Difficult Relationships - Astrology Indications with Astrolada

Do you go from one difficult relationship to another? Do you choose the wrong people? This video will show you if you have a karmic predisposition to such partnerships according to your birth chart and how to deal with them!
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Based in London for over ten years, Lada has an extensive experience providing personal consulting services to some of UK and USA`s trendsetters. Through the quality of her readings she has won over the trust of some of our more demanding clients including contemporary celebrities and corporations.
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[@sannajohanna5579]

Who wants to be young - everything gets better, especially with difficult planet positions, when you get older!

[@annpedersen1166]

I have 2 points, but I am very picky with people, I tend to stay away from people that take my energy.

[@Chetana108]

Omg same i got 2 and im damn picky I stay away from ppl as much as possible

[@brianm3849]

For everyone weeping because they have a few points, try this: I got 11 points. Never had a relationship in my life. There's always someone who's got it worse than you. Remember that.

[@alekhyaale4590]

omg

[@bethbartlett5692]

Brian Middleton This is unique - I encourage you to have a review with Lada and specifically with Lada because she has the true Vedic knowledge/understanding and will go to any extra efforts to gain a perspective of options to help one deal with this positively. Also because she can recognize any potential aspects that cancel the changes or yoga that offset them. You need - positive options, hope and generous good energies. I wish you these ! ⚛

[@stuckinlovewithmissa5290]

Maybe there is a reason why you are single? Astrology doesn't make things happen you know.

[@earhustler2639]

🤗🤗🤗

[@Thumbelllina]

oh dear...and I thought I had it bad... had many short ones ahhaha

[@heidigraceo]

Your Aries bravery with yourself is so beneficial to All :) blessings Lada xo

[@LadaDuncheva]

oh thank u so much! :)

[@abyzma]

7 freaking points. wonderful! :D

[@Barouches1]

Wow, my husband has Saturn in the 7th house, and Venus with Ketu. Through dreams and experiences (and a reading by a world famous psychic) we learned he killed me in a past life by poisoning me with hemlock. It was the idea of two women that wanted to marry him (we were native Americans), but I wouldn't allow it. In this life, those women are his mother and sister. He will stop at nothing to avoid them in this lifetime. Whenever he would visit them I always felt they were scheming to kill me again, and didn't know where that feel was coming from. He is constantly put in situations where women try to tempt him and put my welfare in jeopardy. Like he has to pass a test.

[@paulinestapleton669]

Can you give me the name of the world class psychic i would love to know why i am in my current relationship as well as my family karma .

[@instasupermamka]

Pauline Stapleton you can simply make past life regressions. By yourself or with coach. Its even more interesting then let someone make it

[@Evolvingbeautifully]

If your still alive leave.

[@mizdebi1]

Barouches1 wow what an amazing story! Thanks for sharing it helps me put some things into perspective

[@mizdebi1]

Don X thanks for sharing will do

[@fatimasylvain7881]

Thank you Lada! This provides a lot of understanding!

[@lamphan1991]

I love your videos. Please continue what you are doing. May your life be filled with joy and luck!

[@lola21029]

great video! I'm glad you talk about cognitive therapy: people often think that astrology and psychology are incompatible; while they are both amazing tools to understand ourselves (sorry for my bad English :)

[@LadaDuncheva]

yr English is pretty good! Yes, Carl Jung-one of the most esteemed psychologists was using astrology extensively and based a lot of his psychological theories through astrology.

[@aniyasocute]

I honestly thought I was doomed in love with Venus in the 12th but I made it out of this video alive with only 3 points. I can live with that.

[@paparudaruda656]

Jovee1982 I have venus in 12th house but it’s in pieces so I’m good. 12th house is not bad for venus

[@ranjith47]

Thank you Lada. You are such a mentor. ! I have learnt a lot from you and have much respect for you. Thank you again .

[@surojanipersaud1615]

you learn me so much. thank u ur advice at the end meant so much to me.. am ready now to leave a harmful relationship thank u and heal my self.. I will play ur video over and over and over until it deep in to my head. I will start treat myself better.. .. thank u so much..

[@umrilifenChrist]

Oh never mind, I had to do my chart on your sight! Now I got it! Thank you Lada!!!!

[@eagle2inspired]

Thanks a lot Lada for your very informative video (as usual, they all are) !!

[@LadaDuncheva]

[@vagisil4eva]

Thanks for this video, Lada. I wish you would create an e-course where you teach more of the advanced topics. I would pay to learn from you. I love these free lessons and while they are more basic I still learn a lot. This video was emotional for me and I appreciate you talking about difficult topics of vulnerability. I have learned so much from you so thank you.

[@LineStenfeldtThomsen]

wow, I didn't get any points at all.

[@ankhecorentutan6355]

3pts. You've helped me tremendously. Thanks

[@bastet.lioness]

Thank you so much for this.

[@helenathegreat7090]

Hi Lada! I have to say that you are absalutly a magnetic/beautiful person! I really enjoy your videos and it helped me a lot to understand myself. You are absolutly right, we need to change our "mind patterns" that are no longer working for us and to stop being victims! We need to take responsibility for our lives and change our reality, because everything is possible and the universe is infinite. And I wish you great success/abundance/happiness in your life. :) Im a scorpio asc, with sun in libra, ketu&sun in the 12 house..So I've been in hades..But I'm not giving up ;)

[@LadaDuncheva]

Thank you Lily! Don't worry, there many like us!

[@eimearinez]

im the same only rahu not ketu in 12th ive 5 points but my moon is in the 7th house in taurus so maybe that helps balance it out

[@malcolmxaiver6521]

well now i know why all my relationships suck. 9 points

[@TheJadefox640]

Excellent!!! I learned alot! wish I knew this when I was younger.

[@TheMelanieDanielle]

I have 7 points! Given how horrible I am with flirting/dating/relationships I am not surprised. Thanks for the advice, Lada, I definitely need it! Haha

[@trishghavish8257]

Superb video! Very informative! cheers

[@braindeadvirus5173]

my god ! lada! you look absolutely stunning ! I have said it before ,and will say it again! you are just sooooo beautiful and smart! .......amazing!

[@georgehristov7265]

Страхотно видео Лада. Не случайно винаги се вслушвам в жените когато стане въпрос за личностни отношения. Въпреки че отдавна се занимавам с астрология следя твоя канал с интерес. Тази година Раху навлиза в моя първи дом, а През лятото Юпитер в моя десети дом. Надявам се астрологията да се окаже права, ако е така ме очаква една вълнуваща година. Благодаря ти за страхотната работа която вършиш. Препоръчам те на всички които търсят отговори;) За някои хора които искат да се научат да живеят живота си правилно и да реализират потенциала си е направо безценна!

[@LadaDuncheva]

zdravei Georgi! mnogo mi stava priatno kogato niakoi intelugenten sanarodnik mi pishe! polaskana I trognata sam! Dano jupiter I rahu ti pomognat tazi godina! :)

[@kristyk2924]

This was an amazing tutorial! I have learnt so much! I only have one difficulty and that is the Sun in my 12th house

[@urtekatinaite]

thank you, you work is a joy!

[@mojojer924]

I just love all of your videos!!!!!!👍👍👍💝💗💜💛💚💙

[@LadaDuncheva]

Thank you!! :)

[@edwardduda4222]

So many points lol at least this explains a lot! Thanks Lada!

[@lorazuanic]

Hi Lada, Thank you for all of the wonderful videos! (I'm addicted to watching them and to learning from you!) I noticed that you use a book in this video that you've used in other videos as well. Is it a checklist type of book for astrology indicators? Could you please share the title if it is available? Thank you, Lora 😀

[@laurankalava7502]

Thank you very much Lada for this Video I thing after a engagement ho decided to be married with his ex girl friend before 47 years , after a married with a psychopathy and at the end with a Narcissus with pathetic aggressiveness I will never have any relation and stay with my son in peace .Love from Cyprus Island in Mediterranean Sea . Have a Happy New Year 💕💕💕

[@BurgundyandBlue1111]

Venus and Saturn are both in Gemini (5 degree orb - not a tight conjunction,but still together) in the second house and Moon is in the 12th house (Pisces) of my birth chart. Even though its only 2 points, they seem like two big ones. I settle for soooo much less than I deserve, wait for years and years, and there is often secrecy and/or distance in my most important relationships (they seem to be more spiritual than in the tangible 3D world). I've been doing work (meditation, hypnosis, mantras, consultations with spiritual gurus, writing out my feelings) in an effort to have a more fair and FULFILLING love life. I am ready to have a love that is out of my dreams and in my car/bed/life! So, once again, thank you for the very informative video Lada.

[@anweshaP14]

I just scored 1 and yet things have been so hard. This is informative tho

[@jewelmajestic]

Same for me..

[@iCamzie92]

Same for me too! Maybe because it’s my Vargottama Scorpio Moon ☹️

[@illuminate6574]

This is why I'm a loner and have difficult relationship with other people! 5 points!

[@Heggie_Boo]

I got six points. Many made so much sense for me... buy the second she goes, "if Venus is in Virgo" I about fell off the couch, oh gracious of course I have that, as soon as she explained it. I really am going to look into all of this more cause it has explained so much for me in my life and helped me gain so much knowledge just of myself even...

[@vickycohn9596]

+Heather Holder but still you seem to be happy in love, if I see the picture :)

[@minookalantari]

Thank you 😊

[@ghadahalharbi3915]

Read about astrology to know the week points in your personality or life so that you know how to overcome the obstacles that we all have to face. Please don't say "I am like this because of my chart" that is not an excuse, especially now that you know exactly what the problems are, you can approach them in a more mature manner. Astrology helped me when I was young and lost.

[@elenafissa]

I am a Virgo and I have both my Su and Mo with Ve at Virgo. From what you said in the video I assume that I my relationships are my weakest point. In my life I have difficulty attracting my soulmate. However the happy thing is that the relationships I had up until now were beautiful and healthy ones. But none of them ended up the way I wanted to. None of the me in my love life felt like the soulmate I am expecting. And, at some time during the relationship, I would found out that they were unavailable or to put it in other words, they were not ready for the next step. It was like they wanted something else from what I wanted, although at the beginning they said we wanted the same things. I am puzzled... Am I doing something wrong? And if so, what is it?

[@josephwood1532]

9 Points and literally just went through this. Had a really fast, uncommunicative, klingy (me), experience, and it sucks! I broke it off because I couldn't take MYSELF anymore.

[@bantiprasadnonia6334]

Outstanding outstanding outstanding contribution performance maam.

[@corinnabotoulas2108]

hi Lada- is this part of our relationship course? is the course made up of video teachings like this or does one have to read notes and lessons?

[@1UnifyingAstrology]

Very interesting.. thank you for the help! :)

[@acaciajanssen2410]

I only got 2 points :')

[@accidentsafe]

My mom is a Virgo with a Virgo Saturn and a Virgo Venus. So her Saturn is with both her Sun and Venus. Yikes. Her Sun, Saturn, and Venus are also in her 8th house. She has a Scorpio moon too.

[@lovergworl_]

hope she’s good

[@vidyam1901]

love you lada ..... you are gifted .... celebrate that ... thank you for sharing your insights ..... namaste 🙏🙏🙏

[@magicwandm]

Thank you, lada. :)

[@danisguela5283]

Hi Lada, I absolutely love your videos. They have helped me understand quite a few things in my life. So keep up the good work! What I find interesting is that I don't have any one of those aspects, not a single one of them. However, I am on the opposite end of the spectrum, I just don't have relationships at all! I am turning 40 this year and have only had two serious relationships, one lasting 2 years and the other one, just 1 year, both with foreign men. So may be it would be interesting for you to do a video on us eternally single people!

[@LadaDuncheva]

Rahu or Ketu in 7th house by any chance? usually the 7th house lord can be involved with some planet too

[@danisguela5283]

Lada Duncheva Thank you so much for replying! It's funny you should mention that. When I use the Astrotheme calculator I have Ketu in the 7th house taurus, and venus in leo in my 10th house. But on your site I end up having Ketu in the 8th house in gemini.

[@LadaDuncheva]

Danisguela Hi Danisguela, This is strange, usually the signs position of planets should not change! Ketu changes its sign position once every 1.5 years. I am not sure what is giving a sign difference! It might be some miscalculation in the software...I hope not!

[@danisguela5283]

Lada Duncheva Hi Lada, I'm sorry, you are absolutely right! The sign does not change from one software to another, it is just the house. In Astrotheme, Ketu is in the 7th house in gemini and in your calculator it is in 8th house gemini. Thank you for taking the time to reply!

[@jupiterwaltz9989]

Hi Lada, I can't seem to see the cusp chart on your website, the screen cuts that bit off... It may be because I'm on my iPhone...

[@1stMoinx]

Why in my birth chart the numbers of houses are "moved"? I have numbers 1-6 in upper left corner and 7-12 in down right corner. It seems that only 1 and 7 are in correct places...

[@No.ThatPrettyGirl]

1stMoinx mine is too. Trying to understand all of this is difficult enuf - now I realize my chart is complete OFF ughhhh!

[@dcampos16107]

Lada, I'm afraid it has to do with whether it's western or vedic, but well my 8th lord of my Aquarius house (Saturn) falls in the 10th, but Uranus also shows up in the chart I made through your website and it is in the 7th. What should I rather look for? I also have a very contradicting aspect, Venus and Saturn in Pisces (it falls in the 10th in the same chart). Thank you so much for the great insight on relationships throught charts! :)

[@PipiTheLongStocking]

Hi Lada! Well, lucky me...I have a lot of points here ;) Quick question...Do you only take into account the conjunctions (same square planets) or is this also applicable to aspects (in my case I have Venus Saturn, Venus Mars and Sun Moon oppositions)? Thanks for a very informative video!

[@LadaDuncheva]

Just look at the conjunctions. Saturn or Sun conjunct Venus hurt it. I think I forgot to mention Sun Venus conjunction as one of the problematic positions. But the sun agitates any planet it is with, while saturn starves any planet it conjuncts.

[@hajmola6210]

I feel so great I only have 1 point OMG I can actually believe it and the funny thing is I have already overcame it because I have already re-programmed myself with cognitive therapy and I really didn't need it. I guessed less points because I showed a better understanding of relationships in my youth and I don't fall for jerks either.

[@hajmola6210]

Love life, life is good.

[@sonjaangel4254]

What is MeR? I have this with my Sun and I don't know what it is. Me is Mercury. But what is MeR?

[@LadaDuncheva]

MeR is Mercury retrograde, You have a retro Mercury, which is usually stronger--the mind and rational/analysing abilities of the mind are stronger

[@braindeadvirus5173]

if I had one criticism lada and its not because I could not criticise you lada ,but I do have trouble with the diamond shape chart thing you use ,but for you lada I will persist! yes I will try to understand! thankyou lada!

[@nyishaj123]

2 points: Sun- Libra, Sun & Ke

[@TazHarris]

what if the sun is in the moons house, an angular house.. with saturn. does it get a point for sun with being in moons house.

[@deletedsap-med]

Pls explain dear Lada, why 23 September on your website shows virgo sun sign instead of libra?

[@dr.sheebakapil6483]

hi, i have sun mercury in aries in 7th house, saturn venus in 8th house. my husband has sun venus rahu in 5th house in aquarius, saturn in aries in 7th house. we have been married for 17 years with lot of arguments drama and has addiction to alcohol. does it imply steadiness now or same continues.

[@916bigAl]

I have Saturn Virgo in my first house but close to the second cusp. Does it still count? Can that Saturn vibration still be felt by others?

[@gulzhasmailybayeva6144]

I have got 3 points, Sun with Ketu, Moon with Rahu, Venus in Virgo. Lord of the 7th house Mars sits in 11 with sun, ketu. I used to attract abusive relationship and my partner was putting me down, criticizing and beating me, I had extremely low self confidence and self esteem. Thankfully, all nightmare is over, now I am alone. After learning my horoscope, things are getting a bit clear, I am paying my karmic debts.

[@jentaylor5858]

Great video, Lada. Just watched it again Is there significance if both my husband and I have the lord of the twelth in the eigth?

[@LadaDuncheva]

It is not so connected to relationships...

[@monsebermejo41]

Sun with rahu Moon with Saturn Sun in 12th house Moon in 8th house Venus with Rahu Venus in Virgo

[@drofsouls406]

What about degrees of planets? If Venus in 10th house at 12.6 degree and Saturn in 4rth house also at 12.6 degree both are in opposition?

[@ASCENSIONPIONEERS]

Thank You, Lada ... You're great, I only have one point ;) LOL!

[@AstroMoonGoddess]

Lada, would you say one might also have difficult relationships is Saturn's ruling signs (Capricorn, Aquarius) occupies one of the angular houses? Capricorn and Aquarius occupy my 7th house.

[@LadaDuncheva]

not necessarily, it just means that some maturation is needed in age before better relationships are allowed. Saturn's signs tend to delay things and make them a bit more hard work, but they do not hurt things as painfully as Saturn would

[@AstroMoonGoddess]

Thank you so much. I feel doomed sometimes having this in my chart. You've given me hope!

[@lovergworl_]

I’m confused on Raghu and Ketu what does that mean and how do I find out what mine is? Is it translation for moon and sun?

[@felicehappy]

Hi Lada, thank you for a wonderful video as always! I am just a bit confused as on your site it says my venus is in the 7th house however with 2 other astrology programmes it says 6th... one of which being astro.com which i trust very much. Which is correct or why the discrepancy? My ascendant and everything else seems the same so don't think I have entered my birth data wrong... thanks if you have a moment to explain! Felicity

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi Felice, astro,com and many other astrology websites use the placidus house system which is a recent invention. I use the more ancient one-- whole sign house system, so if your 7th house cusp is in the same sign as Venus, Venus is considered to be affecting it, even if it is before the house cusp. How does Venus in 7th feel for you? There are more than 20 house systems, I have seen this one to work best

[@felicehappy]

I am so grateful for your reply, thank you. Well I am really only a beginner in astrology so it is difficult for me to say. I would be so happy to have venus in 7th house but unfortunately I cannot say I have had a single happy relationship at age 39 so it is difficult for me to believe, and I have in fact spent most of my life single. This would also mean my moon is in 4th rather than the 5th and reading quickly about it, it unfortunately again doesn't apply as my relationship with my mother is extremely difficult, to the point that we have now not spoken in years. Of course, this could all be because of quite a lot of pluto in my chart as well as some difficult aspects like sun square moon and pluto, and moon square venus and conjunct pluto and venus quincunx mars and opposite ascendant. Yes, I think I need a proper astrology reading! In any case, imagining my venus in the 7th has made me feel very happy, after all, you only need one "the one" so perhaps he is coming :-) thank you again for your reply, and your videos, they have been more illuminating so far than countless hours of counselling and such! You are an inspiration xxx

[@felicehappy]

ps: perhaps this will be the birth of my venus :-)

[@felicehappy]

Oh my moon is square rahu and saturn is near the 4 on your chart so I guess that would explain a lot too!

[@corinapopescu7680]

Lada, I'm not sure I understood you. Are you talking about houses or signs? Signs, alright. The system you chose here is Vedic or Western tropical?

[@natasia64]

moon in 0 degree Scorpio with Venus, Uranus in 4th house.....sun sat Jupiter Pluto in 3Rd house of Libra. I guess I have 3pts. relation with siblings, groups and authority figures have been turbulent n stressful. learning to let go of my attachments to past thru forgiving/meditation.

[@luispabis]

Hello lada I wanted to ask you something.. I was born on December 12 so I should be a sagitarious but I have always felt more like a libra, even when I meet someone's who's libra I feel that we're very alike and that doesn't happen with sagitarious ... Is there a way I might be a libra ? Thank you

[@1UnifyingAstrology]

Oh and I have 6 points... Capricorn in my 7th house with Saturn in my 8th and Aquarius in my 8th house. Mars with Venus and Rahu in my 7th house and the sun in the 8th with Saturn.

[@thebaby2436]

Thank you this was excellent. When you say Venus with Rahu, does it need to be in the same sign or the same house? My Venus is in Sag. in the 4th, and my Rahu is in Capricorn in the 4th. My Saturn's in the 10th in Placidus. I've been in am unbalanced relationship for 12 years. I'm finally starting to wake up and realize I'm worth being respected! My Sun is in Libra in the 2nd house. I'm very attracted to older men, also. Maybe that's my Saturn ruling my 5th house.

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi, just look at it if they are in the same sign or if they are in different signs they need to be within 6-7 degree orb from each other

[@thebaby2436]

Lada Duncheva Ok, thanks. NN. is 0 degrees and Venus is 10 degrees. I'm not much of an orb reader I guess.

[@Ruhma.]

I'm confused! I'm an Aqua with a Libra asc...shouldn't my Saturn be in the 6th house and not the 7th??? The chart shows my planets one house forward from where I usually see it when I check my placements...o_O

[@justjess986]

I'm a little confused about one aspect...in the very beginning you mentioned sun with any 1 or more of the following Ra, Ke, Sa, right? But does it relate to any of the above mentioned planets in specific houses only such as 1,4,7,10 or 6,8,12? Or in any house period??? I ask bc somehow someway my 2nd house which had a good chance of being a pretty good looking placement overall got over booked and I ended up with a bit of an overly crowded difficult placement...I'm thinking it gets at least one point maybe 2 but I'm hoping to add no points despite all the differences in the 4guests that got stuck together as I was born ;) and the 4 planets I'm speaking of are....The one and only all mighty Sun, the lovely Venus, mean Mars, karma debt collector Ketu!?!? ;). So how much damage are we talking here in this one house...1 point, 2??? Maybe NONE =). Thanks in advance for your help in clarifying this planet jam!!! Feeling confused and overwhelmed lol

[@LadaDuncheva]

Jessica Grey hello Jessica, they can be together in any house. Su+Ke-1p, Sun+Ve-1pt, Venus+Mars-1p, Venus+Ketu-1pt=4pt

[@jalynluis6394]

I have the sun ,Mars and rahu in the 6th house, Saturnand venus in the 4th house with pieces . What does that mean for my relationship?

[@davewolf6256]

Does the Moon have the same affliction if it is in the house with the sign of Saturn, Rahu or Ketu on the house cusp? Even when the Moon is neither in the same house or sign as Saturn, Rahu or Ketu? I'll provide an example: Third House Cusp: Aquarius (15-degrees) (Mo) III Pisces (1-degree) (Ra) II Aquarius (5-degrees) I ask because your description about lack of self worth is one possible explanation for my behavior in relationships, but if so I am often not conscious of it.

[@miljancomara5648]

I don't get this: I have Venus in my 6th house but it is in my 7th sign from AC And also sun in 6th sign but in 5th house...so to put one point for each or no? 😅

[@luminescent__]

Damn :'( Explains my life so far. I have a lot of those combinations in the houses you mentioned some in Birth chart and the rest in navamsa chart. Thing that broke my heart the most though was 9:13 ... Birth chart I have Scorpio SUN (with saturn) in the 8th house & Scorpio SUN in 6th house in navamsa chart... Whole life has been misfortune, complete hell, and loneliness and I'm just So ready to give up. Astrology helps a little, so thanks.

[@cakeface5120]

I love your videos! You're so good.. So real! I have my Ketu in Libra along with my Venus !? 😳😔🙄😌😂 What does this mean ? Leo sun Aquarius moon. I'm now learning to look after myself. Great video! Thank you xxxxx

[@PritiSharma-gb6dv]

My jupiter and venus in 5th house in cancer and saturn in 11th house. so it means saturn aspects venus . I am a Pisces ascendant. what it means?

[@katisark22]

and when moon and venus and saturn in scorpio together what it shows about person?does it mean a person love ot suffer and search it?

[@LadaDuncheva]

u get 3 points the. this is a bit of a hard combo for mattets of the heart but tends to improve after 30

[@nikitasharma9708]

I have 6th lord Sun in the seventh house with Mars and 7th lord Mercury in the 8th house. I also have Venus and Pluto in scorpio (8th house). I have been in a physically abusive relationship before. I am dating a guy who has moon in the 6th house and also Venus and Pluto in Scorpio (9th house). Our relationship is turbulent yet intense in some non explainable way. Since we both have Venus and Pluto conjunction in Scorpio.. does this mean we have a karmic connection?

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is likely, but what it means for both of you now, that is you have found a partner who can relate to how the other experiences relationships, as you see these from similar prism (Pluto and Scorpio)

[@glitterginger]

I only have 1 point, but my BF has 5. 😬😬😬 He is not the easiest at all to deal with. But I will say we do have many great things as well and feel the opportunity to grow as better people with each other than we have ever before. 3D relationship astrology- work on ME, they work on THEM, work on US. Both birth charts and the synastry needs to be looked at. Dont fret if you have many points, because your partner may be the illumination and transformation partner you have needed to become awakened and reborn!

[@LoveNoodles15]

I have a question. It has more to do with the capacity to find love. Because, I am in college now and I have had any relationship what so ever. None. I am a virgin when it comes to experience in relationships. One thing I have always valued is true love and finding my soulmate. When people ask me what happiness looks like I would say that is finding true love. I am concerned that, because relationships aren't entering my life at all so far, that it will prove to be the same later on in life as well. So, I guess my question is: What is my potential for finding love? (If it helps to know, I do have my sun, mars, venus, and Saturn all in conjunction with each other in the 5th and my rahu in the 1st and ketu in the 7th). p.s. - I have been searching your page for this type of info and haven't found anything yet so I would really appreciate a response. Thanks.

[@debrapairo-hill1810]

do you put in your birth name and go by that? Or the name you have after you marry?

[@harsh3618]

I have saturn conjunct venus in libra in 12th house and rahu in taurus in seventh house (ketu in first house). My mahadasha of venus started in 1997 and since then i have been through lot of emotional problems especially in relationships. I suffered from social anxiety, felt unlovable and rejected in relationship. What I wil say that I learnt a lot of things from venus mahadasha after a lot of struggles. Now I will neter sun mahadasha in 2017 and its in virgo in eleventh house. I hope that hings will improve after that. My moon sign is pisces.

[@wiensam]

Does Venus RETROGRADE with the Sun in 11th House (according to YOUR diagram chart but not according to Placidus charts where it is in the 10th House) count? If so, I have just 1 point. Yet ALL my relationships have been problematic

[@tinakarner5938]

Do trines, sextiles and other softer aspects count?

[@studyyoutube6148]

I have saturn rahu venus mars in sixth house . i'm a leo ascendant.This means really bad luck in relationship??

[@dharinisekar1927]

Hi Lada, what happens if my lover boy has this type of placements and I don't have. will that affect me after the marriage? ofcourse we do have pblms now, but that gets solved then and then. what about after marriage?

[@Ash2theB]

Well I scored 2pts with trauma and I hold on to memories which wasn't a surprised. My friend who is also an Aquarius like me on the other hand has a lot of issues; he went back to his ex (painful) his possible has self-esteem issues, detached, and starved.

[@bethbartlett5692]

Sun - Saturn Combust - same degree 10th Moon - Ketu 1st H Moon 1st cusp 2nd - may have escaped this one - it is opposite Libra/Scorp 7/8 Pisces Asc. .5 points lol My generation's Pluto in 6th. My son has Venus and Mars in 8th - Venus lower degree. Venus conjunct Saturn but in different signs/houses by a hair. My Ke/Ra are 1 - 7 that pretty much makes a statement. But only 3.5 points - but soother influences and aspects involve Narcissist Personality Disorder in family and others relationships. But have figured this out and moved forward.

[@olenazemba6977]

Hi Lada, What if the person's saturn is the lord of 7 and 8 houses, with Venus and mercury sitting in 8 house, moon in 7 house of Capricorn and Saturn is in 5 house of Aries?

[@olenazemba6977]

Sorry, the Saturn is in the 5house of Scorpio, but aspected by Mars in Aries from the 10 house. So how is there any point if Saturn is a lord of 7 and 8 houses, aspecting the 7 house of his own where the moon sits?

[@umrilifenChrist]

It's so informative but also so confusing.

[@Thumbelllina]

Libra Sun, Scoprio Moon... Saturn in the 1st Sun with Rahu...Venus in Virgo... omg keep adding points here. This explains so much my relationships so far :D OMG! Ok now what? :D This has been so informative. Thank you so much, discovered your video yesterday and can't stop learning. Fascinating. I have nothing in the 7th house according to this chart. But what I am confused about is that houses 12, 11 are in the same triangle. Not separate and the 8th looks different on my chart, it's the triangle next to the triangle 8 showed here :) I am a bit confused.

[@ashiabridges3126]

3 points. not bad.

[@yolandafonseca5900]

Thank you Lada I'm looking for the chart I went to your website and I don't see where it is which please get back to me thank you

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi you need to fill in the details first and then you will see your chart

[@ekraisinghani1351]

Hi Lada.. i have been pretty impressed with your videos & knowledge on astrology .. i have a request.. why don't you make a video on Marriage & Divorces. Why do many people have 2-3 Marriages ?

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi this is a good idea! Divorce will be due to many of the same factors as in this video but multiple marriages - that is an intetesting topic! Rahu in 7th does this. Or venus in virgo, leo or cancer in d7 or d9 charts for men. or jupiter in taurus libra, virgo, gemini or capricorn in d9 or d7 for women. Also having a mutable sign on the cusp of 7th can give it. Or lord of 7th in 5th or lord of 5th in 7th (someone who falls too much in love)

[@marijolla1969]

I have got 4 points Venus in Virgo , Ketu with Venus, Sun in the same sign as a Moon, Sun is in Libra , didnt get a part Venus and Ketu? what does it mean? thank you Lada Looking great as always

[@himanshuthakur1727]

How z ur love life