Dear Miss Netta

Miss Netta famous for her TikTok lives and cooking for her man Charles has been getting a lot of backlash after her live on TikTok and her comments on Black women and people in general. I need my sister to log off and I need us to leave her alone if we are truly annoyed.
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[@AfroChoctaw]

Say Her Name Sonya Massey 🕊

[@jerri3285]

Thank you

[@key-got-jokes]

Way more important than a man in drag that doesn't like the skin he is in.

[@lovely.nellie]

❤

[@shainaj1391]

Ms Sonya Massey 🙏🏾😢

[@ImlikeCANDY99]

Rip Ms. Massey, ❤😇🪽

[@Candace.candace]

Honestly I’m tired of everyone using black women as their scapegoat. And Netta is in the same boat as other people who do that. Everyone blames black women for why their life is horrible. I’m sick of it!

[@erikarobinson3557]

I’m telling you! And BW need to stop supporting these BUMS, including some of the ones that are apart of the LGBTQ+ Community!

[@angelakanteh6226]

Truth

[@Kayla-kd8ov]

This!

[@taneeshaann-marie8104]

But she never used “us” as to why her life is horrible. She simply said black women are ignorant and she doesn’t want to be black and this basically goes back to how black woman have treated her since she’s been on these different platforms. That’s the bigger picture overall. He’s right. A lot of black women have been mean to her. I personally have not seen any white women doing this. Netta was technically right. She’s hurt and while saying what she said in the manner of how she did was not right, she was correct. She’s valid in her feelings and I empathize with her from that standpoint. That’s it. Like no one can sit here and play victim and include themselves in something just because they can identify with the demographic or group of individuals that she spoke about. I don’t see y’all talking about being sick and tired of people literally being nasty and picking on her. 98% of the people that comment on her content join the bandwagon and hide behind the screen like the bullies they are and pick right along with the others people it’s easier to be mean for some reason than it is to be nice. If you don’t like her don’t watch her. It’s that simple. She isn’t affecting your personal life or anyone else’s for that matter in any way that would prevent you from living day to day. It’s not this serious. No one can sit here and say for a fact that black women have never deconstructed her as a person. She’s human at the end of the day and when you keep poking the bear that’s what happens. People lash out and I feel like that’s what the world wanted. They wanted Netta to respond like this just to set her up for failure and bash her even more even though it was those on social media that contributed to this problem. Smh it doesn’t make sense.

[@oskartgrouch8757]

Psyop. Ignore all this stuff. Everything.

[@islandgirl8067]

I must disagree with you on this one Justin, even if Netta was considered to be conventionally attractive, it would still be disgusting to call BW dumb and say WW were better.

[@deesworld585]

She wouldn't have called them that because if she looked like Beyonce, you all wouldn't bully her as much

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

What's disgusting is bullying a person that didn't do anything to anyone. Yet made them out to be the bad guy when they fight back.

[@brownbeauty8578]

THIS‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@StopPlayingAtLife]

That part

[@Da90sbaby]

She????? 😂😂😂

[@kianamontgomery4574]

All I heard were excuses. Ms Netta does not get to speak low about Black women just because she’s a minority. Full stop. Standards need to be held

[@Tullahgit]

I was thinking yhe same thing

[@yaneznayoui1597]

White people do treat the LGBT better statistically speaking, I mean the most countries with the highest acceptance of LGBT are the ones predominately white, whereas most African countries the idea of rights doesn't even exist except South Africa which has the largest population of white people. Lol

[@squirrelsinmykoolaid]

I don't think it was an excuse at all. The main argument of the video was "stay on topic when calling out misogynior, don't resort to fighting bigotry with bigotry". The fact of the matter is that the more marginalized you are, the more vitriol you will get when you do something wrong and it is often disproportionate, especially compared to similar actions committed by more privileged individuals. We as Black women should know this especially. Justin never said Netta is allowed to talk horrible about Black women because of their gender presentation or made any excuses. He pointed out that people are using what was said about BW to justify saying vile and bigoted things about Netta. It's not productive and it recreates a lot of misogynistic, colorist, and overall anti-Black ideology that people claim to fight against in the first place. We do not have to resort to recreating oppression to hold other folks accountable for how they talk about Black women. That's the point of the video.

[@antoinettebradley3793]

@EmmereI THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT NOTICE THAT TOO!

[@AkilahIsHuman]

@@kianamontgomery4574 it’s not an excuse and the parallel is understood when it’s a cis black woman finally lashing out and saying something cruel or fascist towards cishet black men bc we all understand the pretext of black gendered violence. We give cis bw a pass bc we understand the pain caused by bm and know the power is not bidirectional.

[@kimmy5072]

Black women, y’all better be careful who you support.

[@erikarobinson3557]

Thank you!

[@Sweeden268]

@kinmy5072 OMG , this!

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

A lot of BW started speaking bad about Netta then get mad because he fights back every time

[@ms.battle9055]

@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 Do BM stay horrible things about him?

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

@@ms.battle9055 not like y'all do

[@lamesciathestretchpro]

So we are just going to skip over her calling black women dumb and saying she wishes she was a white woman? I don’t think looks had anything to do with this latest situation. I was a supporter and after that rant I stopped supporting. So she gets to get away with speaking ill toward black women because of a few trolls who bully her about her looks?

[@lynnwynn4931]

She was trying to piss yall stupid asses off because y’all kept messing with her!

[@ddneq677]

"A few" ? 😂😂

[@bigjami6259]

it certainly wasn't "a Few" but I still agree with you, a never had issue with her, still don't actually. I just don't think think she should have used anti-black, blanket statement. she at the very least could have worded towards the people who was hating on her, especially since it wasn't ALL black women even if it was more than few. 2 things can be rich at once tho, cause while I do think Justin has a point, I still don't think it can justify the blanket statement she made about all black women using anti-black language.

[@Vintagestylewins]

I don't blame her! Blk ppl can be very mean towards there own

[@shamrockshow8490]

That’s the problem! Black women always supporting people who HATE you! Every time a non black woman, trans, or even a black man gets mad ( they don’t have to be mad, they hate you regardless) they constantly show and tell how much they HATE black women. I believe a lot of black women are slow because yall keep falling for it

[@Dannyman1984]

Netta just said she want Trump back in office for extra food stamps and stimulus checks…. I can’t

[@sherille1985]

Shit me too

[@Geneva89]

@@sherille1985okay!!! Cuz my disabled ass tired of having to work two jobs to survive.

[@theremix6664]

@@sherille1985 you’re just as dense as Netta and the other raccoons who think trump made that happen and not a global Pandemic

[@dabigbitchhouse]

Only an idiot wouldn’t want him back in office…..you’re not an idiot are u

[@tracywilliams925]

@@sherille1985trump wasn’t responsible for that. Just a heads up the senate and house were.

[@tiffanylj2004]

Can someone please explain to me how someone is transphobic when it comes to Ms. Netta because he doesn’t identify as trans? This is not me being funny, I’m genuinely asking.

[@chellej.1592]

Right same thing I said...He said he is a ghey MAN and that Netta is a character...So which is it? He is using that crap as an excuse to disparage BW who unfortunately made him famous (I still can't fathom why).

[@squirrelsinmykoolaid]

I don't know much about Mrs. Netta, but I will try my best to explain with the context that I do have. I may not be 100% correct, but this is my best take on it. I'd take a trans person's explanation over mine though. You can experience a form of bigotry even if you don't necessarily belong to that group. You don't have to be disabled to experience ableism. You don't have to be Black, to experience racism rooted in Antiblackness, and in the same vein you don't have to be trans to experience transphobia. Miss Netta doesn't identify as trans, but he is a feminine-presenting man that picked up the title "Miss". His gender presentation does not fit the social norms, and gender non-conforming folks often fall into the trans umbrella if they choose to identify as such. Since all of the bullying seems to be linked to Netta's gender presentation and speculations about their gender identity, it is transphobia. Another example of non-trans (cis) people experiencing transphobia is when cis Black women experience bullying/or violence because someone suspects they are trans, like when celebrities get called men or when that woman was physically assaulted because someone assumed she was trans. That is how transphobic violence can be put onto cisgender people. Similar scenario if say a Samoan person was mistaken as Black and so someone called them the N word and slashed their tires. That would be anti-Black racism despite the person not being Black. I hope that was a helpful explanation.

[@Woodbaddie]

this generation’s understanding of queerness is distinct from Miss Netta’s - She’s an old gay/queer so his understanding of his identity doesn’t fit into the boxes the community developed today. See old TS Madison interviews or talks with Big Freedia - they both discuss the gap between current gays and old gays, their perceived societal constructs often rooted in the generation they were born in. Same way old Black folk fought for civil rights but in the same breath will shame anyone who wears locs. They are from a different time

[@ellebeaux]

@@squirrelsinmykoolaid This was VERY helpful and very well said. Thank you! ❣️

[@Rumi_Princess]

Ms. Netta said that Ms. Netta is a character. He is Joe in real life and don't identify as trans or anything for that matter. So, I am just as confused as you.

[@Immortal_Empress]

Fascination with people who different or undesirable is nothing new, think back to when circuses incorporated “freaks” as a side show. People would travel for miles and wait in lines to see The Bearded Lady, The Giant and The Imp, the WolfMan, or The Four Legged Lady. TikTok is a modern day circus, and people like Mrs. Netta and Shamar for instance are the new “Freaks of Nature”. It’s a sad and disgusting truth, but it is the reality.

[@squirrelsinmykoolaid]

Wheeew that's some tea because the main people put in those circuses and human zoos were disabled people, gender non-conforming folks (like "bearded ladies") and BIPOC.

[@Nappy2theRoot]

That's so true

[@So-what692]

🎯

[@AmeilaStar]

Justin, I’m a person who has never seen Ms Netti content before. However, Black women are tired of being the butt of the jokes. Also, I do not know what their gender is but a lot of trans woman are still operating in misogyny. We need to call this behavior out. Ms Netti may not be able to pass laws but her videos contribute to the dehumanization of Black women.

[@bmg96_]

thank you !

[@So-what692]

Trans women make my arse itch. They want to be looked at as a woman. So we oblige. Then when we identify them as woman they are quick to tell you I’m trans. They tend to be disingenuous about bottom surgery and why most of them don’t get it. They want to force themselves into bio women spaces and yet say their experience is diff which I agree. At this point I think all their disingenuous, gaslighting and hypocrisy is due to them wanting to compete with women while still holding on to misogyny. I want to know why. Basically what they are saying when they say they are woman too, is I’m sleeping with the same men bio women date, marry and have kids with. Therefore I am a woman cause yo nicca is attracted to me and we hunching🤷🏽‍♀️

[@HairbyNardia]

THIS!

[@hiddengemz955]

Justin don’t care that ozempic got him showing himself. He defends black women for support and following

[@yassine8935]

I agree to a degree tran women can have misognoir in their outlook on life however i dont believe it a large portion of them the same way i dont see it as a lot of the blk queer community in general , your black ness or womanhood doesnt sheikd you from enforcing harmful views on black people and especially on black women trans or cis for that matter . The blk trans /queer communuty has alway found companionship with cis black women and that doesnt mean cis black women havent been at the shit end of the stick when the members of he queer community dog on black women , however it also doesnt mean all blk women have always or ever will be supportive if the queer community and some infact dog the queer community out to , its a double edge sword with a lot of nuances .

[@bmg96_]

not everything is about desirability…wrong is wrong regardless of if other men haven’t been called out for it, we’re calling it out now. (in my opinion ms netta became viral because of her cooking segments for Charles, you may have been trying to guess her gender but that’s not everyone’s reality) we’re not accepting disrespect towards any black woman regardless of who says it, that’s a weird take in my opinion. ms netta has said a lot of nasty things about black women for too long especially for someone who wants to be a black woman so bad. it’s confusing. not everyone needs a platform

[@KassieKane]

It was a very weird take….

[@bmg96_]

@@KassieKane very. there’s an undertone of projection coming from justin not nice

[@stars8924]

The LGBT community can say the same thing about 👱🏾‍♀️ talking bad about anyone of us. Whenever I look under Nettas community more than likely it’s a 👱🏾‍♀️ saying the harshest of things…but we’re yet again going to act like that’s not happening. Netta should have never said ALL 👱🏾‍♀️ but I can understand why she did not because really all 👱🏾‍♀️ should hear it

[@d.asiatp]

thank youu, i truly don't gaf how Joe looks I care about his character and thats what being hideous to me, I didn't like this take at all especially how he didn't explain how Joe shouldn't have went to the the extent of bashing ALL black women as if his mother isn't included in that statement.

[@laritawrightwatson4851]

I think Justin projects when it comes to desirability and being of a darker complexion I think he thinks of himself as those and that's why he empathize with Joe..Why is it Bio Women can get called out their names drug up and down by G@y men and its to be laughed at with no label,,but when Bio women call G@y men out their name and drag them it's then a label of homophobia? Joe don't care for Black (women) simply because she knows thats what her Man likes also..So she tries to belittle,degrade,name call,etc..Hoping that she can sway her Man's thoughts on BW as well to get him to look at BW in the same light as she sees BW..In hopes to sway his perception and attraction to them..Nothing but INSECURITIES nobody's picking on her no more than they do anyone else out here with a platform..People tend to drag whatever someone's insecurities,lowest moments,disabilities,etc if they come out here and its displayed that includes looks,weight,skin,living conditions,anything thats visable to the viewers they'll pick you apart for it..I'm not saying none of its right because its not..And she doesn't id herself as LGBTQUIA,thats everyone else putting her in the community..

[@C2EAKali]

Black women are allowed to get upset when belittled by someone. Not sure you get to tell blk wmn that "it doesn't matter what they said." Huh?

[@amysmith8043]

Exactly 😂. I guess he forgot he is a cis gender male lol

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

BW started belittling him first

[@C2EAKali]

@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 and he has the right to be upset. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I didn't even mention Miss Netta nor invalidated him.

[@diamondfirenf]

I think Ms Netta know wtf it is and laughing straight to the bank

[@Xo-zn1bq]

100%!!!!!

[@Worldshottestpariah]

Correct

[@20FilmChick]

Once black women "leave Netta alone" she'll fade back to obscurity. Not sure Joe wants that.

[@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess]

Exactly

[@Worldshottestpariah]

Just don’t watch then and don’t watch nothing about her

[@20FilmChick]

@@Worldshottestpariah I don't

[@madii319]

I don’t find Ms. Netta disgusting…I find his talking points disgusting😅 I will support everyone but when you start talking crazy because you get a little bit of fame I’m side eyeing you automatically 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@smilebigiloveyou]

I find him disgusting! He’s a self hating individual

[@celestedivinity2178]

Her* it’s really not that hard

[@pamelamorrisb]

@@celestedivinity2178HE said himself he’s not apart of the LGBTQ community and he doesn’t refer/ identify as a woman!‼️

[@mrssuchafknladyy2078]

@@celestedivinity2178he has said HE IS A HE AND NOT FKN TRANS and that “netta” is a character bc HE IS JOE😂😂😂 he’s said this out HIS OWN MOUTH🥴👏🏾👌🏾😂😂😂😂

[@mrssuchafknladyy2078]

@@celestedivinity2178thought you was gonna try and “clear” somebody whenn you CLEARLY don’t even fkn watch HIM FRFR and just wanna try and police WTF somebody says🙄🥴💯👌🏾😂😂😂 byeeeeeee

[@lilygirllisa]

Joe said that Netta is a character and does not identify with the lgb(t)q community.

[@pamelamorrisb]

Exactly , they be so quick to call him a “SHE”.

[@destinyn63]

@@pamelamorrisbJoe never corrected anyone though and refers to himself as “Miss,” a title for a woman

[@Nappy2theRoot]

WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH BEING BULLIED

[@toshiiface5372]

Exactly!

[@pamelamorrisb]

@@destinyn63 i’m just going by what he says which is “I DON’T IDENTIFY AS A WOMAN. & he also said “Miss Netta” is just a character but I do understand what you’re saying.

[@Honeeeeyyyy]

I'm finna start a petition for the Black V Neck to return . Life hasn't been lifing since 🙄🙄

[@madii319]

🎯

[@Americahasaproblemchile]

Who?

[@OpinionatedBlues]

@@Americahasaproblemchilenot a who, a what. The Black v-neck boo.

[@ceyarras]

@@Americahasaproblemchile u need to catch up on some content babes lol

[@Americahasaproblemchile]

@@ceyarras I did my research before getting the answer and said oop they’re about to wack me 😭

[@Dai_442]

So Justin, you said ALL of that, but it still doesn’t justify Netta putting down black women and uplifting white women. Not all black women have made fun of Netta, so her dragging black women was uncalled for, let’s be serious. 😒

[@lavernmerriman7891]

Enough is enough. I don't support what he said, and I stand with black women.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

@@lavernmerriman7891 well then you stand with his bullies. BW been bullying that man since he came online.

[@quentashiadarbins3299]

As someone who watched Ms. Netta content from the beginning. Hell, honestly, I didn’t care how Ms. Netta identified. I just enjoyed the videos, until I didn’t . 2 things can b true at the same time. What Ms. Netta said was messed up and ppl do give her a hard time bc of her looks.

[@alexishogan6342]

Miss netta need to understand that even though black woman bully her on this app. They also are her biggest supporters. There is no need to attack like that.Miss netta is just very insecure true colors showing

[@Nasrumii]

How does this sound? 😂 “even though Black women bully you, you should still be appreciative of them and not defend yourself because they’re your biggest supporters. You’re also insecure if you defend yourself against those black women bullying you” craziness lmao

[@lanagriffin33]

@@Nasrumii lol

[@alexishogan6342]

@@Nasrumii you are totally missing the point. The fact is that you can’t put someone in the box that’s like me saying Asian people are dumb because amount of Asian people bullied me on an app yet I still have a lot of Asian supporters that love me like it does doesn’t make sense to put them all in the box and say bad things than good things when they also support you

[@faerie111]

@@Nasrumii it was always a transactional relationship. she was a pawn in the algorithm game. its unfortunate bc this always ends up being a justification for anti transness, blackness, misogynoir etc. the love was never real and it sucks that no one will grow from this

[@yayatheunicorn]

They are not her biggest supporters. They come to bully and thats what gives her views.

[@Liiinda4]

I liken what she’s doing to the BM with mics movement with figures like Kevin Samuels. They aren’t “affecting legislation” either, but doesn’t make what they’ve been saying about BW any less harmful. It perpetuates the very thing (s)he too is a victim of.

[@jasminee1357]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@IsBreRight]

Exactly 👏🏾

[@Roques-rage1706]

Ms. Netta was non problematic. She cooked and did funny videos. But no, blk folk had to start being mean for no reason.

[@Kre8iviT27]

Do u really think it was only black viewers being mean to her?

[@Headnotthetail2]

@@Kre8iviT27and they only was mean to her when she started claiming everybody wanted Charles when he clearly is the user snd the one who’s bad blood

[@Kre8iviT27]

@Headnotthetail2 I saw the video where she said white women are smarter and better than black women, as well as some other ignorant comments. She should've just called the harrassers "haters" instead of saying black women. She had/has a lot of black women who did/do support her videos. Dont know for how long. She didn't think about the fact that she was shading the black women who do support her when she was shading the haters who she said are black women. It's unfortunate. Maybe that comment gassing up white woman will expand her white woman audience now.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

Exactly and then when he fights back he's wrong. They started with him first.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

​@@Kre8iviT27Thing is it's a lot of BW that are this way so he had every right to say it.

[@MiniM69]

To be clear, Ms. Netta has been harmed and is now harming others.

[@Demarkio-qx8ow]

She’s being bullied and she’s now responding..

[@tinaye8638]

I don't agree with how Miss Netta responded but I understand why she's mad. People are so cruel. In her comments

[@ddneq677]

I really dont like ms nettas anti black and misogynistic sentiments. You cant attack an identity and choose who it hurts. I feel like she could deal w the negativity a better way. But i also dont like how many bw will bully tf outta someone and then when that person spews vitriol back at them it's "how dare you say that about black women!" Picking on someone then expecting them to respond respectfully is wild lol

[@bigjami6259]

ya this really is a nuanced topic, cause on one hand there has been ALOT of people specifically black people bullying Netta, so I can see why she responded . However to make an anti-black blanket statement about ALL black women when there's a large number of black women who haven't even heard of her. so like ya I guess you can't tell someone how to respond, but you also aren't free from being called in if the response is just as bad. Cause what you mean, Black women are "dumb" and you wanna be a white women.......

[@ddneq677]

@@bigjami6259 I think it takes a certain degree of empathy to understand why netta is saying those things. It's wild how ppl will overlook or downplay the bullying of marginalized ppl and go straight to criticizing their reaction to it. It's very telling.

[@bigjami6259]

@@ddneq677 I nor has this other person overlooked the amount of bullying and hate netta receives online. We do empathize with that and recognize that we can’t tell someone who to respond, whoever your response is still just subjust to criticism. I personally don’t agree with blanket statements, nor do I agree with anti-black language. however I do recognize netta was also reaching a breaking point with the hate she constantly receives. 2 things can be right at the same time tho, Netta made a blanket statement using anti-black Language which was obviously offend the women who don't even have a problem with netta and have valid reason to disagree with what she said. she can however the people on the internet are wrong for bring her to this point with unnecessary hate.

[@ummummgood757]

They bully her terribly…. And when they aren’t bullying her in her comments they are making videos about her or skits…. And b4 you say she grown if you can’t handle it then stop doing it… because someone constantly being bullied you are going to snap off and say something to hurt somebody… I didn’t get offended I know she was in her feelings.. they be extremely disrespectful to her it’s sickening because it’s majority black people.. her own darn people

[@d.asiatp]

you should be offended that man meant every word.

[@WenNRome]

you also didn't get offended b/c you know she wasn't speaking about you and your heart isn't full of venom and negativity ....you have what they call "common sense"

[@Xo-zn1bq]

@@WenNRome common sense is very rare

[@monique6235]

CAUSE IM BIG AND IM FAT AND IM NASTEH

[@tericitaheard1173]

If you keep talking about her. She'll keep showing up. Let him/ her be gone.

[@DerrayJones]

i KNOW JUSTIN IS NOT DEFENDING MS NETTA. LOL

[@Roques-rage1706]

You are a part of the problem

[@thePLAINESTjane]

..are you shocked? He sympathizes and makes excuses for anyone who isn’t generally considered desirable bcz that’s how HE identifies. And I find that crazy bcz Justin is not ugly..unsure why he carries this ‘undesirable’ plight the way he does but hey, I support him but I don’t agree with everything he says.

[@aalihamccord9608]

@@thePLAINESTjaneagreeeeed I noticed that too ! He takes up for the “under dogs” because of how he thinks he looks and has his own insecurities and outs “more attractive looking people” he’s not ugly at all but he does seem to target pretty ppl … if that makes sense

[@annetteiroanya9883]

Y'all are weird. Please read a book to get a better understanding of how misogyny, transphobia, desirability, and antifatness impact us every day. Y'all clearly do not have the range for this conversation

[@squirrelsinmykoolaid]

​@@thePLAINESTjaneDesirability is not about whether one finds themselves attractive or not. It is about historical systems of oppression determining who society finds desirable and therefore valuable overall and who benefits from these things. Black people are absolutely beautiful, but we know that anti-Black racism has made it so Black features are typically deemed "undesirable". That is why colorism is rampant. That is why people still say horrific things about type 4 hair and other features attributed to our race. Justin is attractive and I'm sure he thinks so as well, but he lives in a reality where he knows that he is a dark skinned, plus sized, gay Black man that is somewhat feminine and society does not deem these attributes "desirable" or value them. That can be reflected in society as a whole, but also in subcultures like the gay community where "No blacks, no fats, no femmes", is a thing. Desirability is political. It's not about preference or self-perception.

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

I didn't know who Netta was until 2 weeks ago. What Netta says doesn't bother me.

[@blu_ranger71]

I still don't know who she is

[@Tookie81]

You have to started following him for at last the past 3 months and then you would understand a lot more. This is nothing knew what he said, maybe to this extent so harsh but he been talking trash about black women and talking down on people. He started first, throwing rocks and hiding his hand. He was constantly telling women how to be women, telling women why they don’t have men, and couldn’t keep men. I would also see how he would talk to Charles and I stopped watching about a month ago!

[@islandgirl8067]

I never heard of Netta until a few weeks ago either.

[@Lavender_8497]

So then why are you here? 🤔

[@Kayla-kd8ov]

All I know is that they cook food for Charles. That's it, that's all

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

Pretty people like “Ekane” also get platformed cuz of their looks same difference

[@thePLAINESTjane]

..VERY good point.

[@carmexkisses6306]

Exactly, she’s BEEN making problematic comments and she’s still sitting at 4M. People just wanna humble Netta and put her in her “place” because someone like her doesn’t deserve all this attention or visibility. They’re ready to cancel her because they were never for her anyway. They make excuses for their favs all the time

[@kennedyfknalexa]

@@carmexkisses6306right on. perfectly said! 👏🏾

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

@@carmexkisses6306 all true statements. I don’t indulge in either

[@Blackmalechrissie]

@@carmexkisses6306exactly

[@Chanel_Dior.]

They been attacking them since they surfaced and upset when they bite back. Slow or not, ugly or not the internet comes for those people, their looks and their marriage. Everyone has a breaking point.

[@joeannchaney1219]

Amen!!!

[@amysmith8043]

Why is his breaking point uplifting white women to spite black women lol? All the major creators that bully him online are MEN

[@britbrat1127]

So all black women across the world deserved that? We can’t even get a break from our own community. I’m just tired of getting torn down, dragged, and chastised all the time for stuff I didn’t even do. I didn’t do a thing to Ms. Netta. We are literally the most hated and disrespected no matter what we do. It’s sad because you don’t see white people doing this to each other and they have plenty of people like Ms. Netta online. I wish I could disassociate from humanity period, it’s just depressing and disappointing and life is so hard already. I’m exhausted with the black community and being blamed for everything, everything wrong with us is a black woman’s fault

[@shaytaylormade5244]

Exactly

[@ellesouthernbelle5655]

I was good until she started to use generalizations in reference to black women. She should say some or in my experience..

[@jolenahill7619]

Don’t let the person be dark skin , fat , or not the beauty standard, because King of reads will defend them no matter what! I’m sorry but just because netta has people that bully them doesn’t mean that they have the right to speak on black women the way they did. I feel like you’re focusing more on “ oh this person said this about black women and yall still support them!” No matter how you cut it, what Netta said was distasteful and disgusting don’t make excuses for her.

[@DementedEscape]

Oh great everyone else verbally abuses Black women, let Ms. Netta pile on. People are just as disgusted with all the rhetoric concerning Black women and their looks.

[@oodief88]

People look for any reason to finally say "I TOLD Y'ALL!" I don't even follow Mrs. Netta, but every time I come across their content all I see is people saying the most hurtful things they can say. Be honest with yourselves.

[@britbrat1127]

BW are the only ones who support and defend him! Wdym? He said *all* black women across the world when it’s impossible/improbable for all of us to have seen him to hate him. I’ve never said anything about Ms. Netta. I didn’t deserve that and neither did anyone else. Wow. So we’re supposed to be concerned about their problems while they literally get to say ours doesn’t matter? Unbelievable.

[@oodief88]

@britbrat1127 If you took what was said to heart, then you have deeper issues to work on. Best wishes.

[@britbrat1127]

@@oodief88 What a passive aggressive, pathetic response. Love the ad hominem: we’re talking about BW being disrespected and you’re trying to undermine my mental health to win. Lol just wow. Amazing how that’s what you got out of it, *completely* missing all points. That’s the problem with society. How did you get I took it to heart out of what I said? I’m literally just responding to what HE said, since he included ALL of us. I said BW didn’t deserve that, smooth brain. 🤔🤨

[@Mrs.CreoleFleurDLis]

I keep hearing about this Netta person, & IMO she loves ALL of the attention good, bad or indifferent, if someone, disturbs my spirit, whether it their looks, personality, actions or whatever it is, I just DON'T WATCH THEM, & if they get on a platform where I frequently visit, I click off, or red ball if I'm catching the replay. MOST of the time if you don't watch, ignore or stop giving something attention it will eventually poof into oblivion, (most of the time) but some folks are like gnats THEY DON'T GO AWAY no matter what you do. 🤣😂🤣😂

[@cosmicwzrd]

Ms Netta is trolling cuz she sick of being bullied.

[@orwhtever]

I empathize with Ms Netta she has been ruthlessly taunted and she’s hurting 😢

[@kellkat08]

This ain’t it Justin. A lot of excuses

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

No Justin speaking the truth. Y'all are a bunch of bullies that starting coming for Netta and got upset because he stood up for himself.

[@tiffanyc.32]

Black women were the ones being insulted, and people cannot control the reaction. I’ve heard you go in on looks in many a video that did not have to do with looks.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

BW starting insulting Netta first and he gave it back every time

[@fjones1577]

@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760Thats not true. BW supported her and in return she would take digs at bw on the low in her content.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

@@fjones1577 bs, y'all came for that man first, he didn't start attacking bw for no reason

[@theremix6664]

@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 stop spamming everyone’s comments who don’t agree with Joe.

[@aihbrianhall]

@@fjones1577girl bye yall started and he finished with the truth the first content creator to really stand up against the bullying with the truth in the black community that’s courage not dick riding like yall

[@jerri3285]

Fridelene Daniel Sonya Massey. Research these names. See what happened to these two beautiful black women.

[@olivh444]

Not everybody bashes ms. Netta because they see her as undesirable it could be her arrogance and the thing she says/how she speaks to ppl

[@Mindyours1999]

It wasn’t only Black women who were disrespectful to Ms Netta’s appearance. Cis Black men were going hard on Ms Netta. Why is it that Ms Netta said the most disgusting things about Black Women and yet had nothing to say to those disrespectful men. I’m going to respectfully disagree with this take.

[@dessvictoria]

Regardless of looks and gender Ms. Netta is still mysoginistic and has already exposed they way she thinks. I dont care for making excuses for someone just because shes not conventially attractive. EVERY DAY people are online making BW the scapegoat for numerous topics. Its exhausting. If anything people are targeting BW for our looks and more. She has shown she is not a good person and defending her just because she looks a certain way, it does not exempt her from being held accountable.

[@aj2thamaxx742]

4:34 the conclusion I’ve come to is that we need to ignore people that engage in rage bait. I do think Ms.Netta is frustrated about how she’s treated, however, talking in such a hateful manner does nothing but reinforce hateful rhetoric online. She has a right to be upset that people treat her poorly but that doesn’t justify her bigoted views.

[@heroaja_1]

...I have to disagree. Two things can be true: yes, the same Black women who platformed Netta are also abusive and transphobic in the way they speak and bully. Attraction has EVERYTHING to do with why people are so quick to throw Netta away or to bully in the first place. But using the same anti-Black misogyny to attack all Black women as dumb is also harmful. Netta is NOT trans. So this just feels like another instance of a male-identified person being violent towards Black women.

[@timothyboykin9318]

You hit on something that I've been saying for a while. A lot of these memes are ableist. This is why I also hate cringe content because really it's making fun of autistic and other disabled people.

[@aderam648]

Miss Netta is not trans. She has said this herself.

[@naejones79]

First of all, Ms.Netta has said time and time again that he is not a trans woman and that Ms.Netta is a character. Craig literally has been right about him the whole time.

[@KrissKross2000]

What power does Craig have to effect change? Would you say Netta is more popular than Craig? It’s all harmful and it needs to stop. Transphobia, misogyny, homophobia, etc are all harmful rhetoric and even if 5 people are listening, that can lead to change. Black women are TIRED of being targeted and then when we speak up, it’s a problem. Netta has a right to speak up and say something back to their haters but to say all black women is trash. Let’s be honest, there are people from all groups saying horrible stuff about Netta but they had the most energy for black women.

[@mocadeluxe5690]

JoNetta is not a victim and is not this weak person that you're trying to defend.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

Netta never did anything to be disrespected. You bullies started attacking this person.

[@Blackmalechrissie]

Neither is black women 😂

[@_KayBee_]

Almost at 200k! Let's go!

[@MsSmileBright]

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. The incessant verbal assault on Joenetta is unnecessarily disgusting and mean. It's understood Mrs Netta's response isnt to all black women just those coming for her, who thinks she doesn't deserve to have/be with Charles

[@MEMYSELFAND3]

Joe/Netta doesn't even claim being a woman. He said, "Netta" is a character for the internet. The commentary in this video is basically based on the fact that they are in the gay community and giving a blind eye to the trash that was said. Desirability didn't play a part in this scenario. The conversations don't always have to combine the same talking points and vocabulary. Wrong is wrong, and Joe/Netta was wrong.

[@viperbubbles3358]

Exactly!

[@MEMYSELFAND3]

@viperbubbles3358 It seems as if he's riding the LGBTQ+ train with every story. Not every situation needs to incorporate gay this, and gay that. We all understand that gay issues matter,but this situation didn't need to be based on the fact of Joe/Netta sexual preference. Justin totally overlooked the real issue to make an issue he has roped into this one. It's always rally around black women until it's an issue with someone from the gay community doing something wrong to black women, then it's anti-gay instead of the truth being the truth when black women speak about it.

[@viperbubbles3358]

@@MEMYSELFAND3 EXACTLY! I’ve noticed this pattern aswell

[@MEMYSELFAND3]

@@viperbubbles3358 💯

[@MEMYSELFAND3]

@@viperbubbles3358 Thought I was the only one to notice.

[@thetransparentjerseygirl]

Accurate! I told her also to take a social media break!!!!! I made a video saying exactly this.....block .. unfollow... unsubscribe!!! Damn! Everyone isnt built for their social media taking off! ...

[@imania5005]

Justin I love you but Ms. Netta doesn’t get to be disrespectful to black women and then we can’t critique them because they’re supposedly trans when they don’t even identify as trans. Also we can’t keep using desirability as an excuse. I’m not a fan of anyone who speaks ill on Black Woman from a Fannita to a 50 Cent to Ms. Netta

[@IaintNoPuta]

My sentiments exactly. I absolutely love Justin, but defending that trash is unbelievable.

[@ddneq677]

I don't recall him saying she's above reproach due to any identity. But who is gonna hold the bw accountable that were bullying netta before there was anything said about bw?

[@imania5005]

@@ddneq677 Everyone needs to be held accountable. Everyone’s moving from a place of pain or hatred.

[@bigjami6259]

I honestly don't have a problem with miss Jetta responding to backlash, especially since at first I ain't have a problem with her. My thing is the BLANKET STATEMENT that she said about all black women, and this is coming from a person who talks about the anti-black statements that male celebrities and non-celebrities. That's not to say It really makes me enraged, especially since I don't watch her content, I just simply don't think her BLANKET STATEMENT was really justified. But hey, you can't hit someone and tell them how to respond I guess, even if everyone else caught strays lol

[@CulturalMisfitt]

In the words of Tiffany Pollard “SPEAK ON IT!!”

[@princessjayanna]

Big Example: Lululemon has Loudly said they don’t want Black women wearing their clothing and Black Women PROUDLY still wear it 💯💯💯 Clock that Tea 🍵👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@MiniM69]

Who? Where? Cause the educated girlies have paid them dust for years. The leggings are transparent!

[@averageamericangirl6819]

Not true. A former CEO said something like that and the company immediately distanced themselves from him. He has not been part of the company since 2015.

[@TheSomethingnew1]

Yall have THE WORST bad faith arguments lol. Black women publicly called out LuLu Lemon which cause them to reply. They are no longer affiliated with the former CEO and he was made to step down years ago after making some fat phobic comments. Even then, some black women have decided to no longer support them. Same thing with Ebin NY hair products.

[@mzyannibby]

They attacked ms netta and she got tired and black women are acting obtuse like they don't know they're being nasty and transphobic too

[@amysmith8043]

Netta isn’t trans and doesn’t associate with the community

[@musicshannon]

Thank you for defending Ms. Netta

[@LitwithBev]

“Freaks” and “the grotesque “ have always been spectacle. I’m not too familiar with Miss Netta’s content but I see y’all clearly. 👀

[@UniqueCommentary247]

I would characterize Mrs. Netta as anywhere near a freak or grotesque, come on?! 😢

[@orwhtever]

So glad you called out the transphobia. People went out of their way to make her feel like shit

[@Yahpah]

Honey she does not identify as trans! She said she’s a gay man! What are u talking about!

[@ddneq677]

​@Yahpah that doesn't matter. A lot of the hatred towards netta is rooted in transphobia is the point.

[@esther7976]

ty for always keeping it real 👏🏾 my fellow cis black folks we gotta do better (ps if you’re triggered by the word cis when it’s literally just a descriptor 🫢 imagine what our trans or non-binary siblings go through on a daily basis)

[@charitystaten5317]

I might be the only one but I absolutely agree with you and im happy someone else is saying it.

[@QueenofDragons821]

Ms. Netta is not fem presenting

[@mielissa100ify]

I think two things can be true at once. Netta and Charles have been bullied since they got on social media and people are always attacking the same things about Netta. The comments were out of line on both sides but black women/people need to stop acting like they don’t remember all the hell they put Netta through for no reason.

[@BixbyLBC]

When I saw Ms Netta's rant video, I knew she was speaking mostly from anger. I understand her anger, she just went about it all wrong. She should have addressed her haters and not singled out black women. Black women are her biggest supporters. I would'nt cancel Ms Netta, I just hope this was a teachable moment for her and the haters need to leave her tf alone.....

[@theeternalrainchild]

DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE.....I work ALOT I work in a trash environment esp for black folk...TV turn it on trash about black and brown people ...hardly on HARDLY on social media when I do I see the hate for black people tired of the BS ... I'm a dark skin woman I know of Ms. Netta. I had a sad response to her video that's it. I had to log off for my emotional peace. I'm so busy trying to keep my mental together I don't have the energy to even engage. I just log off.

[@Lavender_8497]

Ms. Netta is not female presenting normally. Ms. Netta has said more than once that they are not trans and Ms. Netta is a social media character that they do. Anybody that says Ms. Netta is female presenting normally is only saying it because they consider dark skinned women to be masculine looking because Ms. Netta does not look like a woman without the wigs and makeup. Ms. Netta also don't get a pass for bashing BW just because they like to cosplay as one.

[@DiorrTheeDoll]

They bashed Charles too call him slow and claims he using Netta .. even if Charles is using Netta nothing good is going to come from that ..Karma is a real thing And they just go to Netta /Charles to be nasty but they claim they can’t stand them but watch and criticize everything they do like it’s honestly sick

[@shartierrawalson4652]

I thought Ms. Netta was just being sexist but wasn't surprised because a lot of born men are even when they change genders they seem to keep that part of their past.

[@amysmith8043]

Ms netta always says disparaging things about women lol. he’s a self hating gay man that’s misogynistic

[@ms.battle9055]

As I always say. Gay men have an allegiance to other gays so BW need to have allegiance to BW Periodt

[@Juicyxcouture]

Anytime this man has Dear in a title of his video, he’s gonna do some real talk.

[@Yahpah]

Obviously you don’t look at her content! Joe is a horrible person! Do you see how she talks to Charles’s and her fans! We did not start this!

[@raneslowly]

👍🏾

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

You all definitely did, quit the lies. Coming for this man his looks, his body etc.

[@92katwoman]

Friend, your justification of this person is biased. She is wrong for saying that, no matter what she gets bullied for.

[@all4travel3000]

No. You're being biased. Do you believe Mrs. Netta should continue to sit on a platform that Black women helped her build simply so they can treat her as a circus act by mocking her appearance for the audience's entertainment? Those same Black women who sat in the comments & said the most distasteful things about Netta because they saw her as a joke are now upset that she read them for their disgusting behavior towards her on her channel.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

You sound ridiculous. He's being bullied so it's a certain way he has to react foh

[@bmitch3726]

10/10 take Justin! Fr you spoke on this perfectly! 👏🏽 Ms Netta need to chill & regroup or maybe go back to original content if she insist on stayin on social media. Cuz yes folks addicted to seein her bein bullied atp.

[@WenNRome]

How y'all mad b/c Netta doesn't want to be a Black woman but y'all complained the whole time that she wanted to be a Black woman and never can be?! Y'all have picked Netta apart from her looks, skin, weight, gender, intellect and everything else but the minute she claps back its a problem. Netta isn't perfect but nobody is and she and Charles are managing their 15 min....what the hell is wrong with that and why do y'all want them to fail so bad?????....all because they wear fake designer smh. The people dnt want Netta and Charles to be seen or heard b/c they dnt look like the success that society has told and taught us about for so long.

[@AlppleJuice]

Excellent video and so true. I hope Ms Netta sees this.

[@africanTHEfire]

I find Netta to be a person in tremendous pain and trauma from the labour of existing outside of the paradigm of desirability. So I promote to handle Netta with care because she doesn't have power to oppress anybody and her anti black rhetoric is spurned from pain and sheer ignorance. She genuinely needs to he gently educated and have her world view transformed, and it will be very difficult for her to receive any grace because people are annoyed that she still has a confidence and slick mouth which seems undeserving of someone who looks and presents like her. I wish her nothing but love peace Education and success honestly. Her existing is a Revolutionary act on its own even if she is mean. She's just as combative and disrespectful as Cardi B and Yung Miami et Al and see how they are allowed to exist

[@libraj.3211]

When he said "Her"----I'm done/gone. 🤷

[@harrietbroadnax-brown9114]

I find Ms. Netta to be a baddie..

[@zingan.o.1435]

I said the same thing it's easy. Ms Netta and Charles have no power or privilege. Just a bunch of people bullying them. All because yall dont find her desirable is fact. Yes Ms Netta is wrong for saying the stuff she said. Also it's a reason why she's reacting this way. Alot of y'all are being very rude,nasty,mean. Anti Black towards her. People like Ms Netta and Charles to get to exist. Even if alot of y'all don't want them to exist.

[@lyhluv]

Never watched the person you talking about. Tired of being roped in as black women. Black women have an array of opinions, talents, flaws, etc. Always having to justify our positions. If you don't like someone don't watch don't support but some people cant get enough of what would say they would not indulge in like actually like Black women, see other people got through problems you wouldn't think you have, envy, appearance and shame. Nope me😮

[@AiFick]

I agree with you and I’m so thankful for your bravery to speak facts. There is definitely a double standard at play. .

[@jennlynfelds80]

I agree that Mrs Netta needs to take a break and yes it has become a h8 watch. However they claim that they make so much $ from views

[@murphyville]

I don’t have TickTock and I only hear what you and other people say about them. But don’t emulate black women and then disrespect black women. It isn’t okay and I won’t tolerate that nonsense! I hope people stop making people like her famous! Withdraw your support and move on!

[@jennlynfelds80]

Baby I’ve been waiting on this one here

[@Nalanimama]

Justin you are absolutely correct!! Call it all out.. you are the first person with a following that’s telling it how it is.. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I approve this whole message!!!!

[@chanellewilliams9226]

Speak On It👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LotusKayB]

Wait- wtf is this? 😂 Try again, Justin.

[@latoyatrytosilenceus4760]

@@LotusKayB no he got it correct, y'all been bullying this man

[@LotusKayB]

@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 Idk what “man” you’re referring to, but I certainly hope it’s not FEM presenting MS. Netta. Also, who tf is yall? I enjoy Netta, take your weird ass assumptions elsewhere. 😂 if you’re referring to Justin, again idk who tf yall is. Take your ass on, lol.

[@LotusKayB]

@@latoyatrytosilenceus4760 I guess my reply was deleted, and I don’t feel like typing all of that again. Idk what man you’re referring to, so Just go away. Lol

[@naries21]

First off Ms netta doesn’t identify as a woman

[@baggyjeans127]

ur missing the point on purpose

[@joeannchaney1219]

Elaine, who makes domestic violence content, and said no dark skinned WOMAN could ever walk in her shoes has yet to be cancelled!!! I WONDER WHY!!! 😂😂😂😂 Great video,Justin.

[@torybias9564]

People have platformed Ms. Netta and have been parading her to receive likes, views, and any other type of engagement because her looks. Yall have been anti-black, misogynist, and transphobic to her. Ms. Netta started to receive all compensation and all hell broke loose. Yall wanted Ms. Netta to remain sharing her meals with Charles and not gain any type of compensation for it. And the only reason why most of you are going in on her is because she's 'undesirable.' Let's critique her anti-blackness and misogynoir, HOWEVER, check how you've been anti-black and transphobic, too and avoid talking about her looks and her 'undesireability.' And yes, Craig is absolutely transphobic, and TS (even as a trans woman) is complicit in that transphobia.

[@AkilahIsHuman]

It’s definitely a current social war on undesirable black feminine people /women. I think it’s black ppl in general but undesirability is being used as the canary in the coal mine test so to say. If you can’t be “beautiful” you must be an endless entertaining and agreeable spectacle. Reminiscent of your Shamar vid.

[@ddneq677]

💯 🎯 "if you can't be 'beautiful' you must be an endless entertaining and agreeable spectacle." A word!

[@lethercreate]

I knew it was going to happen. Not shocked at all. 🙄

[@Kae-ig5ui]

Agreed on every single point. ❤

[@ThreePlusMeNC]

Spot on