Killer Bathtub or Husband Who Clumsily Staged Crime Scene? | Shele and Roderick Covlin Case Analysis

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[@maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353]

These killer bathtubs are really getting out of control. You can't go anywhere without being armed with a showercurtain anymore.

[@sarahw7616]

You got a conceal and carry for that shower curtain young lady? Personally, I pack my brontosaurus shaped loofah. Fits nicely in my purse.

[@Raben3721]

Oh yeah those killer bathtubs should get life without parole or the electric toilet seat.

[@raquelpk2]

I have this strange feeling this isn’t the end of it . Something tells me we’ll have hot tubs and jacuzzis to worry about next .

[@anonymousstrangeness7348]

Be careful you don't drop the bar of soap

[@maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353]

@@sarahw7616 Lookout sister.... shower curtain RINGS are also deadly and much easier to conceal. LMAO

[@sarahsvetlana938]

I can’t believe he tried to frame his daughter. The only person who stood behind him. Poor girl. 14:12

[@violetsrayreikishop2]

The son supports him too unfortunately those kids are traumatized well they are grown now... but he didn't give a damn he'd take his kids out if it's worth it to him smh

[@andreasrau2161]

Good evening, Dr. Grande! Another example of "marry in haste and repent at leisure." It's a shame it often happens that seemingly intelligent, successful people choose losers to tie themselves to. Shele should have paid attention to the fact that Rod couldn't keep a job before she tied the knot. And Rod's interests were only backgammon and extramarital sex. But it seems that she was desperate to get married since she was 37 and her clock was ticking. Rod was 25 and looking for a meal ticket. Rod is the most likely candidate for Shele's murder, especially since he wasn't divorced from Shele and was still in her will to the tune of $5 million. Thanks for sharing.

[@lilyw.719]

Why is everybody forgetting that they were both Orthodox Jews, which severely limited her dating pool? Some of us do actually take God and His laws and our faith and our eternal salvation seriously, and that's the biggest factor in who we marry. I, for instance, am a Traditional Catholic, and I could never marry somebody who did not also keep the traditional faith, as it was prior to Vatican II in the 1960's.

[@isitoveryet9525]

@@lilyw.719 a bit defensive, huh Lily? Seems like you’re taking OP’s comment a bit too personal

[@scottricci5063]

Still , they did wait 6 months and were married a number of years. If you don't notice red flags and act upon them by then, then I guess he was that cunning or she uncannily chose to ignore them until she was totally engrossed in his agenda. Get out at first inkling and don't marry legally, you don't need another piece of paper ffs.

[@lf9341]

@@lilyw.719 She was religious but not orthodox.

[@wetsockz3001]

@@lilyw.719 lmao look whos mad

[@BigZebraCom]

Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating on what could be happening during a cactus conference like this.

[@CatalinaFOIA]

😆😆😆🌵 It's getting prickly back there

[@robertwasinger8193]

@@CatalinaFOIA Good Point!!

[@BigZebraCom]

@@CatalinaFOIA Yes! How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is to have a thankless cactus!

[@kimwhatmatters4085]

A cacti conference

[@MegaBossmare]

I ❤ them! 🌵🌵🌵

[@elizabethhamm5320]

I know that I shouldn’t be surprised when I hear these stories but they never fail to amaze me. He refused to work or be faithful and he had the nerve to loose his temper because his wife didn’t unpack his suitcase 😦. Thanks for another insightful video. I’m glad that you use your platform to caution against toxic relationships. They are way too common

[@cleopatra444]

and why would the wife leave him anything in her will 🤯 much less be talking about it with anybody , i dont get people 😵‍💫🥴

[@Koozomec]

I'm flabergasted he was married. He was a walking red flag.

[@nickyblue4866]

She should have just unpacked it i suppose.

[@gRinchY-op5vr]

@Nicky Blue pretty sure he packed his own case, he can unpack his own too. Dudes an adult, not a child...just clearly a Man-child

[@Hilz28]

Backgammon tournaments? What a heart breaker 🤮🙄

[@rullmourn1142]

I know this case, he obviously tried to set up an alibi by being friendly with the doorman. He was never friendly or even courteous with any of the building's staff before.

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

This is a tragic case at so many levels. In addition, their kids were left without a mother and, in a way, a father. It’s amazing to me the lack of regards for the children’s welfare. Even if he got away with murder, how horrible it is to remove a caring mother from a child’s life. I will never understand this level of cruelty and callousness. Thank you for another excellent review, Dr. Grande.❤

[@bthomson]

Hi Rejane - Dr. Grande's videos are an important part of my day. His common sense and humanity are a healing force to all the terrible things criminals do! Your comments are always thoughtful and gentle. 💐

[@rejaneoliveira5019]

@@bthomson Thank you so much.🥰 I truly enjoy your comments as well. This community has so many lovely people.❤️❤️❤️

[@godzillamanstreb524]

Sociopaths don’t think of their children at all

[@djmaster1995]

Yep, no one cares about children, they are objects of the parents until they turn 18 filled with emotional baggage. Our society says you cannot comment on the parenting of others and there is no "right" way to parent kids :)

[@Qrail]

That is a sad story. An intelligent, pretty, and successful woman who felt her biological time was running out. That is a lot of stress to put on somebody. There is nothing wrong with being a career woman, or being a Mother. If she would have received some help from her husband/ family, things might be different. Sometimes, being alone is a better choice.

[@Qrail]

@WrongOpinion I had 3 sisters with no children. All career women. I was trying to indicate the stress of expectations, and choices made.

[@TS-rd7oy]

I can't believe it. An intelligent male who gets it. Very rare on social media. Thank you. It gives me a glimmer of hope in humanity.

[@Qrail]

@@TS-rd7oy thank you for the positive feedback.

[@lavonewhitmer7445]

“Like every trip that involves going to New Jersey, this one didn’t turn out too well.” 😂😆🤣 While these videos are always interesting & informative, these dry little gems are what keep me coming back.

[@cherylfoshaug]

"She declined Rod's generous offer🤣🤣🤣

[@arinerm1331]

Thank you for an excellent recap. I'd never heard about this case, but I do agree that Shele was, in your words, physically attractive. She was physically beautiful, and from your review of the case, it sounds like she was beautiful inside, also. What a sad ending to this mom's life, and I have great sympathy for her daughter.

[@arinerm1331]

And I forgot to add, now I'll have to not only make sure my showerhead is non-lethal, I have to watch out for the tub as well!

[@RoseNZieg]

I have yet to hear a death related to the bath tub and thought, "what a bummer! she slipped, fell, and died."

[@willnill7946]

It’s theorized that’s how bob saget could have died in his hotel room

[@martyal]

Unfortunately my sister’s best friend died when she fell into the shower door and was badly cut.

[@thelogicaldanger]

@@willnill7946 Bob Saget was older, and was sick at the time, and he didn't die immediately. Freak accidents can happen, but almost never will a young and healthy person slip and immediately die in a bathtub.

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

@@thelogicaldangerTrue!

[@drebk]

@@thelogicaldanger it does not take much water to drown. Nobody is particularly surprised when a toddler drowns in a tub, and getting knocked unconscious in a fall renders you toddler-esque, I would imagine. But for every 1 innocent soon-to-be ex husbands there are 99 murderers rightfully serving time

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For real!! It’s almost every single night 😍

[@waynejohnson1786]

@@gabriel2114 I think he records multiple videos in a single day lol

[@newtonmoon]

Can relate here in terms of age and inability to find a partner. Better to go for egg freezing than to go with the wrong guy. Not the best option but a better option than settling for a dangerous person and ending up dead. Although one may never really know the person one is with, there may be red flags and micro signs however one should never ignore. As they say, if a person reveals themself to you, believe them.

[@laurenmorgan9946]

Wonderfully said!

[@LovelessFascination]

I immediately get turned off if the other person is all in when we barely know each other.

[@purpleperegrine7295]

I come for the analysis and stay for the dry humour! Big fan

[@imtired6104]

Dr. Grande, your comments about New Jersey never fail to make me cackle. I'll heed your oft-repeated warnings about its exceeding wretchedness and avoid it like the plague. As always, you're a delight.

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

I love Dr. Grande’s sense of humor, too. Even funnier is when people criticize his dry delivery. Clearly, it’s part of his schtick.

[@TheBonyLevi]

I think what I find most disturbing is that Rod pulled a woman like Shelley in the first place. But also, other women wanted to have sex with him? My ex-husband wanted a polyamorous marriage and didn't bother to ask. Hence "ex" husband. There are far too many women like Shelley. I truly believe my ex wants to kill me too. He is the mayor of my town. Like Rod, my ex also took our baby to court and attempted to get a restraining order on me, claiming I beat the both of them (narcissists can't stand it when the baby gets all the attention). Things have deteriorated since then. Again, what really gets me is how many women are so quick to get into a relationship with these men. It boggles the mind.

[@willnill7946]

Losers get all kinds of women

[@russiaprivjet]

it’s easy to fool someone for a few months. she was also probably in a rush to marry and have kids too, so it pretty much all makes sense

[@Koozomec]

The "rush" can repulse mindfull men. It also sound like a transaction (take the offer NOW !).

[@MellowBellow1]

Can I just say. Keep the perp in view. Don’t blame the victim for “getting involved”. Getting involved with a liar is not the victim’s fault. …..

[@nickyblue4866]

@@MellowBellow1 not victim blaming! That's horrable! Truly harrible!

[@debwestendorf2639]

I read the book on this murder so sad for Shele. Her family lost everything! Her family lost their 2 grandchildren and his evil parents got custody that was so wrong her sister should have gotten custody. He was so evil he brainwashed his daughter.

[@lf9341]

I don't think his parents were evil? They could see their own son was evil.

[@Dulcimertunes]

Sadly, not the first

[@lindawells8167]

Why in the world would custody be granted to his parents?

[@danielhouse6244]

Hey Dr. Grande! Thanks for getting so many videos up. Always entertaining to get your perspective and learn about different interesting events!

[@anonymousstrangeness7348]

Agreed. Entertaining perspectives about interesting events ☺👍

[@rullmourn1142]

As per reports, Rod tried to frame his young daughter by writing a note on the laptop pretending to be Anna, which read, “ All of these years, I have been so incredibly afraid and guilty about the night my mom died. I lied. She didn’t just slip. That day we got into a fight about her dating…I got mad, so I pushed her, but it couldn’t have been that hard! I didn’t mean to hurt her! I swear! But she fell, and I (sic) heard a terrible noise, and the water started turning red, and I tried to pull her head up, but she remained still….” This would only be the first of many times Anna’s name would be involved in the case.

[@cherylfoshaug]

"She declined Rod's generous offer"🤣🤣🤣

[@LaniLanilei]

Ron is not a catch. He is a catch and release immediately, instead.

[@yvettepugin4035]

Should be catch, castrate and release. No woman wanting a family would consider him therafter.

[@catrymer7968]

How did Rob the Knob afford an apartment???? Was Shelly Paying????

[@loiskondo8349]

No one should ever settle! I got your book, Harm Reduction, and am thoroughly enjoying it Dr. Grande!

[@sciencenotstigma9534]

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[@scarlettphoenix7024]

I REALLY enjoyed it as well. I hope he writes more!

[@ryanmclellan8740]

I'm a divorced guy so I'm not in any position to give advice. But, don't get married after only 6 months being together.

[@LaniLanilei]

I agree totally.

[@nmartin5551]

Yes. And regardless of the time, if someone is employment challenged, there is probably a reason.

[@Bxgodson2fl2]

Nice! Saw this story on 20/20, great recap!

[@gailkelly4651]

Hello Dr Grande.. so nice to see you....as always. I always enjoy your analysis of each case. Thank you so much. ❤️🇺🇸

[@catherinecarmichael3180]

Rod’s generous offer! 🤣😂 I am a major groupie of your Dr. Grande!!

[@CowSaysMooMoo]

Guy has a smoke-show sugar-mama and wants more...some gamblers don't know when to stop

[@jamesoncross7494]

Hard to believe she didn't have a lot of options.

[@barbieblue3336]

I was so mad at that first NJ jab, just relaxing when you jabbed again! The pain!!

[@chrismarley3536]

❤️ This thumbnail caption. Tragic story. Beautiful lady.

[@soonerbmama6727]

I was reading comments to see if anyone else had commented about what I found most disturbing, the daughter believes her father is innocent?! Finally, debwestendorf26 mentioned she read a book about this murder and his parents got custody of the kids and that the father brainwashed his daughter (which isn’t surprising) but even after her father tried to frame her, HIS parents evicted him accusing him of taking the children’s money, the false accusation that his wife assaulted their son (and the judge restricted his visitation because of the lie), and all the confessions of the women about his wishes to harm HIS own parents (and use her, Anna to poison them) and his wife?! I suppose the daughter would not have been at the trial and not know about all this, but would the family not help her or get her help to deal with this?

[@erikamccarthy1457]

2/8/23 Justice for Shele 🌹She was a beautiful woman, smart, successful yet felt she had to settle for someone who was not even close to her standards! All because he checked her boxes, and pressure of her wanting children (rush to marry). Sometimes we need to forget those boxes and ask what items are not that important, maybe more people staying together happy and less divorce!! Rod, was straight up leech and fell in love with her Money 💴. Love to the kids 💕

[@marygoff3332]

Backgammon tournaments? What? I didn't even know those existed!

[@peterolbrisch8970]

I got attacked by my bathtub last year. It made me fall down...hard. My arm was badly bruised and my neck hurt for a while. After that I went into my closet and found the rubber bathtub mat I never put in the tub. Duh! .

[@valleygirl2530]

They’re called “psychobath tubs”.

[@peterolbrisch8970]

@@valleygirl2530 It was really my fault. I heard a suggestion that dishwashing soap does a really good job of cleaning the tub. So I got in the tub and it did do a great job. But I didn't rinse it well enough and when I stood up my feet went out right from under me. Oops! Thanks for your reply and have a great day!

[@pierre6625]

Hello Dr. Grande, as always another great analysis of this case. Well presented and well explained. I truly agree with you he seems guilty of murdering her A lot of facts "as you mentioned" in this video make him look very much guilty. Thank you for the hard work you do to entertain us with the many cases you inform us with Very much appreciated. Best Regards.

[@brettc2114]

As a New Jersey resident I am APPALLED at these truthful statements. Shame on you Dr Grande.

[@maureeningleston1501]

It's been such a long time since I've caught a video this early.

[@Flamsterette]

Thank you for the upload, Dr. Grande.

[@justynlyde]

Reminds me of the Robert Neulander case even down to the daughter believing the dad was innocent.

[@fh1119]

Doc, you almost killed me with the NJ jokes ha ha ha....you missed your calling as a stand up comedian :)

[@sophiaandre139]

I'm going to New Jersey in a week. Please, pray for me.

[@seltzertime2809]

Always mixing it up with the posting times. Now I get to be lulled to sleep by your soothing voice waxing murder poetic. 😂

[@Iflie]

In certain religions they have a lot of pressure to marry young and have children, that may have influenced her hurry as she had already postponed a while. Divorce is usually especially frowned upon there too.

[@tracievendetta1908]

I love that you’re analyzing all these old but relatively newer cases! I remember this one too!! 👊😊

[@MellowBellow1]

Far out. I’ve learned a lot about New Jersey…. Who knew. But also. …. This man tried to frame his own child!!!! How low can a person/parent go? I despise him for that alone. And thank you Dr Grande for describing false accusations, violence and temper tantrums as pathetic attempts to remain connected to a victim. I truly, truly appreciate that validation and insight.

[@aidasa6595]

I can't wait for Dr. Grande to write his own thriller book.

[@annazaman9657]

He already has

[@micheleparker3780]

He did!?

[@azulgaia7782]

The name of the book is Harm Reduction. Available wherever books are sold.

[@mrsh2167]

the backgammon thing would have been the first clue for me

[@joandeigan7826]

Great video Dr Grande. Very sad story though 😢. You always make me laugh when you talk about New Jersey.

[@bluecollarlit]

Yes. I'm only hoping that he doesn't get started on Cleveland...

[@s.h.7613]

Dr. Grande can you examine the case of you against the State of New Jersey? 😂

[@valleygirl2530]

“Desperate and Manipulated” are the understatements of the century. Shele wasn’t told she had a “psychobath” tub.

[@keep_it_real_1]

I can't stop thinking how horrendous for the child to discover her mother dead like that. It speaks volumes of what type of father he was to put a child of theirs in that situation.

[@Cooksongrl]

A generous offer of open marriage? Watching this on 20/20 the other day I was also upset his parents got the kids. Clearly they did a terrible job with him and are still in denial he did it. If I was Shelly's sister featured I would have fought a lot harder for them.

[@russell7054]

It's called humour (sarcasm).....

[@carlyrennae3963]

Grande time.....at work ...hahahahaha thank you Dr G so much more enjoyable to work listening to you 😄

[@YayMiko]

Did the police even interview the bathtub? They’re only getting one side of the story.

[@elizabethwarman9028]

Good evening Dr Grande, very interesting case. Some women underestimate themselves and marry losers. I am glad the children are living with the Grandparents. As always I learn something new from your videos. Have a wonderful Wednesday .

[@TheRealCcE]

Poor, poor woman 🙏 she feel in love with an illusion.

[@CowSaysMooMoo]

Yes, but she STAYED with the REALITY for WAY TOO LONG.....

[@blinkie1114]

I love your dry humor and straight to the point delivery. Keep it up!

[@glenysdiaz1971]

Greetings from Dominican Republic Dr. Grande, I’m a huge fan of your work! I think the premise is key to any case or situation analysis. Thank you, and congratulations, you have a special way to make us laugh without disrespect.

[@annazaman9657]

I think you should do a compilation of all the bathtub murders that weren't accidents

[@Dlouise90]

Hi, Dr. Grande! Love your videos and analyses! Can you do a video on the nurse, Lindsay Clancy, who was recently accused of killing her children and discuss a bit about Postpartum Psychosis?

[@cherjohnson5807]

Rod is creepy 😬 who paid for his living quarters ?

[@raquelpk2]

Shelly, gambling and probably the mistresses .

[@stephenlyall7759]

Killer bathtub ha! Gambling seems to be synonymous with poor decision making. I like how he surrounded himself by the backgammon internet world. All those anonymous voices. Your so great why not bet again. Great video.

[@helpyourcattodrive]

Phew! Grande posted early today, more or less. Let’s do this! Thanks, Grande.

[@thomasdoubting]

A swedish pastors predicted that his wife would slipp and die in the bathtubb, and when she did, the congregation was extatic: "A real life *Prophet,* in there church!" The pastor remaried and all was well, for a while. Then the pastor came with dire news to the elders of the church: "An angel hade told the pastor that his new wife was about to die." Pore pastor. And sure enough: one night soon after, the pastors *nanie* (that the pastor was boinking) shot and killed the pastors new wife, and then shot and wounded the pastors neighbor (the wife of whom the pastor was boinking). This was a litle bit much for both the congregration and the authoritys. The 23 januari 2022, the pastor was paroled after efter 18 years in prison.

[@SkySpiral8]

Your accent is interesting. It’s quite similar to the Great Lakes accent (nasal “a” as in “bad,” two-syllable pronunciation of “door”) but not quite the same, as in the “o-ahn” pronunciation of “on.”

[@scarlettphoenix7024]

Sounds like PA/Maryland to my ear

[@TS-rd7oy]

Yes, sounds mid Atlantic as another commenter stated.

[@LaniLanilei]

When I met my daughter's husbands to be, i knew one was a gem the other, i said "Don't do it". I was right. Mothers know. Intuition?

[@Monka83]

Thank you Dr. Grande! Excellent analysis and commentary.

[@jamigoddess]

Great video Dr Grande! I learn so much thru your insights. I’m illustrating a book about narcissism. It’s so fascinating to me how true narcissists target their victims and subsequently how the other person’s desperation clouds their judgement. Even to the point of fatality!

[@jacquelinejacobson6789]

Sounds almost like my former marriage. They're are so many vulnerable women with low self esteem that reach out and grab a potential mate without doing their homework.

[@southphillylilly]

You're right, Dr. Grande!! I've never had a good trip to New Jersey😬

[@ninavale.]

I feel like she might've gone to the Passover celebrations and then to the Botanic Garden with him for the sake of the kids. Like, she wanted to go together so kids spend time with both of their parents, esp the holidays. She clearly tried to keep things civil. But he didn't and when he got completely cut off, he killed her. And he let his 9-year old child discover the body...and then tried to frame her for the murder. It's despicable and shows he didn't care about his kids, and was treating them as tools when it was convinient to him. I'm not diagnosing him ofc, but it does sounds like a narcissistic parent.

[@jasmincampbell8105]

When the relationship is over establish boundaries and enforce them!

[@thelocalmaladroit8873]

Dr Grande trying to be sneaky early tonight!

[@jerseythedog]

The jokes are always the special sauce. 👏

[@TheBub26]

"declined rod's generous offer" lol

[@cutiepiebb]

I visited New Jersey recently and completely agree, Dr

[@jimc6687]

Some day we both need to get together and share our (apparently similar) New Jersey fiasco stories, Dr. G!! Jim C.

[@Meela234]

Rod don't care about ANYBODY! Trying to frame your own child for their mother's murder is a new category of low. Smh

[@Dee-ur1hk]

Soo disgusting!!! Parents usually protect there kids NOT frame them!

[@paulfranklin4650]

Rod sounds like a nightmare. I believe men like this target specific women who have certain vulnerabilities that can be exploited. He cannot manipulate just any woman as many women would see right through the charming act to the deviousness at his core.

[@LaVidayElTristeFinal]

This guy must have watched the Forensic Files episodes called "Slippery Motives" where a man named Ed Post killed his wife in a hotel bathtub, tore off a shower ring to simulate a bathtub accident, and then went jogging, stopping along the way to say hi and talk to the hotel doorman, so he would be remembered and have an alibi. Exactly the same as this guy. But apparently, he didn't watch the end of the episode. Ed Post was convicted for the crime, and so did he.

[@zenawarrior7442]

A religious person cleaning the house & backgammon gambling? Weird. A lesson in desperation...better to be alone. Great points. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🤎

[@willnill7946]

Better to not wait till the last min to find a man

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@willnill7946 Haha. Or don't find one at all.

[@cottontails9003]

@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you for your beautiful comment. The twins are starting their 3yr of medical school, their professors said they would email or computers online for their lectures. I hope your mum is doing better. I worked in aged care and reported the amount of neglect goings-on. . They closed one down and no new residents were allowed to be admitted for 6months, so I really hope she gets the care she deserves. The first grief councillor was confronting. Lots of love and hugs too you and your mum from you're family in Australia. Please take care and stay safe. 😢😚❤❤💙💙💙💙💔✉🎋🎋☕🌷🌷🌷🎇....... Also cctv cameras are now set up in nursing homes too see what's happening with care and to protect the residents from any form of neglect or abuse ❤

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@cottontails9003 Hi friend. Wow that's great the twins are in 3rd yr of med school!!!💛👏💙. So much is digital now yes. I live across the street from Mum (moved across country to be here). My sister is Guardian and doesn't go much so we'll work out a plan. Yes I think she may have set up cctv before. Good for you to help the elderly! They are such a forgotten group. Thx. I will and have fought for her proper care. 😑😬😞. Much love to you and your family 🇦🇺 my lovely friend....sorry the counselor was confronting 😙🥰💙💙💚💚❤❤💫🙌🌷🌸🌷🌸🥤🌏🏜🌄

[@cottontails9003]

@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you beautiful. Please take care of your mum she shouldn't be neglected. I'm still feeling fragile , but I'll give the councillor ago. Much love and hugs from your Australian family 😚❤❤💙💙💙💙💔✉🎋🌷🌷🌷🎇

[@shawngross5420]

It is terrible that he set his daughter up to discover her mother in that state. Cruel. And then he tried to frame her for the crime. Despicable.

[@vambo13257]

I lived in Moorsetown, N.J. for a year and it was great, not boring like some people

[@Anione111]

Dr. Grande, you may be interested in a similar incident involving the death of a famous Bollywood star, Sridevi. It happened in a hotel in Dubai. However, in that case it was ruled a accidental drowning, although it was hard to accept as the lady was very healthy and physically fit. There were lot of conspiracy theories too in that case. Many things just don't add up.

[@heloramos82]

She declined his generous offer lol 🤣

[@violetsrayreikishop2]

Its way more details and heinous things he did i hope you make a longer video on this.

[@ninaxwings]

Never ever ever tell someone that you’re cutting them out of your will. They’ll find out on their own when you die. Rod reminds me of this guy I dated just replace backgammon with Pokémon GO

[@Meela234]

Or tell them after you've already done it, so they won't still think they will get paid after murdering you.

[@sharonhoyt2133]

Seems like her limiting her choices to a very narrow religious group gave her very few choices. Sad ending for her and the children.

[@laospa55ion]

Hi Dr. Grande - would you go over the Lindsay Clancy case?

[@cottontails9003]

Good afternoon Dr Grande, what a charming man....not. I personally can't stand parents who use their children as weapons against the other parent. Rod certainly seems like a man child who always wanted things his way. I'm so pleased this monster is where he should be, ,locked up in prison. Thank you Dr Grande. . Brilliant analysis, tragic outcome and informative topic.

[@oceanstaiga5928]

I shouldn’t be shocked that he tried to frame his own daughter when he got mad at his wife for not unpacking his suitcase??

[@Dee-ur1hk]

This was a GREAT one!

[@tod3msn]

Obviously, I don’t know all the details aside from the good doctor’s analysis but what I will never understand is why people just don’t get divorced.

[@Dulcimertunes]

$$$$$$$

[@shimoncrown]

Modern orthodox Jews tend to marry young as there is a strong emphasis on raising children. It is highly unusual for a woman in this community to wait until the late thirties to get married. This would have severely limited Shelle's choice of partner. Sad story.

[@shimoncrown]

@𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓𝐒'𝐀𝐏𝐏†𝟏𝟓𝟏𝟎𝟒𝟎𝟐𝟓𝟔𝟏𝟐 I don't really have that much to add. I am a modern Orthodox 65 year old Jew living in Israel so things may be different in the USA. However I live in a community that has a lot of immigrants from the USA and my impression is that the Modern Orthodox experience is similar every where. I don't have accurate statistics but my impression is that we tend to marry by the age of 25. Pre marital sex is definitely not encouraged but we tend to turn a blind eye when it happens. One thing that did surprise me a bit was that Shelle felt free to date despite not having a legal divorce. I guess that she obtained a religious divorce or what we call a 'get' from a religious court. I was under the impression that a religious court would not approve this without accompanying civil proceedings but I guess I was wrong here. Hope this helps. I really enjoy your insightful videos and dry humor. My community has a lot of immigrants from New Jersey (a place I have never been to) so your comment about it got me laughing.

[@Thomas-yw9eo]

There's practically a mountain of circumstantial evidence to implicate this narcissist.

[@ianomalley6100]

Todd's displeasure of NJ will never not make me laugh out loud. Is Delaware much better though G?

[@GladysJinx]

Lol, the title.Had to listen to this. I didn't know that bathtubs can be violent 🤔

[@velocirapture89]

The New Jersey joke.....man that was a low blow ;P

[@StaceyEldridge]

Dr Grande can you please analyse Julia Haart from My Unorthodox Life 🙏 She was the CEO from Elite World Group (top modelling agency) but is accused of being a con artist, misusing huge amounts of company funds, and destroying Elite through her mismanagement. Cheers, greeting from Australia 🐨🦘

[@LaniLanilei]

A little early tonight Dr Grande it's delightful. Hello again. I'll take a seat and listen.