Apple Family Vlog- Addressing Some of the Mean Comments

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DIAGNOSIS of my Wife:
March 19th, 2021 Stage IIIA Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (Non-Smoking)
February 2022 Stage IV Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (spreading to Brain, and other parts of lung and lymph nodes)
Gene Mutation EGFR with Exon 20 Insertion
TREATMENTS: Received or currently Receiving
2021: 8 Rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin and Paclitaxel) with 30 concurrent radiation treatments to chest and lung
Failed Immunotherapy directly after Chemo and Radiation (Durvalumab, 1 round)
2022: Chemotherapy
10 rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin, Alimta, and Avastin)
6 with Carboplatin, 4 without
Targeted Brain Radiation (Completed)
CURRENT TREATMENT:
I am on a clinical trial for my specific gene mutation
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[@esmeraldareal312]

If anyone makes a mean tweet about this family you have major issues. Have a great day!

[@kyleapple9702]

Thank you!

[@kerryprzytula7]

I have never seen a mean comment made. If someone ever has... it just shows their ignorance.

[@anniesimone]

Totally agree, the nicest family, absolutely nothing to not like!👏

[@AllisonQ-gv7tt]

I absolutely agree 100%. I love this whole family so much! ❤️

[@donnamanzares8440]

That is awful of someone to make mean comments, you are the nicest family and I pray Jenny. Kyle and children💕

[@GraceAn3]

Winnie walking along in her little tap shoes made me smile so big.

[@margbrophy3395]

Me too!!🥰

[@kimdanielson]

Yes, me too! 🩷

[@candacegoodwin1065]

Yes, very cute!

[@jacquehoosier6597]

Me too ❤❤❤ adorable

[@caribcarib4337]

she is so cute and her face is a Jenny replica - so blessed

[@brendaloman1059]

No need to apologize for going to Disneyland and taking a break from the stress of your life. You two are amazing and deserve love and support, not anything negative.

[@carolynr1229]

Agreed! Not only do you deserve time away (which will rejuvenate you and make you a happier Hubby & Dad, but, it's one of Jenny's wishes. Ignore anyone not fully supporting this amazing journey you are on. You and your beautiful family are loved by soooo many people. We love, support and adore you. We pray for you and we are keeping the faith for a healing. ❤

[@PH-xk9bs]

People were angry because he took the kids to Disneyland??? Whaaaat???

[@susano7587]

@@carolynr1229 yes, I am praying hard.🙏🏻

[@Lyn-px2jv]

Yeah star wars boy, sing away. You drooling disgusting immature disney boy who invites strangers (maybe pervs to come over and talk to us. At Disney, perv central ware anything is possible. He invites strangers around his kids. Im sorry it comes down to having ZERO COMMON SENSE. SOMEONE HELP HIM. HE CANT TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF, NEVERMIND TWO CHILDREN. HELLO, HELLO SOCIAL SERVICES, WHERE ARE YOU? WE NEED YOU TO HELP THIS FAMILY😢.

[@Jean-vl2nf]

I agree you do not need the mean comments. Those people don’t care while many many of us love and support you both. ❤

[@tammyoverton2518]

Enjoy every single second of LIFE together, because NONE of us are promised tomorrow. I recently lost my dad. Some people questioned me for taking my dad off of hospice to take him on his lifelong dream trip to Alaska. We took him and he passed away 2 weeks and 2 days later. I HAVE NO REGRETS!! He was so happy being there. Love your family!

[@susanjacobs4205]

People can be so cruel. Nobody deserves it. You are all going through enough. Be strong.

[@SusanLlewellyn-pp2xn]

❤ no regrets.

[@shakti7457]

Mean comments? Humanity, letting me down, more and more, these days! I am so sorry!!!

[@kyleapple9702]

It’s ok, thank you for the support

[@shakti7457]

@@kyleapple9702 🫂

[@angelamartin3421]

Right there with you on that! Yes there will be a few miserable people commenting but to have so many that Kyle felt the need to take the video down. I just really don't get people these days 😔

[@WMessina-rb1yu]

This is a comment coming from a man who is also watching my wife, losing her life in hospice. Kyle, thank you thank you for sharing what an opened, sucking wound death can actually be…. Death is reality and it’s not what it shows on TV, or in the movies. It’s not beautiful, it’s not pretty, it is not painless, or glamorous, and threw it off. He is sharing a part of his life and a part of his trauma of dealing with the every day minute details of parenting, doctor appointments, haircuts, dental appointments, dance classes, and still being a loving caregiver, all at the same time, and if you have never worked and yes I said worked not walked a day in his shoes, then keep your salty comments to yourself. Jehovah loves you Kyle stay a blessing to Jenny and your babies, as you have been a blessing in our lives.

[@esmeraldareal312]

{{BIG HUGS}} to you WMessina. I was my momma’s caregiver and for the last 3 years she lived with me and my hubby. I performed her dialysis treatments 4 times a week. She developed dementia and over time she became bedridden so we did the hospice and I 💯 agree with you that it is very difficult. I miss her everyday but know she is with our Heavenly Father. People need to be kinder as losing a family member touches the most delicate part of life.

[@WMessina-rb1yu]

Back at ya with a hug my friend. My wife is dying from idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis due to Covid she contracted in 2020. She started hospice 4 weeks ago. Ugh.. truly heartbreaking. I just can’t wrap my head around anyone being so hateful to a young man who’s barely hanging on seems like this cruel world is overflowing with a lack of common empathy. All OF GODS BLESSING TO YOU AND YOURS.

[@marilynvallance]

Jehovah?

[@jennynevins6329]

Are you always such a pain?

[@marilynvallance]

@@jennynevins6329 What?

[@roseannejacquette9347]

I can’t imagine anyone saying anything hurtful to this family. Kyle is a treasure and is doing his best to make this horrible situation as bearable as his can. I pray every night for Jenny and each of the family members. Please be kind to this family.

[@lindasmith-xk9zr]

Kyle, you are the greatest Dad and husband I’ve ever seen!

[@sheedee2]

💯Agreed 👍

[@godschild3640]

@@sheedee2 🩷

[@LoriJones-bp4uh]

Agree, Kyle is a kind, thoughtful man.

[@ValerieGriner]

Yes! I totally agree! He is the real thing...a "soul mate."

[@dixiebullock5060]

Totally agree!😊

[@brandygeorge9]

I cannot imagine how anyone could be mean to this beautiful, lovely family! They are going through hell and mean comments are not welcome!

[@kyleapple9702]

Thank you for your support!

[@PhoebeHuggins]

​@kyleapple9702 love your family and you faith. Pray to Lord for you all. Love to see your post

[@DMC-rs3up]

Thank you I 💯

[@joane.3533]

They need Jesus@@JulieGilman

[@barbarasumby325]

Their are some horrible people around, ignore them, you have a lot of well meaning people behind you xxxx

[@AngelHawks]

People who haven't dealt with terminal illness of a loved one have no idea. Go to Disneyland if that's what your family needs. Do all the things. Thank you for taking us on your journey and much love and prayers for your family.

[@user-cd9lh2he8t]

Agree 100%! As a care giver for someone with terminal cancer I always felt guilty enjoying things my loved one couldn’t so I stopped doing everything except taking care of her. It took a toll on my health and I believe in the end affected my ability to care for her. Please take the advice I was continually given, you must take care of yourself and continue to do the things you enjoy!!

[@43CMC]

There is ZERO room for meanness and cruelty in this world. Kyle, we all love and admire you, Jenny, and your family so much. ❤️

[@izzymartin854]

Those comments were made just vicious humanity can be so cruel sometimes it I love you and sweet jenny and you two darlings❤❤❤

[@gaynordicksoncooper6108]

Yes we do hun they are such a lovely family

[@YdnickniL]

My Dad always said, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all". Words to live by.

[@p.e.p2368]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Msfifisquarepantz]

No. I don’t think so. The truth is more valuable than being “nice”.

[@barryallen8753]

Yes but some people don’t have brains just a dirty heart n tongue

[@Lovelysoulgirl1984]

Mean comments, sadly come with social media. Always remember, these are strangers and who cares what they say. Live life to the fullest, and let miserable people live in their misery. ❤

[@kyleapple9702]

Thank you for the support

[@robeccaknabe6270]

So sorry you and Jenny are going thru all this People being mean im a mother that had experience losing a child to cancer in 2015 my son was 15.its very painful to have negative remarks .it makes me angry to see you and your family go thru this it hurts deeply ! I follow your videos for a month now .my prayers for you all.sending Love to you and your family

[@dontfckwithspiders5684]

And you're not a stranger to them? Lol. And you still somehow know them well enough to speak on their entire "miserable" existence? Wishing misery on someone over something this dumb is insane.

[@tamred3302]

My family and I saw you all at Disneyland once by happenstance. I didn’t speak because I didn’t want to disturb your family time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you taking a little trip to Disneyland you are all going through a traumatic and stressful situation. Take those moments to enjoy when you can. You matter too! Blessings to Jenny and all of you.

[@abens9974]

@@dontfckwithspiders5684 Yes. Someone who is attacking a man, who is taking care of his wife as she goes through terminal cancer, for going to Disney Land with his kids, is a miserable person. And someone who is being that mean-spirited living in that misery until they hopefully learn to find kindness for themselves and others seems like a fair sentencing. There's nothing "dumb" about this situation with Kyle and Jenny. It's about as raw in humanity and deserving of human kindness as it gets and they have more than earned people defending them.

[@susanjohnston4066]

The video title is shocking! Please ignore all non supportive comments. You give us all strength. ❤

[@kyleapple9702]

Awww thank you so much

[@PhoebeHuggins]

You are great. I.pray to the Lord for you all.

[@mrbigwheel8171]

Even you must admit that grown men going to Disneyland alone is creepy…….

[@kaitlin627]

I agree you are guys are so inspirational ❤️ rooting for you guys! ❤️ ❤❤

[@kaitlin627]

Love the morning songs 🎵 💕

[@brittneylyntalks]

Who could leave mean comments? This is a time for your family to receive unconditional love and support more than any other! I apologize on behalf of whoever is doing this to you. You two are INCREDIBLE!! Thank you for sharing your journey based in total love.

[@pamsbirding]

Social media has become so toxic. The people who leave hateful comments say more about themselves than anybody else. I'm sorry for people filled with such hate. Their lives must be so empty.

[@kelly-ul9bh]

U make me sick , he needs to put down the fucking camera & stop begging for money. Support his wife irl not just Infront of the world. I detest him & wish it was him not Jenny with the cancer

[@kelly-ul9bh]

​@@pamsbirdingI'm sry for the mental cases that believe filming their loves ones struggling with whatever illness is supporting them. Jenny's husband is a parasite, nothing more

[@rachsmh]

Unfortunately there’s actual channels on KZbin dedicated to tearing down families like this. They’re skeptical of everything and everyone. They claim this is for show so they can get sympathy and money. It’s pretty sad.

[@kelly-ul9bh]

@@rachsmh good, let's hope it see an end to turning death into profit

[@debyoder8342]

Even though this comment is after Jenny left us, I feel compelled to give you encouragement Kyle. I'm enjoying going back over videos from when Jenny was still with us and it hurts my heart that people are so cruel and heartless. Love and hugs to you and the kiddos Kyle ❤

[@tessasable-eo4os]

I was fortunate to see the video before it was taken down. It was most enjoyable and I had no trouble understanding why you were doing it. I am a retired nurse and all I can say is let the terrible people walk a mile in your shoes! The reason we watch your family is that is what we wish that people would be more like you. None of these awful people would trade places with you. Keep making memories for your children and yourselves. Many positive thoughts coming to you from France.

[@marydenny8000]

❤

[@Daniela-Christianson]

It was taken down! Oh, I enjoyed it SO much. You don't do anything for you, and Jenny wanted this for you. I'm sad that people like this exist in the world 😥

[@IntrovertedLoLo]

What were the comments saying?

[@caribcarib4337]

I saw the video too- and it was a good video - Jenny had her appetite back

[@pennylane8401]

I say put the video back up, but maybe turn the comments off. We all love to see your family, relaxing and having fun, aside from all the “c” stuff. You all deserve to enjoy yourselves! The hateful comments are only a reflection of them or their lives, not yours. Much love and hugs to you all! 💓

[@jennmooney]

But then it’s defeating the whole purpose of YT as the more comments, the more money.

[@craziedaisy1499]

​@jennmooney I don't think money has anything to do with it. Not to mention it's views not comments that pays.

[@gingermcintosh6545]

@@jennmooneyugly comment. I don’t think their main purpose is money. I don’t think they are as crass as you apparently are.

[@sapphirerain70]

Their children don’t need to see anything negative posted about their parents. Obviously he’s not worried about his views on you tube! He doesn’t have to be! He’s doing this for his family and for memories.

[@sapphirerain70]

@@jennmooneymaybe it’s not about money , he genuinely loves his family❤

[@kathyrizzi8754]

To anyone writing mean comments…” Just Stop! “ the rest of us love & pray for this beautiful family! 💙♥️💙💖🐾🐾🐶💕

[@LauraS19718]

My mom just passed away on September 27th. She had cancer. My sister, dad, and I took care of her. Watching her decline was the hardest. My thoughts and prayers go out to you Kyle. Thank you for sharing your daily life. God bless you.

[@LauraS19718]

@@rsmith8434 Thank you. The hardest part is that void. I'm happy for mom that she's healed and happy. My prayers are with this precious family.

[@LauraS19718]

@@rsmith8434 Thank you. I'm trying.

[@enzodunn2577]

My mom too 😢 same situation. She passed away on December 5th. Yesterday was extremely hard being that it was Christmas day her only favorite holiday of the year that she always made it a huge deal. But yesterday was pretty much silent and cold and snowy. Today even harder. Got the call to come and pick up her ashes. I'm sorry for your pain. I'm in the same boat. Try to stay strong. Time heals all wounds so my mom use to say. 😢

[@LauraS19718]

@@enzodunn2577 I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a time for family to come together and heal.

[@enzodunn2577]

@@LauraS19718 I'm very sorry for yours as well. And of course Kyle's. It's just sad and heartbreaking.

[@susanl2049]

You don’t have to explain anything to anyone. We are blessed to be included in your family through every video you share. Thank you for letting us in. It is a privilege.

[@carolwentworth3709]

Unfortunately the world is full of nasty people that have nothing better to do than bring others down. Your family is beautiful and you are doing a great job taking care of your wife. Take the time with family and friends on your own every once in a while. it is part of self care. You have a lot on your plate and I know Jenny understands this I keep you and your family in my prayers.

[@christianemartin2581]

I watch your videos in Switzerland. I can’t understand how some people can be so mean 😡😢 I admire you so much for all you are coping with. It must be so difficult to accept dark days ahead. Thinking of you, sending hugs and best wishes 😊😘❤️💋🇨🇭

[@lorrainewilson2031]

Kyle sending you and jenny and the kids so much love from Scotland UK ❤️ .

[@JoyceObrien-wf3dy]

Sending love to you and family love from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@Oscarpee96]

Some people unfortunately thrive on being mean. You and your family are beautiful and so inspiring. 💕

[@kyleapple9702]

Thank you so much!

[@tmbasuhre]

Oh my gosh! You all are awesome and mean people suck! We love the Appleford family and think of you and pray for you all!!!

[@aimeefoscante-gwatney4161]

I can’t imagine anyone criticizing you for going to Disneyland as much as you can. You, your children, and Jenny deserve to have as much fun as you can. Also, I am from the same area as you, and when my kids were young we had DL passes as well. When you have passes and live close by, it’s a super fun thing to be able to do with your family. Please ignore all of the critics.

[@wendychipchase9624]

i never saw the vidi ppl can be so nasty what disney land was it

[@SodaCrackers-ej5le]

I don't blame them for wanting to have fun, family moments, but Disney is associated with sex trafficking & many employees have been busted in stings over the last several years.

[@Kathy-vt6xk]

Anaheim

[@sandyharris3498]

At my age, I’ve learned to just IGNORE the toxic, negative stuff. I try to remember to pray for those people, because they REALLY need it! ‘Love to your sweet family! ❤️

[@gemmi1]

I don't understand how anyone can write mean comments about this beautiful family

[@Serenitynow958]

Possibly jealous that they themselves don’t have this type of love.

[@VirginiaTrujillo-xh7rf]

Anyone that could write something mean or critical about this beautiful, courageous family must really be miserable in their own life. They need to crawl back under the rock they came from. Don’t give the any attention. In a sick way they feel powerful by being cruel. Kyle and Jenny, you are amazing ❤ and loved by so many. 🙏

[@amym8479]

I love a phrase Elyse Myers says when people say mean things to her. She says “I don’t receive that” which puts you in control of receiving what has been said. I use this phrase in my daily life as a constant reminder that I don’t need to receive those mean comments. You and your family are not deserving of any mean comments. Sending virtual hugs.

[@reneeshumbera6000]

I love that!

[@investigator77]

Basically like "I don't accept that". People can have their own opinions, but it doesn't matter one ounce, not even a little bit, to your family and your life. Block them and keep being yourselves!

[@Jillski13]

What a great idea!

[@gettinsumsunmld]

Love it. I will use that!

[@crystalsintuition333]

I am somebody who suffers from a progressive disease called MS. My husband takes care of me too. He watches me suffer and protects me like you are doing for your beautiful wife. I have so much respect for you and my husband for being so loving and giving and selfless. This world needs more people like you and my husband ❤

[@gaynordicksoncooper6108]

Such a beautiful comment my eyes are filling up 🥹🥰

[@BhappyD]

I also have a progressive disease, Mitochondrial Disease, and my mother is my full time 24/7 caregiver. I feel the same way about her. I see the daily toll it takes on her, I see the heartache she goes through watching my disease progress, I see the fear and anguish in her eyes. To me, while living with my disease is extremely challenging, painful and debilitating, I think it’s harder to be in a caregiver role, watching the person you love suffer and knowing there is nothing you can do to stop it. Just the mere thought of my mother and I’s roles being reversed can bring me to tears. I don’t know how she does it. Those that take on the role of selflessly caring for a loved one who is sick with a progressive condition are very special people. I’m so blessed to have my mother, just as Jenny is blessed to have Kyle, and you are blessed to have your husband. Thank you will never be enough to repay their love, sacrifice and support. They make more of a positive difference than they will ever be able to understand.

[@erinnicole5748]

I also have MS and my husband is also my biggest champion. I have seen so many women with chronic/progressive illnesses be treated so terribly by their significant others and I am so thankful for my husband. We are all very lucky to have these great men taking care of us. 💜

[@sweett2185]

I, to, have MS and my husband has been my caregiver for 21 years. He not only takes care of me, he does the laundry, the housekeeping and the shopping. He also works outside the home. He is my rock. We need more loving, caring, kind people in this world. There is no room for hate.

[@CatCmdr]

Me too….but no hubby. Bedridden now. God Bless You! ❤

[@sherylofmonkeys]

Kyle, I have nothing but the utmost respect for you. My husband is in your shoes, as I have stage 4 thyroid cancer. My heart breaks watching his heartbreak. People who have the audacity to make hurtful comments obviously have not yet traveled a painful journey…forgive them for they know not what they do. Give Jenny and the rest of your family my love!❤❤❤

[@thefirstariel4231]

I was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and l have been through many of the things that Jenny is experiencing. This is why l know she is over playing this whole thing. I even have anxiety attacks. She should be more honest and stop playing for the camera. Please don`t ever say that l have no idea what is going on. I know!

[@Oniiskay]

@@thefirstariel4231 No person is the same, some bodies are stronger and some experience worse side effects. I’m very sorry for what you’ve gone thru, but why pick on someone else that’s going through this?? Why not be supportive and share what has helped you? It’s stage 4 cancer, there’s no question that it’s not horrible!! Maybe you should start a channel to share your own experiences and people will show you support as well.

[@breezeh1127]

​@@thefirstariel4231"she is over playing it" Well I guess you were wrong as she died. Make you feel better now?? I guess only the GOOD die young as she was taken and you were left here (and all your negativity and spite) after the same illness. Do better.

[@lindabeisner8692]

Kyle, I can't believe people would begrudge you enjoying Disneyland and relieving some stress, if even for a few hours. Your family is so kind and so lovely and I'm sorry some people are rude and just plain mean. I have a little sticker on my car window that says "Kind people are my kinda people." Life is hard enough without ANY obstacles, and you guys deserve love, prayers and positivity ❤ God bless you!

[@SowArizona]

You're a great dad and partner, Kyle. The love and care you show your family and how you show up for them is a beautiful thing.

[@SparklesBell]

Amazing husband and father

[@RockyRoadCreationsbyDiana]

Some people will be mean and ugly because your warm, loving spirit disturbs their demons. Keep shining. We love you guys. Hugs.❤

[@heavenlycontentedsoaps6453]

Wow what a spot on correct comment

[@rosacaneda6032]

Ughh I’m so sorry you guys are experiencing hurtful comments! Please continue doing what makes you both happy and don’t mind those who stay miserable in their own minds. Hugs!

[@AmyWilson-v7v]

My mom had cancer and we did anything everyday we could to make her day joyful for 1 year and 19 days since she passed away. You will have years ahead to build financially! Do anything that makes her happy!❤

[@SusanLlewellyn-pp2xn]

❤

[@chrisadams431]

How on earth is there any mean comments? Im so sorry guys, much love and prayers to you ❤️

[@aimeeguerrera2579]

Any mean comments can only be coming from sad unhappy people needing meaning and purpose in their own lives.

[@chrisadams431]

​@@aimeeguerrera2579 Yes, i just cant believe how cruel some people are ❤😢

[@cynthialee9189]

That is so mean. I'm so glad you have Disneyland to look forward to all the time! You are doing a fabulous job! Hang in there. Praying for you all❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@iSheree]

They’re just talking nonsense so we just need to ignore them. They probably have something going on in their own lives, its sad.

[@Meowch-vq2xq]

Of all channels, this is the last place I would expect to see people making mean comments. Wow. They better hope they never have to walk in your shoes. It is wonderful that you can escape to the Magic Kingdom. You all need that time and some magic in your life if only for a few hours.

[@JenniferGlade]

Dont even give them a second thought..nobody's walking in your shoes .. you are doing an amazing job...in an incredibly hard situation..praying for you and your precious family 💜

[@Motherof4-26]

Took me a long time to realize there are hurt people out there in this world that hurt back. 😢💔 Don't take in the hate, deflect it. We all know who you are and what you all stand for. Love and light to my favorite family ❤

[@ravenhoskins3526]

Very well said! 💕

[@robinfrisco4219]

I'm sorry you had so many hurtful comments. Sometimes people are disappointing. Remember, it is more a reflection of their heart, than a criticism to you. I'm praying for you and your family! Much love and hugs to you all!

[@natalietownley8798]

Seriously, people make me furious. Care givers need respite to be good care givers. You do you boo x

[@joannamarquis2705]

I have stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, and also my husband's caregiver. He's a 100 percent disabled veteran, and I give him his hemodialysis treatments at home 4 to 5 days a week, as well as everything that comes with caring for him. We seem to pull each other along and give thanks for every hour. Power in love. May God Bless you and fill you with the peace that passes all understanding.❤🙏

[@Meowch-vq2xq]

May God bless you too.

[@LisaS-ul6vx]

Prayers for both you and your husband. May you both be granted strength and peace.

[@tammyorr721]

How do you do all that? I feel so disorganized when my husbands ammonia level goes up and he's confused cause it makes the brain swell. I feel panicky trying to get him ready and out the door. Do you have a system that helps?

[@tammyorr721]

I would appreciate any advice anybody has on being ready for emergencies.

[@Libranpoet]

God bless you both!

[@MrsATX]

You ignore those comments and remember they don’t represent .001 percent of how people feel about y’all. You got a beautiful wife, beautiful family, and we are blessed to be a part of your journey❤❤

[@crisscrosschristina]

THIS 👏

[@melissasmith8482]

I’m so sorry anyone would be mean! Just remember there are lots of us sending love, hugs and prayers for you all! Love to you from someone going through cancer too! You are amazing people!

[@barbspencer64]

I'm so sorry you received negative comments. When our kids were 5, 9, 11, 13, my husband had Stage 4 Cancer. It was such an emotional time trying to hold everything together while I watched him suffer. I can't imagine how much harder it would have been if I'd had to endure negative comments. There are lots of us here who care about you and pray for the best for Jenny and your family. Don't lose heart! You're doing a great job!

[@em77775]

💜

[@StevensToeBeans]

Who are we to judge this family??!! I think they are doing a great job keeping the kids informed and having them in therapy. My daughter was 7 when my mom was sick and she wanted to know everything and was with her when she passed. She is fine and appreciates her time with her granny. She is 23 now and ok. Don’t judge!!!!

[@mhicks880]

People being mean will meet their own karma. Happy Wednesday y'all!

[@PhoebeHuggins]

Mean people remember they will face God not karma . God! Creator of all things

[@fwdflashwebdesign]

@@PhoebeHuggins If only the world would work like that but is not... good people suffer, bad people are thriving and viceversa, our justice and what we think is right is not God justice or universe justice or whatever you think of...

[@betsybabf748]

The people on gossip groups are so nasty. You know they are immature, miserable, lonely, unsuccessful people lashing out because they have no self worth themselves. They all are already living the karma they deserve....misery and self-hatred. Happy, confident, loved people just don't treat others that way.

[@journeygonegoon]

​@@fwdflashwebdesignsadly this is a fact.😢

[@susano7587]

@@betsybabf748 I couldn’t have said it better!

[@mommyfromsouthafrica220]

I am so incredibly sorry. I know it’s hard but no matter what you do, you will always have mean people who obviously have their own deepset issues. Remember those of us who love and support you. No matter what the outcome, you will always have us, Kyle! Don’t let the haters ever make you doubt anything you are doing to help your beautiful wife ❤️

[@WolvenASE]

I glanced at the comments and saw that I shared the same sentiment of everyone else - that people are shocked at the fact that anyone could have or dare to leave any sort of vitriol on your page. You guys are such a beautiful family who radiate nothing but love and kindness, and deserve nothing but that in return. Both of you have made profound impacts on my attempts to be a better man for my family. God bless you both.

[@ddgirl4135]

People are so cruel, they have NO idea what you are going through. The ignorance and cruelty is unbelievable. God bless Jenny 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤❤

[@kated2847]

I went through cancer last year alone. But I was so grateful my children were grown. I can’t imagine where you all are getting the strength from to get up every day and face it with the joy and grace you show. Let me say I am sorry for the negative comments from others. Some people just have to suck the joy out of the world. That’s on them. Thanks for showing us all what true love looks like.

[@amyg4999]

You are a great husband and father! Don’t let anyone steal that joy from you. I love seeing your family having fun together. Cancer is hard and cruel! You have to find any and every escape you can. You deserve to have fun with your kids and Jenny wants you to. (This comes from a cancer and transplant survivor). Love and prayers for you all! ❤❤❤

[@loridocter2144]

I'm a cancer survivor and now I am my husband's caregiver. You do what makes you happy ❤ Your wife and children are the number one priority at this time. People who haven't walked in the shoes of a cancer patient or caregiver, have no clue what we do on a daily basis.

[@Coppellgirl]

I agree. I’m a survivor as well. Some of these haters would not be able to walk in our shoes.

[@MK-gy1ug]

Kyle-there are so many miserable people in the world that feel a need to hurt others. Ignore the hateful comments. Focus on your family and Jenny’s healing! You have more people out there that are rooting for you guys and love you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@betsybabf748]

Mean comments come from those unhappy in their own lives, though sending nastiness to a very nice couple going through what you are takes a special kind of evil. OMG, the kids were so cute waking up. The look on Winnie's face was awesome. You are such a great dad. Maybe the word Jenny was trying to think of is protégé.

[@jessicablevins601]

Never ceases to shock me some of the absolutely INSANE things people sometimes comment! Unbelievable. Don't let crazy, hostile nutjobs bring you guys down! So many folks love you both and only have positive thoughts and prayers for you all! ❤😊🙏

[@patcooper1160]

if the world was filled with people like you and jenny we would have no awful bad people love.

[@rlast1523]

Kyle and Jennie, pay no attention to these evil and demented haters. Maybe the day they go through a traumatic life event, they will understand what it's like to go through what your beautiful family is going through. Keep close to God and he will stay close to you and give you the comfort and strength you need to take you through this difficult journey. God bless you. 🙏

[@faithg9766]

The Disney land video was full of joy and guys supporting you and all to have a bit of fun and make Jenny smile. So sorry the haters have been so hurtful. Praying daily for dear Jenny, you and your family.

[@barbaragillingham9095]

So sorry for the comments of others that caused you upset. There is too much hate and discontentment in the world already without adding more. My mom always told me , "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all". I pray you will try and let whatever the comments were roll off your back and be your positive self. If taking down the video was best for you than that's what you do. Stand your ground this is your channel and we are fortunate that you share it with us. Blessings and positive vibes from CT

[@grandmaofbabyrose7929]

This is the most positive,uplifting,loving,family on KZbin. Please ignore others ignorance. Through your channel and you all sharing your story has helped me through my own journey I'm sure I'm not the only one you help many. You all are so loved continued prayers ❤

[@mhicks880]

Absolutely agree!

[@susano7587]

Jenny and her Family also help me through my cancer journey. People who have not had cancer are unable to understand the bewilderment and pain that comes with being told you have cancer. I NEVER would have thought that I would ever hear the words, "I am sorry but you have cancer". Nobody in my Family ever had cancer. I don't know how or why this happened to me. If I were told I only had 3 to 6 months to live, you bet I would be trying to do everything on my bucket list that I was capable of, and trying to have as much joy with my Family as I possibly could have. Yes, "dontfckwithspiders5684", The people who watch this KZbin channel, knowing they are unhappy with how Jenny and Kyle live their lives, and who are just waiting for something to give them the excuse to condemn them, ARE living a miserable existence. Those miserable people will have it come full circle right back at them one day.

[@kerrycase9006]

We love you all so much !! ❤

[@JoyceGooder-mo1fs]

Life’s simple pleasures……….lite over table. Singing your children awake. Ellis’s giggles were so sweet. Love and prayers to you all.

[@susanl2049]

Yes!! Life is good!

[@caribcarib4337]

Winnie is a mini Jenny

[@tisbarb]

I loved the night out with the boys a Disney land, it was nice to see you all having fun for Jenny! Sorry peeps spoiled the fun ♥️

[@hunglo9191]

Maybe the creeps should have gone to a strip club instead of lingering at Disneyland like a bunch of pedos. I guess Chuck E Cheese was closed???

[@wingandaprayer935]

@@hunglo9191 Did your mom raise you to treat people like this?

[@Sammy-il1qf]

​@@wingandaprayer935He's a troll. Best to ignore.

[@barbaraanderson8391]

@@hunglo9191You’re so clever and funny Mr. hung low.

[@bambiloftin7979]

How pathetic a person has to be to negatively comment. You do what you want and need to do, for as long as you are able!Prayers to you all!❤

[@pamelaraney4654]

I’m struggling in my life. Your videos show me how a loving family overcomes obstacles.

[@Serenitynow958]

Exactly!!!!

[@lindaberg9161]

God be with you

[@lthomas5241]

God bless jenny for what she had to endure and I don't mean just cancer. Kyle I would be so afraid of karma coming your way

[@paulafowler3597]

Kindness doesn't cost anything. Hate is NOT necessary for anyone. This family deserves respect and support. They are going through hell & there is no place here for that. Kyle, you are doing everything, plus some. You're a great dad. You're a wonderful husband & and caregiver to Jenny. Hang in there, guys!! Sending HugsXxx and Love to you all. Gods hands will hold it together for you all!! Happy Thursday all!! ❤

[@JoyceEHill]

You as a family, warm my heart. You are the best family I can imagine. Joyce

[@tamred3302]

My family and I saw you all at Disneyland once by happenstance. I didn’t speak because I didn’t want to disturb your family time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you taking a little trip to Disneyland you are all going through a traumatic and stressful situation. Take those moments to enjoy when you can. You matter too! Blessings to Jenny and all of you.

[@SusanLlewellyn-pp2xn]

Enjoy and build those memories 🎉...

[@SusanLlewellyn-pp2xn]

Hello Winnie. Hello Ellis...❤😂❤

[@themony9295]

Recently my 88 year old dad was diagnosed with stage 4 esophageal cancer, no cure, cancer filled kidney, cannot be removed, blood cancer, and cancer in his entire body. Thanks for the inspiration to keep moving forward.

[@gaynordicksoncooper6108]

I’m so so sorry about your dad lovely ❤

[@gaillessard2786]

Wow, has he been feeling unwell for awhile or it came on suddenly? Esophageal scares me the most of all cancers. It runs in my family and I've always had digestive issues. Cancer at 88 seems especially cruel. ❤

[@juliekelderman4041]

Kyle, I'm so sorry people can be so ignorant to things that have absolutely nothing to do with them. You all need to enjoy and live your lives to the fullest and know how many other people are praying and are here for your family. I love you guys!

[@ellenmathys805]

Jenny an Kyle, You have such a beautiful family and the love you have for each other is sò special. People that make comments have no lives an sre miserable. It is a shame but thats the reality of life. I am so proud of you guys. Loving an caring. Not many people have a marrige like you have. I admire your courage an strength. Pleaseknow so many people love you an Jenny. Jenny, you are so special an beautiful. Your family is what life is all about. You have two adorable loving children an doing a great job raising. Please take good care of yourselves and I will say a pray for you everyday. Love you all.

[@jenc1276]

Mean comments pop up on all the best channels. Please know that for any weird comment there are a 1000 of us kind people who roll our eyes at it. Many many kind people don’t post. But we’re here. You’re amazing. So much love to you all.

[@janicegartner5711]

I felt tearful that people would make mean comments towards you and your family. You are a light in this world, a kind, good man who anyone in this world could take a lesson from. My motto , and I’m not perfect and humans are challenging is to be kind, always. You never ever know what someone is going through and how they may need a smile or word of encouragement. I could palpably feel the love between you two when you look at each other and repeat the words. Jenny’s eyes are so beautiful and it’s almost like looking into her soul they are so deep and full of expression. I wish you all the best and send you love even though you are bursting with it !

[@marleenverbauwhede906]

Praying for the Appleford Family! Stay strong, you are not walking alone! ❤❤

[@MissCSStudent]

Ignore the haters. They might hate their own life, and they probably have zero cancer experience. Respite is a thing. And there's no shame in taking it when the opportunity arrives. I have noticed your love for Jenny, and it's profound. Nothing else matters. You and your family are sharing such intamcy, that isn't deserved by the haters. Block them. And maybe someone can help with moderating comments?

[@dianawoods547]

If you can’t write anything positive, please just don’t comment. They are dealing with enough issues, please don’t add to their stress. ❤, hugs and prayers for your entire family. You all are surrounded by known and unknown supporters who love you unconditionally. I hope this message offers you some soothing comfort.

[@dackelprincess1]

Kyle. You are doing a fantastic job. Don't let anyone make you feel like you aren't. I was the last caretaker for my best friend during her last trip with Stage 4 lung cancer. It was not easy. My friend, you and Jenny are blessed to be sharing this final time together and to be holding each other up. My friend and I used to tell each other to remember: "Real love, true love, never dies!"God bless you both and the children.

[@joniletlow]

My husband and I lift you all up in our prayers. Sending love to your beautiful family.

[@sassysmom9899]

Winnie walking in to the dance class is the cutest thing ever! Kyle, don't listen to the negative comments. Why anyone would do that is beyond me. Concentrate on the love and support and don't change a thing. Praying for you! ❤

[@lovemyroosters9218]

Just delete and block all the people who say bad things. I for one admire your family. What you are going through is tough and very sad. I know, because I to have watched my mom die from brain cancer many years ago. The only advice I have for you is keep making happy memories. It will help get you through the really bad times. May God bless this family.

[@theresekennedy6320]

I am so horrified that anyone would think it’s ok to comment in a way that would cause you all any upset. I’m really sorry this happened. Life is hard enough for you all at the moment and I wish you all nothing but peace and happiness each and every day. All my love from Ireland 🇮🇪

[@deathbychocolate584]

I was so upset when I read it too. Humans can be so cruel, I’ll never understand people who have so much negativity in their lives.

[@hunglo9191]

Just send money to their go fund me page and all will be forgotten

[@Sammy-il1qf]

@@deathbychocolate584 The best thing one can do with trolls is ignore them. They thrive off people commenting.

[@magpieeye3239]

@@hunglo9191 And what is wrong with having a go fund me page? Do you have any idea the cost of treating cancer for over 2 years? Even with the best health insurance, it doesn't pay for all of it! If people want to donate it's none of your business.

[@sandy5097]

I'm sorry to hear you received mean comments on that video. It made me smile to watch it, I was glad to see you all having fun, You deserve it, laughter is good medicine!! Take care of your precious family and keep doing what you're doing, God bless and you are all in my prayers. 🙏

[@rosebojorquez1237]

I always loved that it was the little things that bring joy to this amazing family. RIP Jenny ❤

[@rebeccawood7350]

Omg Winnie is just adorable in her dance outfit. I’m so sorry that people see your life struggles and STILL are mean. Know that 99% of us are here because we are invested and love and care about you guys very deeply💜

[@robinmiller8673]

People stop mean comments to Kyle he is got so much on his plate right now and the mean comments need to stop now he's trying to take care of his family and his wife God bless❤🙏🙏❤

[@kyleapple9702]

Thank you for your support!

[@robinmiller8673]

@@kyleapple9702 I love you guys and watch all your videos and God bless ❤️❤️

[@Sundaylamb3]

They are all so lucky to not have to be at work like us. Most kids love school and they should be happy to go. I wonder why they hate school?

[@myroselle6987]

@@Sundaylamb3I agree. People who are dealing with illness should be able to concentrate on family but most have to work and deal with millions of practical little things every day. Kyle is lovely and he does so much but they do have lots of perks that most don’t.

[@oanar102]

​@@Sundaylamb3They are lucky that they don't have to go to work?? Are you watching Jenny's journey?

[@megtaylor8499]

I have a friend whose husband had pulmonary fibrosis. They did “the year without regrets”. He passed about six months after that year and the concerts, trips, and excursions they included in their life together over that year keep her going now. Do not regret fun times. Enjoy every second that you can! You are rocking this.

[@WMessina-rb1yu]

What an amazing send off. Happy to hear they had a terrific last year. Praying I can give her some of the best days of her life in the past few months. Filling up the time with some incredible core memories. Thanks for sharing that story . ;)

[@bobsgirl100]

Kyle: I am so appalled that anyone has been sending Jenny or yourself any negativity. It really makes me sad that people are so miserable that they would pick on you guys in any way. Please know so many of us are praying for Jenny, yourself and the children. I pray for you guys on the daily even though I am a stranger to you. Jenny has touched my heart❤

[@Magical_Thinking]

Please block anyone who posts mean comments. Maybe you can assign moderators that can review comments and block them as needed. Love you guys 💜. Thanks for the updates.

[@jg2060]

He stated in the video he took his video down. It seems as if it is all getting on top of him so I don’t understand why they have two channels. It’s a lot of work.

[@Monkchip]

​@@jg2060please, not now with Your comments. You don't need to post. Of all the words regarding this video you could have chosen any other words, but what you chose to post! What's the matter with you??

[@maryjurisons4648]

@@jg2060Jenny posts on the other. This one is more for her husband to post as her caretaker.

[@simplydanlrene4276]

@@jg2060 Because it gives them something besides cancer cancer cancer. If you have never dealt wit it you would not understand. My son was diagnosed with kidney cancer, removed his kidney and under treatment. It takes over the life and so we look for things that don't do that.

[@maryjurisons4648]

I agree, block those who are being inappropriate.

[@barbaraditto6083]

Concentrate on all the love you receive from your family and all of the love we all have for you guys. There are always going to be negative unhappy people willing to share their misery. Pay them no mind, make them insignificant. You're family is precious. Getting to witness genuine love between you and Jenny and the entire family is such a privilege. All of you are in my prayers❤

[@rebeccasciutto2722]

Kyle please remember to take care of yourself as well. You have so much on your shoulders and handling it beautifully. You are a great husband and father and they're fortunate to have you and I can tell they all love you very much.

[@Coppellgirl]

Yes. Kyle take care of yourself.

[@lyndamcleod2242]

My dear, dear young man,you have enough on your plate looking after Jenny and your beautiful children,you don’t need bad minded evil trolls adding inane comments!!! Kyle you are an amazing husband and daddy, everyone on this channel LOVES you and your gorgeous family!!! Please ignore these evil nasty morons,they don’t even have the sense they were born with!!!x x x x x x

[@annparr5059]

Kyle, Jenny picked an amazing man to build a family with! And, Jenny has the most fighting spirit I’ve seen in a loooong time. And your children are weathering this storm very well because of your mature and loving attention to them. I for one old 74 year old woman (we raised 3 sons) am seeing and hearing two well connected and loving people. I pray Jenny wins this scary battle. Sending love from Georgia!

[@julieremick5069]

Kyle, all that matters is Jenny wanted you to do this so she could see it. And you did. What a wonderful wife Jenny is to want to see you happy. She is so special and so selfless with all that she is going through.

[@kateford8649]

Oh my goodness Kyle ❤ - Whoever has made you so upset should be banned from the privilege of being part of your intimate lives. I watched that video and felt SSSOOO happy for you guys and Jenny! That you are still able to have fun, and as a mother I know I would want my family to still be able to have fun despite being ill.

[@user-yn7on7ou8n]

The love you have for Jenny and your family is more than awesome. Every moment is precious. ❤

[@jacquelineshields4485]

I am glad I got to see your video at Disneyland. Please don't let anyone take ANY joy and happiness away from you. I wish you all the love, joy, peace and comfort your family can take. You all need places you can escape to while you are dealing with this heart-wrenching time. Thank you for sharing, we are truly blessed to be able to reach out to encourage and love you all.❤ p.s. you make beautiful babies!!

[@Loveitorleaveit777]

I enjoyed it, too. Thanks for riding so many kid rides! I love to ride the kid rides and just enjoy having a child's perspective.

[@elizabethjones5571]

Ignore the negativity. People are drowning in their own misery. Keep doing what you’re doing!!! Praying for you all!

[@birdsong63]

People are responsible for their own feelings. You don't "make" anyone have negative or hateful reactions; that's their choice. And why they choose to react that way is baffling. This is the down side of social media. Anyone can say any kind of nonsense. I loved the Disneyland videos. Thank you for inviting us into your lives so graciously. Praying for a positive outcome from Jenny's treatments, along with her strength of spirit.💖💕

[@aliceobrien8390]

Wath was said???

[@ValerieGriner]

i can't believe that anyone would post MEAN comments to your family. That is pitiful. I'm so very sorry. Sending love and prayers to you, your 2 beautiful children and your precious pets. You are the best father I've ever seen.

[@stephaniewinokur6383]

The way you talk to each other with such love, gentleness, and respect is so inspiring and rare these days. Love you guys ❤️

[@RissyMH]

Kyle, you don’t owe us or anyone an explanation about Disney. I love that you go to Disney! It’s a blessing for you all to have that little escape! Kyle, you are so cute w the kids singing to them before school and on the way to dance! You and Jenny are so wonderful with each other and with the kiddos!

[@heatherscarlett4459]

I don’t typically comment, however, I’m appalled that anyone would leave mean and critical comments!! Your family is such an encouragement to me and each of you are going through so much. Kyle, you are an amazing husband and father. Please know you are loved.

[@KellyJarreau]

As an old lady, I am TERRIBLY PROUD of you!!! YOU are an AMAZING FATHER AND HUSBAND! 💔❤️ KNOW that you will ALL be okay, even Jenny!

[@brittany9627]

Mean comments?! Who would be so cruel. The community loves you guys and we missed you since your last post

[@gracebecreations]

spinless trolls who hide behind a keyboard because they are too coward themselves ... people who are miserable who need to seek out others and to make themselves feel better.. thats the kind of people they are ... sick isnt it?

[@shirleygold3233]

It's a sad world out there. That's is beyond mean. Someone going threw this it should be all love and prayers. Love your family.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤

[@blucky1250]

We did not need to show up to every fight we are invited to…you are gracious and kind and it’s hurtful that these trolls feel the need to be upset over something that has 0 to do with your hearts and everything to do with their hearts. Holding you all in my heart & prayers . 💙🙏

[@janeshipe4898]

I add my TOTAL SUPPORT to you and Jenny and your family: the hate and mean folks are all around us all and to be prayed for because they are IGNORANT and must be LOST. 99.99% of us just adore ALL of you and admire your love story and HATE only the cancer journey you're on. ALL LOVE to YOU ALL.

[@kimyoung3946]

I’m so sorry you guys have to deal with those kind of people. You both are so kind and thank you for sharing your wonderful family with us. Pay no attention to those mean people they are the ones with the problem not you. Some people to feel good try to bring others down, they will pay for that. God bless you.