Why Dating Is Hard For Foreigners In Korea

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[@AveryLiburd]

dude from new york here, thanks for interviewing me 🙏🏾🗽🇺🇸🇰🇷

[@KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker]

Shout-out to you sir. I can't speak for any other man but I can honestly say I appreciate the representation you speak the language, you are able to study and teach others to learn more in depth about Korean culture. I'll subscribe. Very awesome. From a fellow New Yorker we're all over the world 🌎

[@theplacewhereweheal2991]

Hey dude from new York your wife here 😂 love the interview @Averyliburd

[@fullmetaltheorist]

What's up?

[@anthonyandruthgentles]

I’m from NYC myself as well. Lol

[@CmacNYC]

You went to Madison High School in Brooklyn?

[@2ezRicky]

That's so messed up what happened to the woman from Maryland, sad that things like that still happen. You'd think with how much access people have with the internet and information they wouldn't be so ignorant.

[@yj8641]

Most young Koreans know they cannot use the N word. That guy is incredibly mean person. He may have said that on purpose to hurt her feeling. Incredibly mean 🤮

[@makutumafwa7496]

That's not ignorance...that's a soul defect. !If you're unable to recognize humanity in others, your soul is defective.

[@tewkewl]

he's not american. he has no idea that it's a cuss word.

[@KangTheDigitalNomadGlobeTreker]

He was honest. He did her a favor.

[@boparks3204]

​@@tewkewlMost younger South Koreans do know that is a bad word and an insult to say.

[@graceofthelordful]

Nothing to do with the topic but your different hairstyles throughout the video are so gorgeous you're too pretty!

[@_CL]

drippy as hell, never misses

[@graceofthelordful]

@@_CL for real like at one point I couldn't focus on what they were saying my attention was on him only skshsjsk

[@mino4965]

as a korean I gotta admit that I hate celebrating every anniversaries like 100th, 200th, 1year etc. including bday I have to celebrate like fkn 5,6 days a year and it's really annoying

[@ruthquaye8649]

That's really sad . Cause am really looking forward to celebrate this anniversaries.

[@gray4551]

😂

[@DayoSamuelMastery]

The guy interviewing has a smooth radio voice that’s super cool to listen to. Keep it up

[@sillycandigirl]

The car date is soooo cute and thoughtful.

[@sunnni_]

It's the way the guy said he doesn't want any "N word" kids because they will get bullied as if SK doesn't have one of the largest school bullying issues already within themselves lol. Like what? lol. We've seen all the movies, tv shows, scandals, news articles. That one really ticked me off

[@amablogreactions]

For real

[@MrArtVein]

Right. I just finished season 1 of Lookism like that's the whole friggin plot

[@sombatkhnor5720]

Facts!

[@Kennythecardealer]

Exactly like bullied? These are the same people who kill themselves over Pokémon cards.

[@LaraBiH26]

Agreed. I am totally ticked off by what she had to hear. And their society has the highest suicide rate in THE WORLD.

[@chimakalu41]

18:15 I like this guy's honesty he did not try to disguise korean preferences towards Caucasians

[@Apieceofgarbage]

Yeap, and he also said it is decreasing. He is noticing some change. And it is something I feel among Koreans(I am Korean)

[@shakirasmith6454]

@@Apieceofgarbage very interesting. As a foreigner wanting to visit Korea, why is the interest decreasing?

[@Apieceofgarbage]

​@@shakirasmith6454oh I suggest you visit Korea in April or early May, and October or early November. Weather sucks. And basically going out with foreign guys or girls, just because they are white people is kind of outdated. I think Caucasians would have the most chances in 90s or early 2000s.

[@KingOfHeroes1996]

@@Apieceofgarbage as a non-Caucasian moving to Korea for work this year, I'm glad to hear that lol

[@Apieceofgarbage]

@KingOfHeroes1996 good luck!! Good luck 👍

[@nomanmon]

I’m a guy, living in Korea. For me at least, dating doesn’t seem to be difficult.. just be open-minded. Don’t fall for stereotypes, just be a decent human and don’t assume the worst of people.

[@GA-ik6pi]

The European girl gave me jokes😂😂!! Her reactions and willingness to share about the ridiculous date she had, was bareeeee eye opener! Gee thinking dating in U.K. was bad… sheesh!! And the lady from Maryland! Like … wowwwwwww what that guy said to her about not having n-kids?!! Nahhhh mate! Nahhhh! I’m black British female, and that to me was just wrank mate! I’m Not in a running to KR JUST for man😂, and certainly not running there any time soon. I think in general both men and women have to be mindful about the types of people they meet anyway. Whether it be online or in person 👍🏾.

[@karentimberlake4657]

I find that racism and prejudice in Korea is very strong. I would never travel to a place where they accept my money but, they think nothing of me. I will go to Africa and the Carribean where I am respected and appreciated.

[@JPerryMMA3]

Fact

[@maxwelljackson8833]

Yes

[@X-se6qy]

How are they towards Europeans?

[@yepun-u2j]

​@@X-se6qyyt europeans are good, basically just be lightskinned

[@chinavirus841]

@@X-se6qythey love Europe ❤

[@BtheNomad]

Dating culture is honestly so different around the world - The interviews I made with Colombian girls, really show a MUCH different approach to this, than the Korean one haha

[@r3ckless_zx10rr]

love how bro in 13:40 went from speaking US english to Korean to English with a Korean acccent lol

[@katherinejimenezmatos2009]

Von is so cool! Love the outfit and love the vibe ❤ Dude from New York, know that that feeling in Han River lol happens to many of us. You are not alone 🥲😅

[@bochina58]

Dude from NY is handsome, do u agree ?

[@AveryLiburd]

@@bochina58thank you 🙏🏾🗽

[@vonnvoyaj]

Thank you 😁 😁

[@katherinejimenezmatos2009]

@@bochina58 I do agree 😍

[@katherinejimenezmatos2009]

@@vonnvoyaj ☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@dunglifemovement]

its so cool to see yall speak fluent Korean.

[@KippinCollars]

The interviewees in this video are all very charming and sweet people.

[@dmani8791]

I was just thinking this

[@cwell510]

12:38 Wow, two black dudes speaking to each other in Korean 🇰🇷, that's something you don't see everyday...

[@iamtheonlywilly]

14:03 that man spoke Korean before he moved to SK. His Korean is very good and he has an Korean accent although he’s from NYC. Wow

[@JiaPia3]

14:45 in the all black, our host looks like an anime character. That's a compliment. He looks fierce.

[@400great7]

Men who approach first on the street or at restaurants are often men of poor quality. In Korea, most men generally do not approach women they do not know first.

[@dameanvil]

Your interviews are so valuable. They are fascinating too see how self-absorbed people can be. White women think they are treated differently because of the movies. But at the same time Black women think the same for the same reasons. And while White women are shocked to be assumed Russian, your last interviewee thinks "it is because they see I am half Russian".

[@g3MZ1ZA11G00D]

Can we just say how fine my man look. Yes king you my type. Sincerely a black girl from NYC.

[@melaninmonroeeee]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@denizkaragullu6239]

I couldn't take my eyes off of him. Sincerely, a Turkish woman from Istanbul

[@Im_hyeon_]

As a Korean, I appreciate your video because I can understand the thoughts of foreigners. And here's what I want for you something, Could I get a script of your video to study english?😂 Me and korean people, or other foreigners who wanna learn enlgish by watching your video would be appriciate you, If you are sharing or even you decide to sell it! Thx!

[@user-rs3ki3sp6i]

Would you please do the interview with korean in western countries the same way it is in this video?i wonder what they have been through when dating in the western culture

[@babylips00]

As a Korean American who was only ever into non Asian men, the older I get, the more I realize I would rather date and marry another Korean American because no one else will understand my culture - which includes how I was raised. Growing up with immigrant parents, who were the children of veterans fighting for the survival of their own country had a huge impact that Americans who’s families have been here for generations will never understand.

[@user-rs3ki3sp6i]

In the same context, korean tends to date korean because of that reason. Even it is very difficult to understand each other among koreans nowadays. I dont know why that matters in this interviewer's videos. He merely seems to be inducing hatred on korean. If the rejection to culture differences is racism, no one in the world is innocent from that.

[@sssssssss111]

@@babylips00 I have heard the same sentiment from Korean Americans who tried dating in Korea.

[@cosmicexplorer4856]

The Chinese Singaporean girl is very attractive.

[@HealthyLifestyled788]

😅😅😅😅 There was a Korean friend in NY .I just moved to NY from France and he wanted to marry me to give me the green card 😅I said no.He curse at me and he said he will call immigration on me 😅😅. I'm going to visit Koreat in a few days .

[@lowkeehkis2454]

Your 8:26 outfit is fire. Rolled sleeves was dope.

[@hyperstealth2423]

I like how at 14:05 he was talking about there’s a lot of couples in Korea and there’s a couple passing behind him right when he said that😂

[@markmuller7962]

Hey K Ex this new style is so perfect for you it's amazing

[@yoanjapan6751]

No one is talking about how the interviewer is SERVING US L.O.O.K.S!💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅

[@briangan3133]

No

[@lasrie9689]

14:07 right as he say that a couple walk by 😂🥹

[@AveryLiburd]

😂😂😂

[@dxmedia868]

Give the interviewees credit.

[@BWrampage]

So far I like the sound of their dating culture, I agree with the second person about American dating is pretty much gone so no point in being romantic unless for hook ups.

[@Santo-one1]

Great video 💯 thank you for sharing. Watching from O🍊C Southern California. Hello there KOREAN woman 😊

[@chahedsumia]

The Interviewer. youuuuuuu are soooo handsome.

[@ritchieb1612]

Jerry... do your thing guy!!

[@mandalorianhunter1]

At least the white guy was honest about whites having a slight preference. I'm glad the black guys got with some Korean girls because I heard stories about discrimination in Korea being maybe second after China. The ghosting and open relationships is new to me, glad I found out about it

[@pmg2585]

uhh ... one of the black guys is gay. Doubt he got with many Korean girls!

[@demri123]

That dude is definitely gay tho

[@NOCDIB]

Korean women are the most open to dating Black men out of any Asian group. That's always been my experience. The most racist is Chinese. Yes, even more than Japanese the Chinese are anti-Black when it comes to relationships and cultural acceptance. Japanese people love Black cultural appropriation, though.

[@22s22a]

I lived in korea two years as a black man and I had pretty good success..... I am 6"2 and very athletic though

[@mandalorianhunter1]

@@22s22a I'm glad you had a good time

[@francoismarc3]

In hip hop music, Black Americans use the Nword all the time, so EVERYONE around the world thinks it's okay to say that. We should stop using that word in our music and to each other so other people will know not to use that word...Nothing good about it.

[@sosilly.phoenix]

hip hop is black american culture???

[@francoismarc3]

@@sosilly.phoenix where do you think hip hop comes from?

[@Manisonlychannel]

are YOU single is the question cuz damn you look so good and overall attractive 🥹

[@princecoffee2349]

We need to think from the Korean perspective. Koreans have lived as a single ethnic nation for 5,000 years. Objectively, they have better options than foreigner, both economically and racially. "same Korean" It doesn't matter if you're white or black. There are always better options for them that are easier and don't have language barriers.

[@Jnealt12]

I love her, stay with us sis… we are enough. I’m a 🥷 , and all my kids and grand kids will be so….no apologies !!

[@biz20072008]

21:50 half Israeli, half Ukrainian ... That's SuS 🤔😅😂😂😂

[@EstherOlabisi]

When that guy says there's a lot of couples in Korea and a couple walks away in the background lol

[@hughjassol2072]

7:27 We all need her IG asap

[@Zanigga-de2ks]

You got it?

[@marcustoney7762]

The girl from Maryland is beautiful, I would definitely date her.

[@lovejubileee]

Hi interviewer . Can u make a video about yourself , where your from why u came to Korea ect ??? I think ppl would love it

[@vivr837]

His accent is West African. I guess Ghana or Nigeria?! I could be wrong...

[@The_barefoot_bedouin]

He’s from a French sleeping country, but definitely not Nigerian. Could be Ghanaian.

[@KVergara]

I'd like to hear his answer to the question. Are people in Korea just not being made aware of the severity of the word? Disappointed that either the interviewee failed to finish the story, or it was edited out of both this short and the full vid.

[@avnertouitou3778]

The problem in Korean culture is that the family get involved especially the mothers and will speak behind your back but will speak noce to your face it's why ppl don't get married in Korea and in my experience it's one of the worst cultures in the world guy's stay away from Korea or don't let your Korean partner any connections to their families

[@nesadcruz7840]

Marriage involved families in Asian families and that really strengthens the bond as. Couples do need family support. If a guy can break with his biological family it is likely he wont care much for his kids either unless his biological family is criminal

[@풍뎅이-h5b]

6:26 I wasn’t ready for this curveball 😂😂

[@Top-Kek]

Jerry too drippy

[@torpedohost]

third guy speaks english with a korean accent haha

[@HealthyLifestyled788]

Very true once you said you from NY that's it .I met a lady from Thailand while im in Malaysia she finds out I from NY she changed and wants to be my friend invite me to her house when i visit Thailand,she said I can be your mom i have black children 😅.

[@captainprice1072]

12:01 15?! Boy, ain't no way, boy

[@peacelife]

Luv your short and video. Always ask genuine questions. Great guests too. Ya! I notice lots of young Korean guy say Russian ask the type of girls they attractive too. Still a very close minded countries. Only those who studied abroad and travel out would have a broader understanding and appreciation for others culture

[@nesadcruz7840]

Those who have travelled dont like what they have seen in certain western cultures. If a certain race has a prevalence of single mothers, young men in prison etc that isnt the kind of family they want to marry into. Frankly many Asians do generalise that about certain ethnic groups in the US and prefer to not have kids with those races.

[@D415h4n34]

These interviews are so good to see💖

[@Azulblueone]

15:00 - It's definitely a shallow perspective view about playing video games, but I get it. It's actually good for the mind within moderation.

[@richardkim3629]

한국인들이 인종차별주의자들이 심하다는 건 부정할 수가 없습니다. 사회에서는 백인하면 무조건 1순위로 쳐주는 것은 부정할 수 없는 사실이고 (그렇다고 무조건 백인이라고 좋아하는 사람들은 많지 않습니다.) 무엇보다 인종도 그렇지만 저희나라는 외모 하나로 사람을 판단하는 외모지상주의(Lookism)가 심하기도 합니다. (Skinny bodies, beautiful or handsome faces) 설령 남성이든 여성이든 Black, Arabian, Latin, Eastern South Asian, South Asian 하고 결혼하여 한국에서 생활하는 것은 쉽지 않을 것입니다. 미국같은 다인종국가에서 사는 것이 훨씬 좋을 것이라 생각합니다. 일본 중국도 큰 차이는 없을 것이라고 생각합니다.

[@excripto1]

That is not true. Maybe the older Koreans may have some ignorance about other races but the younger Koreans are more accepting and they understand many different cultures. Koreans are some of the most traveled people in the world and they are very educated on different world cultures. Also look at the high number of Koreans marrying foreigners.

[@mino4965]

This guy thinks there’s no racism in america 😂😂😂 at least korean don’t beat them to death

[@applelime7693]

@@mino4965 How can you say something so nasty.

[@richardkim3629]

​@mino4965 hmmm don't know the situation of America exactly. But I agree the Asians don't use violence for it

[@richardkim3629]

​@@excripto1I replied for your comment. But Google erased my comment. Cannot reply again sry

[@Kalk__]

Omg i went to hs with the girl @7:28 crazy randi if u see this heyyy sis what are the odds that this got suggested to me 🤯 hope ur doing well❤️

[@perceive.v1951]

what's her @

[@justgetitDLC]

DMV in the building! I hope she’s from PG county!

[@JiaPia3]

Oh my goodness, if a guy said he'd see me when he's "not busy", I would be like, no, make that never again, and lose my number! That's so RUDE! 😡

[@kellytew107]

That lady from Maryland is so pretty and I hate that she experienced such an awful date. 😢 That’s just awful, I hope that man now knows better!! 😡 To her: 🤟❤️🤘

[@KoreaWithKids]

"한국말" 하면 발음이 "한궁말"로 해요. 그렇지 않으면 좀 이상하게 들려요.

[@ThatDudeTonyB]

Ayeeee Maryland here 🔥🔥🔥

[@ganiuabdulrahman6078]

See as dem dey chop Korean God when

[@MyAccountForCommenting]

I went on a solo trip to Zurich and felt like that guy did when I was walking along Lake Zurich. So many couples canoodling and being lovey-dovey. 😂

[@chykomoney1085]

What is that black girl's @?

[@GodsView1]

Great but you should have included in video why they came to Korea so we can know the initial interest in Korea

[@lordmyclin3671]

bro your fits are deadly i wish i was dripping so hard.

[@franzitaduz]

Maybe it’s better to focus on the purpose of living abroad and not dating up the K-population. They have achieved so much since independence and should be permitted to decide how to deal with foreigners given their history. Love is a rare bird that lands on the right branch naturally.

[@warrior6673]

Bro i didnt know i can have memorable experiences in siberia 6:28

[@eneidialawhead8920]

Great point of views👍🏻

[@TabithaHope-tv2lv]

Oh my gosh! I love your dress sense❤

[@demetridominguez25]

The first Asian girl around 1:00 sounds Caribbean. Like there’s a slight Barbadian accent

[@robertb7643]

It’s a Singapore/malay accent, little sing songy too but it’s own thing

[@johng5295]

Awesome. Great content.

[@Notsurewhy11]

Bro I’ve been here for these past 2-3 months and a Korean woman literally told me this same exact while we were at the club on Saturday💀Randomly too!

[@luisalvarado2474]

So that's where Sisqo has been! "let me see that thoooooong"

[@FedorSTR]

It`s easier to find friends among foreigners than locals.

[@WanglembaElangbam-xj7yl]

I met my boyfriend in club, he is really cute and very attentive and romantic. Not all guys in Korean clubs are f#ckboys that is just urban legend. I suggest any girls who wants to visit Korea to come to hongdae and have a good time and if you are looking for a relationship you will get what you need trust me gem like you won't go unnoticed in Korea. Korean man are very direct and fun and there is nothing wrong with hunting for hot Korean guys, man do it all the time! Look at all the passport bros from my country (America) and other European and Australia going to countries in south east Asia like Phillipines and Thailand. If guys can openly do it then there is nothing wrong with being girls and going to Korea to enjoy the dating culture here. Also we need more foreign girls here cause sometimes I do feel tensions from Korean girls looking at me and my Korean boyfriend holding hands, they don't say anything but I know they are judging me like for stealing there man or something) so we do need more international couples (foreign girls and Korean) and we have a large fcbook group and community of foreign girls Korean couple. So you won't be lonely. Out of 3 international marriage in Korea 2 is between Korean man and foreign girls.

[@blarfroer8066]

1. You sound like you are 15. I don't believe you've even been to Korea. 2. The typical passport sis can be found in various African countries.

[@이효민-w8h]

​@YuriLee-il8kx혹시 미국 남자예요?? 미국 남자들이 미국 여자만큼 바그디카운트가 높아요. 그리고 대부분 책임이 없고 자기가 여자를 임신하면 도망가요. 그리고 요즘에 미국 남자들도 결하면 맞벌이 해야한다고 생각한데, 여자가 아직도 모든 집안일 해야한다고 생각해요... 미국 남자들은 미국 여자를 이렇게 만들었어요... 만약 다른 나라에 가면 그 나라의 여자들도 미국 여자 처럼 되는 거예요....

[@underestimated1171]

Passport bros are embarrassing, who in their right mind would want to imitate them?

[@이효민-w8h]

@YuriLee-il8kx 그럼 바디카운트, 패스포트 형제들 이런 걸 왜 언급했나요?

[@roxyglow9670]

i guess you were just lucky girl but let s be honest hahaha the majority of korean men at clubs are there to have hookups. I mean if as a woman you wanna do the same thing, go for it but don t really expect a serious relationship. I know it cuz i live in Seoul since long time so it is what it is 😅

[@documentarygirl8]

20 year old texting n trying to date a child. Oh naw baby POLICE

[@sssarnk]

Jesus that woman from Maryland is fine as hell

[@Living.peachy]

Girl with the black top seems like she was just meeting a everyday narc

[@palm6714]

I'd definitely date the lady from Maryland. She's so pretty.

[@PineappletussIn]

this chick goes on every channel saying the same thing go home lol

[@BigBossComplex]

Not that she said it (I'm going off of these comments I've read), but it's amazing how shocked people are over how insensitive to race/racist a lot of other countries are, *especially in Asia*. Just a quick Google/Wikipedia search will reveal all the atrocities the neighboring countries have done to each other over the years, not to mention the fact that Korea had slaves long before, and a whole lot longer than the U.S. Treating people poorly because they look different from you is not just something that happens in the West.

[@AudioVyl]

i think i prefer the korean way of dating no more situationships lol

[@cashxjonny]

Bro was trippin she’s bad as shit lol

[@kashthehack]

My question is why are they living out there

[@tatyanarogachova2775]

Sorry, why do they block people after saying that they really like the person? Do they say that just for being polite

[@SEED_OF_ISRAEL]

Black woman marry you a black man… leave those …… people alone….

[@Ulzannghome]

Black man aren’t my preference

[@SEED_OF_ISRAEL]

@@Ulzannghome and I’m sure you’re not black men’s preference by a long shot

[@monicawilson8075]

Are black men particularly known for uplifting black women...?

[@SEED_OF_ISRAEL]

@@monicawilson8075 do you know all black men?

[@nesadcruz7840]

@@Ulzannghomebut are Black women the preference of men of other races? That is the question

[@QueenMizu]

Bruh i really want to know what else happened with the black woman 😅 like did he say why he said it like that? Did you cuss him out ir tell him that's not ok?

[@keynotepablo3524]

that singaporean girl is SO fine omfg

[@BreAmour_b]

Why do they say they like you 😂then ghost you

[@baldydadon2305]

100 days Togedeeerr 200 days Togedeeerr 300 days Togedeeerr

[@VidaForward]

NC in the HOUSE!!!

[@vonshayne5316]

In Australia we want to smash and leave lol.

[@MrCoursair77]

So true, so true yeah preference yep

[@happyforever7]

you should know. its hard to get a quality person in club. but there are many people trying to get other there

[@HealthyLifestyled788]

The white girl 🤣🤣🤣 had the worst date 😅 Sorry god will have the best one for you

[@chimakalu41]

1:27 She is giving props to the korean guys.

[@cheapestwhips2010]

Light skin Shawty from Maryland. Where you @