Korean dudes react to KOREAN DATING CULTURE 101

[@KelseytheKorean]

HAHAHAHA super fun reaction!! And yes! would love to join you guys for a follow up video😉

[@cacarrot2939]

Yieeee im excited. Maybe David and Kelsey have actually dated before hahahahahah jk

[@piusonos]

that would be so funny and interesting as well

[@CandiceMcCalla]

Yes, please!!! Follow up video! I’m looking forward to it!

[@CandiceMcCalla]

@@cacarrot2939 😂IKR! Too similar! Who knows maybe there will be a spark 😉

[@aninamiguel8621]

YAYYY

[@zipphora9456]

“Danny: I act very differently to my girlfriend than I due to normal people. David: I hope so!” Lol🤣

[@giovannapadilha]

"DID YOU DATE ME?" I lost it here

[@muhammedhasan6055]

OMG LMAF

[@NANAs_LIFE]

Me too

[@madeinbusanjkjm]

Danny might be a born and raised Korean but his dating style is definitely American.

[@harshithanaik4534]

@@FrillShiranui1426 Me too🙈

[@SE-gs6gd]

Why American?

[@minimochi2206]

I think Western would have been a better way to describe it.

[@calliesantana9524]

It’s funny that’s his style but he would not date foreigners if I remember correctly from one of their old videos 🤣

[@minimochi2206]

@@calliesantana9524 haha you're right.

[@lianacimpian5236]

i laughed my ass off during this whole video, but david's 8-step algorithm stole the show tbh

[@sallykristinevarne]

It iS nOt aN aLgOrItHm, iT iS a sCeNaRiO!!

[@nancysternberg4476]

Agree! That part definitely had me cracking up!

[@MiriamWright]

he's such a romantic 😂😂😂 bless him

[@ceciliam6528]

100% LOL

[@TeshniKiKwang]

agreed.. it is romantic

[@EvaMariposa]

Danny's "dating career" should be turned into a kdrama. 😂

[@lerulara]

I would watch it hahahaha

[@viennacupcake8700]

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[@madorno81]

Babahahahaha I would totally watch that drama

[@fire34fly]

lol Isn't that the drama Dating Agency Cyrano, pretty sure it's kinda like that. It also has Taemin as a cameo

[@EvaMariposa]

@@fire34fly I guess I have a new drama to watch now 😂 ... Thanks!

[@tccfightorescape4884]

David is gonna be crazy in this video because he dreams to live a life like in K-Drama and dating too.

[@shamsanansasi5712]

Hi dear lovely Army , hope you had a wonderful day

[@jennifersullivan4823]

Doesn’t everyone? K drama’s are the best!!!!

[@IlloyedKater]

@@jennifersullivan4823 as long as it's not the heirs 🙃 that would be one hell of a messed up relationship 🥲

[@johnnyd.seducedmarilynm.7599]

@@IlloyedKater agree

[@jackelineavila4675]

@@IlloyedKater lmaooo 😭

[@Prxncessvaleria]

I'm actually old fashioned and I loathe hook-up culture. You can't even go on 3 dates without the other person expecting sex. Like I'm trying to have a conversation and get to know you, and the reply to everything is like that's nice so your place or mine? It's extremely frustrating. (However that's just my experience as an american, living in the states.)

[@kpoplover1901]

totally agreed. Tbh it freaks me out from even seeking to date so I just haven't bothered and im 23 now lmao

[@doloresfraga5609]

Yeah I get that, at the same time I would not commit to a relationship only after 3 dates. I mean i get some people wanna wait more to be physical, and that is great, yet commiting to care and give exclusive attention to one person only after seeing them 3 times seems like irresponsible to me. I don´t fear commitment but i don´t like playing with other people´s feelings, so when I say I wanna be in a relationship I wanna be sure I can be up to that.

[@TitusAzzurro]

You're probably young. As they said, when you approach your 3Os, you know what you want. Waiting several dates before hooking up is ok; waiting a bit longer after that to have sex is fine; but there is a limit before someone thinks you're asexual or something.

[@Ssh-dc6ze]

I totally agree with you👌🏻..

[@immealldayeveryday9425]

Oh boy u have clearly not experienced other cultures if u think America is bad guess again their are other places that are super sexual even more than in America trust me but I feel like the woman would set the tone if I don’t want to kiss or even have sex for a while I think they guy u date should understand if they don’t then u know they are not the one for u but there will definitely be guys that understand and even support a woman wanting to wait before they reach the stage where they are sexually active even in America

[@ItsChristenDeAlger]

David is more like a romantic guy while danny is like "I don't give a shit let's do it"

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

Danny's attitude strikes me as very american compared to David's.

[@someonecool110]

@Christen De Alger Yup lol. That's on his mind.

[@kflowers8276]

I think Danny's perspective is more mature, IMO. Not to say that David's isn't. He knows what he wants, he looks for a partner with similar feelings and develops relationships where there is a clear understanding of expectations. There's no need for guessing or 'playing games' or arbitrary dos and don'ts. And people like that can still be romantic. But you have to have two people on the same level.

[@kelialollos1666]

The “get in a relationship to know the person” freaks me out. What if the person is a psycho or you hate some of his habits or an aspect of him. I could never date someone after 3 dates that’s like dating a stranger, in that period of time you learn nothing about the person and people can be fake. That’s a hell nah for me. (Maybe it’s my trust issues talking)

[@lerulara]

I agree, if I want to get to know someone then we are going to be friends first!

[@nehaj4702]

Saying from experience, nooo “get in a relationship to know the person” plsss

[@tania6952]

I think the same too. I could never!

[@jktm7785]

Yes, it's the same for me. That wouldn't be enough to get to know the guy properly, especially me being a more emotionally involved person, before dating someone I would have to know him quite well and at least have that friendship going on. That's why blind dates are kinda a big no for me. Everyone is different. I also think that having sex after 1/2 months of dating is too early 😂. I would never 😂

[@alizanster]

Just from my personal experience living in Korea, it is true that Koreans get into relationships to get to know one another. However, they also break up with each other rather quickly if things seem headed in the wrong direction. Different strokes for different folks, I guess, lol.

[@megigogo2313]

Yall pls react to another vid of her were she is with a foreign friend and they talk about the same topic but from foreigners expirience.plsss

[@Maimai-ef6fe]

Yeah totally agree

[@nxxxlooo5726]

They should also react to her « dating a korean guy » where she talks about having sex with korean guy and stuff, it will be hilarious 😂😂😂

[@dianafreitas8871]

That would be cool

[@rinadoor5914]

@@nxxxlooo5726 yesssss!

[@veenaynay6578]

‘I say ahhhh somewhere else’ I literally screamed. Danny you need Jesus 😂😂😂

[@k___8690]

dude same! The way i've been looking for this comment-

[@grettapalassa1162]

Metoo

[@JoneOfBark]

David is literally revealing ALL HIS MOVES!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@CatterinaPoe]

I love the fact that the next girl David invites for a "picnic" will be like.. wait a second... Lol

[@TeshniKiKwang]

hahahahah "wait a damn minute" XD

[@bangtansforehead9496]

David: “woof woof” Me: oh that’s cute David: “master I’m popped “ Me: STOP

[@mangygnoll0613]

That "master, take me on a walk" sounds more kinky than cutesy to me lol

[@AsiaInMyHeart]

exactly my thoughts haha talked to someone who had that kink

[@notsofinecoffee]

“those 8 steps could’ve been skip if she live alone” HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA

[@ellienavarro4230]

Too many steps hahaha!!!!

[@benedictamensah9510]

So true... Unnecessary but very romantic though

[@y2aura]

I feel like foreign dating, at least in America, the hardest ‘hurdle’ to pass is “are we exclusive?” So you might start dating someone for a couple months but if u like them seriously u have to ask to be exclusive aka not seeing anyone else. I’m not sure if this culture exists in Korea but it’s pretty common in America. Also I feel like when u have sex is very individualized, some people wait some people don’t 🤷‍♀️

[@belami_irl8543]

Perfect description 👏👏👏

[@sudiptajabinchowdhury7882]

I am Asian and I think most of the countries here is like, the moment you start seeing someone you are exclusive to each other. The american way is rather rare here. And if you are dating more than 3-4 months then I love you and marriages are easy conversations.

[@th2030]

As an European I don’t get American dating culture. In Europe dating means you are exclusive unless both parties don’t want to or have other dating preferences.

[@clarav2770]

Yeah here in France you don't have that kind of conversation. The moment you show interest in someone it is expected that you are exclusive unless you explicitly state otherwise. So when you're dating someone who is American or has a similar dating culture and they ask "will you be my girlfriend?" it can be a bit awkward bc you're like "...I thought I already was?" 😂

[@y2aura]

@@th2030 Yh I think it mostly depends on your partner, usually if u meet almost everyday it’s fairly obvious that you both want to be exclusive. But sometimes not 🤔

[@lerulara]

The idea of David shaking his ass to his girlfriend sounded sooo strange but then I imagined Jimin doing it as in the Jimmy Fallon show and it made complete sense 😂😂😂😂

[@Starcore600]

Which instance exactly are you talking about?

[@lindavel43]

@@Starcore600 When they are playing games. I think is the one where they gave to dance to an emotion. Jimmy gets the emotion shy. So he covers his face, turns around, shakes his butt side to side, looks over his shoulder and says, "I'm shy." I think she's talking about that.

[@lerulara]

@@lindavel43 100% correct!😂

[@vminhope3040]

Funny how when Jimin does it, it’s cute and any other guy doing it is just like ???

[@lerulara]

@@vminhope3040 lol yes, I guess the person who does it needs to do with the right energy, maybe when David do it, he can also look funny and cool but who knows hahah

[@manasamukeshshanker2360]

Shin Chan's naked booty floating in the background. Editing team #RESPECT

[@Flora_Moana]

Why does this remind me of txt "i just wanna be your dog! WOOF WOOF WOOF WOOF"

[@nannoslonglostfriend9497]

LETS PLAY FOREVER

[@Vixx-eh6bl]

WOOF WOOF WOOF WOOF

[@sevdamustafazad3564]

ahahaha

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

Lol I remember when everyone thought they might be furries after they read the lyrics😂

[@samira7164]

omg it all makes sense now

[@doobuu2999]

at this point we need a compilation of "Danny is American" lmao

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

I know, I just made a comment about how his attitude is very american lol

[@someonecool110]

@Elentiya Exactly😅😂

[@itsblueyo]

YESSS

[@vminhope3040]

I’m with David on this though . When you go too fast, it also ends fast most of the time as well. And guys might think you not that serious.

[@lunaramamoon]

14:40 "YEAH BITCH IT IS MY BEDROOM" PLS I AM SCREAMING 😭✋

[@346ego]

Danny’s face at the “1 or 3 months before sex” SENDS lol

[@SE-gs6gd]

These 2 humans couldn't be more different.

[@emmerz77]

David kills me sometimes with his romantic qualities. Such a cute man.

[@shyamaprasadbanerjee2659]

I love how in these korean dating videos David is always "cause your American !" to Danny

[@eviniks9088]

I know a lot of people who date for months before they get into a relationship... But within that time they do have skinship. They just don't want to label it that quickly

[@tdelioncourt1268]

Exactly! When we say we are dating someone it means it's serious. That's why we don't use this label so lightly. I guess for them "dating" is what we call "seeing someone" ^^

[@eviniks9088]

@@tdelioncourt1268 Yes! Dating has levels, when you are exclusively dating you're pretty much in what they'd consider a relationship. But to us calling it a relationship is way more serious, like meeting the parents serious 😬

[@juliane5632]

Sometimes stick to friends since many are afraid having the wrong one and make big impact or abusive relationship

[@alinnetorressoares8483]

About been cute, in my pov, when is not natural, it isn't cute. Really cute things happen when the person is not aware that the cutesy of his/her actions. Like a smile can be really cute.

[@graciekattan6618]

Yeah aegyo isn’t natural so to me it’s just weird and trying too hard. Cuteness comes unknown to the person. But I guess some guys like it cause it strokes their ego 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@amandamyshaeryn4500]

Agreed! Also,for the puppy thing... i am a cat person so if you start to act like a puppy right in front if me my vagina will just get dry🤣🤣🤣. But i aint sure that the kitty behaviour will work as well🤣. Maybe its my age (28), but i'm Too savage for that😅...

[@amanderps970]

Not gonna lie: Korean dating the way David describes it sounds like a beautiful dream and I'm shook. lol

[@tania6952]

I know

[@BrieFee]

I've already watched Kelsie's Dating in Korea-Videos and I was wondering what guys had to say about it. So thanks for doing this one, Danny and David.

[@thirstwithoutborders995]

In "Western Culture" is just not a good expression. It really varies a lot, from place to place. In the US people go on dates for months and most have sex without being "exclusive", as in they kind of are still single and ready to mingle, before they have a talk that defines the relationship. I think that is what she meant, and that's what I heard is generally whats happening. Of course, some people are different and might fall in love at work etc. and be in a relationship immediately. In Scandinavia people might have sex before going on dates and then kind of slide into a relationship without much talking and defining. In German speaking Europe its usually assumed that you are exclusively dating by the time the first kiss happens, which is usually within 3-5 dates, maybe longer if it starts from a blind/tinder date. Dating is not casual here either, unless you clearly define it as a fling/fwb sort of situation before you sleep together.

[@pjunkam]

Wow, thank you for this insight! For someone who’s been put in an “Asian culture” box for so long, I would never understand this frustration if you didn’t point it out.

[@th2030]

I was about to say the same thing in Europe the dating style is different from American’s.

[@thirstwithoutborders995]

@@pjunkam I am sure putting billions of people into a box can never work, especially different countries with different history and development. But yeah, I do sometimes feel a bit annoyed by videos titled "Western XYZ", when they clearly mean the US or Northern American. Nothing against Americans, but Europeans are sometimes very puzzled by the culture of the US (and other European countries as well, tbh. :-P)

[@FreshSalad645]

I agree, as a European, when I lived in the US, I found the dating culture super confusing 😂

[@bltotrs92]

True Europe is different to USA in dating culture. I live in Germany and you go on I think about 3 dates too and then consider a relationship. (When it isn't clear from the beginning that it's a one night disco fling or sth^^)

[@littlerose7803]

I see where Danny is coming from with her living alone and all but David's way sounds so much more romantic. I hope that happens to me someday 🥺🤣

[@Luuhpan]

Romantic but also more difficult imagine If you had to travel every time you want to have sex.

[@frozenwoods863]

Ough I think finding someone that is honest and without a filter is a 100x more romantic

[@melanihan169]

Ikr, That was so cute 🥺🥺

[@melanihan169]

@@Luuhpan he didn't say everytime tho

[@mikilina4304]

What danny said is pretty much what I think as well. Koreans start a relationship and then get to know each other while in western countries (Germany) we get to know each other first and then start a relationship. I've witnessed both cultures when I was in the beginning of my 20s. And I saw that young Koreans tend to date, break-up and get into new relationships pretty quickly, while western people most of the time took much longer to get into a realtionship but it lasted longer. I can't speak for the majority, but that is what I've seen. (I am not talking about hookup cultures. that's another story).

[@EVL-xj5vc]

Yeah and it’s ironic to think that Korea is supposed to be more conservative

[@wieauchimmer1]

As a German I would also be really offended, if my partner wouldn't want his family to know I exist

[@mapsofmeaning]

Where can i get a David in my country? T_T i want to experience those 8 steps, plz.

[@Luuhpan]

Every single time?

[@dc3428]

😂🤣😅 me too

[@Linagr02]

In the dating settings I think korea is really serious but then in the marriage life it’s like “lol let’s cheat”. Then what’s the rush for formalize a relationship if you are gonna cheat at the end?

[@Eunseo2984]

Danny is 70% American 30% Korean. While David is 70% Korean 30%American. They have 60% common ground but disagree 40% of the time. It makes dkdktv dynamic and really fun to watch. Good teamwork! :)

[@laharik1324]

Omg.. I thought I was gonna die laughing watching this 😂😂 The editing 👌👌

[@Ssh-dc6ze]

I agree to all what David said, if I am in a relationship, I want to take my time in every step and every stage to the fullest. I don’t want to rush anything. I like how korean dates and the stages they take.

[@tenzinyoudon6521]

I so wish to see you guys collab. Eagerly waiting for that collaboration.

[@TheKartefbreze]

David.... WHO ARE YOU? This video is gold, I love this quality content, and I have no interest in dating whatsoever XD

[@CupcakeBrianna]

I think the "getting to know each other for 6 months" for Western culture doesn't necessarily mean those people are going out of dates for 6 months straight. I was part of a friend group with my boyfriend for 2 years before we stated talking more one on one and realized we were into each other as more than just friends. I know many people that were friends for a good amount of time before they dated. Not everyone is doing blind dates only and friendzoning people. 😜

[@SparkleDeluxe_minecrafter]

I don't think it is hooking up before you become boyfriend girlfriend either. In my opinion it is more like "we like each other but our relationship isn't super super serious yet"

[@laibaahmad8136]

Still trying to figure what danny is trying to achieve with his hair...🤔

[@aanuoluwaodole736]

This comment😂😂

[@carlw5360]

It looks like he's not achieving anything, just letting it grow😅

[@clegs8356]

THIS SENT MEEEE AHKSGJSKSS ty 😭😭

[@jktm7785]

@@carlw5360 lmao 😂😂

[@nobheenobhee3902]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@CHopeBerlin]

17:52 u might be right, however the tension building up during the 8 steps before you get actually intimate is magical and maybe even better than the actual intimate part itself or even makes that part more intense and exciting...rather than to just go over to "chill"

[@oriono2470]

I think a lot of "cuteness" i see in the west with couples is more goofy/silly than proper aegyo, like light banter and tease Edit: I sorta wink my right eye and stick out my tongue if im being playful like these 😜 😉

[@aytestarose8903]

Yes

[@thirstwithoutborders995]

I think "Puppy Eyes" when you want your partner to do something for you is as far as it goes. And some people even find that cringy.

[@oriono2470]

@@thirstwithoutborders995 ya, personally I don't do that. I would feel uncomfortable and would feel like I'm being whiny, but thats just me🤣🤣

[@juliane5632]

Yeah uncomfortable and cringy but i guess it's exceptional on them since they're beauty is different, but the voice they try to use to act cute (On males) just sounds horrible because of their manly voice

[@themaria4u]

Yeah i think being "naturally" cute its better than aegyo.

[@hanaem842]

When I'm watching kdramas I'm literally like: yesss they finally kissed (at the last episode🙂🤦‍♀️)

[@Isabella1680]

the first few seconds cracked me up already.... "if you like cute feminine girls, date a Korean one, we have love motels" 🤔🤔🤔🙈🙈🙈🙈 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@someonecool110]

@Isabella1680 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ABAO2009]

As a foreigner who has been in both types of relationships (conservative and 'modern') I can say that it depends on each couple, do what makes you confortable and if anyone tries to influence or force you into their type of dating consider that a giant red flag and leave immediately.

[@urgirl143]

Team David 👍🏻 he is a romantic man 🥰

[@hellostranger2012]

Kelsey. She is really straight forward. U should watch her video with Swedish friend😂😂😂😂

[@lovelysolstar]

As a western girl, I hate it when western guys try to get touchy feely on the first date. I'd much rather not have a total stranger try and touch me lol. I think this is so respectful to your dates personal space and I hope western guys adopt this idea too.

[@ashleycs3817]

Lmao this was way funnier than expected 🤣🤣

[@Fi--]

This video is just David straight exposing himself for 19 mins LOL

[@adelalazur3341]

I tend to assume we are in relationship after enough dates happen. And it was never a problem xD. It never was awkward when I introduced a guy to my friend as my boyfriend without talking to him about it. In my first relationship I asked my boyfriend if we are together and he told me "yes, but you know only kids ask each other such questions". So that is how it is in Poland.

[@Elendilka]

This holding hand after three dates is the DKDKTV version of “we were on a break” at this point. Good video though, I laughed a lot. 👍

[@maubie3028]

my favorite youtubers reacting to my other favorite youtuber

[@emilyp6732]

My dating experience in Mexico is technically you’re friends first, then if you like each other, you flirt. Flirting can be very direct and since it’s so obvious, they confess or maybe they may confess even before they start flirting. Then they ask if you want to be a couple, you say yes and boom, you’re a couple and that’s when you can kiss, hold hands, etc. Like one day you’re nothing and the next there’s so much skin ship. We don’t really date, we just go from friends to couple and that’s it. That’s why i find it weird when dating and being exclusive are two different things in some places when here… dating is being exclusive.

[@AlexDeath15]

Wow, that sound really cool. So you get to know a person well, get some ”moments” and end up in a relationship naturally. Sounds like the healthiest and the most interesting way.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

France is the same.

[@nancysternberg4476]

Fascinating as usual from an American perspective. Always interested in learning more about the Korean culture and the "why" behind those customs. Also, you guys constantly crack me up and I thank you for adding levity to my day!!!!

[@starlights7479]

Are we sure Danny is Korean and lives in Korea?😮

[@DKDKTV]

no hes americano

[@oriono2470]

@@DKDKTV iced 🧊

[@bbypinkcherry]

@@DKDKTV with two shots of espresso for that spunky attitude

[@user-us7py1cy2k]

@@bbypinkcherry 💀

[@musaviki783]

With some whipped cream on top

[@LeafMiAlone]

The commentary for this video is hilarious. I almost choked on my cereal!

[@starsrox7427]

How can you develop feelings within three meetings and jump into a relationship?

[@musaviki783]

I think it isn't a serious type relationship. More casual like what was said.

[@sjplus36]

It's much crazier to have three meetings and jump into bed! "Getting to know" looks like "chasing tail and then a relationship might happen but that's kind of secondary..." For me hook-up culture is just animalistic.

[@silynita]

Ask kpop Stans, and it usually starts with "let's learn their names"😂jk

[@musaviki783]

@@silynita and figure out who is who💀

[@TeshniKiKwang]

It's possible if you meet like every weekend and while you are talking on sns at the same time!

[@CHopeBerlin]

What i love about this duo is how their opinions perfectly represent my split personalities: -Ladylike vs idgaf -German vs middle eastern culture /values -Leo sun vs pisces moon -...

[@LyndseyKeatts]

It took almost 2 months of hanging out before my boyfriend and I started dating. For the most part, we hung out with a group of friends and then we slowly started hanging out one on one before we start a relationship. I live in the USA. I know most people start dating quickly.

[@poorang900]

david's date sounds like a perfect date.

[@YMgirl85]

Danny: “I say AAAAHHHH Some where else” 😏😏😏🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂 I died laughing 😂😂 I can’t believe David said “what??? I don’t understand”

[@bns481]

Americans 'whine' in relationships 😂 like heavy pouting. Dudes usually only only behind closed doors lmfao. Its 3 dates here max as well typically. Depending on how the attraction is, sex can be right away or a bit slower but, after date 3 and both parties agree- sex usually happens lol. And yes, as you get older here ppl learn what they prefer and are more open to sex a bit quicker when dating to make sure they are compatible. When we 'date', it involves skinship, sex, etc usually for about 6months to a year (for some but I haven't heard of anyone waiting this long) to decide if you'd like to be in a committed relationship.

[@Matara772]

I am European. Here is my stats x'D First relationship(Swede) : 6 months until we decided to get together(talking every day) . Second ex(UK person) : 5 months (talking every day) Third ex (UK person) : 3 months (talking every day!) I went to Korea... 4th Boyfriend(Korean): one day and we were together. We have been together nearly two years now ❤️✌️😂

[@tlvykyk357]

David is so cuteeee!!! Maybe to many steps but that shows that he care about the other person 🥰🥰

[@nithyaangadi]

david’s just out here exposing himself and being super real while danny’s just completely done LOL

[@juliemarie3082]

Love the Dive Studios sweatshirt!

[@Melontannie27]

I was in the talking or "some" phase with my current boyfriend of 3 years, for like 3 months before he asked me out and we went on a date. We didn't have much skinship until 4 months after dating. We were both virgins so maybe that had something to do with it. 😁 We were both 18 then, now 21

[@MusicIslife-nn9gn]

@10:58 “WHY YOU ASKING ME???” Gee...I don’t know Danny maybe bc of that UT Dallas hoodie proves a point lol

[@heart-and-seoul]

I love these videos. lol. All of this is soo true. haha. My coworker and I have had these comparative dating culture conversations and we both learned so much. Like what Danny said, "Foreigners get to know eachother to date eachother, whereas Koreans date eachother to get to know eachother." It was so true. I was explaining to my coworker that in Korea, you kind of need that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label to kind of move farther in your relationship physically,etc. Whereas in Western culture, I feel like people are afraid to use that label and define the relationship until later on, even though they've had that emotional and physical relationship from the start. A lot of time we'll say that "we are seeing someone right now", and hear the label of "boyfriend/girlfriend" when being introduced to a friend or something. "this is my girlfriend____." We aren't as direct with the whole label thing. (Or at least in my experience anyways, so when I first started dating here in Korea, I was shocked at how direct everything was.)

[@khrisnas1522]

This video was so funny and entertaining! Excited for the follow-up video 🤙🏽💖

[@wander_vall3313]

In the west the term "dating" and what you do during that time can be interpreted differently from person to person. Some people consider dating to be less serious and something different than saying you are in a relationship. Id love the Korean dating culture, seems more respectful to me

[@brittaniecastellon1405]

I love Kelsey’s videos! Glad you reacted to it! 😊

[@carolineorendain2012]

David's 8 steps of dating 😂🤣

[@lolla2710]

Lol even for me like when I watch Korean guys and they're like cutesy , it's adorable! But if it were like a South African guy, I'd be so uncomfortable 😂 Korean guys are getting away with murder😂😂😂

[@rememberuhyuiyoureenoughlo1316]

Yeah. I cannot picture a South African act cute. But I love aegyo lol

[@gedijonez8759]

Not only African White man also it weird 🤔🤔🤔

[@pearlcnrd]

This is so true, even though I feel like 2000s (more so in joburg) and up are more comfortable being cute, but not at the level seen in kdramas or by idols. The old generation is a no💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣

[@lalita2324]

When David said 1 or 2 months is short before having sex Totally agree with u 👍👍👍 Team David ❤

[@ozidanni]

I'd love to see that collaboration! I hope that one day David gets to go on the kind of date where he can understand why Danny is laughing so hard at all that formula and proper steps. I think if you're able to be following an official pre-planned formula - like if there's space in your head at the time for all of that calculating, then no matter the culture, something isn't really clicking. It's better to just know where you're at, read the other person for cues and clues for where they're at and move forward or step back accordingly. Like, maybe it'd likely still end up about the same result on a timeline, but it's not a healthy start if you're counting the steps as you dance. I'm starting to picture David on a date, like that scene at the dance competition in Grease, where Frenchy asks, "Doody, can you turn me around or something?" and he replies, "don't talk, French, I'm trying to count."

[@adorabledork89]

Omg Danny was like “save me from David, please, tf is he doing” this was informative and funny!!

[@tanya24able]

I agree with Danny on mostly everything he said , I understand the culture difference but like he said its best to live by yourself its less stressful no worrying . I'm from California so with me I will wait 4 weeks until actually becoming physical with that person. I like to get to know the person that I'm dating alot more about them first. Everyone has different ways on dating and I respect that . This was a great video

[@dhvanijindey1858]

The tough guys are always very cute when all alone with their girlfriend. So really all men are cute and the same. Some are just more open with it.

[@jjthek]

I missed the live but going back to watch this. This is hilarious. Its my favorite reaction video ever. ㅋㅋㅋ. I hope there are more videos like this in the future.

[@sayrah6716]

the whole '6 months of dating before a relationship,' in the US really translates to '6 months of casually hooking up until someone catches feelings and decides to actually confirm the relationship then like 2 weeks of weirdness and then you're official,' tbh. like I've seen people hook-up or casually see each other on-again, off-again for months before they decide to maybe seriously date the person. it usually seems like a game of who can care less.

[@jktm7785]

Lmao this was so fun to watch, I laughed a lot 😂 It would be great if you kept doing these reactions to stuff concerning the Korean culture, etc and share your opinions. Your reactions are so fun.

[@lolla2710]

"What a beautiful sunset, let's just BEKSSHBI"😂😂

[@halfmoon7769]

David's steps tho I laughed so hard :D And hope you guys invite her, I love watching her and your videos :D

[@lokeyacolyte2145]

Danny: I don't know girls. David: Has 8 step hookup procedure, absolutely steals my heart.

[@DearMariska]

This is a collab i'd never thought i'd see, but I'm so down for this!

[@naxira6832]

David's dating life is a whole combo of k dramas.

[@jeovimsa626]

04:40 I can't with them🤣🤣🤣🤣 Davids look on Danny wenn he said he would say "ahh" somewhere else HAHAHA

[@shanibrown158]

David went from wanting the Kdrama romantic life to shaking his bottom in front of his girls face.

[@mbuehler74]

I would love to see a collaboration video! Y’all are so funny, thank you for the great videos 😊

[@95209610]

"...and then we sleep." *pause* "AND THEN YOU SLEEP?!" I laughed so hard throughout the entire thing, and I'm American! Also, yes, there is typically sex involved in the 6-9 months of getting to know each other before you decide to be "serious."

[@dorisa3665]

2 min in i lost it, 4 min in i was like wtf with david's barking and master and danny's "ahhh". I knew the rest of the video was gonna b funny af and weird af and ofc danny and david will argue. 14:31 lmaoo David's face talking about the old ppl 😭😭😭 btw: love the editors style in editing, makes it funnier.

[@dayaferreira3534]

I died at the “people don’t give a shit about what older people say”

[@properconciete14]

In America, dating phase is in several parts. "Meeting - Getting to know each other", then there's "Casual dating - Non-exclusive / going over your options before deciding which one you like the best", then there's "Exclusive dating - you both decide you don't want to see other people anymore and you want to only see each other", then that turns into "Serious relationship - bf/gf" stage. Naturally, every couple is different and each relationship is unique, but this is the general flow of dating culture in the states, and the "dating phase" before being officially bf/gf is anywhere from 2 - 6 months depending on how fast or slow each couple wants to take things. Generally. The 3 day rule in korea is much much too fast for american dating culture lol. We want to know the person we are choosing to commit to before we decide to commit to the one person.

[@nikandra76]

That’s so true

[@middlechild942]

"3 out of 2 people shake their ass in front of their girlfriend"

[@ionokiero5141]

I loved this video so much! Hilarious you guys are so much fun.