Keywords for Each Of The Enneagram "Sexual" Subtypes

[@katemcnulty7924]

This was awesome..so funny and so true! Thank you for your ministry to us! So helpful!

[@twlahue]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! Your support means a lot to me, and I’m thrilled that you found it helpful!

[@stephanieromeocoaching]

You re such a great teacher. You crack me up. Thanks Tom

[@twlahue]

Wow, thanks!

[@EmTreasure88]

To add onto the sexual 5: they're really good at not taking a clear initiative. There is many testings to see if someone is that ideal partner. I have done this many times by having "squishes" (platonic crushes). There may be curiosity and attraction there, but like i need to know the person very well before i would even consider dating. So sx 5s can have a demiromantic vibe to them.

[@winniolanimus138]

As an SP4 who dftly also relates to the SX4 to a degree, I´d very much say, we are ALL crazy, and to a degree in a good way even, but also these "types" arent there for us to be like "Huh, to each their own, I guess", bcs each type -even if the fear of a specific type is rooted in early childhood memories and somewhat rigid for us as people - embodies a lesson and a challenge that we can grow from.

[@twlahue]

Crazy? I prefer to call it "uniquely adventurous"! We're all just colorful characters in this wild story called life, and it's the quirks that keep things interesting!

[@winniolanimus138]

@@twlahue Fair point and a solid answer from a solid seven xD Much love and respect for your work

[@charlesstokes1967]

Thank you

[@twlahue]

You're welcome

[@atypicalgeek88]

Am I right in thinking that even if we aren't dominant in a subtype, when we get in the preferred situation of the subtype (an organization/large group, a one-on-one or romantic relationship), we'll act out of the subtype (if we're letting our personality drive the bus?)? Ex: a self-pres dominant 9 would still tend toward fusion with a partner?

[@twlahue]

I think we are dominant in one subtype and this might change throughout our life. But usually we can see some of each in our life. Usually there is one we know that we are not.

[@atypicalgeek88]

@@twlahue thanks!

[@trevawhitmoyer682]

I took my sexual 4 brother (a musician) to a U2 concert (front row). Afterwards he admitted he spent the first half of the concert being pissed that it wasn’t HIM up on stage! 😮 😅 🤷‍♀️

[@twlahue]

The Struggle Is Real.

[@moveordievision]

how to tell apart a 5w6 social 5 and a sexual 1 and pls give me the details ... tnx

[@atypicalgeek88]

Try relistening to those sections in the videos or downloading the notes from the store page on Tom's website?

[@jenpoole7291]

I am a sx 7. In college I had a roommate, who I’m pretty sure was a sx 4. I had the hardest time connecting with her. Then our other roommate told me she said, “If Jenny get asked out on one more date, I think I’ll just die!!” She had a boyfriend!! I could not figure out why it bugged her so much that I was asked out a lot. 😂😂😂

[@twlahue]

It's interesting how different personality types can create such unique dynamics in relationships. Your experience really highlights the complexities of connecting with others!

[@binablob]

Can you make a video about the social subtype? Im a social 7!

[@twlahue]

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[@sirnovaway6508]

I think I’m a SP one primarily and a sexual type secondarily. I was extremely possessive of my first boyfriend in high school who I believe was a SP or social one. Didn’t end well… but I learned a lot for future relationships! 😅

[@twlahue]

It's great to reflect on past relationships and learn from them. Understanding your type can really help you grow and build healthier connections in the future!

[@jasmindelarenta2083]

I’m a social 3 woman but i’m very competitive on sexual attractiviness. Is because i’m 3 so/sx?

[@moneymanagement24]

Hi Dr Lahue great video do you know which enneagram makes the most money and is the most family oriented

[@twlahue]

Not sure about that one. Some times are more "driven" than others and some are more focused on connections and relationships. for sure.

[@adaccardo7702]

What is the recommended enneagram test? Is it on your website?

[@twlahue]

I don't have a test on my website: but here you go: Here’s a list of websites that offer free Enneagram tests: Truity - truity.com Offers a free Enneagram test with an option to purchase a more detailed report. Eclectic Energies - eclecticenergies.com Provides two free Enneagram tests: one with instinctual variants and one without. Your Enneagram Coach - yourenneagramcoach.com Free, basic Enneagram test designed to help people understand their type from a Christian perspective. 9 Types - 9types.com Offers a simple, free Enneagram test to help you find your type. Personality Path - personalitypath.com A quick, free Enneagram test with basic results. Crystal Knows - crystalknows.com Free Enneagram test that also integrates with other personality models. EnneaApp - enneaapp.com Offers a free Enneagram test through their mobile app, which provides type insights. Explore Your Type - exploreyourtype.com A free test available online through the Typology Institute. True Self Institute - trueself.io Offers a free test with an option for paid in-depth results. These free tests can give you a good introduction to discovering your Enneagram type, though paid options often provide deeper insights.

[@adaccardo7702]

@@twlahue Thank you 🙏🏼💫🙏🏼

[@hugdonluther2044]

Why this is not me? I am Sp/Sx. Not possessed or clingy like a f ghost. That's creepy. Seduction? No. I only date some men in the past and stopped bcs bored. I focused with family and job. My health decline so aahahaha break up. Sx means romantic. It means empathetic to their partner. But. If my partner is narcissist and abusive, na ah. Bye. Press ctrl+alt+delete buttons. I prefer alone than losing my sanity. So it depends if sx is dominant or not and what comes follow after sx. If it's sx/so or so/sx perhaps seems to be ehh.. clingy, controlling, obsessive, aggressive. No boundaries. No freedom. Lmao.

[@hugdonluther2044]

I guess not sx/sp. 🤨 Mistype i guess. Sx is not dominant. Eh

[@twlahue]

It's definitely important to prioritize your mental health and set boundaries in relationships. Knowing what works for you is key to maintaining balance and happiness!