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[@ezgi2775]

i actually cried laughing when jupiter told her whole story and a mere second later the guy went ok but what about tattoos?

[@scct5933]

she was telling her story about how she found her true self and he was like, quit the bs, do you want to see my chestpiece? he couldn't read the room AT ALL, so strange

[@barabara9855]

He didn't even want to date. He just came to show people his tattoo

[@oplan_]

@@scct5933 im pretty sure he's on the spectrum

[@maddief.8956]

@@oplan_ I was getting that too, from my experience at least

[@Itsverano]

@@oplan_ my thoughts 😂😂

[@KingOfGaymes]

This episode feels like a bunch of weird characters they found just to mess with Cody

[@alexandrebrovadi5894]

why r u gay

[@nea3784]

lmao literally

[@RonireneArt]

That’s just Seattle for ya 😩

[@syn2896]

Seattle is basically the Ohio meme irl

[@ashlele3365]

😂😂😂😂

[@lucaspsm125]

mf drops the most insane conspiracy religious theory ever and asks if his glasses were the turn-off

[@GlitchDotCraft]

They asked I answered

[@L4w1]

@@GlitchDotCraftomg its u

[@EmmaRoseNethery]

@@GlitchDotCraftbro ur cool

[@GlitchDotCraft]

@@EmmaRoseNethery no u plus I grew up in Chicago

[@EmmaRoseNethery]

@@GlitchDotCraft damn. I actually love Chicago so you got me there 😭 but genuinely I did think you were cool haha :)

[@havilahfraser]

We aren’t gonna talk about when Joaquin asked jenita how to spell his name and when she started he said she was “so beautiful” that his way of calling her stupid, even though he failed to spell her name

[@abbsterlicious]

Dude that and the comment from white boy “ive casually been with every THING under the sun. Black, white, Asian, middle Eastern” 🤮🤮🤮 low key love when a guy exposes himself so clearly like that, thanks I’m not wasting any more of my time 😂💜

[@omegapuppyttv]

@@abbsterliciousi'm glad i want the only one that was rubbed the wrong way by that 🤮

[@abbsterlicious]

@@omegapuppyttv not at all!! That guy exposed himself so many times. Our intuition is right✊🏼🩷

[@libbycb]

LITERALLY i was so taken aback it was so rude. and it was the same vibe when i think the next guy said he pressed the button bc of her lips and then asked if she was unnatural in other areas, those men just totally disrespected her and hardly viewed her as an equal just because of her looks.

[@XxSuicidalNinjaxX]

Exactly. My mom told me all the time growing up “it’s a good thing you’re pretty”

[@honeybug_]

they managed to find the worst group of people I’ve ever seen . so impressive 😂

[@marie9524]

That blonde kid with the mustache is the most annoying person on the whole series IMO lol

[@coolbutnotverycool1440]

​@@marie9524then u havent seen that one dude that knew everyone yet lol

[@TheElectricMayhem]

That buzzer beater button press at the end was amazing

[@jonaswolterstorff3460]

I liked Dylan.

[@jakethejake1772]

@@marie9524 that guy was one of the more bearable people whattt

[@toasterrbath3368]

The "aw you're so beautiful" comment from the journalist guy made my skin crawl

[@TheFrancescanater]

Condescending af

[@yung_broccolini]

She tried to spell Joaquin as "Wakin" bruh

[@Blowme_]

@@yung_broccoliniI mean I knew a person who spelled it “wuakeen” so she wasn’t too off I guess 😂😂 playing devils advocate here 💀

[@lunchbox3124]

@@yung_broccolini I laughed so hard at wakin but everybody is defending her in these comments

[@botanicalitus4194]

@@lunchbox3124Joaquin is not a common name and its not a name that is spelled the way it sounds, not knowing how to spell it doesnt make her stupid. And doesnt justify the condescending comment he said about her, especially since he himseIf is lind if an ldiot if he is mind blown that people in the middle east dont shake hands and literally called himseIf illiterate

[@Maniilogue]

You know it’s a crazy episode when the guy who only wanted to show women his chest tattoo isn’t immediately the worst one out of everybody

[@Jay-rc5ix]

Joaquin felt so constantly condescending, I would've turned him away the instant he said "You're beautiful" like that

[@the-berries-and-cream-dude]

And to make it worst, she was talking and interrupted her.

[@CallMeSkinny]

That chick saying “I don’t really date Asians” is wild. Dylan was a handsome young man.

[@fvanigli]

he seems really sweet too. i can’t believe she said that to him 😭😭

[@aids2132]

he was also the only normal dude on set that day apparently 😭

[@rico1599]

Yeah he wasn't a bad looking kid. I think the way she worded it was bad, but I do think everyone has their preferences and she shouldn't have been opposed to at least trying it if she was attracted. She seemed a little crazy though in general lol...but also kinda cute haha.

[@CallMeSkinny]

@@aids2132 literally I noticed that. He was super normal and laid back, as well as handsome too. What the hell was up with this group of people lol. We could only find one normal person.

[@bakedstreetyt]

She can date whoever the fuck she wants

[@DecoyZ]

"was being illiterate part of the casting call.. if so how did they read it?" is such a fire line

[@ninakoch1799]

9:10 for anyone wanting to rewatch, and i agree that was so funny😂

[@nimblevagrant4]

Also how are you an illiterate journalist?!?

[@meghanscully5203]

Wow I didn’t even catch that lmfao I thought he meant like how would you advertise coming on a dating show but you have to be illiterate! Thank you 😂

[@richardwarlocc238]

thank yoiu lol wondered who caught that

[@TheMindofagenius1]

i literally laughed out loud at that! xD

[@katiedoyle819]

It’s crazy how jam packed with horrible encounters this was! By the end I couldn’t believe the tattoo guy was in the same episode!

[@icantfindmyass8271]

2.1k likes no replies let me change that real quick

[@ashleyt6840]

“I like girls being more natural.” I wonder if he feels that way with women that don’t shave their legs or armpits. Doubt it.

[@mitchellnelson6249]

Or their boooosh

[@sorecast1460]

Bro what, is it injecting silicone in your lips, boobs and ass. Or just cutting hair. Wtf does that even mean.

[@Bella-br1ez]

So true. 🤢 he was so concerned about appearance; so shallow & seemingly lowkey sexist

[@IHMyself]

More natural is different from entirely natural. Armpit hair is fucking gross on anyone.

[@Blakethegreater]

I genuinely could not fucking believe this episode could get any crazier and then the button hit us with “will’s gotten a lot of women pregnant” 😭😭😭

[@juliacrocker178]

Like WHAT

[@jimonychristmas6238]

I mean it was kinda a technicality, wouldn’t really see that as a bad thing considering he was a sperm donor. Although for the first like 10 seconds before he said he was a sperm donor I was like wtf is wrong with this guy 💀

[@nohna9997]

OMG WHAT!!!!!!😂

[@stargraved]

I CLICKED ON THE VIDEO AND ACCIDENTALLY SKIPPED TO EXACTLY THAT

[@cocoabutterbirdie]

AND THEN HE SAID 50

[@ruthw1995]

Joaquin easily the most darksided guy ive ever seen on this show... "You're beautiful" sent CHILLS up my spine 🤢🤢

[@handleerror]

It’s because he’s a Luciferian (not satanist) luciferians believe in what he said he believes in the beginning. The worlds most evil and powerful cults have the same beliefs.

[@ccb36]

@@handleerror Idk if that's *why* he's like that lol. A ton of people who are not Luciferans are the same way haha

[@ruthw1995]

@@handleerror freaky people join freaky groups... Normal style people don't join freaky groups

[@jeffgayzose8129]

Honestly seems like an interesting guy to have a conversation with

[@amygrimes6438]

OMG YAAAAASSS! He was low key calling her dumb because she didn't know how to spell his name... kind of a dick, especially since he couldn't spell hers either

[@uhlawndraa]

Justice for Jen she definitely said what needed to be said

[@jr0dmusik]

Agreed Cody is wack

[@uhlawndraa]

no no didn't say that girl queen@@jr0dmusik

[@kstar1489]

Eh, the way she asked if he was “woke” was a red flag

[@yomama629]

No one who spells "Joaquin" "W-A-K-I-N" deserves justice

[@TriTriwithaPeePee]

She got way too offended 😭 she was too sensitive so no

[@lily919]

“i like your hair but i feel like it’s not natural” I LITERALLY GASPED

[@cryspbacon]

i don't think he really understood the magnitude of that statement.

[@nicolefranklin1752]

I currently have the video paused to let myself recharge from the cringe, and I haven't even gotten to this part yet 😭

[@ytscrownjewell]

He couldn't help but say something negative about each girl's appearance. Even if you think that's normal to do, you would think someone would be extra mindful that they are being filmed. You know all the girls back home are staying 40 yards away from him now.

[@Chloe-yu5sn]

@@ytscrownjewell OMG you’re so right, the girls back home probably already do stay away from him😭

[@EveleaSolgos]

this has to be one of the most insane episodes of all time. usually im thinking "yeah there are definitely white claws in that break room" but today im thinking "there is a gas leak in the studio"

[@nicoleroman7945]

Idk how this comment doesn’t have more likes lmao this is gold

[@EveleaSolgos]

@@nicoleroman7945 im so glad you appreciate it :’)

[@phospadparadschaa]

everyone was huffin fumes this ep

[@Cashhhhew]

😂😂😂

[@meronpawlos8071]

As an empath, I sense that Nick MIGHT have a chest tattoo… I’M NOT 100% SURE THOUGH….

[@meanoldfatlady5071]

i dont think so

[@aoneal3723]

Idk, I wasn't getting that vibe

[@smakies5331]

"as an empath"

[@woodlandhsarchives]

@@smakies5331shit had me cackling

[@echo997]

HE MIGHT JURY STILL OUT

[@AliceSinYT]

“i don’t typically date Asian men” he was so cute and nice smh such a weird thing to say

[@Bella-br1ez]

Right? Seemed like they were vibing then she said the wackiest thing.. like genuinely RACE is what’s stopping you?? Wtf

[@tinatolouifar7777]

the tattoo guy is on a tattoo journey we couldn't possible understand

[@lilys.2428]

the "i only like natural girls" line to the girl with a literal protective style was INSANE

[@kiaara]

seriously like????

[@ligokleftis]

what’s a protective style?

[@zechariyahgodschild7258]

No it's not cos that's not her real hair😑

[@kiaara]

@@ligokleftis braids with fake hair for length or wigs! usually to help grow hair or give ur hair a break.

[@ForTheWitches]

@@zechariyahgodschild7258just say you don’t know what protective style is

[@prettyypattyy]

Jupiter saying “it’s everything babes” KILLED ME ☠️

[@bunnywavyxx9524]

it was a bit petty but it came from the heart too 🤣 I CACKLEDD

[@28dldjen]

She was honestly so rude and then got so mad when SHE was rejected but so happy when she could reject someone else..it was weird

[@sophiao43]

@@28dldjen Joaquin actually gave off the most disgusting vibes. I would’ve been happy to reject him too.

[@28dldjen]

@sophiao43 I agree, but she was like that with all of the guys? Like she was so excited and happy to be able to reject all of them but got so fucking mad when they did the same and then insulted them and shit?

[@Ale_499]

⁠@@28dldjeni noticed that too it was weird because she’s said oh yeah you aren’t my type but when someone tells her the same thing she takes offense and says something worse😭

[@cadenza23]

I never would have guessed after the first interaction that the tattoo kid would be one of the people I like the most in this episode

[@mikahann458]

justice for Dylan, the only normal person this whole episode.

[@lane6216]

Joaquin said “you’re beautiful,” when he asked her if she could spell his name. The guy was a total ass. She was nicer than I would have been.

[@Whoblewboobear]

Exactly like implying that she’s stupid when she seems intelligent. Dude had such a chip on his shoulder.

[@lz__9147]

Unfortunately in those situations you have to hold your composure or else that's how they get you. They want you to get angry and throw a fit so they can make you seem like the crazy one.

[@Monoiru]

And the fact she’s BOSNIAN my girl DEFINITELY held back lmao us Balkan girls don’t f-ing play.

[@lane6216]

@@lz__9147 , agreed! She handled it like a pro. Sadly seems she’s used to that sort of thing.

[@undercover_idiot]

The fact that he thinks the middle East is "another planet" based off the fact that he can't engage with the women there🤧

[@HeisenbergFam]

Cody is like a shield that takes the brunt of uncomfortable scenarios and makes them watchable

[@Hehe-cv5mu]

Exactly 😂

[@logannorman9846]

this bro!!! without him id turn the video off

[@Gabbenator]

bro comments on evry cody vid

[@inessant1559]

I think he's a masochist and enjoys the mental pain he subjects himself to by watching these

[@shirahlee8605]

Yeah, exactly, before Cody started reacting these I couldn’t watch the button because I felt so anxious and uncomfortable lol! Thanks for making this show palatable Cody!

[@amandapatterson9440]

Joaquin’s comment about “oh you’re so beautiful” has so many misogynistic undertones

[@meshachrose]

the fact that her first thought about donating sperm is "overpopulation" instead of giving someone the ability to become parents who can't on their own really says a lot

[@joesandstrom4111]

Exactly. She was completely judgemental, with the judgement based on untruths. She had 2 choices to go with: Creator of Life vs Destroyer of Planets. Where her personal judgement landed on those 2 narratives was crystal clear. And, with no middle ground or inquiry behind the reasoning of his choice. Then, she slandered him to the other women based upon her own beliefs. Seems a bit narcissistic. Not only was she judgemental and slanderous, she didn’t seem well educated on her final judgement; seeing that one of the greatest threats facing the future of humanity is actually de-population and population collapse; in combination with the aging population, worker shortages, mass abortions, and the decelerating birth rates. This guy wasn’t aborting 50 babies, he was giving life to 50! Maybe one (or some) of them will actually help save the planet. She was judgemental by nature, self righteous, slanderous, not the brightest bulb in the lighting department, and (at best) a 2 out of 10 in the looks department on a really, really good day. She talks about overpopulation, but clearly has the diet and carbon footprint of at least 2 people; and if she isn’t careful, will be a burden on the system herself, as she ages. In some regards, her judgement comes across as rather hypocritical. Perhaps one day she will need to rely on one of those 50 babies to take care of her in the hospice or nursing home, when she can no longer walk or do things for herself. Plus, she tried to sabotage him with the other contestants based on her own prejudices. She’s awful; the type who acts sweet to your face, and then destroys you in private behind your back. He clearly dodged a bullet in just about every category, by beating her to the button.

[@joesandstrom4111]

@@demarkahlil2124 Exactly. And, she likely never will. Her judgmental nature is textbook ‘emotions over facts’. And, emotions will continue to further cloud her judgement without the voices of reason and logic.

[@joesandstrom4111]

@@demarkahlil2124 She immediately went into the green room and gaslighted him to everyone. I don’t need the unedited video to see exactly how she showed up to be.

[@joesandstrom4111]

@@demarkahlil2124 If you say so... have a lovely day.

[@dakweenlyrics409]

@@joesandstrom4111it’s clear by your second comment that you already knew you had no leg to stand on and I’m not gonna explain it to you since it seems like you already know you’re wrong 😂 I wouldn’t be suprised if you’re that dingobat hiding behind this random account ☠️

[@mystique2595]

“You can’t fire me i quit” was such a good way of describing how some people act when they get rejected.

[@peachytheii202]

they can’t handle the rejection 😂

[@mundaneamazing]

This is exactly how I describe such behavior. Literally texted a guy and said I wasn't interested in hanging out and he responded with three long-winded texts about how he wasn't going to pursue me anymore anyway.. but let him know if I became interested again. 🙄

[@sbaby4572]

MY EX

[@Lauriash]

Exactlyyyy makes them even more unattractive lol

[@echoceaselessly]

i don't think cody realized how weird the conversation between jenita and joaquin was. the "to another planet" bit was a little odd but could've just been him saying he's gonna be in a totally different place had he not immediately dug in his heels with every following comment -- "i'm holding back from saying some wacky stuff" and "you can't even shake a woman's hand in that part of the planet, did you know that?" he clearly didn't pick up her background right from the start and she had that awkward experience of being the Other the person is describing in Othering terms right to your face. and then when she did say she's from an islamic family, he immediately goes in on "so OUR realm is a bit different from other realms." that's classic us/them dichotomy and i don't blame her at all for being weirded out or upset by it. especially when he tries to follow it up by saying he's only dated "international, foreign women" -- lowkey fetishizing given the stuff he's just said. gross.

[@echoceaselessly]

just saw her second encounter with the other guy who asked if she was "natural in other places" and. man. she got the full dehumanizing experience today, i feel bad

[@marsssss_]

yuppppp. so weird of cody to not pick up on that

[@echoceaselessly]

@@marsssss_ i get it's subtext and someone might not pick up on it if they haven't experienced it themselves in the past, but it's so insidious. the way joaquin went back to the guys' room and made it sound like she was just being snotty about him being american - spreading misinformation in real time

[@marsssss_]

@@echoceaselessly totally. feels very tone-deaf to not notice though - the man all but said “they’re backwards.” he literally said “I’m holding myself back from saying some wacky stuff rn” so he was prepared to be xenophobic

[@echoceaselessly]

@@marsssss_ oh i 100% agree. he picked up on the explicit racism earlier on but not the like 20 microaggressions

[@melaniegonzalez8316]

13:12 this is a GREAT moment. jen is a woman who knows what she wants. doesn’t stand for bs. love her

[@ninjaa3597]

I feel so bad for Jen, she had the worst people to deal with by far, especially that journalist guy, God.

[@rookieo6439]

That plastic piece of shit is no good

[@amak7663]

He absolutely deserved the response she gave when he asked if she was natural in other places.

[@sakuraisaloser]

100% i like jen for putting up with the odd men

[@Kaido711]

Yeah I personally didn’t have any issues with her, all her responses seemed justified imo.

[@sakuraqueen1734]

I liked her, I didn't see a problem with her

[@calisha1889]

She was way nicer than most girls would’ve been, she let those sly comments slide until the last dude went fully inappropriate

[@HitsujiSheep]

Not natural = L

[@Paspa1801]

The first guy wasn’t even looking for a date, he was just siked about his new tatt and wanted to show it to as many people as possible

[@aliveagain]

respect that lmaooo

[@tme98]

based

[@cherie..cherry]

😂😂😂

[@thunderclancat123]

At first, i could kind of see where Joaquin was coming from, in that maybe he used the wrong words, but paired with how he refused to leave after being hit by the button and still try to defend himself, and afterwards ranting about it with the other guys... no, Jen had it right. He is a walking red flag.

[@cinnavanilla]

Jen is gorgeous and was a lot more patient than she needed to be. I also understand her frustration with the whole Middle-East comment. Being from there myself, I get my fair share of passive aggressiveness and willful ignorance. Joaquin could have definitely worded his sentences better if he meant to speak with good intentions, however, that was clearly not the case.

[@Fankas2000]

Yeah, gorgeous in the "I show my tits on OF for 10$" sort of way...

[@rookieo6439]

Ewwww plastic chics who want them even

[@ScottLober]

Gorgeous is being nice. The guy was an ass and had an insane lack of self awareness. She’s no prize tho

[@miguelalmeida154]

I don’t think I’ve ever clenched my butt cheeks harder from cringing at a button video than I did with this one. GG. Well played button. Well played.

[@hydratedobama8450]

LMAO REAL

[@maddyevans9774]

LMFAO YOU’RE SO REAL FOR THAT

[@LunarEleven]

I was also clenching my teeth at what insufferable people they brought on. Joaquin was cocky but holy shit Jen's a megabitch. How do you react like that to saying a foreign country is "a different planet".

[@TheDevilsMishap]

After almost ripping a hole on my chair from the clench I screamed laughing at this comment. 😂🤣

[@poopermcdoody1582]

i dont know why i just imagined you just manually squeezing your cheeks with ur hands with like a constipated expression

[@TonyStark-oo3tp]

The fucking audacity of Joaquin to patronizingly say "Aww, you're so beautiful" to Jenita after she misspelled his name even though she TOLD him Jen was spelled J-e-n and he STILL tried to spell Jenita with J-i-n

[@bluecresc5804]

To be fair, Jenita is an uncommon name whereas Joaquin is a household classic

[@TonyStark-oo3tp]

His name could have been something as relatively common and easy to spell as Tim...still wouldn't have made it okay for him to belittle her for misspelling it.

[@bluecresc5804]

@@TonyStark-oo3tp he belittled himself for being illiterate so it balances out

[@sad-7477]

@@bluecresc5804jenita is easier to spell off the bat then Joaquin.

[@katelynncrowder548]

@@bluecresc5804 that’s not how that works lol

[@sammyttiw4762]

"Is this the illiterate issue - was that part of the casting call? If so how did they read it" I almost spat out my water

[@GallifrAngel]

8:09 “it’s just everything, babe” Jupiter is my hero 13:11 “none of your f*ckin business” JEN COMING THROUGH FOR ME AS WELL this episode is full of bitches and I love them

[@trin751]

"none of ur f'ing business" was actually insane I love her

[@israelrocha2878]

Clearly because she has fake almost everything

[@end-me-]

@@israelrocha2878u know her personally?

[@nammy4058]

@@israelrocha2878still none of his (or your) business

[@britch7286]

@@israelrocha2878it was an inappropriate question.

[@adrianadykstra6604]

@@israelrocha2878you her doctor?

[@katiekim3565]

They really collected the most unlikable male cast LMAO

[@camilaferrorojas]

Except the cute Asian guy :(

[@itme4882]

@@camilaferrorojashe could’ve been just as bad he just wasn’t given a chance 😂

[@camilaferrorojas]

@@itme4882 we will never know, I guess.

[@nkk01]

@@camilaferrorojasmight be on another one

[@jr0dmusik]

Unlivable? I feel like ur using the wrong word

[@TseiTzeij]

I love it when Cody talks to Zade "or just make me look like a fool.. as always"

[@shookqueen4497]

jenita is wonderful. she’s confident, stern, but kind

[@haley6973]

she was in another button video saying conservative shit, she sucks

[@rookieo6439]

She is a vomit personified

[@jackshort9772]

kind 😯

[@sarahstars44]

Dylan was one of the most attractive men I’ve seen on the show, and seemed to be super nice. I feel bad that he didn’t get more of a shot :(

[@alanabrown394]

yesss omg #justicefordylan he seemed like such a sweetheart

[@kiaara]

he def was and jupiter saying what she said was just so wrong. he took it well though

[@misakiandtukumi]

He was the best one on this video, by a landslide

[@willowwisp5784]

right?!! I was into him.

[@NadiaSeesIt]

For sure!! Dylan was the only normal dude. That Jupiter girl was way up her own ass

[@Mallika99]

I feel like I should be SO bored of this series by now but I still enjoy every single button reaction how is this even possible

[@brii5589]

bc Cody makes them enjoyable 😭😂

[@blossom6350]

This is ridiculous. This episode made me so many types of uncomfortable and angry

[@Alexmary]

I’m illiterate… so I have a work trip for Journalism. WILD MAN WILDDDDD

[@fried920]

The subtext of the conversation between Joaquin and Jenita blew over Cody’s head, unfortunately. From the condescending “you’re so beautiful” to calling the middle east “another planet” to listing all the different “foreign women” he’s dated. Ick after ick after ick. Jenita handled him and the other gross guy amazingly though. ❤

[@anniedagranny]

she handled that better than i could've imagine like holy shit. to see someone get treated and talked to like that and still maintain their composure is wild to me

[@alexd4566]

It does feel like visiting another planet when you fly to somewhere in the world where the culture, the architecture, the people and the climate are totally different. Nothing wrong with that statement imo. His other comments suggest he’s a massive asshole, though.

[@sear8618]

@@alexd4566 Although I agree with this, I was put off by his comment because he claims to be a journalist and to have recently learned that "men and women can't even shake hands there". Yeah that's not a thing in 99% of the Middle East. It's a fair claim to say it's a "different world", especially since western media is very picky when it comes to world news, but yeah it was a very pejoratively-American moment.

[@fried920]

@@alexd4566 I appreciate you trying to word what he said in a more positive light. But the “another planet” comment with the “I’m holding back from saying some wacky stuff” with “did you know you can’t even shake a woman’s hand over there?!” with “OUR realm and their realm” makes it seem like he views people from the Middle East as if they are backwards aliens. Very much us vs them dichotomy. Ofc we’ve only been shown a short clip of him but every time he doubled down, he just made it worse. Imma trust Jenita’s judgment on this one.

[@jonahd.536]

Plus the whole “satan made the garden, Jesus was the serpent” thing like ew dude what.

[@bloopbleep173]

that condescending "you're beautiful" made me wanna rip my hair out, The woman was bosnian and as someone from serbia I completely get her confusion, the writing system in our languages is phonetic so we spell out words the way we hear them, just bc she didn't know how to spell his name doesn't mean she's dumb

[@haileyadkins8412]

also he spelt her name J-I-N AFTER she’d already told him it was spelt J-E-N.

[@haileyadkins8412]

Joaquin is a very common name here in america and I still had to google it to spell it correctly for this comment LOL it’s a hard name to spell. Hers is so much easier.

[@thezuccubus]

@@haileyadkins8412I know the name Joaquin, but I've never heard of anyone with the name besides Joaquin Phoenix

[@sofiatorres9719]

@@thezuccubusbc its a hispanic name

[@thezuccubus]

@@sofiatorres9719 true, which is why the guy's an asshole for being so condescending. It's not really a name she should be expected to be familiar with.

[@abbsterlicious]

I don’t wanna be an armchair psychiatrist but my first impression is that the guy on the first date of the episode may have a social disorder, that can cause someone to come off very strong n talk over another person but it’s not trying to be intentionally self absorbed. That’s the vibe I got

[@heartroll8719]

As someone who is autistic, I kinda feel like that too. Sometimes I come off strong or overshare information.

[@abbsterlicious]

@@heartroll8719 I have ADHD, so I totalllyyy empathize with you. I overshare way too much:( I am way better now about interrupting, but when I was younger I would interrupt so much because I’d get so excited about the conversation I’m having with someone. I am deff not everyone’s cup of tea. That’s ok tho:)

[@MiaLeu]

I actually liked Jen, she sounded very educated and just wanted someone normal lol

[@haley6973]

she was in another button video saying conservative shit, she sucks

[@fyoutube2294]

Hard disagree, im not saying she isnt but i dont think she showcased that in her interaction. The other guy definitely seemed like a tool im not mad at her giving him pushback, but I don’t think she understands the phrase “its like another planet/world”. Like im Mexican and going from Guanajuato to the midwest really did feel like that the first time I went. That doesn’t mean either place is inferior or anything, just different. After that though, he totally seemed off to me as well.

[@elonmusk921]

@@fyoutube2294she was in later episodes and she’s definitely not “educated”. Anti feminist, hates “woke” shit, all that. Which makes the comments suggesting she was being progressive pretty funny, in retrospect 😭

[@fyoutube2294]

@@elonmusk921 welp

[@eriksteverman]

"i'm low key illiterate" is one of the wildest things someone has said on this show lmao

[@makeupbyjules]

Two people in the same ep!! Haha

[@kiiturii]

how

[@bear9295]

My favourite line is "I'm a family b*tch"

[@jillianalekna3576]

If he was going to say his name was Jared and he's 19... ...I would have left. 🤣

[@nimblevagrant4]

@@makeupbyjulesand one of them was apparently a journalist!!! WTF!?!

[@Irenemimi]

Jenita perfectly felt the vibe of that journalist guy. “Did you know you cant even shake a womens hand over there?!”, like it definitely felt like he was calling their culture alien and weird. It wasn’t like a “i wanna learn more” vibe

[@shelby.42069]

the way he said "i'm holding back saying some wacky stuff" also had such a negative insinuation on what he thought of the culture

[@emthegem9866]

There was a us army bag by him in the back room or am I tripping?

[@4ngelofluv]

literally and especially when that's due to religion like come on just be respectful, it's not hard

[@iammar1159]

Also, she was right to tell him to educate himself more. He said he’s going to the Middle East but the Middle East is a big region with many countries. He never said which country he was traveling to and he lumped the whole Middle East into one bubble. Not every country in the Middle East is the same and there are so many different cultures and religions there too. He sounded so ignorant.

[@octopus8978]

@@iammar1159XACTLT “UCANNOT SHAKE HANDS” LIKE WHERE? I can happily shake hands with anyone

[@Ky-vg2om]

Joaquin is literally “the ick” personified

[@fernfernisfernie]

what was proven by Jens interactions are that SOME men are so insecure around beautiful, confident women and they find these women to be a threat. I think it's obvious to everyone and to her that she's not going to find her equivalent on a show like this 🤣

[@rickyricardo9710]

or just that she looks and acts like a clown and isn't immune to being treated like one just because she's a woman who prioritizes her looks...

[@svn5994]

Beautiful? She lives in the plastic surgeons office.

[@galek75]

Uh oh sigma female spotted

[@churchhide]

Or she just has a bitter and bitchy attitude who’s has multiple botched surgeries 30 and out of her prime years and now want to settle down on a speed dating game ?

[@emmashepperd2257]

you’re so right

[@laaa9429]

Jen is so much more patient than I would've been. the moment Joaquin said "you're beautiful" when he asked her to spell her name, it would've been done for me. and listing the foreign women he dated.. don't like that either.

[@WinWinWoo]

I know it was so yucky he just straight up interrupted her

[@wilermineprevilon5483]

SO condescending legit the entire time

[@spacegay6030]

Throw the whole man away honestly

[@FranzFerdinand55]

something was off about her.

[@wilermineprevilon5483]

@@FranzFerdinand55 she was literally fine. what was off about her?

[@rileygrace4426]

I do not blame Jenita for being completely put off by those men. They were weird, condescending, and fetishized her. She was totally right in shutting them down.

[@hopereeves8388]

True. But it was great to see people speak their mind on that kind of modification. They didn't hold back 😂

[@olivialillegard2540]

and Joaquín ………….. bro stfu ur actually a crazy person and u admitted it like gtfo

[@KillOnS]

I mean she's beautiful but ruined her real beauty by doing those god awful lips.. You can tell she's insecure about it too considering her reaction to him mentioning it

[@Urtoxic-cc6wz]

I mean they can have opinions too..😂 they get those surgeries so they can get attention like that… comes w it🤷🏽‍♀️

[@residentkane]

​@@Urtoxic-cc6wz saying "it's an opinion" doesn't justify people saying stupid shit.

[@preciousseong]

“is it the glasses?” “its just everything, babe” LMAO

[@Ronii08]

19:35 “what’s the opposite of chemistry?……biology”😭😭

[@buzzyb13]

Oof, my dude seriously found a way to make calling a woman beautiful an actual insult. She struggles to spell a genuinely difficult name and he made it so weird. 😅

[@L3thalShad0ws7]

Yeah that a real 1950s type comment

[@choosehappy9224]

This is the only other comment I've seen anywhere mention that!! He was totally being patronizing, like saying "thank god you're beautiful" 🤮

[@buzzyb13]

@@choosehappy9224 Right? That was the epitome of condescension right there. I feel like in his head he was thinking "god-serpent, please for once let a beautiful woman spell my name right, it's the only way I'll know she's the one!". 😂

[@lunchbox3124]

They both seemed pretty dumb.

[@lunchbox3124]

@@buzzyb13who can’t spell Joaquin? Y’all crazy acting like some out of pocket name nobody’s ever heard before 🤣

[@marie9524]

Joaquin and the blonde kid with the ugly stache are the type of people I avoid in my everyday life

[@Whoblewboobear]

EXACTLY

[@Koki-hc3mw]

Facts

[@katet8639]

Fr, Cody not seeing the problem is kinda disappointing but not surprising. He slept with a barely legal 18-year-old at the time, so him not seeing misogyny is on brand.

[@cornpopsicle]

@@katet8639 wait what are you talking about

[@katet8639]

@@hyunjinhasallmyuwu3448 They slept together back when they did a collab video on each other's channel. She was still underage when they became friends. Also, Kelsey was dating him at that time too, so he cheated on Kelsey.

[@saucyunicorn]

That first dude was hilarious. As a tattoo artist I really hope he gets into the industry. Tattooing needs more positive energy like him.

[@kweenikki]

my jaw literally dropped when he said “I’m just not into the big lips” omfg😂

[@Skankhunt668]

i mean his taste

[@ItsDesca]

Joaquin genuinely had the most rancid vibes, the fact that he continued to defend his weird ass comments after the button had already been pressed and it was time to leave and keeping her there to listen to him was genuinely worrying, I’m glad those people weren’t alone on the set

[@mundaneamazing]

YES! I'd actually be SO surprised if he hasn't been emotionally abusive to any woman unfortunate enough to date him in the past.

[@cleansingwithheatherkim4910]

literallyyyyy. im pretty disappointed in cody as well for not seeing how gross, misogynistic, and condescending joaquin was

[@nagrajmejakjestemidiot]

@@cleansingwithheatherkim4910he said in the next episode that he did not side with that guy at all either you guys all misunderstood cody

[@nagrajmejakjestemidiot]

@@Rustymangoes 😱😱😱

[@_lin_al3177]

he reeeeealy gave me major creep serial killer vibes

[@TheLeeLee]

I think it was totally fair for Jenita to be completely put off by these men and their astounding condescension. The "You're so beautiful" comment from the journalist guy, and the "Are you natural in other places" from the 2nd dude made me want to hurl. I thought the way she handled both conversations was completely appropriate, and if I were her I would be LIVID after those brain-meltingly bad conversations. Jfc.

[@JupiHornet1]

Agree 100%

[@robinsondashina]

I totally agree

[@marymac9303]

Cody completely missed A LOT of subtext in that conversation that made the dude creepy af. "I'm awake, not woke" is literally a dogwhistle for Qanon. And all those "radical beliefs" that he's "holding back." Jfc

[@n00rj4h4n]

mhm. idk if cody does it on accident or doesn't notice but like ....

[@Dexiclon]

I thought the journalists “you’re so beautiful comment” was intentionally a jab at her intellect because she tried to spell Joaquin with a W. Who in the world spells Joaquin with a W? That’s like a super common name and for someone acting like they are so woke and worldly not being able to spell it is genuinely sad. Plus they obviously didn’t like each other from the get go considering the slightest miscommunication led to an argument.

[@aly76511]

His face when she said it felt “powerful” to reject someone… same Cody lmao

[@HSE_VO]

"What's the opposite of chemistry? Biology?" -Cody Ko, 2023

[@kaylaa660]

This is genuinely one of the most painful episodes ever.

[@Tra982]

Cringe comment lol just delete ur yt account

[@Ami-cg2xw]

Jen could see right through that suit guys bs. Props to her for sticking up for her beliefs and her body!

[@malikalou9644]

Yes she was so articulate and didn't stutter once, loved that for her

[@user-gm3lg8gp3m]

He literally said that he is holding himself from saying whacky stuff. And then left that part out when he was talking to the other guys

[@cleansingwithheatherkim4910]

for real! i loved her

[@johnnywalker6564]

And Cody the little fool actually agreed with him even after he said he’s holding back from saying whacky stuff about the Middle East and his comment about shaking hands. Cody needs a slap the little inconsiderate fool

[@TheQuandaryZone]

@@malikalou9644 i mean she definitely isn’t free of fault herself. in general, she was being a dick too lmfao. p much everyone in this episode sucked

[@younghex9577]

5:00 I'm five minutes in and i hope tattoo boy never leaves. He's just always voting them out first and always brings up his chest tattoo

[@evelynart]

Joaquin saying “oh you’re so beautiful” when she tried to spell his name was clearly his version of “oh bless your heart” 😂

[@mrdad-zl9zl]

Hesitates while spelling a name like Joaquin off the top of her head and goes right into "aww your stupid but thank God you're beautiful"

[@hagjang634]

The first guy Jen spoke to was totally speaking out of his ass while saying ''you can't even shake a women's hand in the middle east'' That's the most stereotypical shit I've ever heard. Jen had every right to take offense to that especially since she grew up in an Islamic family.

[@khan7032]

no literally and as someone whose family has lived in the middle east, and as a central and south asian muslim myself you definitely can shake a woman’s hand… like…

[@zie8238]

@@khan7032I feel like he’s probably talking about a specific country he’s going to 😮Not the Middle East as a whole

[@chloebeall4011]

Every practicing Muslim I’ve ever met had those values, idk about actual law though. Regardless he was giving ignorant for sure.

[@hagjang634]

@@zie8238 well he could have easily said the name of the country then. He specifically said "the middle east" multiple times and it's also obvious that he has a very steriotypical mind by the way he talks about it and how he treats jen

[@hagjang634]

@@chloebeall4011 It shows difference between where in the middle east you are and what the women you're trying to shake the hand of believes/sees fit :)

[@tamadgotchi]

jenita’s response to joaqine’s goofy ass was totally valid. He was being weird lol

[@adityaagrahari5997]

But the next guy was funny af 😂

[@iammar1159]

@@adityaagrahari5997 no he wasn’t, he was disrespectful.

[@zie8238]

He was weird and cocky, she was bitchy and rude. Y’all are ignoring how almost everyone in this episode was a piece of work

[@adityaagrahari5997]

@@zie8238 fr

[@adityaagrahari5997]

@@iammar1159 it's not that deep dude just a little banter all it was and how was he disrespectful

[@dorinhaaaaa]

joaquin being the astronaut guy makes this so much better, i love the cut lore

[@GlitchDotCraft]

Wait till u see mine

[@thatcece08]

18:53 did this man just say "ive been with everything?" like that just rubs be so WRONG BC HUH

[@702d02]

you’re reaching

[@samcresp5440]

Glasses and borderline fedora homie called Jen “you’re beautiful” when she couldn’t spell his name (Joaquin), insinuating in that snarky “you’re dumb” way, but he couldn’t spell her name and said he was illiterate. What a strange move from him lmao. They picked genuinely the worst lot of people besides a few girls who got buzzed quickly.

[@a.p.m.r.980]

he doesn't even pronounce it well for it to be spelled phonetically lol

[@jenconvertibles]

pretty sure the first guy was just on the spectrum and got super overwhelmed by the whole situation. don’t know why he’s copping so much shit he didn’t really do anything super wrong

[@zvezdoblyat]

​@@jenconvertiblespeople are allowed to not be attracted to that

[@merykhan97]

That guy was straight tra$h. He didn't say one thing right

[@raquelfredette6800]

justice for queen jen, she experienced so many microaggressions in the span of like 2 minutes

[@jeffgayzose8129]

Not tha microaggressions 😭😭

[@AndrewTateOfficial]

ppl were huge dicks to her but she was also pretty aggressive too

[@dianarichardson512]

#justiceforjen

[@rockybarrett9284]

​@@pigbitch5300 you do not GET IT !!!!

[@laurlaurmarmar7697]

@@pigbitch5300Microaggressions are real. If you don’t experience them, that is your own experience and it does not trump the lives of marginalized folks.

[@anamia9905]

I feel like the button solely exists to provide us with Cody Ko content

[@maxyoule1787]

Havent watched codys videos in a couple years, had a lot of time to kill this last week and found some of his button videos funny... HOLY SHIT THERE IS NO END TO THE AMMOUNT OF VIDEOS THIS MAN HAS MADE ON THIS THING. keep em coming

[@olivialillegard2540]

i fucking LOVE how Joaquin asked why Jen rejected him and she told him exactly why and he said “i think that’s your fault for feeling that way” like just say alright and move on with your day you freak.

[@calisha1889]

And then he went and lied to all the guys about what she said

[@elijaherving7620]

@@calisha1889he ain’t lie she deadass was upset and took the different world comment the wrong way when it was obvious what he meant

[@peachytheii202]

when he kept talking after she hit the button on him like bye go away

[@lunchbox3124]

I fucking LOVE how the next dude rejects her because of her fake lips and is totally unapologetic about it

[@idontknow1762]

@@lunchbox3124I think he rejected her bc he was there when Joaquin was telling them what she said even though he was exaggerating it so he went out thinking she was a bitch

[@Halfmoonbaee]

The men are insane on this one, the one normal seeming guy got shot down for being asian. Im so confused. Jenita handled all of this like a champ. The are you natural in other places, is insanely entitled and rude to ask after already rejecting her.

[@princesurein7275]

Yeah the guys except dylan sucked but how do you guys not think Jenita was rude and aggro throughout? She was extremely unlikable. You can make people look like fools without being a dickhead.

[@youknowwhat9911]

⁠@@princesurein7275hate how women can’t stick up for themselves or be tired of taking shit from asshole men without being called rude. She doesn’t take shit from them but because she isn’t a quiet submissive women she’s getting a bunch of hate from men in these comments I hate yall fr yall are disgusting

[@1whospeaks]

Love how it cuts to the backroom and Nick is practically TUMBLING that guy is so fidgety and talkative I love it.

[@rep1600]

the "awake" guy was one of the most repulsive people on this show LMAOO

[@pooppoopguac]

cody, jen had every right to dismiss that first guy, he was a total weirdo and super condescending. 2nd guy was also super rude. i LOVED how jen shut both of those men down! hopefully jen returns and gets better guys.

[@anonymoushumanhi]

Hopefully she doesn’t return, but does find love and gets flowers and an apology letter. “Sorry on behalf of the twats.”

[@peacemaster8117]

Jen was being a huge bitch though, she had a massive attitude the entire time. First guy was weird but he at least wasn't hostile.

[@ChicSabrina]

I know we've seen worse, but Jin had it rough. The first dude basically called her stupid right from the start and then the next guy insulted her lips and started asking about what parts of her body were fake. wtf...

[@gaaraxnaru]

I completely agree. It's Jen though.

[@mustachelady9653]

Totally agree. Apologies for my English, not my first language 🙂 I feel like it’s fine that’s his opinion, but he shouldn’t had said that to her or trying to be little bit nicer about it. ( I don’t think he was trying to insulted her) Yeah the fake body part was really weird. He should had thinking before saying. But I don’t think his a bad dude. ( I’m not trying to defend him cause I didn’t like he said it either and not trying to come at you) There is just some people that doesn’t think before saying. ( my dad does it and he is not a bad person but he do be having weird opinions)

[@dm_1236]

I love Jen. Stood her ground, didn’t get emotional, and tore a bigot down!

[@goatman_jpeg115]

Fun fact for the horrible redhead guy: You should never eat bear meat. They commonly carry a usually deadly to humans parasite that can’t be killed by cooking it so that guy that eats bear will eventually get himself in a bad situation… Also his insecurities with his height is so sad, “You look tall.” My boyfriend is 5’3 and I’m 6ft. You can get a really hot partner if you don’t tie your masculinity to your height… Also his comment about the girls “natural hair” is crazy. Bro what…

[@aphonic2276]

Dylan was the most sane person i saw this whole episode

[@TERRORdrigo]

and the last girl, she seemed sweet

[@aaluchodi]

@@TERRORdrigo I mean she seemed cool but her being 31 and then going on date's with people who are 2000 borns....uh that's borderline illegal.

[@mistogun6668]

@@aaluchodino it’s not 💀 that would make them 23 completely legal

[@aaluchodi]

@@mistogun6668 no she said not only 2000 borns but 2000s born (which also is means ppl who JUST turned 18). and she's 31. thats why I said BODERLINE not completely illegal.

[@terri02]

Love how the one guy with the chest tattoo shows it right away then the other guy with one asks if that’s appropriate 💀

[@J_Lynn]

checking for consent is hot. He seemed like a nice dude, especially compared to the unbearables that came before and after him.

[@Dexiclon]

@@J_Lynnbro, chill. It’s a KZbin game show, plus that first dude asked both times. He was weird but you don’t have to try to make him seem worse than he was.

[@coolbutnotverycool1440]

​@@Dexiclonbro, chill. the guy was being unbearable the whole time not only with showing his tattoos

[@bobstadraws4973]

​@Dexiclon well he was, he didn't wait for a response lol, especially not a clear YES - that's not consent

[@RebeccaGomezToronto]

@@Dexiclon Both times the girls said no and he still lifted his shirt though!! yikess

[@laurendanae]

jen saying "im kind of an oddball" when that guy said her name was "interesting" had me dead as hell she was fed up

[@MustacheKat16]

15:24 CODYS FACE IS THE BEST FACE HES EVER MADE AND IVE BEEN WATCHING HIM FOR FIVE YEARS

[@tahliaroot5892]

jen did not owe joaquin ANYTHING. he was condescending and showed signs of sexism right away. then he treated another culture as something to be gawked at bc it isn’t normal to him. and when jen tried to bring it up he was an ass and didn’t try to have a meaningful discussion. sorry cody, joaquin was in the wrong here.

[@GlitchDotCraft]

such cap

[@Lindie231]

FACTSSSS

[@ZNC16]

absolutely. she acted exactly how she should have. that guy was the ACTUAL worst. lol

[@adamw7502]

@@ZNC16 "are you woke or something?" huh??

[@kun9fufu]

Yep! And we Middle Eastern women hate being seen as helpless, let alone as aliens. Maybe we just don't want to shake your hand, dude.

[@msjkramey]

"Are you unnatural in other places?" Wtf?? You just rejected her. You don't get to ask that. And there's way better ways to bring that up. Time and place

[@chasemartin5006]

Still funny

[@calisha1889]

She got his ass too lol with the quickness

[@jackparson4692]

@@chasemartin5006is not funny

[@jojithehomie7809]

🤓

[@codyHEADSHOT]

I couldn’t possibly imagine why Jen is single at 29. She’s such a catch.

[@haley6973]

she was in another button video saying conservative shit, she sucks

[@jecellefetzer8716]

Genuinely, thank you for these videos. I watch them when I'm taking life too seriously and need to laugh. This is a real service

[@azuraselenite]

As a black girl when he asked if her braids are real I actually cringed so much😭😭

[@nahimgood4]

Bitch FLASHBACKSSSS

[@fricketyfracktraintrack]

Same jfc.

[@Smokinnzazaa]

Pissed me off

[@panheadgirlofskillet]

As a white girl I cringed lmao I couldn’t believe the audacity

[@AdamQuigley]

Pissed you off? The audacity? Jesus, tone it down a notch, it's not that serious. To a white guy not already aware that natural hair is evidently such a hyper-sensitive topic for black women that it elicits the response seen in these comments, there's no reason to just automatically assume that would be the case. Getting mad at him for answering the question by expressing his honest feelings about hair extensions without any obvious malice, especially when she literally just got done trashing his mustache, is wild.

[@jradwells]

Jen really got a rough deal here, both guys were total dicks and she was more respectful than she needed to be. Hope we see her back with some more respectful pairings

[@Kazoku4]

She has balls of steal, I wish I could have a personality like her frrrr

[@calisha1889]

I hope she comes on another episode. They were both a-holes for sure

[@ThinWhiteDooky]

Idk I feel like she was kinda hard on that journalist

[@Gwallacec2]

Yup most of they guys absolutely were dicks. Almost all the men suck in button videos.

[@Napery123]

The journalist raised human rights concerns about the middle east and she basically told him he was a bad person

[@__pecanpie__3383]

this was def the funniest one yet. I love these videos.

[@evalynnrobertson136]

This whole episode made my skin crawl my god