Kicked Out My Cheating Husband After He Wants Me to Raise the Secret Daughter He Had With His...

Kicked Out My Cheating Husband After He Wants Me to Raise the Secret Daughter He Had With His Mistress Who Passed Away. I Refused to Do It, So My Mil is Calling Me 'The Villain' Now.
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[@DarkEinherjar]

Pay close attention to this story. THIS is how one should always deal with cheaters: no second chances, no forgiveness, just end the relationship and move on.

[@mrwiggles5331]

ye

[@mllvnclt]

I dont find the original post

[@LaughingOwlKiller]

Except for the couples who did give second chances and have good relationships.....

[@parisakamali345]

​@LaughingOwlKiller " not couples" that suggests the cheater also had to forgave the their partner whom they betrayed. So only one of them gave the second chance, possibly because the cheating partner is financially controlling so the wife didn't have a choice if she didn't want to be destitute. However I understand why you would support a cheater, birds of a feather flock together

[@LaughingOwlKiller]

@parisakamali345 lol sure thing buddy.

[@DarkEinherjar]

As for the in-laws, they totally knew about the affair baby and covered it up, so they're just as horrible as their cheating son. Nothing they have to say is worth listening to.

[@Badruborg]

Kyle took OP for granted

[@uwetheiss970]

Yeah, as soon as the In-laws found out her daughter having an affair with a married man they should have told the OP/wife. That is the only right thing to do. Cheaters are the worst.

[@taylordaenzer4852]

It's not your fault it's cheated husband's fault because he cheated on you and his cheating husband should go to hell for it.

[@Rikutakutoka]

Cheating husband not cheated husband

[@donny9859]

How did you have time to watch the entire video bruh?

[@nekorei2023]

​@@donny9859maybe he read the title?

[@GenGamesUniverse]

IF this had been on the other foot and Kyle was the one being cheated on, with raising a secret daughter, I'm pretty sure the in laws would have thrown a fit and told him to divorce her, yet because she was the one that kicked him out after he BETRAYED her, they go "Oh you're such a bad guy, you're the worst of the worst...so what if he cheated on you, it shouldn't affect your relationship and marriage with him!" NO! That's the whole point! YOU DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER/HUSBAND/WIFE and expect them to be all lovey dovey afterwards saying "Oh it's okay, we all make mistakes!"

[@ilovesports5468]

I don’t feel bad for Nikki. She deliberately carried on an affair with a married man for years and baby trapped him and he still didn’t choose her. She created her own misery. Idc why her parents trying to make her out to be some damsel in distress

[@Passions5555]

I agree.

[@chloegraygubler]

exactly, she’s not some child that didn’t know better. she was a grown woman and was in the wrong just like kyle

[@georgianawoods5215]

More mistress in distress

[@bobothetroll2873]

This is a good example of why you never give a cheater a second chance. If they're capable of that, what else are they hiding?

[@G1sandG1rlsGaming]

I tell people, nothing will fix your relationship. They will still cheat and you're not healing, you're slapping a bandaid on a sinking ship. Relationship counselors do not have your best interest at heart. They are paid to convince you that it'll all work out.

[@changedmyname26]

When they cheat the I love you is a slap in the face and fake. Its emotional manipulation

[@tothewonder6248]

Nikki is the true villain. Sleeping with your friend married friend, keeping the baby, smiling in his wife's face the whole time. Garbage behavior. Kyle is such an pathetic embarrassment. He is so GROSS. Also why do cheaters think their spouses want to raise their affair babies?? I don't understand these people. The audacity is second to none.

[@Passions5555]

Kyle is as much of a villain as Nikki was.

[@JoeyD386]

Nikki had that good pie down there. That hatchet wound was tasty and had him coming back for seconds and thirds. It's not her fault the dude had checked out of his marriage.

[@Afrogirrl]

How is Nikki worse, Kyle was the one with the commitment.

[@artemislove2941]

she wanted him to leave OP, wasn’t trying to coparent. she was definitely hoping he’d leave OP for her

[@Goofyloofy1]

Nikki got her karma

[@kratosGOW]

A secret affair just before the message means you may be entitled to an annulment rather than a divorce.

[@BrightElk]

I didn’t know that. What exactly is the difference might I ask? I’ve heard of annulments early in the marriage such as 30 days after but not years into it.

[@uwetheiss970]

@@BrightElk It depends on the country you live in for details, but overall the difference is that (without a prenup) if you are legally married, all your assets are shared. So they have to be divided. If there is an annulment, it counts as there never was a marriage. So there is no dividing of assets.

[@dashiyamonique2983]

What kind of shitty parental just allow their daughter to have an affair without telling the other person? Such vile people all around.

[@dashiyamonique2983]

Lesson I’ve learned from most of these cheating by stories is: Don’t date and especially don’t marry people you meet at frat parties. 😂

[@BrightElk]

It’s so true. I dated a guy like this once and he utterly destroyed my self esteem. One good thing came out of it though. I learned to respect myself and grow a spine and never allow a man to mistreat me like that again. Horrible human beings.

[@jonathanmendiola3775]

How come Nikki parent didn’t come forward to tell truth to OP much earlier

[@BaeBunni]

Honestly Op should have done 2 things, 1 tell everyone he has a daughter no need to say who that isn't Op's and Op should have really really messed with MIL's head and tell her "From how you are acting I guess you really would be okay if your husband had an affair too" More insinuating rather than an outright lie to get them to turn on each other since they both seem to be okay with cheaters so they likely suspect each other vaguely of cheating.

[@Heiura]

I don't feel one bit of sympathy for Nikki ... She knew what she was going in for with a married man , she tried to baby trap him thinking he would leave his wife for her but he didn't. The parents aren't even better , they kept that affair a secret and their daughter lived with them ... Which means if they just had said to not invite him over ever again , at least they wouldn't be witness of this affair ...

[@m.c.9419]

Nope nope nope. Nobody has any obligation to accept their spouse's affair child if they don't want to. This wasn't a one night stand with a stranger and he even had the audacity to bring his affair partner around op shamelessly. THAT'S heartless. The child is forever proof he was unfaithful. Nikki sounds like a pathetic woman. I feel sorry for her parents to watch her suffer for no reason while she was alive. I'd go scorched earth for this but the minimum would be divorce and never speaking to the ex again. The in laws just doesn't want to support kyle when he gets divorced and has to deal with raising his affair child alone. They need to pound rocks. Not only that but having a child you had from an affair, moments before your wedding, is going to be a major turn off in the dating scene. Kyle isn't going to be able to keep his child's origin a secret forever.

[@Fruxicus]

Who would have thought that the consequences of a spur of the moment hook-up would be pregnancy? Wild!

[@Candyegg-go9me]

No matter the situation no one wants a cheater

[@AnAverageNoLife]

I hope I never understand these cheaters being surprised with pregnancy. Like You didn't KNOW there was a possibility when you- like cmon. You know what you did, you know how to not.

[@prettyinpinky5937]

Kyle and Nikki are the worst people ever! Edit: Nikki did it to herself 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Badruborg]

Kyle wanted a free nanny

[@anacheah8981]

For the ILs, of course you accept the secret granddaughter as she's YOUR BLOOD. That girl IS NOT your DIL's BLOOD, she's the product of BETRAYAL for the DIL. And, you insist she MUST accept the REMINDER OF A BETRAYAL?

[@JordanDavila]

I feel sorry for the child in this situation

[@Mad3bunny]

Yeah.. the kid didn't had a choice to be born in such a shitty ass situation. Of corse OP has no obligation to take care of the child either, just it's royally fucked up. The dad needs to grow up and take responsibility.

[@leimula8082]

Plot twist Kyle was the drunk driver 😱🤯

[@BrightElk]

Would not be surprised. Maybe AP was going to tell OP.

[@NourAmsterdam]

His mummy can find him an airhead girl, who is gonna put up with his nonsense. Be a mother to his child while he sleeps around and makes more kids. Nikki might be gone but she wasn’t the only 1, probably. Finally an OP that has a true spine and loves herself enough to be done.

[@chanayplease]

Times like these I pray these stories aren't real, that poor baby has no idea yet and didn't ask to be in this mess

[@Fiercetits]

Based on the end of this story I don’t believe his side of what happened the wedding night, I think he wanted to sleep with her and used the “this is our only chance” to do it

[@mashiyahmartin6070]

I don’t think she should forgive him or keep the child and before y’all spam me in the comments saying I’m heartless or the child is innocent look at it this way this man had an affair, got the mistress pregnant, she died and he’s now pushing the wife to move past his betrayal to play happy family the child will always be a constant reminder of the husband’s infidelity I couldn’t image waking up everyday taking care of my husband’s love affair child and playing the mom role to a kid that although did not ask to be bought into the world but is the product of my husband’s affair I think she should look up good foster homes or if she really wants the child she should keep it but kick him out the picture because again the child is innocent but parents need to stop pawning kids as an excuse to stay together just because you have a child with your significant other doesn’t mean you gotta stay with them cause your only gonna make yourself miserable in the end pretending to fix something that’s already been broken.

[@BrightElk]

No you’re right. She shouldn’t take care of the baby. She wouldn’t be about to love it like a mother. I know I wouldn’t. I wouldn’t want to punish the child but at the same time how could I ever love it? Nurture it? Be patient when they are throwing tantrums when I didn’t sign up for that? Knowing where the child came from and that it’s the result of a huge betrayal? No OP did the kid a favour by rejecting her. That was kindness. The only right choice is to not be the evil step mother by not being a step mother in the first place. Because that would be the only option in this scenario.

[@mashiyahmartin6070]

@@BrightElk 👏👏👏

[@blueflameSM]

Emotional abuse; dude cheated a week before his own wedding and had a child. No excuses, if they were meant to be together, then he wouldn't have done what he did. I hate that an innocent child had to get involved in this, but it's not her fault. Cheater is responsible for the child, not the OP. That being said, Nikki the mistress is also the villain for what she did. I honestly think it's different had the ex had a child BEFORE they dated, I think the OP would've raised the child. It was the cheating, the child being an affair baby was the reason why. TBH it's kinda shitty on Nikki's parents part for knowing and keeping it a secret for that long.

[@ilovesports5468]

Not a week. The night before the wedding!

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

If they can't stand to be bored at everything. They constantly change their mind, I see it as a red flag. Ops Dad saw this

[@imweirdfiteme593]

I love how when cheaters cheat they call it a minor problem as if it dosnt completely break the trust someone has and ruins the family you have

[@kennycai8695]

Man, I am hoping we get some kind of update to this story, cause I guess a part of me wants to hear what kind of logic-defying BS the ex's family will try to spin up in order to paint OP in a bad light. OP, despite the circumstances, I applaud you for your fortitude and not play into your ex's manipulative game. Your ex sounds like someone who wants to eat his cake and still have it, as evident by how he strung his AP around while still pretending to be married to you. Plus, him blaming you for his AP's death even though it's not your fault, he just showed his true self there. I also have a hunch the rotten apple did not fall far from the tree, given the way your ex in-laws are brigading on you. It's very easy to use the "think of the child" card to manipulate people, cause it is true, children are innocent in all this. However, it still does not excuse his actions. My advice is simple and to the point: go for the jugular.

[@SnoWyz1988]

"If they don't have a problem, I shouldn't have a problem with this too" HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@Divineshortcake]

I’m so invested in this story, yet pissed off too. Is there an update?? I’ve been searching for it on Reddit too.

[@artemislove2941]

knew it was gonna end bad when she said they met at a frat party

[@madambutterfly1997]

It was like she was texting you from hell

[@Passions5555]

Oof...Nikki was a low class person, but she doesn't deserve hell.

[@SushiEpidemic]

Dang I need an update

[@cassandrapettiford6030]

Fences!! But she took the baby in...smfh...ain't no damn way....

[@ladyAgnis]

Male version of getting knocked up and telling your partner it's theirs

[@baleighburgess1095]

Cheaters are cheater

[@Falney]

Better hope it's an at fault state because that house was a wedding gift so it may be seen as a marital asset in a divorce court.

[@sephoraamisikiala9742]

That's so fucked up

[@JLN41211]

"Minor Hiccup" 😂

[@unknown-gq7bm]

Not her fault that she doesn't wanna raise another woman's child

[@momoangel9243]

Lady pls your son should have kept it in his draws op ain't responsible for his behind and his selfish deeds, Everything that happened was not only nikki fault but op's soon-to-be ex husband and mil and anyone else can suck a bird toe, And sir you broke your vows first, so op doesn't owe you shit when you did that, also his parents are saying that bs, but it's like then why he can't live with y'all while your talking about op being the villain? Y'all don't want to take care of his child either, so y'all are hypocrites to be talking about op, Seriously I'm glad op is divorcing him and I'm also glad nikki's parents are testifying against him, and have the kid dna tested, so he can't weasel his way nor drag out the divorce.

[@oneuup2490]

The reason Kyle said that it's because he was having an affair with Nikki. And I know that Nikki has passed on but I don't feel sorry for her either. Because of the fact that she knowingly was in a relationship with a married man now sorry that she's died but I'm not sad for her situation before the death. She could hurt all she wants to she knew what it was when she decided to sleep with this man before he got married when he got married she should have known that it would not have changed anything and you women need to know that when you're a side piece and a man marry the other woman that he has not known longer than you you should have some respect for yourself and move on with your life.

[@sophie030]

If this happened to me I would play chilling like a villain from descendants 😃

[@youmadhuh6375]

I would NEVER forgive a side baby.. would kyle stand by her if she was the one that cheated, got pregnant and hid her secret affair baby?. I highly doubt it.. of course it wasnt just one night.. even if it had been onky one night, it makes a difference. Betrayal is Betrayal. it's absolutely outrageous for kyle and his parents to think she should just accept this child & help him raise her.. I would've filed for divorce the next day after throwing him out.. there's nothing to think about... he didn't just cheat. He lied to her for 2yrs. He was able to look her in the eyes and lie. He was able to have a double life and not feel an ounce of remorse.. the only regret i would have was marrying him in the 1st place.

[@saramccormack3025]

Shame OP didn't Film episode 4 the divorce lawyers n 4 the police. N get a with-restain order.

[@GreasyMoist]

OP: "like most guys do, he got cold feet" 🤡🤡🤡

[@salmanalqahtani6943]

That poor girl 😭

[@expressodepresso5909]

"Minor hiccup"

[@ansta1340]

So his friend tried to baby trap him

[@Goofyloofy1]

Nik got karma 💀

[@alandgomez5905]

What the hell are "normal" features lol

[@RockenStylen]

This sounds like a soap opera

[@Carehuea]

Any more updates…?

[@bluex3632]

Cheating Cheating Cheating man can you post some good stories

[@xxlouisehoverxx]

I’m sorry right I get he’s the bad guy here but Nicky is not innocent like she knew he was married and just cuz she got knocked up don’t mean she can just be with him I get she was sad and in love but he was married and she didn’t stop to think at all abt how her actions as well as his would hurt this woman there shouldn’t be much sympathy it’s sad what happened happened but that doesn’t change the fact she was also to blame and should’ve been ashamed of herself

[@BrightElk]

So true. I honestly think she got pregnant on purpose to try to sabotage the marriage but it didn't work.

[@user-sg2ihshJi458]

Your ex has quite the fat ego to think you’d raise his affair baby’s and how does having an emotional talk about not leaving your fiancée lead to you doing something that ruins that would ruin your relationship with them. The respectable thing would have been his original story kind of but telling OP before marriage so they can decide if marriage is worth the risk

[@jupitersag9938]

You took him back tho soooo what you expect

[@rogermortis6583]

This is really bad fiction.

[@jan-hendrikfranen1652]

So she was right with everything until it came to wanting to destroy him in divorce, while proclaiming that she felt pity for Nikki and saying that the little girl was innocent. So she will go above and beyond to destroy the future livelihood of the girl by destoying the cheater. It is already her house - but that is not enough. She wants alimony and his retirement. If the chances of the girl are harmed by that - not her problem, because her revenge is more important.

[@Owl_bee]

And?

[@fl-ri-]

I'd do the same

[@Zach-dc8ws]

@@fl-ri- then you suck. All your doing is dooming the poor child to a life of poverty, when you can get justice by hurting what he cares about which would be his reputation. The guy is POS but coming for all his money is just taking it away from a child that doesn’t really have anyone else.

[@Zach-dc8ws]

100% I would have just made sure the reason for divorce was broadcasted to all and let him live with the consequences of his actions. But financially ruining him is just hurting the innocent child. And all the people here who would disagree are just money hungry not looking for actual justice. It’s apparent in the story he clearly values his reputation and shattering that and showing people the real person he is would be all the justice needed. It’s her house and she clearly has a village around her and wanting to support her what we way she needs.

[@BrightElk]

She's not responsible for the child. He is. It's not like he was trying to be a father in the first place. He only stepped up because he was out of options. He put himself and his kid in this situation. He's an adult. He can live with the consequences. OP is not her mommy and she's got grandparents. She's not helpless.

[@kimmogensen5390]

Have any of you seen kyle? he is about this high /

[@CoraErickson-cz3zp]

YTA. HE SHOULD KEEP THE HOUSE IF SHE'S NOT WILLING TO STAY WITH HIM BECAUSE OF A FUCKING LOVE TRIANGLE THAT HAD NOT GONE PAST ONE NIGHT STAND SHE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT HIM AND SHE IS ABSOLUTELY HEARTLESS

[@southernflight5078]

Stop trying to rage bait by defending cheating scum.

[@TheAnyStuff]

Hello

[@mamabear204]

hi

[@Rikutakutoka]

SUP YALLL

[@TanaBriellelouyel]

Its transleted into SOUP YALLL 😂 why did it do that

[@kakashi_naruto_sensei]

hi

[@mamabear204]

hello

[@JoeyD386]

Nikki clearly had that good good pie. That vertical smile kept him coming back for seconds!

[@ilovesports5468]

It wasn't good enough to make her a wife. Only a dead baby mama who was desperate for a man who didn't care anything about her but getting a nut