That door absolutely needs to be locked. It’s your livelihood.
@cozcalconcozcalcon78023 жыл бұрын
It might be smart to get a lock for your office door. Just as a safety precaution. Yes nothing may never happened but I can say a lock is there for you just as a peace of mind.
@Filzzy Жыл бұрын
I love how you deal with situations like this Kev,because most parents would make excuses for their children but you’re very honest and know how Andy can be
@goktor55073 жыл бұрын
"Anna my ball dropped :(" "well it's a bit late for that hehehe" "0_0"
@fred26333 жыл бұрын
Are you American?
@goktor55073 жыл бұрын
@@fred2633 no I'm bri'ish Ethnically kurdish
@stacebrewer3 жыл бұрын
when Andy is in a meltdown it's not about trust. He's out of control and yep your stuff needs protecting and he needs protecting. So I would absolutely get a lock for that door, protect your livelihood and essentially protect yourselves and Andy from more costly and harmful damage.
@themandoLAUREN3 жыл бұрын
He is talking about that he doesn’t think every time this happens has been a meltdown.
@stacebrewer3 жыл бұрын
@@themandoLAUREN yeah I understand, even more reason to lock the door
@Trains29053 жыл бұрын
Andy wants things his own way when he's upset
@stacebrewer3 жыл бұрын
@@Trains2905 that’s not how autism works
@MumOfMylo3 жыл бұрын
My son's autistic and it's been a struggle and things getting broken in our house but he's got better as he's got older. Hope all's well 💕✌
@Imogencoleman13 жыл бұрын
Hey I am have Autism and anxiety
@Imogencoleman13 жыл бұрын
Does your son play on Fortnite
@MumOfMylo3 жыл бұрын
@@Imogencoleman1 No he doesn't like it but he's mario mad! 😂
@paulroberts36663 жыл бұрын
Hey Kev, long time supporter of the channel and love everything you do. Sorry to hear about Andy breaking something again. It's almost as if it's becoming a compulsive action now. Know you will have all this in hand as you always do. Much love to you and the family.
@blackcherry31483 жыл бұрын
If he can’t express himself with words when he gets frustrated with the electronics, can he be given some kind of a buzzer, with a loud noise, that he can press when he needs help. It can alarm you or a teacher right away if something goes wrong.
@bobblejones3 жыл бұрын
Really good idea!
@j.w20003 жыл бұрын
Some schools have a staff assistance alarm system , where staff would press if they need extra help urgently my high school has it when I went now I have left the school thank goodness for that! I hated my high school! I won't go into detail though!
@aaronmacdonald53973 жыл бұрын
After watching your q/a I knew this happened great one today
@andyc24uk3 жыл бұрын
To be fair, I think forced Windows updates make most people want to smash the computer...
@juliebotzenhart80643 жыл бұрын
I hope that Andy stops breaking things. That can get very expensive. I agree with having no tv in his bedroom for a while and then protecting it in a used cabinet maybe with plexiglass so he can't break the tv again.
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree too. He needs to learn to stop doing this.
@lucyhaikyuu3 жыл бұрын
Have you ever considered getting Andy an AAC device to help him communicate easier? He seems to be particularly good with technology (when it works), so it might help him get his feelings/thoughts across once he gets the hang of it!
@johnsmith77593 жыл бұрын
I swear every retail park in the UK looks the same
@TrixAndWhipz3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@jasondrury83013 жыл бұрын
Or if they look, slightly different it’s same old shops
@gabztheperson64153 жыл бұрын
That retail park is in Kettering
@sharonyearsley67203 жыл бұрын
Get a lock on the door. Prevention is best.
@j.w20003 жыл бұрын
Or distraction methods!
@sharonyearsley67203 жыл бұрын
@@j.w2000 but with a lock you don't have the problem of taking your eye off the ball.
@j.w20003 жыл бұрын
@@sharonyearsley6720 what do you mean by you don't have the problem with taking your eye off the ball?
@sharonyearsley67203 жыл бұрын
@@j.w2000 I mean my son has no access to expensive stuff as I lock it away. I put access codes on his xbox and tablet. So if he has got dressed before school he don't get access. Or if he's poo his pants I can say to him I will put your code in when you've changes your underwear.
@Ellasnaps3 жыл бұрын
Has Andy, or any of you, ever tried snow or Water sports?? I often find either of the two incredibly calming, it seems very unlike home and it's a whole heap of fun!! P.s. I suggest dingy sailing or skiing
@louisethomson97983 жыл бұрын
I think getting a lock on both rooms as there is a lot of gaming stuff, computer and tv's in both room if dave sleeps upstarts as well. Maybe a trip to the doctors for a check up as maybe medicine might need changed. Less/ more/different to help with get to breaking stage. Hope this not taken in a bad way, only sending good vibes to you all and thank you for sharing your life with the world. 🥰
@hanmc00533 жыл бұрын
You can get plug lock/gaurds on amazon
@sharonyearsley67203 жыл бұрын
You can get the lateral flow tests you can get from Lloyd's chemist free
@BenKlassen13 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about the smashing at school. I would get a lock on the door. He is not in control of his faculties, unfortunately.
@levisharman40553 жыл бұрын
Just wondering. If Anna thought she had covid, why then go out to the shops? Makes no sense to me
@imaginaryenemy25653 жыл бұрын
Kev mentioned how she had ordered home testing kits I'm sure she wouldn't go out if she really thought or knew she had it
@chloeholman79903 жыл бұрын
And send andy to school
@kevinchapmanvlog3 жыл бұрын
She didn’t think she had Covid. We thought it was probably hayfever, but ordered the tests to be on the safe side
@IloveAliBromley3 жыл бұрын
@@chloeholman7990 He has to go to school
@chloeholman79903 жыл бұрын
@@IloveAliBromley not if he potentially has covid
@erinmarsh5053 жыл бұрын
0:26 I thought you said my name🤣
@antiduckable3 жыл бұрын
Pizza competition!? They should make the start of Tournament of Toppings a national holiday.
@xeniabear3 жыл бұрын
Hope everything is ok now :(
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
You need to nip this straight in the bud because if not, he could do this to someone's computer and that person will not have it and won't takevit kindly. I have said simular before especially on previous videos attaining to this, but this definitely needs to be said here, especially as the school seem to be turning a blind eye to a potential issue here. You need to lock the doors, protect Anna's PC, move it if you have to. He cannot be doing this.
@marcmcpherson83653 жыл бұрын
He isn't your son you absolute moon boot
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
@@marcmcpherson8365 No, but I can still give advice like this, especially if it's based on past experiences. You do not have to be a parent to know that this is unacceptable, and don't forget, there are parents in this group, as well as qualified people who work with kids daily, including teachers. Please accept that if videos like this are shared publicly, then people will comment on it.
@razzinho173 жыл бұрын
So good to see Anna back in the vlogs
@6Gazzr3 жыл бұрын
Please get a lock. We’ve had to for the master bedroom as a result of things being dismantled
@thisisstevendavidCampbellrobb3 ай бұрын
you could try a Panasonic toughbook they are incredibly robust
@EmilyBattersby3 жыл бұрын
With Window 10 you the updates can choose active hours it can't update in?
@elliegeorge84443 жыл бұрын
Do u think he has head pains that’s why he asking lights of as it’s hurting his eyes
@elainewhitelock53473 жыл бұрын
Just wondering if Andy behaviours are due to pain?I have heard this can be a reason.
@j.w20003 жыл бұрын
Or foods like wheat etc. As I used to have behaviour where I needed to be restrained due to having a leaky gut from having lots of antibiotics as a tot as I used to have sevear tonsillitis and it was either sepsis or antibiotics so I had antibiotics that knackered my gut over time and my mum researched found this diet and changed our lives!
@graememarsh3 жыл бұрын
Suprised to see you go out before you found out about covid test results
@gobitzgames37043 жыл бұрын
Ah Prey. God the original was SO much better than the one they re imagined recently. I absolutely LOVED the original Prey its too bad they ditched everything that made it unique for a generic scifi horror. A damn shame.
@mysticgaming24553 жыл бұрын
Hey Kevin 👋 I have autism and I will put my hands up i did some terrible things like breaking things. That's when I was younger but now im 32 im more mature and wiser because I'm a gamer, but I hope it all goes well for you guys 😁
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
Can I ask, did you just grow out of it? Or did you have therapy sessions?
@mysticgaming24553 жыл бұрын
@@charlottevicarage1331 i had few therapy sessions but then after few weeks i grew out of it
@jennifermurdock9453 жыл бұрын
Oh man! Great day, except for Andy’s bit at school. I wonder if Andy’s smashing is a response to the laptop/computer not responding fast enough to his commands. Or his commands get it locked up in the endless loop or the computer not knowing which command to follow. I know that’s frustrating. Maybe? I mean, I’m an adult and I get frustrated when all I see is the hourglass. Anyhow, I did love the pinwheel and pop up game bit. That game looked fun to play, especially on a windy day. I love that your post office carries sensory toys. What a great idea! If there’s ever a place that you need a distraction it waiting at the post office.
@Not_a_snake3 жыл бұрын
Get a lock for your office. It would really be better to do that now instead of risk your livelihood.
@greenonline54693 жыл бұрын
Most of you looking towards Kev's computer and everything of high monetary value in his office to be the reason to get a lock. I'm looking towards his Silver Play Button in the background that if that got damaged then there's no replacing that whatsoever. (AFAIK)
@pikikle3 жыл бұрын
I love how Anna has become sassier since the new Vlogs
@amy6177478033 жыл бұрын
I use to throw stuff and I wouldn’t get anything new if I broke it for a while
@gizmo_puglife92803 жыл бұрын
if he needs a laptop for school ask for a Chromebook its mainly web base so google drive will be the main thing he will be using for work so he will not need to hand in work so that should take some stress off him with handing in stuff at school and for homework
@aspiechan4203 жыл бұрын
Another smashing incident… 😈😈😈
@ZeniaZ3 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you get loads ideas! And have no real idea but would and find release in doing some like hitting boxing bag?
@Wato823 жыл бұрын
If you need to have a look on office door put one put of Andy's reach or think he may find a way to brake lock, but it not good for you all sir
@anjholz51513 жыл бұрын
Before someone comes at me, I'm autistic too. Does he see a therapist for helping him deal and learn how to cope with his emotions? What kind of consequences does he get? He can't keep smashing and breaking things. Why so you keep buying him new TV and other electronics if he does this?
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
If anyone comes at you, that is THEIR problem, not yours. You made some very valid points there.
@anjholz51513 жыл бұрын
@@charlottevicarage1331 I'm not trying to tell them how to parent their autistic child. I'm just asking. I also know you can't use your typical forms of punishment like you would a neurotypical child.
@adamcrane63062 жыл бұрын
Hello Kevin Chapman
@aestheticsbyjasmine940 Жыл бұрын
Hi kev it's interesting to see these videos as spectrum is so wide my kids are what you class as atypical autistic but they still have autistic massive meltdowns if something doesn't go to plan or change of routine in anyway.
@andrews02083 жыл бұрын
Laptop wise maybe they should be either Toughbook or Dell Rugged they are supposed to be more or less indestructible
@alphaguru3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully Anna will test negative for Covid and she is okay. Probably strictly speaking she shouldn't have gone out if she was waiting for lateral flow tests as she suspected a possibility of having Covid, but hey, I'm not the police. I can't imagine many people follow the rules anymore anyway, if anyone even knows what they are anymore.
@kevinchapmanvlog3 жыл бұрын
She’s double vaccinated and we knew it was hayfever, but ordered the test to be safe
@Anna-xs5ph3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinchapmanvlog there is still a small chance of getting it
@alphaguru3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinchapmanvlog hope she is okay now anyway!
@IloveAliBromley3 жыл бұрын
@@Maddie3211000 They followed the rules last year Andy didn't go to school for ages and everything is open again now
@IloveAliBromley3 жыл бұрын
@@kevinchapmanvlog I did tell them
@gourmet22763 жыл бұрын
Great that your post office has sensory toy section
@garethcooley36753 жыл бұрын
If Andy is unplugging Anna's PC could it be because its something new in the living room? The consoles may change but I assume they are/have been in the same place all the time. If there is a new desk and PC in there could it be a change issue? He maybe doesn't have an issue with your PC stuff because he understands its in your office and that's "work" where as the living room is "home"? Just a thought. Also quick question - WWE or AEW? Who do you watch more/like more?
@sharonyearsley67203 жыл бұрын
They may have replaced it and not punished as it for education.
@j.w20003 жыл бұрын
You should give him a PC with Linux on it as it's a os that is less likely not do stuff unexpected as it asks you before a update and doesn't just do it like windows, that's why I use Linux instead of windows! Plus it's more secure and I've not had those annoying scam pop up things to call a number yet on Linux but I hope I don't! As I won't be to happy!
@sephuk3 жыл бұрын
Kev where did you get those glasses you are wearing when you are outside sports direct?
@danielanderson88143 жыл бұрын
Wonder if he will get out of this smashing habit anytime soon??
@gg41r3 жыл бұрын
If Andy starts to make the connection that if he smashes something, he has to go without another one for a long time, he will likely stop breaking stuff. I went thro similar with my son. I made sure he had to wait to get his hands on a replacement if he broke something. Now, he REALLY looks after his posessions. My sons is also autistic. Being Autistic isnt a licence to do as you please, with no comebacks.
@ElyseHorvath3 жыл бұрын
How about the Panasonic toughbook laptop those things are indestructible
@cjplaysfm17143 жыл бұрын
The nighty blue England top is in jd sports
@emmabennett23713 жыл бұрын
Hi Kevin and Anna and Andy
@sophiaeasel15613 жыл бұрын
He must be upset about something? Please soothe him 💚💚 and consult with his doctor also.... Maybe glue his computers to the floor somehow so he cant pick it up. My non-verbal autistic brother is weirdly intelligent when it comes to making trouble. 😅😅😅😅 please don't worry, lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
That doesn't excuse him smashing stuff up though.
@tobyfroom3 жыл бұрын
Andy that cost a lot of money
@celesteroberts57943 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and I love it form Celeste Roberts
@EmilyBattersby3 жыл бұрын
Would he have the same issue with mac?
@shazdanks75543 жыл бұрын
The camera was going in and out of focus occasionally
@GrumpyMeldrew3 жыл бұрын
hi Kevin try speak to Andy school for a social story for him
@sharonyearsley67203 жыл бұрын
Try In The Style online. Ladbaby have done a range of England t shirts.
@TrixAndWhipz3 жыл бұрын
Here! Don’t forget me! 😂😅
@polly-annbailey99143 жыл бұрын
They do some official ones in primark for £9
@shadowfayfurry13233 жыл бұрын
Could we donate him like a stack of laptops for him
@harryroberts26303 жыл бұрын
Love Anna
@emma123458903 жыл бұрын
How come Andy isnt getting school transport
@gliderdan31533 жыл бұрын
Its just taking ages for the local education authority to sanction it
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
@@gliderdan3153 Ah, yes, VeganTeacher roaster..
@roycropper6983 жыл бұрын
Have you ever thought of trying to wean him of technology? I know it helps him cope with his day to day life but, if he’s now resorting to smashing computers at school could it not be that he’s becoming more aggressive towards technology when it fails? I mean, if technology is starting to become the cause of his meltdowns maybe it’s time to start weaning him of it and try and encourage him to do other stuff.
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
Yes, I would agree with this and have actually said this, however, it is hard, as technology is part of our daily lives. But otherwise, yes, 100% agree. Especially limiting his screen time..
@roycropper6983 жыл бұрын
@@charlottevicarage1331 I know Kev and Anna do and he does have a set period where he can’t have his IPad etc. However, if meltdowns are being caused by technology then maybe it’s time to limit his screen time. Of course, it won’t be easy as it’ll disrupt his schedule which will sadly cause another meltdown. I mean, Kev and Anna were fearing a meltdown when the gardener cut the internet cable.
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
@@roycropper698 Yes, that isn't healthy.
@martincollins14783 жыл бұрын
Is andy aware twitch is mummy's new work/job? Perhaps given how much he struggled when Anna had her previous job he is correlating Anna working with that period of time? At least that's all he is doing though, perhaps set up a camera in the living room to get a rough sense of when he is doing it?
@stazzaproductions3 жыл бұрын
Shouldn't Andy bring COVID tests from home?
@kevinchapmanvlog3 жыл бұрын
No
@sambee89823 жыл бұрын
First comment. I hope that Andy is okay, but what caused him to smash a computer at School? I hope that he didn't get temporarily excluded from school because of that.
@EvTheVeg3 жыл бұрын
When I went to a special school there were kids smashing and throwing things all the time, but very rare to get excluded
@sambee89823 жыл бұрын
@@EvTheVeg I once got excluded from the Priory School at Spalding for assaulting a teacher back when I was 15. I got a 2 day exclusion.
@EvTheVeg3 жыл бұрын
@@sambee8982 yeah it does happen but for someone like Andy I doubt they'd exclude him and disrupt his routine for breaking equipment, if he didn't hurt another person
@sambee89823 жыл бұрын
@@EvTheVeg I probably guess that he won't get excluded, even though he damaged school property if he's severely autistic then. Only the head teacher can make that decision whether to exclude Andy or not.
@Oses143 жыл бұрын
Could always ask the school if he could take his iPad
@Teddybarrettmusic3 жыл бұрын
Bruh moment
@sophielunt9953 жыл бұрын
R y a wwe fan where did you get the bootyos new day from do they sell them in the UK
@brandonmoore15552 жыл бұрын
Andy you think young just like me cool hi dude plus you watch ABC kids just me really awesome please comment and chat sometime
@fradgers12373 жыл бұрын
Voted
@pepp773 жыл бұрын
Is it just me who doesn’t see a video for yesterday that keeps getting referred to.
@kevinchapmanvlog3 жыл бұрын
It was released on Tuesday.
@pepp773 жыл бұрын
Ah, the dyson episode
@simeonyves59403 жыл бұрын
Oh No.... that is Bad News! Andy needs to stop This Smashing Stuff :( I am sorry if I come across as a Busybody here, but You really do need to find a way to Nip this in the Bud, because the Residential Home is most likely *not* going to tolerate that Kind of Behaviour :( so, Please, You need to find some way to stop Andy doing this Smashing Stuff :( indeed, it is Impossible to Find what You want on the Internet... Still cannot Find a Series X for Forza Horizon 5 anywhere! I am glad Andy got into School Ok at Least. What Happened? is everyone Ok? I am glad the Potential Card "Issue" got Spotted and *Stopped* ! that has happened to Us as well, the most Recent One was a Deliveroo Pizza! I am glad You got Your Pizza Sir. We just Buy a Basic Margherita and Put Our own Toppings on. Ham and Hot Dog is Best! I am Sorry You lost the Unboxing Footage of the Series S. File Corruptions are just the Worst! Personally, I consider the Series S to be a Downgrade from My Current One X, No 4K Support, Less RAM and a Smaller Storage Capacity (Not good with Games being between 100-150GB a Pop Now) , so its Either Series X or PC for Me. I do not think it is a good Idea for Andy to have a TV in His Room, I think it should be in the Lounge like in the Old House so You can keep an Eye on Him! I hate it when they Reboot a Game Series and use the Same Title as the Original. Yes, the Original Prey was on the 360 for Launch (it was Originally a PC Game however) , But it was Rebooted in 2017 with a Game that is, basically, System Shock 3 in all but Name. Oh, Dave! Naughty! How did Anna hurt Her Foot? is She ok? I Prefer to Own My Games, Sorry, I have no real Interest in the Game-Pass. I am Glad Anna has no come down with the Lurgi. Hello Andy! Why does Andy not like the Lights? are they too Bright for Him? A Sensory Toy Section at the Post Office?! How Lovely! A lot of People with Autism prefer to be Barefoot I Notice.. Good thing Andy mostly Wears Slip On's as He is Prone to taking His Shoes off. I hope You Found that Ball that went Behind the Storage "Shed" . I am Sorry Andy did not really want to Play with the Toy. I am Sorry the SD Card corrupted Again :( Try a New Card. ah, the Bad News. Yes, that is a Bad Incident, something really does need to be Done about this! Computers are *not* Cheap. I am glad the Andy is Ok and did not Hurt Himself however. I can only Assume the Computer "Locked" Up, They do have a Bad Tendency to suddenly Freeze. I am glad the School was Understanding, but, Yes, the School should have given some kind of Punishment so Andy can learn *Not* to do this. Yes, PC's and Severe Autism are not always a good Combination as they Frequently do things that we do NOT Expect them too! A PC is like an Italian Exotic Car, *Insane* Performance, but they Will go Wrong if there is a Y in the Day! That was one *Tough* Laptop! Was that the Lenovo? Either an I Pad, or, If Possible, back to Good Old Pencil and Paper might be the Best. Given the School were Understanding, it was Probably a Meltdown, I know I can have them if One of My PC's goes into BSOD. Yes, You need to get a Lock on the Door, just to be on the Safe Side. Well, take care then Sir, I hope the Rest of the Week goes Better. Bye Now.
@charlottevicarage13313 жыл бұрын
I have to say, I agree with much you're saying.
@simeonyves59403 жыл бұрын
@@charlottevicarage1331 Thank You. I do hope that the Chapman's put a Stop to these Issues, as the Residential Home is not going to put up with them, so it will be better for Andy if they stop them as fast as Possible.