Key Communication Style Differences between Fi (introverted feeling) and Fe (extraverted feeling)

[@faris8129]

5:30 what a priceless smiles, that's really distracted my focus 🙈 anyway good content can't wait to see another video. I'm Fi user i really want to develop my Fe cuz people sometimes always miss understand my communication style, it's more like i can't express emotion or expression the way Fe user do and i do always come up with awkward if i try to use my Fe. P.s : I think i fall in love with that smile 😣 - infp

[@ToriH]

Thank you. Fi is great too, can work that aloof but sensitive angle. 😌

[@icanrelate]

Your straight fwd communication style is my favorite rn. You get to the point quickly. Thank you 💜

[@ToriH]

Thank you for your continuous support. :)

[@kyriahowey3322]

This last segment is why I as an intj crave overt feedback and communication. It's a way to bridge worlds and feel more connected to other people. I am constantly expressing that I just don't understand people.

[@rachellyary7365]

Very good and funny videos bring a great sense of entertainment!

[@liyaxin9144]

Intjs use big smile emojis sometimes out of curtesy. We don’t feel it but we use it just to make a point. It’s not like you have to fake smile in front of people in which case you have to move your muscles

[@ToriH]

I see, yes there are individual differences and some intjs can use v sunshine emoji smiles. I'm just speaking of it relative to high Fe users. In my observation among my friends, the Fe users tend to be more likely to use that.

[@ToriH]

Same for Fe users, not all Fe users have to use those emojis either. As there are individual preferences. Just commenting on a trend.

[@liyaxin9144]

Tori H yes, I guess they enjoy using it more

[@JoyceMeng22]

Hey, great video Tori :)!! Kristen Stewart DOES seem to be a TJ. I'm all about obvious signs of support. Loved watching this ^-^!

[@ToriH]

Thanks Joyce! I love typing celebrities lol. Emotional support keeps my channel going. 💕

[@ec8335]

I see a lot of people type Kristen Stewart as a Ti-dominant (ISTP), but I think TJ makes more sense. ISTP and INTP may have "inferior" Fe, but they still have Fe in their function stack, so they often make more of an effort to at least appear somewhat friendly (even if it's awkwardly so). My dad is an ISTP and his Fe is very apparent in social settings, even though he tends to use his Fe in a rather childlike way.

[@jankom.7783]

That Fi understanding of relationships is not telepathy but Fi. Feeling between people matter, because we take actions based on them. Fi categorizes these action-feeling pairs. Similar as Ni categorizing relationship between how a person wants to affect their physical environment and actions they take to do it. Like if somebody is looking for a shovel, Ni person will understand that that person wants to dig a hole. Friendship is Si thing. Fi thing is to figure out what drives people in social situations, so you can control it. For the sake of getting something done as a group. Ti thing is to figure out how to be valued by other people in your group

[@toniidowu6301]

Loved this💛!!

[@ToriH]

Yay thank you for the support! :D

[@LadyLuck8_4]

I think both use emojis fairly equally but Fe uses more love hearts unless Fi is mimicking Fe

[@ToriH]

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[@alannathurgood2814]

This was really interesting and helped me understand some friends better... I'm curious what you think about my type, ENFPs. We use Fi, but I think might be more "warm" if that's the right word, like more emotionally expressive when meeting new people. In my personal relationships, I definitely see the Fi, I might be more withdrawn. But when meeting a new person, I think I can be more emotionally outgoing, maybe that's because of dominant Ne?

[@ToriH]

Yes Ne makes enfps rly energetic socially.

[@alannathurgood2814]

@@ToriH Ok that makes sense! Thanks :)

[@CA3226]

Great video and insight 💜

[@ToriH]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@yourinternetfriend]

Resonating-wise, i go back and forth between INFP and INFJ 😶‍🌫️

[@ToriH]

Your Enneagram Type can confuse the two types...Enneagram 4 for eg. is going to value individuality just like INFPs. So the solution is to look at cognitive functions rather than general traits that can sound similar too.

[@ToriH]

Do you use Fe or Fi? What differences have you observed? 🤔 . . Like & Subscribe ♥️ Hit the notification bell for updates!

[@annf6623]

Really makes sense for the intj that i knw

[@ec8335]

I'm not sure if you know the mainland Chinese actor Xiao Zhan (肖战). He became famous for acting in a web drama series called The Untamed (陈情令). If you know about him, I'd be interested in knowing what type you think he is, or at least whether you think he is an Fe or Fi user.

[@ToriH]

I don't know him but I'd search him up!

[@draug7966]

Interesting example with your friend having a somewhat "odd" ideal type of guy. As an infp male the whole idea of some universal "ideal" look or body type is completely alien to me, it´s one thing with nice teeth or shiny hair or something but other than that i don´t get it. Always liked pluszise girls, people can scream "but they´re FAT!" until they lose their voices, i don´t care. I like what i like and that´s that.

[@ToriH]

I think it's common for some ppl to go for the "curvier types", everyone has their own taste & preferences.

[@classiccarsclassicrock9433]

I have a son who is so against how his younger brother married a heavy girl. He is an INFP, though I doubt it sometimes. This helps confirm my typing. He never judges people by size.

[@draug7966]

@@classiccarsclassicrock9433 Yes that´s the thing with Fi i guess, if something doesn´t make sense for us to judge people by, we simply don´t judge them by it even if everyone else does. If you don´t mind, is the older brother a type with high Fe?

[@classiccarsclassicrock9433]

@@draug7966 I have never looked into that ,but it could be.

[@pugninja7037]

I don't like emoji use, as a entp,I find intj friends use them . Also I don't really smile in photos. But my fe is 3rd place.

[@ToriH]

Yeah Fe is not an entp's strong function tho it can be developed thru the years.

[@ToriH]

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