated with disrespect, having to deal with harassment and expected to serve white men. A lot of Asian women have told me and my own sisters that people see them more as pets than people in dating. Being an Asian woman also doesn’t mean you have friends, voice and love. Nobody hangs out with Asians in general when I was growing up, man or woman. And the love Asian women get is not actual love, it’s just being someone’s sexual fantasy and being expected to be their submissive slave. I’m not saying one side has it worse than the other but my point is that being Asian in general in the dating market guarantees you for a lot of shitty experiences and racism. It’s wrong to say either side has it worse because individual experiences can be much worse than general experiences.

[@JB-rl8ki]

@@deviljho4260 no, asian women time and time again show a preference to white men. At least they can find companionship, imagine being alone and ignored because of your GENDER first and foremost and race. Why do you think there is a fast growing suicide rate in men?

[@deviljho4260]

@@JB-rl8ki being alone is better then being with a bad person. The reason why men have higher suicide rate isn’t because men have it worse but because a lot of men struggle to seek help and men use more violent methods which guarantee suicide while women use less effective methods, this is why women commit suicide more but why more men die from it. From what I’ve seen and heard, Asian women prefer to choose white men because of their own personal experiences with asian families which tend to be very controlling and intrusive in their lives and that they fear the same Experiences from the Asian man they’re dating or more commonly, their family members.

[@CatotheE]

I'm straight, but this is an objectively good looking man. Tall, fit, strong jaw with good facial symmetry and a full head of hair. It says a lot about the dating market that he's struggling.

[@Shiro642]

Dude is literally in the top 10% of asian guys, imagine the life an average-looking asian

[@topical6896]

No he is top 5%

[@ptrinh123]

Guys I think you all are misunderstanding the point. Kevin is not saying he can't get chicks. What he is saying is, as an ASIAN Model, he is still getting discriminated against, while WHITE Models don't in the dating world. He is speaking in a broader sense, where if he is having trouble then what about the ordinary asian men.

[@MsDesiree39]

Ha! I'm sure he has his preferences, lots of asians date only asians but when non asians do it's discrimination bs somehow, whatever!

[@shinyguy1]

Renee Moore lol wtf he never said anything about having preferences. Even so white dudes and a bunch of women have preferences and they don’t have trouble getting matches when they look as good as this guy.

[@tha1ne]

he literally said, when he was on the apps, he couldn't get chicks

[@holypredator]

@@tha1ne That was before he got buff and I assume eye surgery and everything cause he looks like your typical nerd when he showed his younger self. If you watch till the end, he mentioned that he got depressed that he started taking drugs and everything because of it and then finally decided to change. So basically, he failed to get chicks as a scrawny looking 4 eye asian, fell into depression and then decided to get jacked.

[@justadreamerforgood69]

@@tha1ne 2:48 I think that was before he started working out. There's absolutely no way him with a face, height and body like that doesn't get matches 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@oki2660]

Asian men and Black women have the hardest time online dating. If you scroll through women and mens want list most exclude asian men or black women.. its sad even dating profiles from asian women and black men will exclude asian men and black women.....

[@TollFree999]

Black men arent dating out at the same rate as asian women, it's not even close. Yeah some black men are like that, but asian women are on an entire different plane.

[@kong_5856]

Kwmz well what do you wanna do force people to wanna date Asians and blacks that’s people preference some like white women some Asians etc you can’t force someone to date some

[@andremotivation6561]

TollFree999 yup, I live in NY, ppl talk shit bout blk men dating out with white women bla bla, NO ONE dates out more then asian women and white men

[@smartwater598]

Kwmz Its because white who date Asians are insecure beta bald losers and only asian they can get is ugly cheap left over girls that no asian guy ever wanted but these Beta whites go for them because they've been brainwashed by their own media to find them attractive so it's perfect match Loser and losers and they tell themselves "asian girls love me" LOL

[@jamiemohan2049]

Black men are the second least desired. For some reason black men and white women are the face of interracial dating when very few white women date outside their race. The main race mixers are Asian women, Hispanic women too (even though they ain't technically a race), biggest race mixing men are white men not black men.

[@shy4real]

it's over for us ricecels

[@noodlery7034]

Never began

[@spacedoodles]

@@noodlery7034dang 😢

[@UglyCayden]

Indeed brother

[@tranquiljoe7816]

I’m a half White and half asian man and this makes me so angry and sad. Should men who are non-white or only half white or mixed race just give up and accept that the game is rigged in favour of white men? I feel like every race of women prefer white men not just Asian women. I’ve even seen mixed race/hapa girls with white men everywhere in person and on social media. The preference for white men is so strong. That even attractive and handsome Asian men struggle, to compete with average or below average looking white me. They fair considerably better with women.

[@kingknights5107]

Indian men has the highest SMV on a global basis.. Indian men out-marry all other men for their women..

[@jdavis230]

Some women do find asians/half asians attractive, don't worry

[@bevs9995]

look up that okc study - was so controversial because it showed that asian women prefer white men even more than white women. and white women did prefer white men 4 times more than white men preferred white women --- its just that asian women preferred them EVEN MORE EXCLUSIVELY. It also showed that while most women [except for asian] preferred their own -- their second preference was white.. I bet when you get into the college and college-educated environments, they all have white as their first preference.

[@Not-Ap]

​@@bevs9995That study is from 2012. It was very true for my generation back then. I'm not sure if this issue is as bad or the same for gen z.

[@BohemianAndy]

@@tranquiljoe7816 yep - just be White. You can be a total loser dropkick, but if you’re White - you’ll be given concessions from most women. For an ethic guy - you need to be a doctor or have mega status to overcome the negativities associated with your ethnicity

[@mrbale1815]

And asian women are also into white boys.

[@bevs9995]

very intensely, actually

[@brokengirl8619]

Not all of them.

[@naeemahbadia4266]

He’s so damn handsome though !

[@myspaceuser]

@Random Guy It really isn't.

[@aaronaaron5861]

@Random Guy are you an asian guy? How can you relate if you are not

[@marckgruber55]

@Scorched Earth Policy Lol. I dunno if you're being sarcastic or not.

[@feefee4234]

Imagine being a african american woman everyone finds black men attractive and then black woman are portrayed as masculine or unattractive....it broke my heart when I matched this gorgeous Asian guy, his bio was everything I dreamed of, just for him to say I'm unattractive and that he doesnt like black woman. He told me he wants a woman with her own stuff that isnt going to be a gold digger and ask for money, and that he prefered white woman with blonde hair that likes to travel and try new things....all stereotypes it bought me to tears. So I feel your pain there hun and I am sorry to hear that, I moved to another state that was less diverse because it made more sense financially....just to get rejected all the time when dating. 💔

[@KallusGarnet]

His loss

[@LuckBrown-re7yg]

It's OK, he will be single forever cuz no blondes would want him either.

[@OzPozzy278]

​@@LuckBrown-re7yghe won't, if he stated his preference doesn't mean the person is horrible

[@LuckBrown-re7yg]

@@OzPozzy278 then asian men should stop whining when white girls aren't into them. Many asian female aren't into asian males also. Asian female white male couples are literally everywhere. Asian men should not feel entitled when their women don't want to suck their dicks and love white boys. Basically the same thing that you just told.

[@nubiankhaleesi2945]

Wow-- sounds like black women issues too. Wow. And this guy is handsome😍

[@Rohishimoto]

Systemic and institutionalized racism affects everyone, more people need to realize it

[@neo_9568]

Nubian Khaleesi _ Yeah accept that Black women can actually get a date unlike asian men whose own asian women find unattractive.

[@miliba]

at least black women exist in pornography

[@booboobunny5655]

Miliba Not really much of an achievement if you ask me. The porn industry is extremely sexist, problematic and traumatizing. Yeah, it’s something but still.

[@sirenenoire4091]

Neo _ you’re worried about getting dates😂...WE ARE OUT HERE GETTING KILLED FOR BEING BLACK.

[@jduioe]

Step 1 get out of the victim mentality. Step 2 hit the gym. Step 3 stop worrying about what other people think of you. If that fails, there is a whole continent waiting for you, it’s called Asia

[@croman818]

He's Very handsome...I'm into asians...

[@martinezm8934]

Latinas are barely into Asian men and act Like they dont exist

[@croman818]

@@martinezm8934 well im latina and i am....i notice them...

[@harkhyunlee]

@@croman818 You're some minority, then... Upvoted

[@croman818]

@@harkhyunlee whats that supposed to mean....

[@harkhyunlee]

@@croman818 You're rare. Data, studies, surveys show that most women are not into Asians, because of their race. I liked your comment for it.

[@tone33012]

Dear Kevin and anyone that suffered this hardship, Kevin I hope this comment finds you. Watching this made me feel so sad and it sparked me to comment here. And thanks for having the guts to bring it out Kevin. I want everyone to know that yes these things happen. But try not to dwell on it. Life is unfair. And these are the cards we are dealt with. If you think about it and wear someone else’s shoes for a day, life could be much much worse. For example being terminally sick with cancer, born in a poor country with no opportunity, trapped in a bad neighborhood, and etc. Look on the bright side. You’re alive and healthy from what I see from your physical appearance. Try and understand that the world is manipulated by television, movie, and advertisements (Ken and Barbie). That’s why a lot of males and females act the way they do. Don’t dwell on it. I’ve seen you (Kevin) in another KZbin video talking about this subject with Jeremy Lin. You will find that special person that will love you back. Heck when you find your significant other it will bring you much closer with your significant other because she’ll know you from the inside not because of what you look like. I’m born Asian male myself and I’ve been through the same difficulties you’ve been or maybe worse. The saying “Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you Stronger” is so true. I’ve had to educate myself that this is how the world works and these are the tools I had (personality, hobbies, material things and etc). I had to figure out the advantages I have and what works for me so I can get along with my fellow humans. But don’t get me wrong, I do respect myself and I make sure others respects me and my family. God Bless you.

[@apollogt5506]

i was laughed at in high school, i was made fun of. you name it. i wasn't bullied though they tried, i didn't tolerate that. I go to castings and i know sometime they deliberately turn me down because they want viewers in the US especially to see only unattractive Asian men. they want to portray Asian men that way. I know how i look and who i am. and this is how it feels and how it is. I don't accept it and fighting to change it. people can try to deny it all they want. it is what it is but it will be seen and it will be dealt with.

[@sophmore90]

An Asian man has to make $247,000 more than a similar looking and background white man to get the same attention on the dating apps.

[@weirdo1060]

Source of your true statement was a 2010 study by Sloan Business School (MIT)

[@luckgalaxy8548]

Thats just stupid ,that you need to make that much to date a white woman or outside your culture can i see these dumb statistics? Who ever said that has low confidence and a fraud look at how much other cultures make and compare it these are lies.

[@sunday8386]

Actually women reject by default.

[@jjmusic4391]

Yep

[@avi486]

Kevin is so attractive! And I'm a black chick. He's also one of the funniest and most relatable on the show. I'm glad he's telling his story to the world.

[@AK-xi5vy]

@Ozell Israelite Lmao cry more little black boy 🤣

[@mygetawayart]

how can anyone not find him so hot. Like honestly. And i speak as a caucasian, i find asian men super attractive and he's no different.

[@邱泓博-i4l]

Seriously, Asian men who stay in the United States should really return to Asia. Why should they stay in this racially disadvantaged dating market? This man can find a better girl in Asia, and you don't need to get along with whites anymore. And we also welcome to Asian American guys. You probably can not understand my English very well, cuz I am totally Asian guy (now i am staying in US)

[@theia1653]

But why should we have to? Cultural and language barrier aside, I don't feel it would be genuine anyway cause she just wants to use me to move herself and her family to the US.

[@邱泓博-i4l]

@Yotimo Emo Now, I kinda change my thinking . I think race is not issue but culture is

[@邱泓博-i4l]

@@theia1653 Emm. It depends on people where from... Almost eastern Asian they don't want to move.......

[@邱泓博-i4l]

@@theia1653 I always think American Asian go to their own original country they can feel "family"....... Maybe I am wrong, I am not Asian American I am 100 percent made in Asian lol

[@cristinataccola5480]

blame asian women

[@fabianar1602]

Asian men are beautiful. I find them very attractive. Be who you are. The only validation that matters is ones own.

[@sixtyoneeight]

Unfortunately as humans we rely so much on external validation. We see ourselves as others see us.

[@Sicjeuu]

Asian men are beautiful? Yeah maybe just 1%... come on, look the reality: there are some features that are considered beautiful and attractives by the 99% of the population.

[@aaronaaron5861]

@@Sicjeuu and where are those considerations come from? The media, especially movie industry especially the hollywood. And how are asian guys portrayed there?

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

What a naive perspective dissociated from the biological reality that humans are social creatures. Meaning of our entire existence is validated by others in society. Do you go ahead and claim "I'm going to be a doctor and I'll start practicing"? No. Your skills and knowledge are validated by others, only after that you get the permission. The need to find love and connection is biological and there's no reason to supress that need.

[@dadada486]

Asian men can be beautiful to Asian women, particularly those who exposed to Asian media where Asians are portrayed as strong, sexual, attractive, and confident. In foreign media, to say Asians are a joke is probably an understatement.

[@buttonmash7680]

Absolute worst is when your average skinny whiteboy is slaying it while you as an attractive PoC aren't even considered. Meanwhile the PoC girls get scooped up for being 'exotic.'

[@beauberry6179]

Have you tried to look into why girls like skinny white boys? Maybe because their men's culture is terrible?

[@henryjiang9990]

Yall know there is an issue when this model dude is complaining. Imagine average asian guy.

[@jirehpaulo]

Be proud of who you are....despite the media guys. I am a Filipino who grew up in the west and have had similar issues. I was lost until I embraced my appearance and I couldn't be any happier. Wear that face proud and be an example to others .

[@JasonGafar]

I loved this comment. Thank you brother. Your words are valued. ❤️

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

These words are meaningless. How can someone be "proud" of themselves when the entire society you live in socially excludes you and treats you differently?

[@mellowne411]

Bullshit

[@SSGSS4]

@@Ghostrider-ul7xn everyone's gotta cope one way or another lol

[@ScorpionSuerte]

When you're Korean but try to Chadmax instead of K-Popmax. Brutal.

[@fuchris8617]

Bro needs to change his stats

[@_tsl]

ovER

[@chungusultimate]

found my people

[@patriciaburke2401]

Any person who puts down another based on race, is not worth your time. There are many more intelligent people out there, you just need to keep looking. Cultures are fascinating and we can all learn from each other. You must love yourself before you can truly love someone else. Your cultural heritage can also be a wonderful gift to your children. There is beauty in every culture. Embrace it! Never be ashamed of where you came from. Every person is a unique and wonderful gift from God and deserves to be treated with respect. When you put down your culture, you put down yourself and many others. God doesn’t make mistakes! Don’t ever be ashamed of your background, but thank God for your uniqueness.

[@lailbeeb]

there are a lot of people that aren't worth our time then LOL...

[@pwat7254]

Sadly in America, we're surrounded by these ignorant types.

[@Sicjeuu]

If a girl doesn’t like an asian man is because there is a race issue? Or maybe just because she doesn’t like him? Come on don’t put down this bullshit

[@aaronaaron5861]

@@Sicjeuu women dont like him because he's asian you stupid

[@youtubesucks2755]

@@Sicjeuu your logic works for one individual.....if it's a group of people, then it comes under 'ism' ....in this case racism.

[@Asmrnerd10]

wtf he is hot and ima guy

[@moonwalker_-ny3um]

Lol because women are spoiled and have been brainwashed to worship white men

[@musicasoulara4472]

@@moonwalker_-ny3um so true, and guess what, the racism in LGBT community as well, white men won't date non-white guys eve non-white gays prefer white guys that's too sad

[@gigachad8374]

Victim of JBW

[@minnied2872]

He’s so hot wow...how do people NOT find this attractive?!

[@JuicyxJosh]

Because most women don’t find Asian men as very masculine or attractive Most Asian families never teach us how to be masculine

[@corrinjade3973]

Joshua Ng men don’t have to be “masculine” to be hot.

[@JuicyxJosh]

Corrin Jade true true. And I think it’s time for me to stop thinking like this. I mean there’s a whole diversity of relationships everywhere out there in the world and I should acknowledge that. Sure there are some examples of bad racial profiling and Asians representation in the western world kinda sucks but I shouldn’t let that be a barrier. It’s only up to me to build that confidence and not be so angry at people for their personal opinions. I mean finding love is already hard as it is. So why should I care about others opinions or insults.

[@minnied2872]

Mike Rotch Asian guys are hot as hell???

[@paccawacca4069]

@@corrinjade3973 yes they do. women like masculine men. Now they can SAY they like sensitive men, but always remember, don't look at what they say, look at what they do.

[@donborracho3019]

I feel it bro. I was on match for six months. I was a career man, my own place, physically fit, happy and out going. I got NOTHING from Match except a head ache. I kid you not. A good 85% of the women's profiles did not list Black men as person of interest. A good 35% specifically said NO BLACK MEN PLEASE. This was even the Black women's profiles. Talk about feeling unwanted.

[@JasonGafar]

That must definitely be painful. Know that while race sadly is one of those things in that plays a role within life, if you are a good, respectable person, you will always find a quality person. Wishing you well brother.

[@Jedilord882]

I hate being black 😂😂😂😂

[@timeaesnyx]

He is hot. How is he not getting dates?

[@Rezzmari]

I agree. I'm an Asian woman and I think he's hot.

[@stevel9627]

Because hes Asian is how. Western media has emasculated Asian looking men to the point where far below average Mark Zuckerberg looking white men have more sexual value than above average looking Asian men.

[@lailbeeb]

did you watch the video

[@timeaesnyx]

lailbeeb it was more a statement of outrage than confusion

[@bradebronson8835]

Steve Lee Wrong about how he's Asian. It comes down to low confidence. You're only right about the media and it's portrayal on Asians. Look up JT Tran. Short, bit chubby, an easy 5/10. He gets ANY girl he wants cause he has game. If you know how to play your cards, you don't even need money or cars or looks. You just have to know how to have game.

[@chaosdimension6433]

Who's here because of incel tv

[@chadgaston8615]

Me.

[@clemtoe]

I'm not but that was the first thing about it that struck me. This is literally incel fuel, telling VTech shooter types that they can't get chicks because "White wimins be racis n' shit".

[@j.d.s.1837]

Me too. The guy is a breathing legend.

[@seaneckhart9914]

When the real pill hits

[@Quarksi]

This guy just spoke my life story as a black girl. It was exactly the same experience.

[@zmanzizou1461]

It over for you look up JBW it all make sense f**k this i'm hiting the 📴 bouton

[@leila_de_hautjardin]

Date an Asian boy, problem solved 😂

[@grapefruitsyrup8185]

@leila she definitely wont. black girls also despise asian guys while worshipping white guys

[@catharsismemory]

This is insane to me, i always thought Asian men were attractive and he actually a very handsome man.

[@KayNovember26]

Me too! I find them very attractive and most have good manners and practice personal hygiene. Wish there were more Asian men in my country!

[@corrinjade3973]

Same, I’m very attracted to Asian men. Always have since I was a kid, my crushes were on Asian guys. I will always notice an Asian man first.

[@ScribblebytesWorldwide]

Sometimes people unconsciously desire people that are unavailable because of a deeper issue. There are many someone's of many skintones for everyone. If you're not getting it, its all in your mind.

[@00Peacemaker]

Just ask your friends. They will say they don’t find for Asian men attractive.

[@GoldenKay19]

@@corrinjade3973 exactly the same since I was little 🙊👍🏿

[@sportsmedia25]

Unfortunately it still didn't sound like he's had any better success with real dating either

[@TalentSpotter83]

@Conservative Hamster but how the hell would Kevin Kreider not be high on the hypergamy scale? He's quite a good looking guy, fantastic physical shape, intelligent, works as a model and enjoys high social status...doesn't make sense.

[@weirdo1060]

Emyr It is due to Western culture and media. Although Bruce Lee movies and “Crazy Rich Asians” have attempted to portray Asian men as strong and sexy, others have portrayed them negatively (Luk Duk Dong from “Sixteen Candles”, etc.). A small number of Western women find Asian men attractive, but there is severe disadvantage even with money and looks

[@Kazo3708]

​@@TalentSpotter83he is ASIAN.........

[@DrCalviny]

As an asian, not many women would really care to look at me.... until my business ended up soaring to 8 figures. Now they all randomly pop out from no where to comment on my ig. I get random text messages from girls I havent talked to in 3 years.

[@harkhyunlee]

Hopefully, I will be you. I don't have interest in dating gold diggers, as you see pop up, but it would be nice to be able to spend money on world change and a comfortable life

[@rio20d]

I can tell you that those who randomly pop up are mostly just gold diggers man

[@weirdo1060]

2010 study from Sloan Business School (MIT) mentioned that Asian men who earn $247K annual income reach same level of dating as average white men

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Yes, you'll see those msgs pop up but they aren't going to be marriage material so why bother? I'm confused when people say money makes you attractive to women, no it doesn't. They are only attracted to the money you make, not you as a person. Do you think these women would stick around if you lose your status? Probably won't.

[@DrCalviny]

@@Ghostrider-ul7xn Lol yeah, except I won't be losing my status. That's why I don't take women seriously anymore. Date but not really marry.

[@Nakla]

Kinda weird when you consider that women see education and income as one of the most important factors and Asians score very well in it

[@cloviswater4870]

Yep. I feel you brother. I am Native American. And not the white kind that claims to be native but just looks white. I clearly look Native American and all my life I’ve had so much fucking discrimination and hurtful stereotypes/jokes against me. It does take a toll on you for sure. Nowadays I am getting better tho, I am becoming a lot more proud of my roots. I used to not even tell ppl what my race was, I legit used to lie and say I was Spanish because it made it less likely some horrible bullying was going to happen.

[@cloviswater4870]

@Ren Q yeah man truth is there’s not many of us. I think we’re only 1-2% of the population and the ppl who claim to be native but aren’t have like 99% European in them. I grew up on a reservation in Canada with other natives until I was 9 but when my parents decided to come to the states that’s when it was bad. So much discrimination.

[@L0lLmao]

I hope ur in a better place now ❤

[@______________1628]

Fucking hell man it's your country you shouldn't be treated like that I hope things get better.

[@instantgin3861]

Black women also have it hard. I m a fit asian man and my only dating experiences were with black women lol. It really is depressing tho. Feels like ur nothing when society deems u unactractive just for ur skin. Unfortunetaly there is not much u can do it is what it is.

[@jialian93]

Black women in dating is pretty much the equivalent of asian dudes. They emasculate us...and they masculate black women.

[@jezra4427]

I'm a white woman and always had a bit of preference for Asian men. I don't want to stereotype but I always kind of saw them as smart, got their sht together, more respectful than other men. Characteristics and mannerisms I can't describe. Plus gorgeous eyes and hair. Trust me, there are real prejudices but a lot of non-Asian women do find Asian men very attractive. The thing is, I never run into Asian men anywhere so that's why I've never dated one until now (met him online).

[@jialian93]

@Ozell Israelite speak for yourself. I get dates all the time

[@famitsus987]

@@jezra4427 lol u are not white ricecel stop larping

[@BohemianAndy]

@@instantgin3861 yes black women do. I really feel for them

[@vanessamcbride7638]

Every country, even the race, has good-looking people and people who don't look good.

[@tecksmith9893]

just Asian girls that are crazy after white boys

[@weirdo1060]

While looks partially matter, bigger issue is culture. In US, media portrays Asian men as weak effeminate nerds. The number of Asian women with interracial marriage is far greater than Asian men who marry outside race

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

Except what defines as "conventionally attractive" and not attractive is defined by western beauty standards. FACT

[@brokengirl8619]

Are you guys forgetting buff Models, Korean actors and Porn stars?? Kwon sang woo is hot!! So is Kevin Kleider who is full blooded Korean, adopted by Americans. Song seung heon is hot, Bruce Lee was hot. Etc etc. Google Hot Asian guys. Believe me they exist and there are literally billions of women interested in Asian men, through out the centuries, hello, they've married them. Women of all races. And not just K-pop fan girls love Asian men. Go on forums online.

[@OwenWu-f9t]

dosen't explain the massive racism you white women have against asian men

[@HenRy-bm9ww]

They should change the title to "On Dating While Being an Asian Man" because Asian women don't have this problem nor does it apply to them.

[@undefinedfreedom8580]

If this hot Asian guy has trouble in dating, what chance do I have?

[@JasonGafar]

This video was so, so, so good. I could relate on this on so many levels. I wasn't conscious of race when I was a child. It's only when I got older, and especially when I became interested in dating and relationships did I then see how the world judges us. There was a girl I really liked who was east asian. I am indian. I didn't even think it would be an issue until my friends told me that race was a very big issue and me being indian was inferior. I then started noticing how many east asian women date white men. I then started feeling really bad about myself and it really deeply took a toll on my self esteem and confidence. I love how this man says that you have to embrace who you are and not try to be anyone else. That really hit home for me. I also love how he states that he wanted to be white, not because he didn't want to be asian, but because he didn't want to have to endure the prejudice non-white people have to suffer. I couldn't relate more to that. Brother, THANK YOU for making this video. It was very helpful to me and so many others.

[@babycherry8103]

Actually being white isn’t even really about your appearance. I have blonde hair, pale skin, and green eyes, and I get mistaken all the time for a Russian, but I don’t consider my self white since I’m North African, add that I have an international name. I met so many racist people that would be super sweet and nice to me, but then do a 180 degree when I tell them I am North African and not European like they thought I was. I feel that being white passing doesn’t mean shit, cause a white woman with dark hair, dark eyes, and a tan skin would be more privileged than me anyway.

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

Hardout brother! 42 and have been single all my life. 6pack, 6figure salary, yet an Indian guy living in New Zealand! An Indian girl even turned me down for a down syndrome white guy. It has been 42 years of hell and pain and loneliness, don't know what to do. Own a house an live alone in pain everyday. Wanted kids, but too late now. That is how horrible life and society has been to us.

[@justadreamerforgood69]

@@Rambo-lv9hu Wtf, are you kidding me ? Surely, there has to be something else.

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

@@justadreamerforgood69 nah nothing else

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

@@babycherry8103 This is absolutely not true based on the evidence I've seen and studies. Its mostly to do with American's shallow obsession with eurocentric beauty features. They see every other features as inferior to their features. There's a strong positive correlation between people that discriminate based on race and those that strongly emphasize physical traits in mate selection. I've observed the pattern that not only are the vast majority of white Americans shown to harbour the most implicit racial bias of all other groups, they are also the most discriminatory based on looks, especially women. If it weren't the case, South Asians should have the highest success in dating because they are the most hard-working, hospitable, responsible, least violent, productive members of society. You hardly find any homeless desi, with substance issues, or a theft in developed countries. They are also the most extroverted, vibrant group ( which is evident if you have seen Bollywood movies). So personality and integrity wise, they are more than enough for being ideal partners, yet they are the least desired. Their case directly debunks the myth that women care more about personality than looks.

[@mrd20098]

This resonates with me as an Asian man as I experienced similar issues while online dating. While I support his point that dating in person is better, I think it is unfortunate that there is extra effort needing to be applied to break down the wall of the stereotypes. I hope we get to a point where we don't need to continue proving our value by justifying our race. Who we are, for the most part, should be enough.

[@easternb905]

The world will change after 100 years

[@encore4818]

Asian men have it the worst. We have to live up to academic expectations and we also have it worse because of generalized stereotypes.

[@trianglearchives5776]

Life of an Asian male: work and stress for school, work and stress for college, work and stress for job, happy life thrown out the window. Get good grades but 0 respect and get good money but 0 respect. End product: single, depressed, suicide rates off the charts despite the good grades and whatnot. Sometimes I wish my entire life was a dream and when I wake up I’m actually a black or white male with a normal, happy life

[@pc_box139]

@@trianglearchives5776 holy shiiiit u kinda describe the life of my nephew right there ngl he too was single for a looooooooong time (and he got fixed dates through his parent) im glad i dont have such tiger parents

[@trianglearchives5776]

@@pc_box139 yep, this life is very common for Asian guys sadly

[@Tommyttm]

I’m an Asian guy I feel the same way... as Kevin kreider ☹️☹️

[@BreakingJJC]

You know what I'm 25 years old Asian 5 feet 11 tall and I'm struggling being Asian guy in Canada 😢

[@lordclorox3028]

shh

[@Tommyttm]

BreakingJJC is because girls are so brainwashed by seeing white guys in movies as the lead !! Girls need to be open minded about dating Asian men more often!!

[@corrinjade3973]

Your hot, just be patient and you’ll find the right one, or if in the case your not wanting to settle and just want to date and have fun, you’ll find the right ones. It usually happens when we least expect it.

[@jialian93]

@@Tommyttm yeah but at least it is getting better due to kpop and more media representation. I live in new York and I still got "I don't date asians" from non asians and asians a like. I find the most receptive to asians are black and hispanic girls though.

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

42 and have been single all my life. 6pack, 6figure salary, yet an Indian guy living in New Zealand! An indian girl even turned me down for a down syndrome white guy. It has been 42 years of hell and pain and loneliness, don't know what to do. Own a house an live alone in pain everyday.

[@drippers]

can I get your house?

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

@@drippers What for? What's in it for me? Lol

[@drippers]

@@Rambo-lv9hu I give you my passport and you can come to Sweden they like Indian guys here (as long as you're not under 5'9)

[@Rambo-lv9hu]

@@drippers I already have a passport. No point going other countries. All are racist so its pointless

[@drippers]

@@Rambo-lv9hu This is why you're single! You complain about being alone and all and when I offer you the best solution ever you pull the race card. Also you will have citizenship here with my help!

[@Aritul]

I respect him so much for his honesty and vulnerability.

[@李珊-f2r]

I am an African woman and my children are Asian ( Asian mixed African ) and they will never go through that Living around whites is very isolating

[@lauralu6750]

Asian men is my preference. ❤️😍

[@doubledown8229]

FU

[@mouacheemeng]

You're Chinese? I mean your dp doesn't appear to be but your last name sure seems to be though. Latina maybe.....

[@locvu6185]

Thank you for supporting Asian men.

[@deshaunjensen2454]

Lol, when you saying that you mean just guys like this. Guys who have everything going for them except being seen as asexual by women everywhere. Asian men know whats up.

[@amysommerfield2069]

Mine to! I married one.

[@Saint-hamudi]

This is exactly what incels feel, but we don't have looks...

[@paddynoble]

It is beautiful to see an Asian man come to terms with who he is and celebrate himself in all that he is. I had low self-esteem issues too, I was either too overweight, clumsy, too dark not white enough, and didn't fit the box. But I got tired of it and found it much better to accept who I am in my own body. It is great to see him reaffirm who he is. All those online dating sites are just superficial fantasies. You'll be surprised what you find out there in the real world where people will find you attractive once you realise you are attractive yourself. He is handsome according to his standards and that's all he needs to know. Who cares what others think!

[@sekolahonlineteknikotomotif]

Things that raise Asian men image nowadays are K-drama & K-pop. Even though I'm not Korean, I'm proud of them honestly.

[@noname-bt9ky]

They are gay tho

[@sekolahonlineteknikotomotif]

@@noname-bt9ky What? Are you serious?

[@boredor5200]

@@noname-bt9ky no?

[@noname-bt9ky]

@@boredor5200 what?

[@mewying5184]

Itz over guys

[@alexkoehler9620]

when its over for chang.. its over for us all

[@rainangel2517]

It never began for riceman

[@thechosenone729]

If Asian country get more strict policy with foreigners it would get better but in West idk i think it's not gonna be working there for most of them.

[@smartyjonez5470]

Blackpill isn’t backed by science, it is Science

[@celestinaphang4528]

As an Asian-female model, I will rather Spread my leg for Him than speak to any White or Latinos guys I saw after travelling around the whole world so Far!

[@MsDesiree39]

No one cares, let's be real. White males and hispanic males are ranked hire up for women to desire.

[@celestinaphang4528]

+Renee Moore not really, YOU don't care, Doesn't mean Everyone Don't ~ (who are you to speak on-behalf the other's???) 2) Do you mind I ask "Where do you get that Statistics (Any proves? Link? Websites? Surveys done?) Or.......That's just Your Sayings???! 3) Is - ranked *Higher* up for women to desire, Not *hire*, should improve your English since your desired for Whites ^^

[@MsDesiree39]

Child, no one cares. there are plenty of other women out there who will be attracted to those men and the reason many of your women would not is due to racism anyway. Let's face it, tho u say you're a model no one around the world has heard of u but they have Heidi, Cindy and Gisele so get over yourself!

[@MsDesiree39]

jenice u two are some really delusional pple. Cause no matter what u claim Asian males are at the low point of desirability to non Asian females so u can hve them ALL! LMAO!

[@celestinaphang4528]

+Jenice Tray Thank you for fighting for me&sayin that, at least now I know I'm not alone unlike ...*Cough* Renee

[@franknberry333]

This guy had trouble finding someone.........I'm doomed

[@impressivelypowerfulpelica4175]

Women Say 80% of Men Are Unattractive

[@SL-zn9oh]

At the end of the day, is it even worth trying to impress/date someone who sees Asians that way? Not at all. Just gotta move on to the next person.

[@kramer911]

would like to try to sympathize.. but as a white guy.. I also hardly get anything either.. women are just picky and have gotten worse since social media. I am muscular and handsome as well but it doesnt help

[@laurenceesposito3393]

There are many universals here. Being pigeon-holed for how you look and act is tantamount to a deadening of one’s human spirit. Because of his features, it’s difficult not to first think Asian, instead of just human being. He puts it well and I hope those who see this get the message. I’m not Asian, however, what he says here speaks to many of us - certainly myself.

[@alexaf7400]

Asian men have always been attractive!! I don’t understand why people think that it’s ok to lessen someone’s worth because of the color of their skin. I’ve been around a ton of different looking asian males and they are beautiful just like any other race. People need to wake up and remember that we should look at others “not by the color of their skin but by the content of their character (mlk)”

[@youtubesucks2755]

it's not color of their skin....by that logic black people would be discriminated even more.....it's the way they look (small eyes and baby face).

[@ЦзяМэй]

@@youtubesucks2755 Actually I think it's huge eyes like Frodo's that make men look more baby-like. And many Asian don't have baby faces. This one doesn't.

[@youtubesucks2755]

@@ЦзяМэй agree. The point was it's not the color of the skin. Most asians are whiter than a typical white American. They don't go out in sun and hating getting tanned.

[@justadreamerforgood69]

@@youtubesucks2755 Cope 😆 Asians are nowhere close to being as white as white Americans

[@Jameslululu]

After watching this video I realize that I am FUCKED

[@postit5725]

its over for you, in fact it never began, join us incels we help each other cope

[@ayecee4107]

Do you self-improve though? You can raise your value in other aspects.

[@Teckno72]

I’m white. I met my Filipino 23 years ago. We are still together!

[@ElselchoGaming]

Congrats brother, don't let anyone make you ashamed.

[@bdasaw]

I once was with a latina friend of mine in college as she was scrolling on tinder, She saw this attractive white man's profile and what she said was " he's cute but he's not white white white" and swiped left. My jaw was on the floor, so there is even different levels of whiteness that she was looking for. Worst part is she saw no issue with what she was saying. Alot of asian and latino women are like this, they put white features on such a pedastal because most have been brought up to believe dating white is dating up. The more white in their eyes, the more dateable a guy is.This same woman, if asked in a public setting, will say "I am open to dating all races" in attempt to save face. Meanwhile all her past boyfriends have only been white.

[@bevs9995]

at that point, they are not even going based on attraction. They want to nab a blonde so that their kids will be as 'white looking as possible'... that is the only reason for specifying 'white white white'

[@bena8805]

Women are extremely racist when it comes to dating idk why thats a surprise

[@AllergicToAshAndDust]

This guy is incredibly attractive and fit. It's astounding that he had trouble dating.

[@MultiEightiesgirl]

I watched this and literally almost cried because everything he said, as a Black woman, I can definitely relate to. Wow.

[@ChickenMaster7]

He has it 100x worse but yea

[@MultiEightiesgirl]

@Ozell Israelite I am not African, but since your user name has "Israelite" in it, it was expected of you to say something negative like that. :)

[@MultiEightiesgirl]

@Ozell Israelite Again I am not African nor am I embarrassed for saying it. Therefore, if it was embarrassing to you then that is not my problem. Also, attractiveness is not only in the physical, but has a lot to do with what is inside therefore, a male who is solely discussing the unattractiveness of a woman must have some closet issues who is afraid of the competition. My husband married me because I am beautiful in and out not just for the external. What is inside of me enhances my physicality. My husband's background and culture does not practice nor believe in demeaning a woman's appearance, so since you took one look at me and stated "unattractive" really speaks to your lack of humanity and character as a human being. It also sounds racist and immature. :)

[@yorii3083]

@@MultiEightiesgirl Women can get any man no matter how u look

[@lespaulguitarist92]

Even black women are still women.. they just need to get in shape and there will be an abundant of guys going for them. Fit asian guys, not so much.

[@bruh_hahaha]

this is sad af. If THIS Asian guy can’t get a date....imagine the rest of the Asian dudes out there

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

IKR this guy's literally a 10 and most women are turning him down. social media has fucked women up.

[@alwayscoping2133]

As expected, a lot of virtue signaling in the comments.

[@rainangel2517]

"I like Asian Men but it so happens I'm dating a 6'5 white man" teehee

[@ELdASenSei]

GG

[@paccawacca4069]

@@rainangel2517 every fucking time.

[@mildewmountain2804]

@@rainangel2517 so factual

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

HuffPost wont accept the real cause: Hypergamy

[@Street0yster]

I've heard "you're really good looking for an asian guy" many times and all I do is blankly say "thanks" because I don't know how to respond. It is such a weird spot to be in and I can't tell whether they find me attractive or if they are just saying I look better than the average "ugly" asian guy. One is a compliment and the other is offensive, but either way it just makes me feel weird.

[@tweeze123]

u shouldn't be saying thanks ur brotheren a bad image

[@Street0yster]

@@tweeze123 i don't know what you meant by "brotheren", but I know I shouldn't. It's just something that catches me off guard sometimes and it's the quickest response I can think of.

[@mangos1346]

Ask them what do you mean "for an asian guy"

[@beauberry6179]

@@mangos1346 For an average Asian guy. Beautiful Asians are something else.

[@gingabeatz1999]

I would say thank you! and you look pretty fine too

[@skwjisin]

i am asian and it is so difficult to date...people always tell me that I am nice but just not their type...but deep down i know its all coz i am asian....sometimes the date feels more like an interview about asian culture than about getting to know me as a person....when i was younger I was so ashamed of being asian, in school people always laughs at my eyes and nose...i hated it so much that i wanted to self harm. i was bullied so much in school coz of my race. last year when I was in Spain everyone just called me 'the chinese' while doing the slanted eye gesture.Some days i look into the mirror and question why I was born this way and why this world is so dominated by caucasian standard of beauty. why are asians being considered the worst and one of the most unattractive and ugly race? what have we done to deserve this? this world is so unfair. i just want to be given an equal chance to be known as just another human being...without labels

[@aaronaaron5861]

US is bad already. What are you doing in Spain? If you watch football Spanish and Italian league supporters are even racist towards black players, surely asians would have it worse as a smaller minority group.

[@Kroitk]

@Mike Rotch What's ER?

[@JasonGafar]

I'm so sorry you went through this. Nobody should have to suffer this for merely being of a different race/culture. I am Indian however always felt people from Asia to be very beautiful.

[@Tommyttm]

Damn I’m an Asian guy I’m in the same damn position like this guy I’m not that bad looking at all either !! 🧔🏻

[@TheReMorseCode]

Temüjin Khan Yup. Back in the 10s and 20s one of the most popular male actors in silent films was a Japanese man, Sessue Hayakawa. Was especially popular among American white women. But *certain people* started to feel threatened by a Japanese man being the sex icon of the decade and he was cast as the villain, or the forbidden lover who gives the female lead back to the white man at the end.. Eventually the dude started up his own film company I think, presumably to portray himself how he wanted. But it goes to show that the idea of Asian men being unattractive is completely due to Hollywood and popular culture’s INTENTIONAL racist, threatened campaigns.

[@TheReMorseCode]

Loser 123 Get your racist ass out of this thread

[@TheReMorseCode]

Loser 123 Are you just going to gloss over your original comment? And by what stretch of the imagination is the man you decided to be an asshole to, or the man in the video we’re commenting on, feminine?

[@Tommyttm]

Temüjin Khan but why is this ???

[@Tommyttm]

TheReMorseCode ok cool to know !

[@brucewong2873]

Thanks for sharing Kevin. Typical experience an asian goes through in the US. Critical mass is important. I got ridiculed when I tried to share my feelings sometimes with friends or they had no clue what I was feeling.